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Women are in charge of something that men think they are in charge of, but they're not. Men are in charge of something that women think they are in charge of but they are not. Women are in charge of sex and intimacy. They are The gatekeepers of these. Permission must be granted by them for the man to benefit. Men are in charge of resources and commitment. Resources include energy, Time and money. Commitment because a man determines when a woman has a boyfriend. She does not. Men propose marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:44 AM
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Happy wife happy life is a threat.... Not aspirational
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:23 AM
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80% of men are invisible to you. Describe the man who gave you coffee today at Starbucks. You won't be able to because you don't remember him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:29 AM
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Yes and all those guys who are friends are zeros to you. 80% of the men you interact with on a daily basis are zeros. Can you describe the man at Dunkin donuts who gave you your coffee this morning? No because he's a zero
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:17 AM
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Men rank women 1 through 10. We will be intimate with any woman who is 5 and above. Women rank every man with numbers as well but they only use two numbers. Zero or one. 80% of men are zeros they don't exist. They are invisible and they'll call them to kill a spider or move a piece of furniture, but they'll never get into a hot tub with a zero. Women only are intimate with a man who's a one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:38 AM
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A thousand reasons why women avoid conflict. Verbal conflict is uncomfortable and awkward and has small downsides for women. Physical conflict can escalate from verbal conflict and this results in significant physical harm and risk to women. This is the only answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:19 PM
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Women are terrible negotiators because they are conflict avoidant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:47 PM
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Some women say it gives them an ick to see a man taking a nap
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:44 PM
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There's only two things a woman wants from man. Comfort and desire. Comfort can be negotiated and it is on a wide scale from low to high. Desire is a light switch. It's either on or off. Desire cannot be negotiated. Unfortunately, married men who are living in a dead bedroom after 20 years want to spend $200 an hour with a marriage therapist to negotiate desire. It is a fool's errand and they will fail. Once a woman turns off the desire light switch, it's very hard to turn it back on again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:33 PM
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Men are pickier than women. Sperm is cheap. Eggs are valuable. A woman will ovulate only 400 eggs in her lifetime. I will create 400 million sperm before I finish this sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:29 PM
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80% of all men are invisible to all women. Ask her to describe the man who served her at Dunkin donuts this morning and she won't be able
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:32 PM
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There's only two things a man wants from a woman. Make him hard but not his life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:59 PM
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Precisely correct women are choosing to be with men who fundamentally and often harm them. Men they don't choose Do not harm them typically. Accountability is kryptonite and a foreign concept
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:17 PM
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Men are told to do the right thing. Women are told you go girl.... you do you... get the bag
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:48 PM
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Generally, women only want two things from men. Comfort and desire. Comfort is on a spectrum, And can be completely negotiated. Desire is a light switch on the wall. It's on or off. People go to marriage therapy because comfort and desire has left their marriage. A therapist can help negotiate back to comfort, but a therapist cannot help negotiate desire. Once the light switch is off it's very hard to turn it back on again. This is why marriage counseling fails
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:21 PM
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However, generally men knock on doors and women open them. Any man can have seven dates next week..... He may have to call 21 girls but it'll happen. No woman can guarantee she will have seven dates next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:23 PM
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Every stepdad has 100% responsibility and 0% authority. It's baked in
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:19 PM
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A man does not realize the 100% 0% trade-off until it's too late. The regret is real
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:37 PM
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A stepdad has 100% responsibility and 0% authority. Conventional slavery has the same percentages.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:36 PM
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Are you upset because it's true and hurtful or false and undefendable?
