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I think a lot of it is culture. In most of Europe, police carry guns but don't have the fatality rate they have in the US. I'm pretty certain a lot of the incidents we see would be considered manslaughter at least if European police behaved that way. My personal belief is that because US police will draw their guns at the beginning of any confrontation, they limit their options. The only thing they can do if the suspect doesn't comply is shoot. If the non-compliance is backing away slowly with t…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/09/20 11:45 AM
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Seems strange that he'd be there in a residential street if he was though.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/09/20 11:34 AM
0

Ah, right... You were talking complete crap. I have been trolled. Got it.
/r/MensRights28/07/16 09:20 AM
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So what were you saying? Because as far as I'm concerned, white guys can be rappers abd feminists can remake films, and complaining about either is on the same level of pathetic as whining about manspreading.
/r/MensRights28/07/16 06:06 AM
0

Don't buy into the idea that only black people can be rappers either. Someone who truly loves the genre, and is totally into the scene would seem to be much more a part of it than some guy who happens to be of the same race. Culture is a melting pot. If a film "shits on men" then I can see that that's a problem. But you can do that without being a feminist reboot, and you can make a feminist reboot without doing that. As for "air con" and "manspreading", yes. These are idiotic complaints as well…
/r/MensRights27/07/16 02:23 PM
0

Who "stole" it from whom? Do you claim ownership because of your gender? It's a reboot. It uses a whole bunch of copyrighted elements that are owned by Sony or were used with the permission of the original copyright holder. And if we get some other feminist reboots, once again, why should I care? Of all the first world problems I might suffer, this has to be the first worldest.
/r/MensRights27/07/16 06:21 AM
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I can't help thinking that this is a really trivial issue. I don't claim ownership of an idea because I happen to be the same gender as the person who came up with it first. Hell, ownership of the idea seems pretty possessive. Paul Feig took the idea, presumably the originators were decently compensated. And compared with other issues, Ghostbusters being successful or a failure really is one that I can't find worries me. If it's a success; great! I genuinely hope that a lot of girls see it and s…
/r/MensRights26/07/16 01:00 PM
1

It's a bit of a strawman from Stella Creasy. Literally nobody says they're a luxury. She's arguing against an imaginary argument. If they were they'd be taxed at the full 20% rather than the reduced 5%. And yes, sure I think that the 5% VAT should be reduced to 0%.
/r/MensRights28/10/15 05:01 PM
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Perhaps, but he's right that there's a lot to be said for an older woman depending on your nature.
/r/seduction21/03/15 04:50 PM
1

PS: Sarah Silverman known to be a feminazi. Honestly, my impression is that this was the joke. Silverman is aware that this is the impression she has here, considers it a ridiculous exaggeration, but is willing to make a joke about it. People who do see her that way will consider it poor taste. People who don't will get the joke. If people are offended, let them be offended.
/r/MensRights04/02/15 09:27 PM
1

If I thought that someone else deserves recognition for being a genuinely nice guy does that devalue my opinion or their kindness? I don't think it devalues it if they think they should, as long as that's not the reason they're nice in the first place. The fact that they continue acting in the same way when it becomes apparent they don't get anything from it shows that they're genuine.
/r/seduction22/09/14 06:55 PM
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People who think that society should "recognize" and reward "being nice" aren't being genuinely nice. I think they are, as long as that's not the reason they're being nice. This sense of being owed is more of an abstract thing. Genuinely good people would have a genuinely good life if the universe was moral. Sadly it's not and that's what they fail to recognise. I agree that individuals don't owe you (or me) anything, and that's where the problem is. Individuals make decisions. Society doesn't. …
/r/seduction22/09/14 05:00 PM
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The problem is that the post is written by someone who has never suffered from nice guy syndrome. Nice guys aren't being nice to get laid. If that was their plan, they'd realise and switch to being alpha jerks, because that's what seems to work! They genuinely like to be nice. But they think that society should recognise this and don't understand why girls don't respond to it. They expect some sort of cosmic karma to reward them for being a nice guy or something. Hell, they probably haven't look…
/r/seduction22/09/14 10:55 AM
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Yep. There's a difference between being a nice guy, and being a "nice guy". Nothing wrong with showing a genuine interest in someone or being generally kind and helpful, but that's a world away from fawning over someone or going out of your way to prove how helpful you are.
/r/seduction06/08/14 07:25 PM
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Okay, isn't this just copy-pasta from here? Seems polite to link to the source. I think most people here are aware of this though
/r/seduction06/08/14 07:19 PM
1

