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DM me for my instagram. You can message me on insta and I’ll respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:57 PM
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Cities literally have tens of thousands of girls on apps. My city is not that big and I couldn’t reach the end of hinge in 9 months. People get dates off them, more than half of women under 30 been on a dating app. It’s not Ashley Madison, there’s real girls on them trying to get laid and find a boyfriend. Instagram is the biggest dating app by far if you don’t like dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:56 PM
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What you expect him to do, have sex with models? He just said he’s 5’6” and ugly what more do you want from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:48 PM
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He seemed dismissive that I think my gf is hot and I met her on hinge. There’s no nudity, what’s the big deal I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:38 PM
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You had me til small to average size penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:36 PM
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https://www.redgifs.com/watch/functionalstainedlightningbug Imgur banned my account for posting this. Had to go to red. Here’s couple pics I took with my girlfriend yesterday morning. I think she’s hot, that’s no filter, I met her on hinge. What you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:23 PM
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I’ve gone on around 160 online dates and slept with around 100, most of the girls on first date from bumble/tinder/hinge. Very attractive 6-9/10 my girlfriend past year is really hot, and I met her on hinge. I rarely run into a bot on Hinge, Tinder got a bunch though. People go on dates on dating apps, most of the women do who try.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:35 PM
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If you have a girlfriend and she doesn’t at least throw something at you at some point, she prob don’t even want you or have any intense feelings for you. Women get emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:30 PM
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How many live in girlfriends have you had? I’m at 5 and it’s been every one so far, and I’ve never hit a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:11 PM
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Strongly disagree, if you want the hottest girls on the apps you have to show some skin. I put my lead pic of me shirtless in bed, it was so corny and suggestive. I had a sheet covering me and I was clearly naked. My Hinge popped off, got sent to top picks and started to get sent roses. Girls messaging first saying things like, what is it like to be one of god’s favorites? Wow, you’re sexy with heart eyes. I don’t even look that great with my shirt off, but I’m presentable. It works and I got th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:58 PM
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Because there is way more violence towards men, reason is men don’t report the violence by women. I haven’t known a guy or myself that hasn’t had a girlfriend punch you, cheap shot you, use something as a weapon against you, bite, whatever, mostly all of it goes unreported. Tiger Woods got beat with a 9 iron by his wife, then he publicly said she didn’t to protect his wife from getting a felony.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:19 PM
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I went through a phase where I was cute enough for a poke and after only if they were lonely. I could not get any girl to take me seriously or be my girlfriend. It sucked, I ended up going back to a shitty ex that cheated on me before which was another mistake. Most guy won’t go through this, they think oh fun casual sex, eventually it’s actually very hurtful and makes you depressed about your self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:44 AM
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If you’ve ever got dating apps working, it’s loaded with girls that are addicted to cycling through guys. Guys aren’t people, they are either lust worthy pleasure providers or potential dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:39 AM
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No they would, the adjustment would be absolutely insane, unless they were a total chad or rich and handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:36 AM
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I was talking to this girl who was flown out by Tyga and telling me about what happened, then another that went on some dates with a guy with a Ferrari and 4 mil house, another went out with a guy that was so smooth and made her come 7 times the first night they met and she wanted him so bad. They were all complaining mostly, because they can get these things, but not marriage and a soft cushy life where they get to just exist for a living. I told them, you’re getting what any girl could wish fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:34 AM
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Girls who like to date literally exhaust all their options. They run up the tree of every really hot guy and guy with a multimillion dollar home. When it hits them the dream guy probably isn’t coming is one of the most ego soul crushing realization in a dating girls life. I’ve seen what they do and I would not put up with it. They openly get cheated on, expected to show up and be a sex toy and forced to leave when they want, they have to participate in threesomes with basically hookers. When guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:06 AM
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I specifically pointed out the cute or busty 6/10 because you need to enter a category of girl that’s generally doable to all guys. There are 3s with certain sexual qualities that do well with guys too. However, you can be a nice looking 5 as a girl and for whatever reason you don’t possess some sexual quality that turns men on. Then you can get ignored and treated badly by men, especially younger men dealing with their own ego issues. There is many exceptions to my statement about dating women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:57 AM
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This is where women struggle, because the guy with the nice instagram, hangs with cool people. Goes on a date whenever and is calm and confident, makes good conversation. You’re on a date with a dating and hookup pro, not a novice guy who wants a girlfriend and is awkward. The player has crafted himself and has the experience to get girls easily. That’s who girls get the stomach butterflies for. You can’t change this in women, they want guys who know how to make girls happy and comfortable. Most…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:09 AM
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The only reason dating sucks for women because if they just make themselves available, they can get men 3 points out their league routinely. They even get a free meal and drinks, or invited to parties or clubs by guys. So many dating women are caught in this quagmire of turning their noses up at guys that would have them. Then instead chasing guys that will at best put them in a temporary non exclusive relationship, or part of his soft harem of girls. Girls want guys with many options, guys that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:43 PM
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You can neg a girl and act flirty in some bar/club situations for a minute. However, if you’re going on dates acting flirty for a hour or 2 hrs straight you’re likely going to turn her romantic interest into repulsiveness towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:25 PM
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All you got to do is date some women, maybe marry one and get divorced. Women are relentless hellacious beasts. I wish I didn’t want them so bad. They cheat, lie, manipulate take random opportunities at expense of you. Many girls under 30 into instagram are obsessed with status and clout. Women to me 30+ years ago, they were the reasonable ones, guys were the fuck ups. Now when it comes to relationships if they aren’t totally in love it’s using, divorcing, cheating. Most all don’t have any real …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:46 PM
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Well dang I must be a Chad or something. 60-70% hookup rate doesn’t matter the app. Close to couple hundred dates, as long as you pass the eye scan upon meeting most girls are easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:35 PM
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I had an art teacher that said one time, many people are alive simply because it’s against the law to kill them. When you think about bullies it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:33 PM
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I thought this was ridiculous at first. However, I tend to agree, if you don’t have the majority backing you in a tribal situation and you just start being a total abusive jerk man or woman, you’re prob going to get killed. Now you can act however you want, no one can hurt you for it. If they retaliate violence on you, you’ll be just as guilty. You’re protected under law, which law helps in so many other ways but it protects abusive alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:06 PM
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This is insane advice and will have you looking foolish. Just have a conversation and get her talking about whatever she finds interesting. Being overtly flirtatious and negging is game from 20 years ago. Just talk, she decided whether she was DTF the moment she laid eyes on you. A constant barrage of playful banter you think matters actually doesn’t, it will work against you. Treat her like a normal person and she will drop her panties faster, I guarantee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:40 PM
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Women literally stare down guys they want in real life, they will touch your arms and chest when you approach, laugh at the dumbest jokes. Girls will make things painfully obvious when they want you. I’m sure many girls aren’t confident enough to do this, but it’s routine if she finds you very attractive. Similar thing can happen online dating where hookups are the most common outcome from a date. There’s a guy on YouTube that speed runs dating apps with super hot guys and matches and lands date…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:16 PM
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You’re just making things up, you can’t make death threats to anyone online. Every online platform goes out of their way to cater to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:36 PM
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Women can be online and talk any crap about men they want, and girls support and white knights reinforce her gendered negativity. Guy says anything remotely critical of women or has a personal observation about female nature online. Then it’s touch grass incel, chronically online take loser, downvoted, and banned. Guys are not spewing outright hatred towards women on any sub I’ve seen this is an exaggeration. Even the incel forums that used to exist didn’t do that, you get shut down or personall…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:19 PM
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There’s a specific type of guy that hooks up easy with all types of girls. That’s what he’s observing. If your short and stocky guy, that doesn’t mean you get to hookup with stocky girls, the easy access one night stand is only for Chadlike guys. If you’re a girl and you want a hookup it’s about the best looking, tall, athletic build guy. All girls will gravitate towards those guys in a hookup scene like a bar at a resort. Who girls end up being in a relationship with is obviously more varied. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:20 PM
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Anything that looks kinda cool you get 25+ likes on some posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:30 AM
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Women on dating apps research you like crazy after you ask them out. If they find your LinkedIn, you on a company website. Get your address, find your instagram. Then you can get into a position of getting dates and hookups whenever you want. If they can’t find you, find one weird picture of you, or anything can set them off, they will bail. This is why 10% of guys or less rule those apps, because unless you’re very hot you need an online persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:19 AM
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It gives you 6 great photos if you keep working on it. Then you attach your Instagram to your dating profile. When your profile has increased time of engagement, eventually you can get into Hinge top picks without being a very hot dude. Everyone in my city has moved to Hinge primarily. I was on it 9 months last year flipping every other night and couldn’t reach the end of it. Bumble and Tinder have gone kinda dead past few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:16 AM
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I’ve done all these things to try and find friends, I can’t find friends outside of party circles. Getting friends in my 20s at school, apartment, work was so easy now it’s so hard. When I do find someone it’s like they barely want to be my friend. Friends that just want to go have drinks, weekend vacation, or go to bars/clubs is easier. As far as women, I worked on an instagram for years so now dating apps work great. I started out I couldn’t get much matches. Now I’m on hinge and I get in top …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:55 PM
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It’s about the backgrounds, making like you have a fun life. Pics of you in exotic locations or driving a boat etc. I’ve even had a couple photos with my shirt off to sell skin, it’s a risky maneuver, but worth a try. Then one good selfie with as little filter as you can, a light filter and little facetune/faceapp go a long way, just can’t be obvious. Don’t do anything that Google recommends, no holding dog/fish, no wedding photos, no kids, you don’t need group photos. No girls in your photos. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:46 PM
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You just said one guy got hundreds of women though. Yes that’s the deal, when it works and you’re matching and girls agree to dates. You never dreamed of so much pussy that easy, you’ll have a harem in a few weeks. I went to a university and hooked up with girls, but that took finesse and effort of going out, cold approaching lots of women in a night. Girls in real life will really knock you down a peg and many want to make you feel unworthy for her to inflate her own ego or look cool in front o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:28 PM
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Obviously there’s a lot of people unhappy with dating apps. I spent years to put together 10 incredible pics to catch girls attention. Attach my instagram. If I just tossed up what I’ve seen flipping through on a girls profile I’d prob barely get a date. Online dating is so fun for awhile, more than half the time girls are in my bed in a few hours. You get tired of it and I’ve been off it living with a girl for a year, but dating girls is a lot of fun when you can just summon them to show up acr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:21 PM
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Once you get dating apps going you’ll never want to sober cold approach a girl again. You sit and realized you would go to places for hours, just to talk with 2 girls that already got a boyfriend. The efficiency and reliability of girls off apps is incredible. Girls just show up, they scan you with your eyes, then you talk and usually hook up if you passed the eye test. If you can’t get dating apps to work, I look at it as a less quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:39 PM
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Women are caught up in their own red pill, bugatti, tate stuff too. They want so much from a man that wouldn’t even occur to most women 30 years ago. The definition of success and beauty is top % of people or I’m a failure. Not every young person thinks this way, but it keeps coming up as a topic. I tell them we never sat around and thought we would be rich and if we weren’t then life is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:05 PM
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Depends upon what you have to offer. In college I was just tall and handsome, mostly just a nerdy loser with no cool social life. So girls at parties would hookup, maybe hang out some, but didn’t care about a relationship. Girls would eventually got bored and move on. If I was a guy in college with social status and connections with popular people, women would be interested in more than casual sex. Now I’m older and have nice house and cars, girls hookup with me mainly because they want to be pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:48 PM
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The problem with genz and zoomers is the standard is too high. If you’re not Chad with magnetic attraction or make a ton of money then life is unfair. Americans in 1990 did not think this way, they felt blessed making 50k/yr and were over the moon about their mid gf/wife they loved. Now we look on Instagram and think a regular life that’s not good enough, life is unfair. I want to have a luxurious lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:34 PM
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You’re going to end up with who you end up with. Red pill guys don’t want the normal thing of waiting around for years for a girl at work or in social circle to like you. That’s how most relationships form, but that’s not actively dating. You want to walk up to girls or be on a dating app and seduce girls you don’t know, then you need to be desirable as a guy. Girls don’t think about this because it’s default for most of them, they chase and then decide to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:29 PM
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No because this sub is about being attractive, successful, and getting many beautiful girls to choose from. every man’s high level goals. The reality is, it’s prob not happening. This is how social media makes the comparison a thief of joy. When I was a kid, I said some day I’m going to work my way up and I’m going to make 6 figures. Then I’m going to have a pretty wife and kids. That was my dream, now you’re on instagram and you think in these crazy abnormal world where outlier activity and bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:21 PM
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Most women who date don’t casually date men that aren’t desirable. Being successful and beautiful is rare, when you have those qualities women chase you. This fact has never changed in the entire course of civilization. Telling women they should chase average men too will never work. Making the obvious argument how sexual selective women are and how much they desire Chad and players is interesting to point out, because women respond very differently sexually based on your social status and attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:08 PM
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Oh I misinterpreted and flipped it to his perspective, yes of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:53 PM
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If chicks want you they reach out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:38 PM
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There’s always the model Chad argument that breaks any logical stance on women, that’s why it’s always referenced. Above average guys can be p slayers too. It takes a specific type of charm to be a player. If you’re beautiful enough guy, it will require less of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:12 PM
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You prob need an attractive face to go with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:51 PM
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He’s a guy with little to no options, he should know you don’t have casual romantic interest and move on. He would be much better off ignoring you and waiting for you to reach out again, but he has no game or mental discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:18 PM
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Depending upon what you want a 45 yr old woman can be your dream girl. If a girl isn’t very passionate with you upon meeting, then she’s not that into you. If she thinks he’s hot she will be all over him, don’t accept any girl who’s making you jump through hoops to express some lust for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:15 PM
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What the woman between 30-40 wants is a lot more than the younger woman. She’s 30 so it’s likely she wants babies and marriage in the short term. If you want to that too it’s fine, but if not it’s probably not going to work. If she’s got kids then she probably wants to live with you or get you to handle financial in direct or indirect way. Then you inherit a family, not just her. When you date girls 20-27 they want a fun attractive boyfriend and love. Same goes for 40+ women, it’s likely the kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:11 PM
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I went crazy after my divorce on apps and clubs, I didn’t have my college experience of hooking up I would’ve been more flipped out about it. If you can get dates, girls are a good time, most of them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:09 PM
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Partially yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:39 AM
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Muslim countries and some Asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:40 AM
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They’ll kill you for being gay in many countries or at least beat you publicly. You think women care, they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:00 AM
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Requiring 2 workers in a household to be able to live, eat, and have a family is one of the biggest scams of capitalism. It just made housing and literally everything else more expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:33 PM
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If you care about making a decent argument, tell me what is the main reason homophobia exists. I say it’s a result of a display of masculinity for women, which women often enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:10 PM
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Most woman on average in the current era (clarifying for you) have expectations that a man should take care of them and bear more of the economic load. This is why rich guys get laid so easy, that’s what women want, providers. The reverse for guys being taken care of is nearly non existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:04 PM
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There’s nearly no woman that works on roofs of houses in 100+ degree heat. Having to say most is the most extraneous activity and it’s lazy debating on your part to say absolutes can’t be proven. You don’t have an argument that’s why you said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:55 PM
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When guys say they hate gays, kissing a guy is the grossest thing, don’t touch my butt that’s gay. They are doing this to show their masculinity to women. There’s no social advantage to hating gays with guys, it’s to impress women and show you put them solely on the pedestal of desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:53 PM
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Homophobic culture is promoted by women. Not all women, but most of them want their man to think being gay is disgusting. They think that’s being more masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:42 PM
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The power struggle will sway back and forth. Head to the Middle East, they still got that old school oppression. Lots of women in full burkas out there, guys with 6+ wives. For most of humanity it’s kinda sucked to be a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:33 PM
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100% of all hard labor is done by men. Unless they are tall and have a gorgeous body they are not celebrated for their looks like women are. Not one person thinks men should be taken care of like women try to take for granted. Women have crafted more cushy lives than men. Didn’t use to be like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:31 PM
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Yea we gave women the right to vote, big mistake lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:26 PM
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The good way to find a girlfriend is be desperate in a way without asking desperate at all. Just having fun and enjoying the company of women. I’m a red pill guy that really enjoys when I get single going on dates off apps and insta, going to bars to pickup girls. I’ve even gone to strip clubs to pick up girls there legitimately, it’s way tougher than tinder don’t recommend, but friend and I got pretty good at it. Here’s the deal, I’m the weird one. Most guys don’t care about being a player. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:22 PM
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You had me in the title I’ll stick to that. The reason guys hate gay guys so much sometimes is either they are closet gay or the more common they want to appear more masculine to women. Women are the silent promoters of violence towards gay men. In Roman times men were the objects of desire. Women were more second class citizens. Now it’s flipped women are the objects of desire, women tell men women are more attractive than men too. Now men in the west are the second class citizens because we ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:14 PM
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The most common is 525 one week you got them 5 days, other week 2 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:00 PM
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I’m on 50/50 it works out good. I love being a dad, but I don’t think anyone wants to be a single parent full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:48 PM
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Elliot Rodger was a mental deranged psychopath. Not a smooth charming man. Dark triad people are salesmen, getting girls is a lot about sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:59 PM
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Redpill made up bluepill. Being a simp is the norm. Simping isn’t bad until you’re doing it with women that have no sexual interest in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:45 PM
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Women go absolutely crazy for attractive tall dominant successful men that are toxic. Sweet Chads with a regular job are just a toy to women. Most guys who try and hit on them give them the ick because those guys can’t read choosing signals and won’t stop bothering them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:39 PM
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Fit people are high strung, 6 pack takes too much discipline. Girls like an easy going guy, someone to eat pizza with. There are way too many q4w on this sub, moderators make you change it, could be an algorithm thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:36 PM
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Women are attracted to Dark Triad men, manipulative, narcissistic, sociopathic. Those men capture a girl’s interest and they make her chase him. More often they can also bad men, but don’t have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:34 PM
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Look at what happened when social media and dating apps came along. You think well now everyone can get laid easy. No, what we’ve got is 3 times as many women chasing an even smaller percentage of guys. Top guys can use apps to order sex and company from women like uber eats. Things will hit a breaking point based on availability, but it’s not going to make it so average guys can get laid from pretty girls easy. In Saudi Arabia many guys have 6 wives, the top guys are getting practically overwhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:36 PM
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What’s the argument he’s making here. That if women were bred for sexuality, and each man has 10 women that you could basically end the desire for war?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:27 PM
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In this world of twice as many women you’d just open up polygamy. You’re not going to get women to stop keep chasing the top, the guys at the top are just going to be getting even more of the resource of casual attention from women. If we’re talking 80/20 rule, what would result from twice as many women is only 70/30. To satisfy the casual market it would just mean more casual dating/sex and action for a slightly larger percentage of males.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:39 PM
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Girls have some things they are down for and like and other not so down. If you got a girl that don’t even want to try and only interested in vanilla sex she likely don’t want you that bad. Think of it as a shit test for guys, doesn’t have to be anal but she should be down for some things you want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:34 PM
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If she’s not actively doing those things in sex industry it’s nothing to me. Make any girl super hot and then watch 90% of them exploit it for all it’s worth. If you’re mid the sex industry doesn’t pay that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:17 PM
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I’ve dated girls that were strippers, did porn scenes before, had OF, been escorts, had sugar daddies. Modern girl who’s really hot it’s gonna be something. She can love you. The girl that is going to have a problem loving you is one that is addicted to dating, new dick, and dreams a man can provide. That’s her addiction it’s like trying to have a relationship with a gambling addict. These girls exist in spades on dating apps and instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:45 PM
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90 day fiancé and mail order brides for the guy is the dumbest thing you can do. Go live in the country if you want a girl from that country so bad. If I move to central america then I will consider getting a girl there, falling in love, then marrying. Just marrying some girl because she wants a soft life and is willing to have sex with you is crazy. My best friend married a former mail order bride. She has a bunch of mail order bride friends. Most of cheat with hot guys and have open plans to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:39 PM
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Looks combines with money guarantee. Guys that pay for dates and then get ghosted get jaded about dates and women. So they stop. People will downvote this, but if you had a 10/10 girl and you had to buy her a salad and 2 glasses of wine to get a bj for a hour, all guys would do it. That’s why as a girl, I would never talk to a guy that made you split, because he would pay for her under other circumstances. I have a 70% date hookup rate with girls I think are beautiful. Of course I have zero issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:28 PM
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Ironically it can be the same guys that refuse to buy a girl a drink on a date in US. That would also bring a girl to America that’s barely employable and just takes care of her, because she knows traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:45 PM
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Girls with high body counts don’t settle and cheat. You have common sense discipline to avoid them, not smarts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:42 PM
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If you’re a very hot girl and you exist on insta, these opportunities exist. A lot of times it’s a girl that recruits you, you get DMs with offers from guys, guys paying money for nudes, sugar daddy. Very beautiful women get hit up for stuff a lot. If they get a boyfriend, they might stop or keep it on dl. I’ve personally known and dated a lot of hot girls, it’s not happening constantly but it’s normal. If your only response is nuh uh. Then you just probably known or dated hot girls. If a girl I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:06 PM
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If you’re 44 and you got big mommy milkers and you’re posting on insta a lot. There is a reason, selling nudes, being older escort. People don’t post everyday just for clout, usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:36 PM
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Yea the ones that look natural and young have even more opportunity. Those command the highest prices. If you got offered $2k to show up for a date you’ll do it, so do girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:30 PM
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If they aren’t on insta posting, or don’t use dating apps, or don’t go to nightclubs then perhaps. I don’t know hot chicks that don’t do at least one, but I’m sure some exist. I’ve been on 160 dates, they all cute to hot and they all trying to look sexy on gram. There’s a reason for that, and it’s not just narcissism and body positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:25 PM
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Beautiful women regardless of age have a lot of opportunity. It may not be worth it, but they test the waters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:24 PM
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It does if she’s on insta or you met her at club or dating apps. Which is roughly basically all the hot women. A month ago I was sitting at the bar at an Italian restaurant. This way old guy offered my girlfriend $10k to spend the weekend with him on a place on the beach. Girls get offered a lot, there’s a crazy amount of rich boomers that want a hot young girl for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:17 PM
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Yes guys pay hundreds and thousands to do 4/10s. Ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:12 PM
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Most women are violent towards men, unless you put them in the hospital and it’s video recorded they won’t get charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:14 PM
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It is very nice when she makes her own money. If she has a doctorate or ged I will care only some. Some doctor girls only can pass a test and are boring at in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:29 PM
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If she doesn’t post to insta and you didn’t meet her on a dating app, then maybe. I’ve been on 160 dates with largely hot girls. Doesn’t matter regardless of age, if she’s 42 and splashing sexy pics, there’s a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:27 PM
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You’re taking everything I said word for word and want to apply it to every scenario in both arguments. The first, sometimes you’re lonely, maybe you just really want to get with her and end up in a relationship. L Guys online are like I never got cheated on, I never fell for a girl and regretted it and ignored red flags. All these lameos is who say they never date a girl with more than 8 bodies get a grip. The second the general idea is if she looks hit on gram, the money in some situation will…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:04 PM
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You cannot care about most these things, . I knew this guy who was a former football player and successful businessman. He got with this 10/10 model that he knew was a high end escort. She also cheated on him, and he knew about it and still wanted to stay with her. This guy is good looking too. Women will make you do crazy things, if she’s beautiful enough and pushes your buttons you’ll look past anything. I have before and you usually regret it, but sometimes you just want that girl. Also, ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:48 PM
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What happens in online dating is the top 60% of women are casually getting with the top 10% of men. Which is largely reflective how in real life casual dating occurs. Most girls will end up with guys with very few dating options because they are easily willing to settle down and the girl can’t land a top guy for more than a temp non exclusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:59 PM
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Starting an argument that humans are spiritual creatures with souls, and sleeping around is harmful to your well being is not an argument based on hard facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:19 AM
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Being promiscuous takes your soul, lowers feelings of self worth, and is addictive. Women are more emotional and sensitive, so they don’t handle being promiscuous as well as men. Women are often being promiscuous because they don’t want to lose the guy they want who has lots of options. If they front load sex they can get his attention and not be lost in the shuffle. Which leads her to being cast aside easily and being just a temporary non exclusive placeholder girlfriend. Which will eventually …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:02 AM
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More intelligent people drink alcohol, use drugs, better at manipulation, and go to college where promiscuity runs rampant. They also may strategize dating as a game. Sleeping with more people can increase your chances of landing the most desirable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:48 AM
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Dating is a riot for a guy when it works, random pretty girls showing up interested in hooking up, that's a dream scenario for a guy. Also, once you can get dates whenever you want you get to all but hand pick who you want to be with. Most people just hoping someone appears at work or in social circles that likes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:54 PM
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yep
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:40 PM
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I went through a stretch in high school with no girls for a few years. Then I go to college, sophomore year I worked on some pickup game, but girls would not take me seriously and couldn't get a real girlfriend. Even though I had numerous hookups and f buddies. Then I get a divorce, I had a beer gut and no instagram. Dating apps won't work, you can't get girls to date you with a gut either. So I take a few years and work on an instagram and got in shape. Then I sleep with around 80 girls in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:19 PM
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Abuse can literally mean they made me feel bad one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:11 PM
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If you have a girl and she uses dating apps, met guys off instagram, or at bars and clubs. She's going to have fwb and ons while dating nearly guaranteed. That's the only way to get a desirable guy who dates, is to enter his soft harem of girls. When we talk about situationships it's normally just dating around in the dating game. The most desirable guys can dangle commitment to women as bait to keep them interested. The hot guys can be used for sex for women and they keep going back because he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:57 PM
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Kinda because its a realization of how close you were to getting lots of girls easily and you just figured it out later in life by trial and error. If one thing is off about you, or your life isn't in perfect order, girls won't randomly get with you basically ever. Which sucks, and makes you hate women in a way because they only want to casually get with very specific guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:40 PM
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They believe that because they know when a girl can't land a guy it's because she's a bad person. So when they hear about a guy that can't get any girl they don't really compute that all girls are completely ignoring most guys, like they don't even see them in the world. So they just assume he must be bad if no one likes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:38 PM
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Abuse is a very broad term. In a way any relationship has some form of abuse, women often make something sound dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:51 PM
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Oh okay I get what you’re saying about the 60%. Unless you got some gorgeous face, you’re working it, so you think 60% can too. I’m 6’1” and it’s a big advantage. So makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:30 PM
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No woman in the history of time has ever explained what it was like to have a relationship with a man, and not used the term he was abusive. He could’ve just balled into a corner and took a beating from her, he was mentally abusing her, then when she hurt her hand swinging he physically abused her. Women have near absolute zero accountability when it comes to abuse, society and laws are a in their favor on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:19 PM
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Being under 5’7” seems like a near death sentence for hookups. There’s so many factors that’s why I think only 20% can pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:09 PM
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I consider myself a player when I want to, but I had a gut from craft beer for a couple years and no girl wanted to f me. So as long as the guy is willing to get in shape and has the motivation it could be 60% if guys. I don’t think most guys have the wherewithal and desire to seduce women a lot and hand pick the type of girlfriend they want. There is this online concept you need to be a Chad and most players aren’t chads. Some just got their own techniques. It’s a cool skill to have before my l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:44 PM
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I believe in the 80/20 rule but it’s a debate why and it’s weird to pin it just on women. My gf’s friend was over at my place and she’s this hot blonde. She talking about this date where this guy made her come 7 times and she wants to marry him. This guy I guarantee is just onto the next and she’s maybe in his harem or prob not. I don’t know what the guy looked like, but he prob wasnt even a chad. Consider the desire to do that and how dialed in you need to be to immediately seduce a hot blonde …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:17 PM
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I try and explain this to guys. I have a 2/3 first date rate of getting a girl to my place partially naked, half in my bed. Within 2 hours of meeting her. Chads are at 90%+ hookup rate. I know this, but most men are in denial about it, that’s other girls not the girl I want. So they will court her and simp for her. Meanwhile, she will meet a Chad and just instantly give him an incredible bj, he doesn’t need to do anything. I’ve been friends with girls and gone on way too many dates to understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:10 PM
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Because any cute woman can so easily receive affection or a date, or be put in a harem of a very desirable man. They are in total denial of what their looksmatch is. They think they are hot and gorgeous if they can land dates from hot men or doctors. If they land 1 hot boyfriend who cheats on them all the time or a handsome successful guy for a few months, she thinks she is top tier gorgeous chick only for elite men. Girls routinely date men out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:04 PM
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It’s prob more like a half a second than a full minute. Some guys can get dates and get these 1 second sexual choice opportunities from women, then not mess it up. Maybe 20% of guys. Other guys aren’t getting dates, they aren’t trying to choose, they are navigating a more long term hope of attraction. The validation of receiving instant lust is something that might happen, but isn’t being proactively done, because it’s not really possible for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:59 PM
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I’ve only been scenario 1 and 3. Scenario 1 is sad because she screws with you and likes you, but you will never end up on her instagram or go out with her friends. Scenario 3 for me is I basically dangle living with me for free. Which I’m paying these bills anyway, so it gets me girls out of my looks league that are hot. Which brings me to fuckzone Chad that always breaks any logical argument about women, and exposes their 2 faced behavior. She can’t wait to put Chad on her instagram, she brags…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:41 PM