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/25 07:58 PM
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Women prefer to date and marry up in every aspect They want to date or marry a man who is taller than them who weighs more than them who drives a better car than them who lives in a bigger house than them who makes more money than them. Hypergamy aspirational goals. It's hardwired into women.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/25 05:41 PM
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Today we have caveman dna subject to medieval institutions with godlike technology in our hands. Of course we are overwhelmed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:34 PM
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Women only want two things from the same man. Comfort and desire. Comfort can be negotiated. Desire is never negotiated
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:12 PM
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Men don't want to date the female version of themselves. We like polarity. One coin two sides
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:52 PM
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Do you understand the difference between probable and possible? It's probable you won't win the lottery. It's possible that you will win the lottery The probability of you finding seven women to re-roof your house is zero
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:25 PM
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That's a good idea but women self-select for jobs as men do and women choose not to be plumbers and not to be roofers. Respect their free will
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:59 AM
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Don't blame someone else for a woman's choice to not be a roofer. Don't be a victim
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:51 AM
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You didn't read my complete post. Men and women are both dependent on strange men for their comfort, security and safety
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 02:15 AM
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Find the fallacy of my argument. I'm waiting. Adhominem attacks are lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:39 PM
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Women use their mobile phone which is charged by electricity, generated in a plant built and maintained by men. Men and women are both equally dependent upon strange men for their comfort, security, and safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:17 PM
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Yes but free will is expressed and they don't take these jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:16 PM
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Of course I cannot. Did you read my entire post? Men and women are equally dependent upon strange men for their safety, comfort, and security. As a man. I'm okay with this. Most women find it anxiety producing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:15 PM
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99% of plumbers are men. This is self-selecting women can choose to be plumbers but they don't choose to be plumbers. Women can choose to replace roofs and build barns. They'd make a lot of money but they choose not to. They are exhibiting free. Will I respect their decisions? Of course I will
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:46 PM
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Your facts are incorrect. Women don't work on roofs. Send me photos of five women on top of a roof repairing it. I will send you $10,000
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:37 PM
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In your lifetime when you call a plumber or an HVAC technician What's the likelihood A man will walk through your door. 99%. Yes, a woman can repair your Air conditioning. And yes you could win the lottery. Statistically neither will happen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:36 PM
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Yes, but every woman who's had a baby is in a building built by men, maintained by men. And if the air conditioning in her maternity Ward breaks, it will be fixed by men. Women are inherently dependent upon men for their comfort and survival. Men are as well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:44 PM
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If your electricity does not work in your house, Three men in a bucket are going to hoist themselves in the air and repair your electricity so that you can be comfortable. This job could be done by women and you could win the lottery. Statistically it won't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:55 AM
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Men and women equally are dependent upon strange men to build their home, fix their roof and repair their cars. Statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:53 AM
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Women need men to fix their electricity, build the home they live in, repair their roof and fix their cars. Yes, five women could repair your roof. You can also win the lottery
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:51 AM
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Yes but if your house is burning down and you call the fire department, a truck with seven women is not going to show up and save your house
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:49 AM
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When you call the fire department, a truck with five women is not going to show up and save your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:33 AM
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Women can repair roofs and you can win the lottery
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:32 AM
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Statistically women don't repair roofs or engage in plumbing repairs. Men and women are equally dependent upon random men for their safety, security and comfort. This doesn't bother men but it gives anxiety to women and I understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:28 AM
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I can live for weeks safe and secure without any labor from women. I would need labor from men if I have a broken roof, bad car or broken air conditioner. A woman with a bad roof, Car trouble or a broken air conditioner is dependent upon labor from strange men to fix her problems
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:15 AM
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Men have responsibilities. Women have choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:58 AM
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Yes, but every road that only fans model uses to drive to a grocery store was built by men. The grocery store where she buys her food was built by men. The car she drives was built by men. If her roof was damaged in her house, it would be repaired by seven men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:28 AM
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A marriage is the only legal state-approved contract that can be changed because someone's feelings have changed. And one party can walk away with the disproportionate amount of cash and prizes. You can't sign a lease for a BMW and feel like not making payments anymore and keep the car. A marriage contract is referred to as an unconsionable contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:44 AM
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It's evolutionary and biological. None of our ancestors were ever in a monogamous heterosexual relationship for 60 years. Life expectancy was so much lower generations ago that people were married for a much shorter amount of time and then it ended because of death, disease, war or accidents. We are experimenting with decades-long relationships with fatal outcomes. These test cases don't work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:27 PM
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Past the age of 30.... men are not handsome or ugly. They are rich or poor
