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spootsnoopy/r/seduction19/05/16 07:27 AM
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spootsnoopy/r/seduction02/06/16 06:08 AM
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spootsnoopy/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:23 AM
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spootsnoopy/r/seduction24/05/16 12:36 AM
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Depends. If it's extremely small even when fully hard and assuming you also have no pubic fat, then you could face some difficulties. I think ethnicity might matter too. Like if you're only 3 inches then don't expect to satisfy Mandingos alpha widow.if you're Asian then Asian girls might be more forgiving than white chicks for example. But honesty if it's only "below average" then it's more about your attitude. Remember that your behaviour determine a girls thoughts and feelings when with her. I…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 05:45 AM
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Excellent post. I used to never say the word "feel" until I started working at a company with gender quota employed feminists who say " I feel" at the start of every sentence they use. Easy bad habit to pick up, I started using it everywhere without realising, and it did negatively affect my sexual success. I have always been a sucker for saying "I think" also. This is always a big problem for men with a scientific mind, and is noticeable when talking to people with STEM careers. It is masculine…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 05:25 AM
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10 mg of IR dextroamphetamine. Per dosage. Which is every 4 hours. Total is typically 20-30 mg per day depending on the day.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 12:27 AM
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Girl last week told me she was a feminist, she was 30 and seemed pretty hardcore about it, until she started talking of course. She said that back in the day whenever a male pharaoh was in power the world was in chaos because there was too much masculine energy and that it was only ever in balance when there was a feminine energy to counteract it. She then said that the pyramids were most likely used as kind of a solar power station. I asked her what the ancient Egyptians used the power for? She…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 10:41 PM
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Almost ruined my career because of this. Head fog/head pressure/ faintness - is commonly caused by anxiety. Accurately Determining the cause of the anxiety is important in treating it. I have very bad inattentive type ADHD. By treating my adhd ( medication). My anxiety is completely gone, after years of putting up with it. The reason it was causing my anxiety is because I used to sit and worry all day at my desk, about that I couldn't concentrate on anything. And basically get nothing done. Ever…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 02:24 AM
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Is this a troll post? Surely you aren't that naive... We are taking about gaming strippers, while they are working yeah? Which in itself is an admirable endeavour, a good challenge and some fun. I went to a strip club once and introduced the hottest girl there (HB9) to my Chad friend and he plated her for a few months like it was nothing. Needless to say he inspires me to be better. However - in the context you are talking it seems like you are trying basic PUA material and trying to analyse the…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 08:18 AM
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You played it better than most. But in the end did not give yourself the opportunity to get anything tangible other than "winning". At that point you need to just go all in for the threesome. Playing it the way you did A will just lose her shit and at that stage B will bail. B was probably keen to fuck behind her friends back and hamster it somehow later on but she's not gonna be keen now that it's a big thing.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 07:42 AM
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Prostitution is legal here in Australia. I don't think it makes much difference tbh. Doesn't really solve the problem but it doesn't really create new ones. Most Australians don't even know that it's legal here because we watch so much American TV, they just assume it's illegal. Fix marriage.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 10:59 PM
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Tinder is great fun if you are good looking. I've never fucked lower than a 7 off of it, And my bedroom door hinges are getting worn out from all the traffic. It's a tool you can use to get pussy, if it works for you, use it.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 03:34 AM
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Women remember. Men think Because back in the day it was most beneficial for Men to think and do. And for women to remember where those non poisonous berries grow. And for manipulation of man Women remember every word you say, and will use it against you when it suits them. They do not understand why or have any logical processing in dealing with the facts, they just remember the "what". And have no idea about the "why". The feminized society will never buy into this. My suggesting is if we make…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 11:02 PM
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I think essentially avoiding the LTR is the way to go, but it depends on how you do it. Women have created social norms ( something they are very good at) that aid them in hamstering away any social contract they make once they get what the need from it. Use this against them. Essentially you dangle the carrot, which represents what they want, which is usually the establishment of an LTR . if she is is in her prime SMV stage of life, she will be less inclined to actually want the committed relat…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 04:40 AM
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Just pondering how the world would be a completely different place if everyone in it was able to read and understand this post. Edit - maybe comprehend is a better word. I have no issue with the way it's written. I am saying read it as in everyone had access to it and knowledge it existed and that they didn't just hamster the harsh truths away.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 03:59 AM
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Agree agree agree It still baffles me why women even want to play with men anyway? They just want the label of " look we are just as good as the boys , girl power" even though the competitions have to be changed and regulations introduced to make things fair ( depends on the sport ). You really see the female hamster working when you meet the girls that think women are physically as capable as men. As an ex personal trainer I can confirm, they aren't even close. Men are on average two to three t…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 03:46 AM
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Point of this post? Girl seems innocent to blue pill you, you fail some shit tests, girl continues to live her life on the cock carousel. Your point? This isn't news. Never assume a new girl or a plate isn't getting pumped elsewhere. Why would you even care?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 01:41 PM
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Can't make friends because you aren't white??? I stopped reading after this
/r/askTRP04/09/16 11:07 PM
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Arms are covered in fat. They get smaller when you get lean. It's still worth it though. If you get to 8% body fat and think your too thin ( muscle wise) then your focus shifts to lean gains. Don't go into full on "gainer " mode. Picture cartman from South Park
/r/askTRP04/09/16 11:05 PM
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I like the part regarding inventing religion for some comfort for being low SMV. Are you saying men are valued for what they can offer in a material sense? As in wealth ? The tone of your post seems to be suggesting all women are fast approaching the wall and need beta bucks. What about the 21 year olds on the CC? Chad doesn't need to offer anything. Or did I misinterpret ?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 10:51 PM
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Why would you care what your family likes? It's your life. I envy your position. Just starting Uni at a young age and already red pilled. You sound like you are on track. Just go out and try, make some mistakes. Learn. Try again
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 03:09 AM
