splendidolchap Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	How do you know if you’re too picky? I don't think you're too picky at all. And honestly, you're better off having high standards that may go un-met than settling for some slob who could ruin your life. I wish I had been as mature and selective at your age, as it would have saved me thousands of dollars and uncountable hours of stress. Keep doing what you're doing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 03:24 AM
13	I have yet to meet a man who is as interesting as he pretends to be. Where are the men who read and can keep up with me intellectually? They are so thoughtless and forgetful, too. It's impossible for them to hold a conversation. You're always like, "remember that time..." and they get this glassy look and go, "uhhh no I don't remember" and it's literally everything from where your best friend's house is to the fact that their second cousin has a gluten allergy. For men, a conversation is about what they are into or what they like about themselves, but the second you start talking passionately about something you're "so cute" for…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/20 05:01 AM
35	It's okay to not want to "try new things" in bed. Ladies, get you a relationship where "trying new things" means joyously exploring your and your partner's sexuality together! This should be driven by curiosity and passion, never pressure. Being sexually open and explorative is great for your personal health and your LTR. --Quick aside, this advice is for committed LTRs and/or marriages. Be extremely judicious with sexual exploration in any relationship without commitments. As always, you should never do anything sexual unless you are comfortab…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/20 05:10 PM
1	Woman engaged to “gamer” does all the household chores and works full time but her fiancé can’t be bothered to come down for dinner she prepared because he’s playing Fortnite. The worst advice subreddit on this entire website blames her. That's fair. My husband has an old game system and plays once in a while, but it's not his primary reason for existing and he never plays when we have things going on. That said, anytime I meet someone who self-describes as a Gamer or includes video games in their hobbies, I don't waste time trying to have a relationship with that person. "Gamers" have something wrong with them, they don't know how to read people or tune into human situations as well as people who haven't deadened their brains b…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/20 04:41 PM
0	Friendships Between Men And Women I have had this one male friend for almost a decade now. He isn't my type, I'm not his, and more importantly, he's been on/off with my sister. I've been in a committed relationship as long as I have known my man friend. It is absolutely possible to have male friends, but in my experience it only works when there is absolutely no sexual attraction either way. My male friend is certainly not my best friend—he's a lvm with high hopes, but too stoned and shortsighted to do much with himself—but we c…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/20 04:32 PM
76	Woman engaged to “gamer” does all the household chores and works full time but her fiancé can’t be bothered to come down for dinner she prepared because he’s playing Fortnite. The worst advice subreddit on this entire website blames her. NEVER DATE A GAMER.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/20 04:23 PM
26	I think reddit may be affecting my mental health Sure, "not all men," but you can never know for sure until you've known a given man a loooong time. So we should treat all men as potentially dangerous until they've proven to us they are not, and even then, take everything a man says with a grain of salt. Misogyny is embedded deeply in most men via culture and their own parents/father/religion. Even the "nice ones" sometimes believe horrible things about women's, they're just better about combing their hair and using please-words. I'm not advis…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/20 04:04 PM
2	Starting to notice and point out LVM behavior in my long term boyfriend You're on the right track, sister. #kickhimout2020	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/19 03:07 AM