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Growing a beard has been the best result for least effort. Probably because when I was married my wife hated facial hair so I never had one, then I let it grow out and got it trimmed by a barber and now everybody loves it. Wash it, condition it, and keep it brushed and tidy.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 08:40 PM
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No, I am similar. Well, I was similar when I was younger. I lost my virginity to a woman nearly 20 years older than me, and since then I have dated more older women than younger women, always having a preference for women at least a decade older. Now I am in my 40s I am right in the middle of it - I see attractive women in their 50s and I see attractive women in their 20s. Win/win.
/r/seduction17/01/20 03:45 PM
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If you can't feel anything (in your dick) while you are shagging her, don't worry - just carry on, have fun, make sure she has fun. First time I did it I was expecting to shoot my load in minutes like I was told, but the opposite happened and I couldn't cum, I just couldn't feel anything. I kept hard though, and we ended up playing all night, so it wasn't all bad!
/r/askTRP17/01/20 02:16 PM
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Women hitting their sexual peak in their 30s is basically politically correct shorthand for saying 'I got fucked by so many chads through my teens and 20s that there isn't anything I haven't done already and just want a beta to treat me like a lady, and don't mind taking it up the ass once in a while to make it happen.' In a nutshell, they have hit the wall and have nothing new to learn, only a library of experience to lure betas into an LTR
/r/askTRP19/08/18 03:34 PM
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Yep, night game in UK infields is sorely lacking, but tbh day game in UK cities outside of London I think is a very different skill to what we usually see from PUAs
/r/seduction06/08/18 05:51 PM
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I have been thinking for a while something similar to this. The 'tourist' thing (either the piano or the girl is a tourist) and big cities (in the UK it is always London, in the US it is almost always LA or NY). I would love to see more 'smaller' cities with local girls in videos of infields. Send a PUA to Leeds, Newcastle, Bristol... not everyone lives in London!
/r/seduction06/08/18 04:54 PM
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Leg press to work on your legs. Do this whilst doing core strengthening exercises, lots of this can be done with bodyweight. Then get a trainer to work with you on BB squats for a session or two - you might need to use a Smith machine if you really can't manage, bit a trainer and proper form with improved core strength will make all the difference
/r/askTRP20/07/18 09:32 AM
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One is not enough, so I'm taking four. Sasha, Elle, Emily, Elena.
/r/seduction20/07/18 09:26 AM
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I'm not 100% sure how this breaks down to PUA vs TRP, but I do remember the early days of PUA and hated the canned routines especially as it was all so un-British. But the biggest three things that made things work for me was abundance mentality, self amusement, and not giving a shit. When you have nothing to lose and you are having fun, you just sort of turn into the sort of man that is attractive to women. The rest is balls and logistics.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:24 PM
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I'd go one step further and slow ghost this girl once the situation has calmed. No pussy is worth stress to me.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:20 PM
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Throw it back at her... the second she takes off to make you jealous, fire the big guns and start gaming some other girls and wait for her to return. It's the ultimate display of "I don't need you" that you can make whilst being socially polite. I had to do this once with a girl, she was on me like a rash when she realised her 'make him jealous' plan not only didn't work but was backfiring.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:16 PM
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I'm in the UK. Unless it's winter even something like carrying the shopping in from the car results in my entire body having a film of sweat over it. I feel your pain man, us sweaters are cursed.
/r/seduction09/07/18 10:36 AM
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Interested in the responses to this, excessive sweating is an issue for me too.
/r/seduction08/07/18 10:39 PM
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That's fucking awesome 😁
/r/seduction07/07/18 06:51 PM
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Sounds like a great step up from how you have been previously, but the thing that sticks out to me here is asking of you should kiss her, here's why: 1) Just kiss her - the worst that will happen is she will pull away and you shrug it off and carry on as if you never tried 2) "Do you need a kiss for good luck" is just weird. I get the logic behind you saying it, but when I read it I said to myself "What?" just like she did. Hindsight is wonderful, but my course of action would have been to maint…
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:23 AM
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That's fantastic, thanks!
/r/askTRP01/07/18 07:08 PM
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What's this?
