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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
42	Avoiding Dangerous Encounters with Volatile Women from Dr. Shawn T. Smith	Social Issues	srmfep2	/r/MensRights	20/07/19 02:27 AM
15	“Do Not ‘believe the victim:’ Simplifying ‘Trauma Informed’ Frauds” by John Davis	False Accusation	srmfep2	/r/MensRights	20/09/19 05:03 PM

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1	I like Greta but this is sexist bullshit. I'm all for taking strong actions wrt climate change asap, especially using things restorative agriculture, sustainable economic practices, economic incentives, etc. I don't think we really disagree much in a broad sense, at least I don't disagree with what you wrote here. I do think Greta is pushing dangerous ideas for framing climate change and solutions though, and I think it's manipulative for NGOs to be using children for advocacy, and I think it's child abuse to spur this teenager on when …	/r/MensRights	29/09/19 06:31 PM
1	I like Greta but this is sexist bullshit. I'm not denying anything, I'm calling out bad ideology and child abuse. I support things like cap and trade and many parts of the green new deal. Her particular brand of climate change reaction smells of the neo-malthusianism of the club of rome and people like David Attenborough, along with the fake statistics being used now to prop up veganism as a solution, which is all following in the tradition of alarmist environmentalists of the malthusian type. It's delusional thinking particular to elit…	/r/MensRights	29/09/19 06:12 PM
1	I like Greta but this is sexist bullshit. I've read about climate change plenty and her characterization isn't justified. The elitist source of the underlying malthusianism does not have a real scientific backing and has been shown to be incorrect again and again and again for decades as the predictions fail to come to fruition, and zero-growth is a fantasy that'd lead to significant harm if an attempt at implementation was made. There is a good amount of growth still needed to alleviate poverty and that there really is room for. Hyster…	/r/MensRights	29/09/19 03:46 PM
4	I like Greta but this is sexist bullshit. It's absurd that we're being forced to listen to children on these issues, imo they're doing it mostly for the conscious and/or unconscious recognition that they can get away with far more if the words come out of a child and then they can demonize the other side for even raising concerns. The child is having their immature and irrational apocalyptically stark view on the world taken advantage of to push a bankrupt agenda based in malthusianism and a destructive zero-growth ideology. The kid nee…	/r/MensRights	29/09/19 02:44 PM
7	"DOWN GIRL: THE LOGIC OF MISOGYNY" -- The ideal book to discuss the next time you want to ruin a dinner party. Oh wow another philosophical book that takes the post-modern idealization of femininity and blames everything bad that happens on men using extraordinary feats of paranoid logic wow, it even redefines misogyny from the "point of view of the victims" so that anything that feels bad to women is misogyny and we're supposed to trust that a movement built on paranoia can accurately discern what should go under a term and what's causing the phenomena ("men" naturally, said in a disparaging way, always…	/r/MensRights	29/09/19 01:56 PM
3	Apparently TwitchCon Can't Be a Social Event Another example is how they often support prostitution but think the Johns are terrible, or that sex toys are exciting but if a guy gets a sex doll he's a horrible objectifier of women that will probably rape someone. Doms are cool and I enjoy being called a worthless whore in the bedroom and being spanked while tied up but I'm screaming my safe word if you get into the elevator with me because being alone with men is dangerous.	/r/MensRights	29/09/19 03:15 AM
9	Apparently TwitchCon Can't Be a Social Event Sex positive but pushes ideology that demonizes the sexuality of an entire half of the population - edge-lording femcel is definitely not outside the realm of possibility lol	/r/MensRights	28/09/19 11:14 PM
1	"Why Greta Thunberg triggers the troglodytes among us" by some hysterical feminist at the ABC. As to "why," i'll give you a clue -- it's mostly because Greta has no Y chromosomes. You're going to go to someone who went vegan, had their health deteriorate despite following the common nutritional advice in the community, and then got better after quitting veganism and tell them that they should have their experiences reflected in a meta-analysis to be taken seriously? There are plenty that this has happened to and in similar ways, so it's justified to bring it together for a critique at this point imo. Meta-analyses of nutritional studies are often not good either, consider…	/r/MensRights	28/09/19 10:51 PM