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People hate hard truths.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 10:01 AM
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I'm 6"2'. 28 yo .White. Athletic. And I make well over 100k. When I got really lean and looked my absolute best I had some moderate success with women. But other than that was useless. Learnt to hold frame and understand them from a RP mindset and now I crush . Attitude matters
/r/askTRP01/09/16 09:51 AM
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Do you actually hang out with any other girls? Go on some "dates". Don't fuck them though. Text messages from other girls are a dime a dozen. Actually going to have drinks withone or whatever is more real. Then just be vague when she asks. Don't ask for better sex. Just get her in a real "tingles mood" via dread, and then do what you want . Ignore what she says always.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 09:48 AM
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She wants to fuck? Well then the only question is if you want to fuck her? She only wants you now that you look good? So what? That's fair enough, you would only want her if she looked good. If you want an LTR then maybe not. She is just CC riding. Just have fun and be part of the ride.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 09:15 AM
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Well if you have plated her previously and she initiated I would say go for broke. Act attractive? Act like you don't care about outcome
/r/askTRP01/09/16 09:10 AM
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Introversion doesn't always mean you want to be alone. It means you gain energy when you aren't In a large crowd. You like Chilling on your own or in a small group where you know everyone and you can have conversations that don't get buried in noise and fluff talk. Extroverts are people who look for "atmosphere". They are the people that say a place is shit because it's not packed shoulder to shoulder with people. The specifics of conversations matter less, it's more about being there and The ex…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:54 AM
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Hahahaha
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:45 AM
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So...... Google?
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:42 AM
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Feelz over Realz . Don't bother. Why would you care anyway. I think the most "alpha" way to deal with difference of opinion is to express your own but show no desire for anyone else to believe it, as you don't care if they agree or disagree . People try to convince others of their beliefs to make themselves feel better about believing their own beliefs. So if you are truly " the man" you don't try convince people at all. As you are happy with yours
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 02:20 AM
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I think there is a slight advantage for them in companies that want men who are locked down. The family man that can't leave of his own free will I guess. But then again being single and free might be more attractive to employers looking for people to travel. In the end it makes no difference. The money he makes will no longer be his anyway I would say most married people are happy. For about a year . The cost of this 1 year of happiness is 3 years of unhappiness and half your shit
/r/askTRP31/08/16 09:46 PM
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Pressure flip
/r/askTRP31/08/16 04:56 AM
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This post does not belong here.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 04:54 AM
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Lifting is good. New job is good. But the biggest change you need to make is that you need to learn that most of what she does is a test and you can either alpha up and handle her or you can just agree all the time, and watch your lazy wife /dead bedroom get worse
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 03:35 AM
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You're a girl, you wake up next to Chad, hungover as fuck. Everyone at the party saw you leave with him. The biggest fear you have in the whole world is society thinking you are a slut that would do that. But at least Chad might be in love with you so maybe it won't be that bad. Oh wait, Chad isn't even keen? He went about his business like nothing really happened? Like this wasn't a defining moment in his life? What an asshole. You think of the slut shaming that is about to rain down on you ( e…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 11:46 PM
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I really hope you are super young because this post is embarrassing . Have you read the sidebar? Do you know what red pill is??? Sounds like a few PUA lines here and there, with a lot of oneitis and friend zone in between
/r/askTRP30/08/16 10:49 PM
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Yes there is a hint of betatude in paying for girls meals, but you have to play it by ear. If she broke as fuck and you're doing pretty well, then it's easier just to pay and not make an issue of it. Each situation is different. My girl is 18 and is about as broke as they come. I'm 28 and make an easy 6 figures. I pay for meals and lingerie.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 10:45 PM
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Well all I'll say is that this sub has helped me become a real person, who doesn't get taken advantage of any more. Who calls out bullshit when he sees it. The information In this sub perfectly explains every relationship I've had with women. From one night stands to 4 year relationships. There are some hard truths. If you disagree with them then that's your choice. All the best with your relationship
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 08:27 AM
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Would like to hear about your history with women. Please educate us
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 07:30 AM
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In a general sense this is a red flag where you promptly advise her to go fuck a cactus. However, I guess In this case it is more of a " ok we have been married for X years and seriously it's time for the baby thing" and this is how I will get it out of you, by withholding sex. Which to me sounds like a red flag too. I have no advice here other than tread carefully. If you have dead bedroom now it will get worse after a baby.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:27 AM
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This is pretty common amongst plates. One thing I do is I say that like women have their rules, such as no sex on first date etc, I have my own rule, which is that I never "girlfriend" a girl unless it has been at least 3 months. She may accept this, she may complain. But if you hold frame and be firm you be fine. This is easy for me to say because it is actually the truth too, not something I make up just to shut her up. Remember that you not wanting to commit to her is part of the reason she w…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 03:43 AM
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Good to hear !!
/r/askTRP30/08/16 03:31 AM
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That's a nice DL. I dunno about you but i look like shit at 17% bf.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 03:10 AM
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Well get some SMV. Lift?
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:41 AM
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Horny yes. But horny for you? Play some dread game. Flirt with some other girls around her.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:09 AM
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This is what I mean. I'm a big "treat people as they deserve to be treated" kind of guy. This would make me think she deserved worse than for me to calmly walk away a forget her. But even though she has wronged me, she still holds the power and I have to swallow my pride an accept betatude. The social norms woman create to their own advantage is really impressive. I wish as men we were this cunning
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:18 AM
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You're on the left hand side of the SMV curve. This keeps your success relatively low at the moment, especially with the high school popularity contest you are a part of. Do what you can for now, accept that it gets much better as you climb that curve. Keep working at it and as you have such an early start and you are already lifting and getting RP knowledge, you will SLAY.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 11:55 PM
