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Man, if I could give life advice to 75% of the people on this sub, it would be: "find a different social group". I don't know who you people are hanging out with, but they all (men and women) sound like shallow, selfish losers. It's no wonder you all hate the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 01:22 AM
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Right. But I think Wikipedia is a more reliable source than some blue-haired chick who yelled at you on a college campus once.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 04:02 AM
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Maybe because red pill doctrine revolves around “biotruths” and other faux-truths that are really just opinions, yet redpillers always try to pass them off as actual facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 04:01 AM
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I don’t have hard evidence for this Then, like I said, I think we’re done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:55 AM
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Look, I’m not going to sit here and try to change your mind if you’re not even going to deal in any sort of hard evidence. You made a claim, I pointed out the inconsistency (how you can’t simultaneously complain that women do and don’t like masculine men), and you have yet to do anything other than restate your opinion. There’s not really anything else I can say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:53 AM
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Whatever, Snake. Just don’t let your mom catch you smoking cigs again. Ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:47 AM
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I don’t think whoever you’ve been talking to knows what toxic masculinity is, then. Or maybe you’re misinterpreting what they said. Because the Wikipedia definition of toxic masculinity does not encompass things like saying hi to women. It specifically refers to behaviors that have detrimental effects to the individual and/or to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:46 AM
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That sounds inaccurately reductive. Sex is not the motivator for absolutely everything people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:39 AM
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2edgy4me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:37 AM
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Why are you speaking like women all have the same beliefs? Sure, there are women who like “bad boys”. But there are also a lot of women who don’t have time for that immature shit. Personally, I don’t know how you can simultaneously complain that women are trying to make men less manly by discouraging “toxic masculinity”, and also insist that women only like manly men. The lack of logical consistency is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:33 AM
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Please. What a crock of BS. Human morality isn't separate from "nature". Hell, there's no moral objectivity at all. We're a social species, we thrive in interdependent community groups, and the behaviors that we consider "moral" are those that benefit us by strengthening our communities as a whole. Also, you and OP don't seem to understand what "toxic masculinity" means. It refers only to anti-social (or selfish) behaviors associated with masculinity. We have laws against many, many anti-social …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 01:16 AM
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Personally I am 'above average' intelligence, overall I am relatively comfortable with where I am intelligence wise. When I meet a women who has compatible intelligence, I'm thinking awesome you understand me, and we could potentially fuck. /r/justneckbeardthings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 01:27 AM
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I mean, I'm a masters student in creative writing. Therefore it kind of comes up in introductory conversations. In terms of how, specifically, I've gotten dates: basically just word of mouth. For instance, I was asked out by a few Lit classmates in undergrad after my writing won a large departmental award.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 04:02 AM
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The same way you get dates from being good at any number of other things? Talent and dedication are attractive, so is having an unusual/uncommon interest. Also, there are plenty of bookish women who like guys who share their interests. I don't know what you're really asking, to be honest. The answer seems pretty intuitive...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 06:35 PM
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As a male masters student in the fine arts, I want to say, "No shit, Sherlock". Going to the gym has never gotten me a single date, but writing poetry sure has.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 03:46 PM
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IIRC, both standardized test scores and perceived physical attractiveness are individually positively correlated with one's socioeconomic status. In other words, people born into wealth tend to be perceived as better-looking than poorer people, and they also tend to score better on tests used to measure intelligence (probably because they've had greater access to educational resources). Thus, it wouldn't be such a stretch to believe that the smart people are also better-looking, even if it's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:17 PM
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Semantics. And my apologies for not being clearer. I meant "perfect according to your own views" but should have said, "You're never going to meet a person who completely conforms to your ideal." Compromises will have to be made. Always. Real life isn't a Disney movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 05:15 PM
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Can we please do away with this myth that there is such thing as a "dream woman" (or man)? You are not going to find a partner who is perfect right out of the box, and if by some miracle you do meet a flawless human being, s/he is not going to want you anyway (because you're not so perfect yourself, asshole). Successful long-term relationships require both parties to make compromises, and to make peace with the other person's flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:23 PM
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See my other responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 04:16 PM
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Learn to use logic And a touch of irony. Cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 12:49 AM
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You're joking, right? The burden of proof is on the person making the claim. You can try to deflect (or shall I say "hamster"?) all you want, but ultimately, it's clear you can't prove the validity of anything you're pulling out of your ass. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 12:45 AM
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You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 12:23 AM
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cuck God, this is gold. Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 11:50 PM
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white knights Yep, there it is. That ever-reliable indicator that the person commenting is still in high school. Things will get better after puberty, I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 11:48 PM
