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He seemed dismissive that I think my gf is hot and I met her on hinge. There’s no nudity, what’s the big deal I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:38 PM
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https://www.redgifs.com/watch/functionalstainedlightningbug Imgur banned my account for posting this. Had to go to red. Here’s couple pics I took with my girlfriend yesterday morning. I think she’s hot, that’s no filter, I met her on hinge. What you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:23 PM
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I’ve gone on around 160 online dates and slept with around 100, most of the girls on first date from bumble/tinder/hinge. Very attractive 6-9/10 my girlfriend past year is really hot, and I met her on hinge. I rarely run into a bot on Hinge, Tinder got a bunch though. People go on dates on dating apps, most of the women do who try.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:35 PM
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How many live in girlfriends have you had? I’m at 5 and it’s been every one so far, and I’ve never hit a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:11 PM
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Strongly disagree, if you want the hottest girls on the apps you have to show some skin. I put my lead pic of me shirtless in bed, it was so corny and suggestive. I had a sheet covering me and I was clearly naked. My Hinge popped off, got sent to top picks and started to get sent roses. Girls messaging first saying things like, what is it like to be one of god’s favorites? Wow, you’re sexy with heart eyes. I don’t even look that great with my shirt off, but I’m presentable. It works and I got th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:58 PM
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Because there is way more violence towards men, reason is men don’t report the violence by women. I haven’t known a guy or myself that hasn’t had a girlfriend punch you, cheap shot you, use something as a weapon against you, bite, whatever, mostly all of it goes unreported. Tiger Woods got beat with a 9 iron by his wife, then he publicly said she didn’t to protect his wife from getting a felony.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:19 PM
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If you’ve ever got dating apps working, it’s loaded with girls that are addicted to cycling through guys. Guys aren’t people, they are either lust worthy pleasure providers or potential dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:39 AM
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No they would, the adjustment would be absolutely insane, unless they were a total chad or rich and handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:36 AM
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I was talking to this girl who was flown out by Tyga and telling me about what happened, then another that went on some dates with a guy with a Ferrari and 4 mil house, another went out with a guy that was so smooth and made her come 7 times the first night they met and she wanted him so bad. They were all complaining mostly, because they can get these things, but not marriage and a soft cushy life where they get to just exist for a living. I told them, you’re getting what any girl could wish fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:34 AM
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Girls who like to date literally exhaust all their options. They run up the tree of every really hot guy and guy with a multimillion dollar home. When it hits them the dream guy probably isn’t coming is one of the most ego soul crushing realization in a dating girls life. I’ve seen what they do and I would not put up with it. They openly get cheated on, expected to show up and be a sex toy and forced to leave when they want, they have to participate in threesomes with basically hookers. When guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:06 AM
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This is where women struggle, because the guy with the nice instagram, hangs with cool people. Goes on a date whenever and is calm and confident, makes good conversation. You’re on a date with a dating and hookup pro, not a novice guy who wants a girlfriend and is awkward. The player has crafted himself and has the experience to get girls easily. That’s who girls get the stomach butterflies for. You can’t change this in women, they want guys who know how to make girls happy and comfortable. Most…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:09 AM
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The only reason dating sucks for women because if they just make themselves available, they can get men 3 points out their league routinely. They even get a free meal and drinks, or invited to parties or clubs by guys. So many dating women are caught in this quagmire of turning their noses up at guys that would have them. Then instead chasing guys that will at best put them in a temporary non exclusive relationship, or part of his soft harem of girls. Girls want guys with many options, guys that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:43 PM
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I thought this was ridiculous at first. However, I tend to agree, if you don’t have the majority backing you in a tribal situation and you just start being a total abusive jerk man or woman, you’re prob going to get killed. Now you can act however you want, no one can hurt you for it. If they retaliate violence on you, you’ll be just as guilty. You’re protected under law, which law helps in so many other ways but it protects abusive alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:06 PM
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This is insane advice and will have you looking foolish. Just have a conversation and get her talking about whatever she finds interesting. Being overtly flirtatious and negging is game from 20 years ago. Just talk, she decided whether she was DTF the moment she laid eyes on you. A constant barrage of playful banter you think matters actually doesn’t, it will work against you. Treat her like a normal person and she will drop her panties faster, I guarantee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:40 PM
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Women literally stare down guys they want in real life, they will touch your arms and chest when you approach, laugh at the dumbest jokes. Girls will make things painfully obvious when they want you. I’m sure many girls aren’t confident enough to do this, but it’s routine if she finds you very attractive. Similar thing can happen online dating where hookups are the most common outcome from a date. There’s a guy on YouTube that speed runs dating apps with super hot guys and matches and lands date…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:16 PM
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You’re just making things up, you can’t make death threats to anyone online. Every online platform goes out of their way to cater to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:36 PM
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Women can be online and talk any crap about men they want, and girls support and white knights reinforce her gendered negativity. Guy says anything remotely critical of women or has a personal observation about female nature online. Then it’s touch grass incel, chronically online take loser, downvoted, and banned. Guys are not spewing outright hatred towards women on any sub I’ve seen this is an exaggeration. Even the incel forums that used to exist didn’t do that, you get shut down or personall…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:19 PM
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There’s a specific type of guy that hooks up easy with all types of girls. That’s what he’s observing. If your short and stocky guy, that doesn’t mean you get to hookup with stocky girls, the easy access one night stand is only for Chadlike guys. If you’re a girl and you want a hookup it’s about the best looking, tall, athletic build guy. All girls will gravitate towards those guys in a hookup scene like a bar at a resort. Who girls end up being in a relationship with is obviously more varied. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:20 PM
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Women on dating apps research you like crazy after you ask them out. If they find your LinkedIn, you on a company website. Get your address, find your instagram. Then you can get into a position of getting dates and hookups whenever you want. If they can’t find you, find one weird picture of you, or anything can set them off, they will bail. This is why 10% of guys or less rule those apps, because unless you’re very hot you need an online persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:19 AM
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It gives you 6 great photos if you keep working on it. Then you attach your Instagram to your dating profile. When your profile has increased time of engagement, eventually you can get into Hinge top picks without being a very hot dude. Everyone in my city has moved to Hinge primarily. I was on it 9 months last year flipping every other night and couldn’t reach the end of it. Bumble and Tinder have gone kinda dead past few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:16 AM
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I’ve done all these things to try and find friends, I can’t find friends outside of party circles. Getting friends in my 20s at school, apartment, work was so easy now it’s so hard. When I do find someone it’s like they barely want to be my friend. Friends that just want to go have drinks, weekend vacation, or go to bars/clubs is easier. As far as women, I worked on an instagram for years so now dating apps work great. I started out I couldn’t get much matches. Now I’m on hinge and I get in top …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:55 PM
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It’s about the backgrounds, making like you have a fun life. Pics of you in exotic locations or driving a boat etc. I’ve even had a couple photos with my shirt off to sell skin, it’s a risky maneuver, but worth a try. Then one good selfie with as little filter as you can, a light filter and little facetune/faceapp go a long way, just can’t be obvious. Don’t do anything that Google recommends, no holding dog/fish, no wedding photos, no kids, you don’t need group photos. No girls in your photos. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:46 PM
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You just said one guy got hundreds of women though. Yes that’s the deal, when it works and you’re matching and girls agree to dates. You never dreamed of so much pussy that easy, you’ll have a harem in a few weeks. I went to a university and hooked up with girls, but that took finesse and effort of going out, cold approaching lots of women in a night. Girls in real life will really knock you down a peg and many want to make you feel unworthy for her to inflate her own ego or look cool in front o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:28 PM
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Obviously there’s a lot of people unhappy with dating apps. I spent years to put together 10 incredible pics to catch girls attention. Attach my instagram. If I just tossed up what I’ve seen flipping through on a girls profile I’d prob barely get a date. Online dating is so fun for awhile, more than half the time girls are in my bed in a few hours. You get tired of it and I’ve been off it living with a girl for a year, but dating girls is a lot of fun when you can just summon them to show up acr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:21 PM
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Once you get dating apps going you’ll never want to sober cold approach a girl again. You sit and realized you would go to places for hours, just to talk with 2 girls that already got a boyfriend. The efficiency and reliability of girls off apps is incredible. Girls just show up, they scan you with your eyes, then you talk and usually hook up if you passed the eye test. If you can’t get dating apps to work, I look at it as a less quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:39 PM
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No because this sub is about being attractive, successful, and getting many beautiful girls to choose from. every man’s high level goals. The reality is, it’s prob not happening. This is how social media makes the comparison a thief of joy. When I was a kid, I said some day I’m going to work my way up and I’m going to make 6 figures. Then I’m going to have a pretty wife and kids. That was my dream, now you’re on instagram and you think in these crazy abnormal world where outlier activity and bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:21 PM
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Most women who date don’t casually date men that aren’t desirable. Being successful and beautiful is rare, when you have those qualities women chase you. This fact has never changed in the entire course of civilization. Telling women they should chase average men too will never work. Making the obvious argument how sexual selective women are and how much they desire Chad and players is interesting to point out, because women respond very differently sexually based on your social status and attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:08 PM
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If chicks want you they reach out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:38 PM
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You prob need an attractive face to go with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:51 PM
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He’s a guy with little to no options, he should know you don’t have casual romantic interest and move on. He would be much better off ignoring you and waiting for you to reach out again, but he has no game or mental discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:18 PM
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I went crazy after my divorce on apps and clubs, I didn’t have my college experience of hooking up I would’ve been more flipped out about it. If you can get dates, girls are a good time, most of them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:09 PM
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Partially yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:39 AM
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Muslim countries and some Asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:40 AM
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They’ll kill you for being gay in many countries or at least beat you publicly. You think women care, they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:00 AM
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Requiring 2 workers in a household to be able to live, eat, and have a family is one of the biggest scams of capitalism. It just made housing and literally everything else more expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:33 PM
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If you care about making a decent argument, tell me what is the main reason homophobia exists. I say it’s a result of a display of masculinity for women, which women often enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:10 PM
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Most woman on average in the current era (clarifying for you) have expectations that a man should take care of them and bear more of the economic load. This is why rich guys get laid so easy, that’s what women want, providers. The reverse for guys being taken care of is nearly non existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:04 PM
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There’s nearly no woman that works on roofs of houses in 100+ degree heat. Having to say most is the most extraneous activity and it’s lazy debating on your part to say absolutes can’t be proven. You don’t have an argument that’s why you said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:55 PM
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When guys say they hate gays, kissing a guy is the grossest thing, don’t touch my butt that’s gay. They are doing this to show their masculinity to women. There’s no social advantage to hating gays with guys, it’s to impress women and show you put them solely on the pedestal of desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:53 PM
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Homophobic culture is promoted by women. Not all women, but most of them want their man to think being gay is disgusting. They think that’s being more masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:42 PM
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The power struggle will sway back and forth. Head to the Middle East, they still got that old school oppression. Lots of women in full burkas out there, guys with 6+ wives. For most of humanity it’s kinda sucked to be a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:33 PM
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100% of all hard labor is done by men. Unless they are tall and have a gorgeous body they are not celebrated for their looks like women are. Not one person thinks men should be taken care of like women try to take for granted. Women have crafted more cushy lives than men. Didn’t use to be like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:31 PM
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Yea we gave women the right to vote, big mistake lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:26 PM
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The good way to find a girlfriend is be desperate in a way without asking desperate at all. Just having fun and enjoying the company of women. I’m a red pill guy that really enjoys when I get single going on dates off apps and insta, going to bars to pickup girls. I’ve even gone to strip clubs to pick up girls there legitimately, it’s way tougher than tinder don’t recommend, but friend and I got pretty good at it. Here’s the deal, I’m the weird one. Most guys don’t care about being a player. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:22 PM
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You had me in the title I’ll stick to that. The reason guys hate gay guys so much sometimes is either they are closet gay or the more common they want to appear more masculine to women. Women are the silent promoters of violence towards gay men. In Roman times men were the objects of desire. Women were more second class citizens. Now it’s flipped women are the objects of desire, women tell men women are more attractive than men too. Now men in the west are the second class citizens because we ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:14 PM
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I’m on 50/50 it works out good. I love being a dad, but I don’t think anyone wants to be a single parent full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:48 PM
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Elliot Rodger was a mental deranged psychopath. Not a smooth charming man. Dark triad people are salesmen, getting girls is a lot about sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:59 PM
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Fit people are high strung, 6 pack takes too much discipline. Girls like an easy going guy, someone to eat pizza with. There are way too many q4w on this sub, moderators make you change it, could be an algorithm thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:36 PM
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Women are attracted to Dark Triad men, manipulative, narcissistic, sociopathic. Those men capture a girl’s interest and they make her chase him. More often they can also bad men, but don’t have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:34 PM
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Look at what happened when social media and dating apps came along. You think well now everyone can get laid easy. No, what we’ve got is 3 times as many women chasing an even smaller percentage of guys. Top guys can use apps to order sex and company from women like uber eats. Things will hit a breaking point based on availability, but it’s not going to make it so average guys can get laid from pretty girls easy. In Saudi Arabia many guys have 6 wives, the top guys are getting practically overwhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:36 PM
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What’s the argument he’s making here. That if women were bred for sexuality, and each man has 10 women that you could basically end the desire for war?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:27 PM
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In this world of twice as many women you’d just open up polygamy. You’re not going to get women to stop keep chasing the top, the guys at the top are just going to be getting even more of the resource of casual attention from women. If we’re talking 80/20 rule, what would result from twice as many women is only 70/30. To satisfy the casual market it would just mean more casual dating/sex and action for a slightly larger percentage of males.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:39 PM
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Girls have some things they are down for and like and other not so down. If you got a girl that don’t even want to try and only interested in vanilla sex she likely don’t want you that bad. Think of it as a shit test for guys, doesn’t have to be anal but she should be down for some things you want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:34 PM
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I’ve dated girls that were strippers, did porn scenes before, had OF, been escorts, had sugar daddies. Modern girl who’s really hot it’s gonna be something. She can love you. The girl that is going to have a problem loving you is one that is addicted to dating, new dick, and dreams a man can provide. That’s her addiction it’s like trying to have a relationship with a gambling addict. These girls exist in spades on dating apps and instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:45 PM
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90 day fiancé and mail order brides for the guy is the dumbest thing you can do. Go live in the country if you want a girl from that country so bad. If I move to central america then I will consider getting a girl there, falling in love, then marrying. Just marrying some girl because she wants a soft life and is willing to have sex with you is crazy. My best friend married a former mail order bride. She has a bunch of mail order bride friends. Most of cheat with hot guys and have open plans to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:39 PM
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Looks combines with money guarantee. Guys that pay for dates and then get ghosted get jaded about dates and women. So they stop. People will downvote this, but if you had a 10/10 girl and you had to buy her a salad and 2 glasses of wine to get a bj for a hour, all guys would do it. That’s why as a girl, I would never talk to a guy that made you split, because he would pay for her under other circumstances. I have a 70% date hookup rate with girls I think are beautiful. Of course I have zero issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:28 PM
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Ironically it can be the same guys that refuse to buy a girl a drink on a date in US. That would also bring a girl to America that’s barely employable and just takes care of her, because she knows traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:45 PM
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Girls with high body counts don’t settle and cheat. You have common sense discipline to avoid them, not smarts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:42 PM
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If you’re a very hot girl and you exist on insta, these opportunities exist. A lot of times it’s a girl that recruits you, you get DMs with offers from guys, guys paying money for nudes, sugar daddy. Very beautiful women get hit up for stuff a lot. If they get a boyfriend, they might stop or keep it on dl. I’ve personally known and dated a lot of hot girls, it’s not happening constantly but it’s normal. If your only response is nuh uh. Then you just probably known or dated hot girls. If a girl I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:06 PM
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If you’re 44 and you got big mommy milkers and you’re posting on insta a lot. There is a reason, selling nudes, being older escort. People don’t post everyday just for clout, usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:36 PM
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Yea the ones that look natural and young have even more opportunity. Those command the highest prices. If you got offered $2k to show up for a date you’ll do it, so do girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:30 PM
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If they aren’t on insta posting, or don’t use dating apps, or don’t go to nightclubs then perhaps. I don’t know hot chicks that don’t do at least one, but I’m sure some exist. I’ve been on 160 dates, they all cute to hot and they all trying to look sexy on gram. There’s a reason for that, and it’s not just narcissism and body positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:25 PM
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Beautiful women regardless of age have a lot of opportunity. It may not be worth it, but they test the waters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:24 PM
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It does if she’s on insta or you met her at club or dating apps. Which is roughly basically all the hot women. A month ago I was sitting at the bar at an Italian restaurant. This way old guy offered my girlfriend $10k to spend the weekend with him on a place on the beach. Girls get offered a lot, there’s a crazy amount of rich boomers that want a hot young girl for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:17 PM
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Yes guys pay hundreds and thousands to do 4/10s. Ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:12 PM
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Most women are violent towards men, unless you put them in the hospital and it’s video recorded they won’t get charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:14 PM
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It is very nice when she makes her own money. If she has a doctorate or ged I will care only some. Some doctor girls only can pass a test and are boring at in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:29 PM
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If she doesn’t post to insta and you didn’t meet her on a dating app, then maybe. I’ve been on 160 dates with largely hot girls. Doesn’t matter regardless of age, if she’s 42 and splashing sexy pics, there’s a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:27 PM
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You’re taking everything I said word for word and want to apply it to every scenario in both arguments. The first, sometimes you’re lonely, maybe you just really want to get with her and end up in a relationship. L Guys online are like I never got cheated on, I never fell for a girl and regretted it and ignored red flags. All these lameos is who say they never date a girl with more than 8 bodies get a grip. The second the general idea is if she looks hit on gram, the money in some situation will…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:04 PM
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You cannot care about most these things, . I knew this guy who was a former football player and successful businessman. He got with this 10/10 model that he knew was a high end escort. She also cheated on him, and he knew about it and still wanted to stay with her. This guy is good looking too. Women will make you do crazy things, if she’s beautiful enough and pushes your buttons you’ll look past anything. I have before and you usually regret it, but sometimes you just want that girl. Also, ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:48 PM
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More intelligent people drink alcohol, use drugs, better at manipulation, and go to college where promiscuity runs rampant. They also may strategize dating as a game. Sleeping with more people can increase your chances of landing the most desirable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:48 AM
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Dating is a riot for a guy when it works, random pretty girls showing up interested in hooking up, that's a dream scenario for a guy. Also, once you can get dates whenever you want you get to all but hand pick who you want to be with. Most people just hoping someone appears at work or in social circles that likes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:54 PM
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I went through a stretch in high school with no girls for a few years. Then I go to college, sophomore year I worked on some pickup game, but girls would not take me seriously and couldn't get a real girlfriend. Even though I had numerous hookups and f buddies. Then I get a divorce, I had a beer gut and no instagram. Dating apps won't work, you can't get girls to date you with a gut either. So I take a few years and work on an instagram and got in shape. Then I sleep with around 80 girls in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:19 PM
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Abuse can literally mean they made me feel bad one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:11 PM
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Kinda because its a realization of how close you were to getting lots of girls easily and you just figured it out later in life by trial and error. If one thing is off about you, or your life isn't in perfect order, girls won't randomly get with you basically ever. Which sucks, and makes you hate women in a way because they only want to casually get with very specific guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:40 PM
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Abuse is a very broad term. In a way any relationship has some form of abuse, women often make something sound dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:51 PM
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No woman in the history of time has ever explained what it was like to have a relationship with a man, and not used the term he was abusive. He could’ve just balled into a corner and took a beating from her, he was mentally abusing her, then when she hurt her hand swinging he physically abused her. Women have near absolute zero accountability when it comes to abuse, society and laws are a in their favor on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:19 PM
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I believe in the 80/20 rule but it’s a debate why and it’s weird to pin it just on women. My gf’s friend was over at my place and she’s this hot blonde. She talking about this date where this guy made her come 7 times and she wants to marry him. This guy I guarantee is just onto the next and she’s maybe in his harem or prob not. I don’t know what the guy looked like, but he prob wasnt even a chad. Consider the desire to do that and how dialed in you need to be to immediately seduce a hot blonde …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:17 PM
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I try and explain this to guys. I have a 2/3 first date rate of getting a girl to my place partially naked, half in my bed. Within 2 hours of meeting her. Chads are at 90%+ hookup rate. I know this, but most men are in denial about it, that’s other girls not the girl I want. So they will court her and simp for her. Meanwhile, she will meet a Chad and just instantly give him an incredible bj, he doesn’t need to do anything. I’ve been friends with girls and gone on way too many dates to understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:10 PM
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Because any cute woman can so easily receive affection or a date, or be put in a harem of a very desirable man. They are in total denial of what their looksmatch is. They think they are hot and gorgeous if they can land dates from hot men or doctors. If they land 1 hot boyfriend who cheats on them all the time or a handsome successful guy for a few months, she thinks she is top tier gorgeous chick only for elite men. Girls routinely date men out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:04 PM
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It’s prob more like a half a second than a full minute. Some guys can get dates and get these 1 second sexual choice opportunities from women, then not mess it up. Maybe 20% of guys. Other guys aren’t getting dates, they aren’t trying to choose, they are navigating a more long term hope of attraction. The validation of receiving instant lust is something that might happen, but isn’t being proactively done, because it’s not really possible for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:59 PM