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The gender war stuff is interesting, but there should be another sub purplepillstrategies. Where you discuss more process to actually getting dates and a girlfriend, or managing a harem. That’s one of the most common questions on Reddit, how do I get a girlfriend. In my mind, it’s a freak ton of rejection, but still numbers game and procedural approach to get her to want you. If you’re not doing this you’re just waiting to settle with a chick at work or in a friend group, and not getting what yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:30 PM
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Scenario 3 is the most common relationship where she desires you, but you’re also providing her with something or she knows you plan to. This could be a mutual desire for a baby, live with him for free, or you’re in with a cool party crowd. The timeline for this guy is between 1 and 6 dates for sex. She’s going to be receptive to him, so escalation to sex can happen 1st date. Scenario 4 is, you’re almost or basically a sugar daddy. She will wait as long as she can and actually leverage what she …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:21 PM
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There’s 4 scenarios to this: You’re a cute guy but kinda of a loser in her eyes, so just good enough for a poke to her. No chance at relationship. This better than nothing, but sucks. You’re so attractive she wants to have you for relationship, but she is okay if he wants just sex. This is great, nothing on the table for her, guy just skating on looks. She lusts and wants you as a boyfriend, but she wants you as a boyfriend because you provide something of value to her. Could be financial or soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:44 PM
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More confident about what? I never understood this great beacon advice, just be confident. You can stand up straight, don’t be nervous, be genuine in your approach. What else can you do. What is this confidence you can portray that will turn a no to a yes. I’m not sure that’s possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:09 PM
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Not good social skills, I’ve had a bunch of best friends I was close with though. I just try to be charming and not give off any negativity and just play off the girl, when she is the center of attention she will halo you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:02 AM
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Sophomore year in college I got more masculine looking and picked up 20 girls in a year and half. I had a couple gfs but I never had a hookup in my life before that. That’s where I got the technique of hooking up with random girls. This 70 first date hookups are mostly off dating apps. After I got divorce at 35, I needed to lose my gut, make better instagram for dating apps, get hair transplant, and go to gym. I have a gf for a year now. I dated for 2 years and hooked up a bunch after I got my l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:48 AM
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The big problem with women and dating is at least for me, when you meet up and she looks you up and down, she’s decided on you already. If you pass the eye test, you just need to not mess it up. So no need to be nervous, just chat. Sex is not necessary, but getting the opportunity to express some passion for her is. I’ve gone overboard with lust on girls I thought were really attractive and came on too strong, so you can’t act too wild once she’s in your arms on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:23 AM
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I’ve gotten a hookup on a first date around 70 times, here’s what works for me. Take her to a mid tier casual local restaurant or nice cocktail bar at night. Don’t do a fancy or dirty place. Cut it short, 2 drinks, light meal. Don’t dress up, even athleisure is fine. I pay, because it’s $40 or less, I’m just looking for action on a date, there’s a low chance she’s going to be my girlfriend, I’m just trying to have a fun time with her. Don’t talk about yourself or any prev relationships at all. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:05 AM
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You have to have the girl that wants both from you or you will lose your mind over it. She don’t lust for you that way if you’re only long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:11 PM
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Don’t meet women off dating apps, clubs, or instagram. She’s hooking up with you after just meeting you, you think she hasn’t done that at least 30 times already? 30 bodies for a normal social girl is nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:09 PM
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I don’t have the friends pic and I get days in Hinge star tab and get roses sent to me. Here’s the dilemma of the group pic, you need cool friends, they need to be good looking, but not as good looking as you. Then if you’re not the tallest, then she will just end up saying in her head she wants a different guy in your group and swipes left. I got pics traveling in Italy, on a big boat, me driving a sports car. The pic that really kills and puts you over the top is having your shirt off. Skin se…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:25 PM
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I follow zero instamodels and every one of the 90 or so girls I follow on insta I’ve met in real life. Yes some are in their mid to late 30s and parade their latest Chad or big house conquest. Then will also unironically share memes about how much guys suck and she’s a queen. Do you not have an instagram? This is pretty common female behavior on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:42 PM
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Why is touch grass a go to for every Reddit user that can’t make any real counterpoint. When it’s clear a woman has been single for long time, but parades guys online because they are hot or has a big house. Then never has a real relationship, then wants to complain about men, that’s when we laugh and pile on. We’re not taking some unattractive woman that has problem getting dates and saying or thinking anything like that. We hope she does find a nice guy. The really pretty girl just being too p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:29 PM
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I think we pin this discrimination on older women that could easily get a good handsome guy whenever they want. They’ve clearly had plenty of time to turn down some nice guys, but only wanted picturesque handsome men with a good career who can have any woman they want. I see this often on Instagram, some girl in her mid to late 30s will only post a guy that’s a total chad. Then if they are pictured with any other guy, they have to put a note in the post or story that he’s a “friend.” There are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:02 PM
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You’re focusing on a segment of the attractive girl population that cares to have a boyfriend that is a party boy. Those guys are very popular with certain ladies, if the guys are also attractive. However, there’s actually more attractive women that don’t want a party boy boyfriend. Those girls are just spread around more and not concentrated in clubs and local house parties all the time. So don’t think for a second you can’t have a blazing hot chick just bc you’re not in the local party scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:24 PM
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I cannot psychologically be with someone that didn’t express some lust for me the first night we met. This is the reason, she would hookup with some other guy, but not me. My conscience and ego cannot deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:25 PM
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Having a girlfriend is the best thing in the world. It’s better than harems or strings of hookups. You go through life together and support each other. There’s no guy friend that can be committed to you like your girlfriend. Sex is just a few times a week, it’s not that big of deal. Looks isn’t that big of deal either I’ve had gfs that were 5 or 9, I ended up falling in love and desired them both pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:00 PM
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It’s either that or they make it painfully obvious by staring you down then looking away until you approach. If you talk to her and she isn’t touching your arm or chest she don’t want you that bad. Female game has incredibly obvious signs. If you’re not looking for them, and just randomly cold approaching women all the time you have to be a masochist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:50 PM
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No it’s not about super wealth. It’s about looks and attractive to women. Imagine getting rich and because you’re a 4 you still can’t get pretty girls on a date. Or if you do, you’re just betabux to the max. For getting girls the advice of go to the gym, is better than go get rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:21 PM
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The guy hosting the after party, got the drugs guy and has more threesomes than regular sex exists. You’re getting hot chicks but it’s also a bunch of club coke chicks. My instagram gets me hotties off dating apps whenever I want and I'm a dad that doesn’t club, which makes you a jewel to some hot girls who hate party boys. There are others that want a party guy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:28 AM
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At 7 figs you can get kinda crazy with lifestyle and attract a lot. My instagram is full of elite vacations and me with some cool cars I’ve owned. I get 2 points out of my league on dating apps. I’ve gotten hair transplant, froze my gut off, Invisalign, personal training, and more. I’m 6’2” traditional handsome, and pulled girls for hookups in college. So I’m not average, maybe 7/10. It’s mostly looks with girls, lifestyle gets you 2 points. If you’re extreme lifestyle mansion and yacht, it’s ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:56 AM
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Someone asked the question on Quora of what percent of men and women are attractive. The top answer had a link to a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:16 AM
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Life can be grand, you just won’t get casual lust from attractive females unless you’re in the top 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:15 AM
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Women don’t date unattractive guys, the only exception is very hot girls that date 2 points down because they want a more well rounded guy and not a hot guy for a boyfriend. You’ll see hot guys with just cute girls more often. I know 3 guys rich af, they aren’t even bad like a 5 or 6. They want hot girls and can get them on dates, they cannot land attractive women. Women care more about looks than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:12 AM
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I’m saying you’re both wrong, most women when they are dating around turn their nose at their looksmatch, unless he’s got a great lifestyle. Women are constantly sharing the top guys in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:22 AM
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Women are usually throwing themselves at men much more desirable than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:17 AM
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If you’re an 8+/10 girl you can get with any guy you want. If you’re just cute it’s still most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:11 AM
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It makes no difference how many men my girlfriend finds attractive, she can already get with any man she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:26 AM
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Women only find 7% of men attractive regardless of age. Men find 40% of women attractive. 93% of men are born not attractive to women. The top guys prob never reach a wall unless they get fat, they just born handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:09 AM
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Yea if you don’t get enthusiastic sex and you want it at least 3 times a week, you gotta bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:08 AM
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Once we became friends we didn’t have sex again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:41 PM
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I’ve had 3 actual girl friends, but I had sex with them or dated them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:52 PM
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Yea you did the players who do all types of girls all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:50 PM
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Wait you’re a girl? Any barely decent chick that makes herself available can do lots of hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:57 PM
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Norah was treated terribly by women as a man and felt a clear lack of compassion. She called the experience as a man as soul crushing, and wanted to kill herself after experiencing life as a man. If you took a pretty girl and made her live the life of a below average man, my guess is a good percentage of women would end it. Life through the lens of prob 1/3 of guys is a sad depressing grueling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:15 PM
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I’m with you it’s a racket I only had energy for that in college. Create a good instagram, attach it to hinge. Get dates and sex whenever you want. That’s what I do, I’ve been out to cool restaurant bars and talked to some chicks, got to be the right scene and night.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:18 PM
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If you can make yourself above average looking, do fun things sometimes, have decent place. You’ll get with cute girls. You’re going to be need to be a bit more special in looks and lifestyle to get a total hottie, but it’s not that unrealistic. Somebody got to get with attractive women, there’s a bunch of them out there. No one wants to talk about the dream of pulling a bunch of 4s, guys want 8s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:59 PM
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Well girls don’t normally go to bars by themselves. You can talk to girls in groups, they won’t jump you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:37 PM
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I’ve never had a girlfriend or wife that did any inside or outside chores. Had one that cooked twice a week. What is this 1955?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:28 PM
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Go to a nice restaurant bar in a clubby side of town. You want younger go to bars next to a college.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:20 PM
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One was 22 and one was 29. They were hot af, both statuesque and well built. One was a platinum blonde and the other was an Afro Latina. The black girl did modeling and made a few thousand a month off that. I dated them both for around 2 months without knowing. They acted totally infatuated with me, incredible sex, didn’t ask me for anything. They spent nearly every night with me after I met them off dating apps. Then I figured it out with them being gone for a day. I don’t know who the clients …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:47 AM
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I’ve accidentally dated a couple escorts off dating apps. If she’s retired I’m prob preferring the prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:01 AM
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Lower bar to get laid before social media and dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:14 AM
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Then what stare him down until he buys you a drink? A 7/10 girl can date hot guys til she’s blue in the face for years off apps if she lives in a city. Makes it way easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:09 PM
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I have an extremely hot girlfriend and I’m glued to screens. My previous gf before that was a ford model. Players go to clubs and parties. It’s not an attractive thing. Just because you see a few hot guys among a sea of people, doesn’t mean that’s where they ALL hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:43 PM
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Thats the dream though, many dating options. If half the people are 4-6/10 on the attractiveness scale. Why is it women have all the options with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:34 PM
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Casual action just usually trends upwards to men. If you’re a 7 girl you’re dating 8s and 9s, then end up with a 7 guy eventually. You don’t have to be that spectacular looking to get beautiful women easy, because they want well rounded guys that possess many desirable traits. Well put together handsome men can date as many beautiful or regular women as they want. The top 5% of guys have an easy time getting dates and casual affection. The top 30% of women experience a similar, I can get dates a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:20 PM
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Where do desirable men exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:12 PM
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Some hot guys. Now you got Insta and Hinge that gives you access to them all. I use dating apps, you pick the type you want. I drive across the street to cocktail bar. Hour or so later they usually come back to your place. Before apps. Getting girls casually actually required going to do things and talking to dozens of women until one showed clear interest. Options are 10x a college university.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:05 PM
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When people want to talk about the modern dating world, and they been on 6 random dates in their life, then say they met their live in partner at work. Now here’s my opinion on dating culture. I’ve now turned off my ears, that’s most people. Most people don’t date around or ever in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:08 PM
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Yea half of women under 30 haven’t even tried a dating app. Most people don’t find their partner by dating around, they meet via social circles and work. Dating is a defined game where you’re meeting at least 8-50 people per year. How many people even do that, 10% of the single population? Dating one guy the past year you met at work and meeting another guy via social circle for coffee 3 months ago is not what I would say is dating culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:49 PM
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Why is everyone talking about boyfriends and ltr? If your man sucks in bed don’t be in a relationship with him or why did you agree to it to start with? I thought we were talking dating around and more casual sex satisfaction. Girls be commenting “my bf makes me come so your argument is invalid,” well I hope your partner does at least at a fairly decent clip.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:36 PM
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The reason you might not to a girl you just met is to not appear too eager to please. You may like it when a guy you just meet munches your box and plays with you for 30 minutes before any insertion, and tries to make you come. Most girls are going to expect that behavior later from a guy. Or you can be in the moment and lust for her, and don’t worry about giving her an orgasm and just have fun. If we’re talking about casual sex, this is a much more easy going and desirable approach for most wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:28 PM
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Social media and online dating has allowed comparisons of other people and relationships like never before in history. Hot guys and successful handsome guys have a big advertising platform for women online. The level of access they have to women can allow them to easily collect harems of girls. When a 7+/10 cute girl with a nice body dates she’s often knowingly entering the harems of desirable men. The new availability of all men in a 50 mile radius she can date are her new standards that women …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:15 PM
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You took the word comfort with someone in the most insane direction you possibly could to make it sound like sexual coercion. A lot of times I don’t come the first time with a girl. The reason is no one’s fault, you’re just more self conscious around people you don’t know. Which can prevent you from climaxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:47 PM
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I’ve had the craziest marathon sex with girls I just met. Or that first weekend together. Sometimes women aren’t coming that much bc of the level of comfort with him, but women have a lot of fun having casual sex regardless in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:30 PM
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There’s sexual compatibility that sometimes comes in as a factor, and his level of passion. Other than that handsome guys get girls to come much easier than ugly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:27 PM
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Being good at sex comes down to 2 factors. Mainly her attraction to you. If you make her melt by looking at her she will naturally have much better sex, perceive it better, be more excited, and come easier. The second for guys is experience. If you had a few girlfriends that work with you on how to cascade orgasms by different methods, you’re going to take that experience to the next girl and she will think you’re a good lay. The weird part about sex in my experience is that you can have the gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:05 PM
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To get in the top tier it’s in your ability to make an attractive instagram, which most guys can’t. This leads to easy hookups off dating apps. Handsome fit men can walk up to a woman that’s checking him out and have her that night. If you’ve never had these abilities, or very randomly, it’s hard to tell a guy how to get there and most never will. The top 10% of guys are having 95% of the casual sex that goes on. This is what we are mad at women about, they are 2 faced in their dating approach. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:43 PM
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No it actually has nothing to do with it, gatekeep anything valuable with women and they will want you. I lived in a 7 million dollar home for 6 months and 14 girls in a row that came to my house back from a date were naked within a hour. I’ve owned a business and had so many offers to sleep with me for a job. That is absolutely nothing to the power you can wield by being a music or Hollywood producer. That Korean pop music producer is uglier than a mfer, it won’t matter he can have 10s at his f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:19 AM
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Bringing up that people rape has nothing to do with the argument. Ted Bundy raped and murdered women, he still could get them. Supposedly he was quite charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:08 AM
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Kobe just settled in civil court and got her to drop. Vince McMahon took a dump on a young hot girl’s face in an orgy. Rape doesn’t have to have anything to do with your sexual options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:52 AM
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Haha, Kobe totally absolutely raped that girl. If you look into the case he was 100% guilty, he got her to drop the case and settle in civil for likely millions of dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:51 AM
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So Kobe and Tyson raped every single girl they ever had sex with, even their wives. By your logic that’s correct right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:40 AM
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I’m not sure how being a convicted rapist has anything to do with it. Kobe Bryant raped a girl in Colorado, he still could get girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:37 AM
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Dude about as ugly as it gets, but he’s a Hollywood producer. If you went to Hollywood to be an actress he’s near the top of guys you would do anything for. I used to own a decent sized social media business, girls offer to suck your dick all the time for a job. If you’re a Hollywood producer omg you’d have to beat them off with a stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:30 AM
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You say this like it’s something smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:25 AM
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Cool argument. You should go to debate school, you’re a natural. I’m truly blown away by your intellect. Harvey could get thousands of the hottest girls in LA easy as Brad Pitt and Leo. Because he’s a gatekeeper of the most valuable resource to girls in LA, fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:14 AM
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Have you seen his wife? She’s gorgeous. If you think if you live in LA, and you’re the most prolific movie producer in Hollywood and you will have any problem getting laid or a bj whenever you want. I’ll bet anything you’re dead wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:07 AM
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Gatekeeping fame like Harvey Weinstein will get you the most girls the easiest by far. Any cute girl can get an ugly rich guy, fame is totally another level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:45 AM
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Women find 7% of guys attractive, they swipe right 1 in 20 times. They keep casually dating and fucking the same small percent of guys deemed as universally desirable to have something to brag to their friends about. Guys find 40% of women attractive. This is why this sub exists, persistent female hypergamy creates 2 faced behavior in women. Chad gets all the instant sex he can possibly want, all other guys they need to wait and bring something to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:51 PM
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Guys and girls will undercut their friends to try and make themselves look superior and trash others. They’re all sick, jealous, insecure rats. It doesn’t work it’s for their own sick egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:46 PM
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He’s a producer, women will do anything for fame. I’m certain that 98% of Harvey Weinstein girls he got with were women throwing themselves at him. He made chick arthouse Oscar winning films. Half the hotties in LA would do anything he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:42 PM
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I’ve been molested as a child. I’ve woken up drunk with a girl at a party trying to take my pants off to have sex with me. I don’t think women are predators, this is just bound to happen sometimes in your life. Women run social media and are catered to, they get to say whatever blanket man hating shit they want. They get attention, sympathy, and white knights all in their corner while doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:03 PM
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Women say men are predators, bear, metoo and all this for victim pity, and to gain attention and as a sentiment against men. They somehow believe this raises their own stature. Most of them have met a guy or gone on a date and within 1 hour or 2 is at his place naked. If she’s online dated she’s likely done this a bunch. Girls aren’t that scared of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:53 PM
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You’re right no one cares about age gap relationships that much. The few people that make fun of them are jealous. Last year I casually dated at least 15 girls off Hinge that were 20-28 and I’m 45. My girlfriend now is 20 years younger. Lift, get a hair transplant, bleach your teeth, do whatever it takes to be attractive, and all women will find you attractive. This is the big myth about dating in your 40s, older women don’t change their type ever to bald guys with guts. Then you change yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:29 PM
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It’s because the opposite is never true for women. No hot girl goes around screwing a bunch of mid and ugly guys for no reason. However, there’s just enough hot guys that will casually get with land whales and ugly girls that can make the statement partially true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:11 PM
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I’m with you on the last paragraph. You will not be dating a cute never married girl in her 30s that hasn’t taken a quarter mile of Chad cock. That hasn’t dated around for funzies and self indulgence for years. So let’s just say you convince yourself somehow the past is the past. She’s 34 now and she’s ready for a husband and family. You need to tell her there’s is nooo way you are going to marry her or have kids without at least 3 years of dating. Many will give you an angry look and suddenly d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:37 PM
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Just like some guys will always cheat on you, some girls will too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:14 PM
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Every pill has its good and bad sides. Red pill never really breaks down how to get to point a to point b. What it takes is not fun to explain and has a few hard truths. It’s obviously to relate about the woes of now and the potential in the future. Which is true in prob 10% of single guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:33 AM
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Dating apps and social media are drugs. More than half the girls on dating apps are addicted to dating and hooking up with guys. That’s why if you get dating apps working it can be nearly a nonstop fkfest with most the girls you meet. That’s what they do, they are addicted to it. Ugly and fat girls getting to randomly do a hot guy is they are somewhat social and go out is nothing new to dating apps though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:13 PM
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Yea that’s what I’m saying 18-27 guys need looks and be fun. 28-45 as women are declining the men are rising in desirability. A fully mature 32 yr old man is considered the most generally desirable by women of all ages even just physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:59 PM
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This happened before apps. Show me this chick with a bald spot that’s getting exclusive real relationships with cute guys with their own house. I was friends with a girl that was 260 lbs that got sex from hot buff black guys whenever she wanted. Then another 220lb girl that could pull Chads easy. If you’re talking girls putting just sex on the table covertly or overtly they can do lots of hot guys. They aren’t getting that much else though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:42 PM
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You painted a good picture, I can see it now thanks. Also there’s a type of looks threshold for being approached often and it’s not necessarily a 1-10 attractive rating thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:16 PM
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What do you rate yourself 1-10? Are you fit, do guys approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:35 PM
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Girls think like this and act like this. Then you kick them to the curb, in most cases they always want to come back. Cute girls have smv and lower rmv. They have to face this reality when they actually have to find a guy. It’s not that easy for women, they just get sex super easy, everything else about the same or worse for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:22 PM
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Start walking around and calling the woman you see in a regular place like a grocery store 5s. Unless these 5s are young and kinda cute these women are not relevant online or real world. There is no miles of Chad cock for them to enjoy or nice dates from simps. You’re talking about pretty girls who are single and care about dating. Which might be 10% of female population. Those are the girls everyone wants, most women don’t get this luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:16 PM
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The girl that got me into it was a hot blonde I dated for 8 months that liked Alpha Male Strategies on YouTube. She said she liked hearing the perspective of a guy that gets girls and how he views women. I had another girlfriend that was a ringer for Salma Hayek that thought Andrew Tate is doing a service for men kept sharing his videos to me on TikTok, and pulled me back into the pill manosphere. Aside from those 2 and a couple player guys I know, nearly every single guy and girl thinks pill id…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:07 PM
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Do something for yourself to get some more confidence and talk to more girls. Basic advice, but 6 years is too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:56 PM
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Why low stakes? Were guys not offering dinner and drinks, or an event?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:50 PM
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Your game sounds good, but you’ll just go a few years with no dates or no girlfriends? If so, are you fine with life or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:48 PM
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I think girls still go on dates and have casual sex, it’s just not the gold rush of 2016 with masses of people dating a lot. There was a thought of girls in 2016 that they all are either going to get a very hot guy or handsome tall and rich. By 2019 that fever had dropped and many women realized they were just providing super easy hookups for desirable men. So women tend to have their guard up more, unless she’s on the date because she thinks he’s really hot. I have lower self esteem and when I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:45 PM
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You’re talking about noticeable cute chicks with nice bodies. Like 7+/10. Those girls if they get going on online dating and have insta. These attractive girls standards become the top 3% of men. The 7-9/10 range girls are getting the most pump and dumps and situationships because of their desirability to guys that can get as many girls as they want. No one turns down 7+s for a lay, if you’re noticeably hot or beautiful half of girls would instantly make out with you along with 98% of men. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:34 PM
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The wall is real just happens 10 years later for guys, unless he gets serious about his fitness and health, same for women. Most women are overweight and don’t care as much about appearance that came naturally in early 20s. I’m 44 I’m still horny, I get with my hot girlfriend 6-10 times a week. There’s guys I know in 50s that are players always with women of all ages, even early 20s hot girls. Men get in loveless marriages, give up on dating, or never cared much about getting girls in the first …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:28 PM
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They say through parts of history most all men didn’t have families so as much as I’d like to think you can’t have more than 50% disregarded by society and no woman wants you. I think you can, change the dynamics of society with less haves and more have nots, women will share men. They do that now in many countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:22 PM
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I’ll buy into this, at some point it will hit some critical mass, if this is 60% of men’s lives, no families, few friends, no girlfriend for years on end. Then society breaks at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:18 PM
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I went a couple stretches like this. I think if you paid for dates you’d get up to 80% coming over. Not paying and getting 40% seems good though, if I didn’t pay I’d feel like it would be 30%. How old are you? Why do you think online dates come so easy? Why can’t most guys seem to want to experience something like this, but can’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:13 PM
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Social media and dating apps, having phones has affected the world as a whole. There were so many people everywhere before phones and people had to conversate and go outside to get interaction. You haven’t noticed how different the world seems now than 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:10 PM
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Online dating and social media has made things out of whack for the people into it, which is a lot. So now you’re competing with all guys online in a 50 mile radius that she can get dates from. All people now with phones are a bit more closed off, outgoing people still exist, people were forced to be outgoing so there was tons more opportunities in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:38 PM
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Sure, but back when people didn’t have phones, there wasn’t streaming, no social media, covid. The world was different people had to socialize, it wasn’t just something some people do sometimes like now. The scale was 10x back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:32 PM
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For first dates if she didn’t come over and express some passion she’s out, I don’t believe that dating girls won’t go home with a guy they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:25 AM
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The world was more open back then, if a girl liked you at all and you asked to go do literally anything fun they would go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:21 AM
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That’s some good work. I was paying for mid tier restaurants or cocktails like 2 drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:55 AM
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Prior to 2005 this was the norm, you were really weird if you went on dates people you didn’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:21 AM
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You got chicks back home after Starbucks? How many 2nd dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:13 AM
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I think Tinder is the same as any other dating app I’ve used in terms of hookups it’s known for. What % did you go home with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:56 AM
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To meet a girl n the dating world that’s not a total whore, that doesn’t have 1-3 guys she’s already spinning plates with is rare. Most dating girls are whores and easy, it’s a good bad thing. I laugh so much when guys say it over 5 is used up, try over 50 at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:50 AM
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Post got sent to moderator approval, think it just got approved. Can def mess up the post too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:27 AM
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If we didn’t slut shame it would be a little easier for average guys to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:24 PM
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Did she give you a look first?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:05 PM
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You got to be good looking to pull 20 yr olds in your 40s. Some 40 yr old women are hot, people aren’t that discriminating on age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:25 AM
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Yes I’m not mad, just the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:16 AM
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There’s no perfect people if you enjoy spending your time with them, they are loyal, and you’re both attracted you got something special.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:29 PM
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I was talking to a gay guy at this party and he was explaining how much unemotional hooking up occurs and how much casual sex goes on. I said yea women are like that too, just some guys they make wait and the same top 10% of guys they meet and a couple hours later is his sex doll all night. Girls are as horny as men, if they really want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:03 PM
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I was at Disneyland yesterday and 10% of the women were in a scooter. The number of outright super obese women in terrible clothing is staggering. Most are not with men, if they do have a man he’s hideous and looks smelly. It got me thinking about 80/20 rule, how 80% of women are chasing top 20% of men. You will see the bottom 20% of women at Disneyland, and they don’t have dating options. Guys will f anything but them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:42 PM
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You would eat out the golden girls once a month for 15k/mo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:58 AM
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You would eat 50+ vag 5 times a month for $8k+/mo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:16 AM
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You give 97% of girls to get $15,000/mo sell nudes online under a moniker they do it. Most guys would too, random people don’t get to be the moralist here on right and wrong when most would.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:52 AM
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You live in a world of delusion. Once you have your wife that’s totally mid, if you gave her $15k/mo she does it and leaves you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:28 AM
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Sure normal attractive women, if you look totally hot and you exist online, the money will be too good, hot women do it normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:27 AM
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It’s easy to be moral when you don’t have the opportunity. If you told any girl she can make $15k/mo selling nudes and messaging simps 97% of girls leap at that offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:38 AM
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I’ll do Susan Boyle and enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:36 AM
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Aren’t you the moralist. I’ve met and dated so many girls that are 8+/10 and never have they not been part of the sex industry of some sort either currently or previous. Escort, sugar daddy, selling nudes, it’s always something. You’re never going to date a legit hot chick that hasn’t. I know this young hot blonde that goes to church twice a week and is a virgin. She’s going in paid dates with Ric Flair now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:24 AM
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What if she makes $10-15k/mo?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:45 AM
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What if she only makes sex vids with you? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:32 AM
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I’ve been around 60 online dates with women in their 30s. Not all bad, but much prefer 20s and 40s on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:59 AM
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I take it you’re in your 30s, you think fun is some weird sex thing, and not just fun. Women in their 30s that are unmarried or divorced are just a big ball of disappointment about men or need things from one like a baby immediately. Unless you’re just in big settle down and have a family mode as a guy, no one wants to date a woman in their 30s in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:42 PM
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I’ll give you cars. Most guys don’t care about bikes or pcs. Also gambling and alcohol is not gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:11 PM
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I find it hard to date attractive women in their 30s that have never been married. They either want marriage or babies too fast, or hung up on ex, or want to move into your house with their kids. Women are more fun in their early to mid twenties, then they get fun again in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:42 PM
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Because women waste all their money on clothes, bags, beauty routines, brunch, and plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:38 PM