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Is there any specific part of what I said that you dispute? Yeah, the part where you threw out a bunch of statements as if they were objective fact with zero hard evidence to back them up. For example: It's just more common among woman when it comes to sexual preferences because woman have a bigger difference between what they profess to like and what they actually respond to and are attracted to. A lot of women would say this exact same thing about men. So who's right? It's not automatically yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 11:45 PM
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I said sources, not personal anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 10:58 PM
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Would you happen to have any sources to back up those claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 10:33 PM
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I said I'm 26 in my above comment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 10:23 PM
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You're kidding right? I work part-time retail while studying for grad school. The teenagers and college kids work on the weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 09:58 PM
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It's called a figure of speech. Being strictly literal, I have 18-year-old coworkers I have to spend time around. I have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 09:13 PM
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You might double-check your reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 08:57 PM
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Personal observation, hence the "I think" instead of stating it as if it were proven fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 08:03 PM
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I'm not saying it's impossible for an 18-year-old to possess the maturity of a significantly older person, but I think it's also far more likely that you were simply immature for your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 03:55 PM
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Right. And my point is that, since you aren't going to a literal brothel, you actually have to strike up a conversation at some point before you get to the sex part (and probably after, as well). Which is enough to turn some people off, no matter how good-looking she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 04:35 AM
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The hottest one is whoever I'm most attracted to, which sure as shit won't be a teenager who annoys me every time she opens her mouth. Anyway, some of us are cool with waiting it out if there are no good options at the present.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 01:05 AM
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Honestly, I was under the impression that most emotionally-mature people find their own age group the most attractive anyway. Point in case: as a 26-year-old dude, you couldn't pay me enough to spend more than a few minutes around 18 or 19-year-olds. They're just so damn annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 04:51 PM
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Why do young men expect special treatment from the people they harassed? Young women do the exact same thing, turning around and asking favors from other women that they've mistreated in the past. It's not "alpha" behavior". It's called being a selfish asshole. And wouldn't you know it? The world is full of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 05:56 PM
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How would you feel if someone--particularly someone you thought was unattractive--felt that your body was currency and that you owed them sex for all of their "hard work" (which probably only amounts to the things everyone should be doing anyway, like keeping in shape, practicing good hygiene, having their finances in order, and having decent manners)?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 01:30 AM
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Heck, yes. As a guy in his late 20's, I'd take a reasonably-fit, career-focused, 30-something woman over a "hot" 18/19-year-old any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 03:06 AM
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Blue pill is just everyone who's not red pill, which is, in other words, most of mainstream society. On the other hand, TRPers have this little "this is our super-secret clubhouse, no girls allowed" mentality. Who's a snowflake now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 03:47 AM
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Not everyone has this weird identity boner that BPers do. Hahaha, oh, the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 02:33 AM
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No, it's not retarded for that reason. Not everyone is attracted to the exact same things. And speaking of genetics, if everyone were attracted to the same things, all humans would be remarkably genetically similar, and we probably would have been wiped out by disease by now. In fact, I'd say "Be yourself", when given as advice to someone with a modicum of social awareness, is pretty useful. It only turns out badly when complete idiots hear it and think it means "Hey, I guess I don't have to obs…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 02:01 AM
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10/10 satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 11:32 PM
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Are you a believer of the "Men shouldn't hit women" mentality? Yup, and I'm also a believer in the "Women shouldn't hit men", "Men shouldn't hit men", and "Women shouldn't hit women" mentalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 07:04 PM
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Okay, so if my interpretation of your comments is correct, you've never made the effort to ask a younger woman out because, in your mind, there are hordes of imaginary people who would disapprove (despite that you, personally, have never had an unpleasant encounter with any of these supposed opinion-holders). Yet, when someone like me says, "No, I don't think it's creepy to ask a younger woman out so long as you have genuine shared interests," my opinion apparently doesn't count. You can literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 10:19 PM
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I've seen it plenty of times Let me rephrase this. Outside of the internet, has a real, live human ever called you "evil" or "vile" just for asking another adult out on a date? And have others unquestioningly accepted those labels instead of dismissing the name-caller as immature? I highly doubt it. That stuff just doesn't happen in the adult world--in fact, I have 2 friends who were diagnosed Asperger's Syndrome and they are the most socially-awkward people I know (one of them even needs polite…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 02:49 PM
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I've never heard anyone call someone "evil" or "vile" just for being socially awkward. You're either deluded or exaggerating. Evil is the kind of word you use to describe someone who sets orphanages on fire, not someone who asks another 18-years-or-older adult out on a date. Anyway, yes, it's true that social cues are subjective. But at the same time, nobody becomes widely known as a "creep" or "pervert" for only slightly misreading nonverbal language. Usually, you have to mess up real bad, mult…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 03:12 AM
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Since you can never really be sure, you're never in a place where you can ethically ask anyone out. Except you can be sure (enough). You do this by paying close attention to social cues, and by not walking up to complete strangers and hitting on them and/or asking them out right off the bat. Going from zero to sixty like that is not really socially acceptable outside of the movies (and this becomes more true the older you get). Here, I made a handy guide for how to approach someone attractive: 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 02:29 AM
