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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:30 AM
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Wait until the weekend? For what? What’s there even to talk about? That man quite literally had you on your knees begging him to stay and you still haven’t blocked him? Girl what are you doing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:08 PM
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I do kinda believe in it. My first love was love at first sight. I didn’t know anything about him but the moment our eyes met in class, I fell in love with him (it’s cringy but it was exactly like in the movies where time stops). Afterwards I had a unrequited crush on him for over 4 years without talking a word to him lol But luckily it didn’t work out, after high school he got a young girl pregnant so he had to marry her. And I’ve heard he’s a big cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 06:25 AM
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I really wished I didn’t want to but I do. I grew up without a father and without a „happy“ family. One day, if I find a HVM, I want to get married and build the family I never had. I’ve asked myself many many times if I really need to get married but when I start imagining myself at 70 without a family, children or husband I get depressed and feel like I’d be really lonely. I mean yeah I would have close friends but those friends will be married and have their own families too, so it wouldn’t r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:29 PM
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I feel like that’s mostly the fault of libfems. I come from a muslim country and everytime I try to tell people that muslim women, especially muslim women in muslim countries, are oppressed people want to call me an islamophobic lol They think they’re being woke by defending a sexist religion/culture but in reality they’re harming the women in those countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 12:02 PM
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I’m going to say it again, HVM won’t waste their time on OLD. I wished you guys would stop using it, especially since you seem to know it’s bad yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 12:37 PM
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I genuinely don’t understand why any (straight) woman buys into the whole hookup culture. Like even as a teenage pick me, I would’ve never let a male even kiss me before we were in a relationship for at least a few months. Like I genuinely can’t get it into my head. There’s nothing to gain and so much to lose…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 02:52 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:11 PM
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I’m a comic artist and I’ve always had this fantasy of drawing my future husband/boyfriend a comic of our relationship and the things we’ve experienced together but I was unsure of how it’ll be received and if it’s too over the top but seeing how you loved it makes me want to do it even more now. I was really happy to read that haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:32 PM
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Please don’t share and acknowledge that garbage here lmao 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:05 PM
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Males really seem to think that women are as desperate and easy as them lmao Of all the guys that flirted with me, I’ve only gotten to the talking stage with one guy. All the other ones were ugly, broke or just misogynistic assholes. The males I’ve gotten to know have always been so below my standards, that I’ve never even had a boyfriend before (I‘m 22) and they really think it’s hard for us to turn down 600+ males when 99% don’t even meet our standards? They’re just projecting, they now they’d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:17 AM
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Unfortunately it’s not… in Islam women have to serve men but some „feminist“ muslims still try to spread the narrative that it’s the most feminist religion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:00 PM
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A little bit info: She and I were friends in middle school and high school. She was the smartest girl in most of her classes but she also knew she’d get married after high school, since that’s what women from my country are trained to do since we’re toddlers. Before she got married to this dude he flirted a lot with other women and she still chose to get married to him and 1-2 years ago, while she was pregnant with her son, he cheated on her. That time she left him and I was hoping that she’d fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:12 PM
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Well that’s unfortunate then…. But was he westernized asian or like living in asia?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 07:55 PM
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I know that asian guys are like any other guys but all the asian guys I dated were at least always dressed well and hygienic, some even used more skin care than I did lol Even if they were shitty, I never felt embarrassed by being seen with them, compared to any other guy I dated. What is it with most western guys being ugly and unhygienic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:58 PM
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Every time I stop reading FDS, even just for a few days, I catch myself slipping.. There’s a really nice, good looking guy I‘m attracted to but he’s incompetent as fuck. He can’t cook/do household chores, he’s kinda stupid and usually I don’t even daydream about a relationship with him but once I stop reading FDS for a few days I start to have thoughts like „maybe I don’t mind taking care of a man child, I want to be a mom anyways..“ but when I come here I‘m back to my senses again lmao We shoul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:24 PM
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Could any of you here do the same for your husband? I know I couldn’t and wouldn’t want to take care of someone like that. But this probably also depends on many different factors I suppose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:45 PM
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I sometimes talk shit about FDS on other subs just so other women can know about it. I think negative comments make them more curious. I hope y’all forgive me 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:32 PM
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A guy I wasn’t too close with tried that once with me and I interrupted him with „I’m sorry but I really don’t care“.. the look on his face was priceless lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:13 AM
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First my own sister „not all men“ed me and now even a woman on this sub?? Please read the room 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:58 PM
