squeakybuns Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	Is the Yes Means Yes law mutually beneficial for both genders? Is it overall a necessary measure? actually i was just trying to avoid accusing another redditor of doing that, or suggesting that's what she would do, because that's a really shitty thing to suggest (but i couldn't identify any other conclusion from his/her comments).	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/15 05:23 PM
2	Is the Yes Means Yes law mutually beneficial for both genders? Is it overall a necessary measure? that is totally what the law means! they had those exact scenarios in mind, so that they could jail doms with leg injuries! ah, i'm so glad someone figured it out and wasn't actually just being absurd and unreasonable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/15 12:33 AM
2	Would you act flirty to get free stuff? and i like interrupting korean too, except i wish it wasn't just the same korean line every time. agreed; variation would be cool. do you think a lot of women (that have the capacity) fake flirt to get stuff? i'd assume so, yeah. either consciously or subconsciously, i wouldn't be surprised to find that there are a decent portion that do. does it qualify as most or the majority of women? of that, i'm a little more doubtful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 10:34 PM
2	Would you act flirty to get free stuff? i'm sad that this will probably be deleted. i love new bots. anywho, to answer the OP: if you had that capacity (regardless of whether you actually do) to get stuff (free tickets, discounts, etc.) from others by pretending to be interested in them (acting flirty), would you do it? probably not. Why or why not? it seems a little fake to me; i've never been much of the flirty type to begin with, regardless of the situation, so i would definitely have to put effort into coming off as flirty. beside…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 10:16 PM
4	Is the Yes Means Yes law mutually beneficial for both genders? Is it overall a necessary measure? i was also referring to casual sex situations. i'm not dismissing your method of determining whether or not someone is worth sleeping with, or how you may or may not feel about it afterward, i just don't get what this has to do with yes means yes and affirmative consent. at the risk of being wrong, i'll ask... are you saying if the sex is unsatisfactory you will change your mind about consent afterward? that's not really the kind of conclusion i would ever jump to on my own; it sounds wild and a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 09:45 PM
10	A recent article reviewed by Science Alert claims that a "Study says that men are more narcissistic than women" and "Especially when it comes to entitlement." ... except she wasn't wrong. her prediction was spot on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 09:21 PM
2	Is the Yes Means Yes law mutually beneficial for both genders? Is it overall a necessary measure? i think you have a pretty unique view regarding consent. it's either yes or no; there's no 'if' questioning in my mind when it comes to the question of whether or not i want to have sex with someone, and as far as i can tell that sentiment is shared with many other women. how can i find out if he is good in bed beforehand? you... can't? you do the thing, you find out, and you stick around or you move on. especially as a woman myself, i'm really not getting what you believe is supposed to make co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 09:11 PM
1	Is the Yes Means Yes law mutually beneficial for both genders? Is it overall a necessary measure? if you read it, you'd realize it didn't apply to only men. it applies to both participants. women too; men aren't somehow immune to rape. making sure consent is explicitly clear eliminates any confusion or unsure feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 08:56 PM
7	A recent article reviewed by Science Alert claims that a "Study says that men are more narcissistic than women" and "Especially when it comes to entitlement." and yet, you have 8 upvotes and i've been downvoted to 0 already (on a different comment), so who's brigading who?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 08:40 PM
1	Is the Yes Means Yes law mutually beneficial for both genders? Is it overall a necessary measure? OP asked a question, i answered it. not sure what your problem is, or why you wouldn't want affirmative consent (especially considering how often TRP goes on and on about their fear of false rape claims).	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 08:23 PM
3	Is the Yes Means Yes law mutually beneficial for both genders? Is it overall a necessary measure? it seems mutually beneficial to me. both parties have an understanding about the expectations and boundaries of the other, and it helps to confirm consent and avoid any gray areas where it's unclear whether or not consent has been given. i haven't done extensive reading on it, however; this is primarily based on the text above and what discussions i've seen of it in other threads and articles. i don't know why anyone would not want this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 08:16 PM
3	A recent article reviewed by Science Alert claims that a "Study says that men are more narcissistic than women" and "Especially when it comes to entitlement." It's gonna be a sure bet that is going to be dismissed and ignored by the Redpillers on this sub, just like any of the previous studies that have been posted here. it only took 15 minutes. welp...	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 06:02 PM
