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That’s like one of the few valid points in OP. Unless you’re straight up ugly then they don’t care
/r/seduction03/03/26 09:22 PM
15

Costanza shit
/r/seduction03/03/26 09:21 PM
6

Bro going over to entertain a woman who had a baby with someone else and thinks its a win lmao
/r/seduction11/02/26 08:14 PM
3

This lmao
/r/seduction11/02/26 08:14 PM
1

I mean yeah I can’t really commit without that so…
/r/seduction11/02/26 02:27 PM
1

Shut up lmao
/r/seduction27/01/26 07:58 PM
0

Avoid, she’s nuts lol. She can “feel pressured” and de-escalate like an adult.
/r/seduction27/01/26 07:57 PM
3

Shut up lmao. Americans are not pro-law enforcement cucks, at least they weren’t originally.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/26 02:51 PM
22

Women who make “misfortune is natural selection” arguments are…really setting themselves up to be dunked on
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/25 03:51 PM
6

Oh this would have me fucked up lmao
/r/seduction19/12/25 07:52 PM
24

Women being more friendly than a friend would generally be. I mean like heaping praise on you and wanting to be alone with you often. Saying they thought of you when something came up at work. It’s simple and subtle but I’ve realized this was the green light I’ve often missed. Such is life
/r/seduction19/12/25 07:52 PM
38

Brooooooo
/r/seduction19/12/25 07:50 PM
14

But women can be wrong or misinformed. I JUST had to tell my soon-to-be girlfriend that you NEED to have a spare tire
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 06:06 PM
3

If this happened in America the 19th would be repealed in 8 years or less.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 02:08 PM
2

Black and white thinking tbh. The dudes my lady friends like the most are “funny guys that can get after what they want” and that seems to be what my current love interest likes about me. Shrug
/r/seduction10/12/25 12:15 AM
30

They make plenty of those girls in the suburbs bro
/r/seduction01/12/25 04:39 AM
0

Why would you want to???
/r/seduction01/12/25 04:39 AM
1

No
/r/seduction30/11/25 03:49 PM
0

I didn’t though.
/r/seduction27/11/25 04:44 AM
1

Don’t ask. Don’t even look back lol
/r/seduction27/11/25 04:29 AM
1

That’s implying a lot lol
/r/seduction24/11/25 11:33 AM
2

Grass is always greener.
/r/seduction19/11/25 11:37 AM
7

I certainly wouldn’t
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/25 07:31 PM
1

What are they.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/25 07:26 AM
1

Ask your fellow feminists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/25 12:10 AM
1

There aren’t “plenty”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/25 11:49 PM
20

One, Alan Turing. Two, I would never trust the government to determine who is a sex offender, much less the British government.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/25 06:13 PM
2

Did you make a custom meme just for me? Lmao clown
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:12 PM
1

Guy sucks
/r/seduction12/10/25 12:30 PM
1

“Town I am in” This sounds like a large city though
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/25 01:15 PM
4

It’s true for some. “Low-hanging fruit” theory is valid for women who are kinda attractive but easily bested.
/r/seduction25/09/25 08:47 PM
5

That’s largely because women consume more mainstream media. Subsequently it’s also why men are less likely to engage mainstream news.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/25 05:14 PM
12

That’s the problem, contemporary feminism posits ordinary men as the cause of all of women’s problems, and most if not all men as the cause as well. We know most men don’t rape, we know that women make more money than men. It’s not my fault a woman hasn’t been elected president or that some rich boy at your job doesn’t have to work to get ahead. Parse the problem and blame the right people. A lot of feminists blame “the patriarchy” when they need to blame the moneyed elite.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/25 05:13 PM
3

That’s why third wave and beyond is dead.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/25 05:10 PM
6

“Manosphere” is just “dudes saying things women don’t like or believe they shouldn’t like” at this point. Dudes could say something that women actually want, like “take care of your body, mind your appearance and focus on your finances, not women” — and women would seethe or cast it aside as redpill shit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/25 05:09 PM
6

We don’t live in a patriarchy, that’s the pathway to being abused by rhetoric.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/25 03:09 AM
1

