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wow thta is a striking quote. where did oyu hear that?
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:51 AM
5

HAHA. greatest comment ever. "you sound like an incel who's read a book"
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:08 AM
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I suggest waiting until she's 20 to say it.
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:27 AM
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whwat's your way of getting to that tell you something perosonal part?
/r/seduction27/06/22 05:53 AM
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Example conversation of validating their feelings?
/r/seduction27/06/22 04:42 AM
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Dude stop. I understand you're reasoning but it's just something you don't say. It's like Thanos saying "let's kill half the universe so that the rest of us has more resources. Wait what? You're offended? I'm jsut saying the statistically correct notion here."
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:12 PM
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the reason it is mean is that it in effect boxes her into one perception when she is her own individual as a person. nobody likes being boxed in when they are their own unique person with their own unique personality and interests.
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:44 PM
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I'm going to keep it simple. I can relate to your feelings in a different way. Wanna know the secret? It's not true! :D Many people have their own version of this self defeating thinking. "I'm too short. I'm too overweight. I'm too skinny. I don't have enough ass. My boobs are too small. My race is this and nobody likes this race. I have too many pimples." It's not that you aren't finding dates because of whatever insecurity you believe in. It's that you aren't finding dates because this belief …
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:10 AM
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dude she's already down on herself. please say something nice and encouraging if you have something to say to her.
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:54 AM
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First of all, your title is embarrassing. You don't want to be with a girl that wants men who treat them badly. There is something emotionally inside of them that is significantly hurting and that is an unstable relationship. Lastly, it's not about if you're nice that they lose interest, or you are unnice and they gain interest. It's about human nature. You can't seem overly desperate. You can't seem overly withdrawn. Desperate would imply that you are clinging to them to give you meaning, when …
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:38 PM
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Yeah seriously dude, take Extra_Boysenberry's advice. Life is too short to be a doomer. You're thinking is way off base. You may be right that there are certain types of women who think the way you described; there are tons who don't. And look for a well packaged man. None of those traits above necessarily describe well packaged person. You don't want to date the types that do view it the way you described. Does he have a future? Does he have a job? Does he have ambition? Is he financially stabl…
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:27 PM
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hey i appreciatae that because sometimes i'm a little unforgiving to myself of past behavior. and thank you for sharing a little bit of your life experiences with me. reddit is pretty therapeutic for me personally becaus ei think people are more comfortable sharing themselves anonymously, which i totally fall into that category and ask questions all the time for certain challenges i face. you're a good spirit. love talking with you.
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:19 AM
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wow yeah that's not good. ​ thanks for sharing and i hope you don't run into that. as a guy who kinda tried pulling that stuff in my young days, i just wanted to let you know it had nothing to do with you. it had everything to do with me being insecure about myself. it's easy for high school guys (including myself at the time) to fall into the notion of you have to have stories of hooking up to feel accepted by peers. so trying to hook up became an insecure serach for feeling accepted. as a kid,…
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:52 AM
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By the way I don't know what commentors are talking about. Your chest is attractive. I personally think you have nothing to be self - conscious about.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:48 AM
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yeah i thought of that but same concept applies. if you let the superficial hold power over you and label people out like this.... people will sense it and won't actually like you that much. he's essentially using them for what they are, rather than being interseted in who they are.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:47 AM
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but the base is rotten. true love is beyond the superficial. it's a genuine connection. if /seduction knew that, it would solve 99% of their anxieties and problems. if you view it that way, "sexy" women would have literally no power over you. give me a 5 with the hottest personality and values over a 10 with a shitty value system any day of the year.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:39 AM
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1st picture you look incredibly physically attractive. Like on a general basis, you look really hot in that picture. 3rd and fourth you look pretty good too. Physical attraction wise I can't see your whole body; I will be honest and I'm sorry if it is a little blunt or may hurt you a little bit. But if you got some rolls, lose em', and you would be really really hot. Like really up there. Personality wise honestly just be down to earth. So many women seem to gatekeep conversation with men. For u…
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:24 AM
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I really appreciate this comment. People need to read what true friendship is more.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:05 AM
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what's the reason for number 7? what's your thoughts on number 3? why do you feel that way? i have this imge in my head all girls want alphas who have a lot of friends and is popular with a great job and can be badass, etc. This thought in my head probably deters me because I somewhat fear i may not be enough in those qulaities. Tbh, i grew up with too many asshole going nowhere types so i dont really have a friend group now and it makes me feel embarrassed when dating girls that not having a fr…
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:00 PM
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im dying
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:45 AM
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if he's passionate about it and just happy to share because it is his passion that makes him glow then he should share it. it's like saying "oh my gosh i relaly like to play guitar and sing; i do cover songs; i love to do them as my hobby." otherwise, slip it in to convo. women will love it.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:02 AM
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come on supposed lady's man. spill the beans for when my magical barrier goes down one day when im old and gray
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:40 PM
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i have the "magical barrier", not them.
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:08 PM
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yeah, my penis is too big for me to get around and see them
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:57 PM
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what do you do to "put in their place" or break their ego? how do you even get hta opportunity in the first place when they aren't giving you the time of day initially?
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:14 PM
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that's pretty good dude. im assuming that's just before taxes. even after that's good stuff. let's build each other up brotha!
/r/askMRP15/06/22 01:27 AM
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this is perfect. keeps it a mystery while not coming off as too sexual, while also leaiving her feeling "wow... what's interesting about this guy because maybe he just got with another girl?" a form of social proofing.
/r/seduction12/06/22 11:45 PM
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HAHAHA. "Are you trying to bang the guys or the girl?" im dying bro...
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:13 PM
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can you gibe some examples of what he did? because i can tell when a girl is interested. but if a girl isn't that interested at first, it takes some time and multiple interactions before you can get somewhere. otherwise i just feel weird giving unreciprocated attention. ​ what did he do to bridge the gap? if i have a template, i am pretty masterful at moving forward. just need a model for it really quickly.
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:19 AM
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depends how she says it. but i like the somewhat comedic tone another person suggested. "oh wait, you're not trans?" do it with proper facial expressiosn and timing though. also, "yeah, tomorrow night at 1 am sounds better." but not like a im a cocky arrogant tough guy alpha way. you've got to give the right amount of frame/control, but right amount of lightness, and right amount of inviting into the playfulness, while slightly implying some flirtation and sexualness to it. its gotta be kinda fu…
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:45 PM
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i've been told by matches in person that my pictures do my physical attractiveness in person no justice. so it matters.
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:34 PM
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my experience is that those guys paint the illussion they are always getting sex. when it comes down to it, they aren't really that often. and if they are, it's not even with women who are that pretty. think of a lot of the celebrity affairs that get exposed. often times, you and I have probably hooked up with hotter chicks. ​ Edit: Anyhow, the kind of women that are attracted to that stuff any way, that you list out, aren't the type of women you'd want to be around any way.
/r/seduction08/06/22 11:20 PM
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Here's the problem with making up: It is harder to be a guy cheated on and repair things, than it is to be a girl who is cheated on and get things repaired in the relationship. Why? Because the nature of being made up to and having loyalty proven to you because you are naturally feeling insecure about the relationship, is feminine in nature. So it's a double edged sword. You put them through the trials to prove their loyalty to the relationship, then they lose attraction because you lose masculi…
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:28 PM
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I understand. I was that way when I first started hooking up with girls in college. "oh my gosh. am i doing this right? is it cool if i do this? would it be weird if i said this? would it be weird if i moved her like this? would it be weird if i moved her hand down? would it be weird xyz?" this is my suggestion. what you feel is totally normal. ESPECIALLY, girls get insecure during sexual intercourse, fearful that they aren't attractive enough, sexy enough, or good enough in bed. so, let say, in…
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:57 PM
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No it's not my words. You're being an asshole. You're straw man arguing. Your ex, who you chose partly because you were sexually attracted to, and thus had sexual experiences with... it's impossible not to think of those sexual experiences. And also, you would still be sexually attracted to her most likely. Why don't you address this point (notice you didn't)? You're a straw man arguer not addressing this point. It makes it more than friends at this point. Also, your pride in your "maturity" sho…
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:02 PM
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No I'm not. And you're being an asshole claiming I can't get over an ex or saying that I have lack of closure. Don't personally attack. On a humankind basis, what you propose is nearly impossible. If you are capable, it's not your matury you claim that lords over others; it's that you are a one in a million type. Sexual drive is not matured past. It's a forever thing. Trying to claim you don't feel feelings of sexual arousal towards an ex when seeing them is like claiming you don't feel feelings…
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:42 PM
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It's got nothing to do with closure or hatred. Maybe you're right and it's possible but I see it as being an incredibly low possibility to the point of the probability of winning the lottery. To me it's like saying "I have the skill of flying." ​ But maybe it's because of my version of doing relationships. I am a deeply sentimental person with a high sex drive. So maybe a subsection people who are not deeply sentimental and with low sex drive are capable? I pick those two traits as being needed …
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:17 PM
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I personally just cannot see it being possible. The emotions will always be there to a certain extent and thinking of sexual promiscuity with them will be under the surface too. It takes supressing those emotions. But they are there nonetheless. My personal opinion is it's a no go while in a relationship. I told my own ex girlfriend A (while we dated) that even though she said I can hang out with ex-girlfriends D and F, that it absolutely should not be permitted for me and that it's not fair to …
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:23 AM
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i have no problem with boundaries. my problem is how do i know if i'm being too uptight about them? advice? or if there's some gray area or plausible deniability in another's actions so you don't push down boundaries? those are the tough ones.
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:43 PM
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Could you share what are the emotional triggers and emotional needs a woman desires in a relationship with a man?
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:05 PM
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what are some books that exemplify this that you recommend?
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:04 PM
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There is a significant difference in maturity between early 20's to mid 20's, and mid 20's to late 20's/early 30's. I personally could not date early 20's because I would feel like I'm talking to a kid. As far as dating them, I personally think it's risky. They are not fully formed into themselves yet, and those identity issues can cause relational instability if your looking for long term stuff.
/r/seduction16/04/22 01:25 PM
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i have an issue of my woman is so damn fast at wanting to move onto the next thing that she doesn't give time to enjoy it. i have to stop her and say "slow down". i like to soak in the moment at an event or restaurant for example; she likes once task xyz is finished ,we move on. for example, when we smoke on a balcony with friends, she immediately wants to move back inside instead of enjoying the time on the balcony because the task is complete. or she is so damn quick at wanting to know plans i…
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:05 AM
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strong positive emotions, but also in the sense produced by fear of loss? do you mean strong positive emotions, but she also has an underlying tone to the relationship that fooling around will cause loss so therefore she fears fooling around?
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:01 AM
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what kind of tension do you want to generate? and how do you generate it? small example so i can get a sense please?
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:49 PM
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what other ways is it other than "hey lets go here"? and what other ways do women cue leading?
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:45 PM
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Normally I’d agree with you, but this line is bad enough to the degree that I think it’s ok for this poster to say it
/r/seduction18/09/21 02:20 PM
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You describing it is a useful thing to see. Its such a common commodity to you that it’s almost as if it’s irritating to you at this point. And that you are mentally in a position of judge and jury on approaches. I’m thinking that for a woman like you who gets approached once a day, instead of coming off as a guy whose mission is to get a number and try to impress, it’s better to build a genuine connection or emotional connection in some way with a person like you . Just slightly come off as bei…
/r/seduction18/09/21 05:44 AM
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Well I value your viewpoint and discussion regardless of my disagreement of being firm in one direction or the other on if there truly is mass cheating. What’s the intuition and hard work you believe that needs to be put in to keep a woman happy?