9	How does TRP explain happy feminist relationships that last? there it is! between the insults included in this and your last response, this was really all i needed to stop taking you seriously (not that i was far from it to begin with). i'm honestly not even sure you know what you're arguing anymore. oh well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 05:40 PM
13	How does TRP explain happy feminist relationships that last? In my eyes iin a relationship where the man needs to tipitoe, where he needs to ask or beg for sex, where he needs to check in, or get permision to live is not a relationship, it's emotional slavery. Are you arguing this is not common practice in blue pill relationships? this is the exact perception that smurfcorp said was twisted. pretty much to a t. obviously, this is what is being argued against since that was already stated. Deny? What are you the owner of sex? This is what happens when you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 05:25 PM
16	How does TRP explain happy feminist relationships that last? just be nice and supportive. Stop messing with his business. JUst be a good girlfriend. Support whatever he decides even if that is nothing. so basically shut up and have no opinions or participation in your partner's life, Cut back on some of your "essentials" without bragging about it or pulling the martyr card, that will only make him feel worse. give up your needs silently, but with a smile, Basically stop talking, noticing nagging or talking shut up some more, She can, she can tell me: my g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 03:40 PM
18	How does TRP explain happy feminist relationships that last? you've just presented a bunch of ideas and standards that are impossible to compete with or meet. you've interpreted her encouraging her partner to get a job he will be satisfied with as being micro-managing and controlling while trying to tear him down, but what would you say if she simply let him continue working a job he hated because it was good money, and made no effort to try and support him in improving his life? if you feel that what Succubista described is still unacceptable behavior fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 02:46 PM
2	Is the Fat-Acceptance Movement damaging to a Society as a whole for women? i wasn't being disingenuous; i was merely commenting on what i observed on a site that, before today, i had never seen. pretty much all of my comments have stated that they're based solely on the things i've read online; i'm neither an activist nor an expert on the subject, just decided to put in my two cents. did you really just comment to insult me? i saw his response. i don't need you to link it again directly underneath it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/15 05:50 AM
4	Is the Fat-Acceptance Movement damaging to a Society as a whole for women? the front page of that site states the following: Health at Every Size is based on the simple premise that the best way to improve health is to honor your body. It supports people in adopting health habits for the sake of health and well-being (rather than weight control). Health at Every Size encourages: Accepting and respecting the natural diversity of body sizes and shapes. Eating in a flexible manner that values pleasure and honors internal cues of hunger, satiety, and appetite. Finding the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 10:45 PM
4	Is the Fat-Acceptance Movement damaging to a Society as a whole for women? it's not, at least not primarily (again, based on what i've read). i've read a fair amount of articles about changes for body acceptance, and i can't recall a single one that was pointed at trying to obtain male acceptance. it was about self-acceptance. are there some out there that may be directed at men. sure, i suppose it's possible; every group has its radicals. the fat/body acceptance 'movement' (if you want to call it that) is primarily about self-acceptance and personal freedom, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 10:17 PM
6	Is the Fat-Acceptance Movement damaging to a Society as a whole for women? i've never thought of fat acceptance as a way for women to gain power over men; at least from what i've seen, fat acceptance for women (and probably for men too) is about being able to feel comfortable in your own skin, and accept yourself despite the negativity that you might encounter from others. it has more to do with tuning out external voices, and focusing on yourself to feel better about yourself. i haven't seen it have anything to do with giving women power over men, or anything like tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 09:14 PM
10	Does TRP believe healthy relationships can't/don't exist? show each other mutual respect and care for each other through thick and thin. to name a couple of aspects.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 09:00 PM
2	How would redpillers react if there were a sexual/life strategy sub run by women using the same methodology as TRP? evidently, from the responses to this thread, they do care in some way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 06:05 PM
-3	Why are some non-TRPers so anxious to let me know TRP/ers is the devil/worst-thing-ever/etc? lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 04:27 PM
-3	Why are some non-TRPers so anxious to let me know TRP/ers is the devil/worst-thing-ever/etc? i don't acknowledge things that are false, pal ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 04:27 PM