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I’ve only been scenario 1 and 3. Scenario 1 is sad because she screws with you and likes you, but you will never end up on her instagram or go out with her friends. Scenario 3 for me is I basically dangle living with me for free. Which I’m paying these bills anyway, so it gets me girls out of my looks league that are hot. Which brings me to fuckzone Chad that always breaks any logical argument about women, and exposes their 2 faced behavior. She can’t wait to put Chad on her instagram, she brags…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:41 PM
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The gender war stuff is interesting, but there should be another sub purplepillstrategies. Where you discuss more process to actually getting dates and a girlfriend, or managing a harem. That’s one of the most common questions on Reddit, how do I get a girlfriend. In my mind, it’s a freak ton of rejection, but still numbers game and procedural approach to get her to want you. If you’re not doing this you’re just waiting to settle with a chick at work or in a friend group, and not getting what yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:30 PM
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There’s 4 scenarios to this: You’re a cute guy but kinda of a loser in her eyes, so just good enough for a poke to her. No chance at relationship. This better than nothing, but sucks. You’re so attractive she wants to have you for relationship, but she is okay if he wants just sex. This is great, nothing on the table for her, guy just skating on looks. She lusts and wants you as a boyfriend, but she wants you as a boyfriend because you provide something of value to her. Could be financial or soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:44 PM
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Not good social skills, I’ve had a bunch of best friends I was close with though. I just try to be charming and not give off any negativity and just play off the girl, when she is the center of attention she will halo you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:02 AM
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Sophomore year in college I got more masculine looking and picked up 20 girls in a year and half. I had a couple gfs but I never had a hookup in my life before that. That’s where I got the technique of hooking up with random girls. This 70 first date hookups are mostly off dating apps. After I got divorce at 35, I needed to lose my gut, make better instagram for dating apps, get hair transplant, and go to gym. I have a gf for a year now. I dated for 2 years and hooked up a bunch after I got my l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:48 AM
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The big problem with women and dating is at least for me, when you meet up and she looks you up and down, she’s decided on you already. If you pass the eye test, you just need to not mess it up. So no need to be nervous, just chat. Sex is not necessary, but getting the opportunity to express some passion for her is. I’ve gone overboard with lust on girls I thought were really attractive and came on too strong, so you can’t act too wild once she’s in your arms on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:23 AM
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I’ve gotten a hookup on a first date around 70 times, here’s what works for me. Take her to a mid tier casual local restaurant or nice cocktail bar at night. Don’t do a fancy or dirty place. Cut it short, 2 drinks, light meal. Don’t dress up, even athleisure is fine. I pay, because it’s $40 or less, I’m just looking for action on a date, there’s a low chance she’s going to be my girlfriend, I’m just trying to have a fun time with her. Don’t talk about yourself or any prev relationships at all. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:05 AM
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I don’t have the friends pic and I get days in Hinge star tab and get roses sent to me. Here’s the dilemma of the group pic, you need cool friends, they need to be good looking, but not as good looking as you. Then if you’re not the tallest, then she will just end up saying in her head she wants a different guy in your group and swipes left. I got pics traveling in Italy, on a big boat, me driving a sports car. The pic that really kills and puts you over the top is having your shirt off. Skin se…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:25 PM
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Why is touch grass a go to for every Reddit user that can’t make any real counterpoint. When it’s clear a woman has been single for long time, but parades guys online because they are hot or has a big house. Then never has a real relationship, then wants to complain about men, that’s when we laugh and pile on. We’re not taking some unattractive woman that has problem getting dates and saying or thinking anything like that. We hope she does find a nice guy. The really pretty girl just being too p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:29 PM
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I think we pin this discrimination on older women that could easily get a good handsome guy whenever they want. They’ve clearly had plenty of time to turn down some nice guys, but only wanted picturesque handsome men with a good career who can have any woman they want. I see this often on Instagram, some girl in her mid to late 30s will only post a guy that’s a total chad. Then if they are pictured with any other guy, they have to put a note in the post or story that he’s a “friend.” There are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:02 PM
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You’re focusing on a segment of the attractive girl population that cares to have a boyfriend that is a party boy. Those guys are very popular with certain ladies, if the guys are also attractive. However, there’s actually more attractive women that don’t want a party boy boyfriend. Those girls are just spread around more and not concentrated in clubs and local house parties all the time. So don’t think for a second you can’t have a blazing hot chick just bc you’re not in the local party scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:24 PM
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I cannot psychologically be with someone that didn’t express some lust for me the first night we met. This is the reason, she would hookup with some other guy, but not me. My conscience and ego cannot deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:25 PM
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It’s either that or they make it painfully obvious by staring you down then looking away until you approach. If you talk to her and she isn’t touching your arm or chest she don’t want you that bad. Female game has incredibly obvious signs. If you’re not looking for them, and just randomly cold approaching women all the time you have to be a masochist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:50 PM
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The guy hosting the after party, got the drugs guy and has more threesomes than regular sex exists. You’re getting hot chicks but it’s also a bunch of club coke chicks. My instagram gets me hotties off dating apps whenever I want and I'm a dad that doesn’t club, which makes you a jewel to some hot girls who hate party boys. There are others that want a party guy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:28 AM
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At 7 figs you can get kinda crazy with lifestyle and attract a lot. My instagram is full of elite vacations and me with some cool cars I’ve owned. I get 2 points out of my league on dating apps. I’ve gotten hair transplant, froze my gut off, Invisalign, personal training, and more. I’m 6’2” traditional handsome, and pulled girls for hookups in college. So I’m not average, maybe 7/10. It’s mostly looks with girls, lifestyle gets you 2 points. If you’re extreme lifestyle mansion and yacht, it’s ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:56 AM
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Someone asked the question on Quora of what percent of men and women are attractive. The top answer had a link to a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:16 AM
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Life can be grand, you just won’t get casual lust from attractive females unless you’re in the top 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:15 AM
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Women don’t date unattractive guys, the only exception is very hot girls that date 2 points down because they want a more well rounded guy and not a hot guy for a boyfriend. You’ll see hot guys with just cute girls more often. I know 3 guys rich af, they aren’t even bad like a 5 or 6. They want hot girls and can get them on dates, they cannot land attractive women. Women care more about looks than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:12 AM
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I’m saying you’re both wrong, most women when they are dating around turn their nose at their looksmatch, unless he’s got a great lifestyle. Women are constantly sharing the top guys in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:22 AM
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Women are usually throwing themselves at men much more desirable than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:17 AM
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If you’re an 8+/10 girl you can get with any guy you want. If you’re just cute it’s still most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:11 AM
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It makes no difference how many men my girlfriend finds attractive, she can already get with any man she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:26 AM
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Women only find 7% of men attractive regardless of age. Men find 40% of women attractive. 93% of men are born not attractive to women. The top guys prob never reach a wall unless they get fat, they just born handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:09 AM
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Yea if you don’t get enthusiastic sex and you want it at least 3 times a week, you gotta bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:08 AM
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Once we became friends we didn’t have sex again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:41 PM
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I’ve had 3 actual girl friends, but I had sex with them or dated them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:52 PM
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Norah was treated terribly by women as a man and felt a clear lack of compassion. She called the experience as a man as soul crushing, and wanted to kill herself after experiencing life as a man. If you took a pretty girl and made her live the life of a below average man, my guess is a good percentage of women would end it. Life through the lens of prob 1/3 of guys is a sad depressing grueling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:15 PM
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If you can make yourself above average looking, do fun things sometimes, have decent place. You’ll get with cute girls. You’re going to be need to be a bit more special in looks and lifestyle to get a total hottie, but it’s not that unrealistic. Somebody got to get with attractive women, there’s a bunch of them out there. No one wants to talk about the dream of pulling a bunch of 4s, guys want 8s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:59 PM
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Well girls don’t normally go to bars by themselves. You can talk to girls in groups, they won’t jump you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:37 PM
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I’ve never had a girlfriend or wife that did any inside or outside chores. Had one that cooked twice a week. What is this 1955?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:28 PM
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Go to a nice restaurant bar in a clubby side of town. You want younger go to bars next to a college.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:20 PM
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One was 22 and one was 29. They were hot af, both statuesque and well built. One was a platinum blonde and the other was an Afro Latina. The black girl did modeling and made a few thousand a month off that. I dated them both for around 2 months without knowing. They acted totally infatuated with me, incredible sex, didn’t ask me for anything. They spent nearly every night with me after I met them off dating apps. Then I figured it out with them being gone for a day. I don’t know who the clients …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:47 AM
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I’ve accidentally dated a couple escorts off dating apps. If she’s retired I’m prob preferring the prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:01 AM
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Then what stare him down until he buys you a drink? A 7/10 girl can date hot guys til she’s blue in the face for years off apps if she lives in a city. Makes it way easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:09 PM
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I have an extremely hot girlfriend and I’m glued to screens. My previous gf before that was a ford model. Players go to clubs and parties. It’s not an attractive thing. Just because you see a few hot guys among a sea of people, doesn’t mean that’s where they ALL hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:43 PM
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Thats the dream though, many dating options. If half the people are 4-6/10 on the attractiveness scale. Why is it women have all the options with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:34 PM
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Casual action just usually trends upwards to men. If you’re a 7 girl you’re dating 8s and 9s, then end up with a 7 guy eventually. You don’t have to be that spectacular looking to get beautiful women easy, because they want well rounded guys that possess many desirable traits. Well put together handsome men can date as many beautiful or regular women as they want. The top 5% of guys have an easy time getting dates and casual affection. The top 30% of women experience a similar, I can get dates a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:20 PM
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Where do desirable men exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:12 PM
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Some hot guys. Now you got Insta and Hinge that gives you access to them all. I use dating apps, you pick the type you want. I drive across the street to cocktail bar. Hour or so later they usually come back to your place. Before apps. Getting girls casually actually required going to do things and talking to dozens of women until one showed clear interest. Options are 10x a college university.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:05 PM
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Yea half of women under 30 haven’t even tried a dating app. Most people don’t find their partner by dating around, they meet via social circles and work. Dating is a defined game where you’re meeting at least 8-50 people per year. How many people even do that, 10% of the single population? Dating one guy the past year you met at work and meeting another guy via social circle for coffee 3 months ago is not what I would say is dating culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:49 PM
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The reason you might not to a girl you just met is to not appear too eager to please. You may like it when a guy you just meet munches your box and plays with you for 30 minutes before any insertion, and tries to make you come. Most girls are going to expect that behavior later from a guy. Or you can be in the moment and lust for her, and don’t worry about giving her an orgasm and just have fun. If we’re talking about casual sex, this is a much more easy going and desirable approach for most wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:28 PM
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Social media and online dating has allowed comparisons of other people and relationships like never before in history. Hot guys and successful handsome guys have a big advertising platform for women online. The level of access they have to women can allow them to easily collect harems of girls. When a 7+/10 cute girl with a nice body dates she’s often knowingly entering the harems of desirable men. The new availability of all men in a 50 mile radius she can date are her new standards that women …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:15 PM
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You took the word comfort with someone in the most insane direction you possibly could to make it sound like sexual coercion. A lot of times I don’t come the first time with a girl. The reason is no one’s fault, you’re just more self conscious around people you don’t know. Which can prevent you from climaxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:47 PM
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I’ve had the craziest marathon sex with girls I just met. Or that first weekend together. Sometimes women aren’t coming that much bc of the level of comfort with him, but women have a lot of fun having casual sex regardless in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:30 PM
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Being good at sex comes down to 2 factors. Mainly her attraction to you. If you make her melt by looking at her she will naturally have much better sex, perceive it better, be more excited, and come easier. The second for guys is experience. If you had a few girlfriends that work with you on how to cascade orgasms by different methods, you’re going to take that experience to the next girl and she will think you’re a good lay. The weird part about sex in my experience is that you can have the gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:05 PM
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To get in the top tier it’s in your ability to make an attractive instagram, which most guys can’t. This leads to easy hookups off dating apps. Handsome fit men can walk up to a woman that’s checking him out and have her that night. If you’ve never had these abilities, or very randomly, it’s hard to tell a guy how to get there and most never will. The top 10% of guys are having 95% of the casual sex that goes on. This is what we are mad at women about, they are 2 faced in their dating approach. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:43 PM
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You say this like it’s something smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:25 AM
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Cool argument. You should go to debate school, you’re a natural. I’m truly blown away by your intellect. Harvey could get thousands of the hottest girls in LA easy as Brad Pitt and Leo. Because he’s a gatekeeper of the most valuable resource to girls in LA, fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:14 AM
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Have you seen his wife? She’s gorgeous. If you think if you live in LA, and you’re the most prolific movie producer in Hollywood and you will have any problem getting laid or a bj whenever you want. I’ll bet anything you’re dead wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:07 AM
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Gatekeeping fame like Harvey Weinstein will get you the most girls the easiest by far. Any cute girl can get an ugly rich guy, fame is totally another level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:45 AM
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Women find 7% of guys attractive, they swipe right 1 in 20 times. They keep casually dating and fucking the same small percent of guys deemed as universally desirable to have something to brag to their friends about. Guys find 40% of women attractive. This is why this sub exists, persistent female hypergamy creates 2 faced behavior in women. Chad gets all the instant sex he can possibly want, all other guys they need to wait and bring something to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:51 PM
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He’s a producer, women will do anything for fame. I’m certain that 98% of Harvey Weinstein girls he got with were women throwing themselves at him. He made chick arthouse Oscar winning films. Half the hotties in LA would do anything he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:42 PM
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I’ve been molested as a child. I’ve woken up drunk with a girl at a party trying to take my pants off to have sex with me. I don’t think women are predators, this is just bound to happen sometimes in your life. Women run social media and are catered to, they get to say whatever blanket man hating shit they want. They get attention, sympathy, and white knights all in their corner while doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:03 PM
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Women say men are predators, bear, metoo and all this for victim pity, and to gain attention and as a sentiment against men. They somehow believe this raises their own stature. Most of them have met a guy or gone on a date and within 1 hour or 2 is at his place naked. If she’s online dated she’s likely done this a bunch. Girls aren’t that scared of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:53 PM
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Every pill has its good and bad sides. Red pill never really breaks down how to get to point a to point b. What it takes is not fun to explain and has a few hard truths. It’s obviously to relate about the woes of now and the potential in the future. Which is true in prob 10% of single guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:33 AM
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Dating apps and social media are drugs. More than half the girls on dating apps are addicted to dating and hooking up with guys. That’s why if you get dating apps working it can be nearly a nonstop fkfest with most the girls you meet. That’s what they do, they are addicted to it. Ugly and fat girls getting to randomly do a hot guy is they are somewhat social and go out is nothing new to dating apps though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:13 PM
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Yea that’s what I’m saying 18-27 guys need looks and be fun. 28-45 as women are declining the men are rising in desirability. A fully mature 32 yr old man is considered the most generally desirable by women of all ages even just physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:59 PM
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This happened before apps. Show me this chick with a bald spot that’s getting exclusive real relationships with cute guys with their own house. I was friends with a girl that was 260 lbs that got sex from hot buff black guys whenever she wanted. Then another 220lb girl that could pull Chads easy. If you’re talking girls putting just sex on the table covertly or overtly they can do lots of hot guys. They aren’t getting that much else though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:42 PM
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You painted a good picture, I can see it now thanks. Also there’s a type of looks threshold for being approached often and it’s not necessarily a 1-10 attractive rating thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:16 PM
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What do you rate yourself 1-10? Are you fit, do guys approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:35 PM
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Girls think like this and act like this. Then you kick them to the curb, in most cases they always want to come back. Cute girls have smv and lower rmv. They have to face this reality when they actually have to find a guy. It’s not that easy for women, they just get sex super easy, everything else about the same or worse for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:22 PM
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Start walking around and calling the woman you see in a regular place like a grocery store 5s. Unless these 5s are young and kinda cute these women are not relevant online or real world. There is no miles of Chad cock for them to enjoy or nice dates from simps. You’re talking about pretty girls who are single and care about dating. Which might be 10% of female population. Those are the girls everyone wants, most women don’t get this luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:16 PM
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The girl that got me into it was a hot blonde I dated for 8 months that liked Alpha Male Strategies on YouTube. She said she liked hearing the perspective of a guy that gets girls and how he views women. I had another girlfriend that was a ringer for Salma Hayek that thought Andrew Tate is doing a service for men kept sharing his videos to me on TikTok, and pulled me back into the pill manosphere. Aside from those 2 and a couple player guys I know, nearly every single guy and girl thinks pill id…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:07 PM
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Do something for yourself to get some more confidence and talk to more girls. Basic advice, but 6 years is too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:56 PM
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Why low stakes? Were guys not offering dinner and drinks, or an event?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:50 PM
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Your game sounds good, but you’ll just go a few years with no dates or no girlfriends? If so, are you fine with life or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:48 PM
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I think girls still go on dates and have casual sex, it’s just not the gold rush of 2016 with masses of people dating a lot. There was a thought of girls in 2016 that they all are either going to get a very hot guy or handsome tall and rich. By 2019 that fever had dropped and many women realized they were just providing super easy hookups for desirable men. So women tend to have their guard up more, unless she’s on the date because she thinks he’s really hot. I have lower self esteem and when I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:45 PM
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You’re talking about noticeable cute chicks with nice bodies. Like 7+/10. Those girls if they get going on online dating and have insta. These attractive girls standards become the top 3% of men. The 7-9/10 range girls are getting the most pump and dumps and situationships because of their desirability to guys that can get as many girls as they want. No one turns down 7+s for a lay, if you’re noticeably hot or beautiful half of girls would instantly make out with you along with 98% of men. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:34 PM
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The wall is real just happens 10 years later for guys, unless he gets serious about his fitness and health, same for women. Most women are overweight and don’t care as much about appearance that came naturally in early 20s. I’m 44 I’m still horny, I get with my hot girlfriend 6-10 times a week. There’s guys I know in 50s that are players always with women of all ages, even early 20s hot girls. Men get in loveless marriages, give up on dating, or never cared much about getting girls in the first …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:28 PM
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They say through parts of history most all men didn’t have families so as much as I’d like to think you can’t have more than 50% disregarded by society and no woman wants you. I think you can, change the dynamics of society with less haves and more have nots, women will share men. They do that now in many countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:22 PM
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I’ll buy into this, at some point it will hit some critical mass, if this is 60% of men’s lives, no families, few friends, no girlfriend for years on end. Then society breaks at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:18 PM
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I went a couple stretches like this. I think if you paid for dates you’d get up to 80% coming over. Not paying and getting 40% seems good though, if I didn’t pay I’d feel like it would be 30%. How old are you? Why do you think online dates come so easy? Why can’t most guys seem to want to experience something like this, but can’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:13 PM
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Social media and dating apps, having phones has affected the world as a whole. There were so many people everywhere before phones and people had to conversate and go outside to get interaction. You haven’t noticed how different the world seems now than 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:10 PM
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Online dating and social media has made things out of whack for the people into it, which is a lot. So now you’re competing with all guys online in a 50 mile radius that she can get dates from. All people now with phones are a bit more closed off, outgoing people still exist, people were forced to be outgoing so there was tons more opportunities in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:38 PM
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Sure, but back when people didn’t have phones, there wasn’t streaming, no social media, covid. The world was different people had to socialize, it wasn’t just something some people do sometimes like now. The scale was 10x back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:32 PM
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For first dates if she didn’t come over and express some passion she’s out, I don’t believe that dating girls won’t go home with a guy they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:25 AM
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The world was more open back then, if a girl liked you at all and you asked to go do literally anything fun they would go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:21 AM
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That’s some good work. I was paying for mid tier restaurants or cocktails like 2 drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:55 AM
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Prior to 2005 this was the norm, you were really weird if you went on dates people you didn’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:21 AM
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You got chicks back home after Starbucks? How many 2nd dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:13 AM
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I think Tinder is the same as any other dating app I’ve used in terms of hookups it’s known for. What % did you go home with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:56 AM
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To meet a girl n the dating world that’s not a total whore, that doesn’t have 1-3 guys she’s already spinning plates with is rare. Most dating girls are whores and easy, it’s a good bad thing. I laugh so much when guys say it over 5 is used up, try over 50 at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:50 AM
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If we didn’t slut shame it would be a little easier for average guys to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:24 PM
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Did she give you a look first?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:05 PM
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You got to be good looking to pull 20 yr olds in your 40s. Some 40 yr old women are hot, people aren’t that discriminating on age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:25 AM
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Yes I’m not mad, just the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:16 AM
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There’s no perfect people if you enjoy spending your time with them, they are loyal, and you’re both attracted you got something special.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:29 PM