1	"Why Greta Thunberg triggers the troglodytes among us" by some hysterical feminist at the ABC. As to "why," i'll give you a clue -- it's mostly because Greta has no Y chromosomes. It's very difficult to get B12 (vegan B12 is from bacteria) and difficult to get some other B vitamins, and getting non-APA omega 3 is also difficult and has to rely on algae as far as I know. APA is difficult for the body to turn into the kind of omega 3s the brain uses (DHA/EPA), so ultimately APA doesn't work as a good omega 3 source. Imo it's not a good idea to put a kid with mental health issues onto a diet that makes it difficult to get B12 and DHA/EPA omega 3s, which are very important fo…	/r/MensRights	28/09/19 09:04 PM
1	Elizabeth Warren, the ever-so-slightly Native American woman who would be president still believes the totally unproven accusations against Brett Kavanaugh. Thanks, you too - I realize it's an annoying way for me to act but it'd take forever to make all my points and I wouldn't be able to convince you even if I did lol. That's why I was mentioning the books. I probably shouldn't have brought it up. Definitely no hard feelings.	/r/MensRights	28/09/19 07:29 PM
1	Elizabeth Warren, the ever-so-slightly Native American woman who would be president still believes the totally unproven accusations against Brett Kavanaugh. I mean, ongoing food insecurity and purposeful political instability in Congo coming from foreign capitalist interests has led to the deaths of millions there in the last decade or so - what do you do with that? Wrt how perspectives on how war and revolutionary violence are shaped in the West, I'd recommend War and Revolution by Losurdo. A lot of people do die in conflicts, but the reasons, details (which can often be invented), and framing is used push political agendas one way or another. Anyw…	/r/MensRights	28/09/19 07:20 PM
1	Elizabeth Warren, the ever-so-slightly Native American woman who would be president still believes the totally unproven accusations against Brett Kavanaugh. Yeah, you can read a book like Human Rights in the USSR or The Triumph of Evil to see that it's mostly wrong for the former Eastern Bloc. For North Korea, you can read Patriots, Traitors, and Empires. The countries of the former Soviet Union were under consistent propaganda campaigns from entities like Radio Free Europe that were run by the CIA to seed false beliefs in those countries, which aspiring capitalists ended up repeating constantly after the socialist governments ceded power, to give y…	/r/MensRights	28/09/19 07:01 PM
1	Elizabeth Warren, the ever-so-slightly Native American woman who would be president still believes the totally unproven accusations against Brett Kavanaugh. It's impossible to talk about socialist stuff in the West because almost everything believed about socialism isn't true or else is very biased, and even by the socialists themselves - it's ridiculous lol but you can't really do too much about it. Not here to argue further than this post, but I've studied socialist countries closely from various viewpoints, and the amount of what's believed in countries like the US and those in Europe that's false is absurd. I'd put it at 80-90%. It shouldn't be …	/r/MensRights	28/09/19 06:29 PM
157	Apparently TwitchCon Can't Be a Social Event I checked out her profile and she's apparently "sex positive" lmao. Someone who is both "sex positive" and this paranoid about men is a shitty #metoo waiting to happen. Honestly, it's almost at the point where we should go: don't get into elevators alone with women who look in any way witchy because the danger of getting accused of something is too great.	/r/MensRights	28/09/19 05:31 PM
-1	"Why Greta Thunberg triggers the troglodytes among us" by some hysterical feminist at the ABC. As to "why," i'll give you a clue -- it's mostly because Greta has no Y chromosomes. She's a child with mental health problems with parents who propagandize to her and deny her brain proper nutrition (they're vegan), especially proper b vitamins and omega 3s only found in animal foods. Apparently we're all supposed to think it's a good thing to be proseltyzed to by children who are having their psychological vulnerabilities taken advantage of by parents and NGOs that ignore the obvious disturbances in the UN speech and even use it as cover, and on topics of monumental importance…	/r/MensRights	28/09/19 02:55 AM
2	Male infertility linked to prostate cancer risk Our food supply and whatnot has a lot of shit in it that fucks with human hormones and cause fertility issues, so I think that's likely the common cause here. Personally I've grown mindful of avoiding plastics, eating healthy (I eat a keto, mostly animal-based diet), filtering my water well, and making sure my hygiene products are natural.	/r/MensRights	26/09/19 12:43 PM
10	"It's obvious the guy was the abuser" A lot of these types of feminists (radical feminists) have BPD, so the underlying reason they do this is "splitting", where for them women are Good and men are Bad, and rampant poor logic and projection is used to justify their beliefs formed around the splitting. It'd be psychologically destabilizing and threatening to see the world any other way. There will always be women like this but unfortunately now it's becoming part of popular culture and being taken seriously. It sucks that we can't ca…	/r/MensRights	20/09/19 03:01 PM