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LOL. Only TRP can take a perfectly reasonable statement (aka that people shouldn't persist in hitting on others who show they aren't interested) and interpret it as something extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 10:36 PM
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Why do you think they should have to put up with that shit? Umm...I don't. But that really isn't what we're talking about in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 10:34 PM
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Yep, as a young guy, this is what gets me annoyed when I see older creeps hitting on my female friends/family/coworkers when it's clear that said women aren't interested. I can see how uncomfortable they are, and I don't think anyone should have to put up with that shit. The guys who think this kind of behavior is acceptable must not have mothers, sisters, or daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 06:37 PM
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Here's the problem with that line of thinking (aside from the whole treating other humans like disposable accessories part, which should be obviously disgusting to anyone with a conscience, but I digress)... People are extremely varied in terms of what they want out of relationships--if you don't know this, you need to get out more. And healthy relationships happen when both people share the same goals. Therefore, if you're a guy who wants monogamy, in order to be happy, you need to find a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 05:07 AM
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I'm BP, and I'm telling you exactly where my views fall on this issue. That alone should be proof that TBP isn't a homogeneous group of posters (in case "satire sub" wasn't enough of a clue that it's not a sub based around any specific political ideology).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 05:49 PM
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Thanks for the sass. Perhaps I should have been more clear about what I meant, which is that of course I know there are people out there who believe gender is a social construct. However, it isn't acknowledged to be true by the general population. It's pretty much just a few dark corners of the internet and certain academics who hold that opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 05:43 PM
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How is this a RP/BP thing? I thought it was pretty commonly accepted that gender identity (even for transgender people) is something you're born with, aka you don't choose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 05:26 PM
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I used to live in a college town--now I am in a small, Midwestern city (interest in the arts is not common here, or at least not as common as an interest in Big 10 football). I am pretty serious about my craft, and I have talent, though this doesn't really make a difference, seeing as a lot of people I hangout with are hobbyists. Monogamy rocks. I have just yet to find a girl that sticks with that assertion when a Chad strikes up a conversation. Intelligent women tend to be both comfortable with…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 07:49 PM
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A. youre quite good looking yourself and never really struggled to get female attention. Your views that you "need more" than looks to be interested in someone speaks to that. It implies you have options. Most men dont have options. It is take what they can get or be incel for X time period. Plus, saying you (and by extension apparently many others) had more important things to focus on than dating, asserts that things like sex and relationships are easier for you to accomplish. Thus you can put…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 06:34 PM
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Your response is classic solipsism, as TRP would say. I can think of personal examples in which I have given each of those responses to women, and it has not meant what you claim in means. Therefore, your assumption that it always means X is not accurate. Not my type: you're not hot enough Wrong. I have said this to attractive women before, not because they weren't hot (they were), but because they shared literally none of my interests. Some of us don't just want to fuck then kick the other pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 05:22 PM
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Your entire worth as a man is involved. No, it's really not. Or at least I have never felt that way. My worth as a man is dependent upon the strength of my personal values and my contributions to society. It is not dependent upon getting some woman's phone number. When rejected, the message received is "youre not enough. I can do better than you". Or: you're just not my type. Or: I'm hung up on someone else right now. Or: I'm not looking for a relationship. Or: I have too much baggage that you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 02:54 PM
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Still, I don't think Chad, or even an average man, would have had that rumor spread all that much; his friends would have said "That's bullshit". This is your own speculation. You are not understanding that other people's behavior says more about them than it does about you. When you stop assuming that everything everyone does is a statement about you, it will click. Honestly, people are naturally selfish. They aren't thinking about you or anyone else when they do asshole shit. The poor, margina…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 02:42 PM
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No, it's a strong statement that she lacks maturity, and instead of thinking it says something about your social status, you should be thinking, "Wow, I dodged a bullet."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 02:26 PM
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Approaching is top 3 of the most anxiety inducing and terrifying endeavors a man takes on Bro, you need to get out of the house and experience more of life. Approaching someone for a date is not even up there on the list of "most terrifying endeavors" for most people. Seriously, you think asking someone out on a date is more anxiety inducing than moving to a new city? Going to a job interview? Having to be with a family member when he or she dies? etc etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 01:53 PM
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Except "on the market" is such a stupid way to describe it, because single women (or men) aren't just there for the taking and/or sold to the highest bidder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 03:00 AM
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Finally, there's the omega male being put in his place: "How dare you ever think you even had a chance, you disgusting creep! I held my nose and tolerated you when you had the audacity to talk to me as an equal, and you repay me like this?! Don't you even realize that most women don't want to be around you, much less date you? Have some manners!" I call bullshit. Who the heck even talks to anyone like that? And if you've been hanging out around people who do act that way, you're either in middle…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 02:57 AM
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I haven't heard that, but then again, sexuality isn't taboo in my social circle. IMO, enjoying porn isn't something that adult men (or women) should have to "justify" to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 06:12 AM
