spletharg Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	What are the causes and consequences of the growing number of men who are not participating in society? I’m not a woman, so I’m automatically labelled as privileged, rapey, pedophilic, violent, offensive, angry, smelly, hairy, toxic, dangerous, intimidating, oppressive, tetosterone-poisoned, opportunistic, predatory, immature, creepy. Staying safely inside my own bubble, I can disengage and forget about what society thinks about me being male and maybe pretend that in some other world I might be some sort of acceptable human being.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 02:34 AM
2	Doesn't the low participation of women on online dating apps actually prove that women care about personality more than they care about looks? Hmm. Good point. I actually hadn't considered that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/20 03:45 AM
3	How feminist shaming tactics needlessly cause lasting sexual repression or guilt in a subset of men most sympathetic to feminist concerns. I'm a guy. I think the OP glosses over the real reason when he says "So if we don't want to be alone. we have to approach and initiate". The real reason is competition. He is worried some other guy will succeed if he fails to act. Guys are, and will continue to be their own worst enemy. If all men went MGTOW, things would change. We are all just victims of our own social isolation, inability to care for each other, and our sexuality. Deal with all that first and the other problems will disappear…	/r/MensRights	29/11/20 10:28 PM
3	"husbands could be jailed for 14 years for withdrawing money from a joint bank account and driving the family car without permission" Is there a petition anywhere?	/r/MensRights	25/10/20 02:07 PM
1	This was the U.K. governments response to the petition to make it so women could be charged with rape against males and they lied through all of it! (This is a right there not letting us have, there not letting us in the U.K. be able to get our women rapists CHARGED WITH RApe) Why only 24,000 signatures in 6 months?	/r/MensRights	25/10/20 01:01 PM
1	Alice Coffin, french feminist assumes her misandry and considers that "it's not enough to help each other, we need to eliminate them (men)". Just another crazy person getting a platform because controversy sells.	/r/MensRights	04/10/20 10:34 PM
5	Being a male fucking sucks I've given other men compliments without a problem. Sharp looking suit, -that new? I see you've had a haircut! That tie looks like you thought about it. Not hard.	/r/MensRights	19/09/20 10:56 AM
0	18m. I wish I was born female. Re all those quitting fapping... You may damage your health. https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.webmd.com/prostate-cancer/news/20090127/masturbation-and-prostate-cancer-risk&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwjuuaDb39jqAhWNyjgGHawrBQQQFnoECAkQAg&usg=AOvVaw2j1YcEjyf_pmhbvhdO-JtC	/r/MensRights	19/07/20 07:07 AM
5	On an askmen thread about why men don’t show emotion. Really glad to see people talk about it and have it received well. Link to original thread?	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 01:09 PM
10	Would everyone be much happier if female sexuality was rewired to act like male sexuality? I thought about this a lot over the decades. Male in my 60s. Things are the way they are because they work. I don't think that guys would be happy in the long run if women were more like guys. Careful what you wish for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/20 11:34 PM
2	This is how much a male infant's foreskin gets sold for. Circumcision is bad, but these guys seem to be selling batches of cultured cells from a single origin, not bulk harvested forskins from babies.	/r/MensRights	15/05/20 03:55 AM
16	CMV: Most men believe the myth that "women care less about sex" because most men arent desired by women. The male sex drive is needed because without it reproduction just would not occur. Getting women aroused is difficult, takes time experience and commitment. It's messy, tiring, risky, costly. An alien would wonder why anyone would bother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 09:54 PM
1	If I get pregnant while you’re gone it’s your responsibility 🥴 True enough.	/r/MensRights	22/04/20 01:22 PM
1	If I get pregnant while you’re gone it’s your responsibility 🥴 Just don't reproduce, guys.	/r/MensRights	22/04/20 09:59 AM
2	Sad but true. Society doesn't REALLY want men to be "vulnerable." Actually I think cartoons like this don't help men. I'm a guy myself, and I've had success at changing women's behavior by being calmly assertive about my feelings and not giving in. Find your inner compass, respect yourself, and follow that compass. Don't bottle it up, but equally, don't flood everybody with all your issues at once. It will take a while for the women around you to understand the message and adapt to guys that break the mold.	/r/MensRights	19/04/20 11:31 AM