OF detected
/r/seduction31/08/25 06:55 PM
1

By granting that "men recognize this behavior in themselves and other men" you have proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:43 PM
1

"men rights advocacy is not it" why not, specifically? maybe the current group is a bit crass but in the broadest terms why would that be bad?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/25 04:31 PM
1

It wouldn’t change what they are lol. It’s a nonsensical statement. I don’t consider tomatoes fruit. And yet they are
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:04 PM
5

Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:16 AM
5

Sorry but it’s 2025, we’re not gonna let you imply you have zero agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:08 AM
2

Sure, there are widowers and stuff. Also, I don’t normally think about single dads because I don’t date men, but I would say the same if their wife abandoned them and they were attractive enough to have other options. Women are allowed to pass judgments on single dads, they just never do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:39 PM
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Well, as a guy I can tell you it's not common generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:43 PM
1

So are many others. We adhere to what brings us understanding or a better life. I get that much about red pill at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:14 PM
1

Sure, but they were believed and adhered to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:02 PM
1

No, but it might be appealing to others. That's up for the marketplace of ideas to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:56 PM
3

Nobody is talking about "equal access" we are talking about your preference to uphold gender roles. "Women are still allowed to want a man who treats her like a woman" is the exact point. You prefer this gender role/expectation. That's all you needed to say. And that's recognized. You have the ability to take on the role as a pursuer, but you would rather not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:53 PM
2

"Rational" is subjective but people who rob and murder place a higher value on the reward executing these crimes vs. the potential risk. It might be completely rational to murder someone who raped you to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:49 PM
1

I don't think it's hypocritical to not judge women for "sleeping around" but prefer a woman who didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:48 PM
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"i don't consider" has no bearing on any argument, it's fluff
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:46 PM
3

This is valid, but if women didn't sleep with men they deem assholes, who would then engage in that behavior? Both sides create incentive structures for the others to navigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:38 PM
1

We do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:37 PM
3

This. It's like when you see a woman who has been made into a single mom. You have probably had quality men approach you, how much can I pity you knowing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:37 PM
3

Not all men shame sex for women. You can be laissez-faire about sex and still prefer women who don't sleep around. Beliefs != preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:36 PM
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Define "stoop so low" just to sleep with a woman. I mean, if we're talking about being an asshole, then that would affirm the idea that women sleep with assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:36 PM
3

You just kind of proved my point though. Women do not want to do something they could do the same as men, because it is more convenient or affirming not to do so, especially with the expectation that you'll have many chances. It has nothing to do with "dying on a hill", especially not for me because I approach the women I like. I just understand it's convenient to not be the one to deal with rejection. "Then some other man will" is exactly the point lmfao. You think men wouldn't want to be pursu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:27 PM
3

In my experience, observation and conversations, they feel mostly fine with it, unless it's a guy who they are semi-interested in and they're currently in a relationship with someone else, or it's a male friend who is going to distance themselves from them, temporarily or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:46 PM
3

Because you're saying you'd like to not be equals in something that contributes to your own desires
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:41 PM
2

do that, and have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:34 PM
2

This is due to a few reasons, but in my circle of friends it's not really the case. And ironically, whether this is true or not, it would make me and many other men less committal. In this example, I guess the McLaren will never have a lasting owner. Well, there's plenty of other fun rides to enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:33 PM
2

Well yeah, it would be ideal to have less than more, assuming she's still a freak and actually committal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:25 PM
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Yes, which is why I support abortion. I also support being able to opt out of parental responsibilities, and I don't support mandatory sterilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:11 PM
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Well, I'm somewhat fond of them, but they're inanimate objects, all of which I would dump if I could afford a McLaren. To be courteous, I don't mind "playing along" with analogies I'm just stating my viewpoint. In theory it would be awesome to go the distance with a woman who has "never been touched" but that becomes unrealistic with women I'm actually compatible with at this age, sexually and otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:10 PM
1

No, I would respect a woman for being able to go against the grain and go after what she wants. Also I think I'm pretty cool. It's all good signs to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:01 PM
0

well yes, because they know how to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:00 PM
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Yes, this is true. Men and women just feel the opposite about it at a certain level. Tell a woman you've bedded 20 women in 20 years of sexual activity, she'll almost certainly be cool with it. Tell them you've bedded 0 or 100 and it's a problem most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:58 PM
2