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I’m not going to put up with her having 6’3” buff ex fiancé with a 40 mil house. She also was in her mid 30s and not that hot at all. Im not being that rebound guy, she’s going to need a few years to realize that type of guy is never coming back in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:36 PM
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I enjoy having a girlfriend that lives with me and loves me the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:33 PM
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Dating girls build a composite of the best features of the men they date. There was a girl I was going on a date with and she still had her ex on her insta. Dude was massive buff 6’3” guy with a 40 million dollar home he was selling after looked him up. I said to her I’m not going, she asked why, I said your ex is on your insta. She said don’t worry about him he cheated on me all the time. Didn’t matter she’s been Chad widowed, when she goes to my home that’s 1/40th the price and I’m not buff an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:41 PM
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Women obsessed with hypergamy often get used and misinterpret the failed results. She didn’t actually want the guy, he liked what he had to possibly offer her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:05 PM
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I’m not concerned whether she’s a hedonist it’s more that she’s been Chad widowed and has too much experience with men and you won’t add up to all the great aspects of her many different partners. Comparison is the thief of joy, so if she’s been with lots of guys but never had a relationship, she’s going to compare you to those desirable guys and never be happy with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:55 PM
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If your girl doesn’t want to do some of the things in porn that you like, then she probably doesn’t want you that bad. No girl is going to do everything though. Internet porn has done a favor to women to n broadening the horizons of what men find attractive. Literally every type of girl is in porn. Every body type possible, every race, thick, slim all enthusiasts for sex. Female body positivity has come through that women realize that guys jerk off to so many types of women. Consider how promote…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:16 PM
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Hedonists, desperate, stubborn are in there in spades in the dating world. However, there is also an element with women of always searching for the next best thing. You have women settling for a guy to have a relationship, but then keeping her options open on the side. Or the girl that gets off on love bombing a guy, then 2 weeks later gets bored and finds another. Dating girls get in an addictive cycle of chasing a dragon that doesn’t exist. The end result is an ego destruction when you come to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:06 PM
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If you don’t know her or never romantic be mysterious, be friendly but coy don’t give yourself away. Then you strike and give her a kiss, then if she reciprocates fully you’re all over each other. Don’t give some weird verbal buildup, that’s only going to work if she just really wants you no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:48 PM
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The group guy photo is the hardest pic for dating app I just leave it out. You need to look cool, but your friends need to look cool too, but you definitely need to be the tallest one and the most in shape. If you mess it up, she’s just going to want the cuter guy in the photo and swipe left. Have pictures with cool background to make it look like you have a life. You wearing a suit or holding a dog won’t get you laid. However, if you look good with your shirt off and you’re having a drink at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:32 PM
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Some girl living alone with her dog proudly proclaims to everyone, I don’t need a man. Then actually has 2 side guys she’s not serious with. I’ve either had guy roommates or had a live in girlfriend. When I was single I’ll get at least a couple girls dating or 3, so I’m not spending every night alone. These guys that go years by themselves I don’t get it, I’d go nuts. Girlfriends are the best, I don’t know how they deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:18 PM
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Being attractive as a guy is essential regardless of age. The big myth and hypocrisy of it all is there isn’t any 40+ yr old women that want older men that lost their hair and have a gut. 20 yr olds are obviously out on you too. So you hit the gym, get hair transplant, cut sugar and alcohol. Then you’re back in with 40 yr olds. Then you’re also in with 20 yr olds just as much. Then you date the 20+ yr olds because she doesn’t want kids, marriage right away and has no baggage. Then the older wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:04 AM
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I had a gut for awhile drinking too much craft beer in mid 30s, no chick wanted me casually at all anymore. I got in the gym and froze the gut off with cool sculpting. Then I was back in with girls of any age. Then at 40 I lost too much hair, girls my age didn’t want me either. You think because she’s 40 she’s going to like bald guys? Nope. Then I got a hair transplant and I was back again getting dates with girls of any age. You just got to do what it takes to stay attractive and age doesn’t ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:36 AM
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I’m in my mid 40s and my gf is 20 years younger and it’s not a big deal to anyone. Except it annoys my exwife I assume. Getting dates with girls in early 20s is easier than getting girls my age. The girls I date are very hot too, type of girls everyone wants. The big requirement is you need to be fit and attractive. Which most guys by mid 40s don’t hold it together enough or look too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:02 AM
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You’re going to have to evaluate how much she’s into you. Is she independent or does she rely on you financially? How often does she initiate sex? Is she sweet to you? Do you think she goes out and cheats on you? These things are really hard for men to face and evaluate. You could be the same age, be better looking, and make more than her and you might have a girl that still dogs you behind your back. Then she might have a man 40 years older and is obsessed with him. What’s this subs fascination…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:56 PM
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I struggle with this a lot, I would say a lot of men have some obvious big sign of undesirability that they have to resolve. Then other things they can work on. Then you can work on an instagram that can help you immensely get dates online. Some guys got big guts, crooked teeth, dress poorly, look weak, slouch, bad with conversation, too nervous. There’s one thing about you that’s preventing women from having sexual interest. These are fixable things to get over a bump. However, what do you do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:45 PM
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Women only willing to casually date men with endless dating options, can get sex commitment super easy anytime they want, is the big quagmire for modern dating women. Landing a guy to make all your friends jealous that you wrangled a very slutty desirable man is their actual goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:43 PM
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If you’re in this situation and you can just get another tinder date tomorrow, you don’t even sweat a decision and just let her go. If you think she’s hot and have to have her despite the voice, you see if she will just come to your place the next date. If she won’t and wants to be taken out again, she don’t want you bad enough and you move on. Most guys if she’s attractive or they haven’t got laid in awhile, will literally say whatever they think a girl needs to hear to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:02 PM
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If I was Louie I wouldn’t acknowledge his existence. He handled it in the worst way that’s why it’s cringe and funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:51 PM
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Women get horny af. I had a friend that women thought was so hot, and he would just be outside the club talk to a girl for 20 seconds, and she would go right home with him. He was a master at online dating too, always had girls on his jock like crazy. If he decided on a girl 80% of the time she was his sex slave basically immediately. He was all romantic acting, his game annoyed me. Having a hot guy friend kinda sucks, he always getting the cute one in the group, every single time. You just don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:45 PM
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If you got romantic interest and lust for girls you would know better. The likelihood that a girl that desires you and will sleep with you in a few hours of meeting is very high, I’ve been on 160 dates it’s 70% of them. There was a confirmed 6’3” Chad on here that said 95% of girls have sex with him the first date. I know other guys better with girls than me, sex is like water to them. There’s more than half of guys that have little interest in randomly doing women they don’t know. For women tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:34 PM
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Your dick is more smelly than it would be circumcised, just own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:29 PM
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Women are more sexually inclined than men, this has been rightfully widely accepted throughout most of history. It’s guys 16-24 that are loaded with testosterone, over fascinated by sex and porn, and can’t get it often enough, along with a few studies on Google perpetrating this myth. Girls love sex, most want it 5-12 times a week for a half hour to hour of affection. They just more picky with men because they can be. They also willingly get into relationships with guys they don’t lust for. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:39 PM
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Part of your dick covered in a pocket collecting smell, pee, and drainage after you come. It’s worse than an armpit because it’s not aerated at all. If you can’t understand why uncircumcised dicks smell you are in total denial on many different levels. Go outside on a walk on a balmy 80+ degree day, it’s going to stink in there quite bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:24 PM
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There’s so many other ways to handle it. How he acts would turn off 99% of women. This is why older guys aren’t attractive they are weak, you have to act strong or be strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:18 PM
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Girlfriends while uncircumcised explained it. You got a smelly uncircumcised dick, just own it. Saying your uncircumcised dick doesn’t smell is worse and more unlikely than saying your armpits without antiperspirant doesn’t smell. It’s a whole pocket that collects sweat and pee. It stinks you’re an insane person for thinking it doesn’t. You’ve never had women tell you the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:13 PM
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It does it’s a sweaty pocket. You can’t do anything to stop it. Your dick smells after a few hours of showering, it’s worse than an armpit, much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:58 PM
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I’ve had an uncircumcised and circumcised dick you moron. I shower twice a day since I was 12. Go wash your dick, then go outside and walk for 15 minutes. Poof you got uncircumcised smelly dick, there’s no way you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:21 PM
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If your friends are incels they try and mess it up with girls because they can’t get girls. Then if your friends are players they will try to have sex with all women before you do. It’s hard to find proper supportive wing men that are on the same page and can handle rejection. Unless you have guy roommates I don’t know how people are alone that much. I always have a girlfriend or small harem of girls to keep me company. My friends only want to hang maybe once a week, that’s not enough human inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:15 PM
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If you say women should just accept the smell and how sex is going to feel painful sometimes getting bjs and pounding when you’re young and it changes over time, then okay. American girls still greatly prefer circumcised non smelly penises. So you’re always going to fight that fact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:08 PM
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You have to better casually blow him off, the way he acted would make every girl cringe so hard. He ends up begging him not to fight, makes you look pathetic and weak to women. How’s she supposed to feel protected when that’s how you handle confrontation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:05 PM
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Perhaps over time you get used to how sensitive it feels during blowjobs and sex. At 17 I was like dang this is too intense feeling to even perform properly. I couldn’t stop the sweat and juices that formed and it always smelled too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:00 PM
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You can satisfy American women better with circumcised, they like the look of it too and call the others elephant trunks or worms. They also hate all smells and it’s gonna smell. You can also more easily last longer with circumcised. It’s hard to explain how you can better dominate her with your dick circumcised if it’s overly sensitive she reacts differently. Dicks should be allowed to stink and be more sensitive, American women are not accustomed to that so they don’t like it. Then you do it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:58 PM
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It’s super sensitive, I don’t see uncircumcised porn actors able to pound around holes and get the intense suck. I wasn’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:53 PM
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American girls greatly prefer you not to smell at all anywhere down there. Majority also prefer rough sex (at least through part of it) and being dominant with your body and dick. I see guys in porn and even the professional uncircumcised ones handle sex differently that would be opposed to the American girls’ learned preferences with circumcised. I think guys dicks should be allowed to smell most girls do some. Girls liking rough sex is a dominant behavior that they learn by experiencing circum…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:46 PM
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Yes they want to suck the head but it’s too painful that much direct mouth contact. Also, unless you’re straight out of shower after a multi minute specific cleaning it’s going to stink and she will hate the odor. Sex is better and you’re cleaner after being circumcised. You do take away sensitivity but I also last longer now too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:38 PM
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Now we got women chiming in about how much they know about uncircumcised circumcised differences wow. I didn’t have a condition it’s just very sensitive, you can’t go roughly entering holes or you’re going to scream and possibly tear. Also, your d is going to stink no matter what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:36 PM
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I was almost 18 when I did it. People want to act like you just lose feeling and it’s all a net negative and it’s mutilation. You can pull back and wash all you want, your dick is going to smell in a few hours. Girls are not excited to blow uncircumcised dicks in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:34 PM
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You have to be careful entering the vagina too. Intense throat jobs are out, anything hits it you’re prob going to rip through. Also, keeping your dick from not smelling after a few hours from the shower is basically impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:31 PM
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You got it, it just smells like your dick. Those sweaty juices that collect under there, that’s the smell of your dick. You don’t have that after you’re circumcised. Also rough sex is painful, so if you’re girl likes it rough sometimes like most girls do, you’re limited and scared of tearing and it’s too sensitive there. You don’t know what you don’t know between not and having it done.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:27 PM
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Only on Reddit can you be downvoted like crazy and ridiculed for explaining the experience of being uncircumcised and after. It’s way more sensitive to the point it affects sex, you’re also going to drive yourself crazy and be subconscious trying to get it under there to not smell at all. I had no medical conditions, you just haven’t openly talked to a guy that has experienced both later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:25 PM
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That skin is super sensitive and the peel back skin can tear if you’re being too rough. I’ve been both and I like being circumcised way more. Also, people think hygiene is so easy with it, it’s not at all, it’s a big pain. Now that people are expected not to smell, it’s going to smell some.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:21 PM
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It’s not, urologist said I was normal be for it. It’s nearly impossible to understand the difference between things when you don’t experience both. If you watch porn with both you’ll notice the uncircumcised man is acting way less aggressive. It’s because you can’t go slamming it places, it hurts too bad. Which nearly every girl at certain parts of sex likes it rough, you’re not capable of being like that without screaming. Any intensity throating of a girl is also out of the question, so gawk 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:18 PM
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Gay men are happy go lucky, lesbians are dicks. They apparently commit more crime than straight women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:14 PM
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What? Men commit more crime than women? You don’t say. They commit way more crime than straight women. They’re also mean to people and especially men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:06 PM
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I’m the rare guy that had a circumcision later and life and can tell you the differences. Your dick stinks there’s no way to stop it and it’s painful to wash properly. Also blowjobs are too painful if she sucks the head. Then pounding away when a girl has that stretch when she wants it you risk tearing yourself. I experienced all this circumcised and not circumcised. Have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:01 PM
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Aren’t blowjobs and pounding hard when the girl asks painful? At 16 I remember it being too sensitive to be intensely passionate. Also, its ability to collect sweat in there made it impossible not to smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:57 PM
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3 weeks ago my girlfriend let a couple lesbians into a party and they took a sack and walked out with all her designer shoes and bags. I also went to a university that was nationally recognized large lesbian community. They were mean, awful to men, generally a negative shitty attitude towards society and people. Why are gay men so different from lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:55 PM
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Do you have an uncircumcised? I did until 17. Cleaning it is not as simple and not as painful as it seems, that skin is super sensitive. You’re not really that capable of satisfying a woman with rough passion like many women like it these days, it’s actually hard to just pound a girl out. Also her ability to give you oral is improved. Then your d doesn’t stink. Beating off was maybe a little better, other than that I don’t miss it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:44 PM
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Guys with lots of options are waiting for the girl that makes him weak, loves being around, or increases his social status. Guys I know that been with hundreds of girls they still pick one. You’re just not likely to be that one. There’s something about the modern dating girl in her inability to meet high value men that aren’t sluts. If he’s not on insta, his dating app profile doesn’t look amazing, and not out at parties and clubs their filters keep failing them for sluts or they are just drawn …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:39 PM
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Or you could just find another guy. If he isn’t basically asking you to be his girlfriend by the 4th he’s not that into you and thinks you’re beneath his standards. I realize women want to think guys are just players, they aren’t most all guys with lots of options just have fun until a girl strikes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:33 PM
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If a woman says she’s a demisexual, there’s a 110% chance she’s a closet whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:16 PM
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Women have insta and dating apps, then filter in real life by select locations and parties. They’ve paired it down to mostly all guys who are players, that’s why they say guys just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:14 PM
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Every girl knows they can settle, they enjoy sifting through players for awhile. Then it drives them insane and they have a mental breakdown in their 30s when they are alone and have no path to a family and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:56 AM
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Yea that’s the cause and effect of a lot of things and this sub. There’s not near enough handsome rich prince charmings to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:39 AM
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Chads dickmatize and get pure lust. Any guy in the top 10% of desirable guys can get laid remarkably easy as long as he’s not too picky. Casual dating market always trends up to the top guys. Girls don’t want their looksmatch or lifestylematch when dating, they go after something better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:02 PM
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Successful PUAs can also get into and maintaining relationships easier. Be passionate and maintain your masculine frame, don’t get too needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:58 PM
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Women only want to casually date the top 10% of guys, is the issue that guys don’t like. When your average woman only swipes right once in 20 times on dating apps, it’s like get real girl. Then wants to call men players who don’t want a relationships, men collectively roll their eyes at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:09 PM
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Supply and demand. Hot girls get with hot guys, and then want relationships with handsome rich men that have lifestyle and are their type. Which is usually tall, fit, white, with hair. Which that guy barely exists, and hot women are much more plentiful. When these guys exist they can have easy casual sex with as many girls as they want. Consider a large night club, there’s girls everywhere, bottle service girls, hot girls behind the bar, and a bunch of women dancing on the tables. A few hundred …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:24 PM
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People just bury themselves in the corner of what they say and never give in. I had a comment thread that stated when someone is in love they may cheat for different reasons. His reply was if the person cheats they don’t have any love for them. I explained some scenarios where the relationship is messy. He says no exceptions if they cheat they can’t love them. That’s how most online debates go, nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:16 PM
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I know scorching hot girls that struggle mightily with getting a guy to take care of them. If this woman on the tiktok gets it figured out, it’s going to take a miracle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:10 PM
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Women approach men in all sorts of ways now. It just doesn’t happen for guys unless you got it going on lookswise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:06 PM
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If you’re not within 2 points of attractiveness to her, you’re prob going to be paying a lot. If you get her at all and she’s not attracted, you’re just going to be a sugar daddy. If you’re hot in your 50s, you can get with 20 yr old girl easy no money, but you need to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:03 PM
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Women generally are more passive romantic receivers and over time tend to request sex less. However, you can find women that are the opposite. They plan dates, romantic gestures, givers in the bedroom. So if this is that important to you, get a romantic girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:57 PM
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Sound advice, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:50 AM
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Good advice, where you striking up conversations at.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:53 AM
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Guys are more likely to have harems of girls than women. Then those women would call that guy as in a relationship even know they prob aren’t exclusive. You don’t need stats, because you’re trying to figure out stats of 1/3 female single and 2/3 guys 18-30.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:39 PM
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Ha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:07 PM
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I don’t get what’s weird are there guys with obese wives that are still attracted, but actually wishes she was skinny and hot. Are there not women with tiny dick boyfriends that wish it was big, no one gets the perfect physical specimen partner, though most wish that over fat and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:58 PM
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People often don’t get what they want. I’m sure if she’s with a stubby bald man, her type is still tall and muscular physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:46 PM
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What’s a specific attraction point? If your tall muscles masculine strong jaw hunter eyes and got hella lifestyle the only reason you’re not every girls “type” is you might intimidate them or know there’s no chance at exclusivity. Men generally only got 2 types, skinny or slim thick or both. Women got one type.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:37 PM
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Does any long term simping work for a guy. Like by the 9th week of acting like a simp does she ever give in? Simping can be an obvious submissive sign of availability, you don’t want that, but it does it occasionally work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:30 PM
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Being the adorer can be taxing mentally. You feel insecure about how much less does your partner love you. This can get so bad that the one being adored is fine being with them, but doesn’t love the adorer at all. They do enjoy the adorers love, they know they will always be there for them. I’ve been the adored and adorer they have positive and negatives. My current gf is I’m being adored, you push them away a lot and it feels bad in a way. Also, women can be super hot and want to be the adorer.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:26 PM
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The guy they are currently sharing with other women they are in a relationship with, they are just open to other options because he won’t commit. If you can figure out online dating or you’re very handsome sex with women flows like water. They don’t want to give it all up for one girl exclusively. That and young women have more are more likely to date older men. It’s funny how women will not openly share this information that we all know is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:13 PM
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Sharing guys and women more likely to date older.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:10 PM
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Options skew to the top for men in the single and dating world. If guys care about dating, then they already know the top 5-10% of guys get as much sex, from as many women as they want. Tech made it much easier for them, they can just swipe and talk to girls on insta without leaving the house. Then women only go for their top options. They say all guys just want is sex, while 80% of guys are waiting for the dating scraps to fall down to them occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:08 PM
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Only a woman can read these stats and possibly conclude that more women prefer to be single is the reason. I’ve flipped through this and at least 8 women made this claim. A real head scratcher, so they are in a relationship with themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:03 PM
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Girls are sharing guys and they date over 30 quite often. Guys in 20s are more likely to not want to be in a relationship especially 18-23.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:00 PM
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It’s skewed because it’s 18-30. Young men are very unlikely to be in a relationship, plus he can’t say if she’s 17. Then there’s a large percentage of women 26+ got a boyfriend who’s 30+. That’s not the other away around. Also, there’s a lot of women that regularly see a guy that isn’t exclusive, they call it a relationship and the man wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:56 PM
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Wow you’re BP with that talk? Dating women often find themselves with multiple men at the same time. They are dating what do you think is going to happen. Most all men can’t have harems of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:53 PM
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All women I know prefer to split is a hilarious take.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:49 PM
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I’ve tried to catch feelings for party lifestyle girls and like to date around, not my wisest choice. If HawkTua represents what guys want, be careful what you wish for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:37 AM
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Whether she is Ugly/Mid/Gorgeous women are not necessarily more moral or loyal based upon their beauty. A 3/10 girl can be your downfall and cheat at the same rate as a 9/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:24 AM
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Most men want? HawkTua girl is the prime example of what’s wrong with dating women. I don’t think most listened to the whole interview. She was asked how many guys in your roster? HawkTua replied, “idk 7 guys, but pookie you’re the one!” She talks like spitting on guys cocks is a regular occurrence because it is. She’s a female player. HawkTua is a clubber and dating girl, she’s clearly very promiscuous. These are the types of girls that are common you will meet in nightclubs/bars/dating apps. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:13 AM
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I’ve often pondered how many single women 22-35 yrs old, have gone on a date with a man they barely knew in the last 6 weeks. 3% 5%, 10%, 15%? I have no idea, where’s the stat on that. The point being casual dating is not normal ongoing behavior. Casual dating is often talked about because it can be exciting. Eventually going out with the girl at work and marrying her is a common story. The guys who cycle through harems of girls and cherry pick their favorite one seems fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:04 AM
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Think so. The good/bad side of this ppd sub is red pillers often reference the casual dating market. People explain some of your experience, dating opinions, or how you feel girls act while they are casually dating. Then some woman pipes in with comment and says not EVERY girl, it’s just my cat and I last 7 years and I’m perfectly happy. I say I’m sure you are and this has no reference to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:53 AM
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I read a stat that 20% of long term relationships are from online dating. Dating apps are mainly a meat market, hookups, visceral sexual reaction, dating for dreams of a dream man. They act more like a nightclub than real life. Half or more of people under 30 have not partaked in casual dating with people they don’t know, or hookup culture. The large majority of people will find their person at work, social circles, outside of the casual dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:33 AM
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We refer a lot of variations of 80/20 rule with women. The study of women finding 80% of men’s faces “less than attractive.” Dating apps are a great example because it fully encapsulates dating people. For dating apps which I think are a reflection of the casual dating market: - Top 1% of guys, dates and reliable hookups off dating apps, nearly whenever they want from attractive women. - Top 1-5% of guys, dates and hookups whenever they want, but the attractiveness level of women varies - Top 5-…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:06 AM
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I think girls are becoming less disillusioned by social media and dating apps. I feel like I hit dating apps right when they got hot in 2015 and everyone was jumping on them. Women were so much more engaging, they would just show up at your house, and go on a date. Hooking up was just default, I had stretches of 10+ girls in a row a couple times. Now women realize they weren’t all going to marry rich surgeons. They’ve come back to reality and are much more open with meeting men in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:52 PM
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Yea I’ve met my girls online dating, bars, parties, and concerts. I’m skewed by girls in areas where they are way more likely ti be promiscuous than your average girl. If she’s sitting across from you on a date, odds are she’s in a hoe phase. I’m fine with it, if I took out girls and most didn’t hook up or at least make out, I wouldn’t even want to go. I don’t like meeting people that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:43 PM
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My default reaction to most girls is they’ve gone through a hoe phase or 2 or probably 3. They break up with a guy and get sad, they run into other men’s arms so easy. If she told me the truth, I’d be fine with it. I’ve had so many hot girlfriends and I’ve gathered that every single one on them has been in some form of the sex industry. I just accept that girls do guys. If she starts doing another guy while she’s with me I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:27 PM
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Some girls just push your buttons and you will bend over backwards for them. She may not even be as attractive girl as you usually get, something about her strikes you. If I was a girl I’d hope I could be with that guy that’s crazy about me and be happy. Attraction for women doesn’t often end up like that, they get chasing over difficult men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:18 PM
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The move is to get them going to point to say they want sex and tell them no. Half will just pin you down and do it anyway, or give you a great bj.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:11 PM
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I’ve wanted to do this so bad prob a dozen times, good work. Some chicks are getting over an ex or she already got 3 dudes and hung up on one, and brings straight attitude to your date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:03 PM
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You may not get insane level lust a Chad can bring out of a girl, but she should naturally want to get with you. If not you’re entering a relationship where she’s going to walk all over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:01 PM
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Do you guys live in a small town rumormill, are you dating your friends exes? Like what is the scenario on you know every intimate detail of her life. L Do your gfs say yea I did a blowbang at a swinger party while another guy did me up the ass, hope you’re okay with that. When I met you I was actually doing 3 other guys, and you’re the one who didn’t ghost me so you just ended up being default. Who gives there girl they dating truth serum to admit these things and give you truthful body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:55 PM
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You don’t have to f, but she’s going to think there’s no spark between you if she didn’t end up in your bed. Girls get bored easy, got to make your move.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:43 PM
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I’m just giving advice to not get played by girls, if they are dating, they hook up. My friends and I are at 70-80% first date hookup. There was a guy on here that showed his dating profile and he’s this tall Chad. I asked what percent of 1st dates come over to your place? He said 95% of girls hookup with him first date. If she’s attracted, she will chase you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:12 PM
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You take her to a fancy restaurant and you don’t know her, she will think you’re a desperate schmuck. Make her come to a place across the street from you. Go to place most dishes $16. Cocktails and wine $10. That’s $40 for her. Otherwise you’re going to a nice cocktail place where it’s $15 a drink and she gets 3 drinks and an appetizer and that’s $60 for her. You need to cut these dates short too, ask her over as soon as you get outside. If she doesn’t come over, you know she will for someone el…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:53 PM
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I’ve been on prob 200 first dates, you want hook up, resist the urge to sit and talk about yourself and try to impress her. Get her taking about something she wants to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:09 PM
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Why do so many guys convince themselves of this. I was on Hinge for 8 months last year. Went on prob 50 dates, matchedvwith a few thousand girls. Then I NEVER reached the end of it, going through profiles every single day. I’m in a city, but not metropolis like LA. How many girls you need on dating apps it’s endless. Most girls have used a dating app under 30. There’s hardly any girls on it according to guys that can’t barely get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:03 PM
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You don’t need a script just ask her questions and play off her. Get her talking about her life and interests. You go on for 3 minutes straight on something she will hear at least one red flag. There was this guy last night I was sitting next to at a bar and he was on an online date. This guy telling her about how great his job is and what he runs, how he went to Italy and saw so many incredible things, he started talking about how you have to live with a girl before you marry, and what he wants…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:54 PM
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Look up how many guys that make more than 6 figs that own their own home. That’s what I said, not any freaking job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:31 PM
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It is and that’s a lot of guys. You’re subconsciously ignoring most all guys completely from any sexual standpoint. Only if you know a single guy with his stuff together and he’s single will you attention, or if a hot guy passes by you’ll look. Men are largely invisible to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:03 PM
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Half the women here are trolling people they hope are incels to try and make them feel bad. Telling them it’s all your fault. Then you say no I get chicks, I just say something like girls who date, usually sleep around with guys out of their league. Then they say touch grass incel or to that point. Average ppd female reaction is just trying to troll insecure men. They don’t do any real debate or care about pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:54 PM
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Yes unless something is wrong with him physically or he has a noticeably ugly face or terrible personality. He’s top 20% prob too 10. The second guy is prob top 3%. A 666 single guy when you account no attractiveness is 0.6% of guys 20-40. Girls say that’s a starting point, they get those guys out, but usually don’t land them because that combo rarely exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:48 PM
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So you know guys that are 6ft, fit, at least fairly handsome, got nice place, car. Then you call those guys average and undesirable. Those guys can have hoes, just some don’t care about being a player and dating around. Girls are so ridic, no guy is attractive unless he’s a golden god or super rich and tall. Then they get into reality eventually and be with a so called “average” guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:42 PM
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Yea single women especially ones addicted to dating apps and gram, often fall into this idea that if they keep trying and love bombing guys out of her league eventually it will work. They’ll go years single and dating around because no guy can match their standards of the best guys she access to on apps. I think dating people and red pill guys are focused on the girls that already got hundreds of guys trying to get with them on dating apps. I don’t know how most guys operate, but unless she had …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:30 PM
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You can have harems as a top 10% guy, they do and get 5-7/10s girls. You get lucky and get an 8 and you ask her to be your girlfriend. The top 1% guys are in the 7-10 range. Top dating guys are not wasting any of their time with mid girls, and most girls are mid and below.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:10 PM
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Most guys that can be Chads aren’t. Getting a bunch of women aren’t a priority in most men’s life at any point in time. They usually could’ve gotten a bunch of girls and dated until they got a hot wife they just didn’t care. They usually settle with some girl that just wouldn’t let him go. Lot of attractive women can be like this too, they don’t barely date, not trying to love bomb anyone, not being hypergamous, just doing their thing 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:58 PM
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Everything you have is bait to get them to know and love the real you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:54 PM
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Guys do coffee dates, people do it. Not my style. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:29 AM
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Congrats if you have very cute girls that want to go out with you then you’re def top 20%. Get some more muscles with your chub and maybe top 10% or more who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:28 AM
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I’m a dude, I’ve been on maybe 200 dates in my life. Go grocery shopping together, go out with friends, look at some art, have a drink, go bowling, grab some food, watch a movie, play video games, go to a concert. Be fun, she’s showing up. Coffee during the day does not lead to any instant satisfaction. It’s like well let’s do a feeler.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:25 AM
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Then what makes you think you’re not top 20%. Have you met your average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:23 AM
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Yes it’s of my opinion like pretty much anything people say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:18 AM
