squirrelfoot Archive

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1	Does having pets help with loneliness? You also can't help meeting people while walking your dog. You end up with dog-loving friends who you meet up with so your dogs can have play dates. Just don't get a scary breed for that though.	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 05:28 PM
5	False allegation punishment Don't forget that men and boys also make SA allegations against women. In the past, female gropers used to get away with it because of how much men and boys were shamed if they made a complaint about it. I worked in a restaurant with a young athlete who was groped regularly, mostly by women in their thirties and forties out on 'girl's' nights out. When he spoke up about it, the women would deny it as often as they tried to laugh it off. One woman claimed he was slandering her. What would be the …	/r/MensRights	03/12/24 10:49 AM
6	Is our lack of male only spaces hurting us? Men need support from other men. Over thirty years ago, one of my friends was raped when he was in his early twenties. His only source of help and support afterwards was the female run rape crisis centre in our home town and the university councelling service, also all women. He was OK with that, but needed a woman to accompany him to the rape crisis centre in case his presence alone triggered the women seeking help there. He was deeply afraid of gay men for a while, as his rapists were homosexu…	/r/MensRights	13/10/24 01:26 PM
1	U.K. dads are wrapping baby slings on male statues to push for more paternity leave This is great! Power to dads who just want to be good fathers.	/r/MensRights	24/09/24 10:44 AM
2	If you had the chance to be a stay at home dad would you? I'm really sorry it didn't work out for you with your partner, but I'm glad it was still worth it!	/r/MensRights	09/09/24 04:58 AM
1	In spite of what feminists claim, women scrutinize men’s sexual histories to a far greater extent than the other way around I've never ever had a conversation like that. The women I know are either happily married and find their husbands attractive, or unhappy because her partner hasn't proposed and they've been together for a long time.	/r/MensRights	09/09/24 04:56 AM
1	In spite of what feminists claim, women scrutinize men’s sexual histories to a far greater extent than the other way around Looking at the US, 68% of women from18 to 30 are in relationships 70% from 30-50. Do you really think they are all with chads? https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/	/r/MensRights	08/09/24 03:24 PM
2	Support the women who support men 👩👩🏼👩🏻👩🏽👩🏾👩🏿 I know that extreme radical feminists are very, very vocal, but most women are in happy, long term relationships with men and have male friends. In real life, don't most women support the men around them? Also, the kind of feminists who hate men also don't like women very much and try to tell them what to do.	/r/MensRights	08/09/24 11:45 AM
1	In spite of what feminists claim, women scrutinize men’s sexual histories to a far greater extent than the other way around Isn't this obvious? Women are afraid of dating men who have had lots of partners as they usually - but there are a lot of exceptions - want what they see as a 'meaningful' relationship, so don't want a partner who hooks up a lot and doesn't take sexual relationships seriously. Also, they think men who sleep around are more likely to cheat.	/r/MensRights	08/09/24 11:37 AM
10	If you had the chance to be a stay at home dad would you? I think couples need to decide who's best suited to staying at home full or part time without worrying about traditional roles. Quite a few of my male friends were the main parent and only worked part time because they wanted to and their wives earned well enough to afford it.	/r/MensRights	08/09/24 11:23 AM
7	If you had the chance to be a stay at home dad would you? I'm glad you loved it. Personally, I love my job too much and I would hate to be stuck at home with little children. One I could cope with, not two. Also, I think you really need to be able to trust your partner to do that and not mind getting a bit behind in your career. I would feel financially very insecure if I didn't work. I think this is a really personal decision.	/r/MensRights	08/09/24 11:18 AM
6	How big of an issue is men struggling in the education system compared to women? I work in education and the problem begins very young. In our school systems, if you don't sit in your seat, listen, obey, and follow detailed intructions attentively, you cannot get good marks no matter how intelligent you are. We raise girls to please those in authority and to comply with rules, but tolerate more noncompliance from boys. You would think this would be something that favours males, but it really isn't. With our current education system we are setting boys up to fail. I'd like to…	/r/MensRights	24/10/23 01:14 PM
3	Women graduate college at higher rates than men, but are an “underrepresented minority” deserving of affirmative action? Please, please can we get more men into teaching in primary and secondary education?	/r/MensRights	25/02/23 04:35 PM
0	Should child support be illegal? It's true that a man who is so selfish and immature that he would need to be forced to actually care for his own child would be a terrible father. There are such men, unfortunately. These deadbeats should at least contribute to their children's lives financially. Boys are disproportionately affected by having these types of fathers, so this is something that matters to people who care especially about men's rights. You think pressuring women into aborting kids of deadbeats is the best solution, …	/r/MensRights	02/02/23 03:59 PM