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I don't get what the issue is. My 18yo plate calls me daddy ( I'm 28). Embrace it . Just refer to yourself as daddy and her as brat/ daddy's girl. This is a clear sign that she loves me dominated. So dominate. Easy. Choke, pull hair, Spank, call her daddy's little slut. Throw her around. Whenever she does/says something wrong just say yeah daddy gonna punish you for that. She will also love attention in anyway more so than the average girl. Dread game and ignoring her texts works wonders when sh…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 11:08 PM
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This one is over. Not the guys fault, he sounds more Chad-esk than you and now he has the upper hand, in every way. i would start lifting and eating for bulk (a lot) , getting my sidebar on. Talking to other girls. Essentially become a more desirable man and head in the direction of finding some plates. Treat her with 0 respect from now on, get a few more fucks from her while its dying down.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 10:59 PM
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Hard next . Shouldn't have said sorry because like you said, it's a way of "admitting guilt" that she will use to hamster you into the bad guy instead of realising she is a stupid bitch. Should not have opened the door. Doesn't matter if you knew one of the guys. Similar thing happened to me, and I knew all 3 of them, doesn't matter. If they are " sort of friends" it counts for nothing when they are in white knight mode.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 09:56 PM
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Yeah. There are definitely parts to this idea that have merit. All pros and cons I guess.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 09:36 PM
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An accurate summary I suppose the OPs question is reasonable for some. For example I remember when I was 17 ( and a fat loser), I heard a girl say, omg that guy has really nice arms!. I didn't understand what she meant. How can arms be nice? The forearm or the upper arm? What makes them nice? The colour? I was Baffled. All I knew as a video game playing blob was that fat people get teased for some reason, and skinny people don't. Never realised that it was essentially physical attractiveness. An…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 09:07 AM
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no jacking off from 48 hours before sex. And never drink alcohol before. It's all In Your head and being worried about it is making it worse. I've had some issues like this in the past, maybe not to this extent though. I found what helped me was "getting my alpha on". For example i went from " two people having sex" to " me destroying/dominating this girl and doing whatever I want/ being the boss". Keep at it, eventually you will find a girl you are comfortable with, who will stick around. I wou…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 08:34 AM
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She is losing/ has lost attraction for you. To what degree exactly is hard to say. She will most likely fuck a dude in Vegas. If she doesn't, it doesn't matter, she still wants to, eventually the end will come unless you alpha up. You can't exactly soft next a girl you are Living with, but that would be ideal. You need to alpha up in some way. Display pre selection, dread game, willingness to walk away. Anything RP basically. If you haven't read the side bar and digested all of it, I would start…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 08:15 AM
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Every time I am about to do something that is potentially questionable. I stop and ask myself - in 1 month time I'm going to look back at This decision, will I be glad I made it? It's all about choosing the future over instant gratification. Me in the past: Oh it's Saturday night and I have no plans. I guess I'll get KFC for dinner, go drink 20 beers and spend $500+ at the strip club. Then have maccas for breakfast and watch some porn. I did this every weekend for a few months. Needless to say I…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 08:03 AM
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I agree that they aren't meant to be taken seriously, And are essentially a plaything for you to enjoy if you are alpha. But I Think the hard part, or the cynicism, comes from the fact that we know they are essentially children, and are manipulative and will do/say whatever they want with no regard for loyalty or doing something "right". They will chew you up and spit you out if can't handle them like an alpha. We know these things. We wouldn't care, it wouldn't bother us at all - if not for the…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 06:44 AM
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An interesting situation. But Yes, when she goes west it is just a matter of time before she adapts and fucks you over. I suppose if you had a red pill marriage there is a chance? Hard to say. But in general I think you might be hamstering away your values a little, because this attractive girl just fell in your lap you are thinking of changing everything. If you had fucked a bunch of 8s and 9s in the last 6 months, I doubt you would even be considering this..... So in essence, is it sort of jus…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:58 AM
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What the actual fuck. Surely those three lines are enough to have this posted deleted.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:48 AM
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"You're really good looking, but I'm not going to fuck you" is generally a test of frame, combined with some ASD. I'm not saying it had nothing to do with your "friend" but it doesn't sound like a conclusive "he ruined everything" type of thing. She is a woman, therefore her pre-hookup words are often meaningless.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 03:01 AM
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Don't buy her anything. Sounds counterintuitive to the man who is yet to swallow the pill. But that's basically a huge "pull". Giving your value away. Not attractive
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:28 AM
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I enjoy the statistics that indicate female preference where they go and ask women what they like . Like their words have meaning. Do you like rich men that don't give away commitment easily?? "Well money doesn't matter to me and a guy who is afraid of commitment is really unattractive and needs to grow up" Magazine headlines the next day: " science proves that money doesn't matter and an eager willingness to commit is the best way to succeed in your love life"
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 06:42 AM
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Understand that the girls your age are currently getting fucked by guys over 25. I'm 28 and I'm fucking two 18 year olds. Sorry for my terrible humble brag but your just starting to climb that Smv curve. Keep approaching, build muscle, use dread and preselection whenever you can. You will be a weapon when you're older. Good times to come for you. That isnt to say that you can't have success now, you will. But it's a bit harder. Keep at it.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 06:10 AM
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This guy was not alpha. He was beta. "Took her back every time?!?!" Beta. I don't care if he was physically big and strong and athletic. He was beta. I'm tall, built, lean, always the best at every sport. Attractive to the girls. Yet I used to be the quintessential Beta. A big guy like that would normally be alpha, but not when raised in today's environment
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:56 AM
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Perfect AWALT example.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:51 AM
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He sounds like a petty, low value dick. If he wasn't in your social circle I would just say forget he even exists. I would go with option 1. And stick with it. If it gets out of hand, and there is a risk of a split in your social circle, I would go with option 3. But in a very calm manner. Ask to speak to him, say hey man, let's make sure we are on the same page. Blah blah. Remember at least he is a male. You do have some small chance of succeeding with logical arguments.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:36 AM
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Hey lets go give everyone money and maybe they will like us. The amount of thought and effort that went into that post could have been used literally on anything else. Going to such lengths to establish value is in itself a low value action. Just go out and bring a girl with you, bam.... preselection.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 04:13 AM
