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| 3 | Fundamentals: Why she doesn’t feel the sparkyou should go outside and touch some grass. better yet, talk to a woman even. then you’ll know what i’m talking about | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 12:03 AM |
| 5 | Fundamentals: Why she doesn’t feel the sparkNo, I'd say kind of exactly like how OP described it as a 'princess hand hold.' She had her hand extended and fingers slightly bent and I'd wrap my fingers behind hers and caress them with my thumb. The intimacy part is squeezing her hand and pulling it into your grip ever so slightly, so that when I pulled away I felt some resistance, as if she wanted to continue holding hands. It was pretty cute. Very lowkey subliminal body language. Even I knew after that point that we'd be fucking later lol. | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 04:29 PM |
| 5 | Fundamentals: Why she doesn’t feel the sparkBecause she brought it up completely unprompted. Why lie? | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 04:20 PM |
| 45 | Fundamentals: Why she doesn’t feel the sparkHand holding is KEY. This literally happened to me last month. I was examining a girl's rings and holding her hands intimately for a couple seconds. Later that night after we had sex she told me she was trying to not have sex with me, but that once she held my hand earlier, she just knew then and there that we were going to fuck later. Also, if you can pull it off, wearing rings as a guy helps too because it levels the playing field. That's how we originally ended up holding hands in the example… | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 11:09 PM |
| 1 | 9 step first date same day lay guide -Planning , texting and escalatingI can tell you've had a lot of experience running in PUA circles, any "top 10" videos or coaches you'd recommend? I'm looking to get back into day-game/seduction in general after a year-long slump but not sure where to start. Infield videos would be pretty useful as well, I'm specifically curious to see how the wingman dynamic works - do you guys approach together or are you both off doing your own sets? Interested to learn how that works. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 09:29 PM |
| 0 | 9 step first date same day lay guide -Planning , texting and escalatingExcellent guide man, thanks for sharing. Definitely going to use some of these suggestions. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 04:19 AM |
| 16 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.You can never go wrong with the classics. They're classics for a reason. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 06:09 PM |
| 2 | She pulled backhonestly the best outcome from your scenario is the one in which you dont emotionally invest as hard as you did. what happened, happened. only you can control your reaction to it. you care so much right now because you simply got too emotionally invested. you should be operating on a plane of existence where this wouldn’t even bother you and you wouldn’t have even needed to make this post, because you simply don’t care enough. get to that point, make her work for your affection. women have a 6th… | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 09:52 PM |
| 6 | Does showing too much interest kill your game long termits not really a conscious decision, just the product of millions of years worth of natural selection and sexual psychology. yes, it sucks. but complaining wont fix it, you gotta adapt | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 08:02 PM |
| 6 | Does showing too much interest kill your game long termyes but the amount of interest you show should always be slightly below hers | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 08:00 PM |
| 4 | Tips for easing a girl you’ve been dating into a FWB?You seem to not comprehend the difference between a FWB and a fuck buddy. You should look up what the “F” part stands for in “FWB”. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Tips for easing a girl you’ve been dating into a FWB?I've had plenty. That's why I'm laughing at you. You can't even comprehend the very simple concept that hanging out and doing things with other people does not mean you're dating. Unless you're, as previously mentioned, gay for all of your male friends. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Tips for easing a girl you’ve been dating into a FWB?So by that criteria does that mean going on a road trip with your boys is a date? Are you gay? | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women in Istanbul, TurkeyIf I had to guess, he's implying you'll get into some shit with other men. Muslim men in Turkey are very very territorial with their women. My buddy merely spoke to a girl one time (not even flirting or touching) and nearly got in a fight with the guy that was with her group. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 09:41 PM |
| 8 | Tips for easing a girl you’ve been dating into a FWB?you shouldn’t be taking your FWB on dates How exactly does the "F" part of "FWB" come into play in this genius proposition of yours then? | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 09:26 PM |
| 4 | How to Attract a 'Type A' WomanA Type A man but with a vagina. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 03:38 AM |
| 0 | SECRET info: How to get the ‘baddies’.Or he's not sticking around .. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 06:56 PM |
| 1 | What to do when she goes coldbelieve me, i was convinced my girl loved me too. we were coworkers as well and spent years flirting and talking. she would tell me that “she’ll have a forever crush on me” and would write smut about us and how i “check all the boxes” but would still never actually make the time to hang out. some very fucked up manipulative shit. i decided she was bringing more negativity into my life than positivity and cut it off. so tread carefully, women can be extremely toxic like that. actions speak louder… | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 04:29 PM |
| 2 | What to do when she goes coldWas in a similar situation. She always had some BS excuse to not hang out but would still display interest. Complete waste of time in hindsight. Cut your losses and move on, if she wanted to hang out with you, she would. Especially if you both work together. Sounds like you're getting strung along just like I was brother. Talk to other women that are worth your time and value you. I promise you if she isn't enthusiastic about hanging out with you now than she won't be in the future either. And i… | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 11:28 PM |