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Dude even my friends got me chocolate for valentine’s day... why is he dating her when he hates her 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:16 AM
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Nah men shame sex workers while using them to jack off. Men love „sex workers“ only if they’re not getting money from it lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:49 AM
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I wished I was interested in anything beside art, I’d totally be getting further education but I don’t need any further degree for the career I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:45 PM
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When I was little every boy in the neighborhood used to be afraid of me...when they were teasing me I always used my knee to hit their balls. Back then I didn’t even know that it was their weak spot, I just did it intuitively lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:15 AM
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My brother is 17 and she still cooks and cleans after him... My sisters and I had to learn to cook and clean when we were 8-10, so we could serve the men my father brought over lmao I don’t know if it’s because of our culture but my brother was always treated better than us, which is funny because my mom experienced the same thing with her brothers and she still chooses to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:06 PM
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It wouldn’t be bad if he drew nude women because he was studying anatomy or if he was figure drawing.. but going out of his way to draw lewd drawings? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:07 AM
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Besides the obvious ones... he can’t be religious, especially muslim and he can‘t do drugs (weed, alcohol etc)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:18 AM
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When I was a kid my male friend proposed to me with a ring pop lol Males really never grow up huh I used to say that until a few months ago too.. I thought if I did that he’d think that I’m „cool“ and „not like other girls“. I wanted to be a „special woman“ for him so he wouldn’t leave me but deep down I wasn’t really ok with it. I don’t even wear jewelry but I’d still want an expensive engagement ring, because to me it shows how committed he is to me. And I promise you, every single woman that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 12:53 PM
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What’s next? We’re gonna celebrate and praise people for not being racist? That’s ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:24 AM
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Exactly!! Every single one of them. Once I started to completely deny their advances on me, they just stopped being friends lol And it’s not even them being in love with me, they literally just wanted a girlfriend or sex. How selfish do you have to be, to ruin a friendship just because you’re horny?? Like if you fall in love with a friend it’s not really your fault but if you already know that she doesn’t feel the same way suck it up and stop being so selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 10:50 AM
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I see those pictures and wonder why the women decide to stay with these type of men? He seems to have a shitty personality AND he looks ugly, so what is it????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 10:02 AM
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I always defended women/men friendships because I thought I have male friends that don’t want to hook up with me...girl was I wrong. I just dismissed their flirting as a joke. Once a guy told me „I want to be your boyfriend“ and I said „no you don’t hahah“.. I genuinely thought they were just joking. I think that’s what most women who say we can be friends think. Or like many of my female friends have already admitted, we just ignore their attempts and hope they get over us lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:10 AM
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Why do these always start out with „I don’t know if I’m being too sensitive or overreacting“. Even if you were, you’re still feeling bad because of a scrote lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:38 PM
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I don’t understand those males? I bet with y’all that not one single woman here hates men because they can’t get one (like those incels). We’re just upset that 99.9% of the male population is disgusting trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:53 PM
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I really wished that was the case... but males will never stop harassing women. I mean there’s a reason so many men are into „milfs“ lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:39 PM
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I‘m so sorry :( You’d think they’d actually be intelligent enough to think for themselves but obviously not, if they get that easily brainwashed by porn. Like in what world is hitting someone „normal“??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:24 AM
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Sometimes I think about how many men would be raping and killing women if it was legal and then I want to kms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:02 PM
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I feel like every male that enjoys hardcore porn will hurt you one day, I mean if you get aroused by people in pain, you’re literally sick in the head. I’m so happy FDS convinced me staying single forever is still better than dating any male except they’re the 0.001%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:04 PM
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This guys talk soo casually about masturbating and porn... do they not feel embarrassed at all?? I feel like that’s a private matter and not something you discuss with the whole world. I’d feel ashamed if I were them 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:42 AM
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And you should only consider a relationship if he gets at least 95%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:05 AM
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The moment a man decides to have sex with a woman he accepts the consequences lmao If you are not ready for a child then don’t have sex. I mean most man don’t even take the responsibility or pay child support, idk why I see them whining so much about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:58 PM
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So what? Just because of one woman you’re gonna let other women be cheated on? I told a girl her boyfriend was making advances on me and she immediately broke up with him... we have been best friends for 4 years now. It doesn’t matter what the woman does after she has the information, it’s just important that you tell her so she can make the choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:04 PM