Someone recognisable and near-universally considered sexy. Dracula, Jack Sparrow, or James Bond are good choices. Having to explain who you are is not a good conversation starter. If you have a cool costume then it will start conversation about the character. And roleplay a bit. Nothing too nerdy but be fun and enter into the spirit of things.
/r/seduction21/10/12 09:49 AM
2

Girl game consists of being attractive and feminine and smiling a lot. That's because guys are more likely to hit on girls so the odds are in their favour. Some guys are shy, never make the first move, and don't even get it when a girl's hitting on them. Thus guy could be like this. If not, it's still worth taking a chance.
/r/seduction06/07/12 06:28 PM
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Doesn't really matter. She could want to give up because she feels that your Chakra is incompatible or because she flipped a coin and it came up the wrong way. Her reasons are just rationalisations. But it makes no difference. She has decided she's not interested. Sorry. But you got the kiss. The hug after the first date wasn't actually an error. She wanted to see you again so you did fine. Work out what went well. Work out what you can improve on. Move on.
/r/seduction26/08/11 08:11 AM
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It's about your attitude to yourself. They're not popular because they're in a band. Not directly. They're popular because they're confident. Now, playing music and having a while room full of people cheering for you does naturally help with ones self-esteem, but it's not the only thing that you can do. You're probably a cool guy. Cool people hang out with you. You're using the fact that your not in a band to limit yourself.
/r/seduction25/08/11 06:46 PM
2

Always had a certain amount of success with observational/situational openers. Not tried the ultra-direct type because I just don't have that sort of level of confidence, but I think we brits are a bit too guarded for the indirect openers to work.
/r/seduction21/08/11 08:29 AM
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Start building from the ground up. Doesn't take too long and you'll be better as a result. The pressures too high. You're trying to be this guy you think you should be. There's all these PUA rules that only work in some situations. It's all mixing up and getting in the way. So stop! Just stop. These girls aren't potential pickup targets. They're interesting people at a party that may or may not be interesting. You're not trying to seduce them. Why should you. You can if you want to but right now…
/r/seduction20/06/11 08:56 AM
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If you're flirting that's a good start. Does she smile? Laugh at your jokes? She likes you at least. So next step is probably Kino-escalation. At least that was my issue for some time. Find an excuse to hold her hand (there's advice on line. I'll offer suggestions if you want). Build from there.
/r/seduction20/06/11 08:46 AM
2

You really need to find some glasses you look good in. But if you can't afford them, make do with what you have. Find a look that goes with them. Rock the geeky glasses look or the suave scientist style. As others have said, it's about confidence. If you see the glasses as detrimental they will be. If you don't, they won't.
/r/seduction18/06/11 09:18 AM
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Failures are at least as useful as successes, probably more so. So, sorry it sucked but thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction12/06/11 11:51 AM
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Not all guys care about a few extra pounds. As long as you're not after an Adonis yourself you look fine. But that's not to say you shouldn't dress in a way that flatters your figure. I never hit on anyone. I might flirt with strangers at times though;) Don't be too aggressive about this at the early stages. Just chat. Lean in close. Smile and laugh at his jokes if you like the guy. What are your plans? Can you sing? Will you sing? Great way to conquer shyness, offers a potential in for guys who…
/r/seduction27/05/11 01:04 PM
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I'm not sure you see what self-confidence is. "Enter my humble abode" is a confident invitation. While you're being modest about your home, you clearly aren't too concerned about it being humble. "I am amazing! I am unconquerable!" is not confident, unless it actually is genuinely true. It's arrogant and suggests a need to be seen this way. If you're confident then you will get things done. You won't dither. You won't second guess yourself. But it's a balance. Arrogance means you plough ahead do…
/r/seduction27/05/11 11:10 AM
2

