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MOOD FOR LIFEsrkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:17 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYsrkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:22 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEsrkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:34 PM
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DISCUSSIONsrkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:31 AM
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srkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 02:39 PM
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srkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:21 PM
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srkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:41 PM
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srkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:25 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEsrkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:56 AM
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STAY WOKEsrkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:44 PM
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REDDIT HATES WOMENsrkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:13 AM
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DISCUSSIONsrkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:48 PM
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PICKME CULTUREsrkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:56 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEsrkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:29 PM
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DISCUSSIONsrkambbs1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:30 AM
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They will have a heart attack when they find out I have Netflix, prime, HBO, Disney+, Hulu and YouTube subscriptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:33 AM
90

Buy a nice toy. Better than 99% on tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:00 AM
1

I'm really surprised there are women our there who are willing to date big Ed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:58 AM
11

There was one that said wearing makeup and dressing well is for the male gaze and is not empowering. That one has a lot of upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:55 AM
18

That OLD shaming post actually made me uninstall all the apps and delete my profile lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:54 AM
38

Funny how rad fem subreddits get taken down but the incel and red pill ones still exist that have had many instances of violence against women irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:47 AM
7

I will add late millennials too. So everyone currently younger than 30s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:36 AM
5

I was wondering why billy eillish recently was filming more explicit music videos and photoshoots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:36 AM
4

Ofc they attack you for the obvious. That question reeks of misogyny. One thing priveleged people love to do is play the victim. That dude wanted to be worshipped for the one day he did chores half assed and that's their last straw while the mother of his child has been doing it everyday for the rest of the year. Don't waste your energy on them sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:17 AM
2

What's the Instagram
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:04 AM
1

Alternate - https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMd2xmVFA/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:15 AM
102

Most women talk about their partners like He sucks at ____ but he's a really nice person and does these nice things for me. They always see the good side but I do not see men talking about their partners like that when complaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:32 PM
9

I come to this subreddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:30 AM
159

It's better to be alone than being lonely when with someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:29 AM
97

Liberal feminism only attracts lazy men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:04 AM
59

It's like girls wanna do all the romcom stuff outdoors but then expected to do hardcore stuff in the bedroom. It would definitely take a toll on the mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:36 AM
8

But isn't it extremely painful? Why not just wait until the right person. Let him wear a condom. If you accidentally get pregnant and don't want the child, get abortion. I don't understand why as a woman, I need a IUD. The burden of getting pregnant should not be on the woman. To me, IUD is another form patriarchy where a dude can't even bother wearing a condom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:24 AM
23

It only takes one bad apple to spoil the bunch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:20 PM
2

Yeah or dog spray
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:05 PM
6

Buy pepper spray or some kind of self defense instruments. I really hope you don't have to use them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:59 PM
10

I agree that going on dates is definitely a risk for the woman and that's a case for not 50/50 as I do want the guy to win me. But isn't the point of finding a HVM partner that you won't be just a bangmaid, mother, therapist etc. Assuming I do find a HVM and I never settle for a LVM, if all the emotional and physical work I'm doing is 50/50 and I'm earning the same as my partner, why should I not go 50/50 in a committed? Ofc in reality maybe a perfect HVM is a myth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:54 PM
34

All those 2000s movies like friends with benefits etc really brainwashed us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:33 PM
16

This may sound like a 'cool girl' question but I literally put no effort into appearance possibly because I'm not very skilled at makeup and never got into it. And I'm not doing and won't do more house work. What's the argument for someone like me to not do a 50/50 in a stable relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:26 PM
23

It's quite depressing. I cry every night not just for me but all my sisters who are in a much more difficult position than me in the world. But I rather know the sad truth than the happy lies. I think of all the woman who came before me and fought for what rights we have today. They'd be hella disappointed in me if I kept crying. It motivates me to do the same for our future daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:37 AM
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The guy on the right is an Italian actor in the movie 365 days. It looked like he came out in the post but it was just publicity stunt for a new movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:32 PM
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The guy on the right is an Italian actor in the movie 365 days. It looked like he came out in the post but it was just publicity stunt for a new movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:31 PM
8

Did he actually come out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:24 AM
3

Tiktok is grooming young women and it's not being talked enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:12 AM
52

