spotH3D Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What to do with unwanted male friend attention It's fine to downgrade the friendship or completely move on. Don't over think it. Life is easier when you realize you can't have it all and make a firm choice instead of trying to juggle competing interests. And let's be clear, one guy is your fiancee, and the other is a guy who went cold on you after you rejected him trying to fuck you. Which is more important? "But we were friends for 15 years." Be smarter than that. Just fade out.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/24 05:02 AM
1	Discussion - dead vs active bedroom - what really is the norm In my marriage we agreed early on that an active sex life was a must. After things slowed down after the 2nd kid that agreement was brought up and we made a simple change. Scheduled sex. Been doing that for over 10 years and now in our early 40s and still going 5 times a week, with adjustments for that time of the month, etc.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/05/24 12:44 PM
-2	I want a man taller than me, and I don’t get why people think that’s shallow. Like what you like and don't care about what people label as shallow. Yet another word overused to the point it doesn't matter.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/02/24 05:41 PM
1	should i save myself for marriage? Yeah it is of upmost importance that both parties are ruthlessly vetting each other during the dating process, and leaving the relationship when they discover problems, and NOT letting feelings get in the way of that. People who are in bad relationships are people who are too _____ to leave them (weak, dumb, driven by emotion, will in the blank). It is that simple. You get what you put up with. Of course don't be a typical loser and have a baby with a partner you are not compatible with. Simply …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/23 03:05 PM
2	should i save myself for marriage? Men do not want to commit to a woman who is too easy. They certainly don't want a woman who has given it up to their friends, family, and enemies. Some call that the town bicycle. Not a nice term, but it suits. To put it another way, when you sleep with a guy, you are generally eliminating his friends and family from your pool of men you can get to commit to you. Men don't care about easiness when it comes to who they hook up with, but they do when it comes to who they consider marrying. Obvious…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/23 03:01 PM
9	should i save myself for marriage? i considered also the possibility of an arrangement where he could be allowed to have sex with other women to satisfy his needs If a woman I was into offered me that option I'd no longer respect her. If sex, judgement, and monogamy is important to me, her offering that says our values are NOT in alignment. The open/poly fad is very much looked down upon though you won't hear that in mainstream social media because everybody feels they have to pretend to be mindlessly sex positive.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/23 02:57 PM
14	Is it better to invest on a Masters Degree or Plastic Surgery? Yeah, oftentimes the fake stuff doesn't bear up in person and is generally a major turn off. Though naturally some guys don't care, but you'll find them to be less "classy". For example, fake breasts can look good in a picture of a woman wearing a sweater. But when it comes to movement, showing cleavage it starts to not look natural and once that doubt enters someone's mind it is over. ETA: If the fakes are so good they seem 100% real, then congrats, you stayed out of the hell that is the uncann…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/11/23 07:56 PM
35	My boyfriend says he wants variety I hope you have enough self respect to walk on a guy suggesting having multiple partners or whatever they are calling that degenerate relationship fad these says. You could laugh at him in the face while doing so.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/23 01:12 PM
10	Will plastic surgery harm my chances to find someone instead of help? Hate breast implants. Look fine under your clothes, but a horror when it counts with your partner. Not everyone feels that way for sure though. As for the nose, whatever, but do not go down the road of a little bit more. That way lies the repulsive uncanny valley. Hell, I find puffy botox lips completely repellent.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/23 05:21 AM
3	I’m on holiday with my SO and I’m considering ending our relationship - how do I do it? One wants kids, one doesn't. End of the relationship. One wants to get married, the other doesn't End of the relationship. One wants sex once a month, the other 3 x a week. ... You get the point. Yeah talk it out, but once a fundamental incompatibility is discovered, there you go. And when you are dating you should be actively figuring this out.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/08/22 02:08 AM
3	I’m on holiday with my SO and I’m considering ending our relationship - how do I do it? Not necessarily, they might be incompatible and that's a great reason to end a relationship. You want to see a bad relationship, look at one where both parties are fighting to make it work when they are fundamentally incompatible. Love is not enough.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/08/22 07:24 PM
1	CMV: Everyone, Including Sluts, Hate Sluts I would argue that having reasonable standards in a potential life partner is never a bad idea ASSUMING that the guy has the pull to make up for the artificial limiting of his dating pool. If so, he operates knowing that there are plenty of high quality matches for him out there, so no need to settle on a nice person who also has yellow and red flags.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/16 03:58 PM
3	Male porn stars should be paid the same as female porn stars She also said she could beat Cain Velasquez, former male heavyweight champion.	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/16 07:58 PM
2	What do you all think about the phrase "You guys" when referring to both males and females? The obsession about word choice, PC, and labels fascinates me. Would be interesting to have a study done on "those people" and see what other traits correlate with that. To paraphrase a certain philosopher/comedian says, a person who is truly progressive should be able to parse the point or meaning of what another person says regardless of how they say it. To see a highly educated person comfortably conversing with someone with a coarse language style instead of getting offended and dismissive o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/15 07:37 PM
1	Is attempting to force a 50/50 gender split in a workforce a good or bad idea? Of course not. I imagining a small business that needs person of a very unique skill set. If for some reason that skill set is possessed by one gender or the other, why should that small business be forced to hire shitty workers because big brother said so? That's ridiculous. In no way is that more efficient.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/15 07:21 PM
2	Do RPers understand feminism? I think one thing to keep in mind is that in some ways, popular media does a good job of presenting the certain POVs, agenda's, etc, in such a manner that you cannot escape being well exposed to it. Then you add in how gargantuan the feminist movement is, with them in more recent years greatly pushing for more membership, saying that feminism is for men, etc etc.... It's become quite watered down in some ways. Certainly with a group that large there are different..... factions, and they may inte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/15 05:52 PM
3	CMV: Lower SMV Men have nothing to gain from feminism Morally correct is a stretch and very subjective. Intellectually honest would be giving advice to these low SMV men that actually works to better their situation. Example of bad advice low SMV men get: "Just be yourself." This is so bad that its actually by definition insane. Repeating the same thing over and over expecting a different result. Far better is "Make yourself a better man".	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/15 09:11 PM