| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 31 | Your standards are never low enough for a LVMThey will have a heart attack when they find out I have Netflix, prime, HBO, Disney+, Hulu and YouTube subscriptions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 05:33 AM |
| 90 | How to stick to practicing celibacyBuy a nice toy. Better than 99% on tinder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 08:00 AM |
| 1 | My favorite YouTube therapist (Dr. Kirk) explaining love bombing and analyzing Big Ed from 90 Day FiancéI'm really surprised there are women our there who are willing to date big Ed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 07:58 AM |
| 11 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.There was one that said wearing makeup and dressing well is for the male gaze and is not empowering. That one has a lot of upvotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 06:55 AM |
| 18 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.That OLD shaming post actually made me uninstall all the apps and delete my profile lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 06:54 AM |
| 38 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.Funny how rad fem subreddits get taken down but the incel and red pill ones still exist that have had many instances of violence against women irl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 06:47 AM |
| 7 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.I will add late millennials too. So everyone currently younger than 30s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 06:36 AM |
| 5 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.I was wondering why billy eillish recently was filming more explicit music videos and photoshoots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:36 AM |
| 4 | This is how the other side talks about us and expect us to accept itOfc they attack you for the obvious. That question reeks of misogyny. One thing priveleged people love to do is play the victim. That dude wanted to be worshipped for the one day he did chores half assed and that's their last straw while the mother of his child has been doing it everyday for the rest of the year. Don't waste your energy on them sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:17 AM |
| 2 | This is how the other side talks about us and expect us to accept itWhat's the Instagram | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:04 AM |
| 1 | This is how the other side talks about us and expect us to accept itAlternate - https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMd2xmVFA/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:15 AM |
| 102 | This is how the other side talks about us and expect us to accept itMost women talk about their partners like He sucks at ____ but he's a really nice person and does these nice things for me. They always see the good side but I do not see men talking about their partners like that when complaining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 07:32 PM |
| 9 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWI come to this subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 03:30 AM |
| 159 | We don’t want love as much as we think we doIt's better to be alone than being lonely when with someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 03:29 AM |
| 97 | Bumble failing to adequately respond to complaints of stalking and sexual assault, users sayLiberal feminism only attracts lazy men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 03:04 AM |
| 59 | Truer words have never been spoken. Don't believe those fairy tales ladies.It's like girls wanna do all the romcom stuff outdoors but then expected to do hardcore stuff in the bedroom. It would definitely take a toll on the mental health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 02:36 AM |
| 8 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeBut isn't it extremely painful? Why not just wait until the right person. Let him wear a condom. If you accidentally get pregnant and don't want the child, get abortion. I don't understand why as a woman, I need a IUD. The burden of getting pregnant should not be on the woman. To me, IUD is another form patriarchy where a dude can't even bother wearing a condom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 06:24 AM |
| 23 | A Question For Those Who Like to Interject “Not All Men” into conversations about bad men. Someone do the math.It only takes one bad apple to spoil the bunch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Preyed Upon By Alcoholic NVM.Yeah or dog spray | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:05 PM |
| 6 | Preyed Upon By Alcoholic NVM.Buy pepper spray or some kind of self defense instruments. I really hope you don't have to use them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 11:59 PM |
| 10 | This guy gets it.I agree that going on dates is definitely a risk for the woman and that's a case for not 50/50 as I do want the guy to win me. But isn't the point of finding a HVM partner that you won't be just a bangmaid, mother, therapist etc. Assuming I do find a HVM and I never settle for a LVM, if all the emotional and physical work I'm doing is 50/50 and I'm earning the same as my partner, why should I not go 50/50 in a committed? Ofc in reality maybe a perfect HVM is a myth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 11:54 PM |
| 34 | And that’s the 🍵👀All those 2000s movies like friends with benefits etc really brainwashed us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 11:33 PM |
| 16 | This guy gets it.This may sound like a 'cool girl' question but I literally put no effort into appearance possibly because I'm not very skilled at makeup and never got into it. And I'm not doing and won't do more house work. What's the argument for someone like me to not do a 50/50 in a stable relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 11:26 PM |
| 23 | How to hold onto sanity while delving into radfem?It's quite depressing. I cry every night not just for me but all my sisters who are in a much more difficult position than me in the world. But I rather know the sad truth than the happy lies. I think of all the woman who came before me and fought for what rights we have today. They'd be hella disappointed in me if I kept crying. It motivates me to do the same for our future daughters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Gay couples versus straight couples.The guy on the right is an Italian actor in the movie 365 days. It looked like he came out in the post but it was just publicity stunt for a new movie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Gay couples versus straight couples.The guy on the right is an Italian actor in the movie 365 days. It looked like he came out in the post but it was just publicity stunt for a new movie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 04:31 PM |
| 8 | Gay couples versus straight couples.Did he actually come out? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 06:24 AM |
| 3 | A report on the consequences of OnlyFans by a member of the websiteTiktok is grooming young women and it's not being talked enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:12 AM |
| 52 | I was just thinking about this. After writing it down and reading it, it hit me like a ton of bricks. That industry literally profits off of p*dos.Hentai is the worst because some of the art is actually elementary school girls. It's beyond disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 02:01 AM |
| 48 | I was just thinking about this. After writing it down and reading it, it hit me like a ton of bricks. That industry literally profits off of p*dos.I was too exposed to porn when I was under 18. Yes I remember seeing a girl who looked 12 years. I legit thought it was child porn and was extremely shocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 02:00 AM |