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I'm doing it soon. My friend has done it - he is a big lean mother fucker and he already looks good. With those professional photos it's crazy. I stole his phone and started swiping right. My god.....so many matches, so many babes, so many babes initiating contact, so little game required in terms of what you actually need to say. I now understand what it's like to be a hot girl on tinder, and I no longer feel angry if they don't reply. It's a jungle of incoming messages, only the standouts can …
/r/askTRP25/08/16 01:12 AM
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It depends on your game also. If you do this then you will get more tinder dates and of better quality. Fact. However it doesn't make you better looking IRL and it does nothing for your game/ behaviour. So it depends what you are trying to achieve. If you generally have successful tinder dates and your photos are just holding you back in terms of getting those dates in the first place, and you can afford it, then go nuts.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 12:01 AM
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It's class, you be fine. Obviously acknowledge that you may need to run damage control at some point to make life a little easier. But like mentioned previously it isn't work or living situation so not major.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 11:55 PM
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How would you be getting played exactly? If you took her virginity then you were attractive to her, and you leaving ( assuming you didn't beta up) makes your more attractive. She will be gaining some serious "feelz" toward you and she wants more. You have a good opportunity to get some more action, if you're willing to deal with her crying for a bit when you leave.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 12:19 PM
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When you walk away with without a second thought, she simultaneously sees you as an ass, yet a non needy attractive man with options, raising your value. So there is a bit of anger, but also an attempt to get attention/validation from you ( drama time) , which sometimes if handled right, you can use to keep sleeping with her as you feel like. When you don't walk away like that, and you do the "please don't leave me dance" you lose so much value that she is now disgusted by you (beta eww) and can…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:37 AM
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Your are listening to her words too much. Only pay attention to her actions. In this case her actions are her persistent requests to want to meet up. This means she is keen. You saying no has made her even more keen, she now sees you as alpha material. Meet her, escalate and fuck her. She will say all kinds of things to try and justify what she is doing/ why she shouldn't be doing it, You just agree playfully and/or ignore, while continuing to escalate. Her huge amount of ASD is her business, th…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:28 AM
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Red flags are real. The male version of the hamster is ignoring red flags.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 02:37 AM
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This Like you said, she usually loves to do what you tell her. Because she gets off on being submissive to alpha. She was essentially playing along so you could assert yourself more, she was helping you. And you did an impersonation of a lawn chair. Or a cheap suit I guess?
/r/askTRP23/08/16 11:39 PM
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You say he now has insane trust issues with women. Likes its a bad thing. Don't ever trust them and dont ever bet them half of your shit that you will be together forever
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 05:10 AM
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Dude you're worrying about nothing. She hasn't even hinted at false rape claims? Chill out you be fine. Also - what were you thinking asking a HB6 on tinder over for sex??? You should know in advance she is going to be 2 points lower.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 04:29 AM
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I stand corrected
/r/askTRP22/08/16 09:39 PM
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Swallowing the red pill
/r/askTRP22/08/16 10:10 AM
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Comfort test I suppose. She wanted to confirm that you had been thinking about kissing her for a while. Aka trying to see if she is your world. I think you did ok. But by bringing up up again it shows she might be more insecure than average.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 10:05 AM
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As long as you aren't the one to bring it up. If she says it then what I usually do is say that commitment is the most valuable possession I can give to a girl, and as such I will not give it to anyone whom haven't been seeing for X months . Make up your own number to replace X
/r/askTRP22/08/16 09:30 AM
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All men who want to improve are welcome. I've read just about every post on RP in the last few months and I can't recall anything against blacks being said. I have read terms like " beta bitch being cucked by black dude" But this is more of a compliment.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 08:13 AM
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If you want out, get out. Do not think about feeling like a dick. You aren't . If she wanted out she would drop you Instantly and not look back. She is not that attracted to you either. You aren't Chad. This will only get worse. She will either get fatter and try guilt you into staying or she will get fit and then drop you like you're nothing.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 08:08 AM
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She is currently fucking and chasing this guy, because he is Chad. But because he is Chad she cannot have him. You "trying to organise exclusive", with a girl you hadn't fucked yet, who is fucking Chad, is the most beta thing that has ever happened ever. First option ( possibly best option) is just hard next. Second option is to soft next, see what happens, play some dread game, show some willingness to walk away and that you don't care, demonstrate some pre selection . Show value . Become more …
/r/askTRP22/08/16 08:03 AM
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Why would you not already be attempting to spin a plate or two? If you have gotten your shit together then you should always be pursuing options in some way. Are you in monk mode? Don't wait until you are " the perfect man" before you start pursuing women, because there is a lot of game to be learnt. You will make mistakes, get them out of the way now
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 04:58 AM
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I have this exact same issue. she is a HB8 and 10 years younger than me, best sex I ever had. She requires constant reassurance to the level of absurdity. The only way to have any normal interaction is to give her the validation she wants so that she can be restored to a neutral state. In her eyes she is always the victim of anything that ever happened at any time. Ever. Instead of push pull, I have to pull pull pull pull push. Otherwise she will spend the whole time having a cry. Most definitel…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 02:46 AM
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Just do what you want. I may go get food with some , others not at all. May go out somewhere fun with some, maybe not. As long as you are doing what you want to do then it doesn't matter. Sprinkles of blue pill at times keeps them around longer. Remember that in the rare instances Chad gives her validation, it actually means something to her. Unlike mr betas validation and attention that she essentially has an unlimited supply of. In terms of downgrading - I have never done this. But I guess you…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 07:35 AM
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Ignore. Change subject. Hold frame. Her opinions about social justice/morality are as relevant as a child's opinion. I could just about guarantee that when you argue, your logical arguments are correct and hers are just feels, but you can't argue logic with a woman. Just change the subject or ignore. If you are going to correct her wrong assumptions with "the hard truths" then you need to water them down a tad and hold frame . Do not make an argument of it. Never argue. Men do not argue with chi…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 07:21 AM
2