0	Should child support be illegal? Allowing a man to opt out of being a father is not a win for everyone, as it is not a win for the man's child. Our children are our responsibility, and that applies to men as much as it does to women. If you father a child, that's your son or daughter, and they have a right to be cared for properly by you. Everyone, both men and women, need to stop bringing unwanted children into the world.	/r/MensRights	02/02/23 06:10 AM
2	The idea female friendships are stronger than male friendships I haven't experienced anything like that kind of horrific toxicity from either women or men. I'm horrified at what happened. I just don't seem to meet very toxic or dramatic people, though I was raised by one, so I know from experience they exist.	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 04:12 PM
2	Should child support be illegal? I don't think there's an epidemic of deadbeat dads, but the post is asking if child support should be illegal. In fact, 44% of custodial parents recieve the full amount of child support. I'm sure a lot of that is because people can't afford to pay.	/r/MensRights	31/01/23 08:55 PM
1	Should child support be illegal? My uncle was a father figure for me. I agree about male birth control.	/r/MensRights	31/01/23 05:24 PM
-2	Should child support be illegal? This is why men need to fight for shared custody.	/r/MensRights	31/01/23 02:17 PM
5	The idea female friendships are stronger than male friendships Why do you feel threatened by female friends? I have both male and female friends. Men are more about doing stuff together, women provide a safe space to talk about ideas and feelings. Perhaps it's because I pick my friends carefully or just luck, but my female friends don't gossip.	/r/MensRights	31/01/23 01:36 PM
3	Should child support be illegal? I'm wondering how many of the people on here had deadbeat dads who didn't contribute to their upbringing? One of the main reasons men fail in life is because fathers abandon their children, something that has a higher impact on boys' life outcomes than it does on that of girls. If we want men to do well in life, we need to shoulder our responsibilities and be good fathers. Learning to use a condom correctly will significantly reduce your chances of having an unwanted kid, and avoiding vaginal pe…	/r/MensRights	31/01/23 01:27 PM
2	Should child support be illegal? Shared custody would fix this. I know you can't share custody of a breast feeding baby, but after that you can. It would mean fathers and mothers would need to organise their work schedules around their kids and get childcare organised when they were working, but it would be fair.	/r/MensRights	31/01/23 01:18 PM
3	Men need to be responsible for birth control for their own good It can be a question of whether you think the side effects are worth it. Women have a lot of side effects from birth control too, and couples who trust each other need to try out different options to see what works for them. If couples don't trust each other, it's maybe best just to split up.	/r/MensRights	31/01/23 01:10 PM
4	Why is it whenever a man is single(even if by choice) he’s seen as a freak, a weirdo, someone who needs fixing, but whenever a woman is single, in particular by choice, she’s seen as brave, courageous and stunning? This really is a problem. Women have always been and still are sneered at for being single, but at least they have friends who will support them. Why can't men find support from other men? I see men getting support from women while other men act competitive and tease single men. Men are also pretty nasty to single women: I heard someone telling a woman recently that she was right to give up on men and get a cat. It was veiled as a joke, but was clearly a pretty vicious put down. The guy was trea…	/r/MensRights	31/01/23 01:00 PM
2	So my cousin hates me for my views I accompanied him to a rape crisis centre a few times, so heard men and women talking about their experience. For my friend, he was enraged by the attack, but didn't feel it was about his sexuality. What affected him was the fact that those men took their pleasure while hurting him, and they didn't care how it damaged him, maybe even got their thrill from forcing themselves on him and seriously hurting him. That is pretty much what women say. Women deal with a chronic fear of men raping them, th…	/r/MensRights	30/01/23 09:13 AM
1	The Sad Decline of the Relationships Between Men and Women In North America When it comes to people having trouble finding partners, for every man without a partner, there is a single woman. Do you think that women are just better at being single?	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 05:04 PM
3	So my cousin hates me for my views I agree. Women can also be perpetrators of sexual violence.	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 12:22 PM
3	Boise State Professor Scott Yenor spoke Thursday to Eagle High School's Turning Point club about "the effect that feminism has had on our society." This link doesn't work for me. Can other people access it?	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 10:42 AM
3	2nd official day at my job (front desk associate). A coworker (yoga teacher) came onto me and hugged me without asking and bit my shoulder. Well, I'm outraged reading this. It's disgusting!	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 10:20 AM
3	The Sad Decline of the Relationships Between Men and Women In North America For every lonely man, there has to be a woman on her own, since our numbers are about the same. I wonder why we never hear about lonely women.	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 09:03 AM
39	Google lawsuit: Executive Ryan Olohan fired after female boss Tiffany Miller groped him It's almost as if we are all just people, and people who get power are often shitty.	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 08:57 AM