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Job, decent place, car, not fat. What else is there for top 20% you think? If you’re 6ft+ and girls check you out too then you’re prob top 2%.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:17 AM
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Any girl who has asked me on a coffee date I say I do real dates, like go to an event, or at least out for some nice cocktails. Coffee to me is bare minimum effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:14 AM
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You top 1% of any scenarios is cool, there’s a bunch of cute girls in any fun context. If you look good and fun then you can kill it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:13 AM
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It’s just a concept and what top means is subjective. You should make yourself desirable ans you can, act charming, and looksmax. Then once you have your own place and car, you’re way in the top 20% by any measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:46 AM
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Seduction and desire is a powerful force some really hot girl wants you or your wife meets some really dashing guy, you guys prob cheat. Especially if you been together 10+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:43 AM
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Lot of redpill guys know what they are talking about. Can’t get caught up on pills too much, but they help you see the angles and how to improve or change your current fate. Some guys promoting their take on red pill not so good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:42 AM
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I date for fun and there’s maybe a 5% chance we’re going to have a real relationship. Coffee dates are not that fun, I just want to do something, or have a drink, and kiss someone cute. Going to get coffee in middle of day doesn’t get the juices flowing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:20 AM
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Coffee dates mean one side doesn’t feel very strongly about the other. If you think you may want that person you go out at night together. If some girl says let’s grab coffee, she saw my dating profile, Instagram, or met me and was just meh. Have some passion in life, grabbing a coffee is lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:00 AM
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You probably lack of experience of live or never been in live because you talk about in the way a kid would. Love is messy. Sometimes love curves between 2 people happen at different times. Sometimes one person loves them and they don’t love them back. Some people are never in a monogamous relationship and they still love each other. Sometimes you’re totally in love, convinced your partner is cheating on you and you cheat on them back because you think it will relieve the hurt. There’s also a gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:56 PM
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As long as you think it’s biological possible to love someone and stick your dick in someone else without telling them beforehand then I guess we can move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:56 PM
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Don’t respect them probably. If you cheat your girl leaves and your heart splits in 2 and you can’t stop bawling. You loved her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:27 PM
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This is more of a general rule when women cheat. Guys cheating and pussy can be an addiction. These threesome guys who get left by their girlfriends are emotional wrecks begging for her to come back. If someone can leave you and express no emotion or fake emotion once, or just be manipulative after. They never loved you or fell completely out. Just because a guy cheats and has threesomes with his girlfriend doesn’t mean he doesn’t love her. There’s lots of swinger couples and people who have che…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:19 PM
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The guys love their girlfriend. They also cheat. They also have threesomes or orgies all the time with other girls. If the couple is attractive and they have a status in a party scene, it’s somehow remarkably easy for them to get girls down for threesomes with them. Sometimes the guy basically pays the girls who enter the threesomes too. I know a bunch of guys in Miami party scene that are obsessed with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:42 PM
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That’s not the ultimate desire for a guy. He wants a compliant girlfriend that will allow him to cheat, and recruit other girls for him for threesomes. I know super rich and some rich handsome party guys, this is an upfront requirement in order to be his girlfriend. Girls happily do it for them too, for awhile at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:21 PM
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I’d say nail on the head from a theoretical desire standpoint. I’d add one exception that the guy wants a real relationship and the harem on the side and shared for fun with his partner. The problem with these is it only works for awhile, and you’re going to royally screw up any real relationship that forms in the process of trying to fulfill your ultimate desires. The funny thing about this, people often try and accomplish this. They eventually find out how incredibly messy it all is. How you l…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:39 PM
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I commented this post would sound insane if it came from a man, and flat out demeaning to women. She said go ahead it’s positive and post it, so I did. After I replaced genders and read it, it sounds even worse coming from a guy than I thought it would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:52 PM
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A woman can never change genders and how insanely demeaning something comes across to men. I think she knows she wrote it to feel superior to most men. I will write a well thought out post about women should handle my rejections. Just accept it fatty, if you lose weight still no. Like what, get a grip, this post reads women are better than undesirable men. If I wrote exactly what she said but flipped genders, women would 1000% think I was a total psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:08 PM
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What do you think it’s about? Sounds like guys just accept your common rejection, I don’t want confrontation, and just walk away. Definitely don’t think showing up not being fat next time will help or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:48 PM
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Read your post again, put yourself in the shoes of a man. Then ask yourself how this remotely helps him with his prospects with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:30 PM
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You’re projecting. I’ve never seen a man embarrass a fat woman for wanting his attention. They generally act incredibly gracious that any woman would find him attractive. If a woman is being hit on a guy she doesn’t find attractive it’s the worst thing ever, and he’s a subhuman creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:11 PM
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I really enjoy women’s non helping at all diatribes about undesirable men, while affection is as available as water to women. Then half of single men are collapsed in desert without it, being told to leave women alone. The problem is with women is it’s the same fraction of guys that you are willing to lust for, that’s why we talk 80/20 and the 2 different different worlds that is. If you can show up being tall with muscles, just pick any type of woman, and as many as you want. If you’re short an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:01 PM
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What people tend to do online amid focus on extremes to make a point, that doesn’t seem like an extreme, because social media and dating apps made the top 1% of everything desirable feel normal. The buff hot guy on adavar and doing tren cycles, that’s normal now for guys who work out, girls just think eat your chicken and go to gym you get buff and big. She sees those guys all the time on insta and dating apps. The rich guy with the Porsche traveling around every other month. Has a beautiful gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:37 PM
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In long term relationships like 5-10 years women 2 things will eventually happen at some point. Romance and sex is stale. When I was married I hooked up with a couple girls in clubs on Vegas trips with guys. It feels like the night of your life. When your girl cheats it’s the same feeling and she’ll want it again. The second problem is this happens in women and why I believe they file for 80% of divorces. Over time the things her man is doing and provides she believe that will be default. If her…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:24 PM
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Nice, get Invisalign it helps. Keep in gym. Take cool pics. Tinder is hard, switch to hinge. Good luck. I’ve gone in and out of being handsome or not, it’s 2 different worlds with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:00 PM
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A single mom with young kids full time, that’s not beautiful sounds hard. If she’s below average looking, no possible way she’s getting any random guys off a dating app to pay for her babysitter and her Uber. Now she’s going to want a free meal too, guy is down $150 on this date. With an average looking single mom. She’s going to have to lay it on thick that’s she’s totally dtf to have any chance at such treatment from guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:25 PM
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Introvert 5/10 women, who don’t talk much, have a few friends. Not trying to look attractive. Don’t go out. Don't have a bunch of options at work. In 1997 that’s going to be rough time getting approached and asked out. 2024 5/10 girl open a dating app and you can have 8 dicks that week that are way better than she was going to get in 1997 in her proximity. Giving access to every guy in a 50 mile radius to dating women really warped reality for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:15 PM
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Instagram and dating apps are in the mainstream discourse. He’s just being trolling and ignorant. This sub is littered with people that dont know what it means to modern date. Want to talk about people in general with everything as opposed to single people who want to have options. Then you explain how dating works now, and to these people that I really believe never opened a dating app or went on a date in last 5 years say. Chronically online take, touch grass incel. I get girls whenever I want…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:06 PM
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You probably have male pretty privilege where objectifying and showing some passion get you instant access. At different times in my life I’ve been fat or not. Not fat and looking good from gym. If you’re handsome you can go to a bar, lock eyes for .3 secs, then come over and put your arm around her and say hi. She reciprocates you’re squeezing her butt in under a minute. Because you’re handsome you can objectify her, try that with a big gut and you’re going to get slapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:57 PM
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You’re now changing the rules to fit what you want. Now the introverted 5/10 has social circles, but occasionally gets out of her shell at bars to hookup with guys. I do get what you’re saying, but prior to 2005 I can switch my rules for the introverted 5/10 and she’s having problems, whereas a 5/10 guy who’s willing to approach is doing well. In 2024, if the 5/10 introvert girl wants dates, she’s got a phone, now she can have a date every night of her life. This is how women got so picky so fas…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:36 PM
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Did you meet OP parameters of being a 5/10? Or were you young and cute in 2002? Are very average introverted women who just go to their job and back home getting approached. She will if she has a bunch of guys at her work, otherwise not. This is where social media and dating apps can bring thousands of men to this 5/10 now if she wants to go on dates. Whereas an introverted guy will need to be top 20% at least to be able to actively date on dating apps. I don’t recall in 1999 men being so pissed…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:23 PM
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A healthy body weight is a good start. To say just be thin and you’ll age great and be attractive is a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:15 AM
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Have a nice figure, be sweet, love a guy that wants you back lots.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:14 AM
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Prior to mass establishment of social media and dating apps, nearly the same. After, basically any woman can go on as many dates as she wants. This is what men are so upset about online. It used to be some mid introverted woman with low self esteem was always available. Now those non-outgoing girls got high standards for casual dating because she exists online.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:27 AM
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Well you got it all figured out dawg, good luck when you do have kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:37 PM
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How many kids you got for how long?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:25 PM
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As a parent of 2 children now grown you can only affect your kids lives so much. Intrude too much and try to form them and you’ll prob harm their development.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:08 PM
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You’re putting a lot on parents here. How would you raise your kid to be a fbois? Watch red pill YouTube videos and be coach him to pickup chicks at the mall. You just mostly let your kids exist and help them along when you can, chances are, he will be a normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:48 PM
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Yea I think it’s great for her, and some guys get to interact with her on video it’s alright. I told her I would invest in the girl cross promotion on Twitter and OF because she already has a system proved in Snap. Then her identity as an online sex worker is everywhere though is the fear. Which I get, but to leave that much money in the table is wild, I think I would do it if I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:33 PM
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If you can find a way to get into top 10% of desirable men and you actually care about getting girls, and got passion for them dating is a riot. I’ve had 2 couple year stretches in my life, cycling harems of women and always having a new chick on your side is fun for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:09 PM
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Seems kinda predatory to lonely men, but it’s not the worst. For her, I think it’s amazing, if I was her I would expand and make 3x as much, she likes her current level of privacy with it now and I can see her point. I would not want to stop until I’m making $30k/mo that’s when you can get a real lifestyle going. She’s not even that sexual looking I would say she looks like Belle from beauty and beast is her cartoon comp.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:05 PM
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You can go to a strip club and have legit fun for 2 hours with $200, you get to talk and touch girls face to face. The only thing I think is they are scared of girls. There’s some fantasy to it, she posts her day and then you think that’s your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:15 PM
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Yea pretty down once you hit a certain point with a girl, I got 2, it’s fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:48 PM
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Women as a collective own social media and dating apps, and are trying to get men that are desirable to other women. They want better and better lives they see of other women on Instagram. They’ve tipped the scales and want to keep piling on men calling most predators and creepy. It’s not working for them, look at every report, mental issues and depression in women is skyrocketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:23 PM
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Girlbosses who own businesses and gold diggers are barely even real, it’s like saying all guys are players and fbois. It’s all made up gender internet trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:48 PM
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My gf makes $8-10k/mo talking with random guys across the world on snap. She sends nudes and video messages them. I feel sorry for the guys, why are they sending her 100s of dollars? Seems lame for them. My girl has had regular jobs and has faced near a constant sexual harassment from her bosses and other employees. She also has to sit there for 8 hours for a job. If you could just live and make simps somehow feel better for a hour a day and make 6 figures, most people would do it. I support her…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:52 PM
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Yes you have 4 arguments a year and that’s terrible for the kids, it’s just an excuse for your wife to serve you papers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:47 PM
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If you’re very cool and smooth yes, 2% of guys like this can. There are 5/10 medium looking girls out there that are pretty impressionable if you’re fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:32 PM
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Good grief you’re never going to get laid. I’ve slept with women trying to trap me, it sucks but it’s also hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:27 PM
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Not reading correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:14 PM
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No guys used to be 5’6”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:12 PM
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Women like tall so we grew 4” for them in last hundred years. Then chicks just raised the bar to over 6’ which is only 15% of guys. They just don’t want to be happy with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:35 AM
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Think about how much bigger, cleaner, well spoken, and educated guys are now than 100 years ago. Chicks don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:25 AM
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Some women online proudly announce all the time on social media they don't like fboys, old men, young losers, creepy dudes, incels, red pill, guys who ghost, guys that just want to f, guys with small p, guys who show too much emotion.... If there is any possible monolith of guy, women will say they're all creeps and want nothing to do with them. Men are so annoying, I just want to get married to my dream man that is so hyper specific he doesn't exist, so I never ever have to interact with a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:22 PM
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I used to go on dates with young women in their 20s all the time, and 70% of the time they are in my bed within a few hours of the date. My girlfriend of a year is 20 years younger than me and super hot and calls me the most handsome man in the world. Men are not a monolith. Old men are not gross, you're just taking one specific part of your life and saying that to somehow try and make guys feel bad or yourself better, doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:14 PM
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Omg you want to generalize old men like they are disgusting just to be a troll. Meanwhile you don't find 92% of young guys attractive. This older guy is hot, like as hot and buff like Thor and Captain America combined, he also lives an amazing life. Guess what, you're so freaking down, like 98% of other single girls 20+ years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:29 PM
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Waiting for girls to ask you out is likely to end up in a very lonely existence. You have to get the attention of a woman, whether it be social media, bar, dating app, work etc. Then just nearly immediately after a few exchanges ask her on a date. If she's positively engaging with you decent chance. You go on the date and just get her talking and relax. Then you ask her over and make a move. At this point, you might have a girlfriend pretty quickly if you want. Next few days or that night is pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:26 PM
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A lot of younger women do find me attractive, I've picked them up at bars or anywhere. I get lots of dates from younger women 20+ years off dating apps. I'm probably not the norm, but I rarely get the vibe talking to any young girl she doesn't find me handsome. What is this thought that old guys are gross? I worked at KFC when I was 16, there was this guy in a jeep that would come through drive through he was probably in his 40s. Looked like Tom Selleck I guess. 16 year old girls were gushing ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:18 PM
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You should just like and be attracted, have a good time with life, without all the guaranteed outcomes in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:50 PM
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Men can offer so much that us guys don’t even think about with women. Some guys are connected into the elite party scene, girls will fuck guys I’m that scene to get access. Some guys got a big chest and d, she enjoys listing for him. Some guys got a great house, nice cars, and take vacations, she dreams of living the life with him. They want to feel all of this, dream, and be with all types of men. It’s a big dopamine rush, when it dies off she’s off to the next hit. Dating men is her drug, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:29 PM
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Your mind is blocking it at the moment. Some young women specifically chase guys in their 40s, but most don’t. When you meet that man in his 40s, and you’re attracted to him and he wants you just as bad. These thoughts you have will be gone or suppressed and you will want to be with him. I’m not saying older guys are better than younger guys, it’s just most women are down for any guy they feel attraction towards that reciprocates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:16 PM
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Dating apps and social media have given women a level of access to men that is 100x the options had before. What has resulted is a population of women that are addicted to the next best thing. They cannot be fully happy in any relationship because there’s so many different types of guys who can offer her all types of enjoyment. Handsome, big d, lots of social circles, great lifestyle etc. If you’re on a date with a girl in 2024, the likelihood that she’s an addicted dater is actually very high. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:12 PM
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Women see the young attractive women and feel inferior to them. They know deep down most men want the younger girl. When they see an older man with a young woman it’s a sign of their own beauty slipping away. Makes women upset and uncomfortable. For guys, they just jealous. They want a sexy young girlfriend. My gf is young and hot and I can see the pain in other men’s eyes on what you have and they don’t. If their wife catches them looking at the girl it upsets them. Guys are manipulating young …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:50 PM
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From a general perspective you’re right and some girls will never fully be happy with a man for more than a few months and they want to stray. I think the phenomenon you’re addressing is how women act like whores in the dating market. It works for years until they’ve barked up the tree and matched with every desirable guy on a dating app. After years and nothing left their self worth drops to zero. Imagine you went on 200 dates and the 50 guys you really wanted pumped and dumped you after 2 week…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:21 PM
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They’re attracted to guys with rizz and players that can toy with them and be dominant. Usually the guy is out of her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:15 PM
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Have you cycled through your own harems of girls? Hoes are a big hassle. Sleeping around starts to make you feel bad. Randomly hooking up with women gets to be too much effort than it’s worth. There are players that push through and still rack up hundreds of sexual partners. However, most guys are totally fine and enjoy being with one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:22 PM
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I’m 44 and I date lots of girls in early 20s, my current gf of a year is 24. It’s just there is more supply of available attractive women in their early 20s. Also, what you’re talking about is the opposite young women are more agreeable and easy. Way way more than 10% of girls would date an older attractive man, and the older guys are much more in demand than you are comprehending. Women who are attractive in 30s and 40s are mostly taken, have high interest in babies/marriage, and are rarer to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:12 PM
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Women have unrealistic beauty standards? Women get to be skinny or thick, have big or small butts and boobs. Be tall or very short. Wear lots of makeup to conceal face and skin issues. A woman at this point of female body acceptance, has no excuse not to be baseline attractive as long as they aren’t obese. Male beauty is super concise in comparison. Men have to be tall, fit, have hair, strong jaw, hunter eyes, look masculine. They also need horizontal symmetry and vertical facial harmony. To be …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:51 PM
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80/20 is the Pareto Principle which is the tendency for so many things to have that ratio some guy gave it a name. The origins on the dating world comes from the distribution of responses from women on OkCupid that suggested that the top 20% of men are getting 80% of the attention. This is also been done with man’s faces, they would ask women if a man’s face was attractive or less than attractive. Women rated 20% of men’s faces to be attractive. We also apply this to the dating market as a whole…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:35 PM
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Women are just more likely to cheat and leave you. If you been with same person for 10 years, and some attractive woman wants to sleep with you, the proposition is near irresistible. The feeling will be the most amazing sex you’ve ever had. Having an affair or a side chick is far superior feeling to dating. Same feeling for cheating wives, they’ll just think that rush means they don’t love their husbands anymore and want a divorce. Instead, it’s just being with someone else after being in relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:42 PM
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It’s of my perception that women don’t do the really tough jobs. They are far less likely to be homeless. They are more likely to just be moms and taken care of by men. Average women accomplish very comfortable lives in first world countries at a high percentage. Being an average guy seems lame, lot of hard work. If you get a family it’s worth it though,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:15 AM
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Girls prob better chance at relationship if they wait for sex for at least 3 dates. I think most girls go earlier because they just want that guy’s attention and their chance. Top 10% guys means the top daters. If you count every guy in the world it’s like 2% of guys. Guys who are successful active daters hook up with girls a ton, but they do usually pick one. People are addictive, if you find one you like you want to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:12 AM
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That access isn’t even that interesting for girls, if something is default it doesn’t excite you. I just think girls who are average live more comfortably than guys who are average. Maybe guys is better still. I do think above average guys would be better. I’ve not seen anything about girls that’s so great that I totally wish I was a girl. Maybe a really hot chick, but that’s too rare to ask and it’s 10 years if you’re lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:05 AM
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Guys find girls and get in relationships, just concept of dating a lot can be normal for most girls and some guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:01 AM
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Yea throughout human history the fact that women are physically weaker has been a real bummer for them. I get what you’re saying, I just think on average in todays world, the median girls and below living more comfortable lives than the median and below guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:15 AM
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Women seem to be able to skate by and do less work and take far less risk in life. Average women seem to always be living pretty decent, some guy always there to take care of one of things go bad. Seems cool to be an above average guy, but average guy working construction in the heat sounds harder than what any woman is doing. Guys fight wars in the field way more. I would say above average men live the best, get most respect, and have easiest access to real affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:57 PM
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Women are not more wonderful than men. They say they are committed and aren’t, ghost, use guys as much if not more than men. If you say you want a situationship then you can tell them. I just don’t say anything unless I’m sure of something with them. You’re not obligated to have certain feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:13 PM
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Only very marginally more likely to happen if they are the same age. Hard to get by with murder these days and if it’s your partner, you’ll always be the primary suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:07 PM
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Most experts agree monogamy wasn’t the norm in hunter gatherer time. Also, genetic mapping indicates it was generally be one guy making lots of babies with many different women. While most men did not procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:35 PM
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Absolutely on all of this. Women being recognized as more sexually inclined than men has been the norm throughout much of history. Today we’re told with “studies” on reddit women barely have a sex drive. What’s also true is most men don’t care about sleeping around. Then all women want to say is all men care about is hooking up, which I know isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:15 PM
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They definitely not untouchable, they just talk a big game. The top guys they keep be willing to do anything for and the escort work their madame friend has put them through, have wrecked their self esteem and dehumanized these girls. You get the attention of a hot girl, they want a real normal boyfriend more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:53 PM
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In my experience 6-8/10 it’s still a lot in sex industry, but it’s not like a guarantee like 8+/10. There’s people that have experience dating girls that are attractive, know a bunch of pretty girls, and most guys that don’t. You’re on with your assessments in my book of experience. So many guys are like I would never date an OF girl, or if she had a sugar daddy it’s over. I say, well you’re never gonna get a hot chick or you’re going to be in denial
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:40 PM
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This is absolutely true with dating apps and social media, the top 10% of guys have cannibalized the casual access to women in the dating market. These men enjoy frequent hookups with girls they never met, get rosters, then take their pick. My harsh reality is if you meet a girl that is pretty and is an 8+/10 that is on a dating app and instagram is either actively or has been part of the sex industry. They have been on paid dates, paid trips, had sugar daddies, only fans, been escorts it’s usua…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:12 PM
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I think your argument holds water, it’s a least a cause and effect of how we view promiscuity and threesomes between genders. Women get the award for being more pure because by default if she’s a 7+ she’d could sleep with the entire world, but usually doesn’t. When a man can sleep with the entire world easily like women, a lot of time he does hundreds of women. So by this common knowledge logic, men when they can be are usually gross sluts, and women usually aren’t. When women get known for doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:31 PM
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I’ve never heard of couples divorcing for that reason, I think subconsciously they may be thinking that sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:29 PM
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My exwife served me papers 9 years ago. I thought I was going to hate not seeing my kids. I actually like it, you have 2 different lives. Seeing them half the time makes you more excited to see them and do stuff with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:10 PM
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There’s such thing as male pretty privilege, they go up to girls or exist on a dating app. Girls often say yes I want that attractive guy. Then there’s most men that are attempting to navigate a friendzone with girls in his proximity or social circles. This is how most guys land a girlfriend. It sucks and it’s not as good as being lusted for immediately, but it sometimes works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:22 PM
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You’re discussing the active dating market of the top 10% of single men. From the women’s side, the top 30% of women who actively date are forced into casually dating the top 10% guys. Now with dating apps and social media, all the pretty girls have access to all the top single men in her area. These top guys before they choose one, they will have rosters of women and hookup a lot with girls and have fun. The girls are also having a good time being casual as well. This is not a high percentage o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:47 AM
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Orbiters are encouraged by the woman. As a guy you hate to see it because it’s so rarely going to work, but he gets something out of it, just seems lame to most guys and girls to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:34 AM
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Women care mostly about looks, money helps though in escalation, but not a ton unless it’s a billion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:10 AM
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There can be some jump at 200k and mil/yr you still need to be good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:56 AM
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That’s your list, doesn’t even seem bad. My current gf 5’7” 120, but my last was 5’5” 160 and she had big boobs and big round butt. So chubs can be great. If she’s very obese then I guess not. College degrees are debt and no guarantee of nothing. You need a cook? The last 2 in most cases are fine. My negative traits are you make no money and expect me to provide everything, those girls have no chance of a relationship with me, doesn’t matter if they are a super 10. I can afford it, I just don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:48 PM
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Your wife isn’t going to sign a prenup or likely when you got zero dollars. Also, in those situations where the guy gets rich it doesn’t hold up and gets thrown out. That happened to Dr Dre.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:59 PM
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She gets half the valuation of your business. Doesn’t matter how great your lawyer is, it’s the judge that decides what’s fair. Bezos wife got half his stock and Elon went broke living on a guys couch with same issue. You have no idea what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:55 PM
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Golddiggers aren’t real. What is real, is you get money while married, you may get a divorce. She takes half, then you have to pay huge alimony checks every month whether you’re making money or not. That happened to me and I’ve gone bankrupt twice over it. All women when divorcing are going to take as much from you as they possibly can, they won’t show any mercy, she is no longer part of your life and hopes you suffer. Women don’t even date guys they don’t like or attracted to for a long term re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:39 PM
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Don’t all women want successful guys if given the choice, some may prioritize looks a bit more. Women like fun money provides and security.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:29 PM
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I’ve had 5 ltr and none of the women cleaned, if they did it was barely. My dad was a neat freak, I’m not that bad but my girlfriends are dirty as hell and just string everything everywhere. Their cars are disaster zones and I usually have to move a bunch of stuff to get inside. Most modern young women don’t clean. I’ve never seen any of them take out the trash once, they will just pile it up to the ceiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:22 PM
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I listened to a npr podcast explaining how burkas aren’t nearly as bad as people make them out to be, and bring positivity in some ways. Then I think about the world being buried in Shein and Fashion Nova packages, every girl spending hundreds on makeup, wanting bags that cost 1000s of dollars, getting their eyelashes, lips, nails done, wearing revealing or very tight clothing everyday of their life. I think men wish we could tell women to chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:08 PM
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Yea probs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:25 PM
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It’s an excuse for women to not have to interact with short guys or ever consider them romantically. Guys don’t go around hating on short guys, we’re also getting tired of women piling on and dehumanizing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:05 AM
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That’s the way it goes sometimes. You’re so awesome, I bet girls just fall on their knees for you, or you found the first barely okay looking chick that would give you the time of day. I know I suck I’ve been cheated on, I guess I’m a clown like you say. You’re so cool dawg I wish I could be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:04 AM
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That’s prob your only relationship longer than a year. Guys get cheated on all the time, you’re a pathetic loser thinking that makes you less of a man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:55 AM
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12 years, 6 years, 4 years, last one 1.5 years I’ll keep trying, but so far you’re right I suppose. I’m kind of an asshole, but I’m a sweetheart to my partner. I’m 6’1”, lift, got green eyes, and I make a few duckets. As long as I can hold it together here some girl will have me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:43 AM
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You have no idea how to make an argument. Make an argument yourself, I already said women say a lower body count number so people don’t call her a whore or think she’s easy. Every guy and girl except yourself understands this concept by the time they are 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:44 AM
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I really don’t think you can say a sentence that makes any sense. You don’t have questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:39 AM
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Go back and read your comments and say to yourself, “I sound smart” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:33 AM
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You have no idea how to make an intelligent argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:26 AM
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What’s your longest relationship? Got to 12 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:24 AM
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Omg bro, you’re a head case. If you have social circles as a girl and everyone thinks you’re a whore it’s not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:16 AM
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You get 12 years into a relationship and 6 years into the other, then had gf living in another campus in college it happens. You think you’re going to have relationships and be together for many years and you’re drifting apart it happens. If you never got cheated on ever, you’re prob a loser or your girlfriend isn’t very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:14 AM
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Why does every girl on this sub think you’re talking to an incel? I get tons of girls and hookups when I date, cycle harems with pretty girls. My gf of past year is super hot, perfect face and body. She adores me and I love her so much. You sound so pathetic, get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:49 AM
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Being cheated on is one thing, when all they do is deny and won’t leave your house, and you try and get a court order and it’s denied because of residency laws in your own home, that’s the real shitty part. You can’t get rid of her. Because she goes out and does whatever she wants, won’t leave, then won’t let you date. That’s happened to me twice and it’s real messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:39 AM
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I’ve been cheated on 3 out of 4 long term relationships. They won’t even say they ever did, call me a liar for accusing them after catching them red handed. What’s funny is I think they believe their own denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:22 AM
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Being called a whore a metaphorical scarlet letter. Top guys don’t marry whores. All of this is insanely obvious the fact you don’t get this is likely just a trolling act.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:53 AM
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Women seem to enjoy this, then when it catches up to them they can’t understand why there might be consequences. Women are the definition of hero in their own story. A lot of men can embrace their villainous behavior. Women head to victim mode every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:46 AM
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Oh yea I forgot I’m talking to a guy that doesn’t believe women have any reason to try and hide or lie about their sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:43 AM
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If she’s at your place having sex with you all weekend words don’t have to matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:37 PM
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Who people date and end up marrying are 2 different things in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:36 PM
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Women haven’t had the hots for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:59 PM
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Like why some people have sex with a lot of people, or why humans so often lie about how many.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:54 PM
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You forgot charge they phone. My last gf was exactly that type, not my current she a good one *fingers crossed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:43 PM
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I have a gf 20 years younger than me and I never give her money. She has her own job, but she gets shelter and free food. I’ve been called betabux, sugar daddy, and just paying for sex by many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:16 PM
