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For me, critically thinking and deducing that the whole thing contradicts itself and is a massive "trust me bro" theory. Like for example, the double standards for men vs women, or being liberal with oneself but being conservative with others (wanting to have unlimited sex partners but wanting all women to be virgins at marriage). And the absolute lack of proof apart from evopsych.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/25 09:01 PM
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Classic example of an economic theory (Pareto principle) applied in dating. Which doesn't work because both have different foundations and dynamics.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/25 12:04 PM
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This question is asked like twice a week here, there should be a megathread instead
/r/ExRedPill18/06/25 03:11 PM
2

Excellent one but you should update the links in your post. They are insecure and some of them don't work.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/25 03:26 PM
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No like actual "incels". Maybe my sample size is biased because the ones I know are the nice ones, but I am in contact with the former admin of love-shy.net and he's pretty left wing.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/25 04:15 PM
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Yeah this is it
/r/ExRedPill21/04/25 07:04 PM
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Most incels I know are left leaning and leftists
/r/ExRedPill21/04/25 07:04 PM
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No, who is he? Anyways paying someone for a program except it's a legit certificate/diploma course or it's therapy is risky in my opinion.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/25 02:34 AM
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My sister is like 3 years younger than me and it feels like we're a generation apart. I can't imagine being with someone who's like 10 years younger, I don't even know what would be common between us.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/25 05:32 PM
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aging devalues women but adds value to men I found this to be an absolute joke. Ageing hits everyone, maybe some age better but that's dependent on genes and nutrition.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/25 05:31 PM
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I believe nobody should put anyone on a pedestal, don't make gods out of them like how simps and these "alpha males" do with women. Not just related to women but anything in life, especially politics. Pun not intended though.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/25 09:14 PM
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They do make their whole life based on women and female attention for self-proclaimed "high value alpha males". I mean that's like the least "alpha" thing you can do, someone "high value" doesn't put women on a pedestal nor wastes hours on podcasts and reaction videos.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/25 07:37 AM
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Bro don't watch Content Machine too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:36 PM
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This is some kind of narcissistic thinking, I'd think that woman has a personality disorder if she does like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:33 PM
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The one good thing I've got during my redpilled days is to identify such women who are attention seekers and not fall for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:30 PM
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Always has been. The only form of masculinity he represents is toxic masculinity, not genuine masculinity which he despises as being "beta".
/r/ExRedPill26/10/24 06:07 AM
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His looks isn't the thing which makes him ugly, because tbh I think he could be much more attractive if he kept a bald head with a beard. But it's his character which makes him ugly.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/24 06:05 AM
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Blackpill is derived from an extreme interpretation of the redpill. Those guys who have high self esteem stay in the redpill while whose who have low self esteem and self loath go to the blackpill.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/24 11:13 AM
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I never dated but I do have good friends, both male and female. A lot of times your environment matters. Also the vibe with them, if your vibes match it means y'all are compatible to a good point.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/24 10:33 AM
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Wheat Waffles was the guy who turned me blackpilled.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/24 07:24 PM
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Youtube videos, I remember the name of the channel too. SANQ4, which posted AI created videos from TRP subreddit's posts.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/24 07:23 PM
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Ah yes the YouTube recommendations algorithm, that was how I got into the redpill/blackpill when it was smart enough to know that I was lead on by a crush at that time. The only solace was that it happened only for a few months till I came back to my senses, but the damage was done.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/24 07:29 PM
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I want to ask you, how did you get into the redpill and what were the things which made it appealing to you as a woman?
/r/ExRedPill03/09/24 04:41 PM
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I've been through both the redpill and the blackpill and I disagree with it. Like atleast the redpill says that you can have a chance, but the blackpill is pure unspawning fuel and exists to only make you depressed. But I'll agree that love is non-existent in the redpilled world. I think it's some sort of "hiding in a shell" after those men got hurt. Love requires vulnerability and trusting in someone else. Those men probably got hurt by someone they were vulnerable to and this online echochambe…
/r/ExRedPill02/09/24 11:01 AM
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They want women and sex because that's the only way they can get internal validation and feel good about themselves, thus it's linked to their self-esteem. The "hotter" a woman has sex with him, the more "high value" he is infront of himself and his friends. Thus for them women and sex becomes the end goal of life and gives meaning to their existence itself.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/24 03:35 PM
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My God, idiots, look at your own shlubby ass dads! Not always true, my parents have arranged marriage so it wasn't really through love. And for some reason I got the worst genetic traits of both in a household which was far from being a healthy environment.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 05:30 AM
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Good bot.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 05:21 AM
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I don't think they were aware of it in the beginning but now they seem to be and thus direct their content in that way. Especially with blackpill channels like Wheat Waffles which present videos like a science presentation with stats and graphs, that stuff is genuinely to us like bees are to flowers. I also think a lot of the influencers themselves are on the spectrum. The founding fathers of the redpill were purely misogynistic but that school of thought was carried forward by present day influ…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 09:27 AM
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I also believe that most of them are autistic. The autistic mind loves when things are systematic and functional (that's why we thrive in STEM) and the redpill/blackpill provides a perfect seeming solution to the world of dating which is arbitrary at best. And the black-and-white thinking is seen due to this.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 08:12 AM
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I agree with point one. Some of the biggest crushes I had were on girls who weren't that popular or had much social media presence, just regular Jane's in the world's perspective. The only way one could notice them was in school or college and them being in my environment allowed me to know them better which in turn dramatically increased my attraction towards them.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 08:07 PM