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I was talking to a gay guy at this party and he was explaining how much unemotional hooking up occurs and how much casual sex goes on. I said yea women are like that too, just some guys they make wait and the same top 10% of guys they meet and a couple hours later is his sex doll all night. Girls are as horny as men, if they really want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:03 PM
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You give 97% of girls to get $15,000/mo sell nudes online under a moniker they do it. Most guys would too, random people don’t get to be the moralist here on right and wrong when most would.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:52 AM
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You live in a world of delusion. Once you have your wife that’s totally mid, if you gave her $15k/mo she does it and leaves you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:28 AM
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It’s easy to be moral when you don’t have the opportunity. If you told any girl she can make $15k/mo selling nudes and messaging simps 97% of girls leap at that offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:38 AM
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I’ll do Susan Boyle and enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:36 AM
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Aren’t you the moralist. I’ve met and dated so many girls that are 8+/10 and never have they not been part of the sex industry of some sort either currently or previous. Escort, sugar daddy, selling nudes, it’s always something. You’re never going to date a legit hot chick that hasn’t. I know this young hot blonde that goes to church twice a week and is a virgin. She’s going in paid dates with Ric Flair now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:24 AM
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What if she makes $10-15k/mo?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:45 AM
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What if she only makes sex vids with you? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:32 AM
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I take it you’re in your 30s, you think fun is some weird sex thing, and not just fun. Women in their 30s that are unmarried or divorced are just a big ball of disappointment about men or need things from one like a baby immediately. Unless you’re just in big settle down and have a family mode as a guy, no one wants to date a woman in their 30s in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:42 PM
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I’ll give you cars. Most guys don’t care about bikes or pcs. Also gambling and alcohol is not gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:11 PM
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I find it hard to date attractive women in their 30s that have never been married. They either want marriage or babies too fast, or hung up on ex, or want to move into your house with their kids. Women are more fun in their early to mid twenties, then they get fun again in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:42 PM
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Because women waste all their money on clothes, bags, beauty routines, brunch, and plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:38 PM
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I’m not going to put up with her having 6’3” buff ex fiancé with a 40 mil house. She also was in her mid 30s and not that hot at all. Im not being that rebound guy, she’s going to need a few years to realize that type of guy is never coming back in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:36 PM
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I enjoy having a girlfriend that lives with me and loves me the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:33 PM
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Dating girls build a composite of the best features of the men they date. There was a girl I was going on a date with and she still had her ex on her insta. Dude was massive buff 6’3” guy with a 40 million dollar home he was selling after looked him up. I said to her I’m not going, she asked why, I said your ex is on your insta. She said don’t worry about him he cheated on me all the time. Didn’t matter she’s been Chad widowed, when she goes to my home that’s 1/40th the price and I’m not buff an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:41 PM
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Women obsessed with hypergamy often get used and misinterpret the failed results. She didn’t actually want the guy, he liked what he had to possibly offer her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:05 PM
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I’m not concerned whether she’s a hedonist it’s more that she’s been Chad widowed and has too much experience with men and you won’t add up to all the great aspects of her many different partners. Comparison is the thief of joy, so if she’s been with lots of guys but never had a relationship, she’s going to compare you to those desirable guys and never be happy with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:55 PM
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If your girl doesn’t want to do some of the things in porn that you like, then she probably doesn’t want you that bad. No girl is going to do everything though. Internet porn has done a favor to women to n broadening the horizons of what men find attractive. Literally every type of girl is in porn. Every body type possible, every race, thick, slim all enthusiasts for sex. Female body positivity has come through that women realize that guys jerk off to so many types of women. Consider how promote…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:16 PM
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Hedonists, desperate, stubborn are in there in spades in the dating world. However, there is also an element with women of always searching for the next best thing. You have women settling for a guy to have a relationship, but then keeping her options open on the side. Or the girl that gets off on love bombing a guy, then 2 weeks later gets bored and finds another. Dating girls get in an addictive cycle of chasing a dragon that doesn’t exist. The end result is an ego destruction when you come to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:06 PM
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If you don’t know her or never romantic be mysterious, be friendly but coy don’t give yourself away. Then you strike and give her a kiss, then if she reciprocates fully you’re all over each other. Don’t give some weird verbal buildup, that’s only going to work if she just really wants you no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:48 PM
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The group guy photo is the hardest pic for dating app I just leave it out. You need to look cool, but your friends need to look cool too, but you definitely need to be the tallest one and the most in shape. If you mess it up, she’s just going to want the cuter guy in the photo and swipe left. Have pictures with cool background to make it look like you have a life. You wearing a suit or holding a dog won’t get you laid. However, if you look good with your shirt off and you’re having a drink at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:32 PM
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Some girl living alone with her dog proudly proclaims to everyone, I don’t need a man. Then actually has 2 side guys she’s not serious with. I’ve either had guy roommates or had a live in girlfriend. When I was single I’ll get at least a couple girls dating or 3, so I’m not spending every night alone. These guys that go years by themselves I don’t get it, I’d go nuts. Girlfriends are the best, I don’t know how they deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:18 PM
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Being attractive as a guy is essential regardless of age. The big myth and hypocrisy of it all is there isn’t any 40+ yr old women that want older men that lost their hair and have a gut. 20 yr olds are obviously out on you too. So you hit the gym, get hair transplant, cut sugar and alcohol. Then you’re back in with 40 yr olds. Then you’re also in with 20 yr olds just as much. Then you date the 20+ yr olds because she doesn’t want kids, marriage right away and has no baggage. Then the older wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:04 AM
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I had a gut for awhile drinking too much craft beer in mid 30s, no chick wanted me casually at all anymore. I got in the gym and froze the gut off with cool sculpting. Then I was back in with girls of any age. Then at 40 I lost too much hair, girls my age didn’t want me either. You think because she’s 40 she’s going to like bald guys? Nope. Then I got a hair transplant and I was back again getting dates with girls of any age. You just got to do what it takes to stay attractive and age doesn’t ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:36 AM
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I’m in my mid 40s and my gf is 20 years younger and it’s not a big deal to anyone. Except it annoys my exwife I assume. Getting dates with girls in early 20s is easier than getting girls my age. The girls I date are very hot too, type of girls everyone wants. The big requirement is you need to be fit and attractive. Which most guys by mid 40s don’t hold it together enough or look too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:02 AM
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You’re going to have to evaluate how much she’s into you. Is she independent or does she rely on you financially? How often does she initiate sex? Is she sweet to you? Do you think she goes out and cheats on you? These things are really hard for men to face and evaluate. You could be the same age, be better looking, and make more than her and you might have a girl that still dogs you behind your back. Then she might have a man 40 years older and is obsessed with him. What’s this subs fascination…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:56 PM
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I struggle with this a lot, I would say a lot of men have some obvious big sign of undesirability that they have to resolve. Then other things they can work on. Then you can work on an instagram that can help you immensely get dates online. Some guys got big guts, crooked teeth, dress poorly, look weak, slouch, bad with conversation, too nervous. There’s one thing about you that’s preventing women from having sexual interest. These are fixable things to get over a bump. However, what do you do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:45 PM
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Women only willing to casually date men with endless dating options, can get sex commitment super easy anytime they want, is the big quagmire for modern dating women. Landing a guy to make all your friends jealous that you wrangled a very slutty desirable man is their actual goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:43 PM
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If I was Louie I wouldn’t acknowledge his existence. He handled it in the worst way that’s why it’s cringe and funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:51 PM
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Women get horny af. I had a friend that women thought was so hot, and he would just be outside the club talk to a girl for 20 seconds, and she would go right home with him. He was a master at online dating too, always had girls on his jock like crazy. If he decided on a girl 80% of the time she was his sex slave basically immediately. He was all romantic acting, his game annoyed me. Having a hot guy friend kinda sucks, he always getting the cute one in the group, every single time. You just don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:45 PM
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If you got romantic interest and lust for girls you would know better. The likelihood that a girl that desires you and will sleep with you in a few hours of meeting is very high, I’ve been on 160 dates it’s 70% of them. There was a confirmed 6’3” Chad on here that said 95% of girls have sex with him the first date. I know other guys better with girls than me, sex is like water to them. There’s more than half of guys that have little interest in randomly doing women they don’t know. For women tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:34 PM
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Women are more sexually inclined than men, this has been rightfully widely accepted throughout most of history. It’s guys 16-24 that are loaded with testosterone, over fascinated by sex and porn, and can’t get it often enough, along with a few studies on Google perpetrating this myth. Girls love sex, most want it 5-12 times a week for a half hour to hour of affection. They just more picky with men because they can be. They also willingly get into relationships with guys they don’t lust for. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:39 PM
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There’s so many other ways to handle it. How he acts would turn off 99% of women. This is why older guys aren’t attractive they are weak, you have to act strong or be strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:18 PM
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If your friends are incels they try and mess it up with girls because they can’t get girls. Then if your friends are players they will try to have sex with all women before you do. It’s hard to find proper supportive wing men that are on the same page and can handle rejection. Unless you have guy roommates I don’t know how people are alone that much. I always have a girlfriend or small harem of girls to keep me company. My friends only want to hang maybe once a week, that’s not enough human inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:15 PM
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You have to better casually blow him off, the way he acted would make every girl cringe so hard. He ends up begging him not to fight, makes you look pathetic and weak to women. How’s she supposed to feel protected when that’s how you handle confrontation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:05 PM
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Perhaps over time you get used to how sensitive it feels during blowjobs and sex. At 17 I was like dang this is too intense feeling to even perform properly. I couldn’t stop the sweat and juices that formed and it always smelled too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:00 PM
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It’s super sensitive, I don’t see uncircumcised porn actors able to pound around holes and get the intense suck. I wasn’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:53 PM
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Yes they want to suck the head but it’s too painful that much direct mouth contact. Also, unless you’re straight out of shower after a multi minute specific cleaning it’s going to stink and she will hate the odor. Sex is better and you’re cleaner after being circumcised. You do take away sensitivity but I also last longer now too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:38 PM
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Now we got women chiming in about how much they know about uncircumcised circumcised differences wow. I didn’t have a condition it’s just very sensitive, you can’t go roughly entering holes or you’re going to scream and possibly tear. Also, your d is going to stink no matter what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:36 PM
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I was almost 18 when I did it. People want to act like you just lose feeling and it’s all a net negative and it’s mutilation. You can pull back and wash all you want, your dick is going to smell in a few hours. Girls are not excited to blow uncircumcised dicks in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:34 PM
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You got it, it just smells like your dick. Those sweaty juices that collect under there, that’s the smell of your dick. You don’t have that after you’re circumcised. Also rough sex is painful, so if you’re girl likes it rough sometimes like most girls do, you’re limited and scared of tearing and it’s too sensitive there. You don’t know what you don’t know between not and having it done.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:27 PM
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Only on Reddit can you be downvoted like crazy and ridiculed for explaining the experience of being uncircumcised and after. It’s way more sensitive to the point it affects sex, you’re also going to drive yourself crazy and be subconscious trying to get it under there to not smell at all. I had no medical conditions, you just haven’t openly talked to a guy that has experienced both later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:25 PM
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It’s not, urologist said I was normal be for it. It’s nearly impossible to understand the difference between things when you don’t experience both. If you watch porn with both you’ll notice the uncircumcised man is acting way less aggressive. It’s because you can’t go slamming it places, it hurts too bad. Which nearly every girl at certain parts of sex likes it rough, you’re not capable of being like that without screaming. Any intensity throating of a girl is also out of the question, so gawk 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:18 PM
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Gay men are happy go lucky, lesbians are dicks. They apparently commit more crime than straight women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:14 PM
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What? Men commit more crime than women? You don’t say. They commit way more crime than straight women. They’re also mean to people and especially men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:06 PM
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I’m the rare guy that had a circumcision later and life and can tell you the differences. Your dick stinks there’s no way to stop it and it’s painful to wash properly. Also blowjobs are too painful if she sucks the head. Then pounding away when a girl has that stretch when she wants it you risk tearing yourself. I experienced all this circumcised and not circumcised. Have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:01 PM
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Aren’t blowjobs and pounding hard when the girl asks painful? At 16 I remember it being too sensitive to be intensely passionate. Also, its ability to collect sweat in there made it impossible not to smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:57 PM
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3 weeks ago my girlfriend let a couple lesbians into a party and they took a sack and walked out with all her designer shoes and bags. I also went to a university that was nationally recognized large lesbian community. They were mean, awful to men, generally a negative shitty attitude towards society and people. Why are gay men so different from lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:55 PM
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Do you have an uncircumcised? I did until 17. Cleaning it is not as simple and not as painful as it seems, that skin is super sensitive. You’re not really that capable of satisfying a woman with rough passion like many women like it these days, it’s actually hard to just pound a girl out. Also her ability to give you oral is improved. Then your d doesn’t stink. Beating off was maybe a little better, other than that I don’t miss it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:44 PM
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Or you could just find another guy. If he isn’t basically asking you to be his girlfriend by the 4th he’s not that into you and thinks you’re beneath his standards. I realize women want to think guys are just players, they aren’t most all guys with lots of options just have fun until a girl strikes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:33 PM
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Women have insta and dating apps, then filter in real life by select locations and parties. They’ve paired it down to mostly all guys who are players, that’s why they say guys just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:14 PM
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Every girl knows they can settle, they enjoy sifting through players for awhile. Then it drives them insane and they have a mental breakdown in their 30s when they are alone and have no path to a family and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:56 AM
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Yea that’s the cause and effect of a lot of things and this sub. There’s not near enough handsome rich prince charmings to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:39 AM
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Chads dickmatize and get pure lust. Any guy in the top 10% of desirable guys can get laid remarkably easy as long as he’s not too picky. Casual dating market always trends up to the top guys. Girls don’t want their looksmatch or lifestylematch when dating, they go after something better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:02 PM
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Successful PUAs can also get into and maintaining relationships easier. Be passionate and maintain your masculine frame, don’t get too needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:58 PM
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Supply and demand. Hot girls get with hot guys, and then want relationships with handsome rich men that have lifestyle and are their type. Which is usually tall, fit, white, with hair. Which that guy barely exists, and hot women are much more plentiful. When these guys exist they can have easy casual sex with as many girls as they want. Consider a large night club, there’s girls everywhere, bottle service girls, hot girls behind the bar, and a bunch of women dancing on the tables. A few hundred …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:24 PM
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People just bury themselves in the corner of what they say and never give in. I had a comment thread that stated when someone is in love they may cheat for different reasons. His reply was if the person cheats they don’t have any love for them. I explained some scenarios where the relationship is messy. He says no exceptions if they cheat they can’t love them. That’s how most online debates go, nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:16 PM
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I know scorching hot girls that struggle mightily with getting a guy to take care of them. If this woman on the tiktok gets it figured out, it’s going to take a miracle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:10 PM
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If you’re not within 2 points of attractiveness to her, you’re prob going to be paying a lot. If you get her at all and she’s not attracted, you’re just going to be a sugar daddy. If you’re hot in your 50s, you can get with 20 yr old girl easy no money, but you need to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:03 PM
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I don’t get what’s weird are there guys with obese wives that are still attracted, but actually wishes she was skinny and hot. Are there not women with tiny dick boyfriends that wish it was big, no one gets the perfect physical specimen partner, though most wish that over fat and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:58 PM
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People often don’t get what they want. I’m sure if she’s with a stubby bald man, her type is still tall and muscular physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:46 PM
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What’s a specific attraction point? If your tall muscles masculine strong jaw hunter eyes and got hella lifestyle the only reason you’re not every girls “type” is you might intimidate them or know there’s no chance at exclusivity. Men generally only got 2 types, skinny or slim thick or both. Women got one type.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:37 PM
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Does any long term simping work for a guy. Like by the 9th week of acting like a simp does she ever give in? Simping can be an obvious submissive sign of availability, you don’t want that, but it does it occasionally work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:30 PM
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The guy they are currently sharing with other women they are in a relationship with, they are just open to other options because he won’t commit. If you can figure out online dating or you’re very handsome sex with women flows like water. They don’t want to give it all up for one girl exclusively. That and young women have more are more likely to date older men. It’s funny how women will not openly share this information that we all know is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:13 PM
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Options skew to the top for men in the single and dating world. If guys care about dating, then they already know the top 5-10% of guys get as much sex, from as many women as they want. Tech made it much easier for them, they can just swipe and talk to girls on insta without leaving the house. Then women only go for their top options. They say all guys just want is sex, while 80% of guys are waiting for the dating scraps to fall down to them occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:08 PM
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Only a woman can read these stats and possibly conclude that more women prefer to be single is the reason. I’ve flipped through this and at least 8 women made this claim. A real head scratcher, so they are in a relationship with themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:03 PM
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Girls are sharing guys and they date over 30 quite often. Guys in 20s are more likely to not want to be in a relationship especially 18-23.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:00 PM
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It’s skewed because it’s 18-30. Young men are very unlikely to be in a relationship, plus he can’t say if she’s 17. Then there’s a large percentage of women 26+ got a boyfriend who’s 30+. That’s not the other away around. Also, there’s a lot of women that regularly see a guy that isn’t exclusive, they call it a relationship and the man wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:56 PM
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Wow you’re BP with that talk? Dating women often find themselves with multiple men at the same time. They are dating what do you think is going to happen. Most all men can’t have harems of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:53 PM
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All women I know prefer to split is a hilarious take.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:49 PM
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Most men want? HawkTua girl is the prime example of what’s wrong with dating women. I don’t think most listened to the whole interview. She was asked how many guys in your roster? HawkTua replied, “idk 7 guys, but pookie you’re the one!” She talks like spitting on guys cocks is a regular occurrence because it is. She’s a female player. HawkTua is a clubber and dating girl, she’s clearly very promiscuous. These are the types of girls that are common you will meet in nightclubs/bars/dating apps. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:13 AM
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I’ve often pondered how many single women 22-35 yrs old, have gone on a date with a man they barely knew in the last 6 weeks. 3% 5%, 10%, 15%? I have no idea, where’s the stat on that. The point being casual dating is not normal ongoing behavior. Casual dating is often talked about because it can be exciting. Eventually going out with the girl at work and marrying her is a common story. The guys who cycle through harems of girls and cherry pick their favorite one seems fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:04 AM
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Think so. The good/bad side of this ppd sub is red pillers often reference the casual dating market. People explain some of your experience, dating opinions, or how you feel girls act while they are casually dating. Then some woman pipes in with comment and says not EVERY girl, it’s just my cat and I last 7 years and I’m perfectly happy. I say I’m sure you are and this has no reference to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:53 AM
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I read a stat that 20% of long term relationships are from online dating. Dating apps are mainly a meat market, hookups, visceral sexual reaction, dating for dreams of a dream man. They act more like a nightclub than real life. Half or more of people under 30 have not partaked in casual dating with people they don’t know, or hookup culture. The large majority of people will find their person at work, social circles, outside of the casual dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:33 AM
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We refer a lot of variations of 80/20 rule with women. The study of women finding 80% of men’s faces “less than attractive.” Dating apps are a great example because it fully encapsulates dating people. For dating apps which I think are a reflection of the casual dating market: - Top 1% of guys, dates and reliable hookups off dating apps, nearly whenever they want from attractive women. - Top 1-5% of guys, dates and hookups whenever they want, but the attractiveness level of women varies - Top 5-…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:06 AM
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My default reaction to most girls is they’ve gone through a hoe phase or 2 or probably 3. They break up with a guy and get sad, they run into other men’s arms so easy. If she told me the truth, I’d be fine with it. I’ve had so many hot girlfriends and I’ve gathered that every single one on them has been in some form of the sex industry. I just accept that girls do guys. If she starts doing another guy while she’s with me I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:27 PM
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Some girls just push your buttons and you will bend over backwards for them. She may not even be as attractive girl as you usually get, something about her strikes you. If I was a girl I’d hope I could be with that guy that’s crazy about me and be happy. Attraction for women doesn’t often end up like that, they get chasing over difficult men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:18 PM
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The move is to get them going to point to say they want sex and tell them no. Half will just pin you down and do it anyway, or give you a great bj.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:11 PM
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I’ve wanted to do this so bad prob a dozen times, good work. Some chicks are getting over an ex or she already got 3 dudes and hung up on one, and brings straight attitude to your date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:03 PM
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You may not get insane level lust a Chad can bring out of a girl, but she should naturally want to get with you. If not you’re entering a relationship where she’s going to walk all over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:01 PM
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Do you guys live in a small town rumormill, are you dating your friends exes? Like what is the scenario on you know every intimate detail of her life. L Do your gfs say yea I did a blowbang at a swinger party while another guy did me up the ass, hope you’re okay with that. When I met you I was actually doing 3 other guys, and you’re the one who didn’t ghost me so you just ended up being default. Who gives there girl they dating truth serum to admit these things and give you truthful body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:55 PM
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I’m just giving advice to not get played by girls, if they are dating, they hook up. My friends and I are at 70-80% first date hookup. There was a guy on here that showed his dating profile and he’s this tall Chad. I asked what percent of 1st dates come over to your place? He said 95% of girls hookup with him first date. If she’s attracted, she will chase you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:12 PM