I'd go along with that. I'd probably say it in a manner that suggests (very) mild disgust at the idea though. You don't need to justify why (which always seems needy). Just make it clear that you're above that sort of thing.
/r/seduction27/03/11 01:53 PM
4

Hitting the gym won't make much a difference really. Well, there are benefits. Exercise releases endorphins. It also allows you to feel a sense of control over something. And it's good for you. It's not a fix-all but it's rarely a bad thing.
/r/seduction16/03/11 09:06 AM
5

Go somewhere public. Look for the most interesting person. Ask them a question about whatever it is that makes them interesting.
/r/seduction16/03/11 09:04 AM
0

Have you considered apologising? You don't need to beg forgiveness, but a "sorry, that was a bit much wasn't it" shows just enough humility.
/r/seduction15/03/11 11:06 AM
2

Younger than I feel, old enough to know better but too old to care:)
/r/seduction14/03/11 12:11 PM
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Because people think that it's a suitable question to be asking here. Thing is, it's not an "askseddit" type question. It's more of a round table type discussion. We're all interested in what others have to say. At least those of us who upvoted think so. If you disagree you don't need anyone's permission to downvote:)
/r/seduction12/03/11 08:35 PM
1

Well, if she says that, she's at least considering going home with you. For the highly experienced PUA, this may be a failure. For the guys who are just getting k-closes it's pretty good. And IAW moonjellies. All other responses are contradicting too directly. This is the only advice that focusses on the subtext.
/r/seduction12/03/11 08:16 PM
2

Okay. Skim reading suggests there's a correlation between being a douchebag and getting the girl. Now, as we all know, correlation is not causation but it does lead to reasonable possibilities: Getting girls causes people to become douchebags. Possible, but unlikely. Being a douchebag and getting girls have a common cause. It's possible. Self entitlement makes people confident douchebags. Hedonism is fun and a lot easier to forgive yourself for if someone else is encouraging you. Screwing over o…
/r/seduction08/03/11 06:26 PM
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It's more a general issue with PUA, especially that based on Mystery. /r/seduction is better than a lot of the specific PUA forums out there, especially because on the whole we're not big on canned material. Still, there's a certain element of the more misogynistic aspects that remain. I personally hate the HB scale.
/r/seduction08/03/11 09:27 AM
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I find compliments can work, but you need to be careful with them. If you are being fished, then it's just a game (which is fine - you both know the rules. Her aim is to get a compliment, your aim is to make her work for it without losing interest). The game's no fun for either of you if you're not fairly evenly matched. Paying for drinks - I'll always offer to buy the first drink. After that I'd actually consider it mildly insulting to offer in most circumstances. If there are extenuating circu…
/r/seduction28/02/11 04:59 PM
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Thing is, she doesn't care what you do for a living (unless you do something really interesting). It's just the most obvious question to ask. So as TofuTofu says, change the subject.
/r/seduction21/02/11 09:12 AM
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Even if the people who get picked for shows aren't actual actors, they might as well be actors, because everyone's seen a reality show now, and everyone knows you have to be a caricature to get on there or the producers will pick someone else. Very true. Reality TV shows advertise in actor agents offices. Of course they do. This is the place where they'll get a response and actors need exposure and naturally seek the limelight. The guys they're most likely to hire are the ones who can perform "n…
/r/seduction09/02/11 07:29 PM
1

Dude, chill. You did fine. Don't worry about whether you were fine. You noticed the IOIs You overcame approach anxiety. She's shown at least some interest. She might even suspect your ulterior motive and be pleased about it. Just because your technique wasn't perfect doesn't mean you screwed up.
/r/seduction08/02/11 05:40 PM
1

You just need to respond to her. If she seems remotely uncomfortable you back off. Personally I'd pause between the pinning and making out but everyone has their own technique here.
/r/seduction08/02/11 05:32 PM
1