I suppose it depends on the reason that you're drinking. I drank in the past because I wanted to be at least tipsy in social interactions ( social lubricant) because I was so beta bitch self conscious. Very introverted, I think also a lot of the time I used to drink when in groups because I didn't want to have someone ask the question " why aren't you drinking" , like wtf, I changed my actions because I didn't want someone to ask a me question? There is also boredom drinking. But over the last f…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 11:43 PM
2

When you said testing out RP as a hobby I thought you were going to say you transformed your marriage with it, and that now your wire is super happy she locked down a Chad and you have gone from not much sex to sexual bliss. Instead you used a neg, a few times. Not saying that's bad, talking to other girls is always good. You just got my hopes up...
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 10:22 PM
2

So if you have been with her for 8 years, has your SMV fallen in her eyes? Lifting? Body fat %? Dominance? She should believe that at any point in time if she behaves badly you have the ability to walk out the door and go to another girl. Or girls.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 11:28 PM
1

Not in the case presented here. This was alpha guy teasing bishes and them getting tingles.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 11:23 PM
1

I suppose one of the messages is : if you are BP conditioned, and you get married, then you will at some point be unhappy for various reasons ( broke, dead bedroom, a slave?, you put yourself in a legal position of weakness, cheating). If you have the red pill mentality and truly embrace the alpha, abundance mentality, IDGAF mindset, then basically you can do what you want. RP does not recommend it but if you found what you think is as close to a unicorn as you can get, then at least you have th…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 10:49 PM
1

Hard to say with only that brief example but I think I get the picture. Being disrespected at work is always tough. What you do depends on your environment. At least it is a man, if it wasn't it would be worse. The women in my workplace essentially have free reign over whatever they want, hiring quotas, promotions, they get their hands held for everything because most ( not all) suck at their job. If you question or do anything that their feelz don't agree with, you are sexist and they play the …
/r/askTRP17/08/16 09:50 PM
8

Do not "tell her your feelings". Just show with actions . Flirt. Touch. Escalate. If you do not, you will get placed in the beta bucket and you are done.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 07:26 AM
4

Thought the exact same things when reading models. Not sure what to make of it
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 07:20 AM
1

It really depends if she got the impression that you didn't have the balls to go for the kiss, or if you just didn't care. Either way it doesn't matter. Your move from here is still have tight phone game, get the next date, and proceed
/r/askTRP17/08/16 06:49 AM
28

Dominate in bedroom. Pull hair. Choke her. Spank her. Dirty talk. Throw her around. Just be an animal and be in the moment The biggest difference is realising when you are being tested. Ignore her crazy brattyness with amused mastery. Demonstrate a willingness to walk away. Hold frame Make it so you are the prize. Withdraw your attention when she acts up. Ask her to leave jokingly when she says something against something you enjoy. Simple example: Me in the morning: acts more excited about the …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 06:33 AM
1

This
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:50 AM
1

Tinder mainly. Some social circle too. Tinder is a gold mine. Low effort and decent reward if you have the looks and know how to handle your shit. It's actually a bit of a problem because now it's so easy that I have less motivation for cold approaches.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:43 AM
4