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The utter contradictions in their arguments (eg. women should be pure and chaste while at the same time should have sex on the first date) Their obsession with women and having as much sex as possible as if there's no other purpose in life. They call themselves alpha but their whole self-worth is dependent on female attention. It makes you wonder of any attachment issues they have. Their philosophy and way of life is incompatible with my religious faith and that was actually my first reason why …
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 03:01 AM
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Thanks for sharing it. As a short guy who looks unattractive and absolutely disgust myself seeing in the mirror, it helps that there's still some hope left.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 05:57 PM
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Well you can't fool all the people all the time. They're almost memes these days and rarely does anyone take them seriously. Also most of their audience is teens and with age they come out of their immaturity and realise that the real world is nothing like the redpill.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/24 02:26 AM
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It is. They know that to survive, they'll need to pump out even more extreme content. Because their whole model runs on emotions, not logic. That type of content makes your emotions rage and that's how they get engagement, whether it's against women or racial minorities. Also the fact that they need the blame game. First it was "women are hypergamous sl*ts who only go for Chad", then it became "the Jews control everything". Basically offload their lack of sense of power on targets. Dating is one…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 08:10 PM
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On Old Reddit you can see it.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 07:19 PM
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Yeah the redpill and blackpill are self-sabotaging and self-fulfiling things. I guess it applies even for me, what you've said. Tbh I don't interact with girls much and I guess it would have been more success if I did so. I never had any girl interested in me, let alone approach me.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 03:37 PM
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You straight-out murdered them... It's about being scared in the sense that 1. They don't want their women to be "higher" than them in any way and that includes intelligence, 2. A smart woman would recognise manipulation tactics much earlier and they won't be successful in their tactics. Most of their arguments run through a flavour of insecurity.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/24 07:59 AM
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I don't agree with your last paragraph that there surely has been someone else into OP without proper data, I get your sentiment but not everyone gets crushed on. It's okay to not be crushed on tho, everyone's experiences are different and everyone is in different stages of life. Your self-esteem shouldn't rely on that. I agree that OP should not be acting in a state of desperation but take this situation in a rational way. It's easy to think that "this girl is my only chance to recieve love in …
/r/ExRedPill07/04/24 06:31 PM
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This ain't it mate, she had already stated her opinion before that she doesn't see you in that way. Now that she has come back to you after that guy, she probably thinks you as a backup option or a safe option and she doesn't think of you like that way. I know this is a simplistic and toxic way to look at it, but even when I try to remove that thought, I still just get the ick from this situation. I guess this answers your question. You don't feel nice about dating her and it's a valid feeling a…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/24 06:22 PM
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I call my friends and homies kings and queens, because they are! Men are the prize...that's redpillish.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 08:14 AM
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I'm sorry you had to face this. It was a dick move of him to leave a perfectly existing family over a lie with a non-existing 25 yo woman.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 06:01 AM
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If it's the redpill, it damages any notion of familial relationships. Men are discouraged to commit and marriage and long-term commitment is seen as beta cucking. And I don think any family will be successful while following redpill ideas. As if any of the redpill creators have any happy family of their own to boast about.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 03:46 AM
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If you set out your intentions right (specifically spelling out it's a date or a hangout) it's not a problem. Infact having female friends can be advantageous to you, just like having male friends.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 05:13 PM
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It's nice reading your experience. I was raised in a household which discouraged being friends with girls since high school (can also be partly because my dad was a player in his youth and he didn't want me to go down his path). I remember that my kindergarten bestie was a girl, and even in primary school I had some female friends. But later on interacting with the opposite sex was frowned upon and I was gullible enough to fall for that. Now I'm in college and apart from a few female friends I b…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 05:11 PM
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On top of that he's Indian so it's internalized racism. I live here and there's a whole lot of beauty standards. Basically it's about how much you look white and European, maybe centuries of colonial rule has really ingrained in their minds. Dark skinned people are seen less attractive than fair skinned ones. I'm dark skinned and tan relatively easily and it's mostly among my family where I'm pressurized to somehow "whiten" up myself. Foe years there used to be fairness creams advertised abound.…
/r/ExRedPill04/02/24 05:00 AM
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Shutup incel, there's a whole country called India which disproves your claim.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/24 06:47 PM
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You seem like a troll, isn't it? This is a platform to change yourself.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/24 04:25 AM
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That is the best explanation of self-love and self-confidence I've heard till date, thank you! It's a hard time for my autistic brain to understand concepts especially those which I don't have experiences of.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 07:23 PM
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I live in India and its culturally pushed for men and women to marry and have kids early. There's a lot of pressure from parents and family to do it, so even the ones who are single are married off early. So my point stands in my situation.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 07:05 AM
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Thanks for your advice! learn to love yourself This is a foreign concept for me. I've always hated how I am and how I look, so it's difficult for me to. It hits my confidence too as I tend to hide myself from public presence and don't like being photographed. Having confidence in yourself goes a long way in attraction I've never been that. I still don't understand confidence. Confidence is when you are good at something and you know you can do it again without failing. So how can you be confiden…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 06:57 AM
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You have time man. Make some friends while you're in university, preferably female friends to get a social circle. Through them you can meet much more women. It's okay to not date online but making friends is no harm.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 02:43 AM
