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And I received none of those genes and got all the brains instead. Riiiiiight. It's hilarious how many people genuinely believe they are smarter than almost everyone around them. It's like they observe their social awkwardness and use that as proof of their intelligence. A little off-topic, but I think a lot of people have a horrible misunderstanding of intelligence. 50% of people think they are in the top 90%. I'm a pretty smart dude, but by no means would I say I'm among the elite. I'm very lo…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 09:38 PM
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Maybe her slut alarms are going off. It's a good thing to care about one's reputation and values, though, so it's not a bad thing. I think you would just need to take the pressure off her and assume responsibility for the interaction (i.e. plausible deniability again, aka the ability to say to her girlfriends "it just happened!"). I can't say I know the perfect thing to say, however. I usually try to establish a frame of spontaneity and excitement, which would help in this case. I have to admit …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:45 AM
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Ha. Ha ha ha ha ha. There's some more gold right around it. In the months after our separation, I dyed my hair dark and cut it. I also developed a friendship that gradually deepened into romance with a man I'd known casually for years. One night he took me to a reading of Eve Ensler's new play. "This is power-woman central," he said, as we watched Arianna Huffington hold court in the front row. The branch swinging and feminist poisoning is strong in this one. Even the title of the article, ""I W…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:38 AM
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Pretty much the same as what BluepillProfessor said, getting her into wild, fun highs and pouty lows will really establish your ability to lead the adventure (assuming you keep your frame, especially when you tease or confront her). Once you've done this well, you can really see it in their eyes when the DTF-switch in their heads has gone off - and they are just waiting for you to make the first move. I'm sure a lot of guys can relate to situations where you literally stop in the middle of a sen…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:45 AM
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Take responsibility for every escalation. A woman will do just about anything as long as she doesn't have to feel like it was "her fault." Make it YOUR fault. Make it "just happen." She will rationalize it to herself later using the same bullshit generator that women use to flake out on dates at the last minute. Don't get her horny until you get her isolated. Believe me, emotional is better than horny. Lol'ed at the "bullshit generator." I think this is a huge truth to realize in order to mature…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:38 PM
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Yes. It is bitter, but it's better than living in ignorance. Another hard part is forgiving yourself for falling for such obvious shit in the past. I know some people bag on these RSD videos, but I thought this one was excellent in regards to understanding the bitterness: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BaRjwsOKEyQ&list=UUD4xqm6vJ3K4ntppsE1jL4g There's some good information here, even if you have to sift through some things to see the truth, but by now you should be developing this kind of filte…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:20 AM
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It begins through me getting bitter about aspects of the girl - even if she is overall attractive I would still find flaws and poke at it bitterly with regards to physical appearance or personality. Know the difference between deal-breaking characteristics in a girl and just minor flaws. It looks like you are having trouble with the bitter aftertaste of the pill. But better to be too harsh than not I suppose. Just the same as you or I may have beta characteristics that we let creep back into our…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 07:26 AM
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I hope this is true. Regardless, thanks for the trp justice boner.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:35 AM
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I'd say that the desire for BB increases as they age, but mostly because they are thinking about having children. I don't think the AF tingles really ever go away.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 07:06 PM
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Ha, not sure why the downvotes. I like having a no-bullshit perspective like this even if I don't necessarily agree with everything about it. Carry on.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 06:59 PM
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Currently watching it, can confirm I am amazed.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 11:17 PM
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Good tip. It really seems to be about taking a step back and objectively assessing how you are doing. I think it's really a blessing that guys can do this so well if they try. And I like how you call it "all the time meditation." I'd also like to add that there's a difference between "situational awareness" and being stuck in your head. Also, random shitty tip of my own: it helps when I visualize my feet being firmly planted in the ground. Just mentally acknowledging that I am a badass taking up…
/r/askTRP05/08/14 08:13 AM