A car is not a deep emotional attachment, I might have 10 cars in my lifetime and I expect to cycle through them at some point. I only want one wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:57 PM
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he doesn't care as long as he has sex with a woman who is fun and willing to get a bit freaky
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:56 PM
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Only a shit parent would imply this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:52 PM
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"Men who want to be SAHDs for the right reasons should look for women who are more ambitious and career-motivated than they are" Now how many women are attracted to men less ambitious and career-motivated than them, if they make enough to support a family on their income alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:50 PM
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Circumstance does not equal preference. If I end up as a SAHD without a remote job, it's because I didn't get my preference but me and my partner navigated the circumstances to something we could both live with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:49 PM
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You don't have kids without attracting a woman who likes you enough to commit to you. From your words, men should focus more on being a SAHD than being attractive to women. Simply not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:48 PM
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The few women I know who have this arrangement, it's a combination of them out-earning their partner, very much liking their career and then making the autonomous choice to be the breadwinner. They would not feel this way if their partner was the higher earner or they felt less than ecstatic about their work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:47 PM
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I can't have kids without playing ball with women. Most guys aren't going to find a woman who wants to work outside the home while they stay home. If you want to see that, that requires a lot of change in behavior and demands from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:46 PM
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Most women don't want SAHDs in the traditional homemaker sense, I have this debate with my (high-earning) female friend all the time. If it was that easy I'd have been married for a decade. I however, DO value spending time with my kids, so I oriented my life to be near 100% working remote by the time I choose to have them. That might not be the SAHD that others are thinking of, but it's what I'm vying for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:45 PM
2

dressing well != acting high maintenance and feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:44 PM
0

>Women can use clothing to sexualise themselves, men can’t, even if they could women aren’t interested in that Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:43 PM
5

Those men are dorks. Dressing up for a special occasion used to be commonplace for all. Taking pride in your appearance is what normal adults do. I don't walk into work with a huge stain on my shirt and say "well that's me"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:42 PM
1

Why does the justification matter exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:33 PM
1

Life is what keeps women from thinking this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:32 PM
2

The thing about ideologies is, they either express a core explicit truth or perceptions that other people have via lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:31 PM
1

That's insane, will never happen and only men could enforce this, which they won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:28 PM
1

Only like 40% of men end up being fathers. That says something about who is being selected to be fathers tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:26 PM
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Wow lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:44 PM
1

If this was true incel spaces would look wholly different
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:38 PM
2

Got what exactly?
/r/seduction12/08/25 08:28 PM
6

You also have SO much room to change/improve your life, habits, perspective, location...I know dudes who are living a second life in their 30s or 40s.
/r/seduction12/08/25 08:28 PM
11

Awful mentality lol
/r/seduction12/08/25 07:06 PM
5

You know ball
/r/seduction12/08/25 06:48 PM
6

I wouldn’t sweat it that much. Same thing happened to me with this super flirty girl at a job I got fired from. Never hit me up. Not the end of the world unless it’s a hard pattern, maybe I was just office bait to her Sweating this stuff turns every interaction into an obligation on your end
/r/seduction12/08/25 06:08 PM
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You’re at the age where a lot of shit changes. All I can say is, present in a way that’s confident about who you are and what you want/are interested in but be willing to leave it. Maybe try to elevate different aspects of yourself. Flirt in a way that’s not needy. Confident people don’t generally think less of those who have interest in them. Do you think you’re targeting low-end women?
/r/seduction12/08/25 06:01 PM
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Change your style/self-expression up. Imma be real, I rarely find these women who are so bent out of shape they treat any sort of desire to be with or fuck them as this relinquishing of power. At worst they don’t like my vibe. At best they like my directness and intent. I’m fairly flirty, I show interest without acting like I need them, because I don’t. Age matters too. How old are you OP?
/r/seduction12/08/25 05:57 PM
3

Only if she already has considered fucking you
/r/seduction09/08/25 11:15 AM
3

She has a BF and considered cheating but didn’t. Only thing you did wrong was stay after the BF was mentioned. Such is life you’ll get em next time
/r/seduction07/08/25 07:34 PM
3