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You take her to a fancy restaurant and you don’t know her, she will think you’re a desperate schmuck. Make her come to a place across the street from you. Go to place most dishes $16. Cocktails and wine $10. That’s $40 for her. Otherwise you’re going to a nice cocktail place where it’s $15 a drink and she gets 3 drinks and an appetizer and that’s $60 for her. You need to cut these dates short too, ask her over as soon as you get outside. If she doesn’t come over, you know she will for someone el…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:53 PM
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You don’t need a script just ask her questions and play off her. Get her talking about her life and interests. You go on for 3 minutes straight on something she will hear at least one red flag. There was this guy last night I was sitting next to at a bar and he was on an online date. This guy telling her about how great his job is and what he runs, how he went to Italy and saw so many incredible things, he started talking about how you have to live with a girl before you marry, and what he wants…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:54 PM
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Half the women here are trolling people they hope are incels to try and make them feel bad. Telling them it’s all your fault. Then you say no I get chicks, I just say something like girls who date, usually sleep around with guys out of their league. Then they say touch grass incel or to that point. Average ppd female reaction is just trying to troll insecure men. They don’t do any real debate or care about pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:54 PM
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So you know guys that are 6ft, fit, at least fairly handsome, got nice place, car. Then you call those guys average and undesirable. Those guys can have hoes, just some don’t care about being a player and dating around. Girls are so ridic, no guy is attractive unless he’s a golden god or super rich and tall. Then they get into reality eventually and be with a so called “average” guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:42 PM
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Yea single women especially ones addicted to dating apps and gram, often fall into this idea that if they keep trying and love bombing guys out of her league eventually it will work. They’ll go years single and dating around because no guy can match their standards of the best guys she access to on apps. I think dating people and red pill guys are focused on the girls that already got hundreds of guys trying to get with them on dating apps. I don’t know how most guys operate, but unless she had …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:30 PM
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You can have harems as a top 10% guy, they do and get 5-7/10s girls. You get lucky and get an 8 and you ask her to be your girlfriend. The top 1% guys are in the 7-10 range. Top dating guys are not wasting any of their time with mid girls, and most girls are mid and below.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:10 PM
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Most guys that can be Chads aren’t. Getting a bunch of women aren’t a priority in most men’s life at any point in time. They usually could’ve gotten a bunch of girls and dated until they got a hot wife they just didn’t care. They usually settle with some girl that just wouldn’t let him go. Lot of attractive women can be like this too, they don’t barely date, not trying to love bomb anyone, not being hypergamous, just doing their thing 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:58 PM
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Congrats if you have very cute girls that want to go out with you then you’re def top 20%. Get some more muscles with your chub and maybe top 10% or more who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:28 AM
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I’m a dude, I’ve been on maybe 200 dates in my life. Go grocery shopping together, go out with friends, look at some art, have a drink, go bowling, grab some food, watch a movie, play video games, go to a concert. Be fun, she’s showing up. Coffee during the day does not lead to any instant satisfaction. It’s like well let’s do a feeler.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:25 AM
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Then what makes you think you’re not top 20%. Have you met your average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:23 AM
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Yes it’s of my opinion like pretty much anything people say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:18 AM
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Job, decent place, car, not fat. What else is there for top 20% you think? If you’re 6ft+ and girls check you out too then you’re prob top 2%.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:17 AM
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Any girl who has asked me on a coffee date I say I do real dates, like go to an event, or at least out for some nice cocktails. Coffee to me is bare minimum effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:14 AM
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It’s just a concept and what top means is subjective. You should make yourself desirable ans you can, act charming, and looksmax. Then once you have your own place and car, you’re way in the top 20% by any measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:46 AM
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Lot of redpill guys know what they are talking about. Can’t get caught up on pills too much, but they help you see the angles and how to improve or change your current fate. Some guys promoting their take on red pill not so good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:42 AM
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I date for fun and there’s maybe a 5% chance we’re going to have a real relationship. Coffee dates are not that fun, I just want to do something, or have a drink, and kiss someone cute. Going to get coffee in middle of day doesn’t get the juices flowing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:20 AM
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Coffee dates mean one side doesn’t feel very strongly about the other. If you think you may want that person you go out at night together. If some girl says let’s grab coffee, she saw my dating profile, Instagram, or met me and was just meh. Have some passion in life, grabbing a coffee is lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:00 AM
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Don’t respect them probably. If you cheat your girl leaves and your heart splits in 2 and you can’t stop bawling. You loved her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:27 PM
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This is more of a general rule when women cheat. Guys cheating and pussy can be an addiction. These threesome guys who get left by their girlfriends are emotional wrecks begging for her to come back. If someone can leave you and express no emotion or fake emotion once, or just be manipulative after. They never loved you or fell completely out. Just because a guy cheats and has threesomes with his girlfriend doesn’t mean he doesn’t love her. There’s lots of swinger couples and people who have che…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:19 PM
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The guys love their girlfriend. They also cheat. They also have threesomes or orgies all the time with other girls. If the couple is attractive and they have a status in a party scene, it’s somehow remarkably easy for them to get girls down for threesomes with them. Sometimes the guy basically pays the girls who enter the threesomes too. I know a bunch of guys in Miami party scene that are obsessed with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:42 PM
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That’s not the ultimate desire for a guy. He wants a compliant girlfriend that will allow him to cheat, and recruit other girls for him for threesomes. I know super rich and some rich handsome party guys, this is an upfront requirement in order to be his girlfriend. Girls happily do it for them too, for awhile at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:21 PM
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I’d say nail on the head from a theoretical desire standpoint. I’d add one exception that the guy wants a real relationship and the harem on the side and shared for fun with his partner. The problem with these is it only works for awhile, and you’re going to royally screw up any real relationship that forms in the process of trying to fulfill your ultimate desires. The funny thing about this, people often try and accomplish this. They eventually find out how incredibly messy it all is. How you l…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:39 PM
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A woman can never change genders and how insanely demeaning something comes across to men. I think she knows she wrote it to feel superior to most men. I will write a well thought out post about women should handle my rejections. Just accept it fatty, if you lose weight still no. Like what, get a grip, this post reads women are better than undesirable men. If I wrote exactly what she said but flipped genders, women would 1000% think I was a total psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:08 PM
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What do you think it’s about? Sounds like guys just accept your common rejection, I don’t want confrontation, and just walk away. Definitely don’t think showing up not being fat next time will help or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:48 PM
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Read your post again, put yourself in the shoes of a man. Then ask yourself how this remotely helps him with his prospects with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:30 PM
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I really enjoy women’s non helping at all diatribes about undesirable men, while affection is as available as water to women. Then half of single men are collapsed in desert without it, being told to leave women alone. The problem is with women is it’s the same fraction of guys that you are willing to lust for, that’s why we talk 80/20 and the 2 different different worlds that is. If you can show up being tall with muscles, just pick any type of woman, and as many as you want. If you’re short an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:01 PM
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In long term relationships like 5-10 years women 2 things will eventually happen at some point. Romance and sex is stale. When I was married I hooked up with a couple girls in clubs on Vegas trips with guys. It feels like the night of your life. When your girl cheats it’s the same feeling and she’ll want it again. The second problem is this happens in women and why I believe they file for 80% of divorces. Over time the things her man is doing and provides she believe that will be default. If her…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:24 PM
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Nice, get Invisalign it helps. Keep in gym. Take cool pics. Tinder is hard, switch to hinge. Good luck. I’ve gone in and out of being handsome or not, it’s 2 different worlds with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:00 PM
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You probably have male pretty privilege where objectifying and showing some passion get you instant access. At different times in my life I’ve been fat or not. Not fat and looking good from gym. If you’re handsome you can go to a bar, lock eyes for .3 secs, then come over and put your arm around her and say hi. She reciprocates you’re squeezing her butt in under a minute. Because you’re handsome you can objectify her, try that with a big gut and you’re going to get slapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:57 PM
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You’re now changing the rules to fit what you want. Now the introverted 5/10 has social circles, but occasionally gets out of her shell at bars to hookup with guys. I do get what you’re saying, but prior to 2005 I can switch my rules for the introverted 5/10 and she’s having problems, whereas a 5/10 guy who’s willing to approach is doing well. In 2024, if the 5/10 introvert girl wants dates, she’s got a phone, now she can have a date every night of her life. This is how women got so picky so fas…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:36 PM
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Did you meet OP parameters of being a 5/10? Or were you young and cute in 2002? Are very average introverted women who just go to their job and back home getting approached. She will if she has a bunch of guys at her work, otherwise not. This is where social media and dating apps can bring thousands of men to this 5/10 now if she wants to go on dates. Whereas an introverted guy will need to be top 20% at least to be able to actively date on dating apps. I don’t recall in 1999 men being so pissed…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:23 PM
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A healthy body weight is a good start. To say just be thin and you’ll age great and be attractive is a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:15 AM
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Have a nice figure, be sweet, love a guy that wants you back lots.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:14 AM
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Prior to mass establishment of social media and dating apps, nearly the same. After, basically any woman can go on as many dates as she wants. This is what men are so upset about online. It used to be some mid introverted woman with low self esteem was always available. Now those non-outgoing girls got high standards for casual dating because she exists online.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:27 AM
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Well you got it all figured out dawg, good luck when you do have kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:37 PM
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How many kids you got for how long?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:25 PM
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As a parent of 2 children now grown you can only affect your kids lives so much. Intrude too much and try to form them and you’ll prob harm their development.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:08 PM
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You’re putting a lot on parents here. How would you raise your kid to be a fbois? Watch red pill YouTube videos and be coach him to pickup chicks at the mall. You just mostly let your kids exist and help them along when you can, chances are, he will be a normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:48 PM
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Yea I think it’s great for her, and some guys get to interact with her on video it’s alright. I told her I would invest in the girl cross promotion on Twitter and OF because she already has a system proved in Snap. Then her identity as an online sex worker is everywhere though is the fear. Which I get, but to leave that much money in the table is wild, I think I would do it if I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:33 PM
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You can go to a strip club and have legit fun for 2 hours with $200, you get to talk and touch girls face to face. The only thing I think is they are scared of girls. There’s some fantasy to it, she posts her day and then you think that’s your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:15 PM
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Yea pretty down once you hit a certain point with a girl, I got 2, it’s fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:48 PM
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Women as a collective own social media and dating apps, and are trying to get men that are desirable to other women. They want better and better lives they see of other women on Instagram. They’ve tipped the scales and want to keep piling on men calling most predators and creepy. It’s not working for them, look at every report, mental issues and depression in women is skyrocketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:23 PM
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Girlbosses who own businesses and gold diggers are barely even real, it’s like saying all guys are players and fbois. It’s all made up gender internet trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:48 PM
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My gf makes $8-10k/mo talking with random guys across the world on snap. She sends nudes and video messages them. I feel sorry for the guys, why are they sending her 100s of dollars? Seems lame for them. My girl has had regular jobs and has faced near a constant sexual harassment from her bosses and other employees. She also has to sit there for 8 hours for a job. If you could just live and make simps somehow feel better for a hour a day and make 6 figures, most people would do it. I support her…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:52 PM
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If you’re very cool and smooth yes, 2% of guys like this can. There are 5/10 medium looking girls out there that are pretty impressionable if you’re fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:32 PM
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Women like tall so we grew 4” for them in last hundred years. Then chicks just raised the bar to over 6’ which is only 15% of guys. They just don’t want to be happy with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:35 AM
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Think about how much bigger, cleaner, well spoken, and educated guys are now than 100 years ago. Chicks don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:25 AM
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Some women online proudly announce all the time on social media they don't like fboys, old men, young losers, creepy dudes, incels, red pill, guys who ghost, guys that just want to f, guys with small p, guys who show too much emotion.... If there is any possible monolith of guy, women will say they're all creeps and want nothing to do with them. Men are so annoying, I just want to get married to my dream man that is so hyper specific he doesn't exist, so I never ever have to interact with a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:22 PM
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I used to go on dates with young women in their 20s all the time, and 70% of the time they are in my bed within a few hours of the date. My girlfriend of a year is 20 years younger than me and super hot and calls me the most handsome man in the world. Men are not a monolith. Old men are not gross, you're just taking one specific part of your life and saying that to somehow try and make guys feel bad or yourself better, doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:14 PM
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Omg you want to generalize old men like they are disgusting just to be a troll. Meanwhile you don't find 92% of young guys attractive. This older guy is hot, like as hot and buff like Thor and Captain America combined, he also lives an amazing life. Guess what, you're so freaking down, like 98% of other single girls 20+ years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:29 PM
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Waiting for girls to ask you out is likely to end up in a very lonely existence. You have to get the attention of a woman, whether it be social media, bar, dating app, work etc. Then just nearly immediately after a few exchanges ask her on a date. If she's positively engaging with you decent chance. You go on the date and just get her talking and relax. Then you ask her over and make a move. At this point, you might have a girlfriend pretty quickly if you want. Next few days or that night is pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:26 PM
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A lot of younger women do find me attractive, I've picked them up at bars or anywhere. I get lots of dates from younger women 20+ years off dating apps. I'm probably not the norm, but I rarely get the vibe talking to any young girl she doesn't find me handsome. What is this thought that old guys are gross? I worked at KFC when I was 16, there was this guy in a jeep that would come through drive through he was probably in his 40s. Looked like Tom Selleck I guess. 16 year old girls were gushing ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:18 PM
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Your mind is blocking it at the moment. Some young women specifically chase guys in their 40s, but most don’t. When you meet that man in his 40s, and you’re attracted to him and he wants you just as bad. These thoughts you have will be gone or suppressed and you will want to be with him. I’m not saying older guys are better than younger guys, it’s just most women are down for any guy they feel attraction towards that reciprocates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:16 PM
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Dating apps and social media have given women a level of access to men that is 100x the options had before. What has resulted is a population of women that are addicted to the next best thing. They cannot be fully happy in any relationship because there’s so many different types of guys who can offer her all types of enjoyment. Handsome, big d, lots of social circles, great lifestyle etc. If you’re on a date with a girl in 2024, the likelihood that she’s an addicted dater is actually very high. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:12 PM
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Women see the young attractive women and feel inferior to them. They know deep down most men want the younger girl. When they see an older man with a young woman it’s a sign of their own beauty slipping away. Makes women upset and uncomfortable. For guys, they just jealous. They want a sexy young girlfriend. My gf is young and hot and I can see the pain in other men’s eyes on what you have and they don’t. If their wife catches them looking at the girl it upsets them. Guys are manipulating young …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:50 PM
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From a general perspective you’re right and some girls will never fully be happy with a man for more than a few months and they want to stray. I think the phenomenon you’re addressing is how women act like whores in the dating market. It works for years until they’ve barked up the tree and matched with every desirable guy on a dating app. After years and nothing left their self worth drops to zero. Imagine you went on 200 dates and the 50 guys you really wanted pumped and dumped you after 2 week…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:21 PM
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I’m 44 and I date lots of girls in early 20s, my current gf of a year is 24. It’s just there is more supply of available attractive women in their early 20s. Also, what you’re talking about is the opposite young women are more agreeable and easy. Way way more than 10% of girls would date an older attractive man, and the older guys are much more in demand than you are comprehending. Women who are attractive in 30s and 40s are mostly taken, have high interest in babies/marriage, and are rarer to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:12 PM
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Women have unrealistic beauty standards? Women get to be skinny or thick, have big or small butts and boobs. Be tall or very short. Wear lots of makeup to conceal face and skin issues. A woman at this point of female body acceptance, has no excuse not to be baseline attractive as long as they aren’t obese. Male beauty is super concise in comparison. Men have to be tall, fit, have hair, strong jaw, hunter eyes, look masculine. They also need horizontal symmetry and vertical facial harmony. To be …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:51 PM
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It’s of my perception that women don’t do the really tough jobs. They are far less likely to be homeless. They are more likely to just be moms and taken care of by men. Average women accomplish very comfortable lives in first world countries at a high percentage. Being an average guy seems lame, lot of hard work. If you get a family it’s worth it though,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:15 AM
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That access isn’t even that interesting for girls, if something is default it doesn’t excite you. I just think girls who are average live more comfortably than guys who are average. Maybe guys is better still. I do think above average guys would be better. I’ve not seen anything about girls that’s so great that I totally wish I was a girl. Maybe a really hot chick, but that’s too rare to ask and it’s 10 years if you’re lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:05 AM
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Yea throughout human history the fact that women are physically weaker has been a real bummer for them. I get what you’re saying, I just think on average in todays world, the median girls and below living more comfortable lives than the median and below guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:15 AM
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Women seem to be able to skate by and do less work and take far less risk in life. Average women seem to always be living pretty decent, some guy always there to take care of one of things go bad. Seems cool to be an above average guy, but average guy working construction in the heat sounds harder than what any woman is doing. Guys fight wars in the field way more. I would say above average men live the best, get most respect, and have easiest access to real affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:57 PM
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Women are not more wonderful than men. They say they are committed and aren’t, ghost, use guys as much if not more than men. If you say you want a situationship then you can tell them. I just don’t say anything unless I’m sure of something with them. You’re not obligated to have certain feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:13 PM
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Only very marginally more likely to happen if they are the same age. Hard to get by with murder these days and if it’s your partner, you’ll always be the primary suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:07 PM
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Most experts agree monogamy wasn’t the norm in hunter gatherer time. Also, genetic mapping indicates it was generally be one guy making lots of babies with many different women. While most men did not procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:35 PM
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Absolutely on all of this. Women being recognized as more sexually inclined than men has been the norm throughout much of history. Today we’re told with “studies” on reddit women barely have a sex drive. What’s also true is most men don’t care about sleeping around. Then all women want to say is all men care about is hooking up, which I know isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:15 PM
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They definitely not untouchable, they just talk a big game. The top guys they keep be willing to do anything for and the escort work their madame friend has put them through, have wrecked their self esteem and dehumanized these girls. You get the attention of a hot girl, they want a real normal boyfriend more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:53 PM
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In my experience 6-8/10 it’s still a lot in sex industry, but it’s not like a guarantee like 8+/10. There’s people that have experience dating girls that are attractive, know a bunch of pretty girls, and most guys that don’t. You’re on with your assessments in my book of experience. So many guys are like I would never date an OF girl, or if she had a sugar daddy it’s over. I say, well you’re never gonna get a hot chick or you’re going to be in denial
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:40 PM
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This is absolutely true with dating apps and social media, the top 10% of guys have cannibalized the casual access to women in the dating market. These men enjoy frequent hookups with girls they never met, get rosters, then take their pick. My harsh reality is if you meet a girl that is pretty and is an 8+/10 that is on a dating app and instagram is either actively or has been part of the sex industry. They have been on paid dates, paid trips, had sugar daddies, only fans, been escorts it’s usua…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:12 PM
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I think your argument holds water, it’s a least a cause and effect of how we view promiscuity and threesomes between genders. Women get the award for being more pure because by default if she’s a 7+ she’d could sleep with the entire world, but usually doesn’t. When a man can sleep with the entire world easily like women, a lot of time he does hundreds of women. So by this common knowledge logic, men when they can be are usually gross sluts, and women usually aren’t. When women get known for doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:31 PM
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I’ve never heard of couples divorcing for that reason, I think subconsciously they may be thinking that sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:29 PM
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My exwife served me papers 9 years ago. I thought I was going to hate not seeing my kids. I actually like it, you have 2 different lives. Seeing them half the time makes you more excited to see them and do stuff with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:10 PM
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There’s such thing as male pretty privilege, they go up to girls or exist on a dating app. Girls often say yes I want that attractive guy. Then there’s most men that are attempting to navigate a friendzone with girls in his proximity or social circles. This is how most guys land a girlfriend. It sucks and it’s not as good as being lusted for immediately, but it sometimes works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:22 PM
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You’re discussing the active dating market of the top 10% of single men. From the women’s side, the top 30% of women who actively date are forced into casually dating the top 10% guys. Now with dating apps and social media, all the pretty girls have access to all the top single men in her area. These top guys before they choose one, they will have rosters of women and hookup a lot with girls and have fun. The girls are also having a good time being casual as well. This is not a high percentage o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:47 AM
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That’s your list, doesn’t even seem bad. My current gf 5’7” 120, but my last was 5’5” 160 and she had big boobs and big round butt. So chubs can be great. If she’s very obese then I guess not. College degrees are debt and no guarantee of nothing. You need a cook? The last 2 in most cases are fine. My negative traits are you make no money and expect me to provide everything, those girls have no chance of a relationship with me, doesn’t matter if they are a super 10. I can afford it, I just don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:48 PM
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Golddiggers aren’t real. What is real, is you get money while married, you may get a divorce. She takes half, then you have to pay huge alimony checks every month whether you’re making money or not. That happened to me and I’ve gone bankrupt twice over it. All women when divorcing are going to take as much from you as they possibly can, they won’t show any mercy, she is no longer part of your life and hopes you suffer. Women don’t even date guys they don’t like or attracted to for a long term re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:39 PM
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Don’t all women want successful guys if given the choice, some may prioritize looks a bit more. Women like fun money provides and security.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:29 PM
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It’s an excuse for women to not have to interact with short guys or ever consider them romantically. Guys don’t go around hating on short guys, we’re also getting tired of women piling on and dehumanizing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:05 AM
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12 years, 6 years, 4 years, last one 1.5 years I’ll keep trying, but so far you’re right I suppose. I’m kind of an asshole, but I’m a sweetheart to my partner. I’m 6’1”, lift, got green eyes, and I make a few duckets. As long as I can hold it together here some girl will have me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:43 AM