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Idc if the woman seduced him or what not, a loyal man that loves you would ignore a nude woman that’s throwing herself on him lol When I’m in love I’m disgusted by other men attempting to flirt with me, I feel like that would be the same for men if they were really in love. If he cheats on you he doesn’t love or respect you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:46 PM
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It’s so interesting to see the difference between western and east asian men. When I was in Japan I downloaded Tinder just for fun. Out of 10 men max 3 were „ugly“ and didn’t look groomed or if they were at least trying. I‘m not saying their personalities were better but at least they looked presentable and didn’t make me feel as miserable for being straight. Compared to them, western men look like they’re still in the first stage of evolution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:44 PM
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I’m of asian decent too and back then the guy I used to be in love with used to compare me to other women and say stuff like „I bet you’re not as hairy“, „you’re so petite you must be tight“ and being the pickme I was, I took these as compliments??? Men and pickmes are disgusting for allowing these type of fetishization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 02:37 PM
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Literally every „type of woman“ gets fetishized. Doesn’t matter if you’re black, white, asian, overweight, skinny, young, old etc etc There’s probably a category on pornhub for every woman we can think of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 02:09 AM
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I‘m not sure? But to me every guy she has „dated“ through that show seems like a LVM. But I think it’s all for content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:16 PM
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Why do these mfs act like women being selfish is something bad? If a man ever calls me selfish I’ll know that I’m on the right path. I used to be a push over and people pleaser... once I stopped doing that and started demanding the same energy in return I was called selfish and greedy. If that’s what being selfish means then I love being selfish and I wished every woman was!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:39 PM
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I would hesitate to kiss a man on the mouth... can’t imagine taking a smelly sausage into my mouth 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 11:43 PM
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Maybe he’s not as disgusted by an ugly male body because he’s used to seeing ugly males in porns, his in the mirror etc. Whereas most women in porn have beautiful bodies? Idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 11:38 PM
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It’s tweets like this that show that women are funnier lmao I’ve read some replies of males and they were all the same sexist jokes they’ve been using since the beginning of time... like if you gotta be sexist at least be creative 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:06 PM
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I fucking hate him too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 04:51 PM
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All those middle aged men calling her princess in the comment section... so disgusting. They’re really attracted to children with big tits and ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:38 PM
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I‘m so happy that even before FDS I was too shy to go on dates... imagine the amount of assholes I’d have met. And I really don’t want to shame women but I don’t get why some women hook up on the first date? There’s waaay to many risks in that and for what? So a complete stranger can use you as a masturbation tool for 2 minutes? I just can’t imagine any woman enjoying that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:51 PM
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Noo don’t acknowledge their existence... getting blocked and ignored will make them angrier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:45 PM
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Why do males think doing the bare minimum is being romantic? I have female friends that do more to make me happy but as long as a male says that he’s not romantic, he can get away with being a piece of shit? I’m saying that because I used to think, if he doesn’t do random events for me or is going out of his way to make me happy, he was just not romantic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:45 PM
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These movies are the reason why I’m working on my own manhwas! I want to give girls strong women to look up to or let them enjoy (healthy) romance stories with HVM since there are so few of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:06 PM
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Yah I totally get you! I was never into online games... I prefer chill rpgs like animal crossing or stardew valley. You could argue that it’s still a waste of time but they at least don’t make you aggressive or addicted in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 06:32 PM
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I feel like those woman either romanticize gamer boyfriends or they think they don’t deserve better. Both are equally sad...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:20 PM
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Oh.. I was somewhat of a gamer myself lol And I thought that gamer boys were more fun and relaxed and the „adult“ men boring and too serious. Most of my male friends were gamers and since I got along well with them (only because I was a pickme) I thought a gamer boy would be the perfect match for me. The one thing all my gamer male friends had in common was: No social life, no interesting hobbies, porn sick, ugly (imo) and sexist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 03:57 PM
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„How was I supposed to know that you want to enjoy sex too and not be used as a fuck doll??? You can’t expect me to read your mind!!!“ Sometimes I wonder if they just act dumb or if they’re really that dumb, if it’s the latter I’m seriously concerned for my future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:34 PM
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A 10? And 5‘6“???? Something doesn’t add up here....... Also no man that’s a 10 would have any reason to waste his time being an incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:35 PM
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