-3	Why are some non-TRPers so anxious to let me know TRP/ers is the devil/worst-thing-ever/etc? you really used these again! and in the same order, at that. i was joking when i said you saved these to toss out like a business card, but... wow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 03:24 PM
1	With 100,000 subscribers and a common theme of field reports- can we say the anecdotes are finally amassing to useful data? Is it possible that the size and consistency of TRP's userbase is demonstrating that maybe the behaviors they observe are more common than you'd think? from your past comments it seems that you choose not to believe in anything you don't understand or agree with; it's very convenient. as for that question; you're asking the wrong person; if i read anything feminist, it's usually from a blog or news article and even then there's no guarantee that i automatically believe every word just because. i don't really consider myself a 'follower' of just one or a few people. that doesn't really prevent most of the comments on feminism from the more drama…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 03:36 AM
0	With 100,000 subscribers and a common theme of field reports- can we say the anecdotes are finally amassing to useful data? Is it possible that the size and consistency of TRP's userbase is demonstrating that maybe the behaviors they observe are more common than you'd think? except i said it was bad advice for people, not just men. this would be bad advice for a woman too. unlike many here, i don't see relationships as some stupid power struggle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 03:26 AM
2	(Part of) why "The Red Pill" is so off-putting to non Red Pill people i edited, but most of your comment seems to be guessing and speculation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 03:22 AM
1	With 100,000 subscribers and a common theme of field reports- can we say the anecdotes are finally amassing to useful data? Is it possible that the size and consistency of TRP's userbase is demonstrating that maybe the behaviors they observe are more common than you'd think? aw you wouldn't believe in them if i told you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 03:20 AM
0	With 100,000 subscribers and a common theme of field reports- can we say the anecdotes are finally amassing to useful data? Is it possible that the size and consistency of TRP's userbase is demonstrating that maybe the behaviors they observe are more common than you'd think? bad advice for everyone. it's acting out of blind fear; it's just as unhealthy to try and tear people down as it is to put them on the pedestal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 03:20 AM
6	(Part of) why "The Red Pill" is so off-putting to non Red Pill people your second paragraph is nothing but a guess, and saying that women get used up by having multiple past sexual partners is absurd. editing to elaborate since i had to dash away mid-comment: women who sleep with multiple partners before marriage are probably pretty unlikely to enter into a relationship with someone who disapproves of that, so there's no real loss for those women. the term 'used-up' is used as an insult, and to try and shame them for their lifestyle. it's not really based in any k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 01:53 AM
6	(Part of) why "The Red Pill" is so off-putting to non Red Pill people there are plenty of men who don't care about 'the number.' that isn't universal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 01:36 AM
-2	With 100,000 subscribers and a common theme of field reports- can we say the anecdotes are finally amassing to useful data? Is it possible that the size and consistency of TRP's userbase is demonstrating that maybe the behaviors they observe are more common than you'd think? sure, sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/15 12:01 AM
-3	With 100,000 subscribers and a common theme of field reports- can we say the anecdotes are finally amassing to useful data? Is it possible that the size and consistency of TRP's userbase is demonstrating that maybe the behaviors they observe are more common than you'd think? honestly, especially based on these responses, i probably won't read them now. you aren't going to change your mind, even if fault is found in your links. you'll just move the goalposts endlessly, and a conclusion will never be reached. so no, i'm not reading them, because it won't make a difference. you're going to hate feminism no matter what anyone else shows you, so i'm not going to bother. too bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 11:47 PM
-3	With 100,000 subscribers and a common theme of field reports- can we say the anecdotes are finally amassing to useful data? Is it possible that the size and consistency of TRP's userbase is demonstrating that maybe the behaviors they observe are more common than you'd think? haha; i imagine you save these links just so you can furiously look at them and send them to people anytime feminism is brought up (obsession is a dangerous thing). i don't have time to look at them right now; perhaps i will later. judging by the linked wikipedia articles alone, though, i'm not expecting to find anything that proves whatever point you're trying to make though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 11:23 PM
4	(Part of) why "The Red Pill" is so off-putting to non Red Pill people lol @ used up. what, exactly, is getting used up? the phrase is so absurd and at the risk of sounding like a terp... is nothing but shaming language.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 09:58 PM