15	So my cousin hates me for my views Men also get penetrated by other men. I had a friend at university who was gang raped after being drugged at a club. It was a profoundly traumatising experience for him, just as it would be for a woman who got gang raped.	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 08:55 AM
2	Study finds boys and men experience more social isolation than girls and women. I agree. Shoving your feelings down isn't healthy.	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 08:33 AM
1	Woman went on six dates a week to save on food: ‘I didn’t buy groceries for two years’ Those bad reasons are true for women too. Nobody should stay in a relationship with people who don't like or respect them. I regularly see my neighbour being bullied by his wife and I wondered why he puts up with it. In a conversation he explained that he thinks women are more selfish and demanding than men. It's weird, because there are nice women around him, but his low opinion of women makes him accept shit from his wife. I have no idea how common that is.	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 08:22 AM
2	Woman went on six dates a week to save on food: ‘I didn’t buy groceries for two years’ Very sensible approach. Why bother with women who don't like you?	/r/MensRights	27/01/23 12:58 PM
3	Men if we were to help the men who were faiking and being bad fathers, what would we say to do, to get back up again? Thanks. I really believe in doing what we can personally to improve things. I have started to comment to restaurants and cafés if men don't have place to change babies. It's not hard to do, and I'm careful to be polite about it, but I think there are probably lots of other things I could be doing. My cousin runs a men's yoga group, and I think he's doing a lot of good with that. I'd like to see more men like my cousin actively working to help people.	/r/MensRights	27/01/23 12:17 PM
3	Men if we were to help the men who were faiking and being bad fathers, what would we say to do, to get back up again? We wrote to both the restaurant chain where we were having lunch, and contacted our local authorities. The restaurant chain wrote back saying that we were not the first people to raise the issue, and that all their new restaurants have baby changing facilities that men can access, so that's at least something, though not much. The local authorities have so far said nothing. Childcare used to be something that only women did, and I cannot understand why a 'gynocentric' government that wants to ch…	/r/MensRights	27/01/23 11:57 AM
2	Men if we were to help the men who were faiking and being bad fathers, what would we say to do, to get back up again? I felt really bad because until it affected someone I was with, I didn't notice the problem. We need laws on stuff like changing facilities, but we need to change our society too, and I would like to be part of that now I am beginning to understand the problem. I was raised by a single mother, so I know the support is sketchy for all single parents, but single men face particular problems. Better childcare would be a good place to start.	/r/MensRights	27/01/23 08:57 AM
1	Men if we were to help the men who were faiking and being bad fathers, what would we say to do, to get back up again? I was out for coffee with a friend and his baby, and the baby changing facilities were in the woman's toilets. I was so shocked, both by the fact that there was no consideration for fathers, and by the fact that I had never even noticed or thought about that before. I'm part of your problem. I'm sorry we are failing you. What can we do to make things better?	/r/MensRights	27/01/23 08:33 AM
3	Study finds boys and men experience more social isolation than girls and women. Yes, what else can you do? Men shouldn't just be able to let their guard down with women friends, but it's not easy to build trust.	/r/MensRights	26/01/23 07:33 PM
1	It is truly terrifying how much the exploitation of young boys is overlooked. I'm an older adult, and it still terrifies me how vulnerable so many people are.	/r/MensRights	26/01/23 09:51 AM
-2	TIL that feminist Sheryl Sandberg said the quiet part out loud in her book I don't think the 'provider' idea is relevant when talking about modern feminists. They do not want a man to provide for them, and are in favour of women providing for themselves, meaning women don't need men any more. Not needing men is a fundemental of modern feminism. This author is saying that women should have flings with lots of types of men, but only marry one who will treat her as an equal.	/r/MensRights	26/01/23 09:46 AM
0	Study finds boys and men experience more social isolation than girls and women. At least you are on here and so doing something about it.	/r/MensRights	26/01/23 09:36 AM
1	Study finds boys and men experience more social isolation than girls and women. That's absolutely crazy! Where was this? I'm glad that nonsense doesn't happen where I live in France.	/r/MensRights	26/01/23 09:35 AM
18	Study finds boys and men experience more social isolation than girls and women. We need a change of behaviour in how men interact with other men. Women are often more supportive of their friends than men. Perhaps we can simply try to be more supportive and kind to the men around us.	/r/MensRights	26/01/23 09:33 AM
23	Study finds boys and men experience more social isolation than girls and women. Contributing to this discussion is a very real way to support other men. I think men are afraid to be supportive of other men in real life, and that needs to change.	/r/MensRights	26/01/23 09:29 AM
