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| 3 | Friends who ghosted when I was an SJW are coming back now that I’m RPW but I’m weary?I’ve been in your situation before but it wasn’t influenced by personal values like SJW vs RPW, it was more from negative attitude and emotional regulation problems influenced by major depressive disorder and the traumatic events that contributed to it. I personally didn’t want to rekindle with fairweather friends who abandoned me when my mental health was in poor condition because those aren’t real friends who genuinely care about me as a person. I don’t expect my friends to be my therapist and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/12/21 08:37 PM |
| 2 | What Makes A Woman High Value?What traits do you have that lowers your RMV? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Question for women: Does it turn you off if a guy feels intimidated by you? Has it ever happened where you like a guy but but whenever you get close you can tell he feels intimidated and after that you don't see him the same way anymore? And why?I guess one perk from being an unattractive girl is that I don’t have to worry about intimidating men because my looks don’t yield that kind of power. Men don’t go out of their way to befriend me in general because I’m not pretty, but that also means I won’t have to deal with clingy men constantly craving validation and reassurance from me. A handful of needy girls did that to me and it was so draining, I can’t imagine what it’s like for a man to do the same thing. I don’t have the patience and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 08:37 PM |
| 6 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?Not reading the comments on this posts is self-care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most of women's dating issues stem from the fact they just aren't likable to the men they get withI know men and women are societally valued for different attributes and I’m not too familiar with manosphere lingo. What is a high value woman? Is it a woman who won the genetic lottery? A woman who’s pleasant to be around? A woman who’s more quiet, feminine, and passive by nature? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 10:06 PM |
| 3 | What's the hardest you have ever seen a women Simp for a guy she wasn't seeing/dating?Oh, ok. I didn’t know. I figured she must have had some sort or viable evidence to get them fired in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 10:59 AM |
| -1 | What's the hardest you have ever seen a women Simp for a guy she wasn't seeing/dating?How do you know the groping never happened if they both got fired for it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 05:30 AM |
| 25 | What's the hardest you have ever seen a women Simp for a guy she wasn't seeing/dating?1-3 made me sad and think “awwww I want to give her a big hug!” 4 made me think “okay that’s pushing it” then 5 is where I stopped reading. I’m an unattractive autistic 20 year old queer woman who’s simped and been rejected and lead on as much as the average Joe-Bob, but never that hard. :( is she conventionally attractive? is she educated? does she have any friends? does she have special needs? I want to know more about this woman and what factors would make her so compelled to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | If the idea of being denied sex in a relationship is wrong, then why is it wrong that women won’t lower their standards to be with men they’re not attracted to, while at the same time risking their own sexual incompatibility?I lurk here because as a 20 y/o introverted girl who’s inexperienced with relationships, it’s interesting to see people’s perspectives on here. However, there’s a lot of bitter undertones towards women. Sometimes I have to clock out of here because the projection and bitterness from here is too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 10:09 AM |
| 31 | If the idea of being denied sex in a relationship is wrong, then why is it wrong that women won’t lower their standards to be with men they’re not attracted to, while at the same time risking their own sexual incompatibility?Not reading the comments on these posts is self-care. Holy shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4M Would you date a bi woman? Why or why not?Are you a feminine looking guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/21 03:17 PM |
| 8 | Women’s interests and Hobbies.I’d be concerned if a man considers porn a hobby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Have you ever told a friend why you thought they weren't successful in dating? What happened?Doesn’t Torrid sell regular clothes to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 10:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: most men are secretly attracted to fat womenWhat does weasel faced mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Most people have real friendships. Worse case scenario, women will typically have fake friends and men will typically have no friends.I’m the female version of that annoying dude lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W]Do believe average looking women get a lot of attention?Yeah. With little allure to attract ordinary guys, I’m just average looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W]Do believe average looking women get a lot of attention?I look as average as they come. Frumpy Plain Jane. Kinda unappealing. I grew up as the girl who was bullied for her weight and goofy face. Guys would always dare each other to ask me out as a joke. With the exception of getting groomed by a high school teacher to quickly receive creepy messages from him in college, I’ve never felt overwhelmed by male attention. I had like two genuine approaches in my life and one orbiter who tried to get close to me for a year then later gave up after he realize… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 10:06 AM |