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:52 PM
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Confidence in a man tells a woman he can solve problems and provide and protect her. The single way a man can guarantee a woman will say she has good chemistry with a man on a first date is for him to authentically display confidence and certainty. It can be faked but only for a short amount of time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:07 AM
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In that dynamic, the pimp and the whore are the same person. Men are told do the right thing. Women are told do the right thing for her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:13 AM
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When a woman leaves the first date with a man and didn't feel chemistry, it's because he displayed lack of confidence, insecurity and submissiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:17 PM
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Attractiveness is subjective. Beauty is not subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:02 PM
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Your premise is false. 40-year-old women are half as attractive as 20-year-old women. The store is called Forever. 21....Not forever 41. Look up the definition of perishable inventory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:01 PM
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Solipsism. Women won't focus on anything that doesn't benefit them directly. Men going their own way means diverting resources from women. Men will join feminist groups to appear as white nights because they think it could benefit them and get them access to women who will sleep with them. There is no intrinsic or overt benefit for a woman to follow the manisphere because there is no benefit for them
/r/TheRedPill02/12/23 05:14 PM
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This is completely true. Men rank women one through 10. We will f*** anything 5 and above. Every woman ranks every man she knows, but only with two numbers: 1 or 0. She will only f*** a 1. But she won't f*** every man who is a one. However , She will never f*** a 0. Every man should ask a woman what number he is to her. If he doesn't know it already. It's easy to go from one to zero. It is impossible to go from zero to one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:02 PM
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I agree. I don't know if many men would like to have dinner alone with either of these two hosts. I don't think the topics would be interesting and I don't think it would be enlightening
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:29 PM
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The purpose of dating is to spend time with someone and figure out why no one wants to spend time with them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:38 PM
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I have to believe celebrities give a 3x5 card to every woman they're alone in a room with which effectively written by a lawyer is a non-disclosure with a million dollar penalty. It's their guarantee to avoid a me too
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 12:56 AM
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And 3 weeks after you die, people will stop crying about you and they will go back to work and laugh at movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:44 PM
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Women love men opportunistically. Men can afford to love women Idealistically and romantically. Women don't have that luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:18 PM
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A man makes a trade-off when he agrees to marry a woman. Lifetime provisioning for lifetime access to intimacy. A woman makes the same opposite trade-off.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 05:47 PM
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Yes, but that's a man's dream that won't be realized. A woman dream to get married is achievable. I still can't find a man's dream that is achievable and realized equivalent to a woman's marriage dream that is achievable and realized. An unconscionable contract for a man
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 04:41 PM
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The dichotomy of the disparate dreams is not matched by men. What dream does a man have that is fulfilled that never occurred to a woman?
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 04:29 PM
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Every woman dreams of her wedding day. No young boy has ever dreamed of his wedding day and talked about how excited he is to become a groom. The perception difference is staggering
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 03:39 PM
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This was not written by someone who stopped going to school when they were 12. The punctuation, sentence structure and organizational skills implies someone different
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 09:46 PM
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We all objectify each other. Men are objectified as success objects. Women are objectified as beauty objects. Typically, a woman is attracted to a man for his ability to provide financially. Men are attracted to a woman's youthfulness and beauty. The problem is 10 years from now The man will be wealthier and be able to provide more. But those same 10 years will not make a woman's beauty and youthfulness any better.. it's a bad deal for men. A fundamental bad trade
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:15 PM
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Being a stepfather gives you responsibility without authority. Nothing is unattractive to a man more than that. It's the definition of slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:10 PM
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Because it's like being invited to a party an hour before it ends and cleaning up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:08 PM
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Women are jealous of things that are a threat to them. Porn provides virtual unlimited access to sex which men desire. Women are jealous of the threat, not the object
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:30 PM
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Women are threatened by men having unlimited access to sex. They have no alternative argument against it The equivalent is men threatened by women having unlimited access to financial resources. Men could be threatened by other men who can fly women out to Dubai and go on a yacht. But the same shaming technique would occur because men have no alternative argument
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:23 PM
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Women are threatened by age gaps for the same reason. They're threatened by porn.... The biggest threat to older women is other men having unlimited access to sex, real or virtual. Younger women with lower standards/boundaries and porn exemplify this threat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:58 AM
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Women are in charge of sex and access to it. Men are in charge of relationships and when they begin. Women say yes to sex and men will say yes to a relationship
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 07:43 PM
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He has failed you by not leading you. The fact that he can't tell you what he wants makes you look less at him through your own eyes
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 06:12 PM
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Women have always been the most selective when it comes to partners. Selecting badly based on their ancestors could result in death or destruction. But a man has no negative consequences when he selects poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:26 PM