| 47 | DO NOT fall for a man claiming to be "traditional".These men hate women for being masculine and they hate women for being feminine. They just hate women regardless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 01:43 AM |
| 5 | KJ Apa 🥵🔥This guy is too wild. He eats paint | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Including men in feminism is how liberal feminism happenedLiberal feminism is not inclusive to women of other races. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Some additional ideas on what to vet for.Elon musk has 7 sons through IVF. Let that be proof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:46 PM |
| 88 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallHe has young Asian wives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:40 PM |
| 17 | Kıvanç TatlıtuğThe bar is low and so is the hairline | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Mads Mikkelsen 😍He wasn't in dark tho lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Mads Mikkelsen 😍He's such a phenomenal actor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:52 PM |
| 24 | Buff TaecyeonTaecyeon is one of the few OG respectful kpop idols but all the ones I liked as a teenager all turned out trash 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:51 PM |
| 9 | Can I kinkshame yet?Because these days we shouldn't hurt people's feelings and tastes apparently. It goes to choice activism. But the thing is bad choices and bad tastes that affect others exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:58 PM |
| 47 | Multiple red flags in the original post, but this follow up though..and they say we are the emotional ones 🤔I hope the parents helped her report him for throwing things. But the number of kids on tiktok I see praising age gap relationships is crazy. I hope their parents keep them safe from being groomed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:36 PM |
| 10 | We, as women, need to be united against men.I mean we are talking about women talking to convicted criminals. They are beyond lost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:22 AM |
| 7 | Porn Actress Reilly Reid’s InterviewIn a podcast, Lana said she was hella pissed when she found her bf Mike was having cyber sex with a lot of women and they had a huge argument about it but she stayed. Then she bought this huge house for them to live in and on the day of the move he decided to move elsewhere, which was her last straw for a breakup. I honestly feel bad for porn actresses that they aren't respected by men. Their partners basically see them as objects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 10:31 PM |
| 6 | Every “girls should make the first move!!” Post in a nutshell 🌰 🥜Whole generation of LVM men and cool girls were raised with that scene | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Working with a sociopathic manA toxic workplace is like a toxic relationship. You can't fix it from the inside and the only solution is to leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 03:58 PM |
| 9 | How To Make A Sandwich For SexistsPlease not lily singh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 02:57 PM |
| 6 | I'll just leave this here.I think the original story made it a tragedy that she sacrificed so much for a man but didn't get him, which is a better lesson. But disney had to make it a happy ending. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 10:09 PM |
| 5 | I'll just leave this here.I just realized Ariel was a pick me. She gave up her voice and family for a man? And I think in she kills herself self after he rejects her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Stop normalizing pedophilic beauty standardsIt's a reflection of what people are searching. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Stop normalizing pedophilic beauty standardsThey were blaming Google actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 08:28 PM |
| 12 | “How can I be a pick me when I’ve already been picked?”Which is why don't give a man wife privileges as a gf. Living together is one of those as you don't have legal protection and aren't building equity together as a gf. I realize it's important to know people's living habits but imo sleepovers are more than enough to find that in a long term relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 08:09 PM |
| 7 | Saw this on Witches vs Patriarchy. It was also discussed on a recent FDS podcast and is very important to remember. Being empathetic to the point of destruction is self harm.Yes because one of their ban rules is talking about dismantling the patriarchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:55 AM |
| 4 | Saw this on Witches vs Patriarchy. It was also discussed on a recent FDS podcast and is very important to remember. Being empathetic to the point of destruction is self harm.They banned me for speaking against patriarchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:54 AM |
| 74 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘+5 HVM is a unicorn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Justin Bieber has smacked Hailey (his wife) on camera HOW IS HE NOT CANCELLED??Can you educate me about alec baldwin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 10:46 PM |
| 9 | Saw this, shocking. Even in seemingly the BEST of circumstances, sex work is bad for women and never empowering.I know Trisha has her issues, traumas and she has her onlyfans. Recently she said girls should wait till 25 before they decide sex work is for them and has been constantly speaking about young girls being groomed. Perhaps young girls will listen to older women who've been doing sex work for a while to understand the dangers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 10:03 PM |
| 5 | Saw this, shocking. Even in seemingly the BEST of circumstances, sex work is bad for women and never empowering.Men had the audacity to invite HER over for "dinner", then we all truly have no hope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Yes, you’re cheap. Good for this queen for turning down this low effort “date”!Coffee is 5$ and you a decent dinner begins at 10$. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 07:06 PM |
| 4 | A rant about how inherently sexist arranged marriages are.All men including south Asian men are actively looking for women including dating apps. They take the arranged marriage route as they failed in all other places. Why take a man when all women have rejected him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 06:33 PM |
| 8 | How much of women's birth control use is simply to accommodate men?Any sources? I would like to learn more about this tragedy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:22 AM |
| 8 | The majority of men WILL NOT do 50% of parentingWe've only made very small progress in terms of gender equality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:37 PM |
| 42 | Every single one of us....I spent so many years of teenage years dressing like trash and looking like trash so I don't catch any attention | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:22 PM |
| 3 | I can't take fake feminism of todayLove languages are a bunch of bs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 26 | I would give my child my maiden name as their last name after this.My parents made me cry on some of my birthdays growing up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:42 AM |
| 2 | There’s nothing empowering about OnlyFans. The consequences of engaging in sexual acts on camera always lie with the woman, which is unfair, but it’s the world we live in (sadly).These men live from the validation and approval of other men. Since they view their partners as objects, they tend to use these objects to get that validation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:31 AM |