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This is one of those things that if you’re looking for something or notice a trend you build your own confirmation bias around it. I feel like every time I see a hot buff tall dude, he’s with a girl that’s considerably less attractive than him. All the guys I know that get the best looking girls, simply cared a lot about getting a great looking girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:01 PM
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I don’t think it’s either. My concern is that you’re concerned. I’ve been in 2 relationships long term that at 29 and 32 they just turned on me. I had a relationship like you’re saying, I thought they were hot I could make them cum like crazy, everything seemed great. One served me divorce papers and the other just moved to another state one day. They prob cheating beforehand. Im prob projecting, but your tone seems concerned. Women closely approaching 30 and little after start to feel the beaut…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:45 PM
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I just solved your logic equation, you have to carry the theta.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:28 PM
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Yea the problem with Hinge is it’s gotten so big it’s now the Zillow of single people. There are many long term dating women that are stationed there. They are “over” dating, it isn’t exciting and fun like it should be anymore to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:50 PM
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I know a girl that killed herself and part of the reason is her sister refused to talk and hang out with her, because she was being too much of a ho and having sex with her guy friends. Women’s sexual reputation means a lot to them and each other. It’s less of a deal for me than it is to them. I just kinda assume all dating women are hoes based on my dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:48 PM
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Most all women sleep with guys and only tell their bff. They might not even tell her. Women sleep around with guys big reason to try and land a relationship. If guys think she’s been doing the whole town she’s less desirable and girls may shun her because they don’t want to associate with a girl with a bad reputation. This is pretty much common knowledge by the time you’re a freshman in high school, I don’t know why I’m even explaining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:27 PM
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Girls with low esteem are more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:18 PM
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I wish there was a more effective way to guarantee or know for sure your date isn’t going to come over to make out. You want to get that kiss outside to seal the deal. If I knew she wasn’t going to come over I’d split 50/50 and never talk to her again. Sometimes you shell out the $40 for her and you get the incredible bj and it’s worth it. You guys that claim you can split the bill and still get the hookup apparently got more game than me. I don’t care about $40, I just want some affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:15 PM
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Maybe the 2 others were ugly and you don’t want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:07 PM
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It’s not her fault she maybe just can’t get me off. Sometimes there’s something about her in your subconscious that’s preventing it. I’ve broken up with girls over it, some girls can’t float your boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:06 PM
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Being called a whore and being talked about by others about how big of a whore she is. Kinda matters a lot to women, their reputation. Did you just land your spaceship to earth yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:57 PM
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No girl is allowed to say a number bigger than 20 so they rarely do. If you really know her and you’ve been friends for awhile she may go up to 40. I think if you don’t know her and she’s on a date with you, it’s prob over 30. I know way too many girls that date and they always getting dick somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:51 PM
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No just god, can you read I explained. Anybody anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:33 PM
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Girls that have dated a lot act a lot different than girls who haven’t. It’s an eliminating factor for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:32 PM
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Social repercussions and judgement from others about your behavior. I say I have a lot in short spurts in my life. Guys and girls pile on me about how much of a disgusting whore I am. I’m like dang it was 4 years of my life in 3 different times, I’m 44 now. For girls it’s worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:30 PM
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You think guys would have any strong preference for a girl that’s dated a lot of guys? Because guys never will, it’s not personal life it’s men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:24 PM
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I’ve known women that I’ve personally seen romantically with more guys than what she says. Women aren’t going to count so many times, they lie to themselves about it, that’s why stats on it are totally off. Guys overinflate or underinflate based on the scenario. Almost no girl going to give you a number greater than 20, even if it’s 200.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:18 PM
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I usually date younger or more freshly divorced women. The women that have cycled relationships or dated for too long I can’t identify with and find them less enjoyable and easy going to be around. When women think they know a lot about men because they’ve dated a lot, I can’t find a bigger turn off for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:16 PM
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Guys are less likely to lie about because less social repercussions. They still do though to varying degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:13 PM
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I’ve used Tinder, Bumble, Hinge primarily and as far as the dates, I can’t tell the difference. Some hinge girls been dating a long time and they bitter, that’s only thing I’ve noticed. Women will hookup at same rate on any other app, just bc it’s Tinder doesn’t mean she’s a sure thing. Dating apps function like an online nightclub. Who’s getting attention and who’s not is very highly skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:10 PM
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Everyone lies about their body count, don’t even ask. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:04 PM
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Women actually do hate pills, they want guys who aren’t desired by other women that much as their easy back up plan in their 30s. If every guy knows about what most women been doing during their 20s dating around with the 80/20 rule. Then they aren’t going to bend down and submit to her in her 30s when she changes gears for the betabux guys that are now more established in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:01 PM
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I work with a bunch of girls who date, my previous gfs would have her friends come over and I listened to them go off about men. I got 3 guy friends that are huge players, two now in a relationship. We talk about how much we love our girlfriends, what plans we have in the future that include them. We don’t talk crude sexually and negatively like all the women I hear. Something happened in the last 20 years, the poles switched. Men act like women, and women now act like men. It’s been quite jarri…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:46 PM
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Girls are so much fun on the first date, at least most of them. A pretty girl showing up and giving you a chance is one of the greatest luxuries. I date for fun and pick one. My girl got as hell, perfect body and face and makes 6 figures. She been with me over a year, lives with me, and absolutely adores me. What women fail to recognize is the player guys they like to chase, they do pick one for a relationship. Most guys aren’t hoes their whole lives like girls try to believe to protect their fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:34 PM
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Women don’t care how many girls that you’re dating at the same time or your perceived body count. They care about what they want and would other girls like her find him desirable. Women want to make other women jealous of what she got, desirable man is a woman’s biggest flex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:18 PM
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Tribal society isn’t this glowing shared commonwealth you make it out to be. Chief hung around and fucked all the women after they done gathering berries, while the other guys went out all day to hunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:09 PM
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I must be amazing because I’ve gone on a few hundred dates 2/3 off dating apps. 70% of girls hop in bed with me first date, and prob 25% would just instantly be my girlfriend if I asked. It’s not horrible for women to date men, what they hate about it is women can’t have the guys you really want for yourself. A guy with options is picky and wants to date around a bunch before deciding.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:05 PM
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Obviously you haven’t researched human history and how men that have gathered resources hoarded as many wives as they could. We’ve always needed laws and government intervention to stop polygamy. Lookup dating in the early agricultural era of humanity. We think average guys have it bad with women today. The guy with the land and house, it was normal for him to have 10-20 wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:00 PM
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Casual dating for a relationship is for top men only, they are the finish line guys. That’s why we discuss 80/20 rule so much on Reddit. Women don’t understand that getting to date women and receiving affection is a privilege for men, not a right like it is for women. There’s no average looking guy making $55k a year that gets dates all the time. Even fat ugly chicks are trying to swing out of their league when it comes to going on dates with people they don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:52 PM
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I’m a grower, my current gf of a year didn’t want to date me initially. I found out later the reason why after the first date in morning (we didn’t have sex yet) I got in the shower and she saw it. Freaked out and thought it was small and ghosted me. I found out from a friend of a friend she told about it. I decided to send her a dick pic and she came back over, and then she wanted to be with me. Women care about how big your dick is, all of them, a lot. It’s a big sacrifice for them to accept a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:40 PM
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That’s not it at all. What women do is sit at the finish line and fuck the winners in hopes to secure a relationship. They may also go through a ho phase or 2 where it’s about lust. For real relationships, women can’t stand the guy that’s still a project.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:32 PM
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I have a bunch of social circles with men and women. Get a group of guys and we talk about how much we want to have someone to wake up with, fall in love, have a partner in life. A girl that he was with that broke his heart. Get a group of women together, they bitching about their man oh he don’t do this and that, or this guy so rich his house so big, or this guys dating got juicy pecs and huge dick. Girls don’t sit around and talk about flowers and romance anymore at all. Women now talk about m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:24 PM
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That feeling of being in love definitely isn’t forever. My gf of year and half is madly in love with me. I will be so sad when the love potion wears off. I feel like the first few months guys are really into the sex, then it settles into more regular interest, and about how much life is better with a partner. Your point is spot on though, women have turned into what is this guy going to do for me. Sometimes just being hot is enough, most men are going to need some things going for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:15 PM
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The reason women don’t regret cheating is they already left you in their mind they just didn’t tell you yet. Then they want to be able to come back to you in case it doesn’t work out or they change their mind. Guys cheat for ego fulfillment and the experience, not usually because they want to leave their partner for someone else. This is why when women cheat the relationship is already gone and you need to cut her off completely. If you don’t, she’ll just want and try to leave you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:55 PM
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Single women with kids don’t want to date me. Once they find out I have kids they don’t even talk irl or apps, or if they want kids soon they are totally out as well. It’s funny how we only talk about single women with kids when most cases their is shared custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:31 PM
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Very late 20s is average over 30 for guys, so saying 20s is not accurate. I’m 44 and I’ve dated every age, I’m in great shape and have a full head of hair, tall, nice home, and cars. If you can you want to date women in their 20s, many of them just want love and a fun boyfriend. My current gf of over a year is 20 years younger. 30s women with or without kids don’t want me because I have 2 kids of my own already, it’s always a conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:21 PM
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The reason is men are the romantic ones now searching for love. Women have become insanely bottom line oriented with men, it’s all about themselves. If women are in their 20s it’s all what are you going to do to improve my life and social status. If it’s 30s then it’s I’m searching for a husband that will give me a baby, marriage, and share their bank accounts in under a year. If it’s 40s, they want to sell their house they got in the divorce. Take the money for them and not give any to you, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:56 PM
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I think you can simplify this analogy from 2 of the most famous people in the world. The most attractive and intelligent women are still jealous of the lives of tall, handsome, smart, and successful men. Capable men are more control of their own destiny and get more respect than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:26 AM
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Big dick, hot, tall, rich guys are in extremely short supply unfortunately for women. They either going to be taken, picky, or already got multiple gfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:18 AM
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Yea women love big dicks, they all got a story of a few huge ones too. I try not to sweat it, there’s no perfect man that exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:51 AM
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Women don’t have enough to go on with guys they don’t know on dating apps. If women are swiping right on average once in 20 times she’s constantly going to be exposed to the entitled men that aren’t likely going to end up in a real relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:34 PM
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Relationship Chad is super blue. Player Chad talks like red and black pill guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:28 PM
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College life is way easier to cold approach women, as an adult you attending an event or at a bar. If you're just walking around the world and coming up to women it's tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:30 PM
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I'm 44 and I can only take girls in their 20s seriously. Young women actually want a boyfriend. Women in their 30s and 40s expect you to change your entire life for theirs and share your bank accounts with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:24 PM
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Oh so you find it "wildly endearing" but not good enough for a date lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:22 PM
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Solid advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:21 PM
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The narrative on Reddit seems like be attractive or not. People work to be attractive and then they find ways to interact with lots of women. If you're not actively working on trying with women they have no obligation to talk to you or understand that you exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:01 PM
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Where are you socializing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:53 PM
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If you got 1 chick you’ve been with the last 3 months and it’s a girl you work with. I wouldn’t call you a dater.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:53 PM
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Definitely put too much power on the women’s side. Aside from Reddit women appear to run social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:52 PM
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I think you’re reading into the opposite of what I’m saying. This sub is gender hating, women are too picky, entitled, people just want hookups. If you have a problem with women and your dating prospects and how it’s going. Go to the gym, buy a girl a couple drinks, go to events and parties. Work on your Instagram until your dating app profile makes it look like you have a life. I’ve never met a successful dating guy in my life that doesn’t do all of these things. Guys are doing way more than ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:25 PM
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If some guy told me I’ve been dating. I asked in he said I’ve been hooking up with a girl at work. I’d say that’s not what dating is, you just have a relationship with a girl at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:16 PM
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I refuse to talk to women on dating apps. I just ask them out first message. Works far better than anything else I’ve tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:06 PM
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10 would be fine, I’m just saying if you’re move is to ask women at work if they want to go to happy hr, I wouldn’t say you’re dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:04 PM
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Because dating is for people that have made a commitment to be desirable in some way. Takes effort, women aren’t going to just come to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:01 PM
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If you meet women through class and work. I don’t think that’s dating. If all you are relying on is proximity and who’s forced to be around you, you’re highly unlikely to get more than 10 dates a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:56 PM
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A guy comes up to you and he starts stuttering, I absolutely don’t think you get turned on. I think you dated 1 guy with a speech impediment. You’re only virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:53 PM
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I hate meeting women through social circles. It’s embarrassing to ask, anything about your relationship is public to your friends, it feels limiting. I’ve only met girls at events, parties, and dating apps. If you’re not going to do that consistently, how do you even think about how girls owe you something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:51 PM
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This is what I’m saying. If you don’t want to go out to events, bars, and parties regularly. You’re also not committed to making a great dating profile, you think dating apps suck and you don’t want to buy a girl a couple drinks. Don’t expect women to give you dates very often. Especially if they don’t know you, why would they. What are you complaining about with single women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:44 PM
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I have pictures of me on vacation and at my house. It lands dates off apps and insta. When I started, I did low effort selfies and gym poses and I only got ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:39 PM
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Let’s say the guy is attractive. He don’t like bars/clubs and doesn’t want to improve his dating profile. He wants dates though, what do you tell him. If it’s hobbies be more specific. I’ve never met a guy talking about his dates that didn’t meet them at places with alcohol or dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:37 PM
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If you’re tall attractive and smart it is so freaking awesome to be a guy. You would not trade that hand for anything. If you’re an average dude, you’re better off being an average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:07 PM
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Women are obsessed with men that are hot or cute with money. Act absolutely desperate around them and have zero game. They just offer sex and cross their fingers. Dating and sex are default for most women that are barely attractive. Women aren’t going to go gaga over a bunch of random nobodies like men will. Men just have a much broader spectrum of what they like. The majority of women all want the same things in a guy. Height, fit, masculine, money, hunter eyes, speaks well, strong jaw. If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:03 PM
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I know a guy that was hot with a stutter and it was absolutely debilitating in his ability to get women. I’ve heard women complain about speech impediments and lisps more mean than short guys. I really don’t believe you on speech problems. Imperfections are endearing to most people once you know them. If you have a lot people will think you’re gross and ignore you at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:58 PM
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Have you ever had your heart broken? Love is real, it’s intense. Unless you’re under 5’2” and still live with your parents you don’t have to die alone. Don’t let theory of the last 30k years of genetics pushed by Jordan Peterson dictate thoughts in your life like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:15 PM
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Women have an innate entitlement to getting male attention and sex. If a guy can’t get laid their assumption is something is wrong with you. Girls can ghost, flake at last minute on dates, steal money from men, and feel absolute zero remorse. They just don’t want to understand male problems. Have you seen women try and make arguments on this sub? Their default response to most anything is you don’t deserve anything loser. It’s a rarity that a woman can make any intelligible point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:07 PM
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I think this has created a super entitled class of daters because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:03 PM
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Yea it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:25 PM
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I think dating apps and insta has risen the bar some. I existed before them and average guys were not getting dates and easily laid before either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:10 PM
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Slumpbusters are not doing a public service she was just a sure thing that wanted to do me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:08 PM
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I think my slump busters do just fine with men. I wanted to have sex with them, they not that bad, just considered I want a gf who’s hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:02 PM
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Sure but pretty girl is 10x more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:52 PM
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Yes, but with girls I didn’t think were disgusting, just not likely to be my girlfriend. There’s something about it that gets your swagger back when you get laid. Girls respond more positively to you, it’s prob the desperation they can smell when you’re sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:47 PM
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Been with my gf a year and half. She wants to get married, I probably still will. I don’t want to, I know she will change as my wife. I love my adoring girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:44 PM
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Sometimes you need a sure thing to get your confidence back. I think it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:29 PM
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I never want to get married again, I owned a business and had to pay alimony. Business went under year after divorce. I’ve gone bankrupt twice and the courts won’t change it. It’s 10k/mo, I’d just skip country but my kids are here. I have a girlfriend though and she’s great. Wives are different, they different when they get engaged too. Relationship is not as fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:22 PM
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For what reasons, women now have access to all the top men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:15 PM
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They book multiple dates at the same night to make sure they get a free meal. Also, every dating girl got a guy at the top of her list. If you listen to HawkTua full video she had 7 guys in her roster but said she only loved 1. If a girl flakes on you she did you a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:13 PM
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So it’s the dichotomy of select people trying very hard to be attractive, then the more than half of obese Americans that go unnoticed on social media that has caused great divide. I can tell you I went to Colombia and no one was fat, but I didn’t want 2/3 of those chicks, they looking nothing like Sofia Vergara or Shakira.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:20 AM
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Sometimes women intentionally give you performance anxiety. Or women are trying to blast a drunk guy. Get a great blowjob from a woman and try not to get hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:15 AM
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One gone back and forth with this, I think there is a natural reaction to be the sexual fantasy of people we desire. If a girl is eating your ass and throating you for one hour straight, check her pussy, it’s wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:13 AM
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Do you feel as though a 5 mid girl with nice personality but kinda dumpy body can make you happy, or would a really sexy girl always make you cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:11 AM
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You have to be able to grow up and understand there is no one person that can satisfy all desires, man or woman. Dating women who can date and have sex with whoever they want whenever they want, find it hard to make this separation. Which leads to your concept of not being a girls first choice, even if you are you won’t be later.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:09 AM
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I live in AZ since I’m tall and got a nice life, girls are always interested in me. When no girl us for over a year, some guys can go nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:06 AM
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That’s my argument, is that guys want a porn star to parade around. We blame women for their high standards, but they can actually get attention of and get taken on dates. Men are simping for women that would never talk to them without direct money sent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:03 AM
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Ted Bundy with his small frame and okay looks proves to guys how much female standards raised in 50 years. Ted Bundy was a heart throb in 70s, pulling hot sorority girls. In 2024 he’d barely get a right swipe from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:00 AM
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I’m 44 and bald af and still pulled young girls or whatever easy, went to this basically big factory for hair transplants in Turkey. Most guys getting them were in their 20s with barely a receding hairline. Girls are fucking this new guys up with unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:57 AM
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I’m think women are pre affected, much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:53 AM
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I think t hi is argument, it’s not hard for guys to want representations of desirable women and that’s existed forever. Instagram has not and how it’s distorted the female mind in what’s possible has causes irreparable damage to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:51 AM
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Who’s talking about pedos?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:50 AM
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I don’t think you can figure out these reasons based on what you’re saying, but I won’t deny the sense you had. Some girls no matter how happy they seem with you, will never be happy. They will always crave male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:49 AM
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I agree with this except I think women really enjoy sex or seem happily apparent to provide sexual fantasy. Women release oxytocin and oegasm too, I’ve seen girls dickmatized by hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:21 AM
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Girls that flake or you have sex with and ghost. If you hit them up and l they respond, things can still work out. Relationships don’t have to be a perfect fairy tale. The girl you’re talking about prob still fkn her ex or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:57 AM
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Make sense, not sure everyone sorts it out like that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:55 AM
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Women have made it a blurred line these days. Reality is art.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:54 AM
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Every woman on earth can be a pornstar, wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:47 AM
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I think instagram has done more to women psyches. I do however want a girl that could theoretically easily be in porn, but that would be applied to something else similar if porn didn’t exist. So I think you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:54 AM
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Not sure why you say it’s harmless to the experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:52 AM
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Don’t you more desire a woman that matches up to those standards after watching it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:51 AM
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Like what, 2 women have put me through the most intense situations I think humanly possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:54 PM
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I cared when I turned 20 in college and after my divorce. I do think putting yourself in player mode maximizes your chances with the women you want though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:42 PM
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For an ever growing amount of the population I think this is spot on. There are some people that appear to have lost the sense of humanity. See dating as potential lottery tickets or pleasure beings and not real people. The concept has extended to the world of friendships, people don’t want a companion they want someone who can benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:47 PM
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I think porn has expanded my selection of what types of women I can be attracted to. Having a cool fun instagram where you look attractive, means you will never be without a potential date or female attention. It’s gotten me dates of apps with so many beautiful women I never dreamed possible or so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:42 PM
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Dating people seem to largely throw out compatibility and commonalities. Personality only matters once you can satisfy what they’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:33 PM
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Porn has influenced how dating girls have sex. They want to be that submissive and lustful aggressive fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:18 PM
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How does bpd affect that? My last 2 gfs were diagnosed with bpd so just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:14 PM
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I think this is big part of what is causing the men’s contention with women online. Although it’s only single dating attractive women that have access to the top men. Those are the ones every guy is vying for. However, these attractive women can now shoot to the top of the male hierarchy. Set that standard for themselves from a man since they can get those guys on dates now easily. Doesn’t often work out in a real relationship for them, but women keep trying with the best guys they can get the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:01 PM
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Both genders being able to make these constant comparisons make even great choices difficult. Do you want an attractive boyfriend or successful? Do you want a slim or more thick girl. Big butt, breasts, or both? Then the people that can supply the beauty and lifestyle are trying to pull the strings to get a better result. They end up unhappy themselves constantly comparing to unrealistic expectations of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:57 PM
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I think for women they get a sense of the different types of desirable men and what they provide the select acquaintances she follows on instagram. All the girls that don’t leverage a man to flex on socials in some way are irrelevant. She wants what “that” girl has. Then she has access to effectively every available man to provide what she wants in her life. Sometimes that’s muscles and height, perhaps trips, or better social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:47 PM
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Dating girls for most part act in the way single guys wish they could. I've been on 160 dates and slept with over a 100 the first date. If you make it to the 3rd date it's 90% chance she stays the night. If she's on a dating app, single posting on insta, or you meet her at a bar, the likelihood that she's hooking up with one or multiple men at the same time is very high. Picking up women and hooking up is easier than ever with dating apps. You can swipe, tell a girl to show up across the street …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:32 PM
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There’s a dating world of the 7+/10 sexy girl that most average guys have trouble wrapping their head around. You try and tell them, and they say that’s just whores or chronically online take. I say no this is just your average going out and dating cute girl. A cute girl with an appealing body can have any guy she wants casually, and acts upon it regularly. Guys who can land dates or pickup women are prolific in their ability. There is a small pool of desirable men in any 30 mile radius, that ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:03 PM
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I’m prob a 7/10 I dangle free place to stay and free food as implied by girls I date. I get basically the hottest chicks with that on the table. If I had to split bills, I’d only get women 7/10 tops and it would be hard. A man that can offer some form of social or financial benefit makes things much easier in picking up pretty girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:52 PM
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Women have never in the history of time got with average men casually. Too much risk and they aren’t instantly attracted to them anyway. Women always have if he’s a desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:48 PM
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Women in their early 20s are a lot more easy and more fun to be around. The appeal of having a girlfriend that just wants a boyfriend with grand life expectations quickly of marriage and kids, no baggage, more flexible. I’m 44 and I date girls 18-24 years younger generally. I got kids already and don’t want marriage. Younger women are into older men if you are fit and not bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:45 PM
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Delta working class not very intelligent and live basic routine lives. Gammas think they are alphas, but are losers. Omega is a social misfit. These are the categories of men that no cute respectable girl would casually want, unless they were very attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:30 PM
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Alpha beta delta gamma omega sigma I think is the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:09 PM
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It’s as bollocks as any personality type philosophy. If you read through the detail of it, you will pin the different types to people you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:03 PM
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Simping is considered a beta quality though, this is where being alpha all the time may prevent your ability for women to want to form a real relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:47 PM
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There’s 2 ways to land girls out of your league lookswise, you’re connected to social networks with cool people. The other is you offer women a free place to stay and take her on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:42 PM
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Men absolutely know way more about landing women than women know themselves, women focus on the softer reasons. They don’t consciously think, I want this man bc I think he could easily get with all my friends. If she subconsciously knows you can, that will turn her on. I consider myself an expert at landing women. If I cared to I could get 100+ women into my bed in a year. I can just choose the type of girl I want of any age and get them. No one thinks I’m hot either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:39 PM
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If you act “alpha” women are drawn to those types of men. If you’re “sigma” you go in and out of different social circles and are a lone wolf, girls like those types to. If you’re a beta you are in a situation of trickle down economics with career serving alphas and women associated with the alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:33 PM
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Cool counterpoint, it’s not, if the pretty girl you’re trying to get sees you with a fat/ugly girl it’s over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:21 PM
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You can just get a live in girlfriend, it’s better than marriage in many ways and you get all the same benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:12 PM
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Everyone is all based on their current situation or scenario they are in. Most guys are deltas and gammas, no girl randomly lusts for those types, so no guy identifies with it. Betas are on the second highest strata behind alpha in social hierarchy. They usually get girls, but the alpha of the group will usually get the best looking women or is most successful, so guys dont want to be beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:07 PM
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Some simping is fine as long as the girl lusts for you and desires to be your girlfriend. When we define simps it’s guys that treat girls so well or give them time or money and they don’t want him back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:02 PM
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Girls want guys that act both alpha and beta. Unless you’re very hot, if you’re just all alpha you’re not going to be seen as boyfriend material.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:59 PM
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Women are repulsed by any man that can’t land any decent looking women. Then if she catches you with a fat girl, she will know she’s above you and will never see you as a viable option. The opposite is true as well, if you have a beautiful girlfriend other women will see her and desire you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:47 PM
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It’s better than being alone for guys. For girls getting ghosted and used seems to affect them mentally, women can get depression from too many men that mainly only want them for their body. I’ve known girls that get the top flight guys 6’3” muscled chads and handsome men with Ferraris. I say if you were a guy getting the hottest girls he would be happy, not moping around he can’t land the most desirable men possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:43 PM
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My exwife didn’t want me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:31 PM
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If you go through too many random hookups and fwb in a row it still hurts as a guy when you know they don’t want to be your girlfriend. When this happens to girls it feels worse, but guys can feel like they aren’t good enough to benefit her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:29 PM
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If you go through too many random hookups and fwb in a row it still hurts as a guy when you know they don’t want to be your girlfriend. When this happens to girls it feels worse, but guys can feel like they aren’t good enough to benefit her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:29 PM
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It’s not really social skills it’s what is the result of it, do you leverage social networks to improve your life. Same with money, it’s what your doing with it, if you’re just reinvesting you’re not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:53 PM
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My gf is 20 years younger than me, no one cares. The girls that care understand why I would want a hot young skinny girlfriend, it’s not really an issue. My last gf of 4 years was 16 years younger big booty Latina looked Salma Hayek, we got treated great everywhere. If you can get young gfs the only one who will care is your exwife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:42 AM
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I’ve known 4 girls that read this book, 1 got a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:36 AM
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The only reason someone would identify as a blue piller is because they are aware of other pills and want to trigger red and black pill people. Blue pillers in here rarely have an argument, they just want to say you’re angry and lonely without knowing you, esp women on here. Bluepill men as described by red pill are feminist supporters. They say nice things about women that put them in a good light.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:09 PM
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I know hot guys that can go to club and pickup girls, but can’t figure out dating apps for some reason. You’re probably in the top 10%, just ask girls you want of your matches out immediately. It’ll work out, just keep improving your pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:06 PM
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Yea there’s something about them that just don’t hit with any women. They tall, fairly handsome, successful, speak well, social. No hoes, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:00 PM