If your go to thought is to have the guy arrested then you're just being an angry beta. If you are beta, then that explains her behaviour. So really it's your own Doing. Learn from it. Learn to handle bitches.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:38 AM
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I agree that the girls are hard to keep around if you act BP. I slept with 6 girls from tinder from about 12 meet ups In a 6 month period . the first 5 only stuck around for between 1-3 weeks. Then I found red pill, so I treated the 6th one in a red pill fashion. She is the hottest one of them all (HB8) and is still gagging on my dick 13 weeks later. Go figure.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 02:01 AM
3

Useful I do like the mention of balance. I have a plate now that has been responding so eagerly to any alpha behaviour I exhibit, that I kind of went too far with it and I think I eventually came across as entirely unattainable ( dread, ignoring, her finding out about other plates, me not giving a fuck).3 months in and I could feel her losing interest. I'm currently sprinkling a few blue pill nuggets into her cereal to compensate, and she is gobbling them up, and everything has returned to norma…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 11:45 PM
10

Was probably an insightful post. But I couldn't muster the effort to battle that text wall, so I will never know
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 01:37 AM
5

Own it . Make women come into your strong frame and hold them there. If your frame is that you own it, then it won't change a fucking thing. Don't bring it up if you want, or call it your "pimp limp". Either way, if you act like "the man" then it won't matter. I know a guy with 1 eye. My N count is 40+ and I can safely say that this guy is twice as good with girls as I am. I've seen him with HB9s that are obsessed with him. A man who is "different" and sitting in the corner feeing sorry for hims…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 12:14 AM
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Boy is this gonna get down voted ...... Stop believing in things that aren't real. Religion is a giant hamster wheel. I too used to be religious. Then I turned 9. Stop talking about how RP it all is. It isn't . True Red Pill men do not believe the fairy tales they have been taught their whole lives. Stop wasting your life. Go out and do whatever the hell you want . Find a girl. Find 100 girls. Whatever you feel like. Part of swallowing the pill is realising that what your parents taught you grow…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 10:41 PM
5

Even if he is, you aren't being tricked, in fact a man "waking up and getting some game" is usually less manipulative that the "buying a girl flowers" on a date. The latter is terrible, it isn't him being himself, it is him being who he thinks he needs to be in order to win a girl over, and is therefore manipulative behaviour. So you ignored this guy for 3 years and now because he doesn't Insta reply you every time he is acting out somehow? There is no such thing as genuine friends with the ex. …
/r/seduction15/08/16 05:21 AM
1

Why would your attraction fade? Are we talking about over many years or something? So confused. In general good ways to show this is to soft next her when she acts in an unacceptable way. And to have other plates, she should assume you are fucking other girls, but don't confirm that feeling for her. If she asks then say it's " none of her business"
/r/askTRP15/08/16 02:02 AM
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Just a form of anti slut defence. She just doesn't want to be perceived as DTF by you or anyone that might find out, her hamster needs some ammo so she says shit like that. Girl I dated last week ( second date) told me she is getting an uber to mine and not driving so that she can get home, and will not be "ending up back at my place" . Throughout the date there's multiple things she says, " we are not having sex tonight, nor are we ever having sex" then time to leave and she starts pretending t…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:56 AM
2

I feel like I think that I believe you spelt "summary" incorrectly. Joking aside. - solid post. I try to talk in a more direct manner now days (now that I have swallowed that sweet red deliciousness), especially with women. I slip up from time to time but I'm making progress.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 05:47 AM
15

That poor bastard just lost half his shit and his happiness will go too in a few years time. Get him into married red pill. Unlikely that he will swallow it but you can always try.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 03:29 AM
18

Serious? If Chad's looks are mainly what you think of when you think of Chad, then you don't know Chad. Yes he looks good, but that's not what makes him Chad.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 02:16 AM
2

Warlock! Shit that was an awesome 87 minutes. Well done and I thank you. Stuff like this saves lives. It would be hard to say these things with conviction, knowing who could hear it and knowing that a lot of people won't like it. Respect
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 02:05 AM
1

Just remember that's it's normal to feel like she's more special than she actually is when you are new at this. Fuck 50 more hotties and you won't even remember her name. Read more RP
/r/askTRP03/08/16 08:19 AM
12

Flakey. Time limited. Manipulative. It's complicated..... Wtf? Swallow TRP already. AWALT. The analysis in the post seems be from a guy who has had intermittent dating successes, and is analysing the failures using the girls words. Which of course bare no relevance to their actual behaviour. All these issues/behaviours come from lack of Alpha. Use dread, pre selection. Be attractive. Don't be unattractive
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 06:23 AM
2

Thinking of waiting two years ? I think I'm going to throw up. She may not have known your intentions at first. Or she may not have wanted to do the awkward rejection in person. She may have been turned off by your bad text game. Doesn't matter, the solution is simple. Next. Read sidebar. Internalise side bar. Meet new bitches
/r/askTRP20/07/16 09:47 PM
2

Fuck her and plate her. You seem to be oneitis-ish .
/r/askTRP20/07/16 09:37 PM
6

A good observation - face book has shown us that there really is nothing interesting going on in their minds at all. Their solipsism becomes more apparent.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 03:55 AM
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Ghost. No closure. She probably fucked one of them btw.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:40 AM
3