| 0 | If a woman tells you she needs to take time for a relationship, is her attraction to you forever killed?I don't understand this logic. Is this like a studied behavioral pattern or something? Because if someone inflicted trauma on me, me personally, I would seek the exact opposite traits in my next partner. Why would I continue to consciously inflict trauma on myself? | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 09:32 PM |
| 0 | If a woman tells you she needs to take time for a relationship, is her attraction to you forever killed?She likes Abusive men . What made you come to this conclusion? It seems like she was fine with the situation up until OP started display neediness and so she pulled away. He didn't need to be "toxic" to keep it going, he could've just never mentioned a relationship and they'd still be "together" right now, no? | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 09:30 PM |
| 11 | Signs when a special women is not interestedall of this is so so true. wasted multiple years of my youth pursuing a woman with all of these traits. please learn from my mistakes and avoid women like this like the plague. if she wanted to, she would. if she doesn’t, then don’t waste your time. move on. | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 06:02 AM |
| 2 | PSA: There is no such thing as a “lack of chemistry” or “no spark”, only a lack of comfort and rapportRight after you try typing up something that is actually relevant to the topic being discussed in the thread next time. Or just keep posting fun facts, who doesn't love fun facts? | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 04:01 AM |
| 3 | PSA: There is no such thing as a “lack of chemistry” or “no spark”, only a lack of comfort and rapport90% of these comments are either "I only read the title and this is why you're wrong" or "I'm an incel that has had sex two and a half times in my entire life and this is why you're wrong" godspeed man. I don't know how you deal with people this socially inept | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 03:59 AM |
| 3 | PSA: There is no such thing as a “lack of chemistry” or “no spark”, only a lack of comfort and rapportNo one is disputing that. This is a guide for dates, not drunken hookups in a sweaty nightclub. Your comment adds nothing of value to the conversation. | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 03:55 AM |
| 3 | PSA: There is no such thing as a “lack of chemistry” or “no spark”, only a lack of comfort and rapportThe sexual attraction is implicit with the comfort though. It's not a different definition, it's just a scale. Shaking hands is one pole of this scale while having sex is the other pole - all based on comfort level. How can you have sexual attraction without a high degree of comfort? It's the fundamental aspect of sexual attraction. Comfort begets attraction, not the other way around. | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 03:50 AM |
| 8 | PSA: There is no such thing as a “lack of chemistry” or “no spark”, only a lack of comfort and rapportbro really said "yo i didnt read this and this is why you're wrong" | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 03:46 AM |
| 2 | She Had A Good Time But Not Feeling Second Date Againunless you’re literally skydiving no date should tell you they’re nervous. let alone multiple dates. you’re either saying or doing some incredibly weird shit because that’s not a normal experience to have. nobody can help you except yourself, you have to do some inner reflection to figure out why you’re making your dates uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 04:13 PM |
| 5 | She Had A Good Time But Not Feeling Second Date Againbro if your dates are telling you they’re “nervous” you are doing something incredibly fucking wrong. | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 05:21 AM |
| 19 | What is your dating app strategy for hook ups?- A guy trying to flex on a random dude on Reddit | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Here’s a thought: attraction is triggering primal instincts instead of intellectthe ones that end up being among the best are the ones where our individual pathways merge again, and sometimes again, and again... and we should absolutely celebrate the time we've spent with that person. It's a blessing in so many ways, and every relationship requires equal parts effort from both parties to maintain, even if in some cases that requires very little effort, it's still an accomplishment and a testament to the appreciation you have for one another You get it. You and I have the sa… | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Here’s a thought: attraction is triggering primal instincts instead of intellectAmazing, you've put into words what I could never adequately express. It makes sense as well if you think about how the human species has evolved. We've been social creatures for millennia, living amongst a tightly-knit community of people who collectively raised the next generation. Monogamy did not arise until very recently with the advent of agriculture. Agriculture gave rise to private property, and private property gave rise to men needing a process by which to bequeath that property to the… | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | What are the biggest problems for you when it comes to dating?having attractive girl friends helps. use your friend zoning thing to your advantage. some of the most beautiful women i’ve ever met are my closest friends and they’ve helped to normalize my interactions with girls like that. they’re regular people with insecurities just like everybody else | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 05:56 PM |
| 37 | How do people manage to have sex with someone they don't know well?This is such a great analogy. It perfectly describes my mentality towards sex. I could easily have sex with a new companion if the attraction is there, hell, it even adds to the thrill that you don’t know each other that well. But I know plenty of people that place a lot more, as you said, monumental earth-shattering emphasis on the sanctity of sex. Some people are just wired differently i suppose. I’d reckon those people are looking relationships whereas people like myself are just enjoying the… | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 06:04 PM |
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