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What’s your longest relationship? Got to 12 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:24 AM
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You get 12 years into a relationship and 6 years into the other, then had gf living in another campus in college it happens. You think you’re going to have relationships and be together for many years and you’re drifting apart it happens. If you never got cheated on ever, you’re prob a loser or your girlfriend isn’t very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:14 AM
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Why does every girl on this sub think you’re talking to an incel? I get tons of girls and hookups when I date, cycle harems with pretty girls. My gf of past year is super hot, perfect face and body. She adores me and I love her so much. You sound so pathetic, get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:49 AM
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I’ve been cheated on 3 out of 4 long term relationships. They won’t even say they ever did, call me a liar for accusing them after catching them red handed. What’s funny is I think they believe their own denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:22 AM
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Women seem to enjoy this, then when it catches up to them they can’t understand why there might be consequences. Women are the definition of hero in their own story. A lot of men can embrace their villainous behavior. Women head to victim mode every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:46 AM
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If she’s at your place having sex with you all weekend words don’t have to matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:37 PM
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Who people date and end up marrying are 2 different things in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:36 PM
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Women haven’t had the hots for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:59 PM
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You forgot charge they phone. My last gf was exactly that type, not my current she a good one *fingers crossed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:43 PM
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This is one of those things that if you’re looking for something or notice a trend you build your own confirmation bias around it. I feel like every time I see a hot buff tall dude, he’s with a girl that’s considerably less attractive than him. All the guys I know that get the best looking girls, simply cared a lot about getting a great looking girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:01 PM
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I don’t think it’s either. My concern is that you’re concerned. I’ve been in 2 relationships long term that at 29 and 32 they just turned on me. I had a relationship like you’re saying, I thought they were hot I could make them cum like crazy, everything seemed great. One served me divorce papers and the other just moved to another state one day. They prob cheating beforehand. Im prob projecting, but your tone seems concerned. Women closely approaching 30 and little after start to feel the beaut…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:45 PM
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I wish there was a more effective way to guarantee or know for sure your date isn’t going to come over to make out. You want to get that kiss outside to seal the deal. If I knew she wasn’t going to come over I’d split 50/50 and never talk to her again. Sometimes you shell out the $40 for her and you get the incredible bj and it’s worth it. You guys that claim you can split the bill and still get the hookup apparently got more game than me. I don’t care about $40, I just want some affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:15 PM
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No just god, can you read I explained. Anybody anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:33 PM
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Girls that have dated a lot act a lot different than girls who haven’t. It’s an eliminating factor for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:32 PM
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Social repercussions and judgement from others about your behavior. I say I have a lot in short spurts in my life. Guys and girls pile on me about how much of a disgusting whore I am. I’m like dang it was 4 years of my life in 3 different times, I’m 44 now. For girls it’s worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:30 PM
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You think guys would have any strong preference for a girl that’s dated a lot of guys? Because guys never will, it’s not personal life it’s men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:24 PM
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I’ve known women that I’ve personally seen romantically with more guys than what she says. Women aren’t going to count so many times, they lie to themselves about it, that’s why stats on it are totally off. Guys overinflate or underinflate based on the scenario. Almost no girl going to give you a number greater than 20, even if it’s 200.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:18 PM
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I usually date younger or more freshly divorced women. The women that have cycled relationships or dated for too long I can’t identify with and find them less enjoyable and easy going to be around. When women think they know a lot about men because they’ve dated a lot, I can’t find a bigger turn off for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:16 PM
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Guys are less likely to lie about because less social repercussions. They still do though to varying degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:13 PM
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I’ve used Tinder, Bumble, Hinge primarily and as far as the dates, I can’t tell the difference. Some hinge girls been dating a long time and they bitter, that’s only thing I’ve noticed. Women will hookup at same rate on any other app, just bc it’s Tinder doesn’t mean she’s a sure thing. Dating apps function like an online nightclub. Who’s getting attention and who’s not is very highly skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:10 PM
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Everyone lies about their body count, don’t even ask. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:04 PM
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Women actually do hate pills, they want guys who aren’t desired by other women that much as their easy back up plan in their 30s. If every guy knows about what most women been doing during their 20s dating around with the 80/20 rule. Then they aren’t going to bend down and submit to her in her 30s when she changes gears for the betabux guys that are now more established in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:01 PM
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I work with a bunch of girls who date, my previous gfs would have her friends come over and I listened to them go off about men. I got 3 guy friends that are huge players, two now in a relationship. We talk about how much we love our girlfriends, what plans we have in the future that include them. We don’t talk crude sexually and negatively like all the women I hear. Something happened in the last 20 years, the poles switched. Men act like women, and women now act like men. It’s been quite jarri…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:46 PM
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Tribal society isn’t this glowing shared commonwealth you make it out to be. Chief hung around and fucked all the women after they done gathering berries, while the other guys went out all day to hunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:09 PM
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I must be amazing because I’ve gone on a few hundred dates 2/3 off dating apps. 70% of girls hop in bed with me first date, and prob 25% would just instantly be my girlfriend if I asked. It’s not horrible for women to date men, what they hate about it is women can’t have the guys you really want for yourself. A guy with options is picky and wants to date around a bunch before deciding.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:05 PM
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Obviously you haven’t researched human history and how men that have gathered resources hoarded as many wives as they could. We’ve always needed laws and government intervention to stop polygamy. Lookup dating in the early agricultural era of humanity. We think average guys have it bad with women today. The guy with the land and house, it was normal for him to have 10-20 wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:00 PM
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Casual dating for a relationship is for top men only, they are the finish line guys. That’s why we discuss 80/20 rule so much on Reddit. Women don’t understand that getting to date women and receiving affection is a privilege for men, not a right like it is for women. There’s no average looking guy making $55k a year that gets dates all the time. Even fat ugly chicks are trying to swing out of their league when it comes to going on dates with people they don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:52 PM
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I’m a grower, my current gf of a year didn’t want to date me initially. I found out later the reason why after the first date in morning (we didn’t have sex yet) I got in the shower and she saw it. Freaked out and thought it was small and ghosted me. I found out from a friend of a friend she told about it. I decided to send her a dick pic and she came back over, and then she wanted to be with me. Women care about how big your dick is, all of them, a lot. It’s a big sacrifice for them to accept a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:40 PM
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That’s not it at all. What women do is sit at the finish line and fuck the winners in hopes to secure a relationship. They may also go through a ho phase or 2 where it’s about lust. For real relationships, women can’t stand the guy that’s still a project.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:32 PM
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I have a bunch of social circles with men and women. Get a group of guys and we talk about how much we want to have someone to wake up with, fall in love, have a partner in life. A girl that he was with that broke his heart. Get a group of women together, they bitching about their man oh he don’t do this and that, or this guy so rich his house so big, or this guys dating got juicy pecs and huge dick. Girls don’t sit around and talk about flowers and romance anymore at all. Women now talk about m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:24 PM
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That feeling of being in love definitely isn’t forever. My gf of year and half is madly in love with me. I will be so sad when the love potion wears off. I feel like the first few months guys are really into the sex, then it settles into more regular interest, and about how much life is better with a partner. Your point is spot on though, women have turned into what is this guy going to do for me. Sometimes just being hot is enough, most men are going to need some things going for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:15 PM
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The reason women don’t regret cheating is they already left you in their mind they just didn’t tell you yet. Then they want to be able to come back to you in case it doesn’t work out or they change their mind. Guys cheat for ego fulfillment and the experience, not usually because they want to leave their partner for someone else. This is why when women cheat the relationship is already gone and you need to cut her off completely. If you don’t, she’ll just want and try to leave you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:55 PM
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Single women with kids don’t want to date me. Once they find out I have kids they don’t even talk irl or apps, or if they want kids soon they are totally out as well. It’s funny how we only talk about single women with kids when most cases their is shared custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:31 PM
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Very late 20s is average over 30 for guys, so saying 20s is not accurate. I’m 44 and I’ve dated every age, I’m in great shape and have a full head of hair, tall, nice home, and cars. If you can you want to date women in their 20s, many of them just want love and a fun boyfriend. My current gf of over a year is 20 years younger. 30s women with or without kids don’t want me because I have 2 kids of my own already, it’s always a conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:21 PM
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The reason is men are the romantic ones now searching for love. Women have become insanely bottom line oriented with men, it’s all about themselves. If women are in their 20s it’s all what are you going to do to improve my life and social status. If it’s 30s then it’s I’m searching for a husband that will give me a baby, marriage, and share their bank accounts in under a year. If it’s 40s, they want to sell their house they got in the divorce. Take the money for them and not give any to you, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:56 PM
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I think you can simplify this analogy from 2 of the most famous people in the world. The most attractive and intelligent women are still jealous of the lives of tall, handsome, smart, and successful men. Capable men are more control of their own destiny and get more respect than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:26 AM
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Women don’t have enough to go on with guys they don’t know on dating apps. If women are swiping right on average once in 20 times she’s constantly going to be exposed to the entitled men that aren’t likely going to end up in a real relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:34 PM
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Relationship Chad is super blue. Player Chad talks like red and black pill guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:28 PM
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College life is way easier to cold approach women, as an adult you attending an event or at a bar. If you're just walking around the world and coming up to women it's tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:30 PM
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I'm 44 and I can only take girls in their 20s seriously. Young women actually want a boyfriend. Women in their 30s and 40s expect you to change your entire life for theirs and share your bank accounts with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:24 PM
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Oh so you find it "wildly endearing" but not good enough for a date lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:22 PM
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Solid advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:21 PM
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The narrative on Reddit seems like be attractive or not. People work to be attractive and then they find ways to interact with lots of women. If you're not actively working on trying with women they have no obligation to talk to you or understand that you exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:01 PM
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Where are you socializing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:53 PM
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If you got 1 chick you’ve been with the last 3 months and it’s a girl you work with. I wouldn’t call you a dater.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:53 PM
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Definitely put too much power on the women’s side. Aside from Reddit women appear to run social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:52 PM
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I think you’re reading into the opposite of what I’m saying. This sub is gender hating, women are too picky, entitled, people just want hookups. If you have a problem with women and your dating prospects and how it’s going. Go to the gym, buy a girl a couple drinks, go to events and parties. Work on your Instagram until your dating app profile makes it look like you have a life. I’ve never met a successful dating guy in my life that doesn’t do all of these things. Guys are doing way more than ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:25 PM
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If some guy told me I’ve been dating. I asked in he said I’ve been hooking up with a girl at work. I’d say that’s not what dating is, you just have a relationship with a girl at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:16 PM
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I refuse to talk to women on dating apps. I just ask them out first message. Works far better than anything else I’ve tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:06 PM
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10 would be fine, I’m just saying if you’re move is to ask women at work if they want to go to happy hr, I wouldn’t say you’re dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:04 PM
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Because dating is for people that have made a commitment to be desirable in some way. Takes effort, women aren’t going to just come to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:01 PM
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If you meet women through class and work. I don’t think that’s dating. If all you are relying on is proximity and who’s forced to be around you, you’re highly unlikely to get more than 10 dates a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:56 PM
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A guy comes up to you and he starts stuttering, I absolutely don’t think you get turned on. I think you dated 1 guy with a speech impediment. You’re only virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:53 PM
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This is what I’m saying. If you don’t want to go out to events, bars, and parties regularly. You’re also not committed to making a great dating profile, you think dating apps suck and you don’t want to buy a girl a couple drinks. Don’t expect women to give you dates very often. Especially if they don’t know you, why would they. What are you complaining about with single women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:44 PM
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I have pictures of me on vacation and at my house. It lands dates off apps and insta. When I started, I did low effort selfies and gym poses and I only got ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:39 PM
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Let’s say the guy is attractive. He don’t like bars/clubs and doesn’t want to improve his dating profile. He wants dates though, what do you tell him. If it’s hobbies be more specific. I’ve never met a guy talking about his dates that didn’t meet them at places with alcohol or dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:37 PM
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I know a guy that was hot with a stutter and it was absolutely debilitating in his ability to get women. I’ve heard women complain about speech impediments and lisps more mean than short guys. I really don’t believe you on speech problems. Imperfections are endearing to most people once you know them. If you have a lot people will think you’re gross and ignore you at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:58 PM
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Have you ever had your heart broken? Love is real, it’s intense. Unless you’re under 5’2” and still live with your parents you don’t have to die alone. Don’t let theory of the last 30k years of genetics pushed by Jordan Peterson dictate thoughts in your life like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:15 PM
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I think this has created a super entitled class of daters because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:03 PM
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Yea it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:25 PM
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I think dating apps and insta has risen the bar some. I existed before them and average guys were not getting dates and easily laid before either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:10 PM
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Slumpbusters are not doing a public service she was just a sure thing that wanted to do me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:08 PM
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I think my slump busters do just fine with men. I wanted to have sex with them, they not that bad, just considered I want a gf who’s hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:02 PM
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Yes, but with girls I didn’t think were disgusting, just not likely to be my girlfriend. There’s something about it that gets your swagger back when you get laid. Girls respond more positively to you, it’s prob the desperation they can smell when you’re sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:47 PM
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Been with my gf a year and half. She wants to get married, I probably still will. I don’t want to, I know she will change as my wife. I love my adoring girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:44 PM
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Sometimes you need a sure thing to get your confidence back. I think it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:29 PM
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I never want to get married again, I owned a business and had to pay alimony. Business went under year after divorce. I’ve gone bankrupt twice and the courts won’t change it. It’s 10k/mo, I’d just skip country but my kids are here. I have a girlfriend though and she’s great. Wives are different, they different when they get engaged too. Relationship is not as fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:22 PM
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For what reasons, women now have access to all the top men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:15 PM
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Do you feel as though a 5 mid girl with nice personality but kinda dumpy body can make you happy, or would a really sexy girl always make you cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:11 AM
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That’s my argument, is that guys want a porn star to parade around. We blame women for their high standards, but they can actually get attention of and get taken on dates. Men are simping for women that would never talk to them without direct money sent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:03 AM
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Ted Bundy with his small frame and okay looks proves to guys how much female standards raised in 50 years. Ted Bundy was a heart throb in 70s, pulling hot sorority girls. In 2024 he’d barely get a right swipe from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:00 AM
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I’m think women are pre affected, much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:53 AM
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I agree with this except I think women really enjoy sex or seem happily apparent to provide sexual fantasy. Women release oxytocin and oegasm too, I’ve seen girls dickmatized by hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:21 AM
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Girls that flake or you have sex with and ghost. If you hit them up and l they respond, things can still work out. Relationships don’t have to be a perfect fairy tale. The girl you’re talking about prob still fkn her ex or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:57 AM
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Don’t you more desire a woman that matches up to those standards after watching it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:51 AM
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I cared when I turned 20 in college and after my divorce. I do think putting yourself in player mode maximizes your chances with the women you want though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:42 PM
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I think this is big part of what is causing the men’s contention with women online. Although it’s only single dating attractive women that have access to the top men. Those are the ones every guy is vying for. However, these attractive women can now shoot to the top of the male hierarchy. Set that standard for themselves from a man since they can get those guys on dates now easily. Doesn’t often work out in a real relationship for them, but women keep trying with the best guys they can get the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:01 PM
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Both genders being able to make these constant comparisons make even great choices difficult. Do you want an attractive boyfriend or successful? Do you want a slim or more thick girl. Big butt, breasts, or both? Then the people that can supply the beauty and lifestyle are trying to pull the strings to get a better result. They end up unhappy themselves constantly comparing to unrealistic expectations of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:57 PM
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I think for women they get a sense of the different types of desirable men and what they provide the select acquaintances she follows on instagram. All the girls that don’t leverage a man to flex on socials in some way are irrelevant. She wants what “that” girl has. Then she has access to effectively every available man to provide what she wants in her life. Sometimes that’s muscles and height, perhaps trips, or better social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:47 PM
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Dating girls for most part act in the way single guys wish they could. I've been on 160 dates and slept with over a 100 the first date. If you make it to the 3rd date it's 90% chance she stays the night. If she's on a dating app, single posting on insta, or you meet her at a bar, the likelihood that she's hooking up with one or multiple men at the same time is very high. Picking up women and hooking up is easier than ever with dating apps. You can swipe, tell a girl to show up across the street …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:32 PM
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Women have never in the history of time got with average men casually. Too much risk and they aren’t instantly attracted to them anyway. Women always have if he’s a desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:48 PM
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Delta working class not very intelligent and live basic routine lives. Gammas think they are alphas, but are losers. Omega is a social misfit. These are the categories of men that no cute respectable girl would casually want, unless they were very attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:30 PM
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Alpha beta delta gamma omega sigma I think is the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:09 PM
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Simping is considered a beta quality though, this is where being alpha all the time may prevent your ability for women to want to form a real relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:47 PM
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There’s 2 ways to land girls out of your league lookswise, you’re connected to social networks with cool people. The other is you offer women a free place to stay and take her on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:42 PM
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If you act “alpha” women are drawn to those types of men. If you’re “sigma” you go in and out of different social circles and are a lone wolf, girls like those types to. If you’re a beta you are in a situation of trickle down economics with career serving alphas and women associated with the alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:33 PM
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Cool counterpoint, it’s not, if the pretty girl you’re trying to get sees you with a fat/ugly girl it’s over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:21 PM
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Everyone is all based on their current situation or scenario they are in. Most guys are deltas and gammas, no girl randomly lusts for those types, so no guy identifies with it. Betas are on the second highest strata behind alpha in social hierarchy. They usually get girls, but the alpha of the group will usually get the best looking women or is most successful, so guys dont want to be beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:07 PM
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Some simping is fine as long as the girl lusts for you and desires to be your girlfriend. When we define simps it’s guys that treat girls so well or give them time or money and they don’t want him back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:02 PM
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Girls want guys that act both alpha and beta. Unless you’re very hot, if you’re just all alpha you’re not going to be seen as boyfriend material.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:59 PM
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Women are repulsed by any man that can’t land any decent looking women. Then if she catches you with a fat girl, she will know she’s above you and will never see you as a viable option. The opposite is true as well, if you have a beautiful girlfriend other women will see her and desire you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:47 PM
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My exwife didn’t want me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:31 PM
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If you go through too many random hookups and fwb in a row it still hurts as a guy when you know they don’t want to be your girlfriend. When this happens to girls it feels worse, but guys can feel like they aren’t good enough to benefit her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:29 PM
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It’s not really social skills it’s what is the result of it, do you leverage social networks to improve your life. Same with money, it’s what your doing with it, if you’re just reinvesting you’re not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:53 PM
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My gf is 20 years younger than me, no one cares. The girls that care understand why I would want a hot young skinny girlfriend, it’s not really an issue. My last gf of 4 years was 16 years younger big booty Latina looked Salma Hayek, we got treated great everywhere. If you can get young gfs the only one who will care is your exwife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:42 AM
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I’ve known 4 girls that read this book, 1 got a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:36 AM
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The only reason someone would identify as a blue piller is because they are aware of other pills and want to trigger red and black pill people. Blue pillers in here rarely have an argument, they just want to say you’re angry and lonely without knowing you, esp women on here. Bluepill men as described by red pill are feminist supporters. They say nice things about women that put them in a good light.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:09 PM
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I know hot guys that can go to club and pickup girls, but can’t figure out dating apps for some reason. You’re probably in the top 10%, just ask girls you want of your matches out immediately. It’ll work out, just keep improving your pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:06 PM