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I think I understand what a "crush" is. That's just attraction/infatuation, right? I have two kinds of crushes actually. In one type it's that pure attraction thing, I find someone hot, they disappear after some time or is just eye candy for me. But the other type is more strong. Like this is the type I actually call a crush. This type usually begins with an emotional connection and it has a lot of feelings attached to it. I see her as a whole being and just want to spend time with her, talk wit…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 06:46 PM
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I was such a nerd before...I know it's not a bad thing but. Like literally was into books 24/7 and didn't go hanging out etc.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 01:57 PM
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You need to go out and date My mirror and my length scale says no. I've had enough comments on my looks and height and I'm the only documented guy among all my friends who didn't had anyone crushing on me. Just go out and find women who enjoy similar things to you and date them and see if they are right for you That's all and good but would she be actually attracted to me? It's one case she can find me having similar interests, funny, all that stuff. But actually feeling physically attractive, b…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 09:10 AM
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Arranged marriages are prevalent in such a scale only in India and other South Asian countries at present, so it's easy to spot.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 08:54 AM
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I can relate to why he thinks love is "Hollywood bullshit". The amount of cringe I saw happening with couples when I was in school actually made me repulsed from love. My thought was, if this is what love is, I don't want to fall in it. But fate is its own master and it dug up a hole to make me fall down. Kinda wish I didn't because it put other people's thoughts power over me, but it helped me start enjoying life so it's fine.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 08:51 AM
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No one "falls in love",lol. That's Hollywood bullshit. I've seen you struggling with the idea of love many times here and on incelexit. Are you aromantic by any chance? I know because I was "aromantic" for 15 years before my first crush and I was puzzled as to why everyone is acting so weird around each other and spending so much time and doing silly stuff (which was most of the time absolute cringe).
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 08:46 AM
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you're left married to someone you don't even like very much but most likely you will get a wife who resents having to be married to you and is only with you for the money. She will probably have a boyfriend she actually loves behind your back but she will be extremely good at hiding it because the other women have taught her how and will help her. That's what I'm worried about. I don't think so I'll be in a romantic relationship, because I don't know how will any girl be physically attracted to…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 08:37 AM
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I'm sorry, but being beholden to religious rules like no divorce sounds horrible. What do you personally get out of following these rules? It's clearly causing you a lot of stress as it is. Look, I'm not the Magisterium of the church, I can't just do whatever stuff I want to. Doing elsewise is clearly heretical behaviour. There are certain reasons why the catholic church has no concept of divorce. Because here marriage is seen as a sacrament too, so any marriage between two christians has a divi…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 06:33 AM
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I would say o am good looking though but my window of opportunity to have a virtuous quality woman is also closed since I’ve left university? I'm 20 so I have some time I guess. But that thought still worries me that nobody will find me attractive and consider me "relationship material". Regarding you, I don't know your age but if you're in mid 20s you can socialise and meet other people, you know all that stuff and pipeline. Especially if you're in the West, it's socially acceptable to remain s…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 06:04 PM
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It was a luxury of wealth that women could stay home - poor families always had both parents working. I can attest that. My mom came from a poor family and for generations all men and women were working on their farms and carpentry. My mom too worked for quite some years before marrying. Plenty of non-traditional marriages work very well. It is often by forcing people to stick to a traditional formula that causes people issues. There is no one singular way to have a relationship that will guaran…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 05:55 PM
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A woman who doesn't respect you won't respect you. Get someone who shows you the respect you deserve.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 05:41 PM
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I fear my state will be the same when I'll reach marriageable age. I'm conventionally unattractive and I don't think so any girl will actually fall for my looks, so I've lost hope on love. And my rizz is literally in the negative and I sperg out so I can't pull someone by flirting too. I have high chances of getting arranged married due to my educational qualifications and apparent social status. But it feels really horrifying to me. I don't know how will I be able to wake up everyday beside a w…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 05:39 PM
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Yeah but in reality what most Catholics do is just get divorced and remarried anyway, because life is often more complex than these strict rules. In a secular sense it's possible but as a sacrament it can't be revoked. The concept of divorce doesn't exist here because marriage is a sacrament and it's of an irrevocable nature. Annulments are when you find the marriage is done in irregular manner thus the sacramental effect is compromised. Also, annulments aren't even that hard to get. Several of …
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 05:29 PM
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Then you need to properly vet the girl. Guys marry the first girl they find without checking whether she's compatible in the long term and wonder why things are going downhill. You should keep atleast 2 years before you marry someone, as by that time the honeymoon stage of the relationship gets over and you find out the true self. And definitely vet her through your friends and family. Check how she treats others who are above and below her authority. About hypergamy and other redpill ideas, che…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 03:45 PM
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I'm Catholic and the church doesn't allow divorce. So we need to be extra careful there. We can get separation tho, but cannot marry someone else. Annulments are complex as you need to prove the marriage was irregular, so in a perfectly conducted rite it cannot be given.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 02:35 PM
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Nice stuff, should be linked in the detox toolkit too
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 09:16 AM
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Men peaking at 40 and women peaking at 20 is such weird and creepy stuff. The age you peak is all dependant on what you're doing. Considering that people generally get their shit together in their middle ages, but then you can be successful at any age. The women peaking at 20 is such creepy stuff, it's just a backhanded call towards dating naive teens. They give the excuse of fertility but older women have much higher chances of healthy childbirth than those at 20. And they definitely haven't se…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 07:20 PM
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For starters you read the pinned post of the subreddit. Then search for posts here regarding the topics you want. Also check out some good blogs like goodmenproject.com
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 06:41 PM
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I'm so sorry that you had to face all this and lose someone you loved to this ideology. The redpill is indeed a nasty thing which has ruined countless lives.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 07:58 PM
