splittinherkitten Archive

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25	First post- discovered MRP more than a year after wife had affair. Would like feedback		splittinherkitten	/r/askMRP	31/01/19 08:38 PM

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3	First post- discovered MRP more than a year after wife had affair. Would like feedback Thank you. Yes her getting a job was one of the conditions of continuing the marriage. Currently she’s completing some higher education which will give her credentials to advance in her field and increase earnings very quickly. Within 3 years she should be making about 75% of what I do, and in another 3 she may match my earnings. Thank you to everyone who shared input. Reading my post again I can see I really made myself sound like such a pussy. There’s more that happened between then and now an…	/r/askMRP	05/02/19 01:49 PM
2	First post- discovered MRP more than a year after wife had affair. Would like feedback Yeah I appreciate you calling me on the bullshit. It is hard to hear and I feel compelled to defend myself but I know the comments is the whole point of doing this. Feedback. Thank you. I did have some conditions for remaining in the marriage, such as no more stay at home mom. She’s honored that and has a good job right now. Not as good as mine but she’s working. The access to everything online and whatnot, we did that for a bit but honestly it was exhausting checking into everything, not worth …	/r/askMRP	03/02/19 08:25 PM
9	Firstly, get the fuck out! This. Very encouraging. Thanks for sharing. Gym life is already a habit for me. I’m all good there. Lately I’ve been spending more time with friends. I know a couple interested females, I’ve held back so far because I’ve been keeping hope that I can just have the family life I wanted when I got married. But, even though wife is over her cheating(obviously, she’s not the one who got shat on), I am stuck on it.	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/02/19 06:42 PM
2	First post- discovered MRP more than a year after wife had affair. Would like feedback Ok. I am new to Reddit, sorry for being such a dunce. Thanks for the perspective. This is all good.	/r/askMRP	01/02/19 06:35 PM
2	First post- discovered MRP more than a year after wife had affair. Would like feedback An excellent perspective. I have considered this, too. I definitely know I could find another wife. In my years of marriage I’ve met women that I could have dated if I’d been so inclined, I expect that will continue if I get divorced. One thing that’s held me back was the realization that this is so common. I thought, ok so if this happens in most marriages then possibly she learned that cheating isn’t for her and we’ll be all good. Another thing held me back was, oh fuck I will be paying so muc…	/r/askMRP	01/02/19 06:34 PM
3	First post- discovered MRP more than a year after wife had affair. Would like feedback Thank you. The straight talk is helpful. Need to stop being such a codependent bitch and let her see through my actions that my stock is on the rise and my ship will sail with or without her.	/r/askMRP	01/02/19 02:39 PM
2	First post- discovered MRP more than a year after wife had affair. Would like feedback Lol this question. What is my dignity worth, in dollars? If someone could please tell me exactly what I’d be in for financially if I walked away, I guess I could give an answer. Right now, I think the amount is more than I’m willing to pay. Circumstances will be changing over the next couple years so that I could separate myself from the situation without so much collateral damage. If I need to. Like I said, I don’t currently have a flaming cheating emergency. We went through the fighting/crying…	/r/askMRP	01/02/19 02:36 PM
3	First post- discovered MRP more than a year after wife had affair. Would like feedback This is sort of the experience I had in early 2018. I recommitted to my lifting, kept my temper under control, was best father and husband and employee and friend and boss that I could be. It took most of 2018 for stuff to get better. Now, things seems cool and everything. Could be better, but I am fairly certain cheating is thing of the past. The thing is, now that I got what I was working for I am looking back on it and can’t really let go of the anger. I think sometimes I should have just wal…	/r/askMRP	01/02/19 02:32 PM
2	First post- discovered MRP more than a year after wife had affair. Would like feedback Ok ok. Pretty much got what I already knew. I held onto hope too long. Was being a dumbass pussy. I know what I need to do. There’s significant financial advantage to waiting another year or two. But, I understand what you’re all saying and thank you. I guess the kick in the ass was a good help.	/r/askMRP	01/02/19 04:14 AM
3	First post- discovered MRP more than a year after wife had affair. Would like feedback Good deal. Take care of me, got it. Working out is going well, getting close to 3x bodyweight DL at 175 lbs. maintaining the physical not my problem. My problem has been being a needy bitch after the affair and seeking validation. I can see how I was an ass and let marriage go to shit. Too much to explain. Yeah she’s a bitch for cheating while I been working my ass off. But I can’t change her only me. I been reconnecting with old friends, going out with work friends, and I’ve generated some inte…	/r/askMRP	01/02/19 04:02 AM