42	and no body is afraid that their son might get hurt... It's definitely one of the more annoying things feminists do when they demand that even moms need to accept and adopt the demonization of their sons, and that men should have the woman who is likely the only one who will love them unconditionally be constantly suspicious of whether they are in fact a potential evil abuser of women.	/r/MensRights	15/09/19 09:32 PM
3	Women objectifying themselves Feminists see male sexual attraction to women, and especially specific body parts, as fitting the Cambridge definition you gave. The rhetoric on "objectification" and "sexualization" is simply a way of demonizing male sexuality without saying so. Humans are sexual animals, so women and men are pre-"sexualized" -- it really is pretty ridiculous logic being used imo. The women who complain about this kind of thing are uncomfortable with the fact of male attraction and the effect it has on their se…	/r/MensRights	01/08/19 10:48 PM
1	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people Men die earlier because they have more stressors like the ones I mentioned and we live more dangerous lives because we're expected to (and it benefits society that we do it, so I'm not salty), which is why we harden to deal with those stressors. It's the stressors and dangers that decrease the lifespan, and masculinity is how we deal with it. It can become counter-productive when you have therapies available that you don't take advantage of for fear of seeming vulnerable or if you haven't mature…	/r/MensRights	28/07/19 05:09 AM
1	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people Jfc, you have no idea how manipulative you are do you? You condensed his ideas about himself into an insult, which is - yes - you insulting him. Your questions are clearly aggressive and rhetorical. If you didn't want them to be interpreted that way, you should've wrote them differently. Your lack of empathy is very much on display here. People with self-confidence issues are more suggestible to this kind of manipulative behavior, which is why I reacted so strongly when I saw it in your original…	/r/MensRights	28/07/19 04:58 AM
0	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people Arrogant rhetorical questions aren't real questions - the guy came in here to suggest a possible issue and how it relates to him, and you insulted him by calling him fucked up and followed that up with biased interpretations phrased in a demeaning way. That's not a good way to treat people with self-confidence issues.	/r/MensRights	28/07/19 01:12 AM
0	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people Oh, I was replying to the Pigman response to you. They're saying that your perception on what happened is incorrect and that you're lucky you got what you did, seemingly without any basis except the assumption that comfort must be good. Feminists assume that this kind of thing must good for boys basically, so if you say it might not be the case they try to convince you that you can't accurately reflect on your own life and don't really know yourself, which is what I was calling out as gaslightin…	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 09:02 PM
0	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people Suppression of emotion is one mechanism involved in managing emotion, it's just demonized these days so people find it hard to admit	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 05:11 PM
1	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people There's plenty of research to support it. It's pretty basic to the understanding of gender that comes out of psychoanalysis that it's the case that masculinity allows men to contain emotions for the people around them and provide emotional regulation, including for women, who do seek men out for this quality. Look into Winnicott's ideas about gender for instance or Lacan's, or even the book "Heterosexual Masculinities" since you're likely to enjoy the gender studies style writing.	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 04:53 PM
1	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people It says "suppress", which is why I said "suppression isn't repression"	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 04:44 PM
4	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people My personal experiences have been pretty unequivocal about it. To say something that'll get on your nerves, feminists in crisis just blame men instead of dealing with their crises well because they hate us too much to accept we're good for stuff like that. It's simple toxic envy. The lack of emotional control among feminists is glaringly obvious to anyone who doesn't for whatever reason hate men and repress the obviousness of this shit to support their ideology.	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 04:42 PM
5	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people They usually don't though, have you spent much time around them or when they're in crisis? They usually look for a man, because the man helps them deal with it with his masculinity.	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 04:38 PM