/r/seduction16/09/21 09:02 PM
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What’s the intuition and hard work that needs to be put in to keep a woman happy? I’m not agreeing one way or another that there’s mass cheating or little cheating. surveys and your small sample size of personal experiences (small sample size relative to the massive population out there) can’t possibly validate what the truth is.
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:36 PM
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It’s immeasurably difficult to get an accurate percentage on how many people have affairs. So i take those stats with a grain of salt. As far as divorce rate, that’s much easier. But the statistic of half of marriages end in divorce is deceptive. It is percentage of marriages end up in divorce but a lot of those are divorces involving people who have been married multiple times. Ex. If John/Tina, Alex/Monica, Tom/Phoebe, Chad/Tara, get married. John and tina divorce, alex and Monica divorce: Joh…
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:07 AM
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I’m not too knowledgeable on Biblical stories. Can you share some verses that you are pointing to please? And why do you think most marriages are unfulfilling?
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:15 PM
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Why do you think most marriages are happy and unfulfilling? And why do you think the real issue is monogamy?
/r/seduction14/09/21 07:46 AM
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lol
/r/seduction16/08/21 02:17 AM
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i disagree. there's a nature to women that they need to see this in a man. it's an investment for smoother sailing ahead. if you don't do it now over something inconsequential, you are going to face the rough waters later. playing the rules of the game of nature, is not manipulative.
/r/seduction15/08/21 10:46 PM
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lmao. i didn't say there has to be subjugation. but it surely exists. and there surely exists women who will hunt for it. i said you are a cloth of man that will be subjugated. wise up and you won't be.
/r/seduction04/07/21 06:17 PM
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lol shania twain, i'll kindly explain to you since others have veered you off course. alpha male internet dweeb ideology is not the path to a happy life. but neither is your direction of being submissive to your future wife. there's a happy nuanced somewhere in between those.
/r/seduction04/07/21 04:12 PM
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lmao. please keep acting the way you do and see how your life will be one day. you're going to be submissive man to a wife one day.
/r/seduction04/07/21 04:10 AM
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You are overly sensitive and the least seductive person ever as a result. Your thought is factually untrue and crazy. Factually untrue because the quote is not 100% of the time only a neg. It can be used playfully just as much. Therefore, your opinion is crazy because it does not accept facts. That is not an insult. "Hitler's views were crazy." Please go defend how I'm being insensitive to Hitler.
/r/seduction03/07/21 06:19 PM
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Dude you’re crazy. The words that were suggested are not negging 100% of the time. They’re only negging if you use it in a negging context. Not negging if you don’t use it in a negging context. Your insistence to not see that it can be both negging and playful depending on how it’s used, and insisting it’s only negging is incorrect and crazy.
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:58 PM
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JetPillar, slow down a little bit brother. This quote is not automatically negging or insulting. It can be playful or insulting depending on the situation. There are tons of ways to make this either one. You’re projecting your own interpretation and probably own painful experiences into how you perceive the quote. You’ve probably seen a similar quote done the asshole way. Slow down a bit on crusading against it, and find an example of how it can be done in a enjoyable way.
/r/seduction02/07/21 01:05 PM
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even initiated a link up a few times but I felt like I had a lot of improvement to do before meeting her to “secure the meet up” if u feel me. I totally feel this and sometimes still do. Just get out there and learn and hang out. If there's anything you need to prepare for to secure it, learn to DANCE. partner and just general dancing. you can definitely lose opportunities if you aren't able to. i can feel a few times i did when i used to not be able to. when it comes to learning unneedy behavio…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 07:02 PM
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dude,,, all it took was reading the title and i said "next". move on and go get another woman
/r/askTRP19/05/21 05:50 PM
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Australian or English? I'll give you more respect for that lol.
/r/seduction18/05/21 07:35 PM
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Come back when my post doesn't hit a nerve with your own personal inescurities you are trying to overcome. Good luck.
/r/seduction18/05/21 04:43 PM
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Dumbass? Come on dude, you can't even read properly and you're calling people dumbass.
/r/seduction18/05/21 02:06 PM
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that's what your response should be
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:57 AM
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"ok cool" i feel your response reflects a little bit of a need to "get back at her", and that says there is insecurity. something better than hiding insecurity, is ridding the source. what's the source? the illusion that you want her. you hav eno fucking idea if you actually want her. between first date to LTR to marriage, etc, yada yada, you can find out a million things you dislike about her that make it a dealer breaker that make her just another person to you, instead of this overly idealize…
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:13 AM
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yeah, it's true. when the project is heavy and the boss doesn't have time to explain each move, it is required at times. but i personally think it's important the boss builds trust and respect so the follower goes with his word.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 07:24 AM
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great metaphor.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 07:15 PM
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have not heard of jocko. just googled him. any particular videos you'd recommend to learn about his leadership traits?
/r/askTRP29/04/21 07:14 PM
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DEFINITELY! ​ That's one of the prime reasons I ask this question is what you mention. That a great majority of... "leaders"... rely completely on power dynamic rather than exhibiting traits that get group members to actually WANT to follow the person.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:34 PM
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frame. if you worry that much it tells me you are operating in her frame. i can't think of exactly how to explain how i automatically know this, but i feel pretty confidet. mold yourself a little more at an emotional elvel. go to your personal mental lab a little. maybe this isn't you, but i think most people (myself once upon a time included), react with great pain to being cheated on because deep down it validates a fear that no partner thinks they are good enough to be with. it's interpreted …
/r/askTRP14/02/21 03:37 AM
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in my experience, that directness does not always work. it depends. sometimes the girl needs a little more time to size up how comfortable they are with you before they openly give a number. so adapt as needed when you take your shot. drag the convo a little more if you sense a little hesitation with sharing a number, let the comfort sink in some more, then ask again. fro mthe convo you posted, something i feel i definitely learned from that is igniting the kid in someone is a really good way to…
/r/seduction13/02/21 01:13 AM
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you're right imo. TV does play a big role in their perception of the world
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:54 AM
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lol... always killed me when i would hear exes say they were trying to "reinvent" themselves ​ ...the things us men go through dude ​ edit: what in your words do you think inspires this need for a change of scenery at this age of 26-27 that compels them to break up with long term bfs?
/r/askTRP09/02/21 01:58 AM
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Drastic change as in "holy shit I can't be a teenager for the rest of my life, time to recalibrate and get serious and find security?" kind of mode?
/r/askTRP09/02/21 12:49 AM
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they freak out that they don't already have that with their current long term bf at 26-27 and go searching elsewhere?
/r/askTRP08/02/21 10:39 PM
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why does fear of hitting the wall at 26-27 cause a freak out that compels them to break up with their current long term bf at that age? wouldn't the logic in their head be the exact opposite? that hey want to lock down the man they are with because their wall is coming so they need to lock in their security?
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:44 PM
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yeah you are right. it is a personal weakness of mine. that when i feel i have to establish something that i have to establish it in an air tight way, when in reality establishing something can be done in a few important ways and you are good to go, rather than looking to establish through every minor action. thanks
/r/askTRP04/02/21 06:43 PM
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what do you mean by that (seriously, i don't get it. not saying you're being offensive) ?
/r/askTRP03/02/21 05:17 PM
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what kind of tone do you give when you point it out? what do you say? i guess my fear is coming off as drawing a line in the sand and making the situation too tense. or are you supposed to make it clear you are line drawing? humor? sarcasm? directness? aggression? "well can't you do it?" "you can do it yourself." "wow i didn't know you were a parapalegic, here let me help you."
/r/askTRP03/02/21 05:17 PM
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hmmm ok. thanks for tagging a term to it. this gives me a lot to work wit.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 03:46 AM
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don't falsely attribute things like a feminazi. you don't know why she left. this might be the reason. it might not. confirmation bias is not the right way. ​ but, i will say that a comment points out what's right: emotino is ok, just show you're not defeated by them.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 12:47 AM
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? i don't get your question. but in my first comment maybe you misinterpreted what i said. i was saying i give you a lot of respect for putting aside your feelings of being disrespected by her and going into the room to make sure she wasn't raped. a lot of men wouldn't have cared at that point. but you set aside your feelings for a greater good. i think that's admirable . Edit: ok i think i get your question. yeah that parts reckless on her end.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:56 PM
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lol dude get the stick out your ass. yeah it is offensive but chances are if you were in her shoes you might do the same. i go on a date with a FWB (maybe a 6 or 7) and another girl comes along. this girl is a 10. sexual vibes between me and the 10 go wild. yeah, chances are i would ditch the FWB since there are no relationship commitments and go fuck the 10 that night. she may have felt similar about the other guy having a much higher sexual attraction than you. and given that she is under no r…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:31 PM
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sounds like you have undeerlying feelings for her and that's the actual heart of the issue
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:26 PM
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well in your original post, you said you all went together like a group friend outing. now you're saying it as if you took her to the bar on a date, and then she got onto some other guy. ...the latter being much more understandable to be upset about.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:58 PM
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what exactly are you offended about? i'm missing some context here b/c seems to me like unless you have feelings for the girl, she didn't do anything that disrespectful. maybe somewhat disrespectful, but i don't see it to the degree of disrespect that you seem to view it through. respect for putting your ego aside for a greater good and not letting the dude go rapey on her.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:41 PM
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how come? what was your eperience like?
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:18 PM
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lol. but he didn't fuck her!
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:17 PM
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just did though (your above comment) ! i disagree. depends ont he person i guess. but im a half eperiencer half need an explainer. wouldn't have been able to figure out what you wrote in your last comment on my own. girls don't admit that kinda shit.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:17 PM
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glad you dumped the bitch. thanks for giving the example. it helps me understand some wisdom. because isee this dumb irrational behavior and don't know how to handle. what's another example of some sort of irrational childish, fabricated behavior that is really a test for something else that you have experienced? i'm around the campfire to hear your wisdom, fine sir.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:17 AM
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thanks. can you refer me to the which law of power you are speaking of? what number?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:43 PM
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what exactly does this law of power say?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:32 PM
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what are some examples you've seen of men opening up to women and end up using that weak spot they find against them?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:27 PM
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bro.... man... i appreciate you sharing... i'm going through a lot right now too. questions of life or death looming around people i know. it's tearing me apart too. and it had me make changes as a person. stay in there. i admire and respect you.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 05:32 AM
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...shhh ... learn to read... as i said, i don't mind a scene if the person escalates when i call them out. but when that scene casts a shadow over the mood of the whole hang out (where other people are part of it) and kind of ruins the hang out (even though you were right to call them out on their douchiness), that's the issue. so it's being stuck between a rock and a hard place with these types. you don't call them out then their douchey behavior continues. you do call them out, they escalate i…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:47 PM
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another way way to put it for ppl to understand, the person is a dick and you can't speak up on it even in the slightest way without them making a scene.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 11:08 PM
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i completly understand the feeling. it's like the type that's a dick and if you slightly even say hey be nice, then they blow up and destroy a chill situation for everyone. it's the lamest thing in the world. and i don't quite know how to deal with it because i just want to enjoy the hang out without someone throwing a temper tantrum casting a shadow on the whole hang out. ​ anyone got some advice?
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:02 PM
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thanks. the real deal is that everyone is going to look at a fine ass and rack here and there, and girl's will look at guys here and there. that's just human. i guess the tough part is knowing what the right balance is on the proper boundaries between not being too psycho on policing it and when it's gone too far so you have to speak up on it.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:34 PM
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i honestly don't know the answer. i've had this struggle too. maybe it depends on the type of relationship a person has. one of love? or one of convenience and utility? if it's one of love, maybe not. but at the same time, let's be honest, even if she didn't like it, it's tough for anyone not to have a wandering eye here and there (although that's different from fan girling to an extreme). still not sure what the answer is though.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:25 PM
1

