springyslinkies Archive

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2	Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material" “Maximum reward”? Why eat a gourmet meal when it’s easier and cheaper to have McDonald’s? Better yet, why don’t we all just pour some dog food into a bowl and call it dinner? There are things about actually loving women as people that are rewarding besides getting to blast loads inside them on the reg, as long as you aren’t a fucking sociopath lmao. Healthy, happy people want not only to be loved and known, but to love and to know. If you don’t find yourself conscious to or aware of this basic h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 06:51 AM
3	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. Strawman argument and fault/responsibility fallacy. If you’re in the position where paternity is in question, you’re responsible to investigate that. Not responsible to raise a child that isn’t yours, but responsible to initiate the investigation yourself instead of expecting it to be done for you, especially considering that doing so is very affordable and easy and there are high social costs to making it the default. You have to initiate the investigation if you’ve been raped or robbed, too. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 09:23 PM
2	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. Why are you nutting raw inside women crazy enough to baby-trap you? Why aren’t you bringing your own condoms? Why are you attracted to and having sex with women like this in the first place? Why is it the government and healthcare system’s responsibility to protect you by default from consequences of unprotected sex in a world where free condoms are everywhere, at-home paternity tests are $30, and no one is forcing you to stick your dick in looney tunes? Baby-trapping isn’t normal or common beha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 09:03 PM
1	Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners? You haven’t managed to refute a single one of my actual points in the past two comments. I have a sneaking suspicion that the tantrum you’re throwing/the fact that you’re zeroing in on one move I made that you didn’t like and insulting me instead of actually addressing any of my ideas is related to that. Who’s acting in bad faith here? I don’t frequent TwoX because I am interested in open discussion. I often have civil and productive discussions with people whose views aren’t too far off from yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 05:13 PM
1	Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners? This is a debate sub, not a dumping ground for your resentment. If you’re not interested in engaging with your ideas and having them challenged, go to a redpill echo chamber because that’s literally what this platform is for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 04:57 PM
1	Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners? Ok, so, you’ve seen some men on Reddit who were uncomfortable enough with their partner’s sexual past to end their serious relationships. Reddit also had a rapist AMA and an AITA thread where most of the commenters agreed that the father of a teenage girl was wrong for not purchasing sex toys for her. My point being that cherry-picked anecdotes on Reddit are not strong pieces of evidence and are insufficient to prove anything meaningful about gender relations or human nature. All this proves or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 04:42 PM
1	Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners? Head on over to r/relationship_advice and you'll see how common these concerns actually play out I spend an embarrassing amount of time on r/relationship_advice and other relationship subs. I have never seen any posts along these lines. Some regarding cheating, but not promiscuity alone. Can you provide an example? There are exceptions where a promiscuous woman might be from a small town or meet her partner from a mutual friend group where it is known by all that she sleeps around, but that miss…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 03:33 AM
1	Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners? you don't have to deal with the humiliation of locking down the town bicycle Humiliation how? Unless you're in a rural area or it's an extreme case where she has a three-plus digit N-count, casual sex is generally pretty anonymous. These days, people looking to hook up usually fuck strangers with no mutual friends from apps. Your family and friends probably wouldn't know. You wouldn't know unless she tells you. So I think any humiliation you'd feel as a response to this is more about you than an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 10:46 PM
0	Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice? Some people aren’t going to like the bluntness of what I have to say here, but the dating pool isn’t representative of the general population. People who are good at forming and maintaining connections tend to get in relationships and stay in them, so they’re out of the dating pool and you’re left with the rest: people who are almost certainly less attractive, less stable, and have fewer relationship and interpersonal skills on average than their counterparts. Lots of people point to the OKC stu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 12:38 AM
3	Gut check: how do we, as a community, feel about staying friends with your exes? No lingering exes, period. I don’t do it and I wouldn’t tolerate it. Top relationship researchers (e.g., Gottman) have been gathering evidence for decades that relationships usually end because of repeated betrayal. Sometimes this is obvious stuff like cheating or abuse, but other times it’s more subtle stuff like complacency and blowing your partner off when they want to connect. Either way, I don’t want friends I don’t trust. I also think keeping exes around is inherently disrespectful to a se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 01:32 AM
1	Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute does I can't grasp this idea that people who want to be attached to you and feel safe with you automatically do not want to fuck you and are having pity sex if they do put out. This is 100% Madonna-whore complex bullshit and these things aren't mutually exclusive in anything remotely resembling a healthy relationship. If this is really what you think all relationships look like, you are probably either really young or have been acting like and dating trash. The standard for a relationship is usually …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 11:06 PM