Agree with every other comment so far. Personally I find it a little uncomfortable each buying our own. Rounds has the benefit that you're taking control, has a small amount of bonding involved, and there's the minor logistical things like having someone keeping the table.
/r/seduction07/02/11 09:17 PM
1

That's an interesting, and very bold cockblock. It's got to be something that could backfire directly. She's telling her friend that you're off limits. Not quite sure how to play that but there must be a way.
/r/seduction07/02/11 09:10 PM
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Do take this with a tonne of salt though. The Mail isn't beyond exaggeration. This has been doing the rounds recently
/r/seduction02/02/11 06:24 PM
2

Fuck me, I'm balding. Some girls will:) Which of these guys do you think is considered more attractive: *Richard Stallma *Patrick Stewart (As an aside, Patrick Stewart lost his hair at the same age as you.) Cut your hair short. It looks better and shows confidence. Or if you don't like that, ask a professional stylist. I realise as guys we don't like to fuss over hair but if it's causing you such problems then ask a professional. And although others have said this, I can't emphasise it enough; n…
/r/seduction02/02/11 05:31 PM
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Wouldn't get too hung up on this. You've bought it. It was a nice thing to do. It would be awkward to ask her to pay for it, and buying something for a girl isn't the disaster PUA theory seems to suggest it is. Supplicating a stranger is a waste of money and paying for everything is counterproductive, but paying for entry to an actual date when she already likes you is pretty harmless.
/r/seduction01/02/11 09:20 PM
1

It amused me to do the research. I got a little buzz from it that was well worth the time. I'm sure you feel the same way each time you get an indignant response (including the one from me). Unless I'm misreading what you're doing here. Honestly, I don't think I'm an alpha male, don't play WoW, and don't live in the US. I just like it here because on the whole the community is pretty supportive and way less up its own arse than most of the PUA forums.
/r/seduction01/02/11 08:28 PM
2

Hey. Could be worse. We could be this guy.
/r/seduction01/02/11 07:59 PM
1

I've seen PUAs IRL and if you are not really really socially confident, you come off as a creep. True. Being socially confident is an essential skill. Social skills + looks = getting laid Yup. Like any other skill, social skills can be learned and practiced. And looks can usually be improved. A lot of the discussion here is on improving social skills and looks. mental masturbation + fake methods = creep Well, obviously. So avoid the fake methods.
/r/seduction01/02/11 07:54 PM
1

Agreed. I tend to find this fairly easy. If they're wearing rings, especially if one is in some way interesting I'll lift her hand up gently while mentioning it. I have warm hands. Many girls gave the opposite problem... I have no objection to being a handwarmer. Although this may be a bit beta-ish. Never used it for flirting. I often use a "wait" signal. "Wait - do you know...?" and will touch her shoulder with the back of a couple of fingers. Although my favourite is saying something cheeky en…
/r/seduction31/01/11 07:42 PM
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Is she too young for you? Whether you're too old for her is her decision, not yours.
/r/seduction27/01/11 10:00 PM
1

Having been that turtle, I agree, but also feel that you need to give slightly less subtle advice.
/r/seduction23/01/11 11:22 AM
0

The red button is a second punchline. The joke is still funny without. Sure, another title would have been better but it's not totally ruined.
/r/seduction23/01/11 11:20 AM
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Honestly it sounds like you were the one getting seduced (: I doubt he minds:) Although I imagine he was probably one of the best looking most confident guys there, so while he didn't actually target anyone, there was some element of game going on.
/r/seduction21/01/11 07:30 PM
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"Hey, those are awesome shoes!" She said thanks, hugged me and kissed me. (She was a little drunk). Probably doesn't count since I had no interest in pulling and was just complementing her shoes because they were awesome.
/r/seduction21/01/11 07:25 PM
2

True about wanting what we can't have. It's not just girls. Guys as well. Apparently all other apes as well.
/r/seduction19/01/11 07:51 PM
1