i am concerned iwth it going to mens rights movement type of stuff. because there are factions becoming the feminazi version of men.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 03:10 AM
1

hmmm . interesting take. i never viewed it in this way before.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:37 PM
1

why do you thijnk the left is more red pilled? i am moreso a democratic voter, but it's actually red pill that has explained irrational behaviors that made me look at the democratic party in a different way and not fall for the whole women are oppressed thing. i see it from a much more multidimensional way now. and has balanced me back more towards being an independent and value republican beliefs more than i used to.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:27 PM
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as far as friends, it doesn't have to be endlessly entertaining. if you feel a connection, trustworthiness, reliability, that blossoms a connection that naturally makes fun times because of the comfort and trust with eachother. try being friends with people through just being reliable and there for eachother as one option.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 04:46 AM
1

maybe im misinterpreting or not getting the depth of something here - on first intepretation it seems your paragraph regarding stoicism is a nonsequiter to any of the reasoning i have given. she seems like she wants a committed mindset of from now until death (as long as it is within reason between the two of you because if one of the two of you becomes unbearable in some kind of way and options have been exhausted, then separation is fine). your stoicism response seems like non solid commitment…
/r/askTRP01/11/20 10:40 PM
3

this is the line everyone need sto read: Women like that, nothing is ever enough.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 06:03 PM
1

i'll say it in a more clear way since i think what i was conveying got lost in my wordiness. actually it's all a little predicated on this because I realized I may have misinterpreted your comment (which led to my words and impression of you having flimsy commitment). you said "So far, she told me she has the best relationship ever with me but I don't think it's gonna last forever (on my side aswell) ". do you mean that the honey moon phase of "this is the greatest thing ever" isn't going to las…
/r/askTRP01/11/20 03:40 PM
1

lol what? why is it funny? lol
/r/askTRP01/11/20 03:34 PM
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Or you may have fragile and hypertribalistic worldviews that cause you to be immensely sensitive to the most innocent fact reporting any news outlet has if it makes the views you support look bad, in spite of it being fact.
/r/MensRights31/10/20 07:57 PM
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first, know the difference between a news agency and news publicatoin. second, all indications point to reuters being one of the most trustworthy through this century and last. third, your own immediate accusation of reuters in such flagrant terms exposes you more than it exposes reuters. sarah jeong is stupid, but attributing what is likely a false quote is just as bad and degrades the cause of mensrights when spreading what is likely a falsification.
/r/MensRights31/10/20 06:29 PM
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i acknowledge there's a chance that maybe its media helping her walk back her comment. but i lean towards it being true she didn't say it becuase snopes and reuters according to media bias checking websites is pretty reliable for factual reporting. it says something about you that you draw the line in a tribal like manner that i have to prove it to you, rather than engaging in a neutral position that it could be either false or true. aka, you're just as crazy as feminazis.
/r/MensRights31/10/20 06:05 PM
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we have to make sure the quotes are correct before we react off of them (and believe me, my first reaction was WTF, when i saw the castration thing). however, it appears (despite, Jeong having other crazy instances) that this particular quote is false: https://www.reuters.com/article/uk-factcheck-journalist-fabricated-quote/fact-check-fabricated-castration-lottery-for-white-men-quote-falsely-attributed-to-nyt-journalist-idUSKCN26D2J8
/r/MensRights31/10/20 05:48 PM
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i understand. and i think you deserve a pat on the back. you did pretty darn good given the signs she gave and how attractive she is. what you did wasn't easy.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 04:05 PM
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maybe you should consider letting her go if you don't think it will last (to be considerate to her). you sound a little flimsy on staying committed to her. but she seems dead set on finding a person who also wants lockdown commitment. if there's something i have some leeway for on women is that they do have a reason to feel much more pressure to get a person lcoked down. because of their biological clock. they aren't fertile as nearly as long as men are. so locking down someone isn't as urgent f…
/r/askTRP31/10/20 03:28 PM
1

well if you wanna be with the girl then i suggest being more detailed to her. what are your exact long term visions? it sounds like you don't want to marry in the technical legally bound sense. but want to be married in every other way except officially on a government document so you can avoid any legal troubles if they come. is that so? maybe a good compromise you both can discuss is have a proposal and wedding one day and live with eachother if you both are right for eachother, but never form…
/r/askTRP30/10/20 11:56 PM
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are you a woman asking for how to approach this? this is my thought. yeah, most women won't do a false rape or sexual harrasment allegation. but all it takes is ONE. and your career, your mortggage, your savings, your responsibility to provide, all goes down the drain. so that is the major risk we face. i personally don't put myself alone in situations where it can become a "he said she said" situation at work with a woman. always in a spot where someone can see th einteraction. maybe i'm wrong …
/r/MensRights30/10/20 04:56 PM
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it's a tough situation and i think you did pretty well to be honest ​ edit: to be honest, i personally don't like that your boss did this. the workplace is too political to get trapped into this kind of stuff. so in my eyes, even if he/she doesn't know it, it was a little bit of an abuse of power.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 11:51 PM
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do you think that'd be alright? my personal inclination would be not to say this. because then if the boss is a real jackass, he/she could place the convo out of context and act like the worker actually suggested that with a serious face.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 11:50 PM
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i think your last pargraph is what you need to look at. actively having it in your mindset as you size up if you want to ahng out with a person whether or not you are " wasting my time with low-value people who aren't on my level ", actually blocks you from seeing if you simply vibe with a person. you're defeating yourself from making friends by being a little too arrogant with that mindset that makes you feel too good for other people that may actually be someone that could be your good friend.…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:35 PM
3

lol. this is actually truth right here.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:17 PM
1