1	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people Jfc, go back to whatever cucktown you came from, you clearly don't know what it's generally like for men out here lmao. Stop taking feminists seriously, it's only going to get worse for you. I was a feminist for a while and trust me that the earlier you start de-brainwashing yourself from their toxic ideas about men the better.	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 04:37 PM
4	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people The guy literally said boys should be comforted when they cry. And suppression isn't repression. You're just making shit up to deal with your own issues instead of really reading shit bro.	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 04:33 PM
0	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people Clarity of mind and thought can only be obtained from suppression of naturally evolved emotional responses, which is why men train each other to get to that point. Culture is humanity's way of dealing with nature, including our own, hence why we teach ourselves self-control. Additionally, masculinity unconsciously imparts emotional control, as shown amply by psychological research and especially psychoanalysis, and seen in the emotional deficits of those who lack fathers.	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 04:31 PM
2	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people Crises absolutely are things you should teach children how to deal with, especially boys. Men and women taking on certain roles wrt emotions makes all our lives easier. You can call it sexist and rail on about how bad gender norms are, but it's not going to change the realities that created the norms in the first place or their continued practical usefulness.	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 04:23 PM
0	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people YEP - it's weird to see a woman get predatory when you show emotions, but I've been dating long enough to see it happen a few times to myself hahaha. A lot of women seem to see men's emotions as things to leverage, with feminists being super obvious about it imo in how they engage with men's issues. It's weird to be on the receiving end of it. It's super worth it to find people you can be open with though.	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 04:15 PM
-1	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people This reply from you is feminist-styled gaslighting and vile to read.	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 04:06 PM
1	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people No it's not, it's because men are given reasons to kill themselves like having their children taken away, being emotionally neglected in general (which leads to the requirement of "rugged masculinity" to simply survive and not kill themselves), going to war and ending up with PTSD, and other things. Masculinity is protective for all the bullshit we have to go through.	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 04:04 PM
2	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people Being emotional is known to lead to irrationality and is almost defined by being irrational, so yeah there's a correlation. It's weird that it even has to be said hahaha	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 04:00 PM
4	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people I had a feminist girlfriend who attacked me for causing her to do "emotional labor" when I cried. They seem to have no idea that when they get emotional, which is often, men are doing "emotional labor" too. A lot of feminists are especially bad at this because they seem to hate the idea of motherhood, and a man getting emotional brings up maternal instincts in herself that she hates and so the man gets attacked as usual for her own bullshit.	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 03:50 PM
8	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people My dad is a very masculine man who spent a lot of time in the military, and he is tremendously supportive and empathetic when I cry to this day. Although it's pretty rare that I cry now, I still get to that point occasionally and typically rely on him when I get there. I swear feminists have made tons of shit up simply because they aren't exposed to this part of men's emotional lives very often (including the men, who seem to not have found a good male peer group and desire to take that out on m…	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 03:44 PM
2	Moron feminists: Man Tries Sitting In Anti-Manspreading Chair, Immediately Crushes His Balls There's ample research in psychoanalysis that shows females, from a very early age, envy that boys and men have penises. There are various ideas around why it's the case, but it's pretty well evidenced that it exists. I think it's simply that it exists externally, which makes children jealous that someone has something they don't - it's really very basic imo. Similarly, boys often have castration anxieties because they notice females don't have penises and then think maybe theirs could be taken …	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 03:28 PM