This lol.
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:36 PM
8

3 at the most, and this is if a woman takes it “slow”. Sorry, the best relationships in my life usually get it on pretty fast 🤷🏿‍♂️ and if I know you’ve hooked up in the past I’m probably good. Not looking to “heavily invest” before we figure out we’re on different pages
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:35 PM
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Reserve your kindness for those who deserve it, and if people take advantage of it, withdraw it and learn from that. EDIT: on a base level, strangers and people you cherish deserve it. Find a balance.
/r/seduction04/08/25 10:46 PM
10

It is, but it’ll be a net negative for you both most likely.
/r/seduction30/07/25 11:17 PM
3

You know ball
/r/seduction29/07/25 07:39 PM
1

Yeah I wish social media worked that way tbh
/r/BlackPillScience28/07/25 08:30 PM
1

“More successful” than who? Success is not defined by political beliefs. Charisma is found across the political spectrum. Women like (attractive) guys who can be confident in themselves to the fullest for starters, and guys who have beliefs that mesh with what they want in life. If we assumed that leftist men are less successful at dating, incel spaces wouldn’t lean right, they would lean left. At best this is a narrative started by terminally online people.
/r/seduction28/07/25 08:26 PM
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What do you think “leftist” is precisely
/r/seduction28/07/25 08:18 PM
4

I don’t even think she was saying that tbh. Women looking for dick aren’t assessing your personality or beliefs to the bone
/r/seduction28/07/25 08:17 PM
1

“Extremist” lol
/r/seduction28/07/25 08:16 PM
5

Just go outside man.
/r/seduction28/07/25 08:16 PM
3

You’ve never been to a punk show in your life
/r/seduction28/07/25 08:13 PM
1

I unironically know two Asian dudes (Chinese-American) who went on a tour of Asia strictly to sightsee (not together) and came back full “passport bro” Neither were bad looking they just went from being less of a factor to being a major one
/r/BlackPillScience28/07/25 07:59 PM
5

I don’t think most men have a problem with this. They have a problem with narratives that say they’re incels for acknowledging this.
/r/BlackPillScience28/07/25 07:58 PM
4

Indian women would like a word
/r/BlackPillScience28/07/25 07:55 PM
1

“White knighting” would be a valid assertion if you bagged this chick with your frame of mind. Nothing wrong with your actions, the takeaway is faulty though.
/r/seduction27/07/25 06:54 AM
2

As an em dash user, I hate ChatGPT text slop so much
/r/seduction27/07/25 06:51 AM
1

Yeah, which is why you unfollow once it goes nowhere. There’s plenty of reasons not to give out a number. It’s not like nobody has ever done XYZ with a woman from an Instagram DM. By OPs own words he didn’t demonstrate much of anything. Reroll
/r/seduction27/07/25 06:50 AM
1

They can also tell the truth about it. You think women don’t see other guys they’re into physically while in a relationship? Her attitude kinda sucked but she really might’ve just been enjoying the view.
/r/seduction27/07/25 06:45 AM
1

She didn’t “beckon him over”
/r/seduction27/07/25 06:44 AM
2

You’re replying to so many comments man, you are not too busy to type a few paragraphs.
/r/seduction27/07/25 06:42 AM
1

No but I try to do it in moderation and not exclusively use it. If you beat off to porn every time you are horny, you’re not bringing your best in many areas of life. If you beat off sparingly, you’re not damaging yourself and some doctors would say you’re lowering your risk of prostate cancer or whatever. I have no qualms with people who wholly abstain, but the body and mind are quite pliant. If you notice it’s harming you or killing your drive for life or to engage women, simply stop or judici…
/r/seduction27/07/25 03:47 AM
1

You know there are vaccinated people who have had multiple kids since, right?
/r/seduction27/07/25 01:44 AM
1

You can just…choose to not be friends with women who you don’t have an interest in being friends with. Most of them expect that anyway.
/r/seduction27/07/25 01:43 AM
2