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As for magazines, those should be sealed, so that they have to be paid for, in order to be opened. The result of this will be that porn mags will go extinct. If men have no other choice but to pay in order to see the female body, they will. No, they won't. (I mean, some might, but most probably won't). I could live without porn if I had to spend money for it. After all, previous generations survived without it. Money > sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 03:08 PM
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Ahh, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 01:16 AM
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One of the characteristics of benevolent sexism is that it produces a distaste for women that don't conform to traditional femininity standards. In other words, you believe this form of sexism is benevolent because you are not one of the people that it impacts negatively. This is how many forms of prejudice are defended. "Well, it's good for the majority, so it must be good."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 01:05 AM
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Social conditioning coupled with insecurity & projection. Guys who are not secure in their masculinity/sexuality often feel threatened by women with non-feminine interests. And for these types of men, their insecurity interferes with their own enjoyment (not to mention it's a pain in the butt for women to have to put up with these guys' double standards constantly). IMO, nothing is more fun than going on a date to the shooting range or a monster truck rally with a woman who's just as into that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 02:20 AM
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If anything, though, the fact that now men and women are more equally represented in college and a larger portion of women choose English indicates that this is probably, again, mostly due to personal preference. IE, women tend to be more interested in literature and language than engineering. I feel like you're assuming that college is some sort of vacuum that is free from real-world social influence, and that's simply not true. Being a male in a male-dominated field isn't necessarily a cakewal…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 06:44 PM
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If you reversed the genders, you could make the same observations about college English departments, for example. In every advanced creative writing or Literature course that I took in college, the gender breakdown was about 75% women and 25% men (I was one of the only guys in class, usually. And I was often the only straight guy). Six out of the seven creative writing professors I had in college were women. Yet we know that men aren't "naturally uninterested" in these subjects, since historical…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 03:09 AM
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Silly normie. There are no women interested in such things because women don't think. AWALT. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 02:43 PM
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You realize that these ideas re: each gender being naturally predisposed to certain interests are largely influenced by society's values, and that they have not remained stable throughout history, right? For example, today, we typically think of reading, writing, and the language arts as being "feminine" interests, along with the stereotype that girls possess a natural talent and enthusiasm for these subjects in school. Yet, a hundred and fifty years ago, women poets, writers, and literary criti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 02:41 PM
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Let the mental gymnastics begin!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 04:30 AM
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If women were a race they'd be jews for sure. Utter parasites. Okay, now I know you're just batshit crazy. I'm not gonna have a conversation with a goddamn neo-nazi. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 04:50 PM
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stats dont lie. You're right. But they also don't say what you're pretending they say. They say that stay at home dads from a certain sample population are more likely to be divorced. That's it. Any conclusions you draw after that are heavily subjected to your own, personal biases, since there can be any number of causes. You can't just take empirical data and expand it via inductive reasoning. That's shitty logic. Why do BPers like yourself insist on maintaining the illusion that women arent ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 04:41 PM
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Gee, with such winning personalities, I wonder why they're unwanted? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 01:22 AM
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if I leave a comment like 'nice boobs' it's not because I want to insult her or devalue her as human being or as a musician. it's because the sight of smooth skin in a well proportioned young female specimen makes me horny. We all (men and women) think things, including sexual things, about others people's bodies. However, those of us with maturity and restraint refrain from making comments/gestures that might make others uncomfortable. Since many people find sexual advances from strangers to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 02:04 AM
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for which you are not the intended audience. So you're admitting that TRP is basically just "boys-only treehouse" talk and that it has absolutely no grounding in reality? Wow, never thought I'd hear a TRPer acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 03:36 AM
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Your experience =/= everyone's experience. I'm a 5'5'', facially-unattractive guy, but I get attention from a wide variety of women. Maybe it has to do with the fact that I'm an artist living in a college town and artsy girls tend to like me, but I'm also guessing that it has to do with the fact that I'm not a sexist douchebag. You should try it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 12:15 AM
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Seriously? You've got to be trolling. Nobody is this dense. Anyway, I guess I'm done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 02:18 AM
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You're the one who made the comparison in the first place, so congratulations on figuring out that it was a shitty comparison, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 02:15 AM
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I'm not married, but if I wanted more sex, I would ask. And the kinds of women I go out with would be totally cool with that (probably has something to do with the fact that I treat them like human beings and communicate like an adult). And you just said you had nothing to complain about. I'm not putting these words in your mouth. You said them. Actual peasants, by contrast, had plenty to complain about throughout much of human history, and I'm sure they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 02:09 AM
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Okay, so if you have nothing to complain about, then life is good, like I said. End of discussion. And to answer your question, I am perfectly fine with the amount of sex I am receiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 01:54 AM
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The fact that your life is so cushy that the only thing you can think of to complain about is not getting enough ass proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 12:25 AM