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Welcome to the world of being a top 20% man trying to land a top 20% woman, who can easily get dates and have sex with all the men that exist. I end up in dating app top picks and get roses and super likes from girls on apps. I could have thousands of matches. Landing a desirable, no baggage, independent woman is not easy for any guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:58 PM
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2 of they guys I went out with for 4 years in college. They made out with one very drunk girl in 4 years. They literally just stand there and no girl wants them. They seem handsome, tall, fit, smart. They are actually sweethearts I’m the asshole, I pull girls easily they can’t. No one says I’m hot and they aren’t, women just respond sexually to me. It’s why rizz is an internet topic, some guys have it and some don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:25 PM
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You said some women hate you and some women adore you, saying all women give you some form of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:16 PM
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The opposite of love is not hate it’s ambivalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:10 PM
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People say a simple response that will receive praise and reddit karma, avoiding downvotes. Explaining why a 666 fit man has been single for 10 years is rarely due to their personality. Some guys can’t get fat or ugly girls even though they seem fine, going lower won’t help them. Lot of guys out there got no rizz, no girl wants to get with them. Similar thing can happen with girls too, 2 girls can be same lookswise, but one girl is not sexual looking to men and the other has something desirable …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:00 PM
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Women’s standards simply comes down to would other girls like her want to have you. If she can flex her man, and has to protect you from being stolen from other women, then you are a dream man to her. There’s only so many guys like this available, so dating women all end up hooking up with the same small group of guys in a city radius. This is why, “are we dating the same guy” groups exist. Some guys go on hundreds of dates and hookup with most of them the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:45 PM
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You don’t have to pay them, you just bring them along what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:18 AM
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She looks like Lana Rhoades but younger and hotter. I’ve dated 2 of the hottest local real fashion models that go to Paris and NY fashion week. Not nearly as hot as her. I’ve dated other girls hotter than young models and they just like super models but better looking, models aren’t the best looking anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:59 AM
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Yea that’s point, many different ways to consider than just looks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:48 AM
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If she likes you she did you a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:47 AM
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This is truly a glass half full lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:40 AM
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Lie about your age, you’re 36. No one is going to care except maybe women 29-35.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:39 AM
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I live in a city and if I cared to I could hookup with around 100 7+/10 girls 20-25 in a year. 20 of them would be 9+. I never give any girlfriend cash, they just want to live life with you. They pay for all their stuff except shelter and food. I’m not saying that isn’t a lot, but I’m paying for it now anyway just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:04 AM
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There’s hooking up in high school game, college, and the majority of your life as an adult. If you’re a high functioning handsome adult man, getting girls in your bed is too easy. Partly the reason is the lack of social network. If you don’t share any mutual friends, the chances of you getting laid first date is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:54 AM
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Wait until they find out average men have never got casual sex or dates from attractive fertile women in the history of civilization. Self improvement and good career can greatly help your prospects for potential long term relationships. Hooking up is for desirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:51 AM
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You should send me your dating profile. If you make a mil/yr you just need to be 5’8” and not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:27 AM
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In college it doesn’t matter unless you’re in medical school. I’ve gotten three times as much casual sex out of college, dating girls are easier than college chicks. The moment she leaves college, having a nice place, car, and expendable income will instantly give you 2 points on attractiveness scale to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:26 AM
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Let me explain something to you that is 99.999% true. Once your mortgage is $8k/mo. No matter how hard you try, no matter how much she has in the bank, no matter how much she makes, and how ugly and fat she is. She will NEVER move and split 50/50 of your house bills with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:20 AM
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I don’t begrudge single moms not wanting guys with young kids, it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:06 AM
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I’m 44, same. It’s easier to get hot 20 yr olds for me than cute girls with kids in their 30s. If you’re in your 40s, fit, and not bald you’re likely an 8/10 by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:31 AM
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Totalitarianism is going to be conservative in most cases. Saying right winger like they are republicans is a stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:29 AM
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If it was that it would be much more valid than it is now. I’m to the point now I think they should take away our rights to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:27 AM
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There is an actual libertarian party. There will be a libertarian presidential candidate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:24 AM
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Girls are super picky on them, they only swipe right once in 20 times and then can’t figure out why guys just want sex. It’s like you refuse to give a guy in your league a chance, that’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:13 AM
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If you’re a Jewish chick into politics and into the Jewish community I’m sure she just walks out from a guy that says anything positive about nazis. Some girl that’s just Jewish and doesn’t think about politics and this hot guy seems generally into her, I don’t think any political party affiliation is going to make any difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:02 AM
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Democrats and republicans are largely the same it won’t matter. The only difference is Trump is an internet troll and acts like he talks tough with our allies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:59 AM
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He’s likely to be elected twice. I’m not going to vote for him, but who I think are pathetic are people like you that cant understand why people vote for Trump. The around 70 million Americans that will likely vote for him are all fucking idiots and you’re the smart one right? Sad. Biden has 3/4 of his brain gone to dementia, oh yea that’s way better than Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:54 AM
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6/10 girl got too many options to date much lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:50 AM
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He’s on a date with a Jewish chick, he just likes totalitarianism and far right viewpoints. He doesn’t march with nazis who promote genocide of jewish people. Not a violent nazi or swaztika tattoo. He’s hot though, and he can get Jewish chicks who don’t know much about politics, they may think it’s edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:48 AM
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He can form a coherent sentence, he can run a global business, he can look tough after getting shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:40 AM
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If he lets that chick stay at his place and she can eat the food in his fridge. That hot chick would happily suck his dick every single day. She wants him, guys want more than looks, they want lifestyle. If you want to call a free place to stay paying for sex, then you’re probably never going to get a chick out of your league lookswise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:37 AM
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Bro cmon, if you’re handsome, fit, and tall and got a nice place. You could tell a woman you’re a nazi and a Jewish chick will still have sex with you and think she can change you. Women aren’t going to disqualify guys that are catches based on their political beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:33 AM
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Have you had a political argument with women? It’s either about abortion, pay gap, or some wild conspiracy theory they heard on TikTok. I’m not sure why we allowed women to vote, they don’t seem to care about any real issues or anything geopolitical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:30 AM
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That’s my point, most women have no idea that it’s more the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:27 AM
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I’ve never experienced political arguments in 6 ltrs and going on 160 dates. I could see it happening, Ive lost some guy friends over politics. Couple friends had Trump derangement syndrome. I would just say I didn’t vote for Trump but he doesn’t bother me, they said that meant I support him and we stopped talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:26 AM
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95% of women don’t even know what libertarian means. I think they just assumed I was a democrat because it kinda sounds like liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:22 AM
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I was hanging at a friend of friend place, this guy late 40s, at least 30lbs overweight. Nothing special, but not ugly. He had an 8 million dollar house. This girl who’s at least a 9, 24 yrs old, legitimately wanted him. If you living nice lifestyle as a guy, batting out of your league is cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:19 AM
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Politics is near completely irrelevant to 90% of people when it comes to a relationship. It’s rarely brought up. When it is, no girl cares that I’m a libertarian at all, not once.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:51 AM
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Everyone on this sub says dating sucks so bad, even women. So what would it take to get consistent dates with 6+/10 people? Dating can’t be horrible if you’re landing dates with desirable people. Seems like based on responses not that much. Also, women need to be more attractive than is usually stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:46 AM
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6/10 looks is an excellent starting point as a guy with his own house and car. Take a girl that is annoyed at her roommate or wants out of her parents house. Dangle free rent and free food, you can pull 8/10 hot girls. I know this works because that’s what I do, I think I’m a 7 (6ft, fit, fairly handsome) and I date 9s. This will not work for guys 4/10. You need to be fairly handsome 6/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:34 AM
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The big problem I’ve found is women with kids don’t want to date guys who have young kids. Then women who want kids sooner than later really don’t want to date guys with kids under 13. When you’re dating as a guy with kids your choices are women under 25 and women 38+ with older children. Otherwise, they don’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:22 AM
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I have a cool Instagram with trips and me doing fun things I attach to my dating app profile. I also have a picture with my shirt off girls like, selling skin always works. If your online persona is well crafted and desirable. You can go on endless dates with cute chicks anytime you want. and hookup usually first date. I have a girlfriend the last year, I’ll just go on a bunch of dates, cycle a small harem, and pick one. If I didn’t do dating apps, I also can pickup girls at bars at restaurants …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:12 AM
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6/10 desirablity scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:49 PM
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As long as some women would call him an 8/10 and he’s working social circles, then perhaps. Players who can pick up random women, get dates online with cute girls are almost always 8+/10. If a guy was 6/10 and wanted to be a player he’s going to have to network, I haven’t seen cold approach work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:43 PM
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You can also just go to a cocktail bar and pay for a couple drinks. I always take women out on a dining date for first date if I don’t know her. For the 1/3 of dates that don’t come back to my place after, I’ve never gone on a 2nd date with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:38 PM
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I subscribe to 80/20 it’s pretty good for 20% of guys. Can be great for the top 5% of dating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:35 PM
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The biggest disparity of looks in relationships I’ve ever seen has been Christian couples. Guys can bat way out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:34 PM
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I’m going agree with you for sure. That’s always my experience. Everyone advice is like go find a hobby if they can’t get dates. I always say, go to a church with a bunch of single women and hope you’re one of the better looking ones there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:30 PM
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I know at least 5 guys that are 5’10”+ make 200k+/yr and are fit and definitely not ugly. They would be fortunate to get 4 dates in a year, and they probably are going to need someone else to set it up. Some guys got everything but low rizz, it’s like no woman finds them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:28 PM
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No I agree with you, I thought it was related to your comment. A 3/10 guy is a big stretch through to get a 6/10 girl. Even with a lot of money I’m not sure he has any chance to pull consistent dates with cute girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:26 PM
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Women might see him as human if they are in proximity for long enough. Sometimes she may find him attractive over time. He’s just not going to ever land a date if she thinks he’s dateless. Unless he pays her or offers a fancy restaurant then maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:22 PM
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Women will always gravitate towards the better looking guy if they don’t know them, every single time. I had a friend who was 6’3” and had movie star good looks, I’m 6’1” fit and handsome. For 12 years straight of going out, if we were talking to 2 girls, the hotter girl always went to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:19 PM
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Players end up with the hottest girlfriends. If you’re not a player but you’re very desirable, then you’re just letting women come to you and it almost always won’t land you the best catch. Girls respect players, they think guys that can’t get dates are subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:16 PM
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If we’re talking 8+ girls yes, if they got a cute face and look good in a swimsuit. Then you’re going to need looks and lifestyle. Unless you’re a total outlier gorgeous guy. Sometimes super hot girls hookup with guys simply because how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:10 PM
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If you got a mega yacht and a mansion you could be 5’2” and bald and could land 6/10 women easily, but not 8+/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:07 PM
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I’m not sure the bottom 20% of women have any chance with a guy 6+/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:06 PM
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To land consistent dates as a man I’m not sure I agree. They would get dates likely occasionally if they aren’t that picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:02 PM
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I think you’re right aside from only being only about looks for guys. I would make the argument that a 6/10 guy who is tall and makes $200k/yr can easily date women 6-8/10 women. If a guy is 6/10 then women won’t be repulsed by him and factor in anything else he has going for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:29 PM
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I think the guy one is right. I think the girl one is good too. I would adjust to 4/10, she can get 6/10 guys to pay for dates, but it’s prob not likely to work out past dates. Which is your variables you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:54 PM
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The exception being attractive women can point to the guy and say he’s hot. Otherwise expendable income is a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:37 PM
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With the guy needing to be at least slightly attractive I think this is a fair combination. The problem with this, is he needs to be an outlier in 2 categories as well. Seems like a rare guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:35 PM
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What’s the dream if you live with your parents still? What is the large group of attractive women you can easily sleep with that fall for this dream?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:30 PM
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There’s thousands of those women on dating apps now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:09 PM
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If you want to avoid a pump and dump you have to wait til 3rd date. Girls get excited or want make sure they don’t lose the chance so they do it earlier. Women who date are more stuck in a passive position where they have to wait for the guy to want to commit. When you have options as a guy getting a girl to commit is easy or good probability. So you just keep dating and getting hookups until a girl really floats your boat. Some girls try and love bomb a guy, but it keeps failing and never lands…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:51 AM
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There are most girls that can change gears and get more serious with a betabux and give up on guys with all the options. Some girls can’t or don’t want to, can’t get turned on by a less desirable man, and they end up single and unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:55 PM
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I know some girls that make lots of money off simps on OF and social platforms. It’s often malicious in how they get the money sent. These guys are addicted to giving women hundreds of dollars with virtually nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:40 PM
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This would be my list, I’d add acting desperate. Being desperate often gets talked about as the biggest turnoff for women. When women act desperate she lowers her value, it’s just a sign she’s too easy and not worthy of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:37 PM
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Your ability to pair bond is just in conflict with your ability to feed your ego and experience lust. I had that for a long time too, and I would also cheat to receive validation. It took me to sleeping with about 100 girls and having a 5 girl harem I was proud of, that made me think this is a void I’ve proved whatever I was trying to do, let’s go for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:14 PM
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Do you feel like you are addicted to new pussy and the intense oxytocin dump ego rush of easily sleeping with a beautiful girl. I think guys see it as a drug and want that back. Then if you can easily hookup, then you can easily say be my girlfriend decent chance she says yes. So you always that easy out. The problem with women who sleep around is raising the bar on being charming, fucks well, looks good, has fun lifestyle. Then they may start to just enjoy dating around and sabotage relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:04 PM
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Ha that’s still good. The way guys need to set this precedent of splitting its based around not having many options, lack of confidence to get her in your bed the first date. Also, if she’s in your bed loving life, you can just ask her to be your girlfriend and she likely say yes. I look at it that it’s $50, 2/3 chance you hookup. I went on the date because I want her, I’m not thinking past that. She’s probably not going to be a ltr, so you look at like a cheap cost of a hookup with a cute chick…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:56 PM
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Majority of dating girls hookup with guys they want. That’s a good thing for guys. Otherwise you’re just going on dates with no passion and that would be boring. You can try to say things nicer or put things more abrasive for clicks. That’s the internet red pill concept, be blunt and sarcastic to hold interest to beat the social algorithms for more views.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:59 AM
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If a girl understands sarcasm and gets the message, and actually listen to what he’s saying girls like Tate. My previous 2 gfs thought Tate was funny and had a great message for how guys should act. They would share me his viral clips.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:30 AM
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You’re just seeing the word whore like it’s negative. There’s a small percentage of women who are actively being whores. However, if she’s sitting across from you, she prob in a ho phase dating. It’s reality through your own lens, if you been on a ton of dates, and 70% end up in your bed. You’re going to perceive dating women as whores. Which is fine, single men are whores too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:07 AM
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Pills to me is a reason to speak frankly about female nature, to most people it just sounds bad, especially women. It can be hateful, but most of the time it’s not being pc. For example, I tell guys who go on a date, she’s going to decide about you the second she lays eyes on you, women are way more shallow than men with looks. Then most all dating women are whores. Not all women all the time, but if she’s across from you on a date, 90% chance she wants to be a whore and she probably already is …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:38 AM
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You can’t let them get to you if you meet a girl through dating. That’s what those girls do, date around. They’re addicted to the dopamine of building up a man, then tearing him down. The disease of the dating girls mind is wanting a composite of all of the best features of the guys she’s been out with. She continues to chase a dragon that doesn’t exist, it’s her own self indulgent addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:09 AM
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Pills is its own philosophy and you can make blanket statements about its interpretation, but almost everyone will disagree at least some. I’m prob mostly redpill and the concept of gaming girls to get in her pants is silly to me. The only context of game is how one approaches seduction. Some methods will work terrible for some guys and great for others. I would tell every guy the best approach to game would be forward and pull back method. You have to move forward to get attention and get her t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:24 AM
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This is a question for women? Most guys will forgive a cheating woman, even if he can easily replace her. Which is extra dumb bc when women cheat, it’s much worse than a guy because it usually means she’s trying to monkey branch to another man. The reason guys forgive is feelings are real. If she still wants to be with him, the reason he got into a relationship with her in the first place is she makes him weak. So he will give in to her. It’s not easy to throw away someone for one thing when you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:37 AM
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This is true, the 80/20 rule exists simply because the top 20% men won’t stick with the top 20% women. They enjoy pulling low hanging fruit with girls they know they won’t be serious with. If the top 20% of guys didn’t try to date and f the world, then it would be the 60/40 rule and guys would have zero reason to complain. The bottom 20% of men prob don’t deserve a date. Right now the dating market is way too imbalanced and women are allowed to artificially inflate their standards by being sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:29 AM
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I want to see actual proof of a guy that’s going on dates and hooking up with 7+/10 cuties, and splits those drinks and tip right down the middle on a first date. Then she comes over and spends the night in his bed. That would be game off the charts. I know a couple guys that are jacked gorgeous models, and they have zero issue buying some cutie some drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:24 AM
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It’s a good size category of attraction for women. I would say it’s even more prevalent in women 35+. Younger generation too, but only if that’s your scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:13 AM
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This is what half the girls you meet on dating apps are doing. The get that first 2 week dopamine rush of a guy. Get bored and move on to the next. They keep dating until they can find that less than 1 month boyfriend. It’s an addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:41 AM
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Some guys get over this or never cared that much in the first place. Personally my self worth is associated with having a happy loving relationship. You can be a player, you could be celibate and hang with friends a lot. That’s fine for awhile. There’s nothing better than having a beautiful girlfriend who adores you. That’s acts excited at the prospect of spending the rest of her life with you. Who’s there for you when you feel down. Also loves your semen anywhere on or in her at any time. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:33 AM
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I’ve never met an unattractive loser in my entire life that talks about the women he is dating. Women casually date desirable men. If she barely cute, she’s already got 10 average guys that will marry her on the spot. No semi respectable girl wastes time going on dates with losers. Unless he’s an attractive loser, then that’s definitely possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:19 AM
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I think you have to make the separation here between dating and couples. For real long term relationships, I see ugly guys with beautiful women, and ugly women with good looking guys fairly regularly. We don’t know how long they’ve been together, if one got fat or less attractive later in relationship, or how much one partner is supporting the other. For dating it’s the same small pool of the most desirable and sexually motivated guys getting most the dates and nearly all the casual sex with wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:09 AM
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Depends upon the person, but yea girls seem to deal with being alone better. Also, for women it’s more of a choice, which helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:43 AM
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Virtually no guy is hot enough to pull attractive women off dating apps with looks alone. There are some, but you need to be model tier. You need to show you have a good lifestyle and a real career, and you’re handsome. You put that together in a Instagram profile you’ll get better looking girls and laid more than the guys that are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:24 AM
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Girls talk about it with their best friends and generally the guy is pumped up to be way more than he is to her friend. They build guys up, listen to their lies, then get disappointed. Girls aren’t that proud of their themselves to sleep around with any guy no matter how high value. It’s embarrassing for the girls and they try and hide as much as they can from everyone. It’s not an accomplishment to get a date and get fucked as a girl, it’s super easy and they know it. If she just keeps getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:02 AM
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You don’t have to be very hot girl to get hot or rich guys to take you out. If you’re cute, nice figure, 7s and 8s can accomplish dating by just putting themselves more out there as easily available. If a girl is cute and makes herself an easy target, she will get the guys she wants temporarily. If you can get the attention of a 9+ hot girl they can more easily be honest with themselves, probably had real relationships with top guys, and can appreciate you. The closer you get to the hottest wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:55 AM
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I get that but in terms of best, my luck just hasn’t gone that way. If I meet a beautiful girl or get date and we go at it all night, she’s throating for hour etc. After morning sex I just ask her to be my gf right there and they say yes. I’ve hooked up with girls out of town and visiting and they can be good but not best for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:23 PM
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I’ve either oscillated between basically nothing or having myself put together for endless dates and hookups. Dating casually for guys ends up being near nothing or winners take all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:20 PM
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I think just finding girls to hookup gets harder as you age, in my 20s it was easier. I could get hookups now in my 40s, but they’re going to be 5-6s and if I find a girl wanting a boyfriend they can range 7-9s. The idea of pure lust I believe only Chads get that, I’m handsome and tall but no girl calls me hot unless she’s trying to get laid. So the lust you get is more trying to impress you because she sees you as bf material.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:23 PM
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I think just finding girls to hookup gets harder as you age, in my 20s it was easier. I could get hookups now in my 40s, but they’re going to be 5-6s and if I find a girl wanting a boyfriend they can range 7-9s. The idea of pure lust I believe only Chads get that, I’m handsome and tall but no girl calls me hot unless she’s trying to get laid. So the lust you get is more trying to impress you because she sees you as bf material.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:23 PM
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Women by the time they hit 24 will date a guy of any age, many before that. Less than 10% of guys get dates and sex whenever they want regardless of age. Women will tend to date older 5+ yrs some are willing to go 30+ yrs. Dating in 20s for guys is hard because unless you have a trust fund, it’s just about is your life fun and are you attractive. Older guys with house and cars just need to stay in shape and not be short, because they have more to offer like free rent and groceries to young women…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:11 PM
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Once you start going on a bunch of online dates you learn to be as vague as possible in what you’re looking for. Guys saying they want hookups may just view you as not relationship material. As far as dating apps being hookup apps, when you’re basically expecting to get at least a bj from your date realizing dating apps are hookup apps becomes the general assumption of dating women. It’s not guys pushing for hookups ruining it, it’s girls hooking up so she can get access to him. What you’re miss…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:59 PM
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All of these points are excellently put. Except last one, most women are significantly happier being in a stable loving relationship than being alone. The delusional part of dating women is perpetually believing they are different from other girls that makes hvm want them for more than sex. They still have to use sex to gain his attention up front though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:11 PM
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Have you ever dated around, like gone on 5 dates in a month with different guys. Used a dating app, hooked up with guys at the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:58 PM
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It works out for some. Every cute girl got 10 girl acquaintances she follows on instagram, that got either the super hot man or handsome rich guy traveling and doing exclusive activities. She wants that too. When you can get dates with fit guys with Ferraris and multi million dollar homes or the hottest guys possible, some girls cannot stop with these men. They don’t want a relationship they want a trophy, that ends up being more like chasing an imaginary dragon. There are some attractive girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:56 PM
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Do you date around?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:48 PM
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Listening to attractive women’s dating lives is absolute delusion. They all date far into the top 1% of desirable men and sleep around often. You constantly hear 2 different phrases from attractive women who date “I’m going to be set for life with this guy, he’s so rich and wants to take care of me” or “he has the juiciest pecs and the biggest dick I couldn’t barely put my mouth around it” then they pretend these guys don’t have 5 other girls he’s currently with and it never works out. If it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:42 PM
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Heavy makeup usually looks bad, but it makes some uglier girls presentable. A guy cannot think a girl is hot or very beautiful unless she’s able to wear very light makeup and no foundation and look incredible. As far as concept that girls look best with no makeup, that’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:23 PM
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Men and women aren’t that different with sexuality. I know a guy that’s a swinger, I know 2 guys having threesomes all the time, guy in his 50s still a player picking up young girls at the club. Then I know other guys that don’t want to randomly f girls, don’t care to date around. Found a wife and do it once a week. All the same frequency happens in women. Guys think women’s libidos are lower because they haven’t tapped into women who are actively dating around. They haven’t gone on dating app d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:17 PM
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Seems like 9 out of 10’ girls on this sub proudly proclaim being nearly asexual. If a girl didn’t sometimes experience intense lust for a man I wouldn’t want to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:55 PM
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I’ve seen some woman stave off wall until 45. It really starts to set for women in late 30s. If you’re still good looking woman though, age can work to your advantage in dating market. For most you won’t get free dates and sex by attractive men whenever you want. Your social access becomes more limited. If you don’t have children you will usually have regret. There seems to be some acceptance to your singledom, reluctance to readjust your previous standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:06 AM
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Yea women have equal rights now in western world. So the patriarchy not exists in a social mind gender construct. It’s only real to some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:40 PM
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State wants families, population growth, productive citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:22 PM
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If you want to count one glass of wine, or 1 joint as related to casual sex you can make that argument. You can also just say no to them when they go for it and have sex with them in the morning which has happened many times. To say I don’t have casual sex because I’m not getting girls drunk is a laughable argument for a guy to make. You should never have sex with a drunk girl you just met, it’s not the behavior of a gentleman. Also if you like the girl and do that to her she prob not going to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:01 PM
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I’ve never taken a girl on a date, she drank too much, either said no or tried to stop her from sex. Then not had sex with her in the morning or later. Alcohol is a social lubricant, but to say only mainly drunk girls engage in casual sex is a total falsehood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:47 PM
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Yea completely sober girls usually take 2 or 3 dates. I would never get a girl drunk that I just met and have sex with her. The women that try I make wait until the morning when they sober up. You have to be careful with women you just met, imbibing them with alcohol and weed to take advantage of them is not the behavior of a gentleman. Then the upside if you tell them no to sex, they will respect you more and give you sex still when they sober up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:32 PM
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Ugh you’re insufferable. It would hurt your feelings to see a guy on Reddit with hot girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:14 PM
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I don’t think you know what grifting is. Except it or don’t. If you want proof I’ll show you. There’s no swindling either do or don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:10 PM
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I don’t have the answers just explaining how civilization and state has oppressed women for thousands of years and it still goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:07 PM
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That’s why I said dm me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:00 PM
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Say copypasta again. Men get laid get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:46 PM
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The percentage of men and women who have used dating apps is same. Also more women go on dates off dating apps than men. If I spent 8 months straight on Hinge and couldn’t reach the end of the women, how many women do you need on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:43 PM
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The cope is real dawg lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:41 PM
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It’s not a story it’s pictures and a dating app profile where you get thousands of matches and girls complimenting your life and how you look. It’s an Instagram that gets you instant access to endless women. Guys figure this shit out all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:28 PM
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Dm me you fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:25 PM
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I don’t know what argument you are trying to make. Patriarchy is designed for social order and families. You take away women’s rights, you get a better result of what the state wants for a productive society. Western world that has changed to put women in the workforce and give them equal rights for overall economic benefit. Then you also want them making kids for population growth so you take away rights to abort the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:23 PM
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If you want to dm me and see my hot girlfriends and Instagram you can. Hooking up on dating apps does get old and lack nuance. That’s why you ask one to be your gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:20 PM
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Burkas are the norm in a bunch of countries. Women on Instagram flash their butts then raise awareness for the horrors in Hamas, a country they’d be stoned to death for acting and dressing the way they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:17 PM
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Do you know women who use dating apps? They aren’t actively on them like men are. They use them, get some dates. Then pause, come back in a few weeks. It’s equal amount women total that have used dating apps to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:13 PM
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It’s fulfilling a void of something. It’s also pleasurable and fun. No one cares about all the chicks you bang at all unless it means guys you know can f her friends. It’s a self indulgent fantasy to cycle harems of women. It’s also the goal of dating if you listen to any redpill content. Guys that sleep around with beautiful women to provoke jealousy, which is a natural instinct to make others jealous of you. Which is the main point of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:06 PM
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Sorry women apparently don’t casually have sex with you and vye for your attention using their bodies. That’s what dating women do though. If pulling the wool over your eyes and saying it’s a lie makes you feel better then that’s okay I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:00 PM
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Yea cat is out of the bag in western world, but most of the world still doesn’t allow equal rights for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:59 PM
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Tall handsome successful or hot dudes don’t have to do much more than snap their fingers to get sexual attention from women. It’s not a red pill thing, been going on literally forever now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:57 PM
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Men have an evolutionary tendency to hoard women and spread their seed. This comes into conflict with modern laws of society. Casual sex is mainly temporary ego fulfillment. New pussy is a drug, it releases oxytocin. Like any drug you do it too much and it makes you feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:53 PM
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Throughout most of civilization women have not been given equal rights. Men don’t like the result of what happens when women are free. Women don’t have equal rights in most of the world now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:50 PM
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It doesn’t for some guys, but most just want a real relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:48 PM
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Patriarchy was designed to keep a social order and create families. Men working and being productive to benefit the state. It was designed and instituted by men. We know what men want, we don’t know what women want except most will develop a maternal instinct at some point. So you create marriage and family. 75% of lesbians divorce, divorce is more likely than not and is filed be women. Now that women have equality the patriarchy is being upended by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:47 PM
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Women do what they want now, you can just accept it. They are not rushing into being a mother, and are filing 80% of divorces. Having their rights taken away for the patriarchy was so men got what they wanted, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:34 PM