did anyone actually see a taser?
/r/PussyPassDenied26/10/20 04:21 AM
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it's because its marketing. always remember that redpill is not a way of life, or a culture. it is a tool for your life to utilize. last i checked, a screwdriver isn't your life, but it is useful nonetheless. redpill can be a double edged sword. useful by utilizing it to the right degree. destructive if you base your worth and psychology on it. just wanted to give you a heads up to not fall too deep into the rabithole.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:53 PM
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i agree. this is where left wing stuff is going whacko. it's actually pretty repulsive, dishonest, and just a cover up for an ulterior motive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/10/20 05:14 PM
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maybe ask about the job scare. why in their eyes you wre dispensable. and calmly share your point of view. maybe if you ask that questino they will somewhat clue you in on what was said about you so you can give a balanced pov. keep calm and not emotional. dont degrade otherse in that process. explain what you have done that is beneficial to the company and explain your pov on what you supposedly did wrong. i hate to say it but keep your guard up on your friend. dont assume that yall are gonna m…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 02:59 PM
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normally i tread softly when giving my opinoin, but bro i have to speak. ​ don't do it man. lol. (i softened my tone a little)
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:35 AM
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yeah i agree. there are some subs that are turning into political ideologies and clickbait stunners, rather than in depth convo. or just propaganda-like woman hating headline titles. you can sense the vitriol. there should be a sub that discusses things with rationality and calmheadedness. or else we are no better than any one else in the whacko activism world.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/10/20 04:12 AM
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yeah i ahve the same sentiment. girls dont send randos messages like that. if they do, the guy is like in a .01% pool of men on earth. so nothing to be ashamed about.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 04:08 AM
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find structure in your life. it's important. connect with a time in your life where you had it, so you can recapture hte feeling and more easily implement it. life can be overwhelming with options. so structure, and pick and choose wisely.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 03:20 AM
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damn dude. now you make me feel like a warrior for socializing. you're the goat.
/r/seduction17/10/20 03:14 AM
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Well brother, take it form someone a little older. Financial stresses are difficult. They are like being in the middle of a building caving in slowly, but surely. I know financial obligations seem like a far way off, but it's immensely important to build a foundation to be able to have financial security. Losing money does matter. I had a lot of friends that had a spend money IDGAF attitude. And it kind of spread to me because it seemed like thy enjoyed life more. But if you do that with no mean…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:33 AM
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honestly i think phrasing it this way would be like a good public health slogan. because us guys get all uncomfortable with being too open for coming off as unmanly. but if you phrase it as "being open is being risky, like arnold schwarzenegger taking risks to save the day, so you're cool", i think that could have a good effect.
/r/seduction17/10/20 12:46 AM
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hahah the drunk part had me laughing. nice. go for it ! honestly my theory is when you appraoch a group, there are people in there with the exact same situation you may be in of trying to make friends. but the illusion is that they are all already immense bros, so it makes you shy about being honest. that's what happens to me at least.
/r/seduction17/10/20 12:41 AM
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damn... thats deep lol. no wonder ur username is yogi
/r/seduction16/10/20 09:53 PM
2

it'll be fine. it's just about having the will to adapt and learn some new things.
/r/seduction16/10/20 06:52 PM
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I honestly don't know the answer. for me in college, i found a group i laughed with a lot naturally. and it just was natural to want to hang out. that's all i did. if you're in college, keep looking around and you'll find that. just be nice and eventually there will be some people that it's so easy to have fun and laugh with. that's a little bit easier in college because there's many groups until you find your vibe. after college, it's a little bit different. i think loneliness and trying to fin…
/r/seduction16/10/20 06:05 PM
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at least for me, it's motivated by an unconscious feeling that if i have to be that open then i don't look cool enough. but this way, the way this OP did it, is so authentic. it's like being a kid again and saying "hey, want to be friends with each other?" something much more genuine about it
/r/seduction16/10/20 05:22 PM
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honestly this is very refreshing to read. i would personally have tried to pull "be cool enough so that they invite you" (kinda fake). instead, you were just like "hey im new around here and im trying to make friends wit people. can i hang out with you guys next time?" that's so refreshingly honest, true and sincere. respect.
/r/seduction16/10/20 05:14 PM
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no offense but it seems like you are angry about a player that screwed you over. i can see your point about the social proofing part and it's probably true in instances, but there is no way social proofing isn't effective as well. if an ugly dude is dating a 10, it will catch your interest to the tune of "what is it about this guy that catches a girl's attention that is that attractive?"
/r/seduction15/10/20 05:19 AM
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lmfao. this sounds like the greatest therapist ever.
/r/seduction14/10/20 04:33 PM
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I don't agree with this commentor about you. You can be asolutely perfect and people will still nag at you for the stupidest shit. So don't go digging into every small voice tone, body language, way you say things, etc, and try to correct it so that it's some unconscious indication to others they shouldn't crack jokes at you. You don't have to not to say anything either. Just say dude stop it, don't saay that. And if the message doesn't get across. Be more firm. If still no, go for the nucelar o…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:17 PM
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i think the social reward and clout is just the feeling that you are fighting some valiant noble battle and can play hero, and then brag about it. that's the only one i can think of. what can you think of?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/20 04:12 AM
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exactly. i could not have said it better myself. that is a term that needs to be out there. "ideological introduced social paranoia". that's brilliant, and it's true. and this mental model of "ideologically introduced social paranoia" is downgrading the emotional health of women and minorities. how awful would it be going day by day that every action someone does is due to your skin color or gender, so therefore life is going to suck?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/20 03:51 AM
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there's too much confirmation bias on the left. this is how too many think: "that person gave me a mean look ... it's because i'm (insert oppressed gender or minority here)." ​ \^that person could have just been having a bad day.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/20 03:22 AM
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i understand where you're coming from. but be directly firm with an even tone and with polite words. and maybe inform your boss and say you don't want anything to be misinterpreted so you wanted your boss to know what you did since he is misinterpreting stories to the boss. the issue is that saying "uh huh. ok. thank you." isn't direct enough about how you feel. and you got pent up and you said " idont give a fuck". you said something that can actually get you written up. and you showed anger. b…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:03 PM
1

yeah. they are either edgelord teens or people too far down the rabit hole of ideology into irrationality now. being too consumed by any ideology will do this to anyone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/20 03:48 AM
1

i was banned from male collective because I hurt a moderator's feelings, instead of actually breaking any rules
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/20 06:53 PM
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I don't know man. Court might not work the way the court of public opinion works. I found an example of men using the EEOA to sue an employer off the basis of gender discrimnation: ​ A provider accused of refusing to hire men and retaliating against an applicant will pay $165,000 to settle a federal gender-discrimination lawsuit. Northern Arizona Orthopaedics entered into a four-year consent decree to settle the lawsuit brought by the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission. https://www.mcknight…
/r/askTRP08/10/20 06:22 PM
1

lol ok i catch your drift
/r/askTRP08/10/20 12:18 AM
1

i should probably clarify , i'm speaking on if you live in the united states
/r/askTRP07/10/20 10:13 PM
1

Thanks. Was talking about hte part where you mentioned you aren't protected by the EEOA. From my first peak into it, it seems like you are protected(but I haven't read every relevant passage, so could you fill me in on parts that don't protect a white man below 45?). Here's a passage and source (it says basically you can't discriminate against any race)): Title VII states: “It shall be an unlawful employment practice for an employer to fail or refuse to hire or to discharge any individual, or ot…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:37 PM
1

thanks. which nationalities/ethnicities do you think would be the best to marry (if you live in the united states and are dating around)? i've had my fair share of diverse dating and i've seen women from certain backgrounds that just seem completely insane due to a byproduct of what their culture nurtures them into. so i personally do view who i would have an LTR through the lens of "do they come from a cultural background that doesn't breed insanity in women?"
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:50 PM
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this is so blatantly discriminatory that it's hard to believe. but i want to keep my mind open to see truth if there is. do you happen to have a link that validates what you are saying, please? i'm having trouble finding one.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:47 PM
2

anecdotes?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:36 PM
1

what ways are they some of the most manipulative?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:35 PM
4

i hate the type
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:29 AM
5

how about you go for the wrongful termination law suit?
/r/askTRP05/10/20 10:44 PM
2

can the children gather around the fireplace and listen to the wiseman of the tribe?
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:37 PM
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as the other user mentioned, this video is a good talking point to refer to when you debate with others: she has so much privilege that she can talk about wanting to kill men without being fired from her job or any social backlash.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/20 04:53 PM
1

i do feel like a big portion is an ego thing. that the true hurt comes from feeling not good enough. so if you're secure there, then the hurt isn't that bad. another angle is, "wow im so madly in love, i cant believe that happened." another angle could be "what if my partner catches felings and leaves me? what if they get std?" so there is a factual utility to drawing a huge red line on cheating.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 04:48 PM
1

now you have me interested in reading it
/r/askTRP05/10/20 02:26 PM
21

this is some wise shit
/r/askTRP05/10/20 02:21 PM
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playful / banter way : "nice of you to take my water bottle yesterday" "so you're paying my hospital bills for the heat stroke i suffered due to dehydtration right?" ​ ... but in all honesty, my recommendation would be dont bang your neighbors younger relative. could create awkward situations that aren't worth it given the vicinity.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 03:33 AM
1

hang in there dude. you are taking the actions of a strong man building a great life. the tough part sounds like it comes from the environment. just stay strong. i know it's tough. but your actions are that of a damn MAN. you will get there. just hang tough!
/r/askTRP04/10/20 03:15 PM
2

this is a fucking deep comment and needs to be upvoted into the next galaxy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/10/20 12:52 AM
2

for sure. there's a lot of good stuff in this subreddit. but sometimes comments teeter toward being the male version of feminazism; that's the last thing i want.
/r/MensRights04/10/20 12:37 AM
2