As an introvert you just need to focus on them. Work out what's interesting about them and talk to them about it. I find a good conversation starter is sometimes "Hi." It's not fantastic game. Sometimes it's a conversation ender as well but it can work.
/r/seduction18/01/11 07:26 PM
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Yeah. It's tricky. The thing is, jobs are boring conversation topics so don't get fixated on that. He's a guy who happens to be doing a job. He has a name. After work he will go home and maybe watch TV or listen to some music. He probably has a favourite football team. And don't do this when he's busy. If he's bored he'll be happy to chat. Most people are.
/r/seduction18/01/11 07:24 PM
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He's on -10 points. I figure in a breach of reddiquette that means people disagree with him:) I will point out that it's mostly guys here. Both guys and girls seem to be pretty clueless about what makes their own sex tick so take everything with a pinch of salt.
/r/seduction07/01/11 08:37 PM
2

There's always a non-alcoholic option. Although I will point out that you'll end up getting through drinks a lot more quickly unless someone can suggest something that doesn't lend itself to quick drinking.
/r/seduction07/01/11 06:28 PM
0

I wonder if this would have worked: "Email address?" "Twitter?" "Well, what time do you get off, we can go for a drink"
/r/seduction06/01/11 08:45 PM
1

I'd have gone for a stupidly high number (in the millions), but I think the principle is the same.
/r/seduction05/01/11 06:33 PM
2

Meh. Just be yourself. They'll delete you.
/r/seduction04/01/11 06:03 PM
2

LOL. Not totally sure I believe this one but it's funny so hope it is.
/r/seduction03/01/11 03:18 PM
1

It's a pretty reasonable way of putting it.
/r/seduction02/01/11 02:12 PM
1

Well, it's a bit of a glib way of putting it but the point is that if you keep trying, and hit on every girl, you'll eventually be "lucky". If you don't hit on anyone you'll always be "unlucky". Hey, do you live somewhere that doesn't allow smoking in bars? If you're not put off by smokers then head out to the smoking area (Nobody forces you to smoke here)
/r/seduction02/01/11 09:12 AM
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-Too scared to kino. I'm afraid to touch girls. I worry that they will slap me, get their friend/bf to beat me up, throw a drink on me etc. This is the problem. You're possibly trying too much too soon. Try nudging. See if you get nudged back. Or incidentally brushing hands. If she pulls away then you've failed to gain enough attraction. If the worst comes to the worst, you'll recover from being slapped or have a drink thrown in your face (although you may want to call it a night it that happens…
/r/seduction01/01/11 11:29 PM
1

Very true. This is why I don't really consider myself part of the community. I'll use the techniques, offer tips, but not the terminology. It feels a bit dehumanising, and I want to make a connection with a person, not seduce a "Hot Babe" Although one of my friends had a problem with me describing aspects of interaction as "techniques". edit: and just realised I said more or less what the guy you replied to said. Oh well, at least we agree here.
/r/seduction31/12/10 05:24 PM
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I'm communicating with a cute girl right now, but I don't really know where to take it. She says I'm mysterious and it intrigues her, but I don't know how to keep it that way over the internet without turning her off. You need to take it off OKCupid. IM or actually meeting up. Never leave this too long.
/r/seduction31/12/10 11:53 AM
1

I can see some arguments for it. it's extremely confident, and very unconventional. But you need to have developed a lot of attraction already for it to work. Are you absolutely unbelievably handsome?
/r/seduction28/12/10 09:46 AM
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Why are you scared? Go to a bar. Soak up the atmosphere. See how it feels. You're not doing anything else at this stage. Have a drink. Sit at the bar. finish your drink and if you don't feel in the mood for something else then leave. If it's not too busy chat to the barman/woman.
/r/seduction28/12/10 09:42 AM
3

she says all she wants do is 'sleep&chill', Okay... w/e Does she try and arrange something else? Because once she says no, the onus is on here. Each time you ask you appear that little bit more needy. Basic PUA theory suggests she just needs you to validate her, and I think that's what you're doing. You need to freeze her out. Next time she tries to initiate something, reject her. Make her work for it.
/r/seduction27/12/10 10:02 AM
1

Really? I've got the impression that people here considered canned material to be a bit of a crutch.
/r/seduction26/12/10 03:25 PM
3