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Welcome to the world of being a top 20% man trying to land a top 20% woman, who can easily get dates and have sex with all the men that exist. I end up in dating app top picks and get roses and super likes from girls on apps. I could have thousands of matches. Landing a desirable, no baggage, independent woman is not easy for any guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:58 PM
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2 of they guys I went out with for 4 years in college. They made out with one very drunk girl in 4 years. They literally just stand there and no girl wants them. They seem handsome, tall, fit, smart. They are actually sweethearts I’m the asshole, I pull girls easily they can’t. No one says I’m hot and they aren’t, women just respond sexually to me. It’s why rizz is an internet topic, some guys have it and some don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:25 PM
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You said some women hate you and some women adore you, saying all women give you some form of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:16 PM
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The opposite of love is not hate it’s ambivalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:10 PM
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People say a simple response that will receive praise and reddit karma, avoiding downvotes. Explaining why a 666 fit man has been single for 10 years is rarely due to their personality. Some guys can’t get fat or ugly girls even though they seem fine, going lower won’t help them. Lot of guys out there got no rizz, no girl wants to get with them. Similar thing can happen with girls too, 2 girls can be same lookswise, but one girl is not sexual looking to men and the other has something desirable …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:00 PM
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Wait until they find out average men have never got casual sex or dates from attractive fertile women in the history of civilization. Self improvement and good career can greatly help your prospects for potential long term relationships. Hooking up is for desirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:51 AM
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Totalitarianism is going to be conservative in most cases. Saying right winger like they are republicans is a stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:29 AM
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Girls are super picky on them, they only swipe right once in 20 times and then can’t figure out why guys just want sex. It’s like you refuse to give a guy in your league a chance, that’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:13 AM
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If you’re a Jewish chick into politics and into the Jewish community I’m sure she just walks out from a guy that says anything positive about nazis. Some girl that’s just Jewish and doesn’t think about politics and this hot guy seems generally into her, I don’t think any political party affiliation is going to make any difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:02 AM
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He’s likely to be elected twice. I’m not going to vote for him, but who I think are pathetic are people like you that cant understand why people vote for Trump. The around 70 million Americans that will likely vote for him are all fucking idiots and you’re the smart one right? Sad. Biden has 3/4 of his brain gone to dementia, oh yea that’s way better than Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:54 AM
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He’s on a date with a Jewish chick, he just likes totalitarianism and far right viewpoints. He doesn’t march with nazis who promote genocide of jewish people. Not a violent nazi or swaztika tattoo. He’s hot though, and he can get Jewish chicks who don’t know much about politics, they may think it’s edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:48 AM
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He can form a coherent sentence, he can run a global business, he can look tough after getting shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:40 AM
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Bro cmon, if you’re handsome, fit, and tall and got a nice place. You could tell a woman you’re a nazi and a Jewish chick will still have sex with you and think she can change you. Women aren’t going to disqualify guys that are catches based on their political beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:33 AM
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Have you had a political argument with women? It’s either about abortion, pay gap, or some wild conspiracy theory they heard on TikTok. I’m not sure why we allowed women to vote, they don’t seem to care about any real issues or anything geopolitical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:30 AM
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95% of women don’t even know what libertarian means. I think they just assumed I was a democrat because it kinda sounds like liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:22 AM
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Politics is near completely irrelevant to 90% of people when it comes to a relationship. It’s rarely brought up. When it is, no girl cares that I’m a libertarian at all, not once.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:51 AM
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The big problem I’ve found is women with kids don’t want to date guys who have young kids. Then women who want kids sooner than later really don’t want to date guys with kids under 13. When you’re dating as a guy with kids your choices are women under 25 and women 38+ with older children. Otherwise, they don’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:22 AM
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You can also just go to a cocktail bar and pay for a couple drinks. I always take women out on a dining date for first date if I don’t know her. For the 1/3 of dates that don’t come back to my place after, I’ve never gone on a 2nd date with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:38 PM
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I think you’re right aside from only being only about looks for guys. I would make the argument that a 6/10 guy who is tall and makes $200k/yr can easily date women 6-8/10 women. If a guy is 6/10 then women won’t be repulsed by him and factor in anything else he has going for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:29 PM
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The exception being attractive women can point to the guy and say he’s hot. Otherwise expendable income is a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:37 PM
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With the guy needing to be at least slightly attractive I think this is a fair combination. The problem with this, is he needs to be an outlier in 2 categories as well. Seems like a rare guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:35 PM
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What’s the dream if you live with your parents still? What is the large group of attractive women you can easily sleep with that fall for this dream?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:30 PM
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There’s thousands of those women on dating apps now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:09 PM
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There are most girls that can change gears and get more serious with a betabux and give up on guys with all the options. Some girls can’t or don’t want to, can’t get turned on by a less desirable man, and they end up single and unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:55 PM
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I know some girls that make lots of money off simps on OF and social platforms. It’s often malicious in how they get the money sent. These guys are addicted to giving women hundreds of dollars with virtually nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:40 PM
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Do you feel like you are addicted to new pussy and the intense oxytocin dump ego rush of easily sleeping with a beautiful girl. I think guys see it as a drug and want that back. Then if you can easily hookup, then you can easily say be my girlfriend decent chance she says yes. So you always that easy out. The problem with women who sleep around is raising the bar on being charming, fucks well, looks good, has fun lifestyle. Then they may start to just enjoy dating around and sabotage relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:04 PM
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Majority of dating girls hookup with guys they want. That’s a good thing for guys. Otherwise you’re just going on dates with no passion and that would be boring. You can try to say things nicer or put things more abrasive for clicks. That’s the internet red pill concept, be blunt and sarcastic to hold interest to beat the social algorithms for more views.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:59 AM
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You’re just seeing the word whore like it’s negative. There’s a small percentage of women who are actively being whores. However, if she’s sitting across from you, she prob in a ho phase dating. It’s reality through your own lens, if you been on a ton of dates, and 70% end up in your bed. You’re going to perceive dating women as whores. Which is fine, single men are whores too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:07 AM
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Pills to me is a reason to speak frankly about female nature, to most people it just sounds bad, especially women. It can be hateful, but most of the time it’s not being pc. For example, I tell guys who go on a date, she’s going to decide about you the second she lays eyes on you, women are way more shallow than men with looks. Then most all dating women are whores. Not all women all the time, but if she’s across from you on a date, 90% chance she wants to be a whore and she probably already is …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:38 AM
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You can’t let them get to you if you meet a girl through dating. That’s what those girls do, date around. They’re addicted to the dopamine of building up a man, then tearing him down. The disease of the dating girls mind is wanting a composite of all of the best features of the guys she’s been out with. She continues to chase a dragon that doesn’t exist, it’s her own self indulgent addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:09 AM
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Pills is its own philosophy and you can make blanket statements about its interpretation, but almost everyone will disagree at least some. I’m prob mostly redpill and the concept of gaming girls to get in her pants is silly to me. The only context of game is how one approaches seduction. Some methods will work terrible for some guys and great for others. I would tell every guy the best approach to game would be forward and pull back method. You have to move forward to get attention and get her t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:24 AM
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This is true, the 80/20 rule exists simply because the top 20% men won’t stick with the top 20% women. They enjoy pulling low hanging fruit with girls they know they won’t be serious with. If the top 20% of guys didn’t try to date and f the world, then it would be the 60/40 rule and guys would have zero reason to complain. The bottom 20% of men prob don’t deserve a date. Right now the dating market is way too imbalanced and women are allowed to artificially inflate their standards by being sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:29 AM
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I want to see actual proof of a guy that’s going on dates and hooking up with 7+/10 cuties, and splits those drinks and tip right down the middle on a first date. Then she comes over and spends the night in his bed. That would be game off the charts. I know a couple guys that are jacked gorgeous models, and they have zero issue buying some cutie some drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:24 AM
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This is what half the girls you meet on dating apps are doing. The get that first 2 week dopamine rush of a guy. Get bored and move on to the next. They keep dating until they can find that less than 1 month boyfriend. It’s an addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:41 AM
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I’ve never met an unattractive loser in my entire life that talks about the women he is dating. Women casually date desirable men. If she barely cute, she’s already got 10 average guys that will marry her on the spot. No semi respectable girl wastes time going on dates with losers. Unless he’s an attractive loser, then that’s definitely possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:19 AM
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Once you start going on a bunch of online dates you learn to be as vague as possible in what you’re looking for. Guys saying they want hookups may just view you as not relationship material. As far as dating apps being hookup apps, when you’re basically expecting to get at least a bj from your date realizing dating apps are hookup apps becomes the general assumption of dating women. It’s not guys pushing for hookups ruining it, it’s girls hooking up so she can get access to him. What you’re miss…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:59 PM
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It works out for some. Every cute girl got 10 girl acquaintances she follows on instagram, that got either the super hot man or handsome rich guy traveling and doing exclusive activities. She wants that too. When you can get dates with fit guys with Ferraris and multi million dollar homes or the hottest guys possible, some girls cannot stop with these men. They don’t want a relationship they want a trophy, that ends up being more like chasing an imaginary dragon. There are some attractive girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:56 PM
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Listening to attractive women’s dating lives is absolute delusion. They all date far into the top 1% of desirable men and sleep around often. You constantly hear 2 different phrases from attractive women who date “I’m going to be set for life with this guy, he’s so rich and wants to take care of me” or “he has the juiciest pecs and the biggest dick I couldn’t barely put my mouth around it” then they pretend these guys don’t have 5 other girls he’s currently with and it never works out. If it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:42 PM
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I’ve seen some woman stave off wall until 45. It really starts to set for women in late 30s. If you’re still good looking woman though, age can work to your advantage in dating market. For most you won’t get free dates and sex by attractive men whenever you want. Your social access becomes more limited. If you don’t have children you will usually have regret. There seems to be some acceptance to your singledom, reluctance to readjust your previous standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:06 AM
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State wants families, population growth, productive citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:22 PM
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If you want to count one glass of wine, or 1 joint as related to casual sex you can make that argument. You can also just say no to them when they go for it and have sex with them in the morning which has happened many times. To say I don’t have casual sex because I’m not getting girls drunk is a laughable argument for a guy to make. You should never have sex with a drunk girl you just met, it’s not the behavior of a gentleman. Also if you like the girl and do that to her she prob not going to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:01 PM
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I’ve never taken a girl on a date, she drank too much, either said no or tried to stop her from sex. Then not had sex with her in the morning or later. Alcohol is a social lubricant, but to say only mainly drunk girls engage in casual sex is a total falsehood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:47 PM
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Yea completely sober girls usually take 2 or 3 dates. I would never get a girl drunk that I just met and have sex with her. The women that try I make wait until the morning when they sober up. You have to be careful with women you just met, imbibing them with alcohol and weed to take advantage of them is not the behavior of a gentleman. Then the upside if you tell them no to sex, they will respect you more and give you sex still when they sober up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:32 PM
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I don’t know what argument you are trying to make. Patriarchy is designed for social order and families. You take away women’s rights, you get a better result of what the state wants for a productive society. Western world that has changed to put women in the workforce and give them equal rights for overall economic benefit. Then you also want them making kids for population growth so you take away rights to abort the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:23 PM
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Do you know women who use dating apps? They aren’t actively on them like men are. They use them, get some dates. Then pause, come back in a few weeks. It’s equal amount women total that have used dating apps to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:13 PM
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Yea cat is out of the bag in western world, but most of the world still doesn’t allow equal rights for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:59 PM
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Men have an evolutionary tendency to hoard women and spread their seed. This comes into conflict with modern laws of society. Casual sex is mainly temporary ego fulfillment. New pussy is a drug, it releases oxytocin. Like any drug you do it too much and it makes you feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:53 PM
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Throughout most of civilization women have not been given equal rights. Men don’t like the result of what happens when women are free. Women don’t have equal rights in most of the world now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:50 PM
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It doesn’t for some guys, but most just want a real relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:48 PM
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Patriarchy was designed to keep a social order and create families. Men working and being productive to benefit the state. It was designed and instituted by men. We know what men want, we don’t know what women want except most will develop a maternal instinct at some point. So you create marriage and family. 75% of lesbians divorce, divorce is more likely than not and is filed be women. Now that women have equality the patriarchy is being upended by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:47 PM
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Women do what they want now, you can just accept it. They are not rushing into being a mother, and are filing 80% of divorces. Having their rights taken away for the patriarchy was so men got what they wanted, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:34 PM
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There’s something about new pussy guys get addicted to. I have in 3 stretches in my life, it’s too tiring putting up with a harem of hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:31 PM
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Single dating girls randomly fuck guys bc they are hot, or they wish to be his girlfriend. Sex is fun, casual sex most of the time after awhile people wear out on. There’s few things in this life as satisfying as a beautiful woman you just met naked in your bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:26 PM
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They aren’t, Tinder is a bit these days. Hinge has endless women on it. I dated for 8 months last year, couldn’t get to the end of the girls on it. Could get dates whenever I wanted. Found a girlfriend off Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:23 PM
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Me and 2 guy friends I know got single at same time last year and shared our experience on Hinge. We’re all tall, fit, and successful. I would end up some days in top picks and get roses sent to me. I spent 8 months in Hinge and could not reach the end of it. I’d go through it for hours. Never ending supply of women on Hinge these days. Had thousands of matches and went around 50 dates, slept with around 30 of the girls, mostly the first date. Now I have a live in girlfriend I met on Hinge. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:15 PM
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You could completely rock a girls world, cummimg over and over, squirting on your bed. Go at it all night. Then not see her again because she went for another guy or back to her ex. There’s no magic pill with women or men to make them cum hard and they suddenly want to be with you. Sex is just one factor, its not like you solve the riddle of her pussy and it’s a guarantee of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:07 PM
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The number of women actively dating and getting with guys casually and dating is not a high percentage. However, it’s a a high percentage if they are currently dating, that’s who single guys are meeting. We don’t meet the girls happy single alone with her cats. Also, women lie to themselves about how much they sleep around you can’t trust any study. You go on dates on dating apps or meet girls out they hookup, most all easy to hookup with if they like you. It’s just cope to say your standard dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:01 PM
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What do you need to have in common or the relationship is cooked? All you need is you’re attracted to each other and enjoy spending time together. If that’s a common interest that’s all you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:56 PM
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What makes you think women don’t want to rip the clothes off a guy she finds attractive she doesn’t know and have sex with them. Most women love to do this. They want a relationship too. Women are more like guys with sex than anyone wants to admit. Keep telling yourself girls wouldn’t immediately pounce in a guy they want as a bf or simply because he’s hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:52 PM
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Patriarchy was designed by religion to keep a happy society of men working to support their family and have a wife. In order to do this effectively you need to take ability to support themselves away and make women dependent on men. As long as women are free the number of childless unmarried women in their 40s will continue to rise. Because women’s true desire don’t match a man’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:41 PM
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All the jealous bitching comes from that some guys get all the casual pussy and most guys don’t. Guys know attractiveness matters, but you have to past a certain threshold of desirability for women to casually date you. Bluepill guys will often say that women that engage in active dating and hookup culture are a small subset of women who are whores. This is how they cope with the reality that the top guys can get most single girls into bed easy. Pill information is out there to let you know that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:15 PM
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What is a social disease, like instagram and dating apps effect on the masses?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:07 PM
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Lot of women avoid hot guys, all girls want tall, successful, handsome combo. Also some guys are just cute and got a fun life and have harems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:34 PM
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Imagine being tall, successful, handsome. Swipe, ask girl out, drive across the street, have a couple drinks, talk, come back and have sex. Girls love getting convenient access to these men, they don’t have to go out and find them. Why guys don’t just keep working on their online persona, while most attractive women do is a mystery to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:31 PM
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Not all of them, but they seem to be off put by your actions or anything you say. They are more apt to disqualify or not talk to you unless you comply to their own standards of expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:05 PM
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I’ve tried, and single moms are not nice or grateful at all that you don’t have to date single moms. I find them meaner in most cases. I also find women that want kids very soon to be not pleasant to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:30 PM
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Different type of experience, I’m not sure why these hot guys that can get dates whenever or already have a girlfriend do it. I think it’s mostly they want variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:27 PM
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You’ll get way more of a pass by women for getting escorts if you can also pull women easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:14 PM
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The junk food of Reddit is denying other people the right of reality through their own lens. People on reddit like to upvote shared thoughts and on ppd if someone goes outside they think they are a lying incel. Thats especially most women’s response on this sub to guys opinions they don’t like. Dating lives and experiences are vastly different. You explain your perspective and most people on this sub act like you’re an insane person and get angry, and just consuming red pill videos with your “ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:12 PM
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There’s hot guys that can get lots of girls that pay for sex too, the girls he dates know. I don’t think they like it, but they don’t mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:03 PM
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Doesn’t tell the whole story, but it leads to the madness. Let’s say you date a girl when she’s 22, at 32 she doesn’t love you anymore or maybe she feels like she didn’t fully. She’s legit seriously pissed off at you for ruining her chance with Chad. This has happened to me and it is related to their mental illness overtaking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:59 PM
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If girl wants to have kids soon she doesn’t like yo see your kids. I suppose I’d be same way if I never had kids and wanted them I would be less than thrilled about a girl with little kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:24 AM
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No I do that to women and they won’t leave me alone after the breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:28 PM
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Is mental illness and depression just the norm now? My last 2 ltr ended in a hellfire of total insanity that gave me ptsd. My current gf is diagnosed bipolar. Relationships get so insane. I talked to this one guy and he said all my relationships end great, I’m still friends with my exes. I replied wtf, are you serious, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:23 PM
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This is why I only date women who are recently divorced or under 25. I don’t identify with girls that have been dating off and on for long periods. Their expectations from a man are completely unrealistic. I’m a better than 666 man who’s handsome and fit. I can get dates and sex whenever I want. You cannot comprehend how I the most amazing guy in my 40s to a girl that’s her in her 20s. She doesn’t expect anything except to feed her and love her. Then you meet women in 30s and 40s and nothing mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:52 PM
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In the moment they love it. When they get ghosted and wanted it to continue they sad. When it gets done repeatedly over the course of years with desirable total package men too. They will be depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:58 PM
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Because she thought those guys were in her league, and she never got a real relationship. Women tend to not like to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:33 PM
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No she messed up dating and only being with players. She wasted her youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:05 PM
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Omg what do I do? She’s super hot and adores me and makes 10k+/mo and doesn’t even have to ever meet the guys. Do I dump her? Idgaf good for her, anywhere she’s ever worked she’s constantly sexually harassed by employees and her boss, what’s the difference. You could only dream to be able to do what she does, now you want to call her a sex worker, F off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:17 PM
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Even at 40 and busted, she could find a man to knock her up tomorrow. Every girl that never ended up having kids and getting married still wants all the desirable men she casually dated. It’s being Chad widowed from dating, and women never get over it until they fall in love. She’d rather be old, live alone watching Netflix and be with her pets, than lower herself to her new league of older undesirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:55 PM
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I feel like I’m at the absolute top of the dating food chain for my age. I end up in the top picks on apps and get sent roses and super likes a bunch some days. I can’t even begin to compete with the dating options of a 25 yr old 6/10. She can get with anyone, and get any guy to take her out and have sex with her. Even the tippy top men don’t have near the dating options. 80% of men are sitting at 0 dating options and just waiting around to get lucky. You’re the typical girl that cannot step out…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:50 PM
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Girls should be dating guys that are asking to be their exclusive girlfriend by the third date. If he isn’t your part of a roster. Girls like men with rosters of girls. He’s confident and cavalier attitude is attractive. You don’t want to be finding a man and trying to marry at 40 as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:22 PM
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I’ve been on about 160 online dates, my current gf I met off Hinge. Most your list is good I would alter your strategy and couple thoughts slightly. My advice you need to close quicker physically the first chance you are alone outside, kiss and ask her over for a drink or a joint. More than 50% of my dates sleep with me the first night we meet, the other 25% come over and at least make out. 25% don’t like me. The more smooth and attractive you are your hookup rate from dates can be 90%+. If she …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:17 PM
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Women on this subject refuse to adjust their frame of reference and assume young men have similar advantage they did. Probably around 10% of 20-30yr old guys can actively date cute women in 20s whenever they want. Around 5% of 40 yr olds can date a cute 20 yr old women whenever they want. It’s not like young men have any great advantage in dating, they just more often in social circles of young women that end up in a relationship. When it comes to dating for men, either you’re attractive to wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:40 PM
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I don’t care it’s just a dig and jealousy. I’m glad dating women are sluts just like men. I appreciate that 70% of my dates want to jump in bed with me after a couple hours, otherwise I wouldn’t want to go on the date. Girls are fun and free now, especially girls in their 20s, they love love and talk about guys all the time. It’s just a reminder to all the young women who enjoy all the attention most men will never have even 1/10th of. The clock is ticking on this attention, and you should proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:31 PM