Hentai is the worst because some of the art is actually elementary school girls. It's beyond disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:01 AM
48

I was too exposed to porn when I was under 18. Yes I remember seeing a girl who looked 12 years. I legit thought it was child porn and was extremely shocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:00 AM
47

These men hate women for being masculine and they hate women for being feminine. They just hate women regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:43 AM
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This guy is too wild. He eats paint
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:02 PM
1

Liberal feminism is not inclusive to women of other races.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:52 PM
3

Elon musk has 7 sons through IVF. Let that be proof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:46 PM
88

He has young Asian wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:40 PM
17

The bar is low and so is the hairline
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:53 PM
2

He wasn't in dark tho lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:52 PM
3

He's such a phenomenal actor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:52 PM
24

Taecyeon is one of the few OG respectful kpop idols but all the ones I liked as a teenager all turned out trash 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:51 PM
9

Because these days we shouldn't hurt people's feelings and tastes apparently. It goes to choice activism. But the thing is bad choices and bad tastes that affect others exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:58 PM
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I hope the parents helped her report him for throwing things. But the number of kids on tiktok I see praising age gap relationships is crazy. I hope their parents keep them safe from being groomed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:36 PM
10

I mean we are talking about women talking to convicted criminals. They are beyond lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:22 AM
7

In a podcast, Lana said she was hella pissed when she found her bf Mike was having cyber sex with a lot of women and they had a huge argument about it but she stayed. Then she bought this huge house for them to live in and on the day of the move he decided to move elsewhere, which was her last straw for a breakup. I honestly feel bad for porn actresses that they aren't respected by men. Their partners basically see them as objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:31 PM
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Whole generation of LVM men and cool girls were raised with that scene
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:14 PM
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A toxic workplace is like a toxic relationship. You can't fix it from the inside and the only solution is to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:58 PM
9

Please not lily singh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:57 PM
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I think the original story made it a tragedy that she sacrificed so much for a man but didn't get him, which is a better lesson. But disney had to make it a happy ending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:09 PM
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I just realized Ariel was a pick me. She gave up her voice and family for a man? And I think in she kills herself self after he rejects her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:05 PM
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It's a reflection of what people are searching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:29 PM
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They were blaming Google actually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:28 PM
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Which is why don't give a man wife privileges as a gf. Living together is one of those as you don't have legal protection and aren't building equity together as a gf. I realize it's important to know people's living habits but imo sleepovers are more than enough to find that in a long term relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:09 PM
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Yes because one of their ban rules is talking about dismantling the patriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:55 AM
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They banned me for speaking against patriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:54 AM
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+5 HVM is a unicorn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:02 AM
2

Can you educate me about alec baldwin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:46 PM
9

I know Trisha has her issues, traumas and she has her onlyfans. Recently she said girls should wait till 25 before they decide sex work is for them and has been constantly speaking about young girls being groomed. Perhaps young girls will listen to older women who've been doing sex work for a while to understand the dangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:03 PM
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Men had the audacity to invite HER over for "dinner", then we all truly have no hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:58 PM
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Coffee is 5$ and you a decent dinner begins at 10$.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:06 PM
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All men including south Asian men are actively looking for women including dating apps. They take the arranged marriage route as they failed in all other places. Why take a man when all women have rejected him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:33 PM
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Any sources? I would like to learn more about this tragedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:22 AM
8

We've only made very small progress in terms of gender equality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:37 PM
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I spent so many years of teenage years dressing like trash and looking like trash so I don't catch any attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:22 PM
3

Love languages are a bunch of bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:32 PM
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My parents made me cry on some of my birthdays growing up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:42 AM
2

These men live from the validation and approval of other men. Since they view their partners as objects, they tend to use these objects to get that validation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:31 AM
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I actually want to have daughter (and a son) because I want to teach them. Not sure how successful I'll be to prevent all the society brainwashing but I wanna bring in more good people to this world. I'm optimistic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:37 PM
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Idk about that. Siblings are great to have too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:38 AM
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Idk why do men always 'hypothetically' fantasize of hitting women back in the guise of a bet or gender equality?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:00 AM
16