I'm not quite sure I see how you can pretend to be funny or interesting without being funny or interesting.
/r/seduction26/12/10 02:08 PM
2

all a woman needs to do is walk out of the house. I don't think that's true. After all, guys do care about physical appearance. And while it will get some attention, girls who are too forward tend to turn a lot of guys off. There's a certain subtlety required. Make up and fashion is the womens' version of seduction.
/r/seduction26/12/10 11:07 AM
2

Yeah. That one's really a bit of a white lie. You can't pretend to be funny or strong or interesting. You have to be those things. If you have those abilities use them. It's a more formalised more explicit way of saying "be yourself". You can sort of pretend to be confident but that paradoxically requires confidence. There's a sort zen thing going on there that as soon as you pretend to be confident, you no longer need to pretend.
/r/seduction26/12/10 10:53 AM
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I'm sorta new to this but isn't this going about things completely the wrong way. Why let your ex define your frame for you? Who cares what she does or doesn't think or how she comes out of it?
/r/seduction23/12/10 09:32 PM
1

"You make your own luck" It applies everywhere. "Lucky" people are just people who are more likely to spot and take opportunities. So if you're suggesting ignoring those in high demand, you're rejecting opportunity. If you reject the lower hanging fruit you're rejecting opportunity.
/r/seduction23/12/10 08:24 PM
1

Obvious factors are they're being rejected (for a book dammit), and being a reader is a DHV. It's also an obvious target for an opener. Wouldn't be surprised if there was a lot more to it than that.
/r/seduction22/12/10 06:17 PM
1

For me it was meeting a crazy really extrovert girl. She'd just go up to complete strangers, talk to them and become friends. Absolutely zero concept of approach anxiety. It simply hadn't occurred to me before I met her that you could do that.
/r/seduction21/12/10 08:35 PM
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Interesting. Out of interest, what sort of books are you into? Might be worth experimenting with different books. For SCIENCE!!!
/r/seduction21/12/10 07:51 PM
1

Oh yes. This has been posted a few times. It basically says what you just said. It changed my life. Or at least the relationships aspect.
/r/seduction21/12/10 06:45 PM
1

Okay - I find what you describe as HB10 rather fake and unattractive. I'd put them down as UB4ish. I'm also willing to forgive a lot of physical imperfections for being intelligent or otherwise interesting. So I'll put down a decent looking quirky chicks as HB9's by this ranking. Are you saying that I should use "high game" on the slightly curvy insecure geeky chick and attack her bitch shield? Because I can't see that working.
/r/seduction20/12/10 11:03 PM
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I think they do. They (we?) know this is bad advice because it's what we've been trying for so long and it doesn't work. Most newbies seem to get the joke. The guys who are fooled just consider him to be a clueless noob.
/r/seduction20/12/10 10:05 PM
1

unless you thought "i could kiss her right now" an hour ago I wonder if that's recoverable. Sort of walk right up to her, grab her and kiss her. I reckon there would be some chance of success.
/r/seduction20/12/10 09:56 PM
2

Move on. Forget about her. You tried and failed. No shame in that. Work out where you went wrong here and learn for the next HB.
/r/seduction20/12/10 09:20 PM
1

2 years? It's not usually a huge difference, so I'm curious how old you are. If she's getting drunk then chances are she wants some drunken snogging, and decided that before she had her first glass. As for technique, find a quiet corner. Chat to her, escalate kino. Lean into her. Should all come naturally. If you think she's too drunk, stop at kissing. I may make an exception if she was really insistent that we find a room, but kissing is fun. As for reputation, how did you feel about the friend…
/r/seduction14/12/10 10:25 PM
1

What would I do? Depends on my perception of the relationship. Sometimes a bf is just some guy who barely has time for her, sometimes it's an established relationship that's gone stale. In the case of the former, he doesn't care so why should you. In the case of the latter, way too much drama for one thing, and feels a bit douche-y for another. If she wants to break up with him then she can but she doesn't use me as a means to do so. Most of the time it will be a situation completely different f…
/r/seduction14/12/10 10:12 PM
2