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There’s something about new pussy guys get addicted to. I have in 3 stretches in my life, it’s too tiring putting up with a harem of hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:31 PM
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Yes it’s the same story, if you’re getting consistent dates man or woman you’re prob fucking a lot. My gf gets a call from one of her friends it’s either about some drama with a girl or a new guy she fucking. It’s like a phone call on repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:29 PM
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Single dating girls randomly fuck guys bc they are hot, or they wish to be his girlfriend. Sex is fun, casual sex most of the time after awhile people wear out on. There’s few things in this life as satisfying as a beautiful woman you just met naked in your bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:26 PM
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They aren’t, Tinder is a bit these days. Hinge has endless women on it. I dated for 8 months last year, couldn’t get to the end of the girls on it. Could get dates whenever I wanted. Found a girlfriend off Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:23 PM
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If you want to see my prev dating profile, insta, my super hot gf, my hot ex, or anything else just dm me. If you’re desirable girls will be your sex toy to have a chance, plus women enjoy affection so it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:22 PM
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You’re not answering the question what is a shared interest? We watch shows together, we like to go swimming at hotel pools. We get high together. Share memes and laugh. She’s 20 years younger than me, we get along great.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:19 PM
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Me and 2 guy friends I know got single at same time last year and shared our experience on Hinge. We’re all tall, fit, and successful. I would end up some days in top picks and get roses sent to me. I spent 8 months in Hinge and could not reach the end of it. I’d go through it for hours. Never ending supply of women on Hinge these days. Had thousands of matches and went around 50 dates, slept with around 30 of the girls, mostly the first date. Now I have a live in girlfriend I met on Hinge. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:15 PM
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You could completely rock a girls world, cummimg over and over, squirting on your bed. Go at it all night. Then not see her again because she went for another guy or back to her ex. There’s no magic pill with women or men to make them cum hard and they suddenly want to be with you. Sex is just one factor, its not like you solve the riddle of her pussy and it’s a guarantee of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:07 PM
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The number of women actively dating and getting with guys casually and dating is not a high percentage. However, it’s a a high percentage if they are currently dating, that’s who single guys are meeting. We don’t meet the girls happy single alone with her cats. Also, women lie to themselves about how much they sleep around you can’t trust any study. You go on dates on dating apps or meet girls out they hookup, most all easy to hookup with if they like you. It’s just cope to say your standard dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:01 PM
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What do you need to have in common or the relationship is cooked? All you need is you’re attracted to each other and enjoy spending time together. If that’s a common interest that’s all you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:56 PM
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What makes you think women don’t want to rip the clothes off a guy she finds attractive she doesn’t know and have sex with them. Most women love to do this. They want a relationship too. Women are more like guys with sex than anyone wants to admit. Keep telling yourself girls wouldn’t immediately pounce in a guy they want as a bf or simply because he’s hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:52 PM
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Everyone wants a partner that’s out of their league. Then that justifies your argument to be in that league. Attractive couples are treated much nicer and invited to do more exclusive activities. The fact that women can leverage their bodies to get men out of their league is an advantage that men don’t have. It’s also the source of most complaints about dating by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:45 PM
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Patriarchy was designed by religion to keep a happy society of men working to support their family and have a wife. In order to do this effectively you need to take ability to support themselves away and make women dependent on men. As long as women are free the number of childless unmarried women in their 40s will continue to rise. Because women’s true desire don’t match a man’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:41 PM
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I think I’m with you, once I slept around a bunch and got harems going makes you kinda sick. You think you want it, then you want out. It’s become a perceived necessary evil and indulgence to find a partner these days though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:27 PM
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All the jealous bitching comes from that some guys get all the casual pussy and most guys don’t. Guys know attractiveness matters, but you have to past a certain threshold of desirability for women to casually date you. Bluepill guys will often say that women that engage in active dating and hookup culture are a small subset of women who are whores. This is how they cope with the reality that the top guys can get most single girls into bed easy. Pill information is out there to let you know that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:15 PM
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What is a social disease, like instagram and dating apps effect on the masses?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:07 PM
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I started out doing it with 4s and 5s, now I get lot better looking chicks improving my pics and instagram. You can’t make it any easier, if you pass the eye test upon meeting, you just talk have a couple drinks, ask them over and get laid. Dating apps when they work feel like magic, I couldn’t believe it after my divorce. When you get apps down, it is like summoning attention and affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:03 PM
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Being hot is one category of player. You can have sex with 100s of women and not be hot or tall or rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:39 PM
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Lot of women avoid hot guys, all girls want tall, successful, handsome combo. Also some guys are just cute and got a fun life and have harems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:34 PM
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Imagine being tall, successful, handsome. Swipe, ask girl out, drive across the street, have a couple drinks, talk, come back and have sex. Girls love getting convenient access to these men, they don’t have to go out and find them. Why guys don’t just keep working on their online persona, while most attractive women do is a mystery to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:31 PM
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Do everything you can to looksmax, make a cool insta for dating app pics, talk to girls and then notice choosing signals. That’s all girls going to care about if they don’t know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:03 PM
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This argument about dating you’re talking about has been solved by the 80/20 rule. Some people can’t wrap their head around or don’t want to believe it. 80% women chasing top 20% men. That’s it, if you’re not in top 20% of men you only get casual access to bottom 20% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:57 PM
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Guys would chill out when they consider even when women were greatly oppressed, never in civilization anywhere did women casually get with average guys. Girls are usually trying to date around with guys that are desirable or have something to offer. Guys want to complain, omg it’s the dating apps and social media. Sure, if you don’t want to put any effort to advertise yourself it’s going to be harder. The game has changed some, but still same result, desirable guys control the dating market. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:36 PM
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Wow we actually have a woman on Reddit speaking honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:08 PM
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Not all of them, but they seem to be off put by your actions or anything you say. They are more apt to disqualify or not talk to you unless you comply to their own standards of expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:05 PM
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The way you beat this lack of social fabric is building an online persona. Girls know they can’t have the perfect man, but if you offer something of value that can help her socially she will see benefit in you. I have a friend who is connected socially with all the local “cool” people, goes to all the big parties in mansions, and takes trips with friends. He pulls hot chicks because of his lifestyle and he flexes on gram with it, guy lives in regular apartment and is not hot, but girls want to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:02 PM
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Explaining to your girlfriend that you made out with a stripper or 2, even if it’s sphearmint rhino and the girls are total smokeshows. It’s not going to process, she didn’t see her and will think the worst. If she saw a drunk 10/10 kissing you as a voyeur it may turn her on, but she didn’t see it. I just say I went and had drinks with strippers on my lap, which is mostly what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:06 PM
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If you’re single girl working in a strip club, the likelihood of you dating a guy that comes in is high. Just for the individual guy in a strip club it’s not likely. Strippers in the club is a hard pickup, you have to get them to go on a date with you, which is not easy, prob the most difficult pickup, club or dating app hookup is much easier. I’ve dated strippers and of models, I got most of them off dating apps. They have a difficult time with time is money in their mind, they are not good wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:01 PM
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That’s where the stripper thing can trick your mind, and on occasion the stripper does want you. If a stripper has 3 drinks with you, and you go back to vip and she has her tongue down your throat, the feeling is real enough for your mind. When I was single I would do that at a strip club, I had a handful of girls go out with me after their shift and back to my place for sex with no money exchange. Strippers are more of a line between, whereas escorts seems is another level where you can’t bridg…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:47 PM
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I always got a girlfriend I adore. When I’m in Vegas I love sphearmint rhino. There are so many 10s there it’s the best strip club. I drink with them, make out with them in vip. It’s probably my favorite place in the world. Then I go back happily to my girlfriend. I think it’s kinda like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:37 PM
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I’ve tried, and single moms are not nice or grateful at all that you don’t have to date single moms. I find them meaner in most cases. I also find women that want kids very soon to be not pleasant to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:30 PM
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Different type of experience, I’m not sure why these hot guys that can get dates whenever or already have a girlfriend do it. I think it’s mostly they want variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:27 PM
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You’ll get way more of a pass by women for getting escorts if you can also pull women easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:14 PM
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The junk food of Reddit is denying other people the right of reality through their own lens. People on reddit like to upvote shared thoughts and on ppd if someone goes outside they think they are a lying incel. Thats especially most women’s response on this sub to guys opinions they don’t like. Dating lives and experiences are vastly different. You explain your perspective and most people on this sub act like you’re an insane person and get angry, and just consuming red pill videos with your “ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:12 PM
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There’s hot guys that can get lots of girls that pay for sex too, the girls he dates know. I don’t think they like it, but they don’t mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:03 PM
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Doesn’t tell the whole story, but it leads to the madness. Let’s say you date a girl when she’s 22, at 32 she doesn’t love you anymore or maybe she feels like she didn’t fully. She’s legit seriously pissed off at you for ruining her chance with Chad. This has happened to me and it is related to their mental illness overtaking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:59 PM
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I get lost in threads think answered already. Better than 50% chance she cheats on you first and serves you divorce papers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:33 AM
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That’s nice, no girl under 25 cares about my kids. They like that they cute good kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:28 AM
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If girl wants to have kids soon she doesn’t like yo see your kids. I suppose I’d be same way if I never had kids and wanted them I would be less than thrilled about a girl with little kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:24 AM
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Oh yes for sure thanks for the reminder, that’s happened to me twice now you’d think I would learn my lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:23 PM
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Had a gf for year and half now, she wants to have sex with me constantly, asked to get married everyday, and is a ringer for Lana Rhoads. I get on Reddit to get some alone time. My last gf looked like Salma Hayek, whatever makes you feel better about yourself to say. If you want to see me with all my hot gfs you can dm me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:11 PM
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You should avoid women who dated for too many years. Nobody is meant to just keep dating and keep trying to get better or the next new exciting thing. If I hear a girl says she’s now done dating and searching for a husband run for the hills, she don’t care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:55 PM
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No I do that to women and they won’t leave me alone after the breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:28 PM
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Is mental illness and depression just the norm now? My last 2 ltr ended in a hellfire of total insanity that gave me ptsd. My current gf is diagnosed bipolar. Relationships get so insane. I talked to this one guy and he said all my relationships end great, I’m still friends with my exes. I replied wtf, are you serious, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:23 PM
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This is why I only date women who are recently divorced or under 25. I don’t identify with girls that have been dating off and on for long periods. Their expectations from a man are completely unrealistic. I’m a better than 666 man who’s handsome and fit. I can get dates and sex whenever I want. You cannot comprehend how I the most amazing guy in my 40s to a girl that’s her in her 20s. She doesn’t expect anything except to feed her and love her. Then you meet women in 30s and 40s and nothing mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:52 PM
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In the moment they love it. When they get ghosted and wanted it to continue they sad. When it gets done repeatedly over the course of years with desirable total package men too. They will be depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:58 PM
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Because she thought those guys were in her league, and she never got a real relationship. Women tend to not like to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:33 PM
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I almost always have a gf, been with same girl for year and half. Dated for 6 months ladt year, and was in 4 year relationship before that. If you go into player mode while dating you’ll have fun and find a girl you really want. Then you’re done. When you can date as a guy, it’s great.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:30 PM
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No just select men are racking up insane numbers super easy. I swipe, ask out, drive across the street, come back, have sex. Get a harem. Rinse and repeat until I find some girl I really want. Some guys just keep doing it. Most all guys this never works for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:19 PM
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It’s not that hard to find good sex, especially from experienced men all women want. If you meet a girl off dating app, insta, bar/club odds are she got men already. Just accept it, I have, I’ve made out with 100s of girls and slept with around 120 girls, I would say basically none of those girls only been with 5 dudes. If a girl only been with 3 guys she either got in ltr very young or is weird. Guys on here, 5 body count is too much, like what, have you met girls who date? Have you been on dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:09 PM
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No she messed up dating and only being with players. She wasted her youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:05 PM
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I think it’s great, if you have a girlfriend making bank off simps offline you would not mind. I’ve met girls off dating apps that were so beautiful and liked me so much, then found out they were escorts behind my back. You’re never finding a very hot woman not involved in some form of this now, they don’t exist, it’s too easy money, esp when they don’t even have to meet the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:04 PM
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You’re not going to find a hot woman that isn’t going to exploit what she’s got to simps in this current society. You will never find that beautiful girl, I know a girl that’s a Christian virgin, and she still does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:00 PM
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We get all that, it’s just a fuck you to all the young women basking in all the attention. We jealous, all we can say is have fun while it lasts. If you don’t get yourself in a good situation by 35, the likelihood of you being depressed and sleeping with guys that were only players and wouldn’t commit will be the biggest regret of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:58 PM
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You’ve probably never had an actual hot girlfriend in your life. Most all have gone on paid dates at the very least. You don’t know hot women and what goes on and the opportunities they have. My gf is on the lowest scale of this stuff for a very hot girl I’ve ever met in my life. I’m trying to get her to do more why stop at 10k/mo, you’re probably going to end up taking care of some barely mid girl, and tell yourself well at least she’s not a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:51 PM
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Women have never casually got with average guys in the history of time. This sub should just shut down it’s the same argument for 15,000 years of civilized society. Yea dating is a little harder now if you want to put zero effort as a guy into your online persona. My only argument to this sub is that girls while dating are just as big as whores as guys want to be. Your average girl flashing her butt on gram and on a dating app is having more fun with men than your average guy can possibly imagin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:42 PM
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Most guys don’t care about casually getting with attractive women. I put in a ton of effort and put so much money into looking good and fit. Dye, hair transplant, Invisalign, bleach, skin care, gym, cool sculpting stomach, back straightener. I’m 6’1” traditionally handsome, run my own business. If you’re 46 and want to date hot young girls for real, you need to have everything in check. Got a gut or bald, it’s over, never happening. Young guys can have pooch bellies, older men can’t. Oh and if s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:29 PM
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Omg what do I do? She’s super hot and adores me and makes 10k+/mo and doesn’t even have to ever meet the guys. Do I dump her? Idgaf good for her, anywhere she’s ever worked she’s constantly sexually harassed by employees and her boss, what’s the difference. You could only dream to be able to do what she does, now you want to call her a sex worker, F off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:17 PM
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Your youth, attractiveness, and fertility is the most valuable thing you ca. offer to a man. You should get married and have kids before it’s gone so you can be happy. I know childless single women in their 40s, they claim to be so happy, they are depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:58 PM
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Even at 40 and busted, she could find a man to knock her up tomorrow. Every girl that never ended up having kids and getting married still wants all the desirable men she casually dated. It’s being Chad widowed from dating, and women never get over it until they fall in love. She’d rather be old, live alone watching Netflix and be with her pets, than lower herself to her new league of older undesirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:55 PM
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I feel like I’m at the absolute top of the dating food chain for my age. I end up in the top picks on apps and get sent roses and super likes a bunch some days. I can’t even begin to compete with the dating options of a 25 yr old 6/10. She can get with anyone, and get any guy to take her out and have sex with her. Even the tippy top men don’t have near the dating options. 80% of men are sitting at 0 dating options and just waiting around to get lucky. You’re the typical girl that cannot step out…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:50 PM
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Girls should be dating guys that are asking to be their exclusive girlfriend by the third date. If he isn’t your part of a roster. Girls like men with rosters of girls. He’s confident and cavalier attitude is attractive. You don’t want to be finding a man and trying to marry at 40 as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:22 PM
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I’ve been on about 160 online dates, my current gf I met off Hinge. Most your list is good I would alter your strategy and couple thoughts slightly. My advice you need to close quicker physically the first chance you are alone outside, kiss and ask her over for a drink or a joint. More than 50% of my dates sleep with me the first night we meet, the other 25% come over and at least make out. 25% don’t like me. The more smooth and attractive you are your hookup rate from dates can be 90%+. If she …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:17 PM
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Women on this subject refuse to adjust their frame of reference and assume young men have similar advantage they did. Probably around 10% of 20-30yr old guys can actively date cute women in 20s whenever they want. Around 5% of 40 yr olds can date a cute 20 yr old women whenever they want. It’s not like young men have any great advantage in dating, they just more often in social circles of young women that end up in a relationship. When it comes to dating for men, either you’re attractive to wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:40 PM
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I don’t care it’s just a dig and jealousy. I’m glad dating women are sluts just like men. I appreciate that 70% of my dates want to jump in bed with me after a couple hours, otherwise I wouldn’t want to go on the date. Girls are fun and free now, especially girls in their 20s, they love love and talk about guys all the time. It’s just a reminder to all the young women who enjoy all the attention most men will never have even 1/10th of. The clock is ticking on this attention, and you should proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:31 PM
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There is one single reason the dating world is so contentious and women have such big egos. Most guys will fuck anything. You can’t get this obvious concept into girls heads enough. If the girl was on his level, he would ask her to be his girlfriend nearly immediately. Guys date down to get laid easy. So girls just keep going on dates with the same select desirable men and the 80/20 rule just keeps pushing along, because guys have very low standards for hookups and situationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:21 PM
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You don’t want most young men, attractive young men are your preference. I would also say regardless of age women physically want a 29 yr old man. However, if an older man is very attractive you will hear what he’s go to say too, just like you want to hear what an attractive young man has to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:07 PM
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If guy is attractive he just needs to stay in shape. He can get a hair transplant, I got one, looks great can’t tell. Men don’t get bitter, how many old men have you dated? Most young men can’t pickup girls and date easily, most older men can’t either, same difference. You’re just calling older guys bald and the younger guys not cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:35 PM
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Yeah this happens a lot, one friend gets a divorce and the rest of the friend group does. Women file 80% of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:31 PM
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I know what you’re saying you just want to look at this through your current lens. You say ew gross to most men your age now, you wouldn’t go on a date with them. You would also say the same thing to most 40 yr old men, ew gross old man. Unless they are attractive and they got a fun lifestyle. Then age is tossed out the window, age doesn’t matter so much because you don’t like most men your age now. The way you talk you act like young men are young women. Young women are fawned over, most all yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:28 PM
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Most young girls are cute and get attention from men. Most young guys are ignored and get no attention. If you’re tall, well built, handsome guy and you stay in shape, you will be attractive and get attention nearly all your life. This isn’t some made up thing, young women get attention and that will fade very rapidly for most of them starting in 30s no matter what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:22 PM
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I’ve told her to get OF and take this to next level, she makes on average 10k/mo doing this and it take her like hour a day. She doesn’t want to because OF is public, she keeps all of it as private as possible. I’m pushing her because I think she’s not fully tapping into this and can make a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:18 PM
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My ex wife was just as bad, she cheated on me before I did. Women have the same urge to cheat after being together long enough. I’m an attractive guy, there’s 2 of my friends wives that have made a pass at me for an affair. We act like women are so different from men, they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:14 PM
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This is my live in girlfriend, I work from home. She does everything with me, I’ve seen the messages from guys. She does sometimes video chat with them for money, she talks about it. When you’re super hot this is what guys do. I’ve dated runway models that go to ny and Paris fashion shows the 2 I dates didn’t get much attention on socials, dated hot girls that I found out were being high end escorts to very rich old men. They didn’t get money sent like my current girlfriend, what she does is act…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:11 PM
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You’re just digging in older men, when you don’t find most younger men attractive. Their one saving grace of being young is youth, which most value. I’m 6’1”, go to gym in shape, I have full head of hair, straight white teeth, dye my hair, nice car and house. Girls check me out as I walk by of any age. At 46, people say I look 36 or younger. My girlfriend is 20 years younger than me and hot, I’ve been on at least 80 dates off apps with women under 25, it’s an endless supply of girls of any age w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:59 PM
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Once someone in a friend group is divorcing she convinces the other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:47 PM
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Everything is held in the balance with being able to pull cute girls consistently. One thing is off and you’re out. Even if you’re rich you’re right, could be gut, weird personality, height, balding, a face that's not easy to look at. The only way to overcome not being handsome is being obscenely rich. For basically any western girl, it’s going to be half looks at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:32 AM
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These rich guys were handsome and fit. They weren’t as attractive as the young guys though. I really feel like this girl reaction is regional. If you’re in LA, Phoenix, or Miami all the girls really want a total package guy. Being just hot or just rich is not enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:24 AM
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You take anonymous threads too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:08 AM
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Woman asks the question. I answer the question. I get downvoted and told no somehow. That’s the reason, deal with it. I’ve literally never been without chicks and still have thought this before. Not a chronically online or incel take, lots of guys say it even if they are players.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:48 AM
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It seems to hurt you less as a guy to have kids. However you are more of a HVM to women if you are child free.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:44 AM
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Guys don’t expire like women do. Guys age better, girls want older men way more than other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:14 AM
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I’ve dated girls off dating apps that I found out were being escorts behind my back. If she randomly gone some weekend or you can’t reach them some night, you figure it out. She’s not doing that or being gone, and she doesn’t have of. So whatever she’s doing with the guys online, I’m fine with good for her. She never asks me for money, so that’s the good part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:06 AM
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I don’t get it, wouldn’t those stats go hand in hand with single childless women in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:45 AM
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The number of single childless women in their 30s is on the rise. Women are more depressed than ever. You can google both stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:42 AM
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I hosted a party for my gfs birthday and these chicks were young all hot about 40 of them. The young attractive guys with nice face at party, not much interest. The 3 older rich guys got all the attention once the girls found out they were rich. All early 20s, all hot af. You think a nice face and a 1 bedroom apartment is going to land you a young genuine hot chick, keep dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:38 AM
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I can’t tell, but when you go out on so many dates and sleep with countless women most of them in a few hours. You went to college and slept with at least 50 girls. You have girlfriends friends who date and just talk about the latest guys they been fucking. You think most girls who date are way bigger whores than most men, I think they are worse. So no big deal, girls want guys what you going to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:35 AM
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Except for maybe a couple years, I could get girls whenever I want. I’ve slept with around 150 girls, from pretty cute to hot. I’ve had a wife, my gf of last year is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:31 AM
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She’s always right next to me, she never goes out. How’s that a sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:29 AM
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Yes we’re living in a world where girls grew up in a big house, family had nice cars, took vacations, and had the old school middle class life. That’s gone now, when women see you in an apartment that cost adjusted for inflation more than the house they grew up in, she’s still disgusted. She’s going to do anything and fuck anyone she can to make sure she lives the life at least she grew up in, not worse. This is why so many guys are lifting and looksmaxing, because if they can’t offer the white …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:52 AM
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I’ve dated a bunch and relationships with 7-9s. My current gf is prob only true hottie that’s been my girlfriend, guys send her money everyday on snap and insta because she’s so hot, it’s weird I don’t fully comprehend why these simps do it. I’ve had older girlfriends, okay looking ones, I’m not one to care about hottest in room, more who wants to lust for me. I mostly think women are legit crazy. I have the craziest relationships and ends to them ever. Like unimaginable insane situations. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:46 AM
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No, but there would be a big part of you that would want to. It’s hard to say to someone that after you’ve been with someone for 14 years, you’re in kinda dead bedroom. You’ll never comprehend until it happens. having a hot young side chick at work that you’re leaving to lunch to go to her place to fuck, or going on business trips together how great that feels. A side chick you have pure lust for is the greatest temporary relationship ever. Your wife will feel the same, you love each other in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:30 AM
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For women who are hypergamous always looking for next best thing, or only offer themselves to the hottest man in any room. It’s a revenge fantasy that more often than not comes true. This is true of a lot of dating women, they have nervous breakdowns sometime in their 30s that Chad no longer wants her and she’s going to have to settle for some normie. I’m 46 I’ve known enough women for long enough to see it happen. They will always have their stories of how they dated athletes and had sex in 10 …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:22 AM
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Because young cute women are so full of themselves just bc everyone wants to fuck them. It’s our way to say if I stay in shape and live a good life as a guy I won’t expire. Most women will by 40, no guy will want to take them out and have sex with them. They will have lost their looks, youth, and ability to bear children, which is what guys primitive brain lusts for. It’s just a cruel reminder, and a fuck you to uppity young cute women we want, who only want to get with players and shun average …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:13 AM
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This is pretty common and the reason is they wanted someone else or thought something else more intense. If you’re dating girls will pull back, go date someone they think better, get played. Then come running back to you. Or you date them and they go back to an ex. Then come back months later because they liked you. I think you should have an open mind, but after a week or 2 if she isn’t giving you the best bjs and treating you amazing, then just pump and dump her and teach her a lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:46 PM
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I know guys that go to Colombia a lot, stay there big part of the year, and thats where there real girlfriend is. In US when here they just play around with girls. Colombia is fun, I would live there too. If I’m living there and fall in love with a girl then that’s great. I’m not playing 90 day fiancé just bc some girl is down for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:47 PM
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If you just want to mostly live in that country and like it there then it can be cool. I like Colombia and could have a wife from there, but I’m moving there at least half the time. PPB wants to basically mail order a cute girl, pull 90 day fiancé with a girl that’s unemployable in your country. It’s dumb, if you just want to 100% take care of a girl, there’s plenty of lazy American girls available for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:40 PM
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Looking like a simp to a bunch of girls that’s his friends makes him less masculine and even less desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:38 PM
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They don’t have to be into coke, this old cool buff guy always getting with young hot chicks sometimes carries it like a lot of guys in the club. I wouldn’t even call him hit, he’s just cool and got a nice lifestyle, hosts parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:39 PM
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I can be friends with girls I’ve already had sex with. Some guys have lots of female friends, but if he never has a girlfriend on top of that, women will not want to be that one girl who wants him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:37 PM
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I date around then pick a girl that’s not ready for marriage and kids. That just tends to be girls under 25 based on their life situation. Getting my dick wet either costs nothing or under $40. Marriage is at the very least half of everything you’ve ever worked and risked for. My ex cashes huge alimony every month for a business that no longer exists she says was a stupid idea and begged me to stop when I was trying to figure it out. Women 30+ don’t want me because they know I’m not going to com…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:21 PM
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Marriage can take everything you have I’ve lost millions and gone broke twice getting married to the “right” girl. Getting your dick wet costs a few drinks, or my girlfriend requires shelter and food which I’m buying anyway. Any woman regardless of age and beauty or social class, can marry and take a wealthy man and deplete him to nothing. Happens to rich guys all the time, even Elon was broke over alimony. The smart thing to do if you want to conserve your wealth is put a condom on and use wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:02 PM
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Yes the pretty girl that has no job or low paying job, who is actively dating for dreams and often acts very desperate. She is being lazy and hoping a guy will take care of her. This does work out occasionally, but usually she just gets passed around by top men. This isn’t always the case, there are insanely gorgeous women that date whoever they want. This is why I say to guys when it comes to girls, you can have an equal chance with a 7 or a 10. Once a girl is in the category of every guy is in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:48 PM
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Modern dating comes down to maximizing your opportunities to give yourself a choice. Many guys on Reddit are upset because they don’t get easy access to girls and hookups dating apps provide. Girls are unhappy because they keep fucking players who won’t commit. The reality is, average guys have never had these casual opportunities with women in the history of time. Women only going to randomly fuck and chase men who are desirable in some war. It’s just more out in the open now with apps and Inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:37 PM
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If that 50 yr old is buff, looking handsome, has money, and a bunch of coke in his pocket. Just watch girls instantly change their opinion about older men. One of the biggest players I’ve ever known is 54 now, he always got some hot young girl. There’s always an exception being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:31 PM
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Give women the opportunity and they will choose the buff juicy pec model or the guy with a mansion and Ferrari every time for a random date. Or at least 2/3 will. Similar goes for guys for a date they will choose the hot girl under 30 nearly every time if given the choice of every girl in the table. Now who those 2 with every dating opportunity ends up marrying may be a different story. Plus most guys and girls can’t date whoever they want so they end up with people in proximity in similar socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:26 PM
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I’m a bit older so I remember dating and how women were before dating apps and social media. Girls were limited by social circles and the direct proximity of where they were to find men. Giving women access to every guy in a 50 mile radius has greatly altered their standards in men they would casually date. Internet isn’t going anywhere so that’s not a viable solution, but it would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:43 PM
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We talk in generalizations on Reddit, the reality is most women are not looking good at 45. The women that are though can get dates and have sex with whoever they choose. Same with older guys. I think the point of the post is that young men aren’t affected in the dating market due to older man preference. For girls in their 20s they date guys in their 30s a ton, young guys are absolutely being affected by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:39 PM
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That’s fair, but past the age of 24 I don’t think any girl is saying no way to a guy of any age as long as he’s attractive and has a nice lifestyle. We act like girls have strict limits on dating, they don’t they like older men if they’re good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:33 PM
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I don’t disagree I’ve been on a few dozen dates with 19-22 and if pressed would be able to only date in that age range of college girl, but it’s a low percentage. The reason isn’t that they think older men are gross, it’s that they want to do college girl activities and date college men. Where the percentage of women that are interested in older men makes the huge jump is 24. By that age, I don’t think they care about age that much, as long as you are desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:24 PM
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Women are still oppressed by women in Middle East and Africa. Free women smv is through the roof, if they cute, they can fuck any guy they want. The only way we stop women from chasing desirable men as their main hobby, is by taking away their rights and make them dependent on men. Supreme Court took away abortion rights to help keep women making babies, if population goes below replacement and society is collapsing they wi take away women’s rights until they comply to having families with regul…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:18 PM
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The study has the most elaborate way possible of stating that Asian girls are randomly fucking white men with stds.