I love the energy in that room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:03 AM
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At least with this one, his gf can read it here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:41 AM
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Women have more rights today than in the 70s and are at a whole better position progressively if they choose to be. I don't agree 70s men were HVMs as to them a woman's place is in the kitchen. But they did follow traditional gender roles like being the earner, paying for a lady, which is a small overlap with current HVM traits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:22 AM
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Women who romanticize criminals are disgusting. How can you fall that low?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:21 AM
8

Everytime I slip, I come back to this subreddit to re evaluate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:06 AM
8

It takes 10 mins to buy flowers and chocolates. Heck even less if you can get them delivered home these days. Do you really wanna be with someone who can't spare a few minutes especially when you've clearly made them aware of what you want?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:26 AM
5

That sub is trash. I posted similar shit where I 'insult' the other party but since it was men, I got downvoted and attacked by incels. The irony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:41 AM
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God I hate him. There was a clip of justin in a podcast where he was asked if he fucked britney and he said yes laughing as if he conquered her. It's so disgusting. He also painted her as a cheating ex in her music video when she never did that. Britney is a victim in so many ways by everyone she knows. It's a tragedy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:36 AM
10

I promise that I'll engage you to marry you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:44 PM
2

You're taking it too personally. You feel good by wearing makeup and dressing up. I feel the same too but ever question why is it a good feeling? Maybe it's for men, in which case it's definitely not female empowerment. Maybe it's for other women and being more "beautiful" than others gets you a higher social standing among women. That isn't female empowerment either more narcissism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:24 AM
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It's not about judging the women. It's about judging the society and media that drove these women to make these decisions. What is free will, when media manipulates beauty standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:10 AM
5

Trauma bonding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:51 AM
46

This is true but I've also seen cancel porn campaign going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:43 AM
7

Because men cannot objectify themselves like the way they objectify women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 08:15 AM
10

Front-page
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:55 PM
23

Im waiting lol. DM me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:23 PM
29

Yes because many men are trading options, like gambling to get rich quick. There are gaming addicts and then there are day traders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:29 PM
6

Your said you have enough money. Don't give up on your dreams and I really hope you become a lawyer who can maybe fight for women by using all your personal learnings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:22 PM
17

I used to think I was average looking but since I'm single, I'm absolutely gorgeous 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:36 PM
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Single mom is the parent who stayed. I don't understand why people shame single moms way more than the dad who left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:23 PM
16

I have to confess I used to consume porn once in a while but stuff like bellesa films, which focus on the romance and is female oriented. However, learning that any porn is abusive and includes trafficking, I've moved on to erotica. There's so many alternatives and if you are continuing watching it, then you are directly the root cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:09 PM
8

I follow this guy and he's actually making fun of this other brown dude that he tagged @goatavaneesh_, who actually worships white people and shits on south Asian woman. This as satire only makes sense if you've watched the other brown guys tiktoks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:12 AM
20

I feel like they all wanna be mom's because being a mom for a female celebrity completes their arc. Never understood how young Kylie had a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 06:26 PM
4

Just buy a dildo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:41 AM
2

You should do it anonymously but looks likes he'd know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:15 AM
18

Can we give pickme awards for the end of the year? This women will win the topmost one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:55 AM
10

Porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:25 AM
8

Oh yeah anyone who casually plays games on moderation wouldn't advertise themself as a gamer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:22 AM
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I will have to disagree with you on that. Movies, coding and gaming can be hobbies. But there does seem to be a disproportionate number of men addicted to gaming. For gaming and any of the other hobbies you listed, if you are addicted to it and it's actively affecting your life or job or relationships, then they all are terrible. I don't blame the hobby as much as the person doing it and the culture surrounding it. It's escapism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:43 AM
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I think he's just scared of dogs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:45 AM
9

How old is he
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:42 AM
10

Idk much about camila but I heard people call her a victim too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:41 AM
35

If you divorce/breakup with a man like that, you're forced to wait till another LVM picks you up as you aren't self sufficient and are codependent. Endless toxic cycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:00 AM
51

When you're in college, you are dating based on potential. Many times it's hard to judge how someone will do after
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:00 AM
15

Next thing hell ask her is a poly open marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:38 AM
5

Girl don't be so hard on yourself. I did 🤡 shit in my 20s 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:29 AM
4

