spoiledsweet Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
140	“I feel unappreciated”	QUEEN SH*T	spoiledsweet	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/20 03:12 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Q4W: What is your opinion on guys who use prostitutes? Sex work is real work—that I want nothing to do with, and would like my friends to have nothing to do with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 12:31 PM
1	Why exactly does pornography bother you? I was trafficked into porn and know firsthand it’s not as ethical as it can look. I don’t want my friends and partners to hate it. That sounds religiously based. I’m agnostic. I can’t hate something I once identified with, that to some degree we all identify with. That’s where I think you’re mistaken. These are fantasies made for us to identify with, if not literally then emotionally. An ultimatum sounds like a sign of deeper issues in your relationship than this, so I would not go about it that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 01:26 PM
7	How many people here have had their heart broken? When I was four, I thought I was in love with my father after he molested me. Then he handed me off to his brother. You could say my therapist and I are pretty tight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 12:34 AM
1	Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market? Shortage of men? No. Shortage of good men? When you put it that way...	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 08:20 PM
8	My cousin was molested by her stepbrother and his friends. The proliferation of "stepbro/stepsis" porn is something we should all be very, very worried about. Same thing happened to me except my mom just cries about it now and did nothing before. I’m sorry and glad to hear you’re doing well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/21 04:44 PM
5	Leave the FIRST time someone shows you low effort Tell him boy bye	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 09:18 PM
7	LOL Nasal swabs are weird ngl	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/20 04:15 AM
16	😭😭😭😭 Uh, yes, I’ll have one (1) nightmare please ☝🏼 ty	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/20 09:50 PM
4	Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds. I mean, it is an ego boost for anyone to be hit on by anyone. You can’t teach anyone not to find that gratifying. We can’t stop wanting ego boosts, we can only replace it with something better. Teaching others they deserve better starts with us believing it for ourselves. My jealous sisters and even my mother used to try to “teach” me that I wasn’t pretty, it was only guys who were pigs. Instead our father should’ve been teaching us all that we were more than how pretty or usable he thought we w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/11/20 11:53 PM
4	“I feel unappreciated” Yeah. That’s why they’re exes 💁🏻‍♀️ Real talk I’ve felt unappreciated or like I wasn’t good enough for someone. It’s always been my responsibility to leave their influence if they were toxic. But these are people who insist it’s your job to lower your standards. As if 💎	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/20 02:39 PM
79	DID SHE LIE?! I met a few broken hearted rich guys and they’re all pretty sober about it or just guarded at most. The brokest guys are definitely the pissiest. Kind of like how many women who’ve actually been abused are quiet while the ones who haven’t had to fend off a fly pick more fights.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/20 02:54 AM
30	Nice to be reminded sometimes!! Honestly for me it got too draining to even be friends with girls crying about their bfs. I always attracted the friendship dynamic where they did the crying and I didn’t have to be vulnerable. Now I refuse to give my time to friends who won’t give themselves the same. Still working on the vulnerability part.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/20 02:49 AM
18	It’s sad that this kind of behavior from men is so rare. Same. I used to go all out for my ex best friend while no one did anything for me. It was just me recreating family trauma where I was the scapegoat and everyone benefited at my expense. Over the years, I’ve bought that friend meals, concert tickets, a DJ launchpad, and created countless handmade cards and art. Yet for my 21st, we basically stayed home and smoked some weed. Then one of her friends took me to the strip club after she went to sleep. The year I got her the launchpad, she gave me bi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/20 04:34 PM
10	The deck has been stacked against us since the dawn of time. Agree. I think everyone is feminine and masculine at the same time and chooses how much or how little to express. And modern “femininity” has been warped beyond recognition	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 01:05 PM
3	The deck has been stacked against us since the dawn of time. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 12:59 PM
9	I Tried Femdom And It Was Nowhere Near As "Empowering" As The BDSM Community Would Have You Believe Yes. As a sub and ex stripper, I was so underwhelmed by professional femdom. I thought it’d be easier and more empowering than stripping, but it was the same. Except now I wore black instead of pink. It was easier physically but harder emotionally than stripping. And I like getting exercise. Kink, especially sadism, sickens me. Past sexual trauma and confusion regarding it is the ONLY reason behind the ones that still arouse me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 11:03 PM