1	It is truly terrifying how much the exploitation of young boys is overlooked. Thank you for this! It's a real problem. I came across a boy through my work as a teacher in higher education that faced horrific exploitation. He was the child of someone who did occasional prostitution to pay for drugs. As a young teen, he was encouraged to prostitute himself to get money for food and clothing, which he did. He worked as a prostitute for years, was occasionally picked up by the police, but never charged due to his age, but also never helped. All I could do for him was listen a…	/r/MensRights	26/01/23 09:23 AM
11	Ditched the redpill after 6 months .Thank you! That shit just couldn't be swallowed by anyone with sense and empathy. Glad you didn't fall for it.	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/20 06:55 PM
5	Experiencing the love of the universe for the first time helped me purge red pill thoughts from my mind for good. Thank you for sharing this. I can really understand the appeal of the red pill movement for someone who suffered as you have. I'm happy to hear you have now found a healthier way of dealing with that trauma and pain. Good luck!	/r/ExRedPill	01/03/20 02:54 PM
3	Men paying for dates If two people don't earn around the same amount, rather than splitting the bill, it's a good idea if each person pays for the things they plan. I did this when I dated someone who earned a lot more than me, and who often wanted to go places and do stuff beyond my budget. I love cooking, so the dates I planned often involved dinner at home, often after a visit to a great art gallery since we both loved art.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 02:38 PM
2	Do you think that men are on average a lot funnier than women? I find her funny. I think women and men are equally funny on average. Someone on this thread claims that women comedians only make jokes about relationships, which is nonsense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/20 04:59 PM
1	Do you think that men are on average a lot funnier than women? Do you find this funny? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qxFL1LvNVqo	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/20 10:05 AM
1	Q4All: what are you doing for Valentine’s Day? My husband and I finished work early, slouched on the sofa, then went out for pizzas. He had my camera lens repaired for me, and I made us a heart-shaped cake. If that sounds boring to you, to us it is perfect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/20 07:04 AM
3	What can men do to ensure they have a great LTR/Marriage with a woman? All views welcome. Good sense from someone who knows what they are talking about! Did you wander into this sub by accident?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/20 09:07 PM
38	CMV: Wealth/money just doesn't attract Western women in the way it used to (unless you're mega rich) You are quite right. My first serious boyfriend was a very successful young law student: first in his year in law, great internship etc. He thought he could cheat on me, and I would just put up with it to have money - he didn't realise that I liked him because he was intelligent and funny, not for his money. So I ditched him, and went on to find someone who is also intelligent and funny, but is loyal and has integrity too. I can earn my own money, so the fact that my now husband isn't rich doesn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 06:23 PM
3	Why do women stay away from men who went or go to hookers? I answered your question because you asked - it's my personal feelings. To me sex is important and reserved for the person I love, and I would prefer my partner to be the same way. I'm sorry not to have a solution for a high sex drive other than masterbation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 05:41 PM
3	Why do women stay away from men who went or go to hookers? There are two problems for me: Many sex workers are slaves, so the men who use them are rapists, as these women have not given consent, The idea that access to a person's body is something you can buy for cash is repugnant to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 05:29 PM
1	The Myth of the Carousal They didn't make a mistake, but just produced information about the average number of partners. It's only when people try to use their information to show that all women have lots of partners that there is a problem. Averages don't say much about the general population unless there is a normal curve (bell shape), and in the number of sexual partners women have, the curve is not a normal curve (it's skewed).	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 05:21 PM
2	The Myth of the Carousal Some prostitutes manage 10 different men a day. If you add them in to any average number of partners, you are going to get an unrealistic result. There's also a small minority of women who love lots of wild sex with different partners. We probably all have encountered at least one women like that. Then you have the more ordinary women who have very few partners. Do you remember the difference between the average and the more when you did maths?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 07:32 AM
1	Q4A: Do men who have been molested or raped by men have different view of sexuality? He had problems dealing with men afterwards. I think that being raped, having people take sexual pleasure by force, and causing him terrible pain, made him incredibly humiliated. There really is something different about rape from a physical assault in terms of how destroyed the victim feels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 07:06 AM