| 3 | Protect her from what? 🙃I actually want to have daughter (and a son) because I want to teach them. Not sure how successful I'll be to prevent all the society brainwashing but I wanna bring in more good people to this world. I'm optimistic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Two pieces of advice regarding marriage and childrenIdk about that. Siblings are great to have too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 08:38 AM |
| 51 | "Would you punch a woman in the face for 1 billion dollars?"Idk why do men always 'hypothetically' fantasize of hitting women back in the guise of a bet or gender equality? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:00 AM |
| 16 | TELL YO DADDY WE DON'T CARE!!! I remember seeing this show a few years back and really really wanting to high five this boss babes!!I love the energy in that room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:03 AM |
| 1 | He forced her to buy him a PS5 for Christmas, but claims that SHE'S the materialistic one! Nah, sis. If you see this... take your PS5 and leave him!At least with this one, his gf can read it here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:41 AM |
| 6 | On men that use this site against womenWomen have more rights today than in the 70s and are at a whole better position progressively if they choose to be. I don't agree 70s men were HVMs as to them a woman's place is in the kitchen. But they did follow traditional gender roles like being the earner, paying for a lady, which is a small overlap with current HVM traits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:22 AM |
| 8 | The misogyny of the Cooling off policy re: DivorceWomen who romanticize criminals are disgusting. How can you fall that low? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 03:21 AM |
| 8 | A journey to admit that your life won’t be the same after adopting FDS principlesEverytime I slip, I come back to this subreddit to re evaluate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 03:06 AM |
| 8 | Should I leave my boyfriend for not being romantic?It takes 10 mins to buy flowers and chocolates. Heck even less if you can get them delivered home these days. Do you really wanna be with someone who can't spare a few minutes especially when you've clearly made them aware of what you want? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 09:26 AM |
| 5 | The comments are filled with bollocks about how smooth this guy is. Are you actually joking me. Your “joke” is pisspoor.That sub is trash. I posted similar shit where I 'insult' the other party but since it was men, I got downvoted and attacked by incels. The irony. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 07:41 AM |
| 80 | Like Most Women in Their Late 30s, Britney Spears Has Received a Halfhearted Apology From Her Terrible High School BoyfriendGod I hate him. There was a clip of justin in a podcast where he was asked if he fucked britney and he said yes laughing as if he conquered her. It's so disgusting. He also painted her as a cheating ex in her music video when she never did that. Britney is a victim in so many ways by everyone she knows. It's a tragedy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 07:36 AM |
| 10 | Free The HomiesI promise that I'll engage you to marry you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Rejecting your natural form screams “pick me, pick me!”You're taking it too personally. You feel good by wearing makeup and dressing up. I feel the same too but ever question why is it a good feeling? Maybe it's for men, in which case it's definitely not female empowerment. Maybe it's for other women and being more "beautiful" than others gets you a higher social standing among women. That isn't female empowerment either more narcissism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Rejecting your natural form screams “pick me, pick me!”It's not about judging the women. It's about judging the society and media that drove these women to make these decisions. What is free will, when media manipulates beauty standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 09:10 AM |
| 5 | Paige Lorenze put out a great statement about the abuse she suffered at the hands of Armie Hammer.Trauma bonding | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 08:51 AM |
| 46 | Women normalizing r@pe porn on TikTok.This is true but I've also seen cancel porn campaign going on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 08:43 AM |
| 7 | Male gaze vs female gaze in cinema... chef’s kiss 😚 👌🏻Because men cannot objectify themselves like the way they objectify women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 08:15 AM |
| 10 | Love makes you look weak to men.Front-page | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:55 PM |
| 23 | Can we talk about how conventionally unattractive men manipulate their way into dating a woman completely out of their league, and then destroy her self-esteem so she starts to believe this scrote is the prize when really she is.Im waiting lol. DM me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 29 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.Yes because many men are trading options, like gambling to get rich quick. There are gaming addicts and then there are day traders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:29 PM |
| 6 | How to spot a cheating manYour said you have enough money. Don't give up on your dreams and I really hope you become a lawyer who can maybe fight for women by using all your personal learnings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:22 PM |
| 17 | Any Powerful Men (like CEOs) that married DreamGirl? Or do these men just chase after status and bangmaids?I used to think I was average looking but since I'm single, I'm absolutely gorgeous 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:36 PM |
| 147 | Anybody have male family members who are pissed?Single mom is the parent who stayed. I don't understand why people shame single moms way more than the dad who left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:23 PM |
| 16 | As captioned on Twitter: what it’s like having sex with menI have to confess I used to consume porn once in a while but stuff like bellesa films, which focus on the romance and is female oriented. However, learning that any porn is abusive and includes trafficking, I've moved on to erotica. There's so many alternatives and if you are continuing watching it, then you are directly the root cause. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:09 PM |
| 8 | His comment may be satirical but it doesn’t sit down well at all!I follow this guy and he's actually making fun of this other brown dude that he tagged @goatavaneesh_, who actually worships white people and shits on south Asian woman. This as satire only makes sense if you've watched the other brown guys tiktoks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 08:12 AM |
| 20 | No woman should ever have to go through this.I feel like they all wanna be mom's because being a mom for a female celebrity completes their arc. Never understood how young Kylie had a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:26 PM |
| 4 | The LVM responses to this post should convince any woman to never get into an FWB relationship. People think you are less of a person for being in one.Just buy a dildo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 07:41 AM |
| 2 | KiNkS dOnT HurT aNyone!!1 🤡You should do it anonymously but looks likes he'd know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 07:15 AM |
| 18 | ZVM Martin Shkreli manipulates pickme, ruins her life, then ghosts her from prisonCan we give pickme awards for the end of the year? This women will win the topmost one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 06:55 AM |
| 10 | Needed to be said...Porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 06:25 AM |
| 8 | To counter the video I just had to endure, so GLAD to see sane women thriving!!Oh yeah anyone who casually plays games on moderation wouldn't advertise themself as a gamer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 06:22 AM |