2	Parental DNA test for all newly born children I think this thread is generally referring to “baby-trapping” as a situation where a woman knows there is more than one possible father of her baby but picks the option who is most convenient, often because he’s her partner and she has a lot to lose by telling him she cheated. She doesn’t tell him about the possibility that the baby might not be his, so he ends up unknowingly raising and pouring resources into another man’s child. So, she traps him into child support. I haven’t seen evidence ind…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 11:27 PM
3	Parental DNA test for all newly born children I’m not saying baby-trapping never happens or is impossible. I just don’t see why we need to collectively facilitate an opt-in at hospitals around the country for the 1% of dudes who barebacked a woman who is baby-trapping them. There are already reliable options to contest paternity if the potential father wants to. There’s not evidence to suggest paternity testing should be a mainstream part of the childbirth process. The only reason I could see why someone would think this is a mainstream-app…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 10:19 PM
1	Parental DNA test for all newly born children Those numbers have largely been debunked. The 3.7% figure is considered the upper bound of a possible range of incidence for this. Redpillers thinking cuckolding is a problem warranting grand-scale intervention is the definition of projection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 08:45 PM
1	Parental DNA test for all newly born children You still haven’t provided a source for this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 08:33 PM
4	Parental DNA test for all newly born children If you have evidence from a reliable source that paternity fraud and baby-trapping is a widespread enough problem to outweigh the detriments of testing by default, I’d love to see it, because that’s not what’s turning up for me. I think contorting society to fit the interests of the 2% of potential fathers who rawdogged women they couldn’t trust instead of just letting those people seek paternity testing on their own is ridiculous and sets an unhealthy and unreasonably restrictive and invasive p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 07:51 PM
3	Parental DNA test for all newly born children Someone is going to have to enforce this to make it universal and widespread. Someone is going to have to make that decision. I don’t think modern healthcare companies would feel comfortable with the ramifications of sending the message that they want to prioritize catching baby trappers. So it would probably have to be the government. But you can replace “government” with “powerful and influential collective entity” (which would be necessary either way) and my earlier statement still stands.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 07:17 PM
3	Parental DNA test for all newly born children A government policy to offer paternity tests as the default whenever a child is born would send the message that baby-trapping, cheating, and otherwise huge violations of trust are a widespread problem and something you should be really worried about. I don’t think it’s a good idea to normalize approaching relationships committed enough to include children with paranoia, mistrust, and vigilance. People who have questions can seek out paternity testing, but treating that as the default wouldn’t b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 06:56 PM
0	Parental DNA test for all newly born children Cheating isn’t something that tends to just happen in happy and healthy relationships. Whether a relationship degrades to the point that one or both people are cheating is not random. It’s usually a symptom of an unhealthy dynamic. It’s not carjacking; you don’t need to watch your back to make sure it doesn’t happen to you. You can usually make an educated guess based on the context of knowing someone for a while how trustworthy they are. That’s why responsible adults use birth control when they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 05:53 PM
5	Parental DNA test for all newly born children You are astoundingly naive if you think a man checking an optional paternity test box when leaving the hospital with his wife and new baby wouldn’t be damaging to their marriage. You might not take it as “accusing your wife of cheating,” but plenty of women would. The government intervening in getting guys out of baby daddy duty sends a societal message and sets a precedent I’m extremely uncomfortable with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 05:45 PM
2	Parental DNA test for all newly born children 3-10%? First of all, what is your source on this? It’s hard for me to conceive how this kind of data could be collected ethically. Even if it were ethical, think about what kinds of people would seek out and participate in this kind of study. I’m open to this being good, generalizable data but it’s just hard for me to see how it could be. Second, I frankly have a hard time believing the motivation underlying wanting to spend unnecessary government money to “gotcha” cheating women is not rooted i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 05:38 PM
1	What's a belief you hold that the ideology you identify with would vehemently deny? I’m (F) with you on casual sex but think FWB is worse than one-night stands, as long as everyone involved in the ONS is honest about their intentions and is not promising or implying more and then pumping and dumping. I’d feel better about dating someone who hired a hooker every time he was horny than someone who had pretend relationships tide him over until he found someone good enough to love and not just use. Neither are ideal, but at least hiring a sex worker is honest and shows the man is w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 01:30 PM
1	What's a belief you hold that the ideology you identify with would vehemently deny? Yeah I agree with most of what you said. TRP probably does work if you just want to bang women and you don’t care whether they have a few screws loose. I just think it’s more productive to take the long road of becoming a better and more empathetic person. Pursuing a lifetime of flings and casual sex as a man feels like weak adherence to ideology and bending to fear and mistrust over trying to pursue fulfillment with a woman who treats you right. It feels like PUAs are seeking revenge over some …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/22 03:45 PM