/r/askTRP01/07/18 05:38 PM
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Erm, what's the question?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:34 PM
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It's a confusing situation, I would be tempted to flirt with her a bit - just enough to get her thinking sexually - then go caveman when the logistics are right and try for the lay. If it doesn't work, pull back, next.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:42 AM
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In my opinion it's relative. He may not be in 'market shape' but he is in infinitely better shape than he was. And as someone who has a hell of a lot of weight to lose I can say that the fact his loose skin looks as good as it does is reassuring to me... I weigh ~400 lbs ATM (was ~450 lbs) and I know full well that my body will never be in 'market shape' no matter how much weight I lose. If perfection can't be obtained you have to just do the best you can.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:14 AM
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Mate, first thing I have to say is congratulations - you have achieved a literally INCREDIBLE physical transformation. As someone who has fought with his weight all my life, I can say I am equal parts envious and pleased that you have managed it. I honestly don't think there is a problem with your size/shape. You look amazing imo. And I know loose skin is a bitch, but at the intro stage that won't matter. It might be worth looking into some online dating 'photo guides' on here - there is a real …
/r/askTRP20/06/18 05:57 PM
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Fuck this, shaving legs and wearing makeup ffs
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:36 AM
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IMO definitely worth doing. I had this realisation some years back, striking up conversations with everybody I could from strangers in the supermarket to hired guns. I noticed that in most of the interactions people would smile more, and with the girls I dropped a compliment to I would find they would blush, smile, flick hair... a few seconds from me probably made her feel good for the rest of the day. I know it's not about you pleasing people, but my realisation was that for very minimal effort…
/r/seduction18/06/18 08:21 AM
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Fair enough mate, just going by your first post. Hope you get things sorted. Good luck.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:56 AM
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Plaything... "annoyed by her games and bs talk"
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:53 AM
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Ghost her indefinitely. If/when she comes back to you, make sure you have strengthened your frame - under no circumstances go back to being her plaything, it should be the other way around. Always more women going to fill the gap she leaves.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:44 AM
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Immediate ghosting required. Self respect, son... don't tolerate her shit
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:39 AM
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For free, go watch Todd V "Winner Game" video course, or watch videos from rsdfreetour on YouTube. Read the sidebar here. Go out, talk to women.
/r/seduction17/06/18 07:43 PM
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Fuck me. Are you taking the fucking piss? "Maybe some girl will ask me out because I have big legs". Jesus get a fucking grip, man. Don't expect anything to happen unless YOU make it happen.
/r/seduction17/06/18 05:06 PM
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Was just going to recommend Winner Game by Todd - it's built for getting over AA and is probably the best freebie program I have seen.
/r/seduction15/06/18 08:10 AM
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YouTube 'scum sock scene'
/r/askTRP15/06/18 08:08 AM
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blah blah 'buddy'.... blah blah 'destroy him' 😂 Seriously though, your focus at the moment is good. Don't learn this stuff through hatred of anything or anyone, learn it to satisfy a need to make your own life more positive. It's good that losing this 'competition' for one girl has kicked your ass into gear, but at the same don't let one woman have so much power over you. Learn, improve, win. Good luck pal!
/r/seduction15/06/18 08:07 AM
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You will find girls are much happier about putting your spuds in their mouth when you shave them. Go get a silky smooth sack and go forth
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:49 AM
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Your self respect and frame are more important than she is. If you have to respond at all, just say "I do t want to make promises I can't keep and I can't change who I am, so good luck but it's been fun. Bye." There is always the chance she will have second thoughts, but whatever happens you need to maintain the stronger frame and not cave to her demands.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:39 AM
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Tinder etc is almost entirely a numbers game, don't stress about it
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:00 AM
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What the fuck are you even wasting your time on a profile like this for?
/r/seduction13/06/18 07:51 AM
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I couldn't be bothered with this woman tbh
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:47 AM
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"How to attract ugly girls on tinder"...fucking what?! Lol😂
/r/askTRP12/06/18 08:14 PM
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Your dad is a fucking legend, HIGH-FIVE POPS!
/r/seduction12/06/18 08:06 PM
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You have no chance with the Sagami condoms then lol
/r/askTRP12/06/18 04:25 PM
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I'd say 'read this thread, younger me': https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8q8ksm/older_redpillers_what_advice_would_you_give_to/?utm_source=reddit-android
/r/askTRP12/06/18 11:46 AM
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Yes drop it. Any more contact from you will reek of desperation.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 10:14 AM
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FFS man, going bareback with a plate? Get a fucking grip on yourself. Number one, the second you knock her up your life will change for ever (the pill isn't 100% reliable bro, even if you were making sure she was taking it), and number two if she isn't fucking anybody else now you don't know how long it'll be before she is. Protect yourself. If you want more sensitivity, buy some Sagami condoms - they are Japanese super-thin latex-free and are thin as fuck, closest thing to going raw that I have…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:49 AM
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Stop worrying about 12 year olds bro, for fucks sake.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:41 AM
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Rational Male by Rollo plus the stuff you mentioned, that's it.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:34 AM