| 20 | To counter the video I just had to endure, so GLAD to see sane women thriving!!I will have to disagree with you on that. Movies, coding and gaming can be hobbies. But there does seem to be a disproportionate number of men addicted to gaming. For gaming and any of the other hobbies you listed, if you are addicted to it and it's actively affecting your life or job or relationships, then they all are terrible. I don't blame the hobby as much as the person doing it and the culture surrounding it. It's escapism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:43 AM |
| -12 | Behold, a modern 24 year old man.I think he's just scared of dogs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:45 AM |
| 9 | Behold, a modern 24 year old man.How old is he | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:42 AM |
| 10 | PSA: Reductress on IG has some hilarious FDS truthbombsIdk much about camila but I heard people call her a victim too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:41 AM |
| 35 | Pickme says to be less independent, be less educated and less successful to get a HVM.If you divorce/breakup with a man like that, you're forced to wait till another LVM picks you up as you aren't self sufficient and are codependent. Endless toxic cycle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:00 AM |
| 51 | Advice from my 92 year old grandma who lived ahead of her timeWhen you're in college, you are dating based on potential. Many times it's hard to judge how someone will do after | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 08:00 AM |
| 15 | Even when in a happy relationship they want to ruin things. This is disgusting, can't help but feel sorry for her.Next thing hell ask her is a poly open marriage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:38 AM |
| 5 | A realization hit me today, and I'm actually very much disgusted at myself.Girl don't be so hard on yourself. I did 🤡 shit in my 20s 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:29 AM |
| 4 | It's the signs of affection and support in the little things over a period of time that makes a man high value. Don't settle for neglect and then lovebombing - the real deal is out there.Moat men back then followed traditional gender stereotypes of being the earner for the family, which is still better than lazy gamer lvm these days | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 05:04 PM |
| 2 | FKA Twigs has formally sued Shia LeBouf in a suit depicting details of domestic abuse she endured at his hand and he came has come forth to say "some allegations are false" to save face instead of taking full responsibility for his degenerate behaviour.https://youtu.be/_p4h3jwJob0 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:36 PM |
| 4 | FKA Twigs has formally sued Shia LeBouf in a suit depicting details of domestic abuse she endured at his hand and he came has come forth to say "some allegations are false" to save face instead of taking full responsibility for his degenerate behaviour.I finally don't feel sorry for him when 4chan clowned him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:13 PM |
| 5 | Another example of sunk cost fallacy... 'but its been two years!'Buncha psychos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:23 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, what are your thoughts on marriage in 2020? Will it ever be equal/worth it?Only if my friends and family stop bothering me about getting married 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Another example of sunk cost fallacy... 'but its been two years!'It could've been a joke but he went into such detail that there is no way it's a joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Another example of sunk cost fallacy... 'but its been two years!'Whatttt!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:58 PM |
| 3 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄Where do you think all those socially awkward men go? Reddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:55 AM |
| 5 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄Then you'll see them bring up Onlyfans | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:52 AM |
| 3 | ProjectionGirl I got you. And to think all of his comments got so many upvotes? Reddit really is a cesspool of LVMs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:41 AM |
| 16 | ThisThat's all women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:20 AM |
| 42 | Older men need entitlement to young women knocked right out of them."investment firm with partners": pyramid scheme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:15 AM |
| 10 | How to raise a hvm....You need to find a better place to work. If anyone used the word bitch at my work, that's grounds for firing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:08 AM |
| 75 | All in a Day's WorkSociety doesn't get enraged when a guy tries to be the role of the caretaker. They are praised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:03 AM |
| 4 | Stole this from the Tinder sub, this woman is my hero for todayWoman gets her ANAL DESTROYED!! Slipped into the wrong hole and she LIKED IT!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Stole this from the Tinder sub, this woman is my hero for todayYes exactlyy. I said something along the lines of cutting his feet and he was into it. I'm scared of tinder men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 08:40 PM |
| 8 | i talked with a male friend about women doing the first love and trust me, watch what they do not whay they sayI completely agree. I don't wanna manipulate or play games. I would do that at work but it feels unethical and disingenuous in personal relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 10:52 PM |
| 13 | Florence Pugh defends her age gap relationship with Zach BraffWow I'm pissed. How dare he beat up coconut head 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 08:54 PM |
| 35 | Florence Pugh defends her age gap relationship with Zach BraffFlorence is so talented. Her performance in midsommar blew me away. People with huge age gaps always say, we both are adults. Aaaand? adults can be dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 08:53 PM |
| 8 | Words to live byTrisha spilled so much tea on hollywood recently and I'm here for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:57 PM |
| 30 | I'm speechlessInvite her here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:41 PM |
| 31 | sTRonG & iNdEPeNdenT career-woman pick-meDon't call me out like that 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:38 PM |
| 87 | Ofcourse you find it attractive for a girl to be insecure because it is easier to use her. I have heard many times scrotes saying that they want an insecure girlfriend because it is easier to manipulate her.When men exhibit it, it's confidence. When women do, it's arrogance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:35 PM |
| 10 | Reminder to never be nice to disgruntled menThere is a reason when someone is an 'outsider' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Own It!!I can relate to this. I call people out on their shit so that probably doesn't help either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 05:31 PM |
| 5 | this is... embarrassingEven as a kid, if I mom forgot my favorite thing for school lunch, I a 10 year old never ever got mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 05:57 PM |
| 15 | Most men my age are permanently undateable because of porn. Yes, permanently.Yes it scares me all the young girls in tiktok are casually talking about getting choked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Cringe story from my Pickme 🤡 daysFr I had the same experience. Got approached by a woman in a bookstore. Thought I made a friend nope. Mentorship mlm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Cringe story from my Pickme 🤡 daysAnytime someone from your high school hits you up, it's always a MLM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 09:20 PM |