Wow. Just wow. You are essentially breaking the rules of this place by asking these questions. Dude read the side bar. Call her a plate all you want - you have oneitis She has acted in a textbook fashion. In response to YOUR beta-ness. This girl is gone. She is just gone, forget about her. Educate yourself with TRP sidebar material, and you will see it clearly. I will give you a hint. - it started when you got mad at her for essentially being normal. This is when you boarded the train to Betatow…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:34 AM
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He is trying to get her with beta provider game. He will lose. Encourage her to go. Treat it with a " why would I care" attitude. Use this as an opportunity to display alpha frame. Be busy, and active with other girls. Don't ask about him, remember - you don't care. You are so unthreatened by him that it doesn't cross your mind
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:22 AM
1

Get it over with and Move on. Rejecting another person rarely feels good, but hot girls do it every day, alphas do it all the time, usually covertly, as in they act a certain way, and the other person gets the hint ( ghosting is one example). But now you need to just do it straight up. It actually is better for the other person to be overt about it. Just harder for you. Stop being selfish Best thing for her, and you, if you look past the short term non-good feels
/r/askTRP18/07/16 09:51 PM
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+1. I agree. I got money, and I most certainly do not live below my means. Wealth is an attraction switch, use it. just manage your frame and be smart about it. Don't let her manipulate you. Be a man
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 03:08 AM
1

I'm 28, just started seeing an 18 year old girl. I have found that she is a text maniac compared to other girls I'm seeing ( 24 to 28) I am usually reasonably radio silent with my other plates, but I admit I use the instant text replies to my advantage with her, I text her wayyyyy more than I would any other girl. Rules still apply though. If I just kept replying all day just because she was replying instantly, then the conversation would stall and attraction would suffer. It would also look lik…
/r/seduction24/06/16 06:32 AM
1

No you should not buy her a meal after a bj. Need more info on the first girl if you want advice. The response to the second girl after texting you like that should be this: Home button Swipe to contacts Find girls name Edit Delete contact Learn from it and forget she existed In general I would say don't go out with a feminist. But that's me I guess. If you believe you are with a girl who is towards the "feminist" end of the scale, then I would delay the kino a little, and escalate a little slow…
/r/seduction24/06/16 05:28 AM
4

I used to be a personal trainer, 6'2", built, ripped. I had 0 game and not a big social circle but my life was still full of girls. I would walk past girls and they would stop talking to their friend as they walk past and look at me bottom to top until they made make eye contact, then look away shyly, while brushing aside the hair from their neck ( it's hard to explain it right but this is the classic "omg hot guy" reaction ). I would also get approached by girls semi regularly. While in set I j…
/r/seduction24/06/16 04:56 AM
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I think it's a common problem in the world today with men and women. Photoshop, make up, selfies from the perfect angle, porn. It distorts our perception of beauty. On the other hand I have had this a little bit but not to the degree that you are describing. Back when I started out I was lucky enough to have a HB9 and a HB 8 plate. After a while the 9 left because to be honest I was just lucky and had no game, and shortly after the 8 was gone too for the same reason, I was a guy wandering around…
/r/seduction24/06/16 04:38 AM
2

The asking to talk to a strangers friend on her phone while walking with her is a good example of the shit you can get away with if you do it in the right way. Confidence + playfulness = winning
/r/seduction10/06/16 05:53 AM
1

It's a bit of a mixed bag in my experience. I've been asked out a few times. Some hot, some not. The more average looking girls do it I suppose as sort of a Hail Mary, and sometimes they just like to make it painfully obvious , they just want you to officially say the words so they get to keep their " plausible" deniability if you don't want them. but a few will just ask in a round about way. The hot girls on the other hand dont usually ask guys out in general, but in rare cases if you have show…
/r/seduction10/06/16 05:46 AM
1

Just that as a man you are meant to be " bringing her into your exciting world", not just following her into her world, which is very beta. Also if you aren't in control of the conversation, and she brings up boring topics that go nowhere and provide no emotional stimulation at all, and you continue to talk about them just because she brought it up and you have nothing else to say, then you will be on the chopping block for being a boring date, even though it was her thread. The single most usef…
/r/seduction09/06/16 10:56 PM
0

Led*
/r/seduction07/06/16 10:10 AM
1

Say " you talk a lot hey", and tease her about it playfully . Then later on be like " you're doing it again", works as a bit of a neg, which can be beneficial if done right, and will also get her talking less. You're the man and need to lead the conversation to a degree, if she just talks at you the whole time then you have a shit time and she gains no attraction either because you haven't lead
/r/seduction07/06/16 10:09 AM
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I now feel stupider having read this
/r/seduction07/06/16 10:02 AM
2

Say nothing. No reason to rock the boat. No big deal though , you will look back at this in a year or two and have a laugh at it
/r/seduction06/06/16 01:40 AM
4

When You get her home and she says you're too smooth or I bet you do this with all the girls etc, then just agree and amplify. If she persists with some LMR then freeze out change subject like it doesn't phase you and come back to it later. If it's clear that it's not happening then don't burn the bridge down. Tell her that your glad she doesn't want to do it on the first date, tell her you respect her for it and try again in the next date
/r/seduction05/06/16 11:08 PM
1