Genuine q, do you not have expectations for women you deal with? I’m creating a playing field where we both get something out of if, hopefully. My “understanding” is in hopes that you are enjoyable to be around. I’ve hooked up with women and made it clear I wasn’t going to date them because I wouldn’t be getting anything out of it, because they were missing certain things.
/r/seduction27/07/25 01:40 AM
0

Everyone is self-interested, you should watch out for the people who act as if they don’t have an inkling of self-interest in them because they are the most self-interested. Yes, men want to have sex and relationships with women. They can do it with lies and manipulation, or try to understand women and interact with them in ways the women enjoy and appreciate.
/r/seduction27/07/25 01:05 AM
2

I carry, so I’d just send him to Jesus if he jumped stupid. But this type of shit is not worth it if this is just a girl with no commitment to you. If she’s cool with that, you’re so much better off without her you have no idea.
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:52 PM
2

I might try this, just gotta get over the hump of mentioning a happy ending in person and not feeling like a fed lol
/r/seduction19/05/25 07:03 PM
2

Real question is how to do this safely lol
/r/seduction19/05/25 04:49 PM
2

I don't have a problem with a woman who is a "badass" or does typically male-coded things like ride motorcycles. I just don't want to deal with someone I'm going to butt heads with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:52 AM
1

I don't have "safe options" and neither do most men. What you're talking about is a change in preference as some men shift from dating for pleasure to looking for a partner. ​ I also don't want safe options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:59 PM
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Society expects white people not to say racist shit even when there are no black people around to hear As a black person I don't and can't expect this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:52 PM
1

nobody said high n-count women don't get married lol. whether they are a good pick is another debate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:02 AM
1

and recency bias is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:01 AM
2

honestly it's pretty easy to tell when a woman has been around. there's some moves you only learn the dozenth time around, and I'm not just talking in the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:00 AM
2

There is another preference that can't be mentioned here. cmon
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:58 AM
5

seeing women as "tainted" for having sex is wrong. seeing women as not viable partners for you for having sex is another debate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:57 AM
2

No, I think a lot of men: want someone closer to their lived experiences, and apply a fair bit of pragmatism to partnering up, so outright if you ask most men they're going to prefer the woman who has slept with 5 men over the same woman if she had slept with 50 men, for many reasons. Are they right? Only you can be the judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:55 AM
1

You're right, maybe I'll find someone who "takes the pressure off" me in that regard. But I still think there are some women out there I might like who don't have "solid careers" who would probably expect me to be able to support a family if they stayed at home. It's just a part of my calculus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:53 PM
1

I have mixed feelings about myself that largely stem from my inability to really have a partner or casual sex over the last few years. To my credit I've been busy improving my mental health and finances but I still largely feel invalidated over that. It's like a switch turned off for me. But everything else in my life is really good. ​ I actually would date myself. Or at least give myself a shot. I'm not perfect but I've always shown a willingness to communicate and work through problems. And I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:11 PM
1

In this specific case sure, but this isn't a solid assessment of how women date -- women don't generally date men they find unattractive unless this man has a lot of money. Unless you target single moms or women who are really financially fucked, the odds are that you'll end up with a woman who just finds you some degree of attractive. It's not really a moral failing of women to find your personality more attractive than your physical appearance, or to think another man they've been with is more…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:04 PM
1

I understand that. I also understand that given the choice, many women would at least like the *option* of being able to wed and be a housewife. That's all I'm trying to do. Be the best partner with the most options for who I am compatible with. Women expect a decent bit even if they have their own finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:54 PM
1

This is implying that men and women currently experience being single the same (they don't) and that men's standards rising wouldn't affect those conditions (I believe it would.) The whole basis of being single being great for women within a certain timeframe of their life is the freedom it gives them to pursue their sexual proclivities and personality compatibility. If men stop being a giant pool for women to jump into, why would being single be regarded the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:46 PM
2