| 3 | She flew across the world to go on a date with him and he broke up with her when things got tough. They are married now, so happy ending, I guess!I wouldn't put the race there. As an avid watcher of 90df, Brittany (a black girl) is one of those. Desperation exists in all races. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:37 PM |
| 2 | She flew across the world to go on a date with him and he broke up with her when things got tough. They are married now, so happy ending, I guess!90df is the definition of pickme. This story is essentially Jenny and sumit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:33 PM |
| 3 | She flew across the world to go on a date with him and he broke up with her when things got tough. They are married now, so happy ending, I guess!Indian attire to black panther? That's a whole new level to ignorance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:32 PM |
| 4 | This was toxic for the girls. I think at the end they should have flipped the script and said “Okay ladies now rank the guys.” What do you guys think?I think the black woman is as beautiful as the Asian woman but in these dudes mind the Asian woman is a sub. They basically ranked them based on porn stereotypes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:23 PM |
| 28 | Anyone here watching The Crown season 4? The depiction of William's betrothal to Diana is tragic.Wtf even his "flirting" is disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Todays men on OLD wan’t Penpals?!Other than what everyone listed, could it be covid? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:01 PM |
| 20 | Performative femininity?I'm glad I'm in the tech industry, where not wearing crocs is the standard for appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:59 PM |
| 21 | Self-esteem checkThere are exceptions to this. I believe in a women's gut sometimes that their man may be cheating on them. It has similar symptoms but doesn't root from low self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 08:42 AM |
| 4 | HVM Don't Lower their Standards or Need Someone to Change their Mind... He's Talking Casual? He Doesn't Know Yet if he Wants a Relationship? Easy Block and Delete ✅I've been in tech for over a decade. There's definitely disproportionate number of men like that because higher salaried jobs attract narcissistic men, introverts and self proclaimed intelligent people. But I have worked with many men who are not like this. Everyone usually knows who the "snob" / "brogrammers" is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 06:51 PM |
| 3 | HVM Don't Lower their Standards or Need Someone to Change their Mind... He's Talking Casual? He Doesn't Know Yet if he Wants a Relationship? Easy Block and Delete ✅If they really wanted to try, a patio date would be acceptable. As if I can't afford a meal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 06:38 PM |
| 18 | The comments are all declaring this as emotional abuse, but the girl who wrote this is not listening to any advice...Every line in that post is a red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 09:57 PM |
| 65 | The biggest financial risk for women today? Embarking on a relationship (and the subsequent divorce)Yeah and don't enter into a relationship with a man who makes significantly lower than you. You are at a risk of getting your savings dried out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 09:56 PM |
| 30 | If he cheats on you, remove him from your will IMMEDIATELYThe police dropped the case because the suspect threatened to sue? Tf how does that happen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 09:51 PM |
| 9 | How guys come up with their dating profile heightTell me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 09:45 PM |
| 19 | How guys come up with their dating profile heightThis wild lol. Essentially catfish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Preach 🙌🏼Even a gift card to a favorite store is the bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:43 PM |
| 86 | Female SpacesGender equality like that will never happen as long as creepy men exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 06:26 PM |
| 3 | And I will not be stopped!!Unfortunately yes. Men these days consume a lot of porn and every porn has an anal part to it these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 07:13 PM |
| 29 | She spends so much time just pandering to men and trying to justify Feminism and why she's a Feminist. Making herself amiable to men and constantly explaining 'true feminism'. And they still hate her for it. It's sad libfem ideology.Celebrities are damaged people. We should not be looking upto them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 11:18 PM |
| 7 | This women says feminists don’t speak for her. Not saying being a housewife is bad but she gives off pick me vibes 😓A pick me criticizing a cool girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 07:00 PM |
| 3 | This women says feminists don’t speak for her. Not saying being a housewife is bad but she gives off pick me vibes 😓FDS attracts a lot of religious conservative women because of some overlap but they are the same as the libfems who are brainwashed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 06:59 PM |
| 13 | Moved me to tears bc the bar is so lowI'm still surprised it took so long to get a woman in a white house. Countries like Germany, NZ and others with female leaders seem way ahead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 06:53 PM |
| 218 | Why women must leave their LVM piece of shit at the FIRST red flag they get. You will NEVER know if he can do this to you!And 'men are the rational gender'. Poor woman. Let her soul rest in peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 06:47 PM |
| 67 | She spends so much time just pandering to men and trying to justify Feminism and why she's a Feminist. Making herself amiable to men and constantly explaining 'true feminism'. And they still hate her for it. It's sad libfem ideology.I've always never liked her 'feminist' speeches. I've just realized it's because she's a libfem pickme. No wonder all the dudes in reddit love her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 06:45 PM |
| 7 | Never ever, ever, ever.It's a joke making fun of another guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 06:42 PM |
| 10 | Tired of being called "selfish" for caring about myself.Does he live with his parents who do everything for him? How do you not know these basic things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 06:29 PM |
| 18 | Tired of being called "selfish" for caring about myself.As if I can't do those myself. I can look on YouTube and find a detailed tutorial. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 06:28 PM |
| 5 | Are literally all the men sitting there laughing at us as they ask us on "walking dates" and try to get us to come over to their apartments?What country do you live in? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Are literally all the men sitting there laughing at us as they ask us on "walking dates" and try to get us to come over to their apartments?I know pandemic has been a big excuse for walk dates but you could still take someone out for a patio date at a restaurant. Of course men cannot think of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:49 PM |
| -28 | Broke up with BF bcs of OnlyFansI completely agree with you but for porn stars who are already in the business. It's better of the 2 evils but evil none the less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 11:02 PM |
| 13 | Broke up with BF bcs of OnlyFansAgree with you. Never said anything about cheating. I meant about the money part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 11:01 PM |