I agree with you on what should be taught. In its day to day use, using the word complicit comes off the exact same way as saying responsible, regardless of its true meaning. A guy just had a traumatic situation where he was nearly beaten to death in a mugging because he was being dumb for walking in an alley at 3 am. Yes, he was dumb, yes he was complicit. But if the officer tells him "you were being dumb and complicit because you chose to walk down an alley." That would be the most tone deaf c…
/r/MensRights03/10/20 08:50 PM
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i agree with everything you say up until the second to last paragraph. it's the same concept as if a guy walks through a rough neighborhood at 3 am and gets mugged. that doesn't make him complicit. dumb yes, but not complicit. it's completely the perpetrator's fault in a situation of a guy walking alone at 3 am in a rough neighborhood and getting mugged, as well as when a girl gets raped walking around a dark alley at 3 am.
/r/MensRights03/10/20 07:57 PM
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if a girl acts like her last relationship was so dramatic, and you ask for details, but she's short ont hem or very vague, it's because it's a bunch of horseshit. my thinking is that they tell other people the guy was bad so they can blame it on him, because either: (a): she doesn't want to admit her shittiness, hence the vague details (b): being dumped by him for whatever reason makes her feel like she's not good enough (self esteem and self worth took a huge hit) so they have to do mental gymn…
/r/askTRP03/10/20 01:40 AM
2

how come?
/r/askTRP02/10/20 06:34 PM
2

i understand. and ive had family members fall prey to political smear campaigns against me. stand your ground. point out facts. don't get reeled into stupid stuff and strawmanning (look this up, it's a favorite technique of stupid people), etc.... feels>real. that's the truth of how some ppl operate. just keep learning. keep strengthening your ability to hold together emotions under duress. you will get there.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:18 PM
6

what is being married like in your eyes?
/r/askTRP02/10/20 02:47 PM
1

this aint true my friend. i know what you mean i think in terms of the sentiment. along the lines of that what is considered a sexy action by a good looking person would be considered creepy by a bad looking person. but confidence is sexy regardless of looks.
/r/seduction01/10/20 08:50 PM
1

awesome. every once into a while you run into an indian girl with some really impressive tits. amazing stuff.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:31 PM
2

it depends. is she a latina or black girl? latina and black girls (From my experience) are more into banter. so it's not necessarily that they are turned on by those ppl. it could easily be they are just bantering with those ppl. if u and a girl are interested in eachother, yea y'all can banter like that. and it could be they are open to only bantering with friends or a guy they have already decided they are interested in, not necessarily that a guy shit talks them makes them interested (could g…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 07:33 PM
1

man i hate wearing a condom, but with you acting as my support gorup in this comment, i will make the wise choice lol
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:52 PM
1

I feel you though man. There's some pretty hot chicks I've matched with on Tinder that I'd have sex with but I'm Little Tommy and they are the girl from across town in the hood parts. So I do have some fears of them lying to me about taking birth control.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 04:44 PM
1

lol i'm glad you enjoyed it
/r/askTRP30/09/20 04:34 PM
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1500 a month?! sounds like shes well off enough bro lol. just kidding but yeah i'd look into it. sure, so here's an example: ​ Let's say you grew up in a nice suburban neighborhood with low crime and good economic standing. A nice sense of community safety and law abiding citizens. Well, if you grow up this way, there's a significantly less amount of utility to coming off as a tough aggressive guy that nobody wants to fuck with. Little Tommy goes to basketblal practice every friday after school …
/r/askTRP30/09/20 04:15 PM
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honestly just look at her background. if she comes from a similar economic class as you then you probably have less to worry about. i understand your concern, and i think it is a smart concecrn to have for any man what a woman's intentions are if you are both from a backgrond of sharply different economic classes. not just money wise and if they are there to use you, or if they will baby lock you by lying that they are on birth control. but also world view differences. coming from different econ…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:27 PM
2

lmao. well dude i dont have have hunter eyes, high cheekbones or aquiline nose, so i guess im fucked!
/r/seduction30/09/20 12:47 AM
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kindaish. not to your extent. bless you and keep strong. you're great. when i was growing up i had wished iwas the most popular guy so i could get the girls. etc. you know the drill. but i'm actually GLAD now that I was not the most popular guy. being the most popuar severely reduces the likelihood that your woman will decide to expose the crazy AWALT side of behavior in hserlf that TRP explains. if you go through life up until your 30's and 40's and then see the crazy side while you're married,…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 09:41 PM
2

if someone has a need to say "i know you're insecure, i can see through you"..... ​ uhhhh... lol... ok......
/r/askTRP29/09/20 07:06 PM
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medical school stuff is really tough and a heavy commitment. i remember a story on reddit where someone said that during their residency program for becoming a doctor, when they were saying bye to their kids when about to drive to the hospital, the kid sosaid something to the effect of "have fun at your house dad!" the person said it broke their heart that he spent so much time at the hospital during his residency years (i'm not sure if residency would be the same term in czech rep, but bsically…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 06:33 PM
1

thanks. good advice. i can make talk easy. but i'm not good at the making a genuine connection thing. ill focus on that.
/r/seduction29/09/20 05:02 AM
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sure thing tough guy
/r/seduction29/09/20 04:57 AM
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what's the mainpoints?
/r/seduction29/09/20 03:23 AM
3

nice and simple. thanks.
/r/seduction28/09/20 10:14 PM
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haha "spam approaches"... i totally know what you mean and those are cringe. but i am guilty of it. thanks. i'm similar to you. when i see the master do it, and i get the sense of how it's done, then i'm good to go. hopefully i can do in person cold approach one day. my ability to talk on dating apps at least looks different like night and day compared to once upon a time.
/r/seduction28/09/20 07:25 PM
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man, that's really true. it can defintely be reflective of some kind of narrative of self-doubt you have conditioned into yourself in your overall life if you are afraid of cold approach. honestly, if i went up to a 10, in a metaphorical way i wouldn't be able to put my whole true self into it because part of my emotional state is that I'm at the top of castle fortress fighting off the invaders of my castle from the tribe called "doubt". the doubt is in the back of my head, and i'm fighting it o…
/r/seduction28/09/20 06:52 PM
8

what's your advice as a woman for a cold approach (in an appropriate location) for a guy who is decent looking, but not out of this world attractive?
/r/seduction28/09/20 05:39 PM
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what's your personal cold approach advice? that shit's hard.
/r/seduction28/09/20 05:37 PM
1

don't worry about it man. those are a bunch of pussies.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 03:13 PM
1

Exactly this. I’m confident in my ability to defend myself 1 on 1 if my life depended on it. Outside of the gym there’s just too many unknown factors. Guy could have a knife, gun, etc. It’s always better to let your ego take a hit than to risk your life/record/wealth on something so minor as an ego war. this is some real man advice. thank you. i'm more on the side of don't let ego take a hit. but you've reasoned me out of it.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 03:10 PM
2

lmao. i like how you say it like a cave man.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 07:57 PM
3

why do you think that is the biggest success drain?
/r/askTRP27/09/20 05:58 PM
3

what's the first rule of fight club?
/r/askTRP26/09/20 12:27 AM
1

yeah. he's a total douche cunt without a pair
/r/MensRights25/09/20 09:13 PM
1

it makes it even worse that aguy said that. what a fucking cunt
/r/MensRights25/09/20 06:46 PM
2

wait, are oyu serious? a man said that to your class?
/r/MensRights25/09/20 05:32 PM
2

