its a numbers game. if youre not talking to people, how are you expecting to meet people? its a lot of work. no one is just going to fall into your lap.
i get what you're saying hear us out. because no matter what, you're all you got. why not be the best you. also, type you're describing are the wrong women for you.
still gotta be selective and aware of your surroundings. for someone unfamiliar, i think you could try this at a bar. as an introvert you can apply this with guys, elderly, basically anyone to get you out of a comfort zone and talking to strangers more. my two cents and ymmv.
start lifting, get in shape, work on your wardrobe maybe get a makeover, and overall work on yourself, find some hobbies, maybe get an escort if you feel inclined (it will help clear your head). finding a partner takes time, this way atleast you're investing in yourself in the long run. we've all been there my guy, sending juju your way. stay up, dont be too hard on yourself. one quote that i like and helps me is that confidence isnt knowing you wont be rejected, its knowing you'll be okay eithe…