-7	With 100,000 subscribers and a common theme of field reports- can we say the anecdotes are finally amassing to useful data? Is it possible that the size and consistency of TRP's userbase is demonstrating that maybe the behaviors they observe are more common than you'd think? yeah, that's not at all what modern feminism is about. stop bringing up straw feminists, and try again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 08:12 PM
5	Western white women are inferior in every way to their Eastern European counterparts as relationship prospects so then you don't actually want anyone to change your view?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 06:27 PM
7	Western white women are inferior in every way to their Eastern European counterparts as relationship prospects so you have one potential fact, amidst a bunch of other opinions. what else ya got? anything that anyone actually has the ability to change?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 06:18 PM
0	With 100,000 subscribers and a common theme of field reports- can we say the anecdotes are finally amassing to useful data? Is it possible that the size and consistency of TRP's userbase is demonstrating that maybe the behaviors they observe are more common than you'd think? yeah, that's bad advice. dehumanizing one sex is bad advice. jumping into another relationship after a bad breakup is rarely a good idea, but that advice just leads to wrapping yourself in negative lies to feel more comfortable (which, interestingly enough, is something that TRP claims to do the opposite of). it's a downward spiral.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 06:14 PM
10	Western white women are inferior in every way to their Eastern European counterparts as relationship prospects you've created a CMV asking people to change your mind on things that are, for the most part, subjective and viewed differently by different individuals. this is an impossible CMV, once again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 06:12 PM
1	With 100,000 subscribers and a common theme of field reports- can we say the anecdotes are finally amassing to useful data? Is it possible that the size and consistency of TRP's userbase is demonstrating that maybe the behaviors they observe are more common than you'd think? if that were the case, there wouldn't be such a push for the TRP members to believe that women are monsters/subhuman. TRP basically conditions men into believing that women are horrible, so that they can avoid ever falling for one and experiencing emotional pain if things fall apart. it's most definitely a case of forcing yourself to believe something for a specific reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 06:09 PM
5	Western white women are inferior in every way to their Eastern European counterparts as relationship prospects this seems more like difference than inferiority (if we're to take this seriously and consider that your post is true and made in good faith).	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 06:05 PM
2	Why the hate between red and blue? i'm... sorry? i'm not trying to be hostile, but i'm not obligated in any way to dedicate my time and energy to creating an ideology just because another group creates one, and claims that it's for the purpose of helping others and making a positive impact. i help people often because i'm a decent person, but i'm not going to hesitate to point it out if an individual or group is being hateful and/or absurd either. as it is, the subreddits that i would create if i were to do something like that al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 05:55 PM
5	Why the hate between red and blue? Fair enough. But I've looked at some profiles of said trollers. Their post history is absolutely absurd. Some of them non stop sarcasm posts, over and over. it's possible that some of the users post on the blue pill using an alt to keep their main accounts safe/untargeted. i know that i do, for the protection of my main account, and as a result my posting history on this account is pretty much limited to BP and PPD. If blue pill wants to be a satire page then fine, bur keep it to blue pill page.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 04:29 PM
5	Why the hate between red and blue? help people in their own way. emphasis on this, since it's often the problem. the blue pill was never created as an ideology or help group anyway; it's a sub dedicated to satirizing the red pill, so we don't frequently get redditors entering the sub looking for a new life plan or whatever. whenever someone does post a thread asking for help, though, the sub members pretty much jump to their aid; i've never seen someone looking for help get turned away. at most, they get directed to a sub where t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 03:52 PM
1	Blue pillers, did you grow up in families where you were under parented or over parented? Were your parents more involved in your life than most other kids or less involved in your life than other kids? Or neither. Please elaborate. i would say it was about average, from what i could tell. Did your parents make your breakfast, lunch, dinner or did you do that yourself? they made food regularly until about my sophomore year of high school. then, it was only occasional and i took care of it myself the rest of the time. Did your parent do your laundry or did you do that yourself? my par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 02:52 PM