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You don’t want most young men, attractive young men are your preference. I would also say regardless of age women physically want a 29 yr old man. However, if an older man is very attractive you will hear what he’s go to say too, just like you want to hear what an attractive young man has to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:07 PM
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If guy is attractive he just needs to stay in shape. He can get a hair transplant, I got one, looks great can’t tell. Men don’t get bitter, how many old men have you dated? Most young men can’t pickup girls and date easily, most older men can’t either, same difference. You’re just calling older guys bald and the younger guys not cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:35 PM
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I know what you’re saying you just want to look at this through your current lens. You say ew gross to most men your age now, you wouldn’t go on a date with them. You would also say the same thing to most 40 yr old men, ew gross old man. Unless they are attractive and they got a fun lifestyle. Then age is tossed out the window, age doesn’t matter so much because you don’t like most men your age now. The way you talk you act like young men are young women. Young women are fawned over, most all yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:28 PM
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Most young girls are cute and get attention from men. Most young guys are ignored and get no attention. If you’re tall, well built, handsome guy and you stay in shape, you will be attractive and get attention nearly all your life. This isn’t some made up thing, young women get attention and that will fade very rapidly for most of them starting in 30s no matter what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:22 PM
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I’ve told her to get OF and take this to next level, she makes on average 10k/mo doing this and it take her like hour a day. She doesn’t want to because OF is public, she keeps all of it as private as possible. I’m pushing her because I think she’s not fully tapping into this and can make a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:18 PM
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My ex wife was just as bad, she cheated on me before I did. Women have the same urge to cheat after being together long enough. I’m an attractive guy, there’s 2 of my friends wives that have made a pass at me for an affair. We act like women are so different from men, they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:14 PM
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This is my live in girlfriend, I work from home. She does everything with me, I’ve seen the messages from guys. She does sometimes video chat with them for money, she talks about it. When you’re super hot this is what guys do. I’ve dated runway models that go to ny and Paris fashion shows the 2 I dates didn’t get much attention on socials, dated hot girls that I found out were being high end escorts to very rich old men. They didn’t get money sent like my current girlfriend, what she does is act…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:11 PM
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You’re just digging in older men, when you don’t find most younger men attractive. Their one saving grace of being young is youth, which most value. I’m 6’1”, go to gym in shape, I have full head of hair, straight white teeth, dye my hair, nice car and house. Girls check me out as I walk by of any age. At 46, people say I look 36 or younger. My girlfriend is 20 years younger than me and hot, I’ve been on at least 80 dates off apps with women under 25, it’s an endless supply of girls of any age w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:59 PM
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Once someone in a friend group is divorcing she convinces the other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:47 PM
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These rich guys were handsome and fit. They weren’t as attractive as the young guys though. I really feel like this girl reaction is regional. If you’re in LA, Phoenix, or Miami all the girls really want a total package guy. Being just hot or just rich is not enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:24 AM
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You take anonymous threads too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:08 AM
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Woman asks the question. I answer the question. I get downvoted and told no somehow. That’s the reason, deal with it. I’ve literally never been without chicks and still have thought this before. Not a chronically online or incel take, lots of guys say it even if they are players.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:48 AM
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Guys don’t expire like women do. Guys age better, girls want older men way more than other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:14 AM
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I’ve dated girls off dating apps that I found out were being escorts behind my back. If she randomly gone some weekend or you can’t reach them some night, you figure it out. She’s not doing that or being gone, and she doesn’t have of. So whatever she’s doing with the guys online, I’m fine with good for her. She never asks me for money, so that’s the good part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:06 AM
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The number of single childless women in their 30s is on the rise. Women are more depressed than ever. You can google both stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:42 AM
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I hosted a party for my gfs birthday and these chicks were young all hot about 40 of them. The young attractive guys with nice face at party, not much interest. The 3 older rich guys got all the attention once the girls found out they were rich. All early 20s, all hot af. You think a nice face and a 1 bedroom apartment is going to land you a young genuine hot chick, keep dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:38 AM
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I can’t tell, but when you go out on so many dates and sleep with countless women most of them in a few hours. You went to college and slept with at least 50 girls. You have girlfriends friends who date and just talk about the latest guys they been fucking. You think most girls who date are way bigger whores than most men, I think they are worse. So no big deal, girls want guys what you going to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:35 AM
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Except for maybe a couple years, I could get girls whenever I want. I’ve slept with around 150 girls, from pretty cute to hot. I’ve had a wife, my gf of last year is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:31 AM
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She’s always right next to me, she never goes out. How’s that a sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:29 AM
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Yes we’re living in a world where girls grew up in a big house, family had nice cars, took vacations, and had the old school middle class life. That’s gone now, when women see you in an apartment that cost adjusted for inflation more than the house they grew up in, she’s still disgusted. She’s going to do anything and fuck anyone she can to make sure she lives the life at least she grew up in, not worse. This is why so many guys are lifting and looksmaxing, because if they can’t offer the white …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:52 AM
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I’ve dated a bunch and relationships with 7-9s. My current gf is prob only true hottie that’s been my girlfriend, guys send her money everyday on snap and insta because she’s so hot, it’s weird I don’t fully comprehend why these simps do it. I’ve had older girlfriends, okay looking ones, I’m not one to care about hottest in room, more who wants to lust for me. I mostly think women are legit crazy. I have the craziest relationships and ends to them ever. Like unimaginable insane situations. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:46 AM
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No, but there would be a big part of you that would want to. It’s hard to say to someone that after you’ve been with someone for 14 years, you’re in kinda dead bedroom. You’ll never comprehend until it happens. having a hot young side chick at work that you’re leaving to lunch to go to her place to fuck, or going on business trips together how great that feels. A side chick you have pure lust for is the greatest temporary relationship ever. Your wife will feel the same, you love each other in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:30 AM
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For women who are hypergamous always looking for next best thing, or only offer themselves to the hottest man in any room. It’s a revenge fantasy that more often than not comes true. This is true of a lot of dating women, they have nervous breakdowns sometime in their 30s that Chad no longer wants her and she’s going to have to settle for some normie. I’m 46 I’ve known enough women for long enough to see it happen. They will always have their stories of how they dated athletes and had sex in 10 …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:22 AM
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Because young cute women are so full of themselves just bc everyone wants to fuck them. It’s our way to say if I stay in shape and live a good life as a guy I won’t expire. Most women will by 40, no guy will want to take them out and have sex with them. They will have lost their looks, youth, and ability to bear children, which is what guys primitive brain lusts for. It’s just a cruel reminder, and a fuck you to uppity young cute women we want, who only want to get with players and shun average …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:13 AM
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This is pretty common and the reason is they wanted someone else or thought something else more intense. If you’re dating girls will pull back, go date someone they think better, get played. Then come running back to you. Or you date them and they go back to an ex. Then come back months later because they liked you. I think you should have an open mind, but after a week or 2 if she isn’t giving you the best bjs and treating you amazing, then just pump and dump her and teach her a lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:46 PM
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If you just want to mostly live in that country and like it there then it can be cool. I like Colombia and could have a wife from there, but I’m moving there at least half the time. PPB wants to basically mail order a cute girl, pull 90 day fiancé with a girl that’s unemployable in your country. It’s dumb, if you just want to 100% take care of a girl, there’s plenty of lazy American girls available for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:40 PM
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Looking like a simp to a bunch of girls that’s his friends makes him less masculine and even less desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:38 PM
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They don’t have to be into coke, this old cool buff guy always getting with young hot chicks sometimes carries it like a lot of guys in the club. I wouldn’t even call him hit, he’s just cool and got a nice lifestyle, hosts parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:39 PM
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I can be friends with girls I’ve already had sex with. Some guys have lots of female friends, but if he never has a girlfriend on top of that, women will not want to be that one girl who wants him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:37 PM
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If that 50 yr old is buff, looking handsome, has money, and a bunch of coke in his pocket. Just watch girls instantly change their opinion about older men. One of the biggest players I’ve ever known is 54 now, he always got some hot young girl. There’s always an exception being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:31 PM
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Give women the opportunity and they will choose the buff juicy pec model or the guy with a mansion and Ferrari every time for a random date. Or at least 2/3 will. Similar goes for guys for a date they will choose the hot girl under 30 nearly every time if given the choice of every girl in the table. Now who those 2 with every dating opportunity ends up marrying may be a different story. Plus most guys and girls can’t date whoever they want so they end up with people in proximity in similar socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:26 PM
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I’m a bit older so I remember dating and how women were before dating apps and social media. Girls were limited by social circles and the direct proximity of where they were to find men. Giving women access to every guy in a 50 mile radius has greatly altered their standards in men they would casually date. Internet isn’t going anywhere so that’s not a viable solution, but it would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:43 PM
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We talk in generalizations on Reddit, the reality is most women are not looking good at 45. The women that are though can get dates and have sex with whoever they choose. Same with older guys. I think the point of the post is that young men aren’t affected in the dating market due to older man preference. For girls in their 20s they date guys in their 30s a ton, young guys are absolutely being affected by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:39 PM
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That’s fair, but past the age of 24 I don’t think any girl is saying no way to a guy of any age as long as he’s attractive and has a nice lifestyle. We act like girls have strict limits on dating, they don’t they like older men if they’re good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:33 PM
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I don’t disagree I’ve been on a few dozen dates with 19-22 and if pressed would be able to only date in that age range of college girl, but it’s a low percentage. The reason isn’t that they think older men are gross, it’s that they want to do college girl activities and date college men. Where the percentage of women that are interested in older men makes the huge jump is 24. By that age, I don’t think they care about age that much, as long as you are desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:24 PM
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Women are still oppressed by women in Middle East and Africa. Free women smv is through the roof, if they cute, they can fuck any guy they want. The only way we stop women from chasing desirable men as their main hobby, is by taking away their rights and make them dependent on men. Supreme Court took away abortion rights to help keep women making babies, if population goes below replacement and society is collapsing they wi take away women’s rights until they comply to having families with regul…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:18 PM
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The study has the most elaborate way possible of stating that Asian girls are randomly fucking white men with stds.
/r/BlackPillScience09/07/24 04:04 PM
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The dating woman who is hypergamous will act desperate for hot men and handsome guys with money. Then shun guys that actually want a real relationship and in her league. The reason many women do this is because they have peers on instagram and friends accomplishing the same thing with men, hot or rich. So she wants that too at any cost to acting desperate, damaged ego, and dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:52 PM
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Most girls in their 20s have zero problem dating a guy in 30s. If you’re attractive and successful you can date girls in their 20s well into your 40s. I know this because I’m 46, in shape, have full head of hair from hair transplant. I’ve had dozens of 18-20 yr old girls hit on me. At bars and clubs it’s easy to talk to and flirt with girls in their 20s. I match on dating apps with 20 yr olds easy, they go on dates. I date whatever age not just 20s, my current gf of a year is 24 and hot. My and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:33 PM
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Non affluent men can date easily if they are attractive, problem is women don’t find most men attractive. The adult dating market consists of very handsome men and fairly attractive affluent men. There’s no way women can sort out anything else, so those guys are getting most of the dates with women who date. Which dating for most women is not going to work since she has the same strategy as most other girls. I had a hot blonde girl that was my friend at work, she decided she was going to date ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:19 PM
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Hypergamy is a norm in dating world, there’s no grand trend of cute waitresses marrying rich handsome men. Every cute waitress has gone on dates with rich handsome men or had sex with some. This sub obsessed with hypergamy because those guys ruin the casual dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:54 AM
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We talk about female hypergamy as if it works, cute girls get to date and fuck handsome rich guys. Doesn’t usually work out for them to land a real relationship with any amount of reliability. I know a ton of the hottest chicks via my work, dating, and going out to clubs. They most all struggling to find that man with the bag that isn’t an old creep and relatively attractive. Most just mess around with hot guys in the meantime. The exception being that are standout very gorgeous, classy, and loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:45 AM
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The concept on reddit by men is they are being pumped and dumped. It’s not like that most of the time. The women get treated well, they get dinners, they go out with his friends and do fun things. Which is fine, if you want to date a guy that has you and 3 other women, and just cycles through them, you know how he is even if he says he isn’t. Knowing the girls that do this, I think they believe it will just eventually happen, and it might, just not likely. Then anything less than love, marriage,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:07 PM
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This is it the entire start and end argument of why women hate dating apps. The women on them can’t keep from immediately hooking up with desirable men they get on a date, because they are afraid to lose his attention. The guys at the top just keep fucking women in perpetuity off the app. The girls ego can’t stop from picking the best option and believe she will get the guy to be hers with her mouth and vagina. Don’t tell me chronically online take, this was myself for year and half after my div…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:32 PM
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When guys do this repeatedly and have a bunch of friends who are girls he didn’t fuck, it’s a scarlet letter he carries around that women don’t like him like that, and hurts you with other future girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:42 PM
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If you get yourself as a guy to a 5% match rate and dates you’ll be able to go on dates and get a girlfriend whenever. The problem is with women they can’t resist themselves to not go after guys with great online personas and looking hot, those guys just hookup whenever. Women complain about dating apps because they hooked up with 14 specialist doctors and none of them called her back and 2 were married. The 2 that did work out for awhile he just had 3 other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:09 PM
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Women are hypergamous largely unsuccessfully. The girl usually just a temp placeholder nonexclusive girlfriend or random hookup to the guy with lots of options. Average men should just wait for an average woman he thinks has an adorable qualities and she wants him back. Take what you can get is crazy, this is your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:07 AM
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Boomers give the most absolutely terrible advice about women. Boomers always act like they were the shit too and they maybe kissed like 4 girls in their life. Your average boomer guy if put in todays society and given his youth back would be worse than an incel. Average boomer would be the weirdest creepiest guy imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:42 PM
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Sure but the problem with women is some young 7/10 that looks good and can have most guys, she keeps going after muscled chads and handsome guys with supercars. She actually believes if she gets with enough of them, one will say yes to relationship. When a girl who’s relatively attracted say she hates dating, this is the real reason every time. Then she gets her ego destroyed finally realizing she’s a 7 and every guy she keeps chasing 9s. She was just a temporary plaything to him and you never h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:36 PM
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They’ll hookup with one, they’ll keep her in his roster if she doesn’t expect much and gives great bjs. If she asks him out on a dating app and knows she’s going to give him passionate sex with little effort he will do it. If I’m on a dating app or out and some okay looking chick is like you’re so handsome, I know she will easily be my sex toy. Girls who are 5-7/10 this is how they get guys out of their league. Could you imagine if you’re a 5/10 guy and you could just offer sex, and the 9/10 hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:14 PM
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According to the US Census: “In 2020, about 35% of men aged 25-34 had never been married, and this percentage is higher for older age groups.” What percentage of 35% by 33 didn’t want to get married, half? Basically every girl I’ve ever known who is normal and social has gone through a ho phase, dating phase, I’m sad my mf broke up with me so I slept with guys to get over it. Juggled multiple guys at the same time. Guys who would like to date want these experiences too, but that’s only for the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:06 PM
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All guys regardless of age would love to take out a hot girl in her early 20s. It just stops being practical for most men in their 40s to have a relationship. Imagine you’re a successful 50 yr old bald with a gut, and your girlfriend is 22 and pretty and you’re at a business dinner. That’s not good for business or appearances. However, if she’s attractive and 44 she makes him look good. Older guy probably going to get along with a girl closer to his age then someone who is his daughter’s age. I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:57 PM
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Men are mad that women get to date and have fun with men. Most guys don’t get to have that dating life. Clearly, odds are most everyone will end up in a relationship. That’s not what men who would like to be able to date are complaining about. It’s fact every woman can date if she wants, and more often she chooses the guys who are able to do date and out of her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:32 PM
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Lying about what
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:29 PM
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If a woman is attractive at 40 she will have better options for real relationship, because the rarity of her and so many successful good looking guys that don’t want to date more than 10 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:25 PM
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Exactly, and every girl here is like I would never make out with a guy, hookup with one, eww gross. Why would I ever want sex or affection? Amazing that women still feel the need to halo themselves even on anonymous forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:41 AM
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Omg the girls on this sub, we got it, you don’t even hookup, you barely like guys, you would only go to club to dance and drive home, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:37 AM
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Are you out at nightclubs every weekend? Then you meet guys there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:41 AM
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If you’re a girl that’s going to clubs regularly they’ll be doing that and hooking up with guys. Girls get drunk and horny. Girls go to clubs to find hot guys and ballers. They don’t just really enjoy spending $25 a drink with their friends every weekend, trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:25 AM
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Girls go to clubs, get at guys tables, do coke, drink, maybe go to after party, or back home with a guy. At very least exchanging contact info with guys to meet up later. There’s no regular club going chicks not doing this. Clubs aren’t about dancing these days. Guys go to a club, they might be getting laid by girls at the club and getting girls, or they might not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:12 AM
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If a girl clubs more than twice a month she hooks up with guys. If your girlfriend is going to clubs without you with any regularity, she’s hooking up with guys and cheating on you. If a guy clubs, it doesn’t mean he’s getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:04 AM
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Sure, butwhite American girls and esp younger ones are the least likely to be impressed by how much money you got, acting designer and luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:05 AM
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I find most all women to be great first dates, you'll find out why they are single later. They are good at hiding all the issues with themselves up front and put on a good face in hopes of a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:42 PM
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Vetting for women means you disqualify every guy who hasn't built the perfect online person through google research. The only guys who do this are guys who want tons of dates and girls to hookup with them. I've perfected my online persona and it means dates and sex whenever I want. How do you vet a manwhore? You can't any better than a girl who sleeps around a lot. He's not going to tell you that. Girls need to find guys with flaws, someone who hasn't perfectly crafted himself online with social…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:40 PM
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Dating in the way it is now has never been experienced by humanity before. Before you needed day game, going out, working social circles, you were so limited by what you could access in your proximity. The result wasn't really dating, more just hanging out, and hooking up or not. The incredible level of access that has been granted, doesn't really suit anyone's dating preference. The only people consistently having a great time with no complaints are top dating guys who want to go on lot of date…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:12 PM
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Cute white American girl Ms are most likely attractive female to want a build a life with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:40 AM
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In my experience if she finds you attractive, white young American women care the least about how much money you got. If you’re fun and cute that’s what they like more than money. Every other demographic you could possibly come up with I’ve ever been in contact with or dates cares more about money, luxury items, house, status more than a guy’s looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:55 PM
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Most guys can’t see the light at end of tunnel if building an online persona and how much easy access to pussy you will be flooded with once you get it done. It’s going to take a few years to get great pictures of yourself and an insta where pretty girls say yes I’ll fuck this guy bc he looks like he’d be a fun boyfriend. Guys dont want put in any thought or effort, they think women should be a guarantee. That’s why I’m not hot, not rich, but always got a hot girlfriend, because I saw the import…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:44 PM
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Yea it’s always I don’t need instagram and dating apps with guys. Well my dating pool is 20x yours and I just drive across the street and have a couple drinks and an appetizer. Bring her over and lead her into my bed. If we both really into each other, “want to be my girlfriend?” Yes, you’re done. I’ve been on 150 dates, they all pretty, my current gf is hot af. These other mfers saying I don’t need an online persona. They navigating friend groups, work, going to bars/clubs, passportbros are cir…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:33 PM
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Why not just get girls at church to date. Some girls attend church to find a godly man. How you going to find what you want if she’s not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:24 PM
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I got you, but the successful players get their pick of the litter. You need reps with girls to get a girl. Youre living this life of divinity not caring about chicks they ain’t gonna care about you either, and you’re prob going to be settling for some mid tier girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:17 PM
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That’s what beta normies usually do, they can’t hunt effectively for their dream girl so they settle through friends. My dream girl love of my life has a 0% chance of being my friends friend, that’s just how I see it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:01 PM
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The bloom is off the rose with dating apps because every girl that was going to try it has by now. Most women who did now realize that surgeon and the handsome guy with juicy pecs is mainly wanting sex and prob not a relationship. Guys date down so they can get laid easy. So yea, I don’t know how your city is, but every chick just migrated to hinge, I couldn’t reach the end of it. Countless and endless women, I had thousands of matches being picky matching. Don’t believe every headline you read.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:58 PM
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Okay, I can too it’s just way harder, way more time consuming, and my options aren’t nearly as good. I can get 5 dates sitting on my couch for a couple hours on dating apps or insta. 3 of those dates will show up by my house, then jump in my bed after few hours. 1 or 2 of them would instantly be my girlfriend if I ask. How do you meet women? Having an online persona makes dating, getting laid, and a girlfriend as easy as it can possibly be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:53 PM
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Your link say Hinge is not a sausagefest. Women aren’t usually active showing their profile for long periods of time on dating apps like men do. About the same percent use them. Women are more active on dating apps as a whole because they logon and get dates and then turn it off. If you’re just swiping and barely getting a match and no dates, I wouldn’t call you “active” on a dating app I’d call you just looking. Most girls under 30 used a dating app and gone on a date. Of the girls you’d like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:49 PM
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The counter argument I have to this is getting women easily and multiple vying for your affection feeds your ego. Once you know you’ve developed the power, now you can decide and control. Once you’ve got it together so you can get girls you have benefited your life. Now change gears, stop caring about hoes, and find the type of girl that makes you feel happy and whole. When it doesn’t work out, that’s fine, you have the tools to get another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:41 PM