| 23 | About Women in TechThis is true but I've heard many women quit the tech industry at the middle of their career for many reasons. I really hope more women get up to leadership roles for the next generation of women entering the workforce. My female employee told me that she was sick yesterday as she had period cramps and she'd have never shared that with her manager previously as they would not have understood. Small things like this can make a great difference in the work environment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:34 PM |
| 13 | I wish there was a movement to publicly shame mediocre directors and companies trying to get traction by objectifying and sexualizing women to hide their mediocrity/worthlessnessIn the books there are some parts that belong in r/menwritingwomen but his females POVs and characters are well written compared to other books. However in the TV shows, they had to make EVERY female character naked and not a single male characters penis was shown. That should tell you that it's aimed towards straight men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 09:01 PM |
| 71 | Did this the other day to a boy I was ‘friends’ with after he crossed my boundaries, and then tried to act as if nothing happened and I was being over dramatic. Before FDS I would have written an essay and spent hours cOmMuNiCaTiNg with himAsked dude who wanted to meet how about covid. And he was like 'you still care about that shit' and went on a rant. I slam dunked him and as he was angrily replying back, I blocked him. Best feeling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 08:45 PM |
| 34 | FDS has ruined my lifeFor real. I accidentally replied to a dude who ghosted me for 2 months thinking he was someone else. I was SO DISGUSTED that I gave him a second to think he had me so I unmatched. FDS is really good for my mental health | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 08:38 PM |
| 23 | Movie Recommendation for Halloween (The Love Witch)And to think nothing has changed in 60 years. Only thing different is a facade and virtue signalling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 04:55 AM |
| 10 | She cooks all this amazing food for her husband as he's gaming, who she's admitted doesn't eat dinner with her most of the time. Comments call this a healthy relationship. 🙄Sorry to hear that but glad he's an ex. Every family should have dinner together. If not, whats the point even. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 04:22 AM |
| 46 | HVM may still end up screwing you over the minute they see you as “defiled” or impureJust because he didn't break up immediately after her rape does not make him a HVM. All her support group seems to be his family and it would be extremely hard for her to breakup with him. If she can't breakup with him, he should go to therapy as well. But I wish she can break up with him and work on herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:09 AM |
| 15 | A true man will never let his woman lower her standards. He'll work hard to meet her at her level. He'll even wait for her if need be.I toned down my intelligence, success, wealth and humor for my ex so he didn't feel insecure. Instead, it boosted his ego to dump me. I will never be untruthful to who I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 11:45 PM |
| 42 | Even if he says he wants a relationship, plans trips with you, puts in a ton of effort. He will still change his mind in a heartbeat.Is it better to sleep with someone and cut your losses early when they show their true colors or wait till a long time and show their true colors? The only thing I could save is time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 02:51 PM |
| 2 | So... This got me thinking lolYes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 06:46 AM |
| 5 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.Clearance? I wouldn't even buy him if he were free | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 09:47 PM |
| 2 | So... This got me thinking lolOh wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 2 | HVW Hitting Some Roadblocks, help me keep leveling up!I feel the same way. I won't date anyone at work or in my friend group. So only way for me right now in covid is dating apps. I know they are trash but it just the only way I know to meet men. Of course, I'm at the position in my life where I have a great career and friends. I'm dating out of some boredom but still vetting strong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 11:48 PM |
| -1 | An Interesting Watch- The Psychology of OnlyFans UsersI get that but ignoring all the morals and ethics. From a pure monetary perspective, she did scam people even though they might be LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:38 PM |
| 5 | So... This got me thinking lolCan I ask how wealthy are you? Are you a millionaire? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 180 | Truth hurts and the pickmes don't like to hear it 🙄For real. Somehow sexualizing yourself for men online and in person is a liberal thing. Since these young women identify themself as being liberal, they will make every part of this as their identity. Uhm sexualizing yourself for men has always been the case throughout history and it's quite the opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 06:09 PM |
| 9 | John Cena was with his ex-girlfriend, Nikki Bella, for over six years and didn’t want to marry her. John has now married his next girlfriend after dating for two years. Ladies, if a man doesn’t want to get married HE’S NOT THAT INTO YOU.What did he say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 04:48 PM |
| 14 | Louder for the pickmes in the back! It's not you, it's him.How did it go or is going with him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:47 PM |
| 11 | Societal gaslighting about women and their “mood swings” when in reality men have mood swings way more often. Do not be silent about this any longer! Bring it up! Are they having erectile dysfunction mood swings? Is it porn induced? Request they see a mental health professional about this!Always found that hillarious when men are the ones who been on wars throughout history over stupid shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 10:15 PM |
| 12 | My bestie used to pass me notes like this at work, and I wanted to pass along her message to anyone who might need it too. 😊You cook hella cute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | When a HVM messes upI'm jealous but super happy for you. I hope y'all have a great life ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:06 PM |
| 22 | Why is this a thing?Men always complain about high pitched voices, which is most likely a woman's. I've never heard anyone complain about a dudes deep voice. It's just rooted sexism. Don't let it bother you what men think of you. If you're in such a hostile environment, you should consider a change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 29 | It takes next to no effort to respond to a text.You'd think dudes who are not that good looking would try harder but it's quite the opposite. Society has made LVM believe they deserve the hottest chick. See Adam sandler movies. Girl just date yourself and don't lower your standards to give chances as they won't be appreciated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 08:21 PM |
| 89 | She gave him her best years but once she's hitting menopause he wants to cheat"college girls are dime a dozen" So they wanna manipulate young women. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:09 PM |
| 60 | Scrote trying to get marriage benefits without marriage!If she got her own house and everything, buying a dildo would be better than this man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 09:54 PM |
| 2 | How and Where Did You Meet Your HVM?Glad it worked out for you but I do not recommend dating at work. Imagine it went bad but you'd have to see this guy's face at the office everyday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:14 PM |
| 15 | ‘Cool Girl’ monologue by Gillian FlynnI remember watching this movie but not really paying attention to it but this time it really struck a cord in me. When a guy tells you, you are not like the other girls, it's not a compliment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 07:38 AM |