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Even if you don't verbally show it, the aura seeps through your soul. It shades through your discourse and people can smell the bad vibes.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 05:46 AM
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That's not true. You are creepy only if you do creepy stuff. Yes there are some women who care a lot about looks and superficial stuff but they aren't the ones you want too. Most others don't care that much if they have a connection with you; in boy language it's like we prefer big boobs but wouldn't turn down a flat-chested girl if we like her a lot. Also just like that, women have different things which they prefer and like, just like some men love big boobs while some want a nice ass, while s…
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 05:43 AM
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Fertility rates in most western countries and even some developing countries have fallen below replacement level. About masturbation, to each to their own. I told my preferences and views but it is someone's own decision. Although I agree with the harms of porn.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 07:18 PM
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It is creepy I feel. Granted that people are entitled to have standards, but it's wise to also see the feasibility. When you're young and virgin it's reasonable since most others are virgin too, but middle age isn't a time you find a lot of virgins. You have no choice but to take whatever you have, and losing it with someone experienced isn't a bad thing at all. Their wanting of virgins when they themselves want to have a harem is creepy. I'm a virgin and a practicing Catholic, so I would want t…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 06:46 PM
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There are chances of going wrong but everything has a risk attached to it. If you're worried about looking creepy then, just don't be creepy. Consider her humanity and treat her as such. Be chill and confident, approach her, and accept whatever decision she takes. Most women aren't going to freak out unless you approach her inappropriately (asking for sex, approaching when she's busy, when she clearly doesn't want attention, etc), or keep pestering her, or show creepy signs and appear dangerous.…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 06:26 PM
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Spot on! I'm a recovering ex-incel and I've been working to repair my worldview after that brainwashing, your reply is truly helpful. The redpill/blackpill honestly is brainwashing into a cult to benefit those grifters. People in power and wannabes always want to put discord among the masses, men vs women done by the manosphere. We need to look above these petty fights and treat others as human. Both men and women have it hard in different parts of life, if we helped each other the world would b…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 06:14 PM
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Bro if I could get 57 million USD making OF videos I would have literally sucked dick, and I'm a guy
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 06:01 PM
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Even that average isn't a representative of the actual average as very few bag it all while the rest don't even earn anything significant. You're statistically better off having a base wage job than OF.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 05:58 PM
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I'll be going against the stream but hear me out, I'm not a redpiller A lot of red pill YouTubers talk about infertility in men. If this were true, how come the world's population is 8 billion? And shouldn't the USA be extinct if men were becoming infertile? I don't know what infertility you're talking about. But there is a slowdown in global fertility rates and most of the population is aging in western countries. Also sperm count is going down due to microplastics in our food and water. This i…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/24 07:32 PM
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It's the difference between dying of thirst due to lack of water and dying of thirst due to flooding of salty water.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 06:16 AM
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Did they actually learn all their biology from porn?🤣🤣 Bro if you can't do your homework, atleast don't embarrass yourself infront of the whole internet.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/24 07:29 PM
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Myron, is that you? Come back home to mommy baby, your mum is worried about your mental health seeing all you say and post. Please don't do this.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 05:19 PM
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Also the choice of girls they bring on is not unintentional. Most of the OF girls report higher subscriptions after featuring in the podcast. So they make all that noise and hubris to humiliate those girls, and the men who see video try to express their anger through those lunatics and rile up their emotions. And many probably buy their subscriptions, seeing their hotness or to "teach them a lesson". Now this is a topic for why porn is misogyny, but I think there's a conspiracy to this. Those po…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 05:14 PM
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Tbh all those "alpha" males obsess with the male physique so much that it cannot be denied
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 04:45 PM
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Even if it is, he's fkn GROWN UP! Everyone gets rejected, you just deal with it and move on.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 04:42 PM
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I first thought it was a metaphor for jealousy but later understood it was STDs
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 03:46 PM
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🤝
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 03:34 PM
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Idk why redpillers think life is an RPG, you grind through your stats and level up, then buy whatever you want.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 06:41 PM
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Redpillers having logic challenge😱😱😱😱 (100% impossible)
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 06:37 PM
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If you're talking about STDs then just get her tested bro, and use a condom. You're not in the stone age, we have cooler tools like electricity and tacos now.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 06:35 PM
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life is meant to be a challenge, not to be enjoyed. Life is a challenge, because everyday is a challenge. But you're meant to enjoy life through those challenges. I remembered a poem whose synopsis is that our challenges are meant for giving meaning and true happiness in our lives, or else it's just monotony. [Okay enough about the rant] Redpillers talk about the redpill and the "matrix" but look at their content. Everything is just a script, do this and do that, say this and you get the girl, b…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 06:20 PM
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The redpill preys upon us autistic people. It provides a sense of "system" and structure for dating, when it is completely arbitrary. The thing I learnt while deradicalizing is that you should treat everything as an independent case and not let your mind's machine learning model treat things like a trend. And try to embrace the nuance of life. And that dating around is to just find out who is compatible to you, not a competition or a game
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 05:49 PM
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It's vague because the meaning of value change from person to person. We value different things. Someone in STEM will consider a scientist who found a cure to a life-threatening condition as a "high value man" even if he doesn't fit into the redpill criteria, simply because he did something which is of actual high value and his expertise ought to be appreciated. A girl who grew in poverty will consider a man who has a decent salary and has his shit together as "high value" relative to her. You c…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/24 05:37 PM
1

