spos909 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is the reason to come over, just a way not to say "come over let's fuck"? Noone wants to be a slut	/r/askTRP	21/07/20 08:06 PM
6	consequences of beauty. Reading between the lines of your comment, you might be experiencing that thing where everybody thinks that the quiet pretty girl is actually a bitch Reason I say this is you explain your experience of the world (people smirk and judge when you walk in a room). If that is an experience (true or otherwise) that feels insurmountable, then I would imagine you’re having a hard time putting yourself out there effectively. If you could stop being emotionally reactive to all the bullshit and start putt…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/06/20 02:09 PM
0	i'm sick and tired of being a fucking bitch. How can i beat myself out of it!? Wake the fuck up man. You are making the choice to loop on this shit.	/r/askTRP	31/05/20 12:13 PM
2	How can I sell myself in a more interesting manner, be more exciting during a date/conversation, and kill a boring personality overall? 1) deal with the mindset. When you stop judging yourself for being boring, you free up mental bandwidth to be charismatic. Everything you say is awesome and you are awesome. 2) go out a lot and approach a lot 3) learn to speak with your heart (only saying things that feel true to you/feel good to say) 4) watch a lot more comedy, become interested in stand up 5) learn to make statements about people. Chances are you’re judging/thinking all kinds of interesting things about people that would be in…	/r/askTRP	30/05/20 09:46 AM
1	Got a date rejected because of 'my voice'. You actually already seem to have an amazing care-free attitude about it bro. Not many people would be anywhere near as far along as you are with that. I think you may have to learn ways of explaining it/joking about it with women in a light hearted away. By initially addressing it forthrightly and with humour, you indicate that you don’t care and invite them into that frame with you. It disarms people, and your ‘take it or leave it’ vibe should carry it from there. Also cold approach will be go…	/r/askTRP	29/05/20 12:10 AM
1	Why are people (women especially) so damn passive aggressive? Bro I see that behaviour like this should be dealt with using DARE. Would you ever move to more direct rule/boundary setting ? e.g “I’ve noticed you keep taking me too seriously, lighten up sunshine.” I think I’m seeing that those statements are good, as long as they’re said light-heartedly and moved on from quickly. It looks like I should avoid getting into ‘serious talks’ which might indicate I’m at all butt-hurt, instead opting to communicate boundaries with on-the-fly wit. Sound right to you…	/r/askTRP	27/05/20 01:52 AM
2	What advise do you have for someone who understands RP, but is still discouraged with life? Have u had ur testosterone checked? U might have low T bruh	/r/askTRP	31/10/19 09:25 AM
2	I'm having a hard time accepting that we really are alone, how to deal with fact that most people (even friends) dont have your back? Not really man. If I authentically give a fuck about my few real friends and check in with them, it deepens our bond. That’s because they know it’s not fake. This shit only tends to really push people away when you are using it as a tactic to curry favour Man, yeah, on one level we are alone. But in another we really are not. This kind of thinking, it’s only going to cloud your mind and make it impossible to really connect with people in the moment. The more I’ve gone out, worked on my social sk…	/r/askTRP	26/10/19 12:04 PM
95	I'm having a hard time accepting that we really are alone, how to deal with fact that most people (even friends) dont have your back? Bro keep working on yourself and your mission. You will find like minded souls. You might need to work on yourself to become more magnetic and compelling. Not in a fake way, those things come as side effects of working on your emotional/social skills. When you do that, you can create more reciprocal relationships. It also sounds like you might be using ‘being a good friend’ i.e texting/checking in with these people to try and make them like you. If you are, you should stop this inauthentic behav…	/r/askTRP	25/10/19 12:07 AM
2	Eye contact You should’ve spoken to her and found out	/r/askTRP	09/01/19 03:30 PM
1	Having serious identity issues and don't know where to turn. Go get cognitive behavioural therapy, you’ll untie all those knots in your mind mate	/r/askTRP	10/12/18 10:10 AM
8	Plate wants me to send a pic but i'll be with another plate You can ignore as if you are occupied and just strike up a new convo later , no big deal	/r/askTRP	12/10/18 05:05 PM