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What, exactly, are you trying to claim is in decline? Society? Not everyone shares that view. In fact, there's a heck of a lot of evidence to suggest that we are living in the most comfortable and prosperous period in all of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 11:25 PM
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In what ways do you feel that AWALT or any of the other beliefs that TRP holds in the name of optimizing "sexual strategy" respect women as human beings? Personally, I think that if you're incorporating humans into a "strategy" to obtain something, you're not seeing them as people, but as means to an end, like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 10:17 PM
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Except that Blue Pill men don't hate women. I like to sleep with women. I also like hanging out with my female friends, just as friends. The function of the TBP is solely satire--it's a comedy sub. But we're also just regular people who see other people as human beings, not as means to an end. Eliot Rodger was very similar to Red Pillers in that regard. He was a sociopath who saw people as objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 06:00 PM
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There's no such thing as objective attractiveness. Everyone likes different things. Some people like everything. If you're getting compliments from strangers, it means at very least that they've noticed you put effort into your appearance. That's a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 04:51 AM
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Yep, Channing Tatum was a stripper.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 10:11 PM
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Of course, but do you really think that people are going to go through all that trouble on a whim? Doubtful. Divorces are incredibly messy for both spouses and everyone related to them. People don't just divorce unless the marriage is experiencing not-small problems, which brings me back to my "it takes two to tango" point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 03:41 AM
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a) The destabilisation of the nuclear family unit/broken homes (which let's be honest, is feminism mostly) Are we forgetting that it takes two to tango (or in this case, divorce)? Sure, you could blame women attaining greater rights and freedoms for the dissolution of families, but you could just as easily blame certain men's inability to share power equally within a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 03:07 AM
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1) Male, Blue Pill. 2) I have a few close friends but a ton of acquaintances. 3) Extrovert. 4) 25% 5) 75% of my friends are women. Many of them have tried to date me at some point, but I've never been interested. I'm a strictly one-girl kind of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 01:34 AM
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If you don't like how TRP does things, instead of wasting time making fun of it, why not do your own thing? That non-redpill way of life already exists. Normal people just call it "dating".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 01:17 AM
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Men have emotions which tie into sex, too. Of course they do. But the point OP was trying to make was that not being able to get laid was an unhappiness unique to men and that women could never understand it. Once you bring emotions into the argument, you have to concede that both sexes understand what it feels like, since everyone experiences loneliness. It seems to me that OP is just mad that women won't sleep with men they aren't attracted to, yet those same men, when asked, aren't willing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 12:17 AM
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Uhh...women can't control their periods. But if I'm horny, I can just use my hand. Plus it's not as if unattractive women don't experience sexual frustration just like unattractive men. What exactly is your point, dude? That we should all feel sorry for you because you've chosen to let sex be your only source of happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 08:35 PM
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Nope. Single college guy. Must be someone else. And come to think of it, I'm pretty sure I've seen another "squirrels" as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 02:18 AM
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I've never been red pill. Maybe you're thinking of someone else? Or maybe you've just seen me get downvoted to hell over at /r/thebluepill for having moderate political views on certain, completely unrelated social issues? That's a possibility, too. It happens pretty often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 02:13 AM
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TIL guys are the only ones who want sex. /s Sounds like a crock of shit, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 01:50 AM
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I'm afraid we're just going to have to agree to disagree here, since my experiences and the experiences of other guys I know have been vastly different from what you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 05:02 PM
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Ah, yes, pardon me. I completely overlooked the fact that dating websites, where people are judged solely by how they appear in pictures and insights into one's personality are limited, are an accurate representation of how social interaction works in the real world. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 04:51 PM
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Optimism =/= guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 04:44 PM
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Again. Speak for yourself. "Women don't find me attractive" =/= "Women only find a small percentage of men attractive". Like I said, I'm 5'5'' and less facially attractive than most of my friends, and though it doesn't happen often, even I occasionally meet a woman who is into me. If that's not happening for you, it's probably an attitude issue, which I think has been more than established by this point in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 03:46 PM
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There's no "system" of high standards keeping anyone down. It's not like women got together one day and came up with some sort of diabolical conspiracy to "keep unattractive men down" as you would say. (Again, this is a perfect place for me to reiterate that if you think not being able to go on as many dates as you would like is synonymous with being "kept down", you live a very comfortable, unburdened life). The fact of the matter is that attraction is involuntary, and varies widely from person…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 07:35 AM
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The overwhelming majority of men (95%) will never receive the validation that they want from women. Men don't just want sex, men want to feel desired by women. This unfortunately, is only possible for the attractive 5% of men. See, honestly, I just can't sympathize with folks who think that not being sexually desired is a problem worth whining about (and this is coming from a guy who is 5'5'' and rarely gets attention from women). These people have food. They have shelter. They have running wate…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 04:34 AM
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Really? Men who spend all their free time categorizing one another as either "alphas" or "betas" are dependent upon peer validation? Color me surprised! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 07:25 PM