3	What's a belief you hold that the ideology you identify with would vehemently deny? Here are my main bluepill beliefs. I am pretty traditional so note a lot of the RP stuff I disagree with is alt-right: Being a functional human with relationship skills who knows how to treat people well and navigate conflict is significantly more important to securing a good man as a woman than being conventionally attractive. Nerdy fat chicks from my HS are all happily married (to other fat people, but still). And all the bitchy, hot Insta models who drop stacks on makeup, skincare, and person…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/22 12:34 PM
12	What's a belief you hold that the ideology you identify with would vehemently deny? I’m (F) more bluepilled I guess, but I believe: Casual sex is a shit deal for women 90+% of the time, and most women know this deep down, so doing it a lot is usually representative of deeper problems Most people would be happiest if they found a way to create a nuclear family and do a good job parenting — we are hardwired to feel fulfilled by spreading our DNA Showing off your body, stripping, doing porn, and engaging in sex work as a woman is inherently disempowering and degrading no matter ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 08:41 PM
1	For people who are childless and unmarried in their 30/40s, do you feel regretful when you see young people starting families? If you hang out with far-left wokies who work in mental healthcare or are around university campuses and high schools where 30% of people use nontraditional pronouns, yes, people often openly talk about smashing patriarchy and how much they are annoyed by straight relationships and hate listening to their female friends discuss their healthy and happy relationships with male partners. It is truly over the top and is essentially a dick-measuring contest for who can be the most countercultural and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 08:18 PM
2	For people who are childless and unmarried in their 30/40s, do you feel regretful when you see young people starting families? Some people don’t want kids from the start and don’t change their minds. Other people decide they don’t want kids when they start reading the writing on the wall that it might not happen. It depends on the person and while I’m definitely not saying people who don’t want to be parents are all lying to themselves, people in the latter category absolutely do exist. The fact that childfree people tend to be militant and defensive indicates to me that there is some insecurity underlying that choice f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 08:04 PM
–	The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways. That’s because they’re probably nice people who have actual relationship skills and don’t kid themselves into believing the best way to lock down a good man is to starve themselves and drop a paycheck a month on makeup and skincare. Play superficial games, win superficial prizes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 08:01 PM
–	The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways. Yeah, there’s a lot of projection and objectification. I warned past partners outright, often on the first date, that I had a lot of baggage and was high maintenance. And it was always surprised Pikachu face when, guess what? I had a lot of baggage and was high maintenance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 07:55 PM
2	For people who are childless and unmarried in their 30/40s, do you feel regretful when you see young people starting families? 28F, finally in a relationship for the first time that I know is sustainable. We are planning to marry and start having kids within the next few years. I was in the position a year or so ago where I wasn’t sure whether it was going to happen and started trying to tell myself that ending up alone and childless would be just fine, even though I had my kids’ names picked out ten years ago and feel like I was put on this Earth to be a mother. Honestly, I was just lying to myself to make myself feel …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 07:39 PM
5	if your partner did gain a lot of weight and looked significantly more chubby, would that be a deal breaker ? If my partner gained a significant amount of weight, I’d be concerned about his mental and physical health and would want to know how I could help him get healthy again. It’s “in sickness and in health,” not “until you get depressed and can’t put down the Haagen-Dazs, then it’s too much for me and I’m out.” If it takes a long time, then it takes a long time. We solve problems together because that’s what people who love each other do. I would never look at my partner seriously suffering and stru…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 02:31 PM
3	The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways. Yeah, there is also almost no overlap between the kinds of people who make good partners and the kinds of people who are specifically attracted to basket cases. There’s a huge and unsustainable power imbalance when one partner has lost their marbles and the other has to constantly take care of them. If being a parent to an adult who can’t function scratches an itch for you, you should probably see a therapist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 01:51 PM
9	The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways. Yeah, working on my mental health honestly did way more for my (F) dating prospects than losing 50lbs. Found my person, but it took no longer being a basket case to make it happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 04:17 AM
0	If dating was a subject/unit what grade would you give yourself? 28F. I got F’s on a lot of the assignments, but an A+ on the final exam (found a perfectly-matched man who treats me like absolute gold). Probably averages out to a B-.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 12:19 AM
1	Make yourself scarce instead of perceiving other's as scarce I don’t know, man. Low-effort, aloof men are a dime a dozen on the dating scene. Women who like and are secure in themselves don’t find it attractive to be treated like an afterthought.	/r/seduction	24/07/20 03:56 PM