i looked it up and it seems there's a question if she ever truly said that, but here are a handful of quotes that are good ones nonetheless, and are somewhat under the spirit of the quote you typed: https://hatfulofhistory.wordpress.com/2013/10/17/did-thatcher-really-owe-nothing-to-womens-lib-tracking-down-that-elusive-quote/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/20 08:45 PM
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interesting. makes me curious about her background and upbringing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/20 08:28 PM
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what's the dear colleague letter?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/20 07:08 PM
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do you have some context or quotes on what she expressed disgust on regarding feminism?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/20 07:08 PM
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this is both a man and woman thing. sometimes they may be genuine in trying to add to things. but my general impression is ppl do this because they have no other way to add value, so they default to criticizing the most minute things to give te appearanace they are masterful because they know how to criticize minute details that are of no consequence. no its not true leadership. yes its invasive. yes its stupid for someone to point out the most common sense thing and actl ike theyre some kind of…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:59 PM
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never ever bring this up at work ever again. for the rest of your emplyment career, never do it. no matter how many times you say the court proved you innocent, there are narrative others might have in their head. that the court is stacked against women. believe women. the jury must have been men and they were bias. etc.... these are highly emotional issues that people will make their own conclusions on due to the emotional nature. so no matter how logical, NEVER say anything like this ever agai…
/r/MensRights21/09/20 06:21 PM
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ur fine. it will go away dude. try to avoid sitting there wonering why wy why. what did she do or mean by this etc. as you go through life, you'll realize that the evils you believe others have done to you, are things that you end up doing. maybe she wanted to have sex and really liked sex with you, and she kinda strung you along to kee pthat. think of it on the other coin. tons of guys do that. and there's a chance you will probably end up in a situation where you end up doing that in one way o…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:59 AM
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I'd like to ask a question, and it relates to number 2: How far is too far in showing vulnerability and it just makes you look like a debbie downer? And what about in the work place when you are trying to make a professional impression (I get afraid of showing vulnerability because I'm afraid it will give the impression of incompetence and get me passed up on the promotion).?
/r/seduction20/09/20 03:14 PM
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damn... i vibe with that statements rather than questions thing. such a good point.
/r/seduction20/09/20 03:11 PM
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thank you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/20 02:09 PM
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young brother. focus on you first. get the car, get the house, because you want it. get the money and financial security because that's what you want. it's not your job to entertain, appease, and be good enough to satisfy awoman. always rmeember YOU have as much power to evaluate a woman as they have you. do you like the girl? is she pretty? is she not insane? is she fun? is she nice? can she make you laugh? is she cool? is she a positive vibe? focus on if she has cool qualities and y'all connec…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/20 04:29 AM
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lmao. i appreciate you have this quality because i have said this before and i teach it to other men. don't act like you are on american idol trying to impress a judge putting up a scorecard. YOU HAVE A SCORECARD TOO FOR GOD'S SAKE. and if they don't respect hat you have a scorecard too, they aren't worth it because chances are they don't have enough self-evaluation tools in their mind to be a good partner. it's at least my personal complaint against some girls i've gotten to know. that our cult…
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:16 AM
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will you marry me?
/r/seduction20/09/20 01:20 AM
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kinda. it can last for a long time and be good friends, but the eventuallity of it is it falls over. the emotions are fickle and one small misstep and they'll decide not to be friends anymore with a guy and keep a distance. that's been my experience.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 05:21 PM
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i was confused about whose pin this is exactly and i left with the interpretation that it was a pin the gf's ex-roommate gave her and she put it up in their home or apartment. well, if you'd like you can try out dating a woman falling deep into feminism. i personally would never date a woman falling into the rabit hole of looking at every small action in the day as some sort of institutionalized male oppression towards women. that's going to create some pent up emotions that will be mercilessly …
/r/MensRights19/09/20 03:37 PM
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someone in another thread pointed out why this is awesome. we get to pick our battles. we have agency. we get to have our eyes set on improving as people. girls have it coded in them they can't approach. they have to fling their hair or do some other small cutesy little "signal" they're interested. but guidelines don't allow them the agency to directly do it. with the way he put it, i liked it.
/r/seduction18/09/20 09:25 PM
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I gotcha. Yeah he should at least try with an open mind for a second, but a mind that's rational for his own interests too. I don't anticipate she's going to be pleasant to stick around with. But hey, that's the purpose of subs like this. The more men who stick it to women like this and say "that shit's dumb and unacceptable; bye", the more and more women will change their ways and realize men won't put up with this crap, so we can all eventually reach a good woman down the line once we all set …
/r/MensRights18/09/20 08:21 PM
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How many long term relationships have you had? This is a pretty big red flag, and I anticipate she won't ever discuss it. When she can't counter with reason, deflection and acting like the guy is being irritating is such a typical weapon used.
/r/MensRights18/09/20 07:52 PM
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i think this falls under (and you made me realize it) a self-fulfilling prophecy. the girl likes you the way you are. but because you act in such a way described above, it's self fulfilling that she ends up not liking you.
/r/seduction18/09/20 03:02 PM
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hmm. yeah that's true; ur right. i can recall back when this worked out much better than through direct verbal communication.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 08:28 PM
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maybe your dad is saying that when really, if you are going to the gym a lot, he hates the fact it's taking time away from him and you spending time. could that be it?
/r/askTRP16/09/20 03:55 PM
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you sure that's the best way? that route seems passive aggressive and moreso in the woman arsenal rather than our own.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 03:54 PM
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it ain't that much brain power. look at the body language, listen to the tone. when girls eyes water up and a blank stare happens, you know they've gone off into a distant land where they mean something different from what they say. i mean, come on now. it's the same thing as husband wife games in a sense. she says "i'm fine". you know that doesn't mean shes fine. she says "pick anywhere to eat", you know she doesn't mean that. better yet and similarly, lets take away yes/no away from sex, and m…
/r/MensRights15/09/20 08:48 PM
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yeah. and you're going to have a good time screaming that in court when you go to jail for it. yeah it'd be dumb to be accused and put to jail if she said yes. but that's the reality of the situation of what happens in the world unfortunately. we can separate this into two things: take the right action to avoid rape accusations for your own benefit by understanding the world as it is (Even if she says yes, it's advisable to not continue if her body language says no, so that you avoid rape accusa…
/r/MensRights15/09/20 08:15 PM
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nah. we gotta tell men this is the POV of some women out there, so they can avoid rape accusations. it's not ideal society that rape accusations happen this way. but that's the way it is for the time being until things can change.
/r/MensRights15/09/20 02:20 PM
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nah. we gotta tell men this is the POV of some women out there, so they can avoid rape accusations. it's not ideal society that rape accusations happen this way. but that's the way it is for the time being until things can change.
/r/MensRights15/09/20 02:19 PM
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Edit: I suppose I need to explain more clearly. This is not a "women are special fairies that men must praise and give special standards to because women" comment. This is a this is the current reality of the world, and we would do better to let men know this (the lack of self-agency in women out there, therefore resulting in a rape accusation even if they do say "yes"). Yes, it's dumb that it happens. But if you want to protect yourself from a rape accusation, if she's saying "yes", but the bod…
/r/MensRights15/09/20 04:57 AM
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thanks. will do.
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:47 PM
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Do you heavily recommend the book? And is it more of a proper mindset book, rather than a "do xyz" and you will get the girl book? That's what I liked about Book of Pook. It taught mindset, instead of teaching "this is how to make every right move." Proper mindset that naturally result in the right moves in life without thinking about it is what I value.
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:31 PM
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have you read the book models? i hear it focuses on the topic of being needy. i really liked your explanation of neediness, so that's why i bring it up since the themes collide.
/r/seduction12/09/20 05:29 PM
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yeah.. often times i think that the reason they dont do the simple request is because it's a passive aggressive retalation against some pereceived wrongdoing (from some other time) against them they never expressed concern about.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 10:40 PM
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cool. thanks for sharing.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 08:44 PM
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Gotcha. I see your point. I Think it depends on the situation. On one hand if she's a psycho bitch tryin to have power over people with her actions intentionally, then she will go down your route. On the other hand, if her actions are motivated by insecurity from having a need for validation and assurance, I think some form of apology will lighten her heart and make her feel more secure around him and bring a collaboratively good result. There's a chance he really shouldn't have to apologize in …
/r/askTRP10/09/20 08:43 PM
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I see what you mean. Maybe you're right or I'm right; these are my thoughts on why it's ok to go into her frame a little bit, and I'd like to hear your thoughts too, or your thoughts on my thoughts: I don't know about frame applying to this situation. A relationship between a man and a woman does not have as much of a marked hierarchical structure the way there is between a manager and an employee. So I think the frame game works much differently than it does in a relationship or dating because …
/r/askTRP10/09/20 07:53 PM
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reason being?
/r/askTRP10/09/20 07:39 PM
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lmao
/r/askTRP10/09/20 07:02 PM
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thank. what do you mean by "no good or bad, skilled or unskilled"?
/r/askTRP10/09/20 05:41 PM
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intersting. thanks for the advice. espescially the last line. i think a weakness of trp is people interacting in a way they think it should be, rather than interacting through the prism of what the world is. you interacted with the world through what it is. in that our social dynamoics are that having a woman in your situation point the finger was helpful, rather than having a man do it (or yourself as a man do it). my knee jerk reaction would be "i shouldn't have to get a woman to do this this.…
/r/askTRP10/09/20 05:29 PM
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wow ok. thank you for teaching me this. this is solid stuff. when you say reprsentative, do you mean an attorney?
/r/askTRP10/09/20 05:18 PM
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trp is a powerful weapon that can be destructive to the wielder if the sword is not wielded properly. such as this example above of a misjudgment of what alpha behavior is. politics is part of the game. playing politics is alpha. and part of politics is sometimes showing subordination in a corporate environment (an environment with different considerations from the dating world). recognizing this is alpha.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 05:15 PM
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how do you get that going?
/r/askTRP10/09/20 05:01 PM
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so companies consider a notebook valid documentation? I've always wondered if the other person can fire back and say "he made that up. he got mad at me over something, so he made false accusations and dated them to far back to act like something happened, when really it's backlash for this most recent thing happening."
/r/askTRP10/09/20 05:00 PM
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ok makes sense. thank you.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 04:57 PM
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how could getting HR involved solve anything? this is why I'm confused on why people keep saying it: she has every means of plausible deniability because even though it is probably true what he is saying, HR can't measure "vibe" because it can easily be countered by saying it's subjective. "Mary stopped inviting me to meetings and froze me out of projects, and has been giving me mean mugs, after i criticized her in a meeting." "Mary, is this true?" "No, his performance metrics in xyz went down, …
/r/askTRP10/09/20 04:46 PM
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how could getting HR involved solve anything? this is why I'm confused on why people keep saying it: she has every means of plausible deniability because even though it is probably true what he is saying, HR can't measure "vibe" because it can easily be countered by saying it's subjective. "Mary stopped inviting me to meetings and froze me out of projects, and has been giving me mean mugs, after i criticized her in a meeting." "Mary, is this true?" "No, his performance metrics in xyz went down, …
/r/askTRP10/09/20 04:46 PM
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​ it's not beta. this is politics. knowing how to game poltiics is alpha. when there's a clear hieracrchy in a corporate environment that can sack you at any time, you must play politics. you must play the game of looking good, while also disguising it to your superiors that you aren't having more power or social capital than they do, even though you may be. ​ think about it like this. if you are part of a dictator government structure, you can't make yourself look good at the expense of making …
/r/askTRP10/09/20 04:42 PM