| 67 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.I know Hilary Clinton has other issues but I still can't believe how it was portrayed that it was her fault that Bill cheated on her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 08:13 PM |
| 102 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.MLK, the face of black empowerment, was a womanizer. It's sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:13 PM |
| 65 | My favorite part is how her female friends are surrounding her for this epic momentMen have barely options. Compare your male friends matches vs yours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:11 PM |
| 19 | My favorite part is how her female friends are surrounding her for this epic momentThey are just lazy af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:10 PM |
| 11 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsYeah I don't live in india | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:13 PM |
| 10 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsHVM is hard no matter the race but I can casually hang with them without feeling judged or feel some pressure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:20 AM |
| 58 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsAcademically and professionally accomplished Indian men are the worst. Their narcissism has no bounds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:12 AM |
| 50 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsLVM Rahul lmao. Fuck boi rahul | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:09 AM |
| 173 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsThis is it. Every brown dude I know is a LVM who cannot do basic chores. I've actually told my brother about FDS and how he would be a LVM. He's improving a little atleast to reverse the conditioning from my parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:53 PM |
| 225 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsThis is why I have been dating outside of my race. Some people consider this a internalized racism but i don't want a toxic mil or a momma's boy. Also, indian women are encouraged to have a great education and career but are still expected to do work out AND do the house work by themselves 🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:46 PM |
| 26 | How men subtly deflect.Ive definitely chatted with dudes who can keep up with 2 different convos in the same chat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:19 PM |
| 11 | COMPREHENSIVE VETTING STRATEGY: FRIENDSSome gay dudes can be toxic because they can have the bitchiness of an annoying popular girl and the privelege/audacity of a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:39 PM |
| 7 | COMPREHENSIVE VETTING STRATEGY: FRIENDSTaking zodiac signs seriously is so dumb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:36 PM |
| 24 | Why Good Women Are Losing On Dating AppsThis is exactly the DENNIS system from its always sunny 🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:39 PM |
| 6 | Why Good Women Are Losing On Dating AppsThat dude is lying for sure. Men exaggerate a lot about their sexual experiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Tinder’s choose your own adventure gameI realized I was swiping the opposite way on the app midway and now it says on my profile that I covered for a cheater 🤦 But I had a friend who went on an extensive debate about maintaining the bro code when he's cheating. It's cringe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 07:28 AM |
| 6 | Swipe Night on TinderTbh the acting for that was pretty cringe and I picked random choices. You can also do it multiple times for different endings. Personally I wouldn't look too much into these results. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 06:49 AM |
| 5 | Reminder- when a man sees you as his wife, he will make it known to you. He will speak to you completely differently and court you accordingly.Seems like FDS has attracted a lot of conservative traditional women because it criticizes new feminist 'cool girl' ideas like anal, polygamous, stay at home men etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:18 AM |
| 40 | I’m out of words.Yeah I remember my ex talking about his ex how he had to drive like 40 mins to take her on dates and drop her back. How he felt being abused and used for his car. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Subtle negs- watch out for themOmfg I get the same thing as a software engineer at FANG. This dude was like he used to put 'rocket scientist at NASA' and thought I'm doing the same. Uhmm so annoying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:34 AM |
| 12 | Ladies! Here I present psycho fiancé version 3.5.8 who tried to cut his future wife’s birth control insert out of her arm using Box cutters while she was fast asleep.I'm curious. What are these red flags? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Straight from the horse's mouth, what garbage low value mgtow 'men' thinkShe did ALL that for a LVM and he dumped her as expected while faulting her. I really wanna bring her TO FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:42 PM |
| 23 | Queen shit 👸I'm a 26 year old south Asian female and being bothered by everyone about getting married. I moved out years ago and have a very promising career. This has definitely given me the confidence to hold my ground in front of my parents about my choices and has moved me out from a toxic environment. While the dudes my age in the community are not even asked about marriage while I am a ticking time bomb. I hope I can be a role model for other younger girls around me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 08:08 PM |
| 7 | I can't believe this woman got gaslit by reddit when her NVM bf was more worried about food than her injuryCan you tag her to come here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 10:05 PM |
| 31 | Imagine going out of your way to play your own damn self like thisThat sounds like satire | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 07:14 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in generalReport to HR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:04 AM |
| 33 | Okay, what the actual fuckIt's not. She made a video on her account saying it's not her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 01:20 AM |
| 7 | I feel proud that this kind of stuff is being spread more on tiktok and girls in the comments are saying they never want to talk to men again/have always felt uncomfy with this stuff but didn’t know whyI'd give some credit to you for his upbringing too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 02:30 AM |
| 5 | Passive Reciprocation 5 Ways We Soothe Our Ego to Cope With RejectionIdk she kept pushing for subscribing and that turned me off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:52 PM |
| 7 | I don’t rock up to a conversation saying “hey baldy”, why tf do stupid men think this is okay with someone you barely know? 👎🏽Some said to me I love dark skin. Can't stand race fetishism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:01 AM |
| 5 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...Idk how to meet people outside these apps honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 05:43 PM |
| 20 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...They complain about dry convos when they are the Sahara | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 05:41 PM |
| 9 | OLD is a lot more fun when you know that it’s all entirely up to youSome dudes wanted to go to a trampoline or salsa dancing on a first date. They think they're being creative but that's waaaaay too much investment for me for a first date. I'm kinda extroverted so I use to do serial dating pre-covid, which helps my extroverted side of meeting people. Not to brag but I was triple booked once. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 10:23 PM |