1	It is generally accepted as common knowledge, and backed by research and statistics, that men are more likely to have sexually deviant fetishes that are widely seen as morally upsetting or disgusting. Why is this? Is it nature, nurture, porn, or something else? I think you need to publish a comprehensive list of your sources and references. You've made a large number of unqualified assertions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/20 11:24 AM
1	Why are most guys overweight if they're already struggling with women. Do they simply not realize the benefits or is it due to popular "wisdom" that looks don't matter? A number of women I knew back in the 80s when I was single were very clear on one point. It was women's job to be good looking. Any guy that tried to keep fit was gay or wasn't a real man. Men's bodies weren't naturally attractive, only women had beautiful bodies and it was weird for a guy to focus on his body. This was the popular opinion of most women I met back when I was single. I guess things have changed now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/20 11:41 AM
1	Q4W: Why don't older women find younger men attractive? I beg to differ. https://equalitycanada.com/why-are-so-many-women-raping-boys-research-into-female-perpetrated-sexual-violence	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/20 11:05 AM
2	Why is it that men don't fight for themselves? Men need to assert their victimhood and be unceasingly vocal about it. The message will get across if we keep saying it. Men should also learn to be publicly accepting of their own vulnerabilities and never apologise for them. Men need to find ways to claim the moral high ground and stop seeing themselves as being only worth their utility.	/r/MensRights	31/03/20 10:23 AM
1	Do guys who say "women lied about experiencing physical attraction" ever actually pay attention to women's cultural output? Pretty much every woman I have discussed this with in my 60 years or so of living has confirmed that they find nothing attractive about the male body, and that no woman they know finds the male body attractive. In fact, the majority of women I have discussed this with over the course of my life have said that they find the male body repulsive and ugly and that only the female body is beautiful. There also seems to be plenty of literature reinforcing this opinion. Your examples of popular songs a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/20 10:16 PM
4	But when a guy wears pants that point to his dick he’s cuffed and called a pervert. Got a link to the story of the guy who got cuffed?	/r/PussyPass	01/03/20 10:22 AM
2	Men: can you explain why women liking “Chad” is such a shock? Smart guys and girls know to avoid the most attractive people anyway since their lives tend to be in the centre of a drama tornado from everyone trying to fuck them/ get favours from them/ orbit them/ protect them/ wanting to be them/ wanting to destroy them/ jealous of them and so on. If you're a guy, just find ways to have fun, try to be fit, try to dress well, don't get obsessed over trying to get with a woman, but still find social things to do where women will be and the odds are high you'l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 09:57 PM
12	Men: can you explain why women liking “Chad” is such a shock? And don't forget guys, if you become a dad one day, and if you have a daughter, ironically, you'll probably tell her she deserves the best, and to not settle when she starts dating, because you want her (and her kids) to have the best life. And you'll probably judge the guys she dates by the same standards you currently resent. Just sayin. Probably. I'm a guy BTW, if that affects your opinions. And she'll probably make her own interpretation of your concerns and instructions as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 09:31 PM
1	I got accused of predatory behavior for asking for how to properly receive consent. You need to understand what her most deeply held values are and if they fit with yours then you should be able to trust her. You could devise some subtle ethics/ values tests and slip them into your interactions/ set up situations to observe how she reacts.	/r/MensRights	20/02/20 01:55 PM
1	Why can’t women just genuinely enjoy sex? Why must there always be a deeper reason according to this sub? Guys should be careful what they wish for. Do we really want all women to mirror stereotypical guy's sex drives?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 01:13 PM
28	Woman Steals £1.2 Million Over 16 Years - No Jail Time - Pass Granted Entitled much?	/r/PussyPass	17/02/20 09:45 PM
2	Would you be ok with a woman sleeping with you because she has to? Yep, If you AGREE to be punched in the face, then you CONSENT to be punched in the face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/20 04:51 AM
0	Would you be ok with a woman sleeping with you because she has to? Sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/20 04:45 AM