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i don't hink this is necessarily true. she's going to be that way no matter what. it's practically women biology to be that way. don't complain. just say "hey i realized the other day i threw you under the bus and i wanted to apologize. i think you're a great person and i actually felt bad about it, considering you've been a good manager to me." maybe bring a cookie from the snack room or something and leave it on the desk as well as a show of god faith too. i think don't acknolwedge the behavio…
/r/askTRP10/09/20 04:34 PM
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When dealing with women in power make sure you understand the optics of how it looks to offer "constructive criticism". Generally I always approached issues like this in a way that made it "our" issues, not hers. "Hey this product is failing stability" is a simple statement, that only conveys info. Simple right? Not really. I learned instead to say, "Hey, we have a problem. I have a stability issue with your product" See the difference? I don't understand this part though. Wouldn't saying "YOUR"…
/r/askTRP10/09/20 04:28 PM
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this man knows what he's talking about right here.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 04:23 PM
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how do you "document" things and situatiosn at work? i've never understood this. do you document with hr? do you email yourself so it has a timestamp? documenting has never made sense to me because if you documented they could easily say that you wrote something down 5 months later and dated it way back and accuse you of fake documentation, which is why i bring up asking if emailing yourself so it has a timestamp is a viable "documentation" method.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 04:19 PM
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when i was younger, the most dangerous thing to my mind was assuming that there was a negative consensus against me. there are mind tricks people can play in the social game to only give the appearance that EVERYONE thinks a certain way of you. when in reality, that's not true at all. you still have ppl who love you and want to be friends with you. imp ression is not always guided by accusations and gossip someone throws at you. oftentimes, it's simply guided by their impression of you and if th…
/r/askTRP10/09/20 03:31 AM
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bro don't do this path. what do YOU like? if it's video games, great. but yeah, chicks aren't going to dig you talking about that all the time, so maybe find another one that would be attractive. but while you're at it, make sure it's one that YOU actually like too. that is just as important, if not more important. and then when you like it, it's the passion that you do it with that shines through and is a magnet, not necessarily that you do it. that's why you have to genuinely like it. i recomm…
/r/askTRP09/09/20 09:56 PM
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I can't give adviec on everything because I haven't experienced what you have, but here's what I can: I can empathize with your adult figure issues and how that affects you. In my head as I grew I realized things like "Life turned out his way, and I reacted this way in important situations XYZ growing up because of how adult figure turned me into this through how mean they were. Turned me into a beta or wimp. Stopped me from having all the friends and girls etc." Which can be true. Because the a…
/r/askTRP08/09/20 03:49 PM
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lol. alrighty. ill take your word for it and not be the one to judge the situation. what's this dr. remulak reference. never seen it.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 08:02 PM
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give the man some encouragement bro. maybe he just a little down on his confidence and needs some validation. we've all been there.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 05:59 AM
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i really recommend reading book of pook. it will get all men in the right mind set. acutally a pretty good life guide. and thne if you want further detail, rational male expalins certain female behaviors that leave you scratching your head.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 05:54 AM
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that's a good point. i think i have to pipe it down a little. im a friendly person and like to be a jokester. which unfortunately in this day and age, ppl interpret things in god knows what kind of way no matter how lighthearted the joke.
/r/MGTOW204/09/20 11:22 PM
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that's exactly the reason. and definitely part of the RP bible. think of the ebbs and flows of your confidence throughout your life. at peak confidence, when someone tries to rip into you, you don't give a shit because you're on top of the world and feel alpha. when you're low on your confidence and social standing, you do care when someone rips into you or says something bad about you. so saying some shitty words is a pretty good test of where your social standing is.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 04:43 PM
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dont you need to build the connections and good impression around the office to get the promotions though? which would include being within a good reputation among the women in the office too? seriously asking.
/r/MGTOW204/09/20 04:40 PM
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same exact thing for me. it turned my percetions upsdide down and really made me see things for what they really were
/r/askTRP03/09/20 04:26 PM
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literally just eye contact, hello, then run back and ask for a number? you must be a realy attractive person then because no way in my world would that work. most guys have to do more talkign than that
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:25 PM
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uhhh. please do tell on how you did the cold approach. what's your tactic?
/r/askTRP03/09/20 04:22 AM
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alright my man. let me give you the bewt life advice i wish i had at your age. do your best to reconnect with who you are deep in your soul. some refinement is definitely cool and acceptable as well. this is what i think happens. you're in elementary or middle school. there's a managable number of people you can get to know on a personal level and truly be the soul of who youare. but as you get into high school, that unmber of people in the crowd is unmanageable. you cna't possibly get ot know e…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:28 PM
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how do you bass whisper? if i whisper my voice gets airy and i lose the deepness of my voice. i do have a deep voice tho.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 06:29 PM
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"oh really? you should leave this room as soon as possible then!"
/r/askTRP31/08/20 07:00 PM
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that lucrative career in porn part would be very hard to pull off properly. i think i fyou replace that then this is good.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 05:25 PM
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you repel people because from the looks of your words, deep down you seem to be scared of being seen as a loser in any way, so you puff your chest and overcompensate by trying to overdo always being seen as a winner and your defensive mechanism against anything that goes against the image is autopiloting into everyone else is a hater, even if their constructive feedback of you are valid. my guess is you are obssessed with presenting an image of yourself, and people are able to pick up on it and …
/r/askTRP31/08/20 04:43 AM
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it's only weak if it comes from a weak place. if that action is manufactured by inseucrity, it's weak. if it's not manufactured by an insecure emotion, it's not weak. just learn to get past the anxeiety and find the source of it. takes time, but you can do it bro.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 01:43 AM
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lol. looks like your brain needs reps. he was saying focusing on those areas makes him look better with his shirt off more than focusing on his chest does.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 12:13 AM
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obviously the situatino is wrong. im asking why the men's family doens't retaliate, and given that they are more wealthy (because as explained it's the poor families who can't afford dowry that are kidnapping men from educated backgrounds), i'd assume they'd have much more resources to retaliate 10x as hard. so i don't get why they aren't retaliating given they have resources to do so.
/r/MensRights26/08/20 07:13 PM
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i don't understand. assuming that it is a wife of a poor family who hired a gang to do these threats and force the male to marry, and then continue the threats to keep him there, why doesn't the presumably wealthier family of the male (since people are saying they kidnpa men of higher educaitonal background if the wife's family is poor and can't afford dowry) hire their own gang to protect agaisnt this and get he male out of the forced marriage?
/r/MensRights26/08/20 04:40 PM
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three things: shit tests/maintaining frame - they say stupid shit that sounds insulting because they are testing that. what is a game? - when you play a game of basketball, do you expect to win every time? do you expect to make every shot? no. that'd be fucking ridiculous. so why do you get bent out of shape and pressure yourself to say every prfect word to a woman and see having game as reaching a point where you can seduce any woman? that's stupid. having that mentality will hold you back and …
/r/askTRP24/08/20 04:51 PM
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i gotta say this is very productive advice
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:44 PM
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https://medium.com/eros-is-everywhere/cheating-on-my-husband-made-me-a-better-mother-53bad23e1494 ​ This is something that gets pointed out a lot amongst men talk. Imagine a man writing that article title. Nobody bats an eye because it's a woman. She'll have an army justify that her husband did something wrong, which in their mind justifies her affair. A man would never ever get that because the pitch forks would be out for him.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/20 02:27 AM
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would love to hear your beliefs in a long reply
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/20 01:22 PM
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I appreciate us being able to discuss this mutually in a descriptie manner without either of us taking offense. I unfortunately, have fallen more towards the spectrum of "all xyz are like that" based on my own experiences and the experiences of other friends. I hope, I'm wrong and you are right. I had always heard growing up, people say things like "dude, women never admit fault", etc. And I felt those were generalizations, but I myself and other friends have happened upon seeing this behavior i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/20 06:38 PM
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If you don't mind me asking, what's your age range roughly (ex. mid 20's, mid 30's) and havee you had a long term relationship? Knowing this will make it more clear where you're coming from. My disgruntledness stems from seeing women in relationships (and ones that I've personally experienced) simply not take any responsibility for their actions and never admit fault/apologize, no matter how red handed they are. I've seen a relationship partner lie to a therapist about what actually happened in …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/20 04:41 PM
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what's an aphorism could you point out that you think illustrates his point best on the topic?
/r/askTRP17/08/20 03:05 AM
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which one of them discusses the topic the most?
/r/askTRP16/08/20 02:39 PM
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which Nietzsche book does he talk about this in? I'd like to read it.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 02:04 PM
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yeah it's pretty ridiculous and is my number one complaint. it's so pervasive that they forget they have to bring something to the table too. so pervasive in dating culture that my mind believes that more likely than not, a woman in front of me has to show me she is impressive, not because I feel by default i am better than her, but because the stupid "Im better by default because of my existence as this gender" thought process completely blockades their self development when they think they hav…
/r/askTRP14/08/20 05:16 PM
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it took having an LTR to fully realize it. in my head, i fell into the whole notion of i have to impress girls nad if they turn me down its because im not good enough. but when i got into an LTR, holy shit. it blew my mind. over a longer period of time some of them can't hide insanity the way one off girls i would never see again could.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 02:41 AM
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well, if it getting you cumonherbitties as an end result, then i guess it works. high five.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 03:23 PM
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this sounds boring and unrealistic
/r/askTRP13/08/20 02:11 PM
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i believe it was the book rational male that addressed this. might have been book of pook
/r/askTRP12/08/20 03:23 AM
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time to go to subreddit askhistorians then. ​ thanks for sharing. not that i doubt you, but it's my principle to personally verify facts before i share them with others.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/20 06:25 PM
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can you share a sourcefor this? I can't find information on this on google.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/20 06:18 PM
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depends. still a number of factors that can go either way. just putting it in that context because i think there's a false notion out there that looks are the most important. i don't think it is. men heavily value a reliable partner that won't be a headache to deal with in a marriage for decades. i would never prioritize hot sex with a 10/10 looking person in a marriage over having an awesome person in a marriage. that sex wouldn't makeup for the pains of not having a good partner.
/r/seduction10/08/20 02:33 AM
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what's a quote that you have read that you believe is victim blamey?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/20 02:28 AM
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i'll be honest about one part. you don't have to be dashingly gorgeous. but at least alright looking (anyone can accomplish this) is needed. but outside of that, to really stand out to me at least, don't just go with all of the stereotypical feminine stuff. have some kind of cool edge to your personality that's different from the typical. to me, just the typical "one day im going to take care of the kids, cook, tend to our garden, set up the place for dinners with guests, etc" is no fun. what ma…
/r/seduction10/08/20 02:25 AM
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how do you successfully approach random women in the nightlife scene?
/r/askTRP08/08/20 06:01 AM
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duh
/r/askTRP07/08/20 03:48 PM
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i can't stress the first paragraph of this enough. its so true in my experience. it's also a scarcity mentality, meaning a person feels they have such scarce amoutn of something they want that they'll take anything of it they can get, even if the quality sucks. in the case of men chasing women, they get head over heels even when the quality sucks because of a lack of confidence and scarcity mindset. when you develop that confidence in yourself, you begin seeing bullshit for bullshit nad you don'…
/r/seduction07/08/20 03:03 AM
2