| 2 | "When a woman talks to a man, she is thinking of his future (his earning potential, etc.), and when a man talks to a woman, he is thinking of her past (how old is she? her weight? her history?)." - The Book of Pook. How applicable is this statement some 20 years after Pook wrote it?I don’t understand how a woman’s weight is her “past” what if she’s a former fat chick? is that a dealbreaker because she was once an unfuckable woman before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 10:21 PM |
| 2 | What makes a woman "relationship material"?Black music encompasses so so much more than rap. This guy has clearly never heard of R&B, soul music, jazz music, gospel music, or the blues. good grief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe your current personality would be enough to be sexually successful if you were transformed into a genetically unattractive male?As an unattractive woman and a queer woman, I already related to men’s experiences more so than I ever did to other women’s. I have to try 100x harder than a conventionally attractive cishet woman to attain any admiration. I don’t receive unconditional love and get multiple chances for my shortcomings like the pretty girls get. I’ve already been called a creep. I only ever been called a creep by other women. Junior high was a nightmare. Since I was eleven years old, other girls called me a queer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 03:47 AM |
| 5 | Unattractive people are unaware of their (un)attractivenessTrust me, ugly girls know we’re ugly. We’ve been reminded of this our whole lives. I know I’m a homely 4/5 and I’m okay with that :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 01:47 PM |
| 54 | FDS v. TRPI was permanently banned from FDS shortly after disclosing my sexuality, they’re quite the homophobic bunch. This was pre-pandemic so idk if their views changed since then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 03:17 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]Are Ugly People Overrepresented online?Reddit consists of 70% men. Most of the girls on Reddit (with the exception of OnlyFans thots) are faceless users with a cartoon avatar at best. Most don’t have selfies attached to them so we will never know if they are actually ugly. How on earth can they generate compliments if men don’t even have an idea of what they look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for...This is a fact about settling in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | FDS Is Not RadicalYou know it’s bad when there’s 0 upvotes and hundreds of comments... I’m not even gonna look 😳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Was there a specific moment When you realized your league/Level?Getting bullied and called a lesbian by other girls in jr high. Having a guy friend tell his friends that he can’t date his female friends because the only one he he had (me) was ugly. Having three girls take pictures of me and call me a fat bitch. High school teachers gossiping about me being a creepy witch that could hex the whole school. Feelsbadman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Men Respect Women Who Like Sex More Than Those Who Withhold It“Withholding sex from men” is bullshit. The Manosphere talks about it like a man is being denied a basic human right and the woman is committing a crime by exercising the right to say no. No one is entitled to sex from their partner. It should be an act two adults mutually want to do, not something the woman does out of some moral obligation or whtv. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?I was called creepy, despite not doing anything wrong. I believe people felt creeped out by me because of my homeliness and aspergers. In high school, I looked like the genetic offspring of Sissy Spacek and Amy Schumer. Well behaved 4.1 GPA student. I still kind of look the same except my skin is clear and my hair is brown. I evasdropped on a teacher gossiping about me to faculty like I wasn’t even in front of her, saying “squidhandss acts so strange. she’s so creepy, i don’t even know if she’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Do you think its hypocritical to have a dating preference or standard you yourself don't meet?I’m a shy introvert who wants to date an extrovert—or another introvert with an aptitude to pull me out of my shell. I don’t want a pure reflection of myself, complimentary traits are sometimes good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Nothing wrong with asking for a refund: Woman slams the 'audacity' of Tinder match who asked her to 'reimburse' him $35 for 'food and drinks' after she decided not to see him again following their third dateWhy would he even pay $35 in the first place if he didn’t know how far things will go, only to beg for it back later? The guy is the dumbass here. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/03/21 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Cheating girl get exposed by boyfriend and roasted hard by his best friendsI see these types of sob-story notecard videos on FaceBook all the time. They are all fake. I very much doubt this is real but cheating is a scumbag move. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/03/21 12:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you identify your looks match as a man exactly ?Bold of you to assume the redpill malecels who dedicate their time onto here have dated any women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Are women naturally more attracted to men who are "naturally successful" vs men who can only succeed with significant effort?And men prefer “natural beauty” aka no/natural makeup instead of full glam makeup. men are turned off by a woman having surgical work done to look better. They want the perceived “effortlessness” of their desirability, not the work that goes into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Defining Standards vs Preferences in a Relationship.She said taller than her, not 6 ft. Get over yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 06:25 AM |