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I think that some hobbies are much more attractive than others in general. For example, those that involve artistic creativity, athletic challenge, or intellectual difficulty (like sports, dancing, languages, and music performance) tend to be held as more attractive by a large number of people than those involve collection, fandom, consumption, or which can be done by virtually anyone (like birdwatching, Dr. Who trivia, and wine tasting). The obvious difference between these two groups, of cours…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 09:53 PM
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I wouldn't know for sure, but my guess is that when women on TBP say they would never go for a red pill man, they mean that they find certain personality traits unattractive and would therefore never date a guy with those traits, no matter what he looks or dresses like, no matter whether he has ever visited TRP or not. It's the traits, not TRP, that they find unattractive. TRPers just tend to have a lot of those traits. And eventually, if you're around a person frequently, you find out about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/15 05:41 AM
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Dude. I don't want, nor did I ask for, a picture of your body, and I don't really care. Seriously. Don't make this weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 03:09 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCVHpnixj88
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 03:06 AM
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Yeah, yeah, we know. You didn't want those stupid girls to like you anyway. That's why you're so angry. As for me, I'm perfectly happy with the female attention that I'm receiving. Thank you for your concern, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 02:52 AM
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Says the self admitted blue pill guy who probably doesn't lift or watch his nutrition. Dude, like half my comment history is about lifting and diet. Nice strawman, though. Now I just feel sorry for you. You're really reaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 11:51 PM
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Well, that's certainly an unnecessarily long way of saying, "Wahh, I'm upset that women don't find me attractive."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 11:43 PM
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I think you need a little help with reading comp. Not being interested in something is pretty much the opposite of that something being out of one's league. She literally disqualified you from her options before you even made a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 11:39 PM
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Economic: -1.63; Social: -0.92 In other words, left-leaning moderate. Or exactly where I knew I would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 03:25 AM
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I lift because it's a form of exercise that I enjoy. Everyone should partake in some form of regular exercise for their health. That said, being dependent upon lifting to reassure you or others of your masculinity is beyond pathetic. You can always tell when one of "those" walks into the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 03:13 AM
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No problem. While you're at it, you might want to look up the definition of "connotation".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 09:36 PM
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Sorry, I should have typed "potential advancements" instead. I was responding to the whole "change = bad" thing you had going on in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 08:52 PM
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So, we should reject all advancements because the way we were "humaning" originally will always be preferable to any behavior modifications that come after? By that logic, we should all be running around naked, communicating in nonverbal grunts, and never taking showers. If that's the life you want, then be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 07:20 PM
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I don't think this is true. I'm not a feminist, and you definitely don't have to be one to hangout at TBP (after all, it's just anyone who disagrees with TRP, which is a lot of people). But there is a large feminist presence there that they don't really try to hide or deny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 12:27 PM
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We can call it feminine and selfish as a more exact descriptor. Anything that values safety over freedom, feelings over thinking, communication over action, the list goes on. What about this association (feminine = selfish) doesn't have to do with your own, personal feelings? Can you back that up with anything more than "I've seen women do certain things that I feel are selfish"? You were just trying to tell me that there is no objective morality, which would mean that selfishness should be of n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 04:07 PM
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Well, arguing this from an ethical standpoint, there might not be "objective" right and wrong, but there are commonly accepted ideas as to what's right and what's wrong (hence why we have laws, prisons, etc etc). And these ideas are what they are with the end goal of preserving human existence. Generally-speaking, we as a society tend to categorize actions as being prosocial (aka beneficial to the community as a whole, or "pro-society" if that helps you remember) and antisocial (aka harmful to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 11:30 AM
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Most of them don't care for the plight of people who have suffered ill effects of social issues and policies they've promoted. Some examples would be helpful. But before you do, I'd like to get out of the way that there is a huge difference between empathy and approval. I, for one, feel empathy toward people like Eliot Rodger who was suffering from mental illness in a society that makes it very, very difficult for young men to find adequate access to mental health services. I do not, however, ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 01:31 AM
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because it's far more physically "orgasm"-centered than it often is for women Wait, what? Do you really think women don't engage in sexual activity to get off just like you do? Geez. I feel like this is one of those beliefs that directly contributes to so many guys being shitty in bed...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 01:22 AM
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They tend to be lacking in empathy, How do you figure this? Just curious as to where you're coming from. And bro, I've seen and been through some shit. I'd hardly call me sheltered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 01:11 AM
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24 y.o. male. I'm pretty much the extreme example of a person whose sexuality is oriented toward monogamy. Thus, sex isn't important to me for its own sake. It's only something I care about or desire in the context of a committed, stable, long-term relationship. I also realize that I'm not the norm, but I'm not sure how much of that is due to people's inherent tendencies, and how much is due to social pressure to do casual hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 01:09 AM
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Or, you know, more empathy and less tendency to dwell on the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 11:38 PM