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All I can say is watch some infield on YouTube and compare what you do with what 'professionals' do... if you're doing everything, then obviously something is wrong for 'many girls' to get turned off fast
/r/askTRP11/06/18 10:03 PM
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Girls evaluate people quickly, you have to define your personality as sexual very early. Kino as early as possible and escalate regularly, be sexually playful, and at least go for the make out as soon as you think you can make it happen. All while not being needy, of course. When she is into you sexually you can call the shots to avoid it being an LTR - if she is into you enough she will go along with it being a more casual arrangement.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 09:43 PM
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In a nutshell: 1) Think about yourself before the anyone else but your kids. 2) Work smart, not hard (and related - ask for promotions, don't wait for them) 3) Ignore political correctness, say what you think and protect your opinions. 4) Head high, shoulders back, chest out. You're a man, use the space you take. 5) Don't try to please women. If they don't like what you do, they are free to move on - as are you. There are always more women. 6) Be a fucking man. 7) Life is short. If you want to d…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 10:59 AM
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Who cares if it's nothing new, I love to read about success and awakenings :)
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 07:54 AM
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Why drop her as a plate? It's her doing he cheating, not you. And even then, I always assume any non-LTR woman I am with is fucking someone else, so don't worry about it. Don't turn into the shoulder for her to cry on though... unless you can nod your way through it and take the sex as well
/r/askTRP10/06/18 06:10 PM
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I have it similar, and I'm 40... I can be on top of the world and then if something doesn't go to plan it brings me crashing down and I feel all kinds of irrational failure. Seek help if you need it, but don't think you're not normal - many more of us feel the same to different degrees. Good luck fella :)
/r/askTRP10/06/18 06:09 PM
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Need more info
/r/askTRP10/06/18 04:37 PM
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Don't fucking chase her man, move on and if she starts to talk to you again then pick it up then. You're the man, you don't need to chase one girl in particular.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 04:35 PM
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Seconded
/r/seduction07/06/18 07:51 PM
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Mate, if you're happy with who you are then fuck off and leave everyone else here to do their thing
/r/seduction06/06/18 07:47 PM
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Everything you need to know has already been said above, but I'll add one more thing. Do not let yourself be her 'friend' if that is not what you want. And I mean it.... unless your main ambition with her is to be her friend AT BEST (which it isn't, you said it yourself) then tell her that and cut it off with her COMPLETELY. Just say "I have enough friends and I'm not looking for more, so good luck but this isn't going to work for me" and then go your separate ways. You will keep your head held …
/r/seduction06/06/18 12:23 PM
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If you feel content with the situation, that's all you need to worry about. Personally I wouldn't have told her, and would have worked to make things happen and kept my mouth shut... but you did tell her and you are happy with it, so there's nothing to worry about. Sounds like you knew it wasn't going to happen so told her how you feel anyway, and doing that has brought you some conclusion or closure to the situation. Don't worry about it man, if you're happy then you're happy!
/r/seduction06/06/18 08:38 AM
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Cheers man
/r/seduction05/06/18 07:38 PM
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Good write-up, bit like MK2 of Vin DiCarlo's Escalation Ladder. Where is Richard La Ruina's stuff did you get this?
/r/seduction05/06/18 02:07 PM
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Don't comment on the woman, comment on some detail in her profile. One that got a good reaction with me recently was someone who had their occupation down as 'autism practitioner'. I sent a message like this: "Hey there, so your job 'autism practitioner' - does that mean you work with people with autism, or are you practising autism with the goal of being the next Rain Man?" Could have backfired for being offensive, but who cares - nothing ventured, nothing gained. As it happens she saw the funn…
/r/seduction05/06/18 12:38 PM
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Awesome post man, really inspiring to read!
/r/seduction03/06/18 09:58 PM
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The biggest reason I don't approach a woman is if she doesn't look to be happy. If she isn't smiling, or her body language isn't open or inviting, I love on and pick someone else to approach. Assuming you're reasonably attractive, I would bet that body-language is what is stopping you being approached.
/r/seduction03/06/18 09:41 PM
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If you end up with her (with or without her family) in a public part of the place - bar, lobby, anywhere - just turn to her and comment on the first thing that comes to mind. Example: you are at the bar and she goes up to order a drink, just say 'oh my god, that sounds amazing, you need a drink like that in weather like this', and after she replies (doesn't matter what she says) ask how she is liking her visit, etc. Introduce yourself to her and to the family if she isn't alone, make friends wit…
/r/seduction03/06/18 05:35 PM
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Same boat for me, best thing I did to erase 'dirty old man chasing young women' syndrome was to watch infield on YouTube of Tyler and Jeff from RSD, same age as me and they manage just fine.
/r/seduction03/06/18 03:03 PM
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Exactly. You can always work towards perfection, bit life is short so why miss opportunities in the meantime?
/r/seduction03/06/18 02:12 PM
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I think you have to strike a balance between what you aim for in a best case scenario (good job, top appearance, own place, etc) and not wasting time while you work on those things. In my life things aren't perfect due to various factors, and while I never stop working to fix and improve those things I always take the opportunity to talk to women, meet new girls etc whenever I can... there is always something to gain by doing both, don't put-off one side to concentrate on the other.
/r/seduction03/06/18 10:28 AM
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I use them if she does, but I maintain some self respect - I don't go apeshit with them and I limit it to only the smiley or thumbs up.
/r/seduction02/06/18 10:13 PM
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