there are more details than that you fucking vag
/r/askTRP07/08/20 02:28 AM
1

lol it's not tat easy.... the charisma is the part that makes things hard
/r/askTRP06/08/20 07:11 PM
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what's your advice to getting sex with that many women?
/r/askTRP06/08/20 01:34 PM
1

i've thoght of our conversation a little bit. and i thought back to mentioning that i believe some adjustment of gender roles is ok. i mentioned that men should be able to turn on/off masculine traits given the conditions of situatinos. personally where I'm coming from on that is that I feel there is a societal pressure and also pressure from women/gf/spouse to constantly be "manly". to consistently have this tough guy vibe to you. on one end, i mentioned some female roles are outdated in certai…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 02:32 AM
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"yeah, i am in fact a virgin from smelly pussy" **glances down at her crotch**
/r/askTRP04/08/20 08:15 PM
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you caught me
/r/askTRP04/08/20 07:47 PM
2

nice, warm, tight, squishy in a good way. i dunno bro lol
/r/askTRP04/08/20 07:47 PM
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man.... i fingered a girl with the best pussy i've ever touched and really wanted to fuck her (she wanted to too). but my rule i always follow is never have sex with someone it would be unbearable to raise a kid with (if she happened to get pregnant). so i restrained myself.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 06:42 PM
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have him read book of pook. it acknowledges how behavior in women can be offputting, but also discusses women hating bheavior and why that's not the right direction despite this offputting behavior.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:05 PM
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for sure. also want to add is that there are areas they arne't doing themselves favors in. double standards out there. ex. a new visual album on disney plus called "Black Is King" by beyonce. I'm sure you know where I'm going with this on why that title is a double standard.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 02:43 AM
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yeah i gotcha. you are right about that. what I believe is fueling the current situation is connectinos to the past. given that a lot of people were alive before vast change with jfk, mlk, lbj happened, they still have a significant amount of distrust and a viceral reaction to any sort of line crossing (no matter how big or small) to ensure that the line crossing doesn't become rampant and rewind back to the past they have lived before. hence, we get the reaction we get right now, even though yo…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:26 PM
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thanks for sharing. interesting info
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:20 PM
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yeah i gotcha brother. i passionately agree with the most basic cause of blm (no more racism, no more unjustifiable uses of force by police). but come on, "defund the police"? it blows my mind that people can't put two and two together that defunding the police is actually going to cause far more violence in communities than any unjustified violence the police may commit. the ironic part about it is that one side of the aisle says that the other is does a lot of "white savior complex", but right…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 10:35 PM
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haha. ive looked at it through the scope of how it seems to push feministic qualities in the world and it's helped me understand it/its appeal better.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:46 PM
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yeah. which is funny because the one side of the political aisle is the supposedly scientific side. but then they lean on science and research to say "gender is a social construct." but they have no idea how some of this science can be corrupted by financial interests and pressure on researchers at universities to make "groundbreaking" discoveries, that end up being fiction (but they say its real to get accolades and tenure, etc) etc. funny username by the way.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:26 PM
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you're probably right. in certain areas, i hope you and i end up wrong. redefining some level of how much of traditional masculine traits are needed, the degree they're needed, and allowing for an on/off switch for certain traditional masculine traits, along with redefining that womenhood can include self sufficiency and getting their own financial resources (unlike in previous times of history) and caring for themselves, as a result of having a safer industrialized society, is what i mean. all …
/r/askTRP03/08/20 07:52 PM
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k
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/20 03:10 PM
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lmao dude. trustme. chill out. lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/20 02:53 PM
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i think what's going on is that as societies industrialize, the value of masculinity is far less visible. they forget that it is traditional masculine traits and responsibilities (competitiveness, battles, telling people to fuck off, conquering) that build a safe society in the first place. The bare bones origin of every neighborhood is someone took over some land and they grew a strong enough military or society that made all surrounding neighborhoods too scared to take it over, thus making it …
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:47 PM
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lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/20 01:39 PM
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I'll give it a shot. thanks for the tip. If I'm not so lucky, how should I work with a woman in a relationship who does not communciate well, given your experience perceiving the world from both sides of the coin?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/20 09:27 PM
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i have not really ran into women who will talk in a straightforward way in a relationship. to the point i'm giving up hope that it exists. you're saying it really is out there and I'm braing washing myself (from my sample size of relationships) into thinking women dont communicate in relatinoships?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/20 06:48 PM
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I'd like to hear your take: now that you've seen relationships from both sides of the coin, what would you relationship advice be since you get how both genders feel? and to clarify, which gender/genders have you been interested in dating before and after transition?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/20 05:52 PM
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you have a very self aggrandizing opinion of how objective and intuitive you are
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/20 05:49 PM
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didn't even notice. thank you sensei.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 02:25 AM
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i luv u. u luv me. we're a happy fa-mi-ly.....
/r/askTRP01/08/20 10:42 PM
1

i always go through the process in my mind of "is it worth investing my time to read this book." to save you the pain of researching that question, my answer is undoubtedly yes you should read it.
/r/seduction01/08/20 09:52 PM
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just because they don't give it doesn't mean all is lost. or frame is gone. i had a girl not text me when i gave my number and said what's your number text me. a week later i said hey again on the app. eventually i got her number, and i am comfortably holding onto frame. remmeber, game is continual.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:48 PM
1

how do you approach? simple as "hey I'm _____. what's your name? "? and second question, how do you approach a girl in a group of girls? THAT is the toughest challenge since it's so easy for them to go silent and give indirect cues with their silence they want you to shoo away.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 07:28 PM
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alright. thanks. well this covid shit can't leave soon enough. im ready to get going on it.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 07:22 PM
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what are some examples? I feel like I'd come off as trying too hard if I did any of this. when you say something like ask the right question, normally I feel it would turn out as "so waht do you like to do for fun/inyour free time?" "i like to xyz" "ok cool" "you?" "i like this stuff" ***conversation stalls and things don't have momentum********* I'm not good at cold approach. My strength is warming a girl up over time and then it turns into something. But man, coming off the right way right off…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 02:36 PM
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how do you cold approach someone and keep their interest?
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:31 AM
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homie, I relate to your words and put high value into them (more than an Internet article and can't afford therapy)... so that's why I'm askin'!
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:10 AM
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you're my start! come on! let's hear it! :P
/r/askTRP31/07/20 03:05 AM
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thanks for your tips. personally, it's been a lifelong challenge with me, im trying to unlearn. what ways/methods/techniques do you use, or even, what mentality do you take in, to have assertiveness with firm boundaries? would apprecaite your help.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 02:46 AM
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i guess i can be a little too pansy on this. my inclination is to say dont go too hard or else theyre going to spread rumors and start some shit and prolong it. Do I have a pretty unbalanced view you'd say?
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:58 AM
2

Book of Pook describes game as ..... like a game. Like ANY game. Michael Jordan didn't win it all. Michael Phelps didn't win it all. Wayne Gretzky didn't win it all. Babe Ruth didn't win it all. Tom Brady didn't win it all. It goes back to the old saying, you win some you lose some. Game can be IMPROVED. And improvement can be made so that your likelihood of winning the Game for that day, is won. But just like any of those great athletes, they don't win every game every day. Everyday is a new ga…
/r/seduction30/07/20 07:19 PM
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how do you subtly show you are not an easy target. i am not good at the subtle that is needed in the workplace for this kind of task.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 06:01 PM
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it might be different for every guy. I'm not a 10/10 kind of good looking guy, so my experience might not apply to all men. If it's somewhat of a half serious half joking sexual pick up line that could end up in a good laugh, there is more room to do it. If you are talking about straight up getting into dirty talk and telling her physical things you want to do with her (smoothly getting into that convo, not just saying it outright), then you might have to break a barrier first before they are wi…
/r/seduction29/07/20 12:06 AM
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i personally didn't have this problem. i think the book is really long and takes time, but i think the content is readable.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 03:52 PM
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hey dude; this isn't being insecure. this is having a normal reaction to what is more than likely a shady action from her. there's adifference between expressing that this is shady to her in an insecure way (ex. if you'er projecting worries about not being good enough) and saying "look, im not into a relationship that has bullshit, and if this is what you're going to do, we've gotta talk about maybe splitting up. i think we should both expect standards of trust from eachother, and if that's not …
/r/askTRP26/07/20 09:09 PM
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very true. it's hard to balance the reflex to do all this in the heat of the moment though because there's definitely built in feelings of shame in masculine culture if you don't do all this take initiative, be bold, and take shots stuff.
/r/seduction25/07/20 07:24 PM
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this is a solid point. if you only pick battles you know you will win, there's a certain impression it creates in your social circle or at the workplace, etc.
/r/seduction25/07/20 05:10 PM
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beautiful
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:24 PM
2

are disqualify, attract and repel red pill terms?
/r/askTRP20/07/20 01:50 PM
1

what's the reason nurses and teachers should be plates?
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:35 PM
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like everyone else has said, I too would recommend sticking with the degree. ​ maybe this appleis to you, maybe not. when i was your age i did have temptations to get into the rougher professions, etc. the idea of being outside and getting my hands dirty, feeling manly, projecting an image of manliness with the manliness image associatedwith my job title when i state my job title, yeah, that was all appealing. it made me feel like i would look cooler or have more life fulfillment. but honestly, …
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:35 PM
2

i know you are going to get a lot of "yeah just focus on yourself and become awesome and naturally girls will begin to flock to you" advice. which is true to certain degrees, but in that process you might have thsi deep yearning for getting a gf that might still hurt. my recommendation is improve yrouself independent of women and establish your territory, what makes you cool, what things do you like to spend time on and enjoy, but also while taking that mentality of establishing your zone of "co…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:06 PM
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how do you access these kinds of archives and google things in these archives related to the topic? i'm not computer savvy enough to know. ​ Edit: in addition, do archives basically retain the website too? you can click through everything as if it was the original subreddit?
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:26 AM
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Listen!
/r/askTRP27/06/20 06:45 PM
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what are some different perspectives on it you have had as the years progressed?
/r/askTRP27/06/20 03:35 PM
3

Navi has something to say about that...
/r/askTRP27/06/20 03:31 PM
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hoenstly i feel the same way and can still see it. if i do xyz thing that I used to get teased/bullied for in high school , i still think of it in my head adn can see the people laughing at me. im slowly letting go. almost there. i don't know what to say on the cure, but i want to commend you for even having the courage to bring it up. sometimes with things like that that feel "unmasculine", we're afraid to bring it up. myself included. it feels like you're the only person in the world who has t…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 10:36 PM
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very motivational. thank you for this.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 10:31 PM
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Don't listen to anyone that immediately says "just tell your dad now." think it through. get more advice. think of more scenarios. weigh pros and cons for that. these situations aren't as simple as the "just tell your dad" advice make it out to be. ​ BUT, for future leverage in case your mom tries something shitty, gather solid evidence now and stow it away. "x person, y neighbor, z church congregant, said ____" isn't good enough because she can twist the perception and deny, or do an ad hominen…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 04:02 PM
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this is something i've never really understood. how come their biology has them wanting to be degraded by a Chad?
/r/askTRP25/06/20 04:27 PM
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