Moat men back then followed traditional gender stereotypes of being the earner for the family, which is still better than lazy gamer lvm these days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 05:04 PM
2

https://youtu.be/_p4h3jwJob0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:36 PM
4

I finally don't feel sorry for him when 4chan clowned him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:13 PM
5

Buncha psychos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:23 PM
5

Only if my friends and family stop bothering me about getting married 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:46 PM
3

It could've been a joke but he went into such detail that there is no way it's a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:59 PM
4

Whatttt!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:58 PM
3

Where do you think all those socially awkward men go? Reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:55 AM
5

Then you'll see them bring up Onlyfans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:52 AM
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Girl I got you. And to think all of his comments got so many upvotes? Reddit really is a cesspool of LVMs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:41 AM
16

That's all women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:20 AM
42

"investment firm with partners": pyramid scheme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:15 AM
10

You need to find a better place to work. If anyone used the word bitch at my work, that's grounds for firing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:08 AM
75

Society doesn't get enraged when a guy tries to be the role of the caretaker. They are praised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:03 AM
4

Woman gets her ANAL DESTROYED!! Slipped into the wrong hole and she LIKED IT!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:41 PM
3

Yes exactlyy. I said something along the lines of cutting his feet and he was into it. I'm scared of tinder men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:40 PM
8

I completely agree. I don't wanna manipulate or play games. I would do that at work but it feels unethical and disingenuous in personal relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 10:52 PM
13

Wow I'm pissed. How dare he beat up coconut head 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:54 PM
35

Florence is so talented. Her performance in midsommar blew me away. People with huge age gaps always say, we both are adults. Aaaand? adults can be dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:53 PM
8

Trisha spilled so much tea on hollywood recently and I'm here for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:57 PM
30

Invite her here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:41 PM
31

Don't call me out like that 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:38 PM
87

When men exhibit it, it's confidence. When women do, it's arrogance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:35 PM
10

There is a reason when someone is an 'outsider'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:54 PM
3

I can relate to this. I call people out on their shit so that probably doesn't help either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:31 PM
5

Even as a kid, if I mom forgot my favorite thing for school lunch, I a 10 year old never ever got mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:57 PM
15

Yes it scares me all the young girls in tiktok are casually talking about getting choked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:54 PM
4

Fr I had the same experience. Got approached by a woman in a bookstore. Thought I made a friend nope. Mentorship mlm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:22 PM
2

Anytime someone from your high school hits you up, it's always a MLM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:20 PM
3

I wouldn't put the race there. As an avid watcher of 90df, Brittany (a black girl) is one of those. Desperation exists in all races.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:37 PM
2

90df is the definition of pickme. This story is essentially Jenny and sumit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:33 PM
3

Indian attire to black panther? That's a whole new level to ignorance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:32 PM
4

I think the black woman is as beautiful as the Asian woman but in these dudes mind the Asian woman is a sub. They basically ranked them based on porn stereotypes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:23 PM
28

Wtf even his "flirting" is disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:19 PM
3

Other than what everyone listed, could it be covid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:01 PM
20

I'm glad I'm in the tech industry, where not wearing crocs is the standard for appearance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:59 PM
21

There are exceptions to this. I believe in a women's gut sometimes that their man may be cheating on them. It has similar symptoms but doesn't root from low self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:42 AM
4

I've been in tech for over a decade. There's definitely disproportionate number of men like that because higher salaried jobs attract narcissistic men, introverts and self proclaimed intelligent people. But I have worked with many men who are not like this. Everyone usually knows who the "snob" / "brogrammers" is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:51 PM
3

If they really wanted to try, a patio date would be acceptable. As if I can't afford a meal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:38 PM
18

Every line in that post is a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:57 PM
65

Yeah and don't enter into a relationship with a man who makes significantly lower than you. You are at a risk of getting your savings dried out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:56 PM
30

The police dropped the case because the suspect threatened to sue? Tf how does that happen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:51 PM
9

Tell me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:45 PM
19

This wild lol. Essentially catfish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:57 PM
3

Even a gift card to a favorite store is the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:43 PM
86

Gender equality like that will never happen as long as creepy men exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:26 PM
3

Unfortunately yes. Men these days consume a lot of porn and every porn has an anal part to it these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:13 PM
29