| 29 | OLD is a lot more fun when you know that it’s all entirely up to youOLD is trash but fun. Most of these dudes do not know how to hold a basic conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 08:42 PM |
| 18 | There are no HVM out there, let's just say we've lost our men.Honestly they weren't there when other black men were killed either. The pandemic, unemployment and no healthcare has brought people to their edge and George Floyd is the straw that broke the camel's back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:22 PM |
| 27 | Always bewarer/boomerhumour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:17 PM |
| 9 | I'm SPEECHLESS.And she says she can't move out as she can't financially live by herself. Girls really studying and getting a job should be your #1 priority in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 06:58 PM |
| 22 | My heart breaks for her. Wish I didn't read this.That's pre-planned. I thought he smashed them in a fit of rage. What a psycho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Looks like Grimes is doing a lot of unpaid emotional labor for her stupid boyfriend (answering a tweet abt him donating money to BLM)Are you serious? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 06:35 AM |
| 19 | Would it be okay to use dating apps secretly?He asked you to be his gf without meeting you? You need to run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 06:31 AM |
| 24 | This man boldly made SEVERAL antiblack sentiments in the face of me, a black woman.Also dudes who fetishise your race. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 06:01 AM |
| 4 | Even during a global pandemic / national uprising they want to get their rocks off ... on POSHMARK.Someone just called me a coward on OLD for staying at home and not wanting to go on a date during a pandemic. I'm just mad these are the kind of people increasing the numbers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 05:58 AM |
| 0 | Be a HVM in All Aspects of LifeIn my experience, everyone at my work is pretty chill regardless of gender. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 09:40 PM |
| 90 | Inexperienced girl gets repeatedly raped by her boyfriend, wants to find a polite way to tell him to stop hurting herHonestly even women think being violent is normal due to porn these days. I see all these tiktoks with young girls saying they like to get choked, hair pulled, can arch their back crazily (implying doggy style while the dude pushed them down by their waist). Aside: that flair got me dying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 02:44 PM |
| 35 | Be a HVM in All Aspects of LifeIf I'm interrupted, I will say "let me finish" and finish what I say. If I interrupt someone, I will apologise and let them finish after. This is common decency regardless of gender and I work in a very male dominated industry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 02:31 PM |
| 3 | 2 letters, yeDepends on the kind of pot too. Something like sativas I think improves your focus. Some people take it to be more productive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020First thing I want to say is no matter what happens or what you do, you won't have embarrassed yourself. This is a step you need to take with him or anyone else if marriage is the end goal. You need to first decide if YOU (this doesn't include your family or him) are ready for this or need more time. When you are ready, if you have very traditional parents, the worst case maybe your parents may ask you to choose between them or your partner. Or his parents may do the same. My parents did this wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 11:36 PM |
| 11 | How to explain to women that their boyfriends having close female friends shouldn’t be blindly accepted?Depends on the nature of the relationship. I have lot of platonic male friends that I only meet in groups but have 1:1 texts which are purely meme based. If it's more than that, then that's an issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 05:32 PM |
| 14 | The Ten Types of Men on TinderHonestly why are guys so bad at taking pictures? We all have the same cameras | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 04:00 PM |
| 8 | Look out for #1, ladies☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 03:24 AM |
| 15 | Women of FDS, what advice would you have given to your younger self?Growing up I really was focused on school and work so I always thought I missed out on stuff younger but I'm 26 now and in retrospective I see I gained a lot more. I am financially independent, own assets, a job I love and a promising career. Don't cave into FOMO. I'm not saying don't have fun but hard work will definitely pay off. When you are financially independent from your parents or a partner, it gives you a power/freedom in your life to walk away from any situation related to family or re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Why you shouldn’t date men who watch porn? tdlr ans: high chance of being objectified, always feeling used like a sex object, power and control, porn substituteWhat about Muslim women who are forced cover their bodies and faces? That's not bad for women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Why you shouldn’t date men who watch porn? tdlr ans: high chance of being objectified, always feeling used like a sex object, power and control, porn substituteYes religious people may not cheat but that doesn't mean they are not mysoginistic and oppress women as someone who was brought up in a religious family. Your same logic can be applied to porn as well. If we agree porn is bad as the industry is bad for women, that same argument applies to religion as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Why you shouldn’t date men who watch porn? tdlr ans: high chance of being objectified, always feeling used like a sex object, power and control, porn substituteReligion has a lot of bad and mysoginistic aspects ingrained. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:31 PM |
| 6 | Why you shouldn’t date men who watch porn? tdlr ans: high chance of being objectified, always feeling used like a sex object, power and control, porn substituteI agree porn is awful. Im talking about dudes who are not in NoFap or aren't religious. Are there people who fap who don't watch porn? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:05 PM |
| -5 | Why you shouldn’t date men who watch porn? tdlr ans: high chance of being objectified, always feeling used like a sex object, power and control, porn substituteHonestly I don't think there's a single guy who doesn't watch porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:11 PM |
| 13 | It do be like that sometimesOk so I need to find a blind man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Thank you Queens!I hope you're right but he still waited 6 months to become official. That seems like a long time to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!I got yo back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | To all of you ladies out there who continue to level up in more ways than oneSpent most of my life on education and work. Now in my mid 20s, I'm in top 5% of the wealthy as a result. I've met so many condescending assholes due to being a male dominated field. I finally got a chance to enter the dating market but all I meet are insecure dudes or dudes who treat me like a meat. It's great that leveling up really exposes all the men as I'm not desperate or financially dependent but I do feel a little sad that I may end up single forever, which is fine but some nights are lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 07:13 AM |
| -5 | Notice the self control @the beginningThis is some bs I'm reading on Reddit this morning | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/09/19 03:29 PM |
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