sqowz Archive

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1	Do I need social media? I have Whats up and Linked-in xD You don't need to call her right away, right? Also with that in mind, a lot of guy made mistakes by confirming her number right there right then. On the opposite, if she's the one confirming it, she's definitely interested. If your phone don't have cell service, no problem, you got her number anyway text/call her anytime you're comfortable. But not right after. You don't even need to talk, just open the dialer hand her your phone. She'll know what to do (if she's interested). After she punch her…	/r/seduction	15/02/25 05:22 PM
8	Do I need social media? I have Whats up and Linked-in xD Number or nothing. If she don't give her number, well... she's not interested. Period. NEXT!!!	/r/seduction	15/02/25 04:37 PM
16	Shit-test She gets mad If people get upset with your approach or routines, it might mean you're not calibrated enough. However, one person's reaction doesn’t necessarily mean you're off track; you need to test it on more people to see patterns. If everyone gets mad, then it's time to adjust. It's one of the price you must pay, in exchange of becoming socially calibrated person. That said, my rule of thumb is: if she’s mad but still directing all her energy toward you, that’s actually a good sign. You only truly lose h…	/r/seduction	13/02/25 05:13 PM
2	Not approaching, now what? I'm absolutely dying to know your 512-step master plan for walking up to a person, saying hi and then having normal conversation with them. I mean, surely you've outlined every excruciating detail in your book, right?	/r/seduction	11/02/25 03:24 AM
9	Not approaching, now what? 3 second rule. 1, 2, 3 approach, no compromise. What to say? Anything. For a starter why not just say "hi". Because if you can't even say hi to her don't even think about pulling off some witty pickup lines right there right then.	/r/seduction	10/02/25 04:18 PM
1	How to initiate conversations with women at the club? nice	/r/seduction	08/02/25 04:04 PM
16	How to initiate conversations with women at the club? Openers can be anything. For indirect one I found situational opener works best (weather, atmosphere, people and such). For direct one which is more ballsy just say she's pretty and you want to know more about her. No need to overthink about opener. But generally clubs with loud music are bad venue to initiate conversations IMO. But that depends on what kind of club you have in mind,. Anyway I would go with direct one in clubs because why would anyone go to the club dressing and appear glamorous…	/r/seduction	08/02/25 03:29 PM
2	Struggling to Meet Girls in Clubs – Need Help from A to Z If it's easy, it's not worth the fight. I'm introverted, and that's my primary reason why I started with night game : I'm not a smooth talker, In fact I stutter a lot and people always criticize me I mumble when I talk. So I use my body language as my primary arsenal. And nobody's start natural. You don't see babies picking up hot nurses and saying some cheesy pickup lines when they born. Look, nobody forces you to do it, and honestly club scene/night game is not necessary and it's just not for …	/r/seduction	07/02/25 12:57 PM
3	Struggling to Meet Girls in Clubs – Need Help from A to Z You're a good friend for saying that. Props to you. That means you don't blame the situation or other person with your condition. Just a note I don't blame your friend either and I'd still recommend you to go out alone though. Because you will always come back to him every time things get uncomfortable and that would slow you down. Learning to be comfortable in uncomfortable situations is one major thing that you need to learn. Cheers.	/r/seduction	06/02/25 05:13 AM
17	Struggling to Meet Girls in Clubs – Need Help from A to Z Be the live of the party. That's the rule of thumb for club scenes. Go alone. You’ve said it yourself, bringing friends holds you back. You end up sticking to your comfort zone instead of making a move. Plus, your friends might unknowingly ruin your chances by following you around or even competing for the same girl. Avoid alcohol. It gives you temporary confidence, but once you sober up, you’re back to square one. Clubs are too loud for conversation. Your best tool is body language. Relax, enjo…	/r/seduction	06/02/25 02:17 AM
16	How to be good in bed as a woman? Most men like to lead. That's just our nature. Sure there are men who like to be dominated but I would bet they're in the minority. Generally just follow his lead. If he's inexperienced make him feel like he's in charge. And enjoy the whole session. If you enjoy it he'll enjoy it too.	/r/seduction	05/02/25 04:04 PM
4	Is the first time the worst? Yes, but the fear won’t disappear right away. It’ll still be there, but the more you do it, the more you’ll realize it’s just a false alarm. And that’s the key, understanding there’s nothing to be afraid of. Try the 3-second rule: count to three in your head, then say whatever comes to mind.	/r/seduction	05/02/25 03:26 AM
47	How can you tell when a girl is ready to go back to your place? Ask her, but be discreet and subtle. Many women prefer not to feel judged/slutty and want things to unfold naturally, as if it "just happened." That's why phrases like "Netflix and chill" exist.	/r/seduction	05/02/25 02:09 AM
1	Theory vs Practice OP is right you can’t read a book on how to swim Perfectly worded.	/r/seduction	04/02/25 09:27 AM
3	Theory vs Practice Knowledge junkie is a phase. Those who need to learn about seduction will go through that phase and wanting everything to be perfect. Approach anxiety is one of the factor too. One day they'll just said "fuck it" and actually go out. Or not.	/r/seduction	04/02/25 09:04 AM
5	How to make her first time feel special? Bro, first of all congratulations. Second, stop overthinking it and have fun! Overthinking is what often ruins everything. You have fun, she'll have fun too. Cheers.	/r/seduction	04/02/25 07:16 AM
8	I don't know what a shit test is From Star Trek 2009 Uhura : "For a moment I thought you were just a dumb hick who only had sex with farm animals." Kirk : "Well, not only."	/r/seduction	03/02/25 05:19 AM
12	I don't know what a shit test is Shit test in layman's term is basically when she's trying to provoke you/get a reaction from you. Shit test is a good thing because often that's a sign she's starting to look at you as a potential mate.	/r/seduction	03/02/25 04:08 AM
3	What are your go to pick lines for approaching women irl or in dating apps "Hi"	/r/seduction	01/02/25 02:53 AM
3	Handling rejection! There's no other way around but being rejected tons of time until you get use to it. I mean that's what sales people experienced daily, that's also why they're often the best seducer. They just don't care, eventually they even have fun with it. Also having the mindset that it's not you they're rejecting helps. Probably your approach is too aggressive, or they're just having a bad day or not the best timing, things like that. In short, don't take it personally.	/r/seduction	31/01/25 09:42 PM