Celebrities are damaged people. We should not be looking upto them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:18 PM
7

A pick me criticizing a cool girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:00 PM
3

FDS attracts a lot of religious conservative women because of some overlap but they are the same as the libfems who are brainwashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:59 PM
13

I'm still surprised it took so long to get a woman in a white house. Countries like Germany, NZ and others with female leaders seem way ahead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:53 PM
218

And 'men are the rational gender'. Poor woman. Let her soul rest in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:47 PM
67

I've always never liked her 'feminist' speeches. I've just realized it's because she's a libfem pickme. No wonder all the dudes in reddit love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:45 PM
7

It's a joke making fun of another guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:42 PM
10

Does he live with his parents who do everything for him? How do you not know these basic things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:29 PM
18

As if I can't do those myself. I can look on YouTube and find a detailed tutorial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:28 PM
5

What country do you live in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:50 PM
6

I know pandemic has been a big excuse for walk dates but you could still take someone out for a patio date at a restaurant. Of course men cannot think of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:49 PM
-28

I completely agree with you but for porn stars who are already in the business. It's better of the 2 evils but evil none the less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:02 PM
13

Agree with you. Never said anything about cheating. I meant about the money part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:01 PM
23

This is true but I've heard many women quit the tech industry at the middle of their career for many reasons. I really hope more women get up to leadership roles for the next generation of women entering the workforce. My female employee told me that she was sick yesterday as she had period cramps and she'd have never shared that with her manager previously as they would not have understood. Small things like this can make a great difference in the work environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:34 PM
13

In the books there are some parts that belong in r/menwritingwomen but his females POVs and characters are well written compared to other books. However in the TV shows, they had to make EVERY female character naked and not a single male characters penis was shown. That should tell you that it's aimed towards straight men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:01 PM
71

Asked dude who wanted to meet how about covid. And he was like 'you still care about that shit' and went on a rant. I slam dunked him and as he was angrily replying back, I blocked him. Best feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:45 PM
34

For real. I accidentally replied to a dude who ghosted me for 2 months thinking he was someone else. I was SO DISGUSTED that I gave him a second to think he had me so I unmatched. FDS is really good for my mental health
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:38 PM
23

And to think nothing has changed in 60 years. Only thing different is a facade and virtue signalling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:55 AM
10

Sorry to hear that but glad he's an ex. Every family should have dinner together. If not, whats the point even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:22 AM
46

Just because he didn't break up immediately after her rape does not make him a HVM. All her support group seems to be his family and it would be extremely hard for her to breakup with him. If she can't breakup with him, he should go to therapy as well. But I wish she can break up with him and work on herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:09 AM
15

I toned down my intelligence, success, wealth and humor for my ex so he didn't feel insecure. Instead, it boosted his ego to dump me. I will never be untruthful to who I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 11:45 PM
42

Is it better to sleep with someone and cut your losses early when they show their true colors or wait till a long time and show their true colors? The only thing I could save is time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:51 PM
2

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 06:46 AM
5

Clearance? I wouldn't even buy him if he were free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 09:47 PM
2

Oh wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:36 PM
2

I feel the same way. I won't date anyone at work or in my friend group. So only way for me right now in covid is dating apps. I know they are trash but it just the only way I know to meet men. Of course, I'm at the position in my life where I have a great career and friends. I'm dating out of some boredom but still vetting strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:48 PM
-1

I get that but ignoring all the morals and ethics. From a pure monetary perspective, she did scam people even though they might be LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:38 PM
5

Can I ask how wealthy are you? Are you a millionaire?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:36 PM
180

For real. Somehow sexualizing yourself for men online and in person is a liberal thing. Since these young women identify themself as being liberal, they will make every part of this as their identity. Uhm sexualizing yourself for men has always been the case throughout history and it's quite the opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:09 PM
9

What did he say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 04:48 PM
14

How did it go or is going with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:47 PM
11

Always found that hillarious when men are the ones who been on wars throughout history over stupid shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:15 PM
12

You cook hella cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:55 PM
3

I'm jealous but super happy for you. I hope y'all have a great life ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:06 PM
22