Then you can just say, "I'm searching for someone compatible". Honestly they don't need to poke their noses into this more unless they want to help you find dates or want to set you up with a friend. Or make fun with them. Like if they ask "Why you don't have a girlfriend till date?", reply "Because you still haven't introduced me to your hot friends or to your neighbour's cute daughter!" The best way to cope up with situations like these is to give them the taste of their own medicine.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/23 06:05 AM
1

Well my family makes fun if you have a girlfriend If they're making of you for not having any girlfriend, it's really shitty behaviour from them. You should just ignore them. Usually it's the old members who do stuff like this. You have your own life and only you know what circumstances you live in, they should understand this. But don't force yourself to do stuff you don't want to, just because they're pressuring you.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 02:38 PM
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They only value other human beings based on reproductive ability If they actually thought of this, then mature women in their late 20's and 30's would be more preferrable to bear healthy babies with the least risk at childbirth. These guys only want to hook up with 18 y/o's for very obvious reasons.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 06:36 AM
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The only thing I can concur from this is that they haven't paid attention to biology classes in school.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 06:27 AM
3

Well, I'm autistic too and I know the struggles of making friends. I have my small and happy friend group who are close knit. Also you don't need to friend up everyone, you keep the friends you want and keep others as acquittances. In autism terms, create tiers of friendship; 1st one is your besties, 2nd are close friends, 3rd are just friends, 4th are acquittances, and so on.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 01:17 PM
3

So basically you need to improve your social circle in order to improve your dating circumstances, right? The pinned post on r/IncelExit and here are saying the truth after all.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 08:27 PM
3

Lurking incels might start "vegan-maxxing" after watching that video though🤣🤣
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 08:24 PM
3

A lot of these redpillers come from the "Nice Guy" trope of guys. Basically they believe the fairytale trope of women being those pure helpless souls who should be pursued and protected by men, like give them enough favours to make her "fall" for you (bluepill). Then one fine day reality kicks in, they either get rejected or some girl treats them badly. Then in the search of an answer find the redpill and do a complete 180 and become misogynistic.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 06:09 PM
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I wonder if PearlyThings is saying "Women shouldn't vote" then this should also mean that she too should shut the fuck up, being a women?🤔🤔🤔/s
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 05:19 PM
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I saw your profile and found out that you're under antidepressants and SSRIs. Some of which can lead to ED. First of all, prioritize yourself and your health first! Don't stress about other stuff, things will return to normal! Do ask your doctor's/psychiatrist's advice about using viagra and stuff during this though. In this case you don't need to worry much about your ED problem. I get that women may feel insecure about themselves if their partners can't get hard while being with them. But try …
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 07:41 PM
9

Sure, I can help you review the scientific paper "Physical attractiveness and intergenerational social mobility" by Gugushvili et al. (2023). I will critically evaluate the research, approach, methodologies, and conclusions and offer constructive criticism on their strengths and weaknesses. Overall Assessment The paper by Gugushvili et al. (2023) makes a significant contribution to our understanding of the relationship between physical attractiveness and intergenerational social mobility. The au…
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 10:35 AM
11

The only good thing redpill ever did to me was to remove me out of the "nice guy" state. I was heavily influenced by cinema's portrayal of relationships (asperger's + no healthy examples of relationships in my life) so used to believe that "nice guy-ing" and "winning over" a girl, being a doormat and a hopeless romantic was the only way to be with someone. The redpill hit me when I found out my "oneitis" was dating someone and it basically took that anger and put it against all women. And it put…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 07:35 AM
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Hey, so I wanted to ask this. I want to be friends with women, I understand the importance of having female friends. But for some reason I become "desperate". Like not in a sexual way, but I tend to see potential female friends as "relationship material" first rather than being just friends. I don't want to feel like that to them but my mind betrays me most of the times. This creates a problem when we interact as anyone can easily decode stuff. Man I just want to be friends with them and tell my…
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 07:51 PM
2