| 2 | How do women treat below average looking guys in social settings?I believe incels think women not wanting to have sex with them or give them the time of day qualifies as “treating ugly men like shit”. The men on here possess strong victim complexes and live on another planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 2 | No you should not expect a guy to still be talking with you as friends after you reject him.No woman says “we can just be friends” because she expects a man to stay friends with her, she says it to soften the blow of rejection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Being a young female fking sucksAnd you’re clearly the epitome of a gentleman yourself lmao. Your lack of self awareness is hilarious 😂 let’s see a picture of you to examine if you look any better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Being a young female fking sucksSomeone’s very bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Being a young female fking sucksWho is this fictitious Chad? The real world doesn’t operate on incel lingo. All I’m saying is that women are conscious, sentient beings who experience their own struggles just like men do. Does something about that trigger you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Being a young female fking sucksUnpopular opinion, but girls who struggle with dating have it much worse than guys who struggle with dating. At the end of the day, when it’s guys they are their worst enemy. They don’t try enough, they don’t reach out to enough women, they lack confidence, or they are too scared to ask her out. When a girl has the same issue, she is the one that is supposed to be approached. I’m not saying women don’t approach, it just deviates from conventional standards. There’s only so much she can do. Guys … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 05:13 PM |
| 2 | I met my LTR from being FWBs. Why do people here seem to think all women who have casual sex can never be considered for an LTR?I think it comes from a desire to connect with other people but can’t navigate through social cues and read them properly, so they inherently assume that others are against them for how autistic people are treated throughout their whole lives. Autismfeelsbadman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 11:15 PM |
| 2 | I met my LTR from being FWBs. Why do people here seem to think all women who have casual sex can never be considered for an LTR?How does Asperger’s mature into BPD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 10:54 PM |
| 4 | Help me understand the psychology of why some women feel so "violated" when they catch men checking them out in public?Glad you were able to laugh it off. Most straight guys, even if they aren’t outwardly homophobic, are a little uncomfortable around gay men because they are subconsciously concerned that they will be objectified the same as they do to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 07:59 AM |
| 4 | Help me understand the psychology of why some women feel so "violated" when they catch men checking them out in public?How would you feel if a gay man was checking you out, intensely staring at your crotch and ass? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 06:33 AM |
| -5 | Yeah evidence isn’t necessaryI love how you don’t address any of the facts I just mentioned. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/07/20 08:29 AM |
| -4 | Yeah evidence isn’t necessaryWhat if that bitch not lying? What if? | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/07/20 07:36 AM |
| -2 | Yeah evidence isn’t necessaryWhat if the guy starts bragging about it? What if he literally confesses it himself? I’m not going to disagree with innocent till proven guilty, but not all “evidence” has to be graphic. Another issue is that rape kits cost $1000 if you don’t have health insurance. It’s all too common for police departments throw rape kits away to “declutter”, so when some women mentally recover and want to seek justice later, all the evidence is tossed away. What about women who were raped as children and didn’… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/07/20 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone not been catcalled in public?Growing up ugly, I never worried about getting harassed or catcalled. I didn’t believe ugly girls like myself had to deal with objectification and creeps until I was 18. When I started to use public transit frequently, I had a man stare at me and follow me on three different lines, asking me to drink with him. I had men ask if I had a boyfriend and tell me I’m “hot”. I even had one extremely drunk guy give me $50 because I “have some nice strong legs HAAAaahaaAA”. When I was on a walk around my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 08:41 AM |
| 159 | Reminder: When he says he’s not ready for a relationship just yet, he’s only stringing you along for female validation until he finds someone he’s actually into. Know your worth, don’t let him drag you in the mud in hopes he’ll respect you some day!“someone better” is not necessarily the case, just someone that he’s more attracted to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | How easy do women have it? They can be fat ugly with nothing going for them, and they can easily get dates with tall handsome successful menfreshman year of college | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | How easy do women have it? They can be fat ugly with nothing going for them, and they can easily get dates with tall handsome successful men5’6 Filipino rejected me. Like I said, you can’t assume a stranger’s experiences on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Why do woman not feel motivated to lose weight?The fat-shaming and constant rejection for not being pretty enough renders me with even more depression. When I carry so much guilt and shame due to how I’m treated on my looks, I have no motivation to actively lose weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Do y’all think she’s sexyAwww it’s melanie! She’s really beautiful in her own unique way, tattoos and tooth gaps and all. I loved seeing her in concert. I could really see the muscle she had from dancing and her dresses were striking! 🥺 Ps her boyfriend is Oliver Tree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 04:26 AM |