9	Moron feminists: Man Tries Sitting In Anti-Manspreading Chair, Immediately Crushes His Balls These feminists should just admit that deep down they hate the idea that men have penises and they don't. This is just penis envy embodied in chair design lmao.	/r/MensRights	26/07/19 10:06 PM
12	Man arrested because he didn’t let his girlfriend rape him Guy should've left her clearly and this seems like an abusive relationship, but this sounds like he's frustrated from how he's being treated in general, including by the cops. I'd like to know what she did after the police left the previous time, and why she still felt like she could get away with this behavior. I'm sure he felt unprotected and frustrated. Also, if it was a guy doing this, he probably would've been arrested on the first occurrence of attempting sexual assault to the point where …	/r/MensRights	21/07/19 01:49 PM
11	Man arrested because he didn’t let his girlfriend rape him So it's okay for a man to get locked up for trying things reasonably within his power to avoid a women trying to bang him with him very much not wanting to? Do we even know what he's accused of in terms of threatening her is true? Would a woman get all these charges, including if she really did physically threaten him? Are we not allowed to physically defend ourselves from sexual assault, or even threaten to defend ourselves? Also what about the men's rights of black men who get hit way harder b…	/r/MensRights	21/07/19 01:20 PM
2	Men are suffering under a restrictive society that punishes them for showing emotions? Let's make it about women. Right?! It's fabrication that only sounds right because they've demonized men and masculinity. They even kind of realize it half-way through iirc and basically discredit male, masculine friendships, saying that drinking together and "objectifying women" and shooting the shit isn't real friendship or that we can't express feelings because we don't cry about our problems usually. Of course they've never seen men cry in these settings and how we react! Men in male friendships have each other's back…	/r/MensRights	21/07/19 12:40 PM
18	Men are suffering under a restrictive society that punishes them for showing emotions? Let's make it about women. MEN HAVE FRIENDS - they just make this shit up with one-sided anecdotes, it's so dumb. Male friends are the only people aside from my family that I am able to really express my feelings around. Plus women who think everything is a "burden" are entitled as hell. Women put immense burdens on men, including emotionally, yet there's no acknowledgement in these articles that women may have any responsibility in relationships for making sure the man is actually benefiting. Also, men are women's therap…	/r/MensRights	20/07/19 10:11 PM
1	I was banned from the UCLA psychology clinic because I told my female therapist not to hit on me Fantastic! - Thanks for putting this up as a lesson to others - it's an unkind world for us a lot of the time - just want to express appreciation. Appreciate your good wishes, definitely!	/r/MensRights	20/07/19 04:19 AM
1	I was banned from the UCLA psychology clinic because I told my female therapist not to hit on me Exactly! And your friend knew too and everything. Shit was fucked up man, you're lucky you had a friend who keyed you in. Hopefully you find a therapist who can get you what you need. My suggestion would be to look into therapists who are trained in psychodynamic therapy or something similar, just because it's supposed to understand sexual desire and incorporate it into therapy with some objectivity (not much though, don't listen to the demonization of male sexual desire if it's expressed imo). …	/r/MensRights	20/07/19 04:06 AM
2	I was banned from the UCLA psychology clinic because I told my female therapist not to hit on me Yes, if someone reschedules a lot with a therapist it means that they're likely dealing with an issue related to their parents or someone else close from early in their lives. For a very general example, if you feel neglected by your parents, you might reschedule often with your therapist to ensure they'll be there for you despite your insistence on changes, because your parents didn't let you have that.	/r/MensRights	20/07/19 03:50 AM
5	Avoiding Dangerous Encounters with Volatile Women from Dr. Shawn T. Smith Thanks man! I've ended up with a few of these for too long, and friends of mine for much longer than me and some even continuing on now despite the abuse, and when I saw the video I thought it was the best one I'd seen on the issue so far. This offers some practical lessons to apply, which I liked a lot.	/r/MensRights	20/07/19 03:34 AM
2	I was banned from the UCLA psychology clinic because I told my female therapist not to hit on me Bro, the counter-transference these therapists get that are not trained in counter-transference and related psychoanalytic concepts is fucking ridiculous. I've ran into this a few times. Any therapist that reschedules on you is trash and they should know they're trash. They should know that a client rescheduling is a prime symptom of transference, and if that's in their counter-transference you can be assured they don't know how real therapy works. Most women, I feel, do need to be trained to de…	/r/MensRights	20/07/19 02:55 AM