Mostly lesbian hippy types. It is disproportionately female though and not without its hotties. Also tends to attract more interesting types who are willing to try new stuff.
/r/seduction11/12/10 02:12 PM
2

It's a beginners aerials workshops. We do all of them.
/r/seduction11/12/10 01:45 PM
2

What makes you unattractive? Unless you're extreme in some way, looks only matter so much. Confidence is attractive. Extremely so.
/r/seduction11/12/10 11:28 AM
2

It does break a few rules. But they're not magic words. Just techniques that tend to be more successful than others. There are guys who manage to score by simply asking enough women "Do you want to have sex".
/r/seduction11/12/10 11:22 AM
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I can dance (Modern Jive) I do trapeze, ropes and silks. I occasionally roleplay a refugee for charity training simulations I go to Sci-fi conventions. The last one is interesting. Rather than painting me as a hopeless nerd, most people are actually intrigued about what happens at a convention.
/r/seduction11/12/10 11:10 AM
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It's bad advice because it's easily misinterpreted. The basic principle is sound. Don't be someone you're not.
/r/seduction10/12/10 04:06 PM
1

ike I might see the girls alone when we're not partying but I can't just grab a girl I see all the time and makeout with her when we're not partying. No, but you can grab her and start chatting. Especially if you're going in the same general direction.
/r/seduction09/12/10 09:23 PM
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"Slightly above Big Breasted Bertha, but nowhere near as experienced as Sarah The Super Slut" Don't give a straight answer. Give a funny answer and make her laugh.
/r/seduction09/12/10 07:19 AM
2

It's kinda weird If I just randomly walk up to her when she's trying to eat. Why do you say this? "Hey, didn't I see you at ---- party?" Maybe go for a better opener since that's a bit too yes/no but you obviously have some connection and reason to talk to her. Even if you didn't that's no reason not to say hi.
/r/seduction08/12/10 10:25 PM
1

After a few messages back and forth, she usually stops responding. I honestly don't get it. Suggest meeting up sooner. Third message at the latest.
/r/seduction04/12/10 09:45 AM
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I think the main point here is you can't change your looks - not much anyway. So accept it. Don't let it (or anything else) be an excuse because excuses are counter productive.
/r/seduction04/12/10 09:35 AM
2

It's good advice. Shyness doesn't seem to be big a turn-off to girls. The worst anyone will say about it is it's "cute". And if other shy guys are like me, once conversation actually starts flowing the shyness goes away.
/r/seduction04/12/10 09:29 AM
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You have to understand that the point of seduction isn't just about getting laid. The chase is fun. If she genuinely isn't interested in you because she has a guy, chat anyway. Flirt anyway. Who gives a crap if you're not going to score. There's plenty of time. If she's lying then she might change her mind. She has that right. This happens a lot. She'll only respond if she actually likes you. Quit too early and you both lose out. Seduction is a way of presenting yourself in the best possible lig…
/r/seduction01/12/10 10:48 PM
1

Try this exercise - go to a venue - nowhere too loud - and try to interact with the explicit aim of not pulling. Just try to talk to lots of people. Guys and girls and couples and anyone else who doesn't fit into those categories. Don't stay to late. Leave before you're tired. It's actually a great way to destress. People will actually like you. You spend the evening chatting to new people which is fun in itself.
/r/seduction30/11/10 10:28 PM
2

Here's the thing - a "hot" by society standards girl gets hit on all the time. She can and will reject guys. To seduce said "hot" girl you need to present yourself as a little too good for her. An "ugly" by society standards girl never gets hit on. If you present yourself as too high value she'll give up because you're totally out of her league. So one girl you reject and the other you show an interest in. You may find the "hot" girl shallow and the "ugly" girl may have a killer personality or j…
/r/seduction25/11/10 11:15 PM
1

I find it's the other way round. Treat a job interview like flirting. Be willing to walk. Determine if the job reaches your standards. Treat the interview as fun, be witty and try and develop a rapport with the interviewer.
/r/seduction22/11/10 09:35 PM
1