1	Unattractive men have absolutely no idea what the life of an attractive man is like If you're a super attractive guy or girl, it means you live in the centre of a drama tornado, with everyone around you lying to you, or lying about you. There's jealousy, envy, competition, manipulation, violence, intimidation, coercion - and you would have to learn to live with that, not knowing who can be trusted. Swings and roundabouts, grass is greener sort of thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 09:26 PM
4	Q4W Do women tend to value stealing men from each other? In my younger days, some women I knew were willing to pretend to be my girlfriend to increase my attractiveness to other women at parties. The trick was to never confirm it, but to be honest and say "she's just a friend". I think it worked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/20 09:48 AM
1	r/MGTOW just got removed. Is Reddit's Moderators biased towards blue-pilled ideas? There's plenty of feminists saying the same thing about men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/20 10:41 PM
1	The feminist theories of women's "unpaid labor" and "emotional labor" don't match the real world. I also posted this comment elsewhere. Since becoming retired, I am a house husband. -I do all the cleaning, cooking and household chores. I'm a guy, I'm married and i have no difficulty managing this. Even my mother in law comments on how ship-shape the house is maintained. I also do the lawn, home improvements, painting, electrical repairs, computer and networking setup and troubleshooting, car maintenance, find bargains online, send out Christmas cards, maintain our network of friends, and gen…	/r/MensRights	27/01/20 07:24 AM
1	Why do there seem to be so many female teacher/male student sex scandals in the US? Well, it couldn't have been due to hypergamy, at least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/20 07:51 PM
2	You were saying' about that wage gap Women of other genders?	/r/MensRights	15/11/19 02:20 AM
2	This is the most popular post ever made on r/feminism. The ten thousand people who upvoted this before it was locked share the belief that every agenda and belief you may have that isn't theirs is wrong. I'm pasting this quote again in case anybody missed it: Any thoughts on that Thrones feminism debate? I don’t think I’ve seen you asked about that before… I got asked in one of my first interviews: “Is Arya a feminist?” I didn’t even know what a feminist was. You were like 12! And then someone explained it to me. And I remember thinking, “Isn’t that just like everyone?” And then I realized everyone is not a feminist, unfortunately. But I also feel like we should stop calling feminists “feminists…	/r/MensRights	26/09/19 09:44 PM
3	Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up? I'm a guy and I agree with the OP. If you're a guy, you have no right to complain about a woman getting pregnant if you had intercourse with her. Even if married. And there are alternatives to intercourse. Of course this would only apply to couples who didn't want progeny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/19 10:25 AM
0	Crazy feminazi hates on women for being feminine and liking men I'm a guy and I have to say, in many ways, I agree with her (maybe not on everything though). The reason many women get reduced penalties in law and in benefit in other areas is because they are regarded as children. Makeup can be a tool of deception that guys don't have access to. No makeup for wonen would help level the playing field.	/r/MensRights	30/07/19 08:19 PM
2	Q4M: Do you not enjoy being sexy for it's own sake? Just curious, what does the OP consider to be typical "things that make you feel sexy" for guys?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/19 09:15 AM
0	For those who believe women have an easier time dating, what are the factors of this? There are women who are like guys. But guys tend to have no respect for them. And guys then wonder why women don't respect them when they're thirsty. Plus women are raised by their parents to not give it away. And they're judged by their peers if they're not choosy. So irrespective of biology, there's a lot of pressure, influence, and behavioral rewards right there. It's a dynamic. As guys, if you want women to be different, you would need to raise your daughters differently, and not judge them …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/19 10:47 PM
3	It is now males, rather than females, who suffer the vast majority of institutional discrimination narry Actually the correct word is nary. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/nary	/r/MensRights	15/10/18 01:59 AM
1	CMV: If "freezing up" is real, women shouldn't be able to legally consent unless a psychologist will certify that she won't freeze up and lose the ability to say "no" when appropriate. On the other end of the spectrum I've had women walk out during sex because I was too concerned or checked too often that they were ok. Go figure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/17 08:27 PM