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Hey man, I won't pretend I know how you're feeling, but hopefully I can help. Not gonna spellcheck myself, I'm pretty tired. I've felt OCD/ADHD for years. It's something that won't change overnight or without strict effort. There's times where you feel like you are helpless to change it, and that everything would be totally easier if you could just have been born with a different brain. The only cure I've had to any sort of mental issue for me were the following. Hit your goals i.e. be successfu…
/r/askTRP05/08/14 08:02 AM
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I guess it's pretty tough to ask for honesty. Because being honest will turn so many girls away from you. You're best bet for that is to take a gamble and be the best girl you can and maybe he can open up. But don't pry too hard and turn him into a bitch either. Also, if he's only two months in he still has some work to do. TRP isn't a way to pry open stupid girls' vaginas, it's an explanation for each sexes' sexual strategies. You can employ the strategies without being a dick or acknowledging …
/r/askTRP03/08/14 08:15 AM
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I wouldn't try to think of it in terms of "respect their plates as people." That phrase itself is just totally wrapped up in emotional confusion. Just think of what you provide for each other. Speaking for myself, I respect plates/women more when I think they have the capability to respect me, namely loyalty. When talking to a lot of women, I lose respect if the most minor redpill tactics/failures work super hard on them. For example, I give a minor story of vulnerability and weakness and I imme…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 07:47 AM
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Feeling the same thing. I don't bother with click-bait feminist sites anymore. It literally makes my brain rot the same way junk food makes us fat.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 07:59 PM
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Whenever I am talking about a hypothetical situation with a girl that requires logic, I often drop little compliments that make her feel better about her position, or even admit small weaknesses in my position. I still communicate the same point, but it's sad to have to alter the discussion to avoid her derailing it into something emotional.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 07:53 AM
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Interesting question. I think there's less at stake and you don't have to care about the effect on the relationship. It's not really something I'd care for but I think it can be healthier than begging for sex if you aren't paying more than you can afford.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:03 PM
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And even if you do negotiate with her for sex, you get duty sex. And anyone who has had "duty sex" or "pity sex" knows it is a soul sucking activity for both parties. Sex isn't just about having an orgasm it's about feeling desired by a woman. Excellent point at the end here, and recently evidenced by the "sex spreadsheet" making its rounds on the internet. I think it goes something like this: Husband begs for sex Wife feels desired, husband does not. Husband begs more, wife gives in. Husband is…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 08:52 PM
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Part of RP is accepting the hard truths. We all hear the top 20% of guys get 80% of the women. But honestly, the only time you are constantly chased is if you are in the top 1% of guys. Time to hit the gym, review your financial goals, and chase your dreams until you become that man. Now the real paradigm-shift is when your motivation for reaching that 1% is not women, but yourself. Until then, fake it till you make it.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 08:42 PM
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The only cure is unwavering confidence. Don't judge yourself for any single response or encounter, but your general pattern of what drives you each day.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 08:37 PM
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Fucking love the no-bullshit reply here. No contact and lift.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 08:27 PM
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Lol. It's only gonna be a shit test based on how you "roll with it." If you sound insecure about it then yeah it won't help you. If I really wanted to keep my word, I would say, "Hey, I would never agree to do this for just any girl, but you took advantage of my drunken state, and I'm a man of my word. Let's do this shit" etc. etc.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 05:09 AM
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emotionally blackmailed her I shut down shit like this right when it happens. If a girl uses obviously extreme accusations of being victimized, or says something like "that seems rapey" when it's CLEARLY not, I don't let it slide. Maybe your situation wasn't quite as bad, just thought I'd share.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 08:22 PM
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I'd dismiss it as a subject you don't care to discuss. A discussion about feminism will be logic on your side and appeals to emotion on her side. There's no winning. Take it as a shit test, like a child who wants to argue that he should eat candy for dinner. You don't spend an hour convincing the child, you just say "no."
/r/askTRP24/07/14 08:07 PM
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