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This is a good post, if you got more out then up. There’s a be careful what you wish for element to red pill. I can’t tell you one story including myself of achieving the goals of red pill and it benefiting your life. Here’s what happens when you access all the attractive hoes in the dating market. You got your options, you’re going out, you got friends, you trained for muscles, you got your harems you’re cycling through. This does not improve your quality of life. Life of a player is, wasting m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:27 PM
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Pills are very much up to interpretation in 2024. Red: Click bait content mostly, we got some edgey things to say about how dating women are hoes. Do this and you can improve. Buy my program to get hot pussy.. Blk: Girls only have pure lust for Chad. You prob need to betabux to get a girl. You can only improve so much. If you accept your fate in life, that’s okay. Blue: Normal people pc thinking, usually referencing people that don’t know about pills. That’s the current state I see it, doesn’t m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:17 PM
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Let me dispel this total myth right now that’s his premise. If you’re a normal cute woman the chance that you haven’t met a guy or many off dating apps or social media is nil. What women can get online has set the new standard for interactions with men in real life. Women pause dating apps and get back on, they’re not usually active always on. So this whole men outnumber women in dating apps 5 to 1 is a lie. Hinge is endless with women, I swiped everyday for 9 months last year, I couldn’t get to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:04 PM
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Redpill has nothing directly to do with being angry and lonely at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:24 AM
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He's lame, that's a pathetic starter and she got him for it. I feel like I'm a top 1%er in dating apps. I end up in the top picks for girls and get sent roses and superlikes some days. The strategy with texting for me is this. Find something interesting about her profile that most other guys wouldn't notice, if it's obvious don't ask. Perceived hobby, a place she visited etc. If she has nothing you can find, just ask her out first text. If she responds positively, then say what you want to do, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:11 PM
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Red pill may have captured 2% of guys under 40, or they'll support it to some degree. Blue Pill normies are 95% of guys. 1% Black. Then 3% of guys who understand female nature are players or retired ones they are half black/half red by nature. Most players the way they talk they think they are the chosen ones (Chads), and the rest are black.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:35 PM
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Because it’s not just looks like women get to skate by on. Men have to have a great combo or be very hot to be lusted for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:37 AM
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This is a trait common in all women unless you’re noticeably handsome or standing next to a beautiful woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:17 AM
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Women notice men that match markers for attractiveness and look and smile. If you’re with a beautiful woman or you’re tall, no gut, hair, solid build, no slouch women subconsciously process all this without thinking. If you pass she will glance make eye contact and smile. I had a gut one time and all girls ignored me, I lost my hair ignored, then got hair transplant and got it back. Once you pass all the markers most women are checking you out as you pass by. I’m not hot, but all women say I’m h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:08 AM
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I’ve been married for 8 years before and it was the biggest mistake by far of my life. Half of everything, and monthly alimony for the valuation of business you own that she did nothing for will destroy you. Happens to lots of guys who own businesses or have pensions. Her money from you is guaranteed in a legal document, doesn’t matter if your business situation changes. I’d prefer not to get married, but sure I’ve been together over year, she’s sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:27 PM
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What women do is they don’t even see men, most are invisible to them, they give them no cognitive recognition. What they want is the opposite too, if she has no interest in interacting with you (which is most men) she wants those men to not be able to see her. Most men are just seen as a hassle, nuisance and potential danger to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:18 PM
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You’re right, I didn’t know until there was this girl wearing those crack leggings off Shein and underboob at my gym. I called the police about it and they hung up on me. I thought they still sent women to jail for indecent exposure. I know now, and your comment has confirmed it to me. Your ability to stick up for women is unparalleled and is a grand benefit to all humanity, I thank you good sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:35 PM
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I consider myself a player when I’m single, I followed incel groups, Elliot Roger type content is hate speech they banned that. They want to be Chad and don’t like that affection for women is a guarantee in life, and a struggle for them. I get it, I’ve spent a couple years in high school where no girl wanted me at all, it sucks. Women walk around and don’t even recognize the existence of most men in any casual romantic way. It’s a plight of the average and below average man that has gone on like…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:00 PM
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They are doing squats, or doing raised leg presses right in front of me, or asking me to share sets on a machine. If I’m out at a club or bar they can be in your proximity. The arms race for revealing clothing for women has hit the zenith, your ass cheeks hanging out and underboob and cleavage at the same time is the norm. I’m not mad, I just laugh at them, like who is this for, how much attention do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:55 PM
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The real reason is they talk shit about women. Women don’t like that and report them. All incel groups are banned across all social media. Women are allowed to openly and freely talk whatever shit about men and even specific ones they know all they want. Women are catered to on socials.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:49 PM
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Awe cute, I hope you get laid with your supportive commen for women that walk around basically naked. I know that, police dont cite women at the beach for wearing bikinis anymore got it, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:47 PM
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Women’s clothing is so revealing now, especially certain gym attire just by a glance I see their entire crack outline, the shape of their pussy lips, half their breasts, and exact circumference of their nipples. I’m not sure who they need to do this for, but they love to put their ass and tits out for the gram to get some likes and simps salivating so I believe this is how it got to this point. Im so tired of automatically knowing what girls in the gym will look like totally naked, when I see a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:34 PM
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It’s because if you tell a woman there is a guy that is struggling to get laid. Women know they would prefer that guy didn’t exist, and sees him as a possible danger to her and likely society. They know all women can get laid super easy, so the concept of a guy that is having problems must be a complete low life or a creepy weirdo that might rape her in her own mind. Women run social media, even Reddit will bend over backwards for them. So incels are demonized by women and then the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:16 PM
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Women utilize their youth and beauty the best way they think they can. It usually doesn’t work out because players like to fuck as many cute women as humanly possible and women chase players. Dating girls run around and spread for the biggest manwhores on the planet. Girlfriends and guys will say don’t f him and stop chasing him, he’s already got a girlfriend and he’s been with literally 1000 women. Most dating women will do it anyway until their ego is destroyed. That’s my dating reality. I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:03 PM
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“Reality through your own lens” is why I find Reddit to be so fun and addictive. Most women on this sub have zero ability to debate or just don’t want to, they just want to assume every guy that has any opinion that isn’t glowingly positive about women must be an incel, so she trolls him to feel superior. Why I like this sub and it cracks me up, is it has every type of guy that exists throwing in their own perspective. If some guys perspective is way off it’s the type of guy that says he’s been …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:17 PM
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Guys will get girls in his league, but not casually, or by dating around. You obviously don’t subscribe to the 80/20 rule that 80% of women are chasing 20% of the guys so it’s not worth arguing with you about how you think women and men league and dating are a straight line. It’s not, dating women are always trying to casually get with guys out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:01 PM
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The problem is that if you’re a woman that’s a 6/10 you can get the attention of the hottest and richest men, by simply making yourself available enough to them. That and low level guys simping for them is the source of all female delusion. For the dating girl they would rather be in the roster of a hot or handsome guy with a nice lifestyle than any regular guy. Regular guys in their actual league are the backup plan they think are guaranteed, and usually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:25 PM
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Hot guys get called creeps, women get on their high horse over anything to protect their ego. Women off dating apps always got a few guys they effing. If you saw the full Hawk Tuah video she admitted to having 7 guys in her rotation. Find a girl that really wants you and you enjoy being with her and stop dating and just be together. Dating for men is annoying even when it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:35 AM
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It’s a pretty rare category of woman that can pull this off and it still is work. Some attractive women try, but most of them will fail. There will always be privileged people in society. If you are ridiculously handsome man you can live off women too and scam them. Make money from gay or in the closet simps. I know model looking guys that do the same things very hot women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:16 AM
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Sure, you can be a disgusting old fuck with money and offer a green card, and there is websites to flip through who you want and they are real cute some of them. The fat guy from 90 day fiancé is a player doing this. Some girls just want to leave their country. I’m talking about picking up girls for real in their country like you would in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:22 PM
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Yea but you get hit on sometimes, this guy wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:01 PM
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They are young hot chicks, club chicks, sexy girls that get into parties in mansions. Once you get your game down, you never mess with mid girls again. I pick up my girls off dating apps because I spent years building a fun insta, I could sleep with 3 new girls every week that’s cute and looks great in a swimsuit, I have a gf now she’s a knockout, guys just send her money off socials everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:21 PM
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I don’t think they use condoms most of the time. They get herpes, then occasionally get clap or gon and then you take penicillin and it’s gone in a few hours. The real problem is how many abortions they’ve paid for which is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:13 PM
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If you can’t get girls in America and you want a cute girl anywhere in the world, it’s not going to work. All cute girls have standards. If you get cute girls in America then going to Colombia or Philippines and pick up girls it will be a lot easier. I know because I been there, and I went with one guy that couldn’t pull girls in America and no girl wanted him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:43 PM
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You need some attractive aspects as a guy to be a player, but it is mostly just being interested in art of picking up girls, and developing a knack for it. I go full player mode when I’m single, that’s how you’re able to get a girlfriend that you’re crazy about. Then ask her to be exclusive and you’re done. The player guys that can just cycle through harems for years, that’s their hobby and they are good at it. They never have any full downtime where they’re not hooking up with some girl, usuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:22 AM
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The glitch in dating women is they are super susceptible to players, I know 5 guys in their 40s that have slept with 500-1000 women. They’re not models, they cool though, and pussy is their hobby. They can pick up girls literally whenever. I normally have a girlfriend, but since I got a nice place, cool insta, and I’m tall I just get dates whenever I want. I went on a streak going on 13 dates in a month, I slept with all of them the first date. I learned how to pick up women at college, most guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:55 AM
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If you just did 100k+/yr, 6in+, 6ft+ and not obese 18-36 guys, you’re far into the top 1% of men without even talking about whether they are attractive or not. Combinations like this get to be a fraction of a percentage of available men. Girls that are not fat and have any job 18-28 is prob 8% of women. They are all chasing top 1% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:32 AM
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Women lie to themselves about this and they will never tell the truth. If she sucked 4 ds one night it had 75 yr old sugar daddies, and already had 3 guys she was fucking at point she met you, she not talking about any of it likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:04 PM
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If you’re a guy in a dead bedroom, your girl will cheat and still expect you to be 100% faithful to her. The only time you’ll get any credit from your girl is if another girl that is attractive is totally down to have sex with, she knows about it, and you totally ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:15 PM
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I’ve had a number of age gap relationships and dated close to my age. My current gf is 20 years younger than me and older women understand why and guys think it’s cool bc she’s young and hot. Guys will want to hang out with you because she has young attractive single friends. We go anywhere people treat us really nice. When you have a young sexy gf on your side your social status is improved in all situations. Most girls by 25 will date an older man, no one cares, no one thinks you’re grooming h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:42 PM
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Oh absolutely it’s fine, my last gf thought it was guarantee she would make money off simps and get a bf to take care of her. My current gf is hot as hell and does get that and she doesn’t see it as a guarantee. The last 2 long term relationships they thought it was found to be easy to do that, then they got the wake up call after relentlessly cheating on me, then they found out. My current gf is super hot and does get random money from guys, then she respects me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:26 AM
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First one we met in early 20s, second she was 12 years younger and she was 23. It’s a kinda burden of being 6’1”, 7”, and having a great lifestyle. When you get a girlfriend that’s now her league in her head, even though she’s never been with a hot guy or tall handsome guy with money ever exclusively, she now thinks it’s repeatable. So she gets unhappy or thinks she can do better and any guy better than me or really hot, they just get used for sex and that’s it. Then they repeat that process, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:29 PM
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One divorced me and has been an awful demonic cunt to me going in 9 years now. The other tried to monkey branch from me for last year we were together. I took her back and caught her trying to cheat again, I said no more and broke up again and she broke down my window, grabbed the gun in my house and shot herself in the head, I would be in prison right now if I didn’t record the whole incident. I’m tall, handsome, and make half million a year and they decided they could do better, when they real…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:33 PM
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The last thing any girl cares to help another guy with is to fuck another girl unless their bff is explicitly requesting it. Don’t listen to women about dating advice, they will intentionally sabotage you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:27 PM
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No you wouldn’t. If you were a girl 50/50 chance I’ll charm the pants off you the first night you meet me if I decide. All women are looking for the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:18 PM
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I’m just talking about the mindset, if you’re tall handsome and rich you can have 2 hot girls giving you bjs at the same time. Normal guys have to get lucky. I get chicks and I have a girlfriend, girls hook up with me, and it’s for my lifestyle, height, full head of hair, working out, nice place, girls immediately hop in those guys’ bed for the chance with a total package man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:54 PM
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I think my point scale is 1 point difference, if you’re perfect looking Margot Robbie or prime Tyra Banks or Claudia Schiffer you’re a 10. Those women would stop a room if they came into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:23 PM
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I would consider a 9 having a gorgeous face and look great in a bikini. They exist, you see them in nice restaurants and clubs. My gf of past year is a 9/10, guys send her free money on Snapchat and instagram all the time. She’s also very sweet, has lots of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:19 PM
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I’ve had long term relationships with girls I met at 20 and 23. They were very unhappy with me in their 30s. This hitting the wall thing is detrimental to a woman’s psyche, they go crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:22 PM
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If you get into the 9+ girls most the time are really nice, because everyone is so nice to them. It’s the 6-8/10 girls that are kinda hot that think they are 9+ are the annoying ones with low character.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:21 PM
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There’s way too many girls who are hot that have done some form escorting, I believe these days it’s the majority. They get hit up on Instagram and when they are out. As long as she’s not currently doing it I would ignore it. If you got a mid girl and made her hot, she’d likely figure out how to get money from men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:02 PM
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For people that don’t know yet, that’s how it will go. She will always blame you for stealing her youth and hate you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:57 PM
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Escalating talk to the point of touching. If flirting doesn’t end in either exchanged contact info or you touching each other could just be her playing or nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:31 PM
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If you’re a girl, you got a cute face, and look good in a swimsuit. Every guy will take you out, invite you anywhere, and tell you whatever you want to hear so he get with her. What these girls do is go out with the hottest guys and rich handsome guys she can find or match with. Every guy is her option, if she really wants a boyfriend she prob needs to alter the strategy. If not, she likely got no time for you, this is every 8+/10 adult woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:21 PM
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When I have a thin white gf, I tend to lust for thick mixed race girls. When I got a thick juicy gf, I’m checking out thin ones. If I got a girl with big butt, then I want big tits, and vice versa. It’s a real quagmire I wish I was like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:28 PM
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Does BPD cause you to want to leave your partner and cheat on them constantly? I thought we had the best relationship, and you’d turn around and she’s trying to leave you for another man, it was so weird I was convinced she was obsessed with me and loved me. My jaw would hit the floor when I would find out, I couldn’t understand. She also wouldn’t leave me and said she wasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:09 PM
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That’s just online on Reddit where the women who read red pill are insecure, and take their frustrations out on guys they think are sexless to give them some sense of superiority. If you’re on instagram and you’re a hot guy with cool life you can blast women all you want and still have multiple gfs and side pieces at same time, and when you bash women some will agree with you to get your attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:08 PM
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Introverted, have their own friends, or don’t care about social climbing they don’t care about popularity or your social status. If you’re a guy that hosts parties, into a city social scene, some girls get with you to have that connection. However, most girls don’t care about this and would prefer you weren’t so popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:40 PM
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You don’t know men. I'm noticeably attractive, got a nice place, tall, fit, and made a cool instagram of travel adventures. Getting dates and sex for me is nothing. I can have it super easy, most my dates turn into hookups. If I wanted to I could date 5 girls simultaneously. I’m almost always in a relationship, but I’ve slept with 120 girls, most the first night I met them. I got 5 guy friends that are the same or way bigger players than I am. Then most my other friends struggle to get a date, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:21 PM
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I have myself and few friends that have been on hundreds of dates and the women jump in bed with us immediately. Then we get the pick of litter once we done sleeping around and having rosters of girls available for sex. Then most guys can’t get a date, when they do the girl don’t want them. Guys end up with girls outside of dating world. The dating world is for all women and only desirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:06 PM
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If you look at women’s instagrams if she follows a guy she doesn’t know he’s the most perfect specimen alive. Then she will follow all types of girls. You ask why, they say I like her outfits and makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:03 PM
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I know I date hot 9s with jobs and great personality. I can make 20% my girlfriend the first night they meet me. Normally in a relationship, but I’ll have girls in my roster with no plans for relationship all the time. Guys who can date often do this, because the girls immediately try to use sex to get your attention and access to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:51 PM
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Guys date down to get easy access to sex and for company. Only 20% of guys can actively date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:43 AM
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Yes I’ve come to understand that this is what most dating women wrongly believe. If they are on a date or dating a guy nonexclusively, they think that’s their league and turn their nose at guys that actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:08 AM
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Men have it much easier in a sense that we don’t chase players out of our league, and let him use us to be a temporary placeholder gf and sex toy in hopes of a relationship. If women looked in the mirror and actually dated in their league, all dating issues would instantly be over. If a guy is on a date, decent chance he can make that girl his girlfriend. Dating women date endlessly top down on the best options available. Dating for women is their chance to land a guy much better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:31 AM
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I was af and bb, she wasn’t going to be able to replace me. I think there is a 9/10 girl that can sacrifice a few things and get a really hot guy or older rich guy. Then there is the 9/10 girl that has physical and mental flaws that can date the hot guys and guys with Ferraris and get in their roster, but he’s never going to choose her for real relationship. This is the quagmire of that girl, it drove her insane. Once she decided to try and monkey branch, she just kept doubling down with more me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:15 PM
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Every guy that I know that’s an unmarried Chad with big house and money has orgies every weekend. So that’s my personal bias, girls want the guy with it all, when they find him that’s what they deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:28 PM
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If a guy clearly doesn’t have a lot of attractive dating options, his love and attention in itself doesn’t matter much to her. Women end up with a guy that doesn’t due to proximity and players are too rare, don’t commit, and hard to deal with. The guy that can easily date and many women want to sleep with him is the only guy that women truly desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:24 PM
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You’ll need to use your fingers, prob both hands. I’ve never done it with my d alone. Good luck, you’ll figure it out, it’s kinda crazy to see a woman come.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:28 PM
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You’ve never made a girl truly come, most the time the inside just contracts. When girls come they spray and leak fluid all over. No big deal prob if you don’t, never got a girl to stay or be loyal to me bc I did anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:22 PM
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I thought we had an amazing relationship on all levels, we were electric together. She would go out with friends and behind my back and not just cheat, she was trying to monkey branch. She finally succeeded with an extremely rich guy with yacht and mansions, but very short and ugly guy, she left me for 3 weeks then tried to come back. When I refused she threatened my life and broke through a window in my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:17 PM
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If you have to get a towel and change sheets after sex because she soaked the bed squirting all over, I’m not sure how you fake that. The dying cow orgasm does not sound sexy at all, she is cumming that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:38 PM
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This isn’t true, I’ve seen the opposite so many times I’m not even sure women care about sexual chemistry. I had a gf for a couple years, we would have sex for hours until she cascaded orgasms and had this end orgasm where she was sent to a shadow realm for 30 seconds, I also got cheated on most the relationship. I had another girl at my place I could make her cum buckets, when she had an orgasm she sounded like a dying cow, I got ghosted 3 weeks later. My current gf of a year I can’t barely mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:24 PM
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This is why I can barely pay attention to any relationship related studies. Unless it’s from the CDC or it’s not self reported, you’ll never get women especially and men to tell the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:18 PM
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Girls actually do want tall muscular handsome guys with big d and boatloads of cash though. Eventually they have to realize that’s a mirage and if she does meet that guy, he has orgies at his house every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:13 PM
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For a girl with a super rich stud for years you’d think she’d be hotter, but yea of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:13 AM
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It’s all about feeding her own ego. You can’t let any chicks comments get to you. Most women over time will begin to resent men and take it out on you. You have to avoid these types of women and don’t try to earn their love and attention. Most girls aren’t anything special even the really hot ones are insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:01 PM
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I’m 6’1”, girls says you’re not that tall, I usually date taller. I’m 220 and lift everyday, girls says I’ve dated fitness model bodybuilders. I have a 2 million dollar home, girls say eww this kinda run down, you should update. I’m 6 3/4”, girls say you’re kinda average. It never ends with girls who have nothing going for them, never actually dated a great guy. Been chad widowed by guys they were never exclusive with. They only get more proud and lack of impressed by anything as women get older…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:20 PM
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I matched on app, asked her out, followed at her insta and she had her previous bf up, who was this tall greasy old juice head who looking into his insta had a 30 million dollar home. I told her I’m bailing, she asked why I said because the guy on your insta. She said I dated him for years he just cheated on me the whole time no big deal. If she was hot I’d still prob go, she was kinda mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:13 PM
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6’2” Living in Bel Air That would be an infinite easy hot pussy anytime you want glitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:27 PM
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I’ll send you my insta if you DM me. Had a pool party at my place on Sunday with stories up. At least 30 hot girls in bikinis were there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:15 PM
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I have crazy hot girlfriends, slept with around 120 women. Made out with hundreds of girls. I could be at a party and talking to a girl and making out with her the next. 70% of my first dates have girls within my bed after a few hours. I have friends that are bigger players than I am. I’m the only one on Reddit who knows about pills. If you heard them talk you would think they are the most red and black pilled guys you’ve ever met. Either you know about female nature or you don’t, rp and bp tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:53 PM
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