squishmallow1996 Archive

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2	I lost her, right? If she doesn't want to have sex with you, it means you're being really unattractive. You might be able to fix it over several long months, but is it worth it?	/r/askMRP	27/09/25 07:04 PM
1	Victim puke(?) / I slipped up tonight What did you think you stopping initiating would accomplish? Women can go months without sex. Most likely, she was relieved her unattractive husband isn't trying to fuck her anymore. "So I thought fuck it, I’m going to let her know I’m not happy with the situation." So you stopped trying to fuck her. And then got mad she's not touching you. Stop being passive aggressive and stupid. "I tell her I’ve been thinking about having sex with my wife, that I want to have sex with my wife." So you're bein…	/r/askMRP	08/06/24 11:56 PM
1	MRP Starter Pack "I have failed. I have divorced." Divorce isn't your failure. You refusing to own your life is, and that's a much bigger deal. "I wasn't RP enough." RP isn't an identity. It's a toolbox. Mental models and such. If you make an identity out of being RP you're going to stop being honest with yourself about where your are failing in this space. Forget about being RP. You're just some dude, same as the rest. And that's okay. Discipline is more important than motivation. But it sounds like you need a …	/r/askMRP	23/04/23 02:48 PM
8	Is this the beginning of the end? (34, M, US) You need to figure out what you want and act as if. "Am I in the right relationship?" is something only you can answer. Stop trying to offload the hard decisions on someone else. Once you figure out what you want, it will get easier to act in your best interests because you will have defined them. Is your current situation meeting your needs? Yes or no? What are you going to do to fix it? Fuck frame, oneitis, etc at this point. For you, it's all jargon right now until you can define your goal. Y…	/r/askMRP	19/04/23 11:48 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - April 11, 2023 Stop using the phrase "MRP tactics." It's a toolbox. They're not tips and tricks. Thinking about them that way probably explains why when your wife is acting right, you fall back on being "nice." You have to be okay with being the bad guy for this to work. Why haven't you come to terms with that yet? Also, your approach is schizophrenic. You use the tools when she's being shitty. But when she acts nice you stop doing what works and revert back to self-sabotaging behaviors. Being nice isn't the r…	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/04/23 11:55 PM
5	My Internal Thoughts After Wife Discovered My Affair Maybe I got lucky. Maybe she sensed (from previous arguments about other things) that I wasn't going to DEER there. Maybe she is stepping out already. But it wouldn't be congruent with her behavior, which shows she is invested right now. Maybe, maybe, maybe... I'm getting what I want. If she cheats, she cheats. It would suck but I think I'm in a better position to deal with it now than than the old me.	/r/askMRP	10/04/23 04:25 PM
6	My Internal Thoughts After Wife Discovered My Affair So don't constantly grovel or apologize. Where is your anxiety coming from? Are you afraid of losing her? If you're not okay with the consequences of being caught, don't take the risk. Reread WISNIFG. Assertive bill of rights. All the guilt you take on is up to you. Internalize this.	/r/askMRP	10/04/23 04:13 PM
2	My Internal Thoughts After Wife Discovered My Affair OLD is more convenient. I can do it when I get up at 4 AM and in my bathrobe. My wife found pictures from the app open on my phone when looking at pictures from a birthday party (sound familiar?). My stupid thing there was saving them. As for the argument, she saw the picture, and asked me what it was. I told her. We then had the coldest, shittiest anniversary dinner I think we could have. For about a day she was really shitty. But then we smashed within 3 days (maybe the night after?), so it di…	/r/askMRP	10/04/23 04:05 PM
6	My Internal Thoughts After Wife Discovered My Affair JFC does this come in hardcover? Your wife is most likely a good girl who gets a bigger charge out of burning herself out for her career than she does making herself available to you. Residency challenges or not, dread applies. Your problem now is that it's overt dread. Maybe it woke her up to how shiity she's been. Or maybe she's going to fuck her boss out of spite. Why do you need justification to see your plate? Is your affair serving your needs, or is it making your life harder? I suggest no…	/r/askMRP	10/04/23 02:16 PM
4	Own Your Shit Weekly - April 04, 2023 Don't use your SMV as a marker for her sexual adventerousness. That's just setting yourself up for a covert contract. "You're a 6 but I'm an 8 so how dare you turn down anal." It's an imaginary number anyway. As for getting her to try things outside her comfort zone, it sometimes works for me to be directive in the moment. Like when we're really into it I'll pull her hair or tell her to suck my dick. Even if she says no it typically doesn't derail the situation. Question: How do you react when s…	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/04/23 02:47 PM
6	Any advice for getting wife to be more perverted and sluttier? Would love her to be addicted to porn That sounds like more work than it is worth. Either way, read Sex God Method. You may be able to get her to indulge in some fantasies without too much effort. If sex with a perverted girl is really a goal for you (SGM, Finding The Right Girl, page 209 of the 2nd edition), I would find an adventurous girl (Practicial Female Psychology) and make sure you don't say any retarded shit like how you don't like sluts. Start with someone who's more down for things like that, and be more assertive sexuall…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/03/23 04:24 PM