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I'm BP and I agree with you, though I don't think it applies only to women. There's a lot of scientific evidence that human sexuality is a spectrum, and at one end are those who are oriented toward monogamous relationships while at the other are those who are oriented toward casual sex with multiple partners. The only thing, I think, that causes the latter group to settle down eventually is social expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 01:50 AM
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No, the women=children comment addressed the complaining. The sentence after that addressed issues of personal responsibility as they compared to the sorts of things that third-wave feminists say. Finally, I'm gonna leave this conversation now, since you clearly aren't understanding anything that I'm saying, and I'm not entirely convinced that you're not just trolling. Later, gator.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 02:33 AM
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Either you have lied in saying you have never seen another redpiller blame someone else, or you just haven't been looking. I don't believe, for a moment, that it's the latter. You also missed my original point about the women=children comments. The point was that many of these are evidence of RPers complaining about women's behavior. It was in response to you saying, in these exact words, "We don't complain." I was explaining why that statement was inaccurate, to which you responded, "Wahh, you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 02:22 AM
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Clearly, you've got a lot of nerve. Lying to my face then calling me stupid for pointing it out. You also missed my point completely. I'm not sure I'm capable of wrapping my head around the amount of cognitive dissonance I'm witnessing right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 01:46 AM
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Right, I must be imagining things. Because I've never seen any heavily-upvoted, misogynistic, whiny comments on TRP comparing women to children, animals, or other lifeforms intellectually inferior to men. And I've never seen any posts directly blaming women's behavior for society supposedly being rigged against men (switch the genders there and you have a classic feminist claim designed to shift all blame away from women--fancy that, even your arguments are similar). And yeah, yeah, I know, it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 01:16 AM
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C'mon. You already know the answer to this question. Promiscuity is directly correlated with a tendency toward self-interest in people of both genders. A quick google search will turn up several scientific articles and studies suggesting that this is the case. Likewise, a notorious sign of narcissism is not wanting to take responsibility for your actions. You see this behavior frequently in TRP (aka men who don't believe they should be held responsible for anything) and also in the extreme, thir…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 09:13 PM
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Well, I guess I have only one thing left to say here, which is that you complain about nobody being sympathetic to your situation, but then when someone tries to take an approach that is not "man up you little cry baby", you get defensive and accuse them of talking down to you. In light of that, I'd venture to guess that your troubles with women have nothing to do with your physical appearance, nor do they have anything to do with women's shallowness. I'd urge you to look in the mirror. Have a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 06:44 PM
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Additionally, you do realize that one of the most universally accepted ways of showing value is with a high-powered/well-paying career? Yep, and all this time you spend worrying about getting casual pussy and/or chasing it you could be spending furthering yourself in a career or area of study leading to a career. This is exactly what I'm talking about. The choice is yours. This being the Internet, I find it more likely that you're saying this to keep your viewpoints consistent, but that's neithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 05:07 AM
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Take it from me, it's all too easy to waste years on trying to deserve it rather than work on the unrelated traits that actually bring it. Well, all I can say is that I'm sorry that that has been your experience. It certainly hasn't been mine. But then again, I don't know you personally, so I can't speculate any further as to why that might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 03:07 AM
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No. Because humans, as a species, grow not only in terms of population but also in terms of our collective knowledge and accomplishments. And arguably, we rely on these last two things just as much, if not more, than we rely on sheer numbers in order to ensure our collective survival. This is what sets us apart from lower lifeforms. Thus, reproduction only aids in species survival if your offspring end up contributing to our collective reservoir of resources. If you have a hundred great-great-gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 01:34 AM
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So the idea is to be a good person, and then sex/relationships will just magically happen on their own? Pretty standard feminist narrative here; also not how things go in reality. Again, you're not listening. Being a good person is part of it, yes. Everyone should try to be a good person. But Good =/= Valuable. There are plenty of good people out there who are boring, uninspiring, or who just don't try to go above and beyond the status quo in any way. Be someone who does something important, who…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 11:49 PM
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"Make yourself someone worth being with" is exactly what TRP says to do. This is the goal of the most common advice "read and lift." That's not some kind of a magical alternative, it's the exact same thing just re-packaged in PC terms. No. You misunderstand what I mean when I talk about making yourself into a valuable human being. I don't just mean self-improvement. I mean developing qualities that serve society and your community as a whole, not just you. When you aspire to something higher tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 08:00 PM
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BPers tend to be guys who, through luck of circumstance, genetics, etc., have been able to get action without having to make any conscious changes I can't speak for any other BP guys here, but I'm 5'5'' and not good looking at all. I think there are probably a lot of other BPers who, like me, are not circumstantially or genetically blessed. You were a lot more on point where you said that there is an alternative way to live your life. The BP way to live, as I interpret it, is to be confident in …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 06:24 PM
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Perhaps you could start by not defining your self-worth based on sexual conquests, or even based on relationships? Be confident in yourself and have life goals that aren't centered around women. Also, spend your free time working to accomplish something that's actually important, instead of just chasing instant gratification. There's nothing sadder than a person whose life is wasted in pursuit of temporary reward, such as sex. Women can tell when you don't respect or value yourself as a human be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 06:15 PM