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Women really don't want to hear about your struggles. The best ones wait at the finish line and f*** the winners. They don't want to know how sausage is made
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:30 PM
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Men use the word chemistry. The equivalent word that women use is confidence. I can guarantee chemistry with a woman if I display confidence on the date. But if I spend the date talking about my failures, fears and anxiety, I will not display confidence and she will walk away saying there's no chemistry. It's an easy puzzle to solve
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:37 PM
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Women have the freedom to apply for any job they want. Yet women do not willingly apply for construction jobs, plumbing jobs, roofing jobs, water treatment jobs. Women have fought for and demanded equality. They have it. Yet they choose to make choices not to apply to such jobs. When a man or a woman loses power in their house and the electric company sends a truck with a bucket to go 40 feet in the air to fix the transformer, the person in that bucket will be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:51 AM
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A man can live safely for months with no help from women. He does rely on strange men to provide him electricity, water and safe roads. Men rely on other men to survive. Women rely on strange men to survive as well. Repair their cars. Fix their electricity. And fix a hole in the roof. When they have a water leak. A male plumber will walk through the door. Strange men who provide utility to other humans are critical to survival. Strange women do not have anything to do with a man's safety or surv…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:55 PM
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Answer the question, what do women uniquely do to assure their survival of men that other men cannot do? Civil engineers who are men Predominantly, build roads that women drive on safely
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:13 PM
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Past birth what does a woman do to ensure the safety and survival of a man.?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:06 PM
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Women live in a world built by men. Women live in homes that are built by men. Drive cars that are repaired by men and drive on safe roads paved by men. They turn on their bathtub and take a safe bath with water produced by men who built and run water treatment plants. And they watch tick tocks on phones that are charged with electricity produced by power plants that were built by men and staffed by men. But they don't want to date men. Strange men are fundamentally required for a woman's safety…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:00 PM
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I like Michael sartain but his men of action grift is a waste of money. The guys who sign up will never have any success
/r/TheRedPill18/09/23 05:27 PM
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To a woman every man in her life is a zero or one. You know what she does with ones. She does nothing like that with zeros. Every man must determine what number he is to every woman in his life. It will save so much time
/r/TheRedPill18/09/23 05:25 PM
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Yes, women are very selective because genetically they have to be. The act of sex is hugely consequential to a woman. Sex for a man has the same consequence as having a cup of coffee, thus, he's less selective. Men rate women 1 through 10. Most men will sleep with any woman who is 5 and above. Women also rate men with numbers. But they only use two numbers: 0 Or 1 80% of men a woman comes in contact with is a 0. The man who served her at Chick-fil-A today and her creepy neighbor who waves to her…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/23 02:38 AM
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A woman never became 1%. More attractive with a tattoo. And women never post their degrees to get attention on Instagram A Woman's educational and professional accomplishments mean nothing to a man's penis
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:16 PM
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Women marry for resources men marry for youth and beauty. 10 years from now. She'll be less attractive. 10 years from now I'll be wealthier
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:31 PM
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Attention is so important to women that there are 2 insults that offend women more than anything: Tell a woman She's boring. Another is to tell her she's invisible to you.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 08:30 PM
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Attention is cocaine or oxygen to women. Every single woman on this planet has an ancestor that successfully attracted attention from a man who provided his seed or his resources. She attracted his attention. It's fundamental to a woman survival
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 06:41 PM
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Very emotional argument to a logical reply. Your xx chromosomes are showing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:51 AM
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It's magical thinking. Show me a woman who's an engineer, physician or scientist and they won't believe in astrology
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:30 AM
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Porn is the ultimate threat to a woman's primary agency.....Her sexuality. She has no retort to women More beautiful than her displaying themselves and making them themselves sexually available online. It's why women porn shame men and some women consider watching it to be a red flag, first date deal breaker when they meet men. There is nothing as equivalently threatening to men's primary agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:56 PM
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Only men can afford to love romantically Women have to love opportunistically. Romance for a woman is a luxury
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:42 AM
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Water finds its own level. If given enough opportunity everyone can find someone who they find attractive mutually. But if random people are showed random pictures of men and women and ask them if they consider them beautiful, you would get lots and lots of negative responses, especially to women and men who are not height weight Proportional or faces that don't have symmetry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:34 PM
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Beauty is not subjective Attractiveness is subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:26 PM
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Your reply is disingenuous......When a potential employer asks you what you bring to the table you don't answer with values that are only important to yourself. You answer with values that you believe are important to the potential employer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:57 AM
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Yes, the fact that both of them don't exceed 50% makes it hard to convince people they should invest in something with a positive outcome that's worse than a coin flip
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:00 PM
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I challenge your grasp of the concept free of free will.....do You have the free will to be attracted to someone you don't find attractive. As a woman, can you suppress your need to shop and express that as free will. As a man, can you express your free will by not being attracted to beautiful women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:31 PM
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Fundamentally it's a bad trade. A man is attracted to a woman based on her beauty. A woman is attracted to a man because of his resources. 10 years later ....... she will be less beautiful, And he will have more resources if he invests properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:45 PM