They hid everything. This girl lived with sort-of absent parents
/r/ExRedPill29/10/23 07:06 PM
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I really don't know how these redpillers are obsessed with such young women. Being a teen I've firsthand experienced all types of cringe that really makes you not date. It's a cesspool of superficial stuff which everyone obsesses over for nothing. Guys and gals acting mature and actually being immature. Most don't even know what do they actually want in their partner, they just go along with their feelings. And agreed with your second para. It's difficult to imagine living probably an entire lif…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 06:44 PM
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I had a friend who was literally blind in love with a 30+ guy when she was 16. It was all online, but she was too obsessed with him. We tried to get her out of this but didn't listen. It appears that she has left that era of immaturity, but it surprises me that people can't see such red flags. Some girls who are immature or are emotionally dysfunctional do such stuff. Growing up in environments without proper understanding of human relationships can do that. Probably like those girls who are obs…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 06:33 PM
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It's ok, can understand. I just wanted to put my point over to others who are watching the comment section (especially to OP who seems to still have redpilled thoughts). Because a redpiller may say that all those gurus are getting results, so the end justifies the means. But they fail to factor in the deep price to mental health associated with it. And even the so-called "alphas" are exactly opposite of what they proclaim, living a life based on what others expect from you and solely depending o…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 04:23 PM
1

Some get girls by applying redpill thinking. But notice that it's only a particular type of girl who falls for them, typically the ones with deep psychological issues or someone who is easily manipulated. At the end of the day it's a numbers game there, if you ask out 1000 girls there will be atleast one who'll fall for you.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/23 07:14 PM
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I don't think even those youtubers are living a truly happy and fulfilled life. Honestly, redpill makes you antagonise everyone and everything, me vs the world. Everyone wants to fuck you over, you either kill or get killed, relationships are a zero sum rule, always look for the hottest girl you can find even if you don't like her and want to settle with someone. These are such depressing thoughts that you actually need to be deeply neurotic or deluded to think they're the path to happiness. The…
/r/ExRedPill27/10/23 07:11 PM
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No one is. No one is born hating anyone, but we're born to love everyone. The feeling of hatred is a learnt process, and anything learnt can be unlearnt too. You too are very much eligible to receive love and kindness and you can also radiate out positive vibes in others' lives. Start by unfollowing all content which makes you hate women. As you're starting to deradicalize, identify what are the triggers which led you to hate them, improve upon them. If you have any beef with irl women, let the …
/r/ExRedPill27/10/23 06:23 PM
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Agreed with you. Part of why they're so successful in conning men is because they lace even mundane advice with emotions. This is a classic propaganda tactic. And most of their followers come from a time of life where they are dejected and full of emotions, and these guys play with them. If someone wanted to give genuine advice without playing with emotions, they wouldn't be even faintly successful unless someone specifically seeks out for them. Because at that time feelings matter more than fac…
/r/ExRedPill26/10/23 06:32 AM
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It's difficult to separate what's right and what's wrong. But the rule of thumb is to take in objective advice about health, finance, and ignore anything related to interpersonal relationships and where there are independent variables called "people" in them. Tbh redpill actually took the role of what fathers or close friends would be, to give genuine life advice. Just my observation. The fact that there is a lack of widespread male role models except those in cinema may contribute to this, beca…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/23 06:54 PM
1

This post is literally 17 year old me!
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 07:18 PM
1

Never formally identified as incel but had blackpill mindset for months.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 06:04 PM
2

Being a practicing Catholic, this was the sole reason I started doubting the redpill and fortunately tried to look for better explanations as to why things were happening in my life. I just wanted to improve my life, be a better person, and get a girl to marry and live life with. Not to play bullshit games. This kind of hypocrisy didn't go down well to me. You can't serve God and this world at the same time, you love one and despise the other. Scripture had already warned us about false prophets…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 06:15 PM
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Dude with this kind of money I can literally do a complete makeover - and this will get me more girls than whatever they advice.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 04:31 PM
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Some of these fallacies are the exact reason I went out of the redpill. Although now I'm working on my now blackpilled mentality, but these things showed to me that maybe this whole redpill thing isn't true, gradually came to know literally most everything is laced with untruths (although it gets some credit for being the startplug of my self-improvement journey).
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 05:54 PM
1

Now that's that I was talking about. I'm not good in fashion so I won't be of much help, but there certainly will be many here who know about fashion. These are the cases where having friends who know fashion help a lot. Having many clothes isn't much a problem as to have clothes in which you actually look good. About your hair, you can maybe have a talk with your hair stylist, since they're professionals they might know what suits your facial features better. Even a beard, moustache, or shave c…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 06:16 PM
1