| 2 | How easy do women have it? They can be fat ugly with nothing going for them, and they can easily get dates with tall handsome successful menyou can’t really speak for my experiences but ok, go off. Have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How easy do women have it? They can be fat ugly with nothing going for them, and they can easily get dates with tall handsome successful menthe nerdy guys in my league IRL aren’t considered 9s or 10s but ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | What BMI on women are men most attracted to?Best answer yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 07:55 PM |
| 3 | How easy do women have it? They can be fat ugly with nothing going for them, and they can easily get dates with tall handsome successful menToo unsure about OLD. On reddit and online in general, I read about too many guys ghosting and pumping/dumping girls when they find out the girl is chubby or that she doesn’t look as pretty without makeup on and don’t want to continue things with her. I am afraid of getting verbally attacked or more likely, pumped and dumped for somehow being ugly to men in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 07:54 PM |
| 5 | How easy do women have it? They can be fat ugly with nothing going for them, and they can easily get dates with tall handsome successful menI don’t want to get serial killer’d | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 07:47 PM |
| 15 | How easy do women have it? They can be fat ugly with nothing going for them, and they can easily get dates with tall handsome successful menAs a “fat ugly” woman to society, I faced nothing but rejection. Guys laughed at my face when I made the first move, they say I’m a thirsty fat girl behind my back for even thinking I had a chance with them. What type of world are you living in, I want in! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | How much of men with dating woes is simply not being in shape?Most men are unhappy because their standards are too high. They want an objectively pretty girl, not an unattractive girl or plain Jane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 05:34 AM |
| 13 | Do we just say anything now to get men to like us?I love how she still desperately tries to seek male validation like this even after she’s notorious for shitting her pants at a Kent State frat party with the graphic photo online. Not even the most conservative men would like her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 06:15 AM |
| 8 | Shout out to my girls with “difficult” personalities.But I get told I’m too awkward because it’s true, not because I ask hard questions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Is severe acne on a woman a dealbreaker for men?Haha I’m so fucked 😭I was told I look like Amy Schumer on meth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 11:20 AM |
| 0 | Is severe acne on a woman a dealbreaker for men?Dude, I’m just saying my acne is not caused by PCOS because I don’t have cysts on my ovaries, you know, the required characteristic needed for that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Is severe acne on a woman a dealbreaker for men?I mean there’s a reason why they look disgusted whenever I make eye contact with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Is severe acne on a woman a dealbreaker for men?My acne is a result of bad genes, I don’t have PCOS. I only moisturize my face now since accutane dries out my skin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Is severe acne on a woman a dealbreaker for men?Face since that’s what guys notice first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 09:45 AM |
| 4 | why do guys complain so much about "women have so many requirements bla bla bla". no they don't. all you need is to not be fat, groom yourself, and be confident.“Don’t be autistic and be confident” cries in clinically diagnosed autism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Have you, or anyone you’ve known, ever rejected a woman because she was “intimidating”? If so, why?”anus” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Make no mistake. Indecision (about being in a relationship with you) IS a decision.I guess so :( I just been feeling so depressed and gained too much weight because of this guy. I lost interest in my hobbies, I failed some classes, and I genuinely don’t feel like myself anymore bc of how he played me like that. When I told him about this as a friend, he blamed all of his actions on me, claiming it was all MY fault for not letting go (totally not how he lied to me numerous times) and how I needed to “find peace” when he was the one who needed to reflect on his shitty behavior I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 11:06 AM |
| 4 | Make no mistake. Indecision (about being in a relationship with you) IS a decision.What does that mean? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 06:32 AM |
| 19 | Make no mistake. Indecision (about being in a relationship with you) IS a decision.this is me circa this whole year. he played with my feelings, lied to me multiple times, turned my heart into a puppet show, left me hanging on a string, and showed zero remorse for his actions. he claimed that he never meant to hurt my feelings, but the way he treated me clearly proved the opposite. he forever ruined the way I’ll interact with men and he only gave me a half-assed “I’m sorry” when I called him out on his terrible behavior, but then he proceeded to call me crazy for not letting g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 11:46 PM |
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