Men always complain about high pitched voices, which is most likely a woman's. I've never heard anyone complain about a dudes deep voice. It's just rooted sexism. Don't let it bother you what men think of you. If you're in such a hostile environment, you should consider a change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:36 PM
29

You'd think dudes who are not that good looking would try harder but it's quite the opposite. Society has made LVM believe they deserve the hottest chick. See Adam sandler movies. Girl just date yourself and don't lower your standards to give chances as they won't be appreciated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:21 PM
89

"college girls are dime a dozen" So they wanna manipulate young women. Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:09 PM
60

If she got her own house and everything, buying a dildo would be better than this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:54 PM
2

Glad it worked out for you but I do not recommend dating at work. Imagine it went bad but you'd have to see this guy's face at the office everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:14 PM
15

I remember watching this movie but not really paying attention to it but this time it really struck a cord in me. When a guy tells you, you are not like the other girls, it's not a compliment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:38 AM
67

I know Hilary Clinton has other issues but I still can't believe how it was portrayed that it was her fault that Bill cheated on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:13 PM
102

MLK, the face of black empowerment, was a womanizer. It's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:13 PM
65

Men have barely options. Compare your male friends matches vs yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:11 PM
19

They are just lazy af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:10 PM
11

Yeah I don't live in india
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:13 PM
10

HVM is hard no matter the race but I can casually hang with them without feeling judged or feel some pressure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:20 AM
58

Academically and professionally accomplished Indian men are the worst. Their narcissism has no bounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:12 AM
50

LVM Rahul lmao. Fuck boi rahul
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:09 AM
173

This is it. Every brown dude I know is a LVM who cannot do basic chores. I've actually told my brother about FDS and how he would be a LVM. He's improving a little atleast to reverse the conditioning from my parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:53 PM
225

This is why I have been dating outside of my race. Some people consider this a internalized racism but i don't want a toxic mil or a momma's boy. Also, indian women are encouraged to have a great education and career but are still expected to do work out AND do the house work by themselves 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:46 PM
26

Ive definitely chatted with dudes who can keep up with 2 different convos in the same chat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:19 PM
11

Some gay dudes can be toxic because they can have the bitchiness of an annoying popular girl and the privelege/audacity of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:39 PM
7

Taking zodiac signs seriously is so dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:36 PM
24

This is exactly the DENNIS system from its always sunny 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:39 PM
6

That dude is lying for sure. Men exaggerate a lot about their sexual experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:38 PM
2

I realized I was swiping the opposite way on the app midway and now it says on my profile that I covered for a cheater 🤦 But I had a friend who went on an extensive debate about maintaining the bro code when he's cheating. It's cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:28 AM
6

Tbh the acting for that was pretty cringe and I picked random choices. You can also do it multiple times for different endings. Personally I wouldn't look too much into these results.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:49 AM
5

Seems like FDS has attracted a lot of conservative traditional women because it criticizes new feminist 'cool girl' ideas like anal, polygamous, stay at home men etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:18 AM
40

Yeah I remember my ex talking about his ex how he had to drive like 40 mins to take her on dates and drop her back. How he felt being abused and used for his car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:43 PM
4

Omfg I get the same thing as a software engineer at FANG. This dude was like he used to put 'rocket scientist at NASA' and thought I'm doing the same. Uhmm so annoying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:34 AM
12

I'm curious. What are these red flags?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:25 PM
3

She did ALL that for a LVM and he dumped her as expected while faulting her. I really wanna bring her TO FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:42 PM
23

I'm a 26 year old south Asian female and being bothered by everyone about getting married. I moved out years ago and have a very promising career. This has definitely given me the confidence to hold my ground in front of my parents about my choices and has moved me out from a toxic environment. While the dudes my age in the community are not even asked about marriage while I am a ticking time bomb. I hope I can be a role model for other younger girls around me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:08 PM
7

Can you tag her to come here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:05 PM
31

That sounds like satire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:14 PM
6

Report to HR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:04 AM
33

It's not. She made a video on her account saying it's not her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:20 AM
7

I'd give some credit to you for his upbringing too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:30 AM
5

Idk she kept pushing for subscribing and that turned me off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:52 PM
7

Some said to me I love dark skin. Can't stand race fetishism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 05:01 AM
5

Idk how to meet people outside these apps honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:43 PM
20