Maybe you're asking out the wrong kind of people for you? Like the ones in your social circle don't have a dating drive as much as you have. Or they might know you as a friend in a way that thinking of you in a sexual sense is difficult for them. Or it could be a problem about your presentation. Like they actually aren't that attracted to you. Not saying you look bad or something, but then it depends on their tastes too. If this is the case, then you'll need to work on yourself. I'm not telling …
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 05:30 PM
2

They were never directly putting me down. But I was involved in a lot of their banter and their intimate conversations. I learned what guys they are going for, what traits they notice etc. This was exactly my problem which I faced in the beginning. They would talk about the guys they liked the whole day in the group chat, and it was a big source of confusion for me. That was the time I was just coming out from my isolated shell of a school life, and they were the only source of girl information.…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 05:07 PM
1

Would those that want to date show that in any way? Or am I practically flying blind? It's a learnt skill actually, to find out invitations to approach. The thing is, women tend to give more non-verbal cues due to social conditioning to be passive in dating. This is a problem which I face a lot; being autistic it is extremely difficult for me to understand social cues. In that blog which I mentioned there are some articles about it which could be helpful to you. Someone mentioned me the book Und…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 04:36 PM
1

For most of my 20s, my circle of friends was almost entirely female. Now it is more balanced. But I believe that mainly having female friends was one of the sources of me not feeling good enough. For me my female friends were the most helpful in my dating life. If there was someone who put you down or made you insecure or something about yourself then that's something to be opposed. But they did helped me a lot to set me up with girls, and also were the primary bridges for communication between …
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:56 PM
1

It's totally fine not going to party three times a week, even once a week is too much for me. Parties really drain my energy, I only go if I'm going with my friends there, that too just to hang out with friends. If your affinity to party isn't high, it's not a problem.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:47 PM
2

It's actually really good advice
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:44 PM
1

By the replies you're giving, I feel you're someone who is way above average. Like your own description is statistically above average. Your problem could lie in how you present yourself. Not lookswise (but it could be, because presentation is very much important) but in the way you present yourself as a potential partner or date. You'll need to work on this respect, like how can you express your desire to date someone without being seen as desperate. Many times there could be a confusion that y…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:41 PM
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If you don't feel like dating women because you just don't feel like dating, that's okay. Only you know what your life is, so taking some rest and living your life as you want is your wish. You don't need to feel bad about not dating. But then your problem feels like you're misunderstanding that being attracted to women is something inherently bad. Everybody gets attracted to someone or the other, it's something natural to the human mind. If you don't feel it's right to not talk with girls, then…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 07:19 AM
3

I don't know how to say this. When I was just redpilled (after getting heartbroken seeing my crush date another guy while playing with me, she is a complete caricature of the girls redpillers believe all girls are) there was another girl whom I had feelings towards. But the old one's experience was too damaging to me, so I tried to supress my crush towards the other girl. I wanted to be absolutely perfect, without any flaws whatsoever. I believed that a girl would only reciprocate feelings when …
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 05:54 PM
2

If you are friendzoned then she isn't attracted to you. That's it. If you have a strong crush on her, start being flirty with her, and check if she's reciprocating it. If yes then continue. If no then don't. But looking at your situation you should just ask her out just like another commentator said here. Do it just to declare closure, or else you'll just waste your time on one girl. But if she says no then don't take it personally, just move on with life.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 03:49 PM
2

At your age it is very much common for relationships to be shallow, they just come and go. It's very much difficult at this age to understand the dynamics of relationships truly. So mostly it's not your mistake probably. About her being more physical with others but not with you, maybe she thought you yourself weren't interested in touch, so to not break your boundary she didn't. Did you initiate touch anytime? Losing your motivation is very common after such an event. A breakup is very difficul…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 03:44 PM
1

Perfectly agreed. It is important not only as social proofing, but it could be a very good way to get contacts with potential partners, like you can get recommended easily. It's much more better during warm approaches, because you'll trust someone more if they're already friends with someone you know. Also a good social circle is important for a good support system. And also could come very useful outside of dating top. You don't have to be the most popular guy or the talk of the town, but being…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 01:10 PM
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Fell into depression for like half a year because I couldn't catch up with the alpha persona (due to my commitment towards studies etc) Started petty fights related to the redpill with my friends especially the girls, to try to prove my point and make them redpill too. This put a lot of cracks in my friendships. Put me in a worse mental state than I was in the bluepill. Really wore me out, and then I went in the blackpill and just filled vitriolic stuff in my brain for nothing. Due to this I los…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 06:17 PM
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I usually spend the midnight at church so yeah idk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:17 AM
2

Bruh doesn't your brain get tired of all the self-defeating toxicity you show towards yourself?🙃 Chill dude, don't take things so seriously.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/22 03:25 PM
1

You can literally get hormone replacement therapy 🙃
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 12:26 PM
2

https://www.doctornerdlove.com/high-status-man/ https://www.doctornerdlove.com/the-red-pill/ https://www.doctornerdlove.com/toxic-alpha-male/
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 06:24 PM
2

Did you see any women tear men down for the slightest imperfections in real offline life? It's not like girls aren't insecure about their own imperfections...they also have a million things to worry about. And it's not like being imperfect is the end of it, it is actually what makes us human. Just like someone wrote in this very subreddit, and which I saved in my notes app to ponder upon: "Remember: Everything has cracks. That's how light gets in. I know this sounds weird, but your minor flaws a…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 06:21 PM
3