Success - achieving the goal ( getting laid), girls opening me, girls chasing me etc Life experience - work life - give a presentation to a GM or president of a company that can determine you career success and you will be more than happy to walk over to some tipsy 21 year olds. Gym!!!! Clothing Mind set
/r/seduction01/06/16 11:27 PM
1

Not enough information to determine
/r/seduction01/06/16 03:55 AM
1

Don't be afraid to say or do something that isn't perfect . A lot of guys that have trouble with not giving a shit are smart people Who think a lot about there actions before they do them. In many areas of life this is beneficial, however when socialising, this is not always the case. When talking to people and developing rapport with them, stating what you believe to be true can be more important than actually having the right answer . It shows that you aren't an agreeable yes man
/r/seduction01/06/16 01:33 AM
2

While meeting girls in person is ideal. I don't think "resorting to tinder " is a terrible thing. It's very common and generally accepted these days. I used to use it a lot when I was newly single. It helped me get very good at first dates and recognising patterns In Girls behaviour. I also got a lot of sex from some attractive girls. Killing elk in the Forrest doesn't give you much exp. but when you are level 1 it doesn't take much exp to level up.
/r/seduction31/05/16 11:47 PM
4

Well while you wait you should be making dates with other women. But in general Try and calibrate your contact based on how memorable you think you are to her, and how much non neediness you should be conveying. Maybe every third day ? An example I use is if we played pool on our first date would be " have you recovered from that embarrassing pool defeat yet? "Anything that isn't " hey I just wanted to say I had a really good time with you the other night and I hope I can see you again soon" is …
/r/seduction31/05/16 11:39 PM
3

If it's clear that she is very keen and just sort of waiting awkwardly for you to make a move, then just make a move. If the situation is kind of awkward because you aren't really isolated enough to do that, then five words are all you need, take her hand and say " let's go for a walk"
/r/seduction31/05/16 11:32 PM
1

Status doesn't necessarily get girls, the girls perception of your status does. Which is why not giving a fuck is a great thing, as it portrays abundance and non needyness. I know actual high status guys who can't get girls and I know guys with nothing/ no circle that gets girls all the time. It's all about selling it right.
/r/seduction30/05/16 06:08 AM
1

Well done. Having small successes even though you were a little clumsy at times is good motivation and it is what you need to keep you going in the early stages of developing your game. A few tips to consider. Essentially Saying " remember how we kissed before, can we do that some more?" is a low value thing to say. Remember, you don't need her approval to kiss her, you're a man, you do it when you want to, and you "just know" she will enjoy it because you do it in an appropriate place and after…
/r/seduction30/05/16 06:02 AM
2

Good text game. I like. Yes. Should have kissed her, probably should have slept with her. You have known her for that long and have at least made out in the past, very easy to move forward from there. The flakeyness in the past matters for naught. She probably was seeing someone, or any of 1000 other reasons. Remember if you start clicking and things are going well In the moment, then that's all that matters. They are emotional creatures, what is right in front of them IN THE MOMENT flicking the…
/r/seduction27/05/16 02:25 AM
1

Decent intro and conversation??????? Dude Introducing yourself and getting her name I suppose isn't the worst thing in the world , it's not exactly PUA but at least you approached, well done. But I would like to know to what conversation you are referring to? Because I don't think that counts. There are some techniques that can involve getting a number very fast but they will flake anyway. If you're just starting out then you should be doing the basics! Have an opener and a few things to stack f…
/r/seduction24/05/16 12:22 AM
2

First identify If you are actually in the friend zone, remember some guys think they have been placed in the friend zone because she said can we just be friends, but then she NEVER initiates any conversation and doesn't actively want to hang out anyway. This was just straight up rejection. Most of the time girls make up a little lie when they reject and hope you get the hint, the "lets be friends "can be one of them If you are in the friend zone ask yourself why you are there? Does she have a bf…
/r/seduction19/05/16 07:47 AM
1

Responding to their question with a super random taco statement is gold! Girls do it all the time as a shit test to see if you will ask them again, giving them good feels and lowering your value if you buy into it. Follow up this comment with " did you know that taco cat spelt backwards is taco cat?"
/r/seduction19/05/16 06:46 AM
3

Men are easy. Be the best physical version of yourself ( as hot as possible) and be a nympho that doesn't doesn't get jealous and bitch about stupid shit. Simples
/r/seduction19/05/16 06:34 AM
1

Could you elaborate on "green light"?
/r/seduction19/05/16 06:31 AM
1

Learn proper kino escalation and by the time you want to kiss her it's easy and natural and not even a thing anymore .
/r/seduction19/05/16 06:29 AM
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If the first date is at night time, then you should be going for a short kiss or you should be getting laid , preferably nothing in between, obviously you can't always control how far it goes but if it gets hot and heavy without the sex then she will have a high flake chance for the next time round, as in her mind she is then not saying yes to a date, but yes to having sex with you Day time dates keep them short and fun and work some kino but only kiss if you are sure and it's a semi private pla…
/r/seduction19/05/16 05:23 AM
2

The ebook "magnetic messaging" helped me out a lot as txt was also a big hurdle for me, it seemed to be that When i was actually with a girl everything was easy and she would always have that " I'm so into you" look in her eye and you could tell by the way she acted and responded ( and the things she would be keen to do ;) ) but I felt like as soon as we were apart, any text message I sent was the equivalent of pushing a big delete button, where she forgets everything she liked about me. It has …
/r/seduction17/05/16 06:46 AM
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