7	Q4A: Do men who have been molested or raped by men have different view of sexuality? I only know one man who was raped. He was 21 at the time, heterosexual, was in Amsterdam trying soft drugs, then, while returning to his hostel, he was grabbed and dragged into a car by three men. He was anally raped by all of them, leaving a very serious anal tear which took years to heal. The worst of it for him was the fact that they were getting real pleasure by causing him great pain. He got two different STD's. I see people on this thread with theories about how rape isn't that traumatic. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/20 06:51 PM
2	Discussion. I often see comments that porn style sex is unrealistic or not enjoyable for women. Then what is? In a long term relationship, people can practice and learn. This isn't easy with casual sex. You need to trust your partner or you won't be open about sexual preferences. I see a lot of people on this thread talking about using women for pleasure, then dumping them. Women treated like that will become very wary of men. That type of behaviour leads to these men being sexually inept and not satisfying their partners, and also hurting their sexual partners emotionally. It's unsurprising that less w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/20 06:12 PM
3	Discussion. I often see comments that porn style sex is unrealistic or not enjoyable for women. Then what is? When I listen to women complaining about why they don't want to have sex with their partners, it's generally because they find porn style sex very painful. Pain is a massive turnoff for anyone, men or women. Anal tearing, for example, is very painful at the time of penetration, and leads to pain every time you shit. If your partner is clumsy or inconsiderate (just goes for it) they can do a lot of damage. Even with vaginal sex, I hear women saying they need a lubricant - so they are obviously no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/20 07:41 AM
16	As a conservative estimate, men lose an extra 156 days worth of free time compared to women over 18 years of child care Those figures are different from those of the OECD. https://stats.oecd.org/index.aspx?queryid=54757	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/20 09:05 PM
11	Men overestimate how much women care about male approval I'm offended by strangers disapproving of me because of the way I look. In particular, why do random men feel they have the right to audibly express their complaints about my hair colour, my figure, the way I dress, my air of confidence? Someone once spat in my face and said: "That will teach you to keep your eyes lowered." I hear variations on: 'She's blonde, so she's a slut' all the time. Another annoying one: "Large tits aren't my thing." Do these arses even realise they are disgusting when t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/20 09:59 AM
2	How come guys tend to work longer hours than women? This reminds me of the time I (a woman) asked for a month off work because my mother had been seriously ill and was about to get out of hospital and I wanted to look after her. Everyone was fine with that. If I had been male, I don't think that would have been the case. Basically, in our society, everyone expects women to carry most of the burden for unpaid work for families. Young, single women do the same hours as men, but it stops when women have kids, or for major family emergencies, and als…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/20 07:52 PM
4	Is women's liberation failing its original purpose? Women are working and earning money, so even if your imagined reduction in male productivity were real, it would be more than compensated for by the increased productivity of women. Women's liberation has given women a voice and the ability to study and earn. It has allowed women to be seen as full human beings, so it is doing just fine, thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/20 07:56 PM
1	Why doesn’t being hurt by alphas make women attracted to betas? Women don't divide men into 'alphas' and 'betas' because these labels don't correspond to anything in real life. When my first serious boyfriend broke my heart by cheating, it was because he was a total wanker, not because he was an 'alpha'. I didn't take him back because I knew I couldn't trust him, not because I was sick of 'alphas'. The experience put me off men for a few years. When I met my husband, we had chemistry. He didn't play games. I knew I could trust him because he was honest, dire…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/20 07:13 PM
2	Men do not want to LTR nice, chill, low maintenance girls. Yes, but if you are in a relationship where you have to keep saying: 'I must be horrible to X today', it gets decidedly boring after a while. I went through that, and got sick of it. I prefer my no-nonsense, no-stupid-games relationship with my current SO. Long term happiness requires trust and honesty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 08:21 PM
6	Q4ALL Why are you on this sub? What is black pill? I can't keep up with all these strange groupthink movements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 08:23 PM
6	There's no way to say this without sounding rude...but have the people on this sub ever met people before? OMG - A normal person who thinks for themself has wandered into this sub. It's absolutely fascinating on here, but pretty scary. Any chance of you staying and trying to add a little sanity?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 07:59 PM
35	Ladies, what would you say most guys you have rejected have in common? I didn't know them when they asked me out. They were mostly strangers in the street, and some of them were aggressive and frightening. I have never been interested in dating people I know nothing about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 07:11 AM
2	Women: what about tall men is so appealing to so many of you? I feel safe with my tall husband.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/20 06:35 PM