Then who told you to live your life to provide for a woman? Just live your life, have fun, enjoy with friends and family! Happiness isn't just a single script, there are a lot more ways to live a fulfilling life then just going about dating. I was in the same situation you are in last year. Spent half the year trying to be some gigachad or something. Later I realised that people are just people, just like I don't have a rigid bodily standard of beauty, so do most women don't. I've seen girls who…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 04:49 PM
2

There is a reason this subreddit dislikes simps and "nice guys" who value a woman only for her sexual value. Mind you, it's really dehumanizing being treated like that. If I was a woman I would want to be valued for my intrinsic value as a daughter of God, the happiness I spread with the world, the good which I give out to the world, the contribution I make in the lives of my family, friends, and society. Not for having breasts and buttocks and a vagina and being a breathing sexdoll.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 04:38 PM
3

Atleast it will save you months of suicidal ideation from being depressed by bullshit blackpill ideas and missing out such good opportunities which life gives you
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 04:31 PM
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That's what actually is. Society has hypersexualized everything, to the level that everything we see is given sexual overtones. Look at news, movies, web series, tabloids, social media etc. They are aggressively pushing the idea that the only value we have is our sexuality. Our bodies are reduced to mere commodities, where our market value is reduced to some arbitrary number on a 1-10 scale. Where our emotional, intellectual value isn't even considered.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 03:56 PM
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You wouldn't want people to give you favours just because your worth is sexually determined. That's how women get undue favours. All we see in society is people give women favours because she's beautiful etc. Bring an unattractive woman infront of them and they'll go back to their normal state.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 03:50 PM
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Bro is really blackpilled, go off the internet for a few weeks
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 02:50 PM
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Background: Was a "nice guy" before, used to be a doormat and did some really cringe stuff to try date girls (due to a lot of attachment issues, didn't have close friends due to social anxiety, also is autistic so didn't help) How I went in: Found out the girl whom I had a strong crush on, on whom I spent a lot of my time and resources to woo her like a "nice guy" started dating an "alpha" guy. At that time I was somehow getting YouTube recommendations about redpill content, and this situation p…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 12:30 PM
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The blackpill just screams eugenics on your face. It just scares me, it's like if you aren't perfect to the smallest detail, your whole existence is useless and futile, like life unworthy of life. People fail to realise that there is a life much bigger and fun than just sex. Sex is not even like 0.01% of your life, there are probably much more important things to worry about than that. And I've seen girls falling for boys for literally ridiculously cute reasons, everyone's tastes are so much dif…
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 04:30 PM
4

Yes...dating apps is to find people compatible with you. Swiping right on everyone could mess up the algorithm. And about not getting swipes, men outnumber women vastly on the apps, so theoretically there is a difference in the number of swipes you get. Relying on different sources to meet other people is better than relying on one, and even being cross-platform could be an option.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 04:37 PM
4

It's different for everyone, so it could be different for you too. I personally find meeting people online too much, I have a lot of trust issues with people. So I do a hybrid kind of system, I find out people offline, then introduce to them online, and converse with them parallelly.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 04:02 PM
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I've never watched Tate, but from what I can understand, the attention from girls he's getting is either paid or superficial. And you don't want to live a life with girls who don't care about your personality but stay for you for only material or status reasons. Nobody wants friends who stay with you only for your money or status or other superficial reasons, so why to want girls like that? Regarding your dating success, I would suggest you to read DrNerdLove's articles. His articles helped me a…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 03:32 PM
3

Same feeling! Although I prefer to be alone with myself, I want someone with whom I am emotionally intimate with. Friends are there but I talk nothing other than formal stuff. I really can't trust anyone; the times I trusted others, they all betrayed me. I'm trying to repair myself, but it's difficult to find anyone who can just get me (everyone finds me weird and un-understandable due to my Asperger's).
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 03:12 PM
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At the end of the day, it is my girl friends who'll sit down and listen to me patiently whenever I need advice or have a problem; the guys just can't get an emotional connection with me fro some reason. I feel more comfortable talking things from my heart with them, they can understand me more than my guy friends do; infact it was a close girl who helped me most in my detox.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 05:10 PM
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Yeah, I myself got exposed to the Redpill one fine day on YouTube, just when I found out my long time crush was dating someone else who was more or less like the alpha persona the redpillers claim. Their content really appeals to your emotions, and when someone is broken down by such news, he'll take whatever which sympathizes with his emotions. Being an aspie didn't help either, the Redpill seemed like a perfect manual for dating for someone who has problems to understand outside of systems and…
/r/ExRedPill08/10/22 04:22 AM
3

All the girls my best friend has dated were considerably taller than him, and his girlfriends just didn't care that he was short. And you probably won't like to date girls who care obsessively about your height and reject you just because you're below 6ft; they've self-selected themselves out of your dating pool. Rather, make some really good female friends and talk with them, you'll be shocked at how greatly their tastes vary. And work on self-presentation and wellness, your social proof, and f…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 09:16 AM
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