Acting like you're invisible. You need to learn to be prominent. Looks are important but confidence is the main thing. I bet the submitter felt a lot better about himself after doing all that. That helps a lot.
/r/seduction20/11/10 11:15 PM
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If she wants to see you she'll fit in around your schedule. Her reason for not making it tonight is irrelevant. As is whether you give her the benefit of the doubt or not. You can't manage Thursday and you don't need to give a reason. Find another time that you can both make and stop fretting about the little details. You're clearly not hard up for dates so let her chase you a little.
/r/seduction16/11/10 08:43 PM
1

If it's a date I'll usually buy the first drink. If you go for a second suggest she pays for it. "Another drink?", "Yes", "Great. I'll have a...". There's no reason for her to object. If she says you should pay because you earn more, then is she only there to get a free drink? Is it really a cultural norm? What is this? the 1950's? If she objects those are your arguments. If you're worried that she might take offence and leave, do you really want to go out with someone who's no longer interested…
/r/seduction15/11/10 10:01 PM
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Talk to someone else first. It makes you seem more desirable and increases your own confidence. I'll always start off chatting to someone I'm not attracted to and just looks interesting (guys or girls - doesn't need to be flirting). Most people respond positively.
/r/seduction15/11/10 09:05 PM
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Don't fixate on a checklist. That's just general dating advice. Geek-friendly girls tend to be a little bit quirky and have interesting hobbies, so that's a possible place, but they'll also go out and have fun. Just go to slightly more offbeat places; Geeks don't do mainstream culture, pretty much by definition.
/r/seduction15/11/10 08:59 PM
1

Hmm... No real problem aside from the mentioned colds and flu and things. Personally I'd find a good kisser and spend all the time with her but that's just me. The aversion here to you not getting laid is bizarre. Do people think that's all there is to life? Hell, it's not like you'll not have other opportunities.
/r/seduction11/11/10 10:45 PM
1

This. Seriously, I've been in exactly the same position. There was an AMA with a PUA, I said basically what the OP said, and he said what you said. Tried it that night. It worked.
/r/seduction08/11/10 08:55 PM
1

It's always possible she did have to work. Yeah, but if she really cared she'd try to arrange to see him again. She must know he'll see that as a rejection so it's up to her.
/r/seduction08/11/10 08:45 PM
1

\1. the debate/discussion at lunch. WTF??!! Girls do that with guys they like on a first meet up? Any analysis? She likes to argue about this sort of thing. She has strong opinions. You gave her a spirited debate about a subject she was passionate about. What analysis do you want? Yes, some girls do that with guys they meet on a first date. Well, this one does. Not everyone works from the same script. \2. The obvious rejection at the end? How the hell was I supposed to interpret that as she was …
/r/seduction08/11/10 08:37 PM
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Forget about the numbers, Go out. Talk to people. Meet interesting people who you get on with. Don't worry about finding them attractive. Chat to girls, guys, couples. If there's something interesting about them then ask them about it. Never ever buy a girl a drink. There is no positive aspect to it. At best it does nothing. At worst it makes you seem needy. Typically it makes it look like you want them to owe you something. Now, here's something telling: I'm a nice guy Yes. I bet you are. You'r…
/r/seduction08/11/10 08:15 PM
1

You know - this isn't secret mind control. It's a way to present yourself in a more attractive light. You are your own person. You have free will. If you like him and want to sleep with him then do. If you don't then don't.
/r/seduction08/11/10 08:07 PM
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Something to realise about confidence is all you need to do is act like you have it. Fake it if you have to. You only need to fake it once,.
/r/seduction08/11/10 06:58 PM
1

Not actually a PUA but I do use some of the tips. Why is being an alpha male so important? It's not essential. But the alpha male does get the pick of any girl he wants. How acceptable is it to judge women based on their sex appeal? Are PUAs out purely for meaningless sex, or do they actually take a girl's personality into account? Everyone does it. While "sex appeal" may depend on the person, nobody who is after a relationship ignores what they find attractive. Personality can matter. It depend…
/r/seduction06/11/10 03:05 PM
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