/r/BlackPillScience09/07/24 04:04 PM
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The dating woman who is hypergamous will act desperate for hot men and handsome guys with money. Then shun guys that actually want a real relationship and in her league. The reason many women do this is because they have peers on instagram and friends accomplishing the same thing with men, hot or rich. So she wants that too at any cost to acting desperate, damaged ego, and dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:52 PM
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Most girls in their 20s have zero problem dating a guy in 30s. If you’re attractive and successful you can date girls in their 20s well into your 40s. I know this because I’m 46, in shape, have full head of hair from hair transplant. I’ve had dozens of 18-20 yr old girls hit on me. At bars and clubs it’s easy to talk to and flirt with girls in their 20s. I match on dating apps with 20 yr olds easy, they go on dates. I date whatever age not just 20s, my current gf of a year is 24 and hot. My and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:33 PM
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Non affluent men can date easily if they are attractive, problem is women don’t find most men attractive. The adult dating market consists of very handsome men and fairly attractive affluent men. There’s no way women can sort out anything else, so those guys are getting most of the dates with women who date. Which dating for most women is not going to work since she has the same strategy as most other girls. I had a hot blonde girl that was my friend at work, she decided she was going to date ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:19 PM
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Hypergamy is a norm in dating world, there’s no grand trend of cute waitresses marrying rich handsome men. Every cute waitress has gone on dates with rich handsome men or had sex with some. This sub obsessed with hypergamy because those guys ruin the casual dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:54 AM
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We talk about female hypergamy as if it works, cute girls get to date and fuck handsome rich guys. Doesn’t usually work out for them to land a real relationship with any amount of reliability. I know a ton of the hottest chicks via my work, dating, and going out to clubs. They most all struggling to find that man with the bag that isn’t an old creep and relatively attractive. Most just mess around with hot guys in the meantime. The exception being that are standout very gorgeous, classy, and loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:45 AM
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Dating is not much easier for insta models, they still picking top down on their best options like every other dating girl. The only people in the dating world that have it easy are guys that get consistent dates with women he finds attractive. Then he ends up picking his favorite for a relationship. Girls could have it super easy in dating, but their evolutionary instinct is to land the guy that can attract many other female partners. Which means women are constantly putting themselves at a big…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:22 PM
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Dating girls will front end sex with a guy I suppose in many cases, maybe most of the time it ends up as a pump and dump. I guess I have had so many weekend flings that never turned out. Also, this happens to guys a lot. I can't even count how many times I felt like I was just pumped and dumped. I don't let it get to me, because I got affection from someone I wanted, and I truly know the girl does not care. I do see dating women getting their own rosters going. When things are going good with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:11 PM
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The concept on reddit by men is they are being pumped and dumped. It’s not like that most of the time. The women get treated well, they get dinners, they go out with his friends and do fun things. Which is fine, if you want to date a guy that has you and 3 other women, and just cycles through them, you know how he is even if he says he isn’t. Knowing the girls that do this, I think they believe it will just eventually happen, and it might, just not likely. Then anything less than love, marriage,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:07 PM
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For some dating girls it becomes an addiction. You keep trying to spin the wheel. Guys can offer so much more than girls offer. If you’re life can change, you get into new social circles of perceived more “elite” people, or you flex this hot guy to your friends. For some dating women they get stuck in a cycle of being a plaything to guys. This is why I think being a 7/10 girl that’s very cute and looks presentable in a swimsuit, or maybe you have some real sexual quality like big boobs or butt c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:44 PM
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Your average girl and especially single talks so much about men and guys she’s dating it’s absolutely insane. You ever hear a girls get together in the background, it’s 80% guys they are fucking, and 20% makeup and clothes they got on Shein. They hate men because they pin every life expectation onto us, then have sex with players and expect them to settle down for them. On ppd, some guys talk basic shit about women that’s largely true, if a woman is single long enough and keeps dating, she will …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:38 PM
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If you give them a bunch of pillows they will. Ever seen a group of girls on mdma.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:51 PM
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Great argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:38 PM
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This is it the entire start and end argument of why women hate dating apps. The women on them can’t keep from immediately hooking up with desirable men they get on a date, because they are afraid to lose his attention. The guys at the top just keep fucking women in perpetuity off the app. The girls ego can’t stop from picking the best option and believe she will get the guy to be hers with her mouth and vagina. Don’t tell me chronically online take, this was myself for year and half after my div…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:32 PM
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Men are so fucked in this scenario, get a divorce or breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:56 PM
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Your average girl and especially single talks so much about men and guys she’s dating it’s absolutely insane. You ever hear a girls get together in the background, it’s 80% guys they are fucking, and 20% makeup and clothes they got on Shein. They hate men because they pin every life expectation onto us, then have sex with players and expect them to settle down for them. On ppd, some guys talk basic shit about women that’s largely true,if bc a woman is single long enough, she will fucking despise…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:51 PM
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Your girl has to have a mfing job, truly anything. I had a gf that was a physical therapist, started working for me, then stopped working. Then when out to clubs and parties with friends and fuck other guys and try to leave me. She got so caught up in drugs and fucking millionaires and hot club guys she drive herself crazy and shot herself in the head. Point being, I’ve seen it firsthand and with other guys, your girl need a job, even if it’s stripper, that’s far better than being unemployed lee…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:46 PM
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When guys do this repeatedly and have a bunch of friends who are girls he didn’t fuck, it’s a scarlet letter he carries around that women don’t like him like that, and hurts you with other future girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:42 PM
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OP just made a statement like women do on this sub with no argument whatsoever. The game has changed to online personas and guys don’t want to adjust like women have. If you’re a guy and get your angle going on insta and have a linkedin, and decent place, you’ll get more pussy much easier than any time in history. The 90s were easier in the sense girls were limited by their proximity and current social circles. So if you just met a girl at a bar and made her laugh and shared same music interests…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:38 PM
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If you get yourself as a guy to a 5% match rate and dates you’ll be able to go on dates and get a girlfriend whenever. The problem is with women they can’t resist themselves to not go after guys with great online personas and looking hot, those guys just hookup whenever. Women complain about dating apps because they hooked up with 14 specialist doctors and none of them called her back and 2 were married. The 2 that did work out for awhile he just had 3 other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:09 PM
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If you’re a tall nerd with a couple muscles and high paying nerd job jobs omen think you’re hot. If you’re short ugly nerd you won’t be up with anything great.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:03 PM
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Women are hypergamous largely unsuccessfully. The girl usually just a temp placeholder nonexclusive girlfriend or random hookup to the guy with lots of options. Average men should just wait for an average woman he thinks has an adorable qualities and she wants him back. Take what you can get is crazy, this is your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:07 AM
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Prob some men. Ultimately you want to be with someone that you mutually want to be around, and you find her attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:03 AM
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There’s is such a small percentage of women that care about feminism and politics. It’s something you keep seeing online abe hearing about from 10% of people. If someone is always ranting about feminism or f Joe Biden, or did you hear what Trump said. We are so screwed as a world and nation. Woman or man, they all have 1 thing in common, they are losers in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:58 PM
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Boomers give the most absolutely terrible advice about women. Boomers always act like they were the shit too and they maybe kissed like 4 girls in their life. Your average boomer guy if put in todays society and given his youth back would be worse than an incel. Average boomer would be the weirdest creepiest guy imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:42 PM
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Sure but the problem with women is some young 7/10 that looks good and can have most guys, she keeps going after muscled chads and handsome guys with supercars. She actually believes if she gets with enough of them, one will say yes to relationship. When a girl who’s relatively attracted say she hates dating, this is the real reason every time. Then she gets her ego destroyed finally realizing she’s a 7 and every guy she keeps chasing 9s. She was just a temporary plaything to him and you never h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:36 PM
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They’ll hookup with one, they’ll keep her in his roster if she doesn’t expect much and gives great bjs. If she asks him out on a dating app and knows she’s going to give him passionate sex with little effort he will do it. If I’m on a dating app or out and some okay looking chick is like you’re so handsome, I know she will easily be my sex toy. Girls who are 5-7/10 this is how they get guys out of their league. Could you imagine if you’re a 5/10 guy and you could just offer sex, and the 9/10 hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:14 PM
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According to the US Census: “In 2020, about 35% of men aged 25-34 had never been married, and this percentage is higher for older age groups.” What percentage of 35% by 33 didn’t want to get married, half? Basically every girl I’ve ever known who is normal and social has gone through a ho phase, dating phase, I’m sad my mf broke up with me so I slept with guys to get over it. Juggled multiple guys at the same time. Guys who would like to date want these experiences too, but that’s only for the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:06 PM
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All guys regardless of age would love to take out a hot girl in her early 20s. It just stops being practical for most men in their 40s to have a relationship. Imagine you’re a successful 50 yr old bald with a gut, and your girlfriend is 22 and pretty and you’re at a business dinner. That’s not good for business or appearances. However, if she’s attractive and 44 she makes him look good. Older guy probably going to get along with a girl closer to his age then someone who is his daughter’s age. I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:57 PM
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Men are mad that women get to date and have fun with men. Most guys don’t get to have that dating life. Clearly, odds are most everyone will end up in a relationship. That’s not what men who would like to be able to date are complaining about. It’s fact every woman can date if she wants, and more often she chooses the guys who are able to do date and out of her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:32 PM
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Any person can lie about age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:42 PM
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Lying about what
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:29 PM
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If a woman is attractive at 40 she will have better options for real relationship, because the rarity of her and so many successful good looking guys that don’t want to date more than 10 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:25 PM
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Guys with the vials alway sharing bumps with girls. If a girl regularly attends a club, they hookup with guys from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:54 AM
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Exactly, and every girl here is like I would never make out with a guy, hookup with one, eww gross. Why would I ever want sex or affection? Amazing that women still feel the need to halo themselves even on anonymous forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:41 AM
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Omg the girls on this sub, we got it, you don’t even hookup, you barely like guys, you would only go to club to dance and drive home, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:37 AM
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No girl on pod has ever hooked up with a guy, or they did it once and it was the most lame experience in human history, we got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:35 AM
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If you got a girl that’s going to clubs a lot, she’s meeting guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:29 AM
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You be never done coke at a club, made out with chicks, got drunk, and went to an after party?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:29 AM
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Are you out at nightclubs every weekend? Then you meet guys there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:41 AM
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If you’re a girl that’s going to clubs regularly they’ll be doing that and hooking up with guys. Girls get drunk and horny. Girls go to clubs to find hot guys and ballers. They don’t just really enjoy spending $25 a drink with their friends every weekend, trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:25 AM
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Girls go to clubs, get at guys tables, do coke, drink, maybe go to after party, or back home with a guy. At very least exchanging contact info with guys to meet up later. There’s no regular club going chicks not doing this. Clubs aren’t about dancing these days. Guys go to a club, they might be getting laid by girls at the club and getting girls, or they might not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:12 AM
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If a girl clubs more than twice a month she hooks up with guys. If your girlfriend is going to clubs without you with any regularity, she’s hooking up with guys and cheating on you. If a guy clubs, it doesn’t mean he’s getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:04 AM
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Sure, butwhite American girls and esp younger ones are the least likely to be impressed by how much money you got, acting designer and luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:05 AM
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I find most all women to be great first dates, you'll find out why they are single later. They are good at hiding all the issues with themselves up front and put on a good face in hopes of a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:42 PM
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Vetting for women means you disqualify every guy who hasn't built the perfect online person through google research. The only guys who do this are guys who want tons of dates and girls to hookup with them. I've perfected my online persona and it means dates and sex whenever I want. How do you vet a manwhore? You can't any better than a girl who sleeps around a lot. He's not going to tell you that. Girls need to find guys with flaws, someone who hasn't perfectly crafted himself online with social…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:40 PM
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Dating in the way it is now has never been experienced by humanity before. Before you needed day game, going out, working social circles, you were so limited by what you could access in your proximity. The result wasn't really dating, more just hanging out, and hooking up or not. The incredible level of access that has been granted, doesn't really suit anyone's dating preference. The only people consistently having a great time with no complaints are top dating guys who want to go on lot of date…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:12 PM
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Women will date for potential if they desire him and want him enough. Otherwise, she needs you to be more established or providing something of value to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:23 PM
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Most people need romantic affection and emotional support a partner provides. People need someone to desire and be passionate about them. Sex isn’t the need, being loved is. Saying I’m just happier being single and not dating, I really don’t believe those people they’ve just convinced themselves of that. Having a partner is the natural more fulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:21 PM
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Think about how much your average white couple does not have desire for luxury and opulence as a goal in life. Literally every other couple that’s a primary dream. Being blingy is not going to get you an under 30 cute white American girl. She’d much more want tall handsome and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:32 AM
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They want you to be cute too they just weigh money more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:55 AM
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Cute white American girl Ms are most likely attractive female to want a build a life with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:40 AM
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There’s so many women who are on apps, sure some of them suck, some just people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:27 AM
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My gfs are hot af, my last one over a year adores me. I don’t screen for dates asking do you hookup or not, most do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:05 AM
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Most single women under 35 have used a dating app. More people find relationships online dating than any other place these days. It’s all cope when guys and girls say I don’t like dating apps just a bunch of people that want hookups. It’s all cope, dating apps are great you can find great people. Whatever “high quality” you’re on your high horse about I got 20x you on dating apps and 100x you on instagram. Why you think everyone says women more picky these days, they got every guy at their finge…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:02 PM
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Most girls aren’t currently on a dating app, most guys aren’t on a dating app either. If a girl been single for a few years of her life and she’s under 30, odds are she been on a dating app and went on dates. I can meet girls in real life just fine, you get hotter girls off dating apps and instagram because that’s where all the hot girls are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:51 PM
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I do real life too, dating apps are just 5x easier and more of a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:48 PM
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Msg me I’ll get back later.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:53 PM
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Cute white young american girl is privileged class of the world. Take away worry and girls mainly want fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:53 PM
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It gets you dates and laid whenever you want. The insta is travels, pics at my house, car, hikes, family. I do stories of all sorts of things I’m doing with my life and some make it to top 6 photos of me. Your dating app should be less about you and more of what’s going on in the background. 99% of guys aren’t hot enough to get a date with a cute girl with looks alone. Unless your standout hot or exactly her type. Girls don’t sit and rate you on a scale of 1-10, then say okay you are a 7/10 so y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:33 PM
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In my experience if she finds you attractive, white young American women care the least about how much money you got. If you’re fun and cute that’s what they like more than money. Every other demographic you could possibly come up with I’ve ever been in contact with or dates cares more about money, luxury items, house, status more than a guy’s looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:55 PM
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Guys shouldn’t care or listen to what girls think in this broad topic because they barely understand themselves let alone the landscape of women. If they got sad after a breakup they’re not talking about the 10 dudes they randomly did to try and get over him. They’re not talking about out loud how much they like big dicks, height, and muscles. Girls are different but the same on 2 major issues, looks and lifestyle. Some girls want looks more, some lifestyle more. Small percent girls exist on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:19 PM
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Players drive me up the wall, some of them got lots of friends, it’s usually kinda fake party friends. Players try to fuck your girl with no shame. If you’re after a girl, they try and make you look dumb in front of her, so he can get with her first. Everything alpha about them is I get more hoes than you. I say to those players if I wanted to no one can out hoebag me, I just not trying to fuck every single cute girl I see. We are the same, you just try to fuck relentlessly, it makes me sad for …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:10 PM
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Most guys don’t want girls that bad to get with casually and choose their own girl they really want. That a player’s hobby not what normal guy do. Most guys just want someone decent chick he likes and be done. They’ve had too many painful experiences with women trying to attract them. Don’t want to realize how much dating women sleep around, call them slurs and try to avoid the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:00 PM
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The degrading and treated like sluts is dominant passion for women, which is what they crave. Girls these days love to be throat fucked, some eat your ass to feel degraded, they want to feel the lust you have for her to use her body. It’s an act though for her rotor dump her endorphins and be excited, she wants to be treated nicely by you as a person and have fun together at least most the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:52 PM
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Most guys can’t see the light at end of tunnel if building an online persona and how much easy access to pussy you will be flooded with once you get it done. It’s going to take a few years to get great pictures of yourself and an insta where pretty girls say yes I’ll fuck this guy bc he looks like he’d be a fun boyfriend. Guys dont want put in any thought or effort, they think women should be a guarantee. That’s why I’m not hot, not rich, but always got a hot girlfriend, because I saw the import…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:44 PM
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Yea it’s always I don’t need instagram and dating apps with guys. Well my dating pool is 20x yours and I just drive across the street and have a couple drinks and an appetizer. Bring her over and lead her into my bed. If we both really into each other, “want to be my girlfriend?” Yes, you’re done. I’ve been on 150 dates, they all pretty, my current gf is hot af. These other mfers saying I don’t need an online persona. They navigating friend groups, work, going to bars/clubs, passportbros are cir…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:33 PM
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I’m not saying you can’t find good girls through friends, it’s just not my philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:25 PM
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Why not just get girls at church to date. Some girls attend church to find a godly man. How you going to find what you want if she’s not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:24 PM
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The stigma should be lifted for passportbro. I know couple guys that can plow through hot young chicks easy, but their real girlfriend is in Colombia they spend half the year with. What I would say to a passport bro is find a way for it to become a second home. Get a remote work job and go there because you like the country. Then find a girlfriend or wife, don’t rush 90 day fiancé it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:23 PM
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I got you, but the successful players get their pick of the litter. You need reps with girls to get a girl. Youre living this life of divinity not caring about chicks they ain’t gonna care about you either, and you’re prob going to be settling for some mid tier girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:17 PM
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If you catch a girl looking at you, go talk to her. If you’re just cold approaching, I ain’t got the time or heart to face that much rejection from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:02 PM
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That’s what beta normies usually do, they can’t hunt effectively for their dream girl so they settle through friends. My dream girl love of my life has a 0% chance of being my friends friend, that’s just how I see it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:01 PM
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The bloom is off the rose with dating apps because every girl that was going to try it has by now. Most women who did now realize that surgeon and the handsome guy with juicy pecs is mainly wanting sex and prob not a relationship. Guys date down so they can get laid easy. So yea, I don’t know how your city is, but every chick just migrated to hinge, I couldn’t reach the end of it. Countless and endless women, I had thousands of matches being picky matching. Don’t believe every headline you read.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:58 PM
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Okay, I can too it’s just way harder, way more time consuming, and my options aren’t nearly as good. I can get 5 dates sitting on my couch for a couple hours on dating apps or insta. 3 of those dates will show up by my house, then jump in my bed after few hours. 1 or 2 of them would instantly be my girlfriend if I ask. How do you meet women? Having an online persona makes dating, getting laid, and a girlfriend as easy as it can possibly be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:53 PM
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Your link say Hinge is not a sausagefest. Women aren’t usually active showing their profile for long periods of time on dating apps like men do. About the same percent use them. Women are more active on dating apps as a whole because they logon and get dates and then turn it off. If you’re just swiping and barely getting a match and no dates, I wouldn’t call you “active” on a dating app I’d call you just looking. Most girls under 30 used a dating app and gone on a date. Of the girls you’d like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:49 PM
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The counter argument I have to this is getting women easily and multiple vying for your affection feeds your ego. Once you know you’ve developed the power, now you can decide and control. Once you’ve got it together so you can get girls you have benefited your life. Now change gears, stop caring about hoes, and find the type of girl that makes you feel happy and whole. When it doesn’t work out, that’s fine, you have the tools to get another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:41 PM
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This is a good post, if you got more out then up. There’s a be careful what you wish for element to red pill. I can’t tell you one story including myself of achieving the goals of red pill and it benefiting your life. Here’s what happens when you access all the attractive hoes in the dating market. You got your options, you’re going out, you got friends, you trained for muscles, you got your harems you’re cycling through. This does not improve your quality of life. Life of a player is, wasting m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:27 PM
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Pills are very much up to interpretation in 2024. Red: Click bait content mostly, we got some edgey things to say about how dating women are hoes. Do this and you can improve. Buy my program to get hot pussy.. Blk: Girls only have pure lust for Chad. You prob need to betabux to get a girl. You can only improve so much. If you accept your fate in life, that’s okay. Blue: Normal people pc thinking, usually referencing people that don’t know about pills. That’s the current state I see it, doesn’t m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:17 PM
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Let me dispel this total myth right now that’s his premise. If you’re a normal cute woman the chance that you haven’t met a guy or many off dating apps or social media is nil. What women can get online has set the new standard for interactions with men in real life. Women pause dating apps and get back on, they’re not usually active always on. So this whole men outnumber women in dating apps 5 to 1 is a lie. Hinge is endless with women, I swiped everyday for 9 months last year, I couldn’t get to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:04 PM
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Dating focus is just having a good time. Bringing out in the open how modern women date by red pill to give guys some knowledge, so they know what to do and not feel down on themselves can help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:13 PM
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World was more open in the 90s without phones. I don't think people dated in the 90s, you just said hey we having a party, or you want to meet here for this thing. In the 90s if you went on dates with people you didn't even know, that meant you were a total loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:28 AM
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Redpill has nothing directly to do with being angry and lonely at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:24 AM
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I've done online dating off and on from 37-43yrs old. I think I just got a fun profile and I have a lot of things going for me, because no girl says I'm hot. I look at dating apps as hookup apps and maybe a girlfriend if I'm way into her. I dated girls 20-45 yrs old, they all pretty nice, dating is a fun experience for most part. Girls don't want young guys, they got to be hot. They want guys that got lifestyle and careers. if you're just some standard cute young guy, that don't work anymore wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:36 PM
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Men choose women 40+ to date and are attracted to them, that's a myth. Guys fall in love with a girl as a person, and rely on them as their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:21 PM
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Most men don't have that much dating experience. You're going to need to go on 50 dates in a year to get a grasp on the big picture of what types of girls are trying to accomplish or say they are trying to, but are just having fun. Girls get dating experience easy if they, most men haven't gone on a ton of dates in the way girls on dating apps do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:17 PM
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He's lame, that's a pathetic starter and she got him for it. I feel like I'm a top 1%er in dating apps. I end up in the top picks for girls and get sent roses and superlikes some days. The strategy with texting for me is this. Find something interesting about her profile that most other guys wouldn't notice, if it's obvious don't ask. Perceived hobby, a place she visited etc. If she has nothing you can find, just ask her out first text. If she responds positively, then say what you want to do, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:11 PM
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Civilization will collapse and fall for perhaps all sorts of reasons. However, for sure we oppressed women to keep men happy and working and providing for a family. Apparently when we don't oppress women, they for most part just cause drama with other women and chase hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:05 PM
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Players who are in it for life, it's a deep rooted insecurity about themselves. Their literal goal in life is to have sex with as many women as possible. Most importantly, they want to fuck that girl before you do if you happen to be friends with one. I act like a player to attract women, but stop to find a partner. Lifelong players are insecure and end up with sad lives. The fact that women practically line up for players who've perfected how to get in a girl's pants seems like a glitch in wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:41 PM
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Red pill may have captured 2% of guys under 40, or they'll support it to some degree. Blue Pill normies are 95% of guys. 1% Black. Then 3% of guys who understand female nature are players or retired ones they are half black/half red by nature. Most players the way they talk they think they are the chosen ones (Chads), and the rest are black.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:35 PM
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If you're at least 5'9" nearly any guy can be a player, guys just don't want to put in the effort. -Going bald, get a hair transplant -Can't grow a beard and weak chin, jaw surgery -Can't get big muscles no matter how hard you try in gym, get trt/hgh -Fix your teeth and bleach them -Get a good barber -Sit and stand with your back straight -Don't talk like a wuss, be sure of yourself -Get a job, get some expendable income, get a nice place, get a car -Make an instagram where you're doing actual f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:27 PM
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Most guys don’t care about having harems of girls and make pussy their hobby. There’s very few born chads. Most guys have to learn the art of picking up women, then practice it. Tell a random cute guy to head to a bar/club and pickup a girl to have sex with you that night, he’s going to be nervous, and probably not be able to. For a player, that’s his second nature to sort through choosing signals, talk to girls, then ask them over to his place. He has developed a knack for getting laid. Most gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:38 PM
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Yes you get my point, I am a whore when I’m dating too, it actually helps me get the relationship with the girl I want, but that doesn’t work for most women, they just are temp placeholder non exclusive girlfriends on repeat. I’ll explain, you meet a girl who’s actively dating, off dating app, or out in bars/nightclubs. She’s currently having more fun, cycling through more men than most men can possibly imagine. Some girls who date are reserved, it’s a small percentage. Guys would really like to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:16 PM
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I’m not sure you can read, never said anything like that. Incels are blamed for most mass shootings. There are studies on .gov sites on whether incels are a threat to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:52 PM
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How’s a raging lesbo different from standard. Like do you want to eat 4 boxes stacked onto each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:38 AM
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Because it’s not just looks like women get to skate by on. Men have to have a great combo or be very hot to be lusted for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:37 AM
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This is a trait common in all women unless you’re noticeably handsome or standing next to a beautiful woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:17 AM
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Women notice men that match markers for attractiveness and look and smile. If you’re with a beautiful woman or you’re tall, no gut, hair, solid build, no slouch women subconsciously process all this without thinking. If you pass she will glance make eye contact and smile. I had a gut one time and all girls ignored me, I lost my hair ignored, then got hair transplant and got it back. Once you pass all the markers most women are checking you out as you pass by. I’m not hot, but all women say I’m h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:08 AM
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I don’t care just kidding lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:13 AM
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I’ve been married for 8 years before and it was the biggest mistake by far of my life. Half of everything, and monthly alimony for the valuation of business you own that she did nothing for will destroy you. Happens to lots of guys who own businesses or have pensions. Her money from you is guaranteed in a legal document, doesn’t matter if your business situation changes. I’d prefer not to get married, but sure I’ve been together over year, she’s sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:27 PM
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You have no idea. They were banned 2 days before the release of the Joker movie because they were worried about movie theater shootings. Reddit decided to distance themselves from incels as much as they could, so subs got banned and any talk about blk pill to this day will get you permanently banned from Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:11 PM
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What women do is they don’t even see men, most are invisible to them, they give them no cognitive recognition. What they want is the opposite too, if she has no interest in interacting with you (which is most men) she wants those men to not be able to see her. Most men are just seen as a hassle, nuisance and potential danger to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:18 PM
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You’re right, I didn’t know until there was this girl wearing those crack leggings off Shein and underboob at my gym. I called the police about it and they hung up on me. I thought they still sent women to jail for indecent exposure. I know now, and your comment has confirmed it to me. Your ability to stick up for women is unparalleled and is a grand benefit to all humanity, I thank you good sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:35 PM
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I consider myself a player when I’m single, I followed incel groups, Elliot Roger type content is hate speech they banned that. They want to be Chad and don’t like that affection for women is a guarantee in life, and a struggle for them. I get it, I’ve spent a couple years in high school where no girl wanted me at all, it sucks. Women walk around and don’t even recognize the existence of most men in any casual romantic way. It’s a plight of the average and below average man that has gone on like…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:00 PM
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They are doing squats, or doing raised leg presses right in front of me, or asking me to share sets on a machine. If I’m out at a club or bar they can be in your proximity. The arms race for revealing clothing for women has hit the zenith, your ass cheeks hanging out and underboob and cleavage at the same time is the norm. I’m not mad, I just laugh at them, like who is this for, how much attention do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:55 PM
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The real reason is they talk shit about women. Women don’t like that and report them. All incel groups are banned across all social media. Women are allowed to openly and freely talk whatever shit about men and even specific ones they know all they want. Women are catered to on socials.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:49 PM
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Awe cute, I hope you get laid with your supportive commen for women that walk around basically naked. I know that, police dont cite women at the beach for wearing bikinis anymore got it, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:47 PM
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Women risk their reputation, stds, unwanted pregnancies, cheat, or fuck their friends man, for a guy that’s desirable and better than her. If she’s going to spend a hour getting ready for a date and drive half hour to meet him, that’s because he’s a desirable man, not average or below. Women don’t do this for guys in her league she can get easily. This is the entire reason dating is so messed up. Girls have zero interest in chasing average guys or guys in their league. Men and other women say th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:44 PM
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Women’s clothing is so revealing now, especially certain gym attire just by a glance I see their entire crack outline, the shape of their pussy lips, half their breasts, and exact circumference of their nipples. I’m not sure who they need to do this for, but they love to put their ass and tits out for the gram to get some likes and simps salivating so I believe this is how it got to this point. Im so tired of automatically knowing what girls in the gym will look like totally naked, when I see a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:34 PM
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It’s because if you tell a woman there is a guy that is struggling to get laid. Women know they would prefer that guy didn’t exist, and sees him as a possible danger to her and likely society. They know all women can get laid super easy, so the concept of a guy that is having problems must be a complete low life or a creepy weirdo that might rape her in her own mind. Women run social media, even Reddit will bend over backwards for them. So incels are demonized by women and then the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:16 PM
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Women utilize their youth and beauty the best way they think they can. It usually doesn’t work out because players like to fuck as many cute women as humanly possible and women chase players. Dating girls run around and spread for the biggest manwhores on the planet. Girlfriends and guys will say don’t f him and stop chasing him, he’s already got a girlfriend and he’s been with literally 1000 women. Most dating women will do it anyway until their ego is destroyed. That’s my dating reality. I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:03 PM
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“Reality through your own lens” is why I find Reddit to be so fun and addictive. Most women on this sub have zero ability to debate or just don’t want to, they just want to assume every guy that has any opinion that isn’t glowingly positive about women must be an incel, so she trolls him to feel superior. Why I like this sub and it cracks me up, is it has every type of guy that exists throwing in their own perspective. If some guys perspective is way off it’s the type of guy that says he’s been …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:17 PM
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Guys will get girls in his league, but not casually, or by dating around. You obviously don’t subscribe to the 80/20 rule that 80% of women are chasing 20% of the guys so it’s not worth arguing with you about how you think women and men league and dating are a straight line. It’s not, dating women are always trying to casually get with guys out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:01 PM
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If you’re a 9+/10 guy that’s good with women then it’s prob only 7+/10 cute girls that look presentable in a swimsuit that you got time for. I’ve seen 6s consistently date, but not land exclusively hot guys and guys with money. Takes women virtually no effort, just get on a dating app and make yourself available to men out of your league. They will take you out for a drinks and f you for sure, prob toss her in his harem if she gives great bjs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:58 PM
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The problem is that if you’re a woman that’s a 6/10 you can get the attention of the hottest and richest men, by simply making yourself available enough to them. That and low level guys simping for them is the source of all female delusion. For the dating girl they would rather be in the roster of a hot or handsome guy with a nice lifestyle than any regular guy. Regular guys in their actual league are the backup plan they think are guaranteed, and usually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:25 PM
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Hot guys get called creeps, women get on their high horse over anything to protect their ego. Women off dating apps always got a few guys they effing. If you saw the full Hawk Tuah video she admitted to having 7 guys in her rotation. Find a girl that really wants you and you enjoy being with her and stop dating and just be together. Dating for men is annoying even when it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:35 AM
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It’s a pretty rare category of woman that can pull this off and it still is work. Some attractive women try, but most of them will fail. There will always be privileged people in society. If you are ridiculously handsome man you can live off women too and scam them. Make money from gay or in the closet simps. I know model looking guys that do the same things very hot women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:16 AM
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Sure, you can be a disgusting old fuck with money and offer a green card, and there is websites to flip through who you want and they are real cute some of them. The fat guy from 90 day fiancé is a player doing this. Some girls just want to leave their country. I’m talking about picking up girls for real in their country like you would in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:22 PM
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Yea but you get hit on sometimes, this guy wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:01 PM
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They are young hot chicks, club chicks, sexy girls that get into parties in mansions. Once you get your game down, you never mess with mid girls again. I pick up my girls off dating apps because I spent years building a fun insta, I could sleep with 3 new girls every week that’s cute and looks great in a swimsuit, I have a gf now she’s a knockout, guys just send her money off socials everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:21 PM
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I could see that, we’re just on vacation going to big nightclubs, bars, hitting up girls on dating apps. I observed the guy who hasn’t been with a girl in a year is having lots of problems. He prob does a less casual approach and it’ll work eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:16 PM
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I don’t think they use condoms most of the time. They get herpes, then occasionally get clap or gon and then you take penicillin and it’s gone in a few hours. The real problem is how many abortions they’ve paid for which is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:13 PM
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If you can’t get girls in America and you want a cute girl anywhere in the world, it’s not going to work. All cute girls have standards. If you get cute girls in America then going to Colombia or Philippines and pick up girls it will be a lot easier. I know because I been there, and I went with one guy that couldn’t pull girls in America and no girl wanted him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:43 PM
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If you’re a dork who can’t get girls in America the only reason a girl is going to want you is marriage and green card. However, if you do pretty well with women in America, you will slay girls like crazy as a passport bro. I’ve been to Colombia 3 times, I’m a tall white handsome man, regular girls will come up to you and want you, it’s actually amazing feeling. One of guys was 5’7” and stocky, couldn’t get anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:38 PM
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Women know when guys have options, they want to be one of your options for chance at relationship. Some guy who has no girls is almost always not even worth talking to for a dating woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:34 PM
3

I don’t think most guys care, they just want a gf/wife and don’t aspire to game women. I remember being 16 and was at a bonfire party with some guys, some were 17-20 yrs old. These 3 girls from neighboring town were just randomly nearby, they were some cuties. Within 15 minutes 3 guys were just making out with them like crazy, in front of everyone. I knew from that point just navigating a girlfriend was not enough I wanted to know how to pick up on girls and just instantly get with them. The rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:46 AM
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You need some attractive aspects as a guy to be a player, but it is mostly just being interested in art of picking up girls, and developing a knack for it. I go full player mode when I’m single, that’s how you’re able to get a girlfriend that you’re crazy about. Then ask her to be exclusive and you’re done. The player guys that can just cycle through harems for years, that’s their hobby and they are good at it. They never have any full downtime where they’re not hooking up with some girl, usuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:22 AM
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The glitch in dating women is they are super susceptible to players, I know 5 guys in their 40s that have slept with 500-1000 women. They’re not models, they cool though, and pussy is their hobby. They can pick up girls literally whenever. I normally have a girlfriend, but since I got a nice place, cool insta, and I’m tall I just get dates whenever I want. I went on a streak going on 13 dates in a month, I slept with all of them the first date. I learned how to pick up women at college, most guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:55 AM
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If you just did 100k+/yr, 6in+, 6ft+ and not obese 18-36 guys, you’re far into the top 1% of men without even talking about whether they are attractive or not. Combinations like this get to be a fraction of a percentage of available men. Girls that are not fat and have any job 18-28 is prob 8% of women. They are all chasing top 1% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:32 AM
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Women lie to themselves about this and they will never tell the truth. If she sucked 4 ds one night it had 75 yr old sugar daddies, and already had 3 guys she was fucking at point she met you, she not talking about any of it likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:04 PM
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Actively dating is for women to get a specific type of guy they want or guy out of their league. Women already can get guys in their league in their proximity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:03 PM
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If you’re a guy in a dead bedroom, your girl will cheat and still expect you to be 100% faithful to her. The only time you’ll get any credit from your girl is if another girl that is attractive is totally down to have sex with, she knows about it, and you totally ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:15 PM
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I’ve had a number of age gap relationships and dated close to my age. My current gf is 20 years younger than me and older women understand why and guys think it’s cool bc she’s young and hot. Guys will want to hang out with you because she has young attractive single friends. We go anywhere people treat us really nice. When you have a young sexy gf on your side your social status is improved in all situations. Most girls by 25 will date an older man, no one cares, no one thinks you’re grooming h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:42 PM
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Oh absolutely it’s fine, my last gf thought it was guarantee she would make money off simps and get a bf to take care of her. My current gf is hot as hell and does get that and she doesn’t see it as a guarantee. The last 2 long term relationships they thought it was found to be easy to do that, then they got the wake up call after relentlessly cheating on me, then they found out. My current gf is super hot and does get random money from guys, then she respects me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:26 AM
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Based on your description you’re not a normal girl, most all girls want tall handsome men with a charmed life. They chase after those guys. I’m chill fun guy that loves women and wants an exclusive relationship. As long as I keep myself in the gym and keep my money up, my bed will never be empty and women will try and get with me. It’s either you’re me or a you’re a hot guy, we can have as many girls vying for our affection as we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:41 PM
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First one we met in early 20s, second she was 12 years younger and she was 23. It’s a kinda burden of being 6’1”, 7”, and having a great lifestyle. When you get a girlfriend that’s now her league in her head, even though she’s never been with a hot guy or tall handsome guy with money ever exclusively, she now thinks it’s repeatable. So she gets unhappy or thinks she can do better and any guy better than me or really hot, they just get used for sex and that’s it. Then they repeat that process, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:29 PM
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My gf is super hot and attractive women hit on me all the time, but okay whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:58 PM
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One divorced me and has been an awful demonic cunt to me going in 9 years now. The other tried to monkey branch from me for last year we were together. I took her back and caught her trying to cheat again, I said no more and broke up again and she broke down my window, grabbed the gun in my house and shot herself in the head, I would be in prison right now if I didn’t record the whole incident. I’m tall, handsome, and make half million a year and they decided they could do better, when they real…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:33 PM
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The last thing any girl cares to help another guy with is to fuck another girl unless their bff is explicitly requesting it. Don’t listen to women about dating advice, they will intentionally sabotage you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:27 PM
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No you wouldn’t. If you were a girl 50/50 chance I’ll charm the pants off you the first night you meet me if I decide. All women are looking for the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:18 PM
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I’m just talking about the mindset, if you’re tall handsome and rich you can have 2 hot girls giving you bjs at the same time. Normal guys have to get lucky. I get chicks and I have a girlfriend, girls hook up with me, and it’s for my lifestyle, height, full head of hair, working out, nice place, girls immediately hop in those guys’ bed for the chance with a total package man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:54 PM
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