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Hmm. Let's see. You make an incredibly vague statement in your original comment that could be interpreted in any number of ways, then you get snarky when people interpret it to mean something that it very well could mean based on the context? Yeah. Okay. I'm done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 02:30 AM
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I was responding to your comment, which I interpreted to mean: "Scientific inquiry should not be limited because feminists fear the results." ...Thus I linked an example of TRP likewise spitting in the face of scientific evidence. My point being that feminists are not the only group to disregard or devalue science when it suits their agenda. There's enough of that to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 01:39 AM
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Considering the fact that this post on TRP was upvoted by more than half of the people who viewed it, I don't think TRP is in a position to accuse other groups of being scared/ignorant of science. Just throwing that out there...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 01:30 AM
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Uhh, what? Who, other than TERFS and people who are completely ignorant of science, believes that men and women have the same brains? Also, there's a difference between believing that men and woman are biologically different in certain ways (like most of the world does) and believing that women are inferior (as TRP does).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 04:22 PM
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No. Shallow men leave their wives even if they can be valued for multiple things other than their looks. Correction: shallow men marry women only for their looks then leave when those expire. By the same token, if you were interested in a woman for things other than her looks, you wouldn't be so opposed to marrying an older woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/15 10:53 PM
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The worst part? There's undoubtedly some guy out there who puts up with her shit and then some all because she's remotely attractive.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/15 09:52 PM
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fedora tipping intensifies FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 04:24 PM
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Blue Pill Men are bitter that the girls they like, like Alpha Guys instead. 'Nice Guy' Syndrome Are you sure you're not talking about red pill men? Women are cool with me, brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 10:31 PM
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Since your question is "what is the difference", I don't think there is a major difference. Both TRP and radical/SJW feminism are strong examples of horseshoe theory. Personally, I spend a lot of time at both /r/TheBluePill and /r/TumblrInAction. I find the content featured on both subs entertaining, if not mildly disturbing at times. I don't think they're mutually exclusive. In fact, I think most people with moderate social views and a sense of humor would enjoy both subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 06:44 PM
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That depends entirely if you're looking for a LTR or not. The qualities you describe add to the convenience in short-term relationships but will never trump the difference in physical attractiveness of a 20 year old woman vs. a 40 year old woman. Again, I said that my needs don't revolve solely around sex. I'm not everyone. I'm just trying to present a different angle. Financial stability is a huge reason why people (both men and women) seek long-term relationships and eventually marriage. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/14 08:02 PM
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1) Nobody said anything about bragging. People work to afford the things they want out of life. I come from an upper middle class background, so naturally, I'm looking for a woman who is from the same background. I am perfectly happy with that standard of living. It is what I am accustomed to. 2) It's not all or nothing. More money is better, less money is worse. Someone who is upper middle class is undoubtedly living a better quality of life than someone who is flipping burgers at McDonald's. 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/14 04:42 PM
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I'm not quite sure what you mean by that...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/14 04:26 PM
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I think women get more attractive as they get older--for the same reasons that TRP thinks men get better as they age. A woman at 35 or 40 years old, assuming she's made good decisions in life, is more financially and emotionally stable than a 20-year-old. She's more likely to contribute monetarily to the relationship and less likely to leech off of you. There's nothing more attractive than a woman who has her shit together and doesn't expect handouts. You can say all you want that maturity and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/14 04:13 PM
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I think it's important to recognize the difference between "there are those among you who are" and "all of you are." I did not accuse your overall sub of being hostile toward transgender people. But yes, there are those among you who are. See my response to u/salami_inferno.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 04:51 PM
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First off, tough guy, I didn't say that all of you are, or even that your sub supports such attitudes. I simply said that there are those among you who have said things to the effect of "they'll get what's coming to them (in the context of bullying and suicide)" or "if my son wanted to be a girl, I would fix him up with a good ass kicking". It would take me hours to comb through every single post on the sub to find where those things were specifically said, but I have seen them. Secondly, you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 04:45 PM
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One obvious solution here would be to avoid romantic contact with anyone who identifies as a feminist Blue pill man here, and you should be doing that anyway. Edit: to clarify: I meant that one should stay avoid romantic contact anyone who identifies as a feminist anyway because it's 2014 and it's about time we embrace egalitarianism. Whoosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 06:17 AM
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The problem with TRP's science is that it doesn't look at the big picture, but rather looks at a little corner of the picture and draws its conclusions from that. Example: I am a transgender person, and the existence of people like me (and the fact that transsexuality can be detected on brain scan) has been used to prove that gendered behavior is, in fact, biologically-based. And I have actually heard red pillers use this argument before--the ones who aren't violently transphobic, that is. That …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 06:05 AM
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IMO, getting yourself into a position where you're faced with a false rape accusation requires a very specific set of dumb choices. The way to protect against this would be to know the person you're about to have sex with. This should be common sense, especially nowadays that STDs are so common and people can and do lie about things like birth control on a regular basis. I wouldn't feel sorry for a man who gets slapped with a false rape accusation after hooking up with a strange woman any more t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:52 AM
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