3	Women: Have "guy friends" who do favors for you ever made you more attracted to him? nope. not a damn healthy thing about those comments. get a reality check.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 12:31 PM
2	Women: Have "guy friends" who do favors for you ever made you more attracted to him? yeah, this is really sad. and ridiculous. i think you need something other than TRP for a while; it's really twisting your mind and worldview.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/15 04:56 AM
9	Would you "spin a plate" that has her own soft harem? wouldn't that put you both in the same position though? given she'd be just a plate to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/15 10:31 PM
3	red pillers did you grow up in families where you were under parented or over parented? I'd say 18-20 is already quite old for a first job. Maybe the US is different, but you'd be an extreme outlier here in the Netherlands. it's not much different here in the US; i didn't have a job until i was 18 and that was considered pretty unusual. most of my friends started jobs around 14-16.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/15 05:51 PM
4	BP, do you think it's wrong for women to get hymen reconstruction surgery to deceive men into thinking that they are still virgins? in that case i would say it depends on if the intent in doing so is malicious or not. that seems pretty unlikely though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/15 04:54 AM
6	BP, do you think it's wrong for women to get hymen reconstruction surgery to deceive men into thinking that they are still virgins? this is a tough one; i don't really think deception by members of either sex is right, but at the same time, i agree that she should have the right to opt for such a surgery since it's her body, and a completely personal matter (especially considering the way some cultures view and value virginity in women). honestly and personally, for this particular surgery and probably other surgeries, i don't see how it's much different from wearing makeup or having hair removed. this is just an assumption,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/15 04:29 AM
1	Is There A Lot of Sexual Implication Behind "Let's Meet For a Drink"? yeah i probably should have been more specific; the situation i had in mind was more of an acquaintance/stranger asking rather than a friend. i also go to bars with friends sometimes and there's zero implication there so that situation didn't even come to mind when i responded, haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/15 01:33 AM
5	All women are feminists your responses make it hard to believe you made this post with any intention of changing your mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/15 05:21 PM
3	All women are feminists i don't know why a woman wouldn't want equality for herself, just as a man would want equality for himself. as for your comments on shaming, you'll have to define that; i've seen members of TRP claim that having others expect that they have basic manners is 'shaming' their true nature (which is absurd; there are things that aren't appropriate for anyone to do, ever, and that isn't an instance of shaming).	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/15 04:01 PM
8	Is There A Lot of Sexual Implication Behind "Let's Meet For a Drink"? i think it probably has more implication than it should, for both sexes; sometimes people just want to go out for a drink and enjoy the company of another person without necessarily wanting to sleep with them. i think the same goes for coffee meetings too; every now and then in television or books you'll stumble upon this as the 'is it a date? is it not?' situation for a character. in short, i think there is sexual implication, but i wish there were less of it sometimes. not every social interac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/15 03:17 PM
1	Is it just me or are women generally more honest/nicer to one night stands than they are to guys they want relationships from? she pretty explicitly said that wasn't the case. and even if it were the case, what you described doesn't sound all that tragic. someone still adores you enough (even better, for who you are) and can't get enough of you in or out of bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/15 08:58 PM
1	CMV Men are allowed to want their wives to cook, clean, and fuck read my comment. you're poorly presenting yourself and then getting upset when you're 'misunderstood.'	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/15 04:47 PM
3	CMV Men are allowed to want their wives to cook, clean, and fuck in both of those, you pretty much expressed that you wanted an LTR to cook and clean but didn't mention any other values you were seeking (or even that you were seeking anything beyond that). if you're going to essentially say that you'd only have an LTR for cooking, cleaning, and sex then it's not that surprising that someone would suggest getting a maid or prostitute instead of finding a woman on the dating market and reducing her to an unpaid version of those things so she can basically be a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/15 03:24 PM
3	Is it just me or are women generally more honest/nicer to one night stands than they are to guys they want relationships from? well... too bad? if the guy is also looking for an LTR and he's interested in the woman, the payoff is higher for them both. you don't enter into an LTR just for sex, either. men don't behave any differently in terms of applying different standards to hookups and serious girlfriends so there's no problem here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/15 02:51 PM