They complain about dry convos when they are the Sahara
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:41 PM
9

Some dudes wanted to go to a trampoline or salsa dancing on a first date. They think they're being creative but that's waaaaay too much investment for me for a first date. I'm kinda extroverted so I use to do serial dating pre-covid, which helps my extroverted side of meeting people. Not to brag but I was triple booked once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:23 PM
29

OLD is trash but fun. Most of these dudes do not know how to hold a basic conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:42 PM
18

Honestly they weren't there when other black men were killed either. The pandemic, unemployment and no healthcare has brought people to their edge and George Floyd is the straw that broke the camel's back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:22 PM
27

r/boomerhumour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:17 PM
9

And she says she can't move out as she can't financially live by herself. Girls really studying and getting a job should be your #1 priority in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:58 PM
22

That's pre-planned. I thought he smashed them in a fit of rage. What a psycho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:48 PM
4

Are you serious?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:35 AM
19

He asked you to be his gf without meeting you? You need to run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:31 AM
24

Also dudes who fetishise your race.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:01 AM
4

Someone just called me a coward on OLD for staying at home and not wanting to go on a date during a pandemic. I'm just mad these are the kind of people increasing the numbers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:58 AM
0

In my experience, everyone at my work is pretty chill regardless of gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 09:40 PM
90

Honestly even women think being violent is normal due to porn these days. I see all these tiktoks with young girls saying they like to get choked, hair pulled, can arch their back crazily (implying doggy style while the dude pushed them down by their waist). Aside: that flair got me dying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:44 PM
35

If I'm interrupted, I will say "let me finish" and finish what I say. If I interrupt someone, I will apologise and let them finish after. This is common decency regardless of gender and I work in a very male dominated industry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:31 PM
3

Depends on the kind of pot too. Something like sativas I think improves your focus. Some people take it to be more productive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 12:24 AM
3

First thing I want to say is no matter what happens or what you do, you won't have embarrassed yourself. This is a step you need to take with him or anyone else if marriage is the end goal. You need to first decide if YOU (this doesn't include your family or him) are ready for this or need more time. When you are ready, if you have very traditional parents, the worst case maybe your parents may ask you to choose between them or your partner. Or his parents may do the same. My parents did this wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:36 PM
11

Depends on the nature of the relationship. I have lot of platonic male friends that I only meet in groups but have 1:1 texts which are purely meme based. If it's more than that, then that's an issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 05:32 PM
14

Honestly why are guys so bad at taking pictures? We all have the same cameras
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 04:00 PM
8

☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 03:24 AM
15

Growing up I really was focused on school and work so I always thought I missed out on stuff younger but I'm 26 now and in retrospective I see I gained a lot more. I am financially independent, own assets, a job I love and a promising career. Don't cave into FOMO. I'm not saying don't have fun but hard work will definitely pay off. When you are financially independent from your parents or a partner, it gives you a power/freedom in your life to walk away from any situation related to family or re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 11:25 PM
2

What about Muslim women who are forced cover their bodies and faces? That's not bad for women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:51 PM
1

Yes religious people may not cheat but that doesn't mean they are not mysoginistic and oppress women as someone who was brought up in a religious family. Your same logic can be applied to porn as well. If we agree porn is bad as the industry is bad for women, that same argument applies to religion as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:45 PM
5

Religion has a lot of bad and mysoginistic aspects ingrained.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:31 PM
6

I agree porn is awful. Im talking about dudes who are not in NoFap or aren't religious. Are there people who fap who don't watch porn?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:05 PM
-5

Honestly I don't think there's a single guy who doesn't watch porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:11 PM
13

Ok so I need to find a blind man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:33 PM
2

I hope you're right but he still waited 6 months to become official. That seems like a long time to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:30 PM
2

I got yo back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:46 PM
1

Spent most of my life on education and work. Now in my mid 20s, I'm in top 5% of the wealthy as a result. I've met so many condescending assholes due to being a male dominated field. I finally got a chance to enter the dating market but all I meet are insecure dudes or dudes who treat me like a meat. It's great that leveling up really exposes all the men as I'm not desperate or financially dependent but I do feel a little sad that I may end up single forever, which is fine but some nights are lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:13 AM
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This is some bs I'm reading on Reddit this morning
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