This. Even men who don't have sex regularly are turned off by "desperate" or "easy" women despite the fact that they should hail them as a godsend, because desperation is fear acted upon -- it's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:39 PM
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Outside of momentary sex? No. And if this behavior was widespread like it was with men, men would also generally avoid women who didn't signal that they were confident and "normal". I hope this is linking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:38 PM
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Are we talking about relationships? I do this already, I don't see why I would incorporate someone into my life without being pragmatic about it. I have my boundaries, my musts and my compromisables. Men becoming pickier with women might mean a slight reduction in attention towards women overall but really it would just be the lower end women (single moms, mentally unstable, "colorful history"/bad decision maker) who suffer and the higher end women (more attractive, more successful, and more cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:35 PM
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Is this true?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:25 PM
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Men want marriage, I don't know if women understand how much pressure there is to be a provider -- not even getting into how many men would like to do their fair share of sleeping around. I just jumped out of one career field to another just to have a chance of being a substantially financially better off provider in my 30s. I am avoiding women who want long-term relationships until then, even if I want them badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:25 PM
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As a man I would say, because most men dress poorly, and presentation does matter -- most women do too, actually, but I guess that's in the wind. I think a good bit of women are "shallow" and want guys with X build and Y fashion sense but I also think a lot of men could do much better with women by getting some more exercise, pants that fit better and maybe a shirt that tucks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:19 PM
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Women accepting that they like "bad men" would shatter their worldview on a few levels, first of all the belief that they are morally superior or at least aligned to their perception of "good", secondly by putting into question their general rationality. Thirdly, by putting men who are on some level diametrically opposed to the men they are attracted on a higher moral plane -- essentially a pole shift. I don't know if there's a good way to come to grips with the fact that you are just a radar de…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:12 PM
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This. Women have the benefit of being able to indulge in experience at will. Thus, their basis for what constitutes "tolerable" as a living condition is different. Being single as a man often isn't a choice and for some men it is literally never a choice in their lifetime -- for women, unless really unattractive or in a remote area being single is a conscious choice to not indulge in relationships with many men who would do so at the drop of a hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:05 PM
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Well, many of us have. If you're single and generally unattractive and don't want to be a complete black hole, you pursue your interests. That's what I've done ever since I randomly stopped being attractive to women, and I'm honestly happier for it. All I do is pursue every little hobby, big or small I've ever wanted to do and at this point it doesn't really matter to me if I get partnered up again, aside from a desire to be partnered -- I've found that life is worth living when you squeeze the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:01 PM
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i'm still trying to meet a nice girl at the harness track.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:58 PM
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More or less this, alongside the reality that more and more women have a negative view of men. I dislike it a lot but it is "safer" to just be judged via a swipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:58 PM
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my personal experience: women think most men don't really stand out visually -- they also think most men don't have style or present poorly in public. it seems to be less of a "most men are ugly" thing, more of a "most women don't find most men aesthetically attractive" alongside "women are generally pickier than men". I noticed that when I started working in an office again and wearing "boring work clothes" (as opposed to hanging out with men almost exclusively for 2 years in a construction-rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:53 PM
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well women have celeb crushes because those are highly visible, highly successful men. but not all women find all men the same. many women don't find male K-pop stars attractive at all, but many do -- there are simply different tastes. the same is true for Henry Cavill, Method Man and Hugh Jackman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:46 PM
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I think it's probably healthier to assume that a majority of the time couples have sexual attraction among both partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:41 PM
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Sorry, this is wrong. "Aggressively pursue" is subjective, but yes, there are women who put themselves in a guy's periphery and really push the issue. Women get the hots too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:38 PM
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it's usually the other way around, stating that AF only wants HER for hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:40 AM
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According to BS SJW ideology you can still be a masculine and identify as female all while keeping your junk intact.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:57 PM
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It's crazy to me that there's a few people that still don't get it. This season of South Park has me in stiches
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 09:50 AM
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Of that entire God-awful piece, the WORST of it has to be this bit: "Settling is mostly a women’s game. Men settle far less often and, when they do, they don’t seem the least bit bothered by the fact that they’re settling." Well, maybe she IS right. Because men are in the position to "settle" far less often.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 07:32 PM
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It's particularly women that know they're unappealing. Something in their mind just can't stand you for not pumping and dumping. I feel like it's a combination of distrust and knowing that any man that would commit to her isn't the alpha she wants.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 06:44 PM
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Excellent post, reminded me I'm much better off focusing on school and my artistic pursuits.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 09:49 AM
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Strikes me as the type of guy to not fuck around and just wed the woman he wants or not marry.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 05:37 PM
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