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| 2 | What do you guys think of him? We are going on a first date tomorrow in public (stores are opening up!)Whatever do you, no car dates. Car dates usually imply he expects sex in the car. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 02:58 AM |
| 21 | FDS philosophy on blowjobs (in the context of relationships)?When I was in a LTR I gave blowjobs all the time, practically everytime I had sex, swallowed too (and he never asked me too either). He never pushed my head down, never said weird comments. He would just gather and hold up my hair (not pull) in a loving way. However, he spent alot of time on foreplay, every single time before sex. He always went down on me, I never asked, and I always had an orgasm before PIV sex or before reciprocating oral sex. Sometimes he would eat me out, and that was it (n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 04:17 PM |
| -5 | Had this conversation on tinder this morning. I truly can’t believe some men are like this about self confidence.Rude is rude. If you don't have manners in the first place, don't be surprised if people are nasty to you. And like do you actually know how people function on the real world? Do you make everything a contentious argument? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 09:15 PM |
| -4 | Had this conversation on tinder this morning. I truly can’t believe some men are like this about self confidence.It is just manners. If I told a guy he looked handsome and his response was along the lines of "I know," I would think he is obnoxious. Though his response afterward is equally obnoxious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 06:18 PM |
| 36 | I'm ok with being rude for a minute. I'm not ok with being dead.If you ever need to be reminded how dangerous this behavior is, think about having sex with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 11:58 AM |
| 10 | What do y'all think of coffee dates (for a first date)?I had a coffee date (that I suggested), after work, and he really liked me and he wanted to go to dinner afterward. I declined dinner, because I was not attracted to him. So it depends. I'm really busy so I like to meet men after work to chat. If we hit it off, we can schedule something more formal. Dinner dates are nice, but I don't want to schedule anything too out the way for a guy I've never met (so after work, on my way home is good). Also, I don't want to be forced to sit through dinner wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 02:43 PM |
| 25 | Had enough and broke free of an abusive relationship aftee trying 12 times last night. Muted him, felt guilty, didn't sleep - woke up with this (+ loads more). :-))))I am sorry you had to go through this. Women are socialized to excuse a lot of bad behavior from men and nurture them to their potential (which never comes to be). And society blames women when they wish to end things, because they see the guy as charming, but behind closed doors they don't know that he is abusive. Read Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft. There's some resources for helping you recover. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 03:52 PM |
| 102 | Had enough and broke free of an abusive relationship aftee trying 12 times last night. Muted him, felt guilty, didn't sleep - woke up with this (+ loads more). :-))))Please block him. And if you don't have a security system install one. Inform security at your job you have a crazy ex. Also, block him on all social media. And he should never know your whereabouts. If you have mutual friends, drop them. They cannot maintain your confidence/privacy. Edit: Drop your mutual friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Tell the man in your life that you don’t want to take hormonal birth control and that you want him to get a vasectomy or use condoms instead. Watch their hamster wheels spin.I always made my ex use a condom and we had sex at least a couple times a week for 6 years. Men can do it, don't let them fool you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 02:49 PM |
| 8 | Men will test what you'll tolerate to see if they can get away with putting no effort in. Set high standards at the beginning.I like coffee dates. I'm very busy and I don't want to be stuck with crazy or an uninteresting man for 1+ hrs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/19 09:08 PM |
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