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Eggs are valuable. Sperm is cheap. A woman will ovulate about 400 eggs total in her lifetime A man's quantity of viable sperm is in the millions per ejaculate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:10 PM
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Yes, if given enough time women will tell on themselves. The audience answers were effectively a series of holes. Answers given by women. Women will objectify themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:30 AM
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Do you want to make a woman's head explode? Ask her how she could keep her boyfriend if her vital sexual organ was broken for 6 months? She won't be capable of an answer but will turn the question around to you. How can you keep your girlfriend if you didn't have a working sexual organ for 6 months? The answer is 6 months of dinners and vacation and she'll still be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:19 AM
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Ask a woman who's sex worker positive if she's pro p*** and you will find hypocrisy raining from the sky
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:54 PM
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You sound threatened by p***. Women Tell them themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:39 AM
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I would add porn to this list. Nothing triggers a woman's jealousy and shame tactics more than a guy who is addicted to or admits to too much porn. Women in female dating strategy feel so strongly that it is a red flag deal breaker on the first date if a guy admits he watches porn. Some women in that world will make a man give it up. I've yet to find the equivalent behavior or action a woman is requested to give up on behalf of a man. It is singularly bothersome to women because it is at its cor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:41 PM
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Comparatively speaking a woman achieving 12 body count is easier than a man achieving the same. Therefore her achievement is shamed.... his is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:08 PM
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Men and women admire and respect when others do difficult things and shame others who do easy things. I will not respect anyone who eats a box of 12 donuts. I Will respect anyone who starts and grows a successful business. It is easy for a woman to eat 12 donuts or sleep with 12 men. We are not slut shaming.... We are shaming easily achieved numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:15 PM
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Only fans would love to replace all of its content providers with virtual reality photos and videos. Their profit margin would be 100% with zero headaches or flakiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:14 PM
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Your comments are spot on. Men and women both live in a world built by men. Ask a woman who hates the patriarchy If a female plumber will ever walk through her door. Ask her if a female will ever repair her roof. Ask her if she's ever seen a woman in a bucket 25 ft in the air Repairing a power line at 2:00 in the morning. My safety security and comfort for the rest of my life is dependent upon strange men. That doesn't bother me but that fact bothers women at their core
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:53 AM
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A conversation between a 40-year-old man and a 40-year-old woman He says I'm richer than you and you're more beautiful than me But 10 years from now I'll be even more richer but you won't be more beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:16 AM
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We don't value things that come easy. We value things that are difficult to achieve. We don't value a woman having a high N count because it's as easy as eating donuts. We value men with a high N count because it's as difficult as becoming rich and successful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:28 PM
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Sex toys are not triggering to men. Men don't go online and write paragraphs about how much they hate sex toys. Women do this regarding porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:56 PM
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Women are very threatened by porn. Because it replaces their soul agency and value to men. Women tell on themselves I have yet to find a behavior a woman engages in that is equally as threatening and offensive to men. I'm waiting for suggestions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:32 PM
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This is an excellent explanation for why women reject empirical evidence. It just doesn't feel right to them so it must be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:28 PM
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A woman who's 21 is not going to be more attractive When she's 30. Will she be thinner? No. Will her skin be tighter? No Will her hips be wider? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:13 PM
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If you challenge a girl to have sex with seven men in one week. She needs to make seven phone calls. To challenge a man to do the same thing. He has to make 30 phone calls
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:36 AM
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The reason why we slut shame women for having a high body count but don't do the same for men is because ease of access. We don't value things that are easy. We value things that are difficult. A woman having a high body count is easy. A man doing the same is not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:32 PM
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A marriage is the only contract one party can change because their feelings have changed. And they can walk away with cash and prizes. Try signing a 60-month BMW lease contract and decide to stop making payments because you don't feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:33 AM
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We shame things that are easy to do. We honor things that are difficult and require skills. A woman who sleeps around is shamed because that is easy for her. A man who sleeps around is quietly admired or overtly high-fived because that is difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:50 PM
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No matter how much we care about our clothes and our environment, all of us are likely to die wearing a reusable hospital gown that ties in the back in a bed that's not ours
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:32 PM
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There's an evolutionary explanation for this. War brides marry a man who goes off to war and dies. She gets the news... she mourns for short amount of time.... and then ends up marrying his best friend or his brother. It's critical to her survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:33 AM
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The very simple explanation for this is we applaud people who do things that are challenging and difficult. We make fun of shame or ignore people who do things that are easy It is difficult for a man to sleep with multiple women It is easy for a woman to sleep with multiple men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:10 PM
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A woman will ovulate only 400 eggs in her lifetime A man creates 1 million sperm in an evening Eggs are valuable. Sperm is cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:11 AM
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Because it's a threat to a woman's primary agency. Her youth, beauty and sexuality. If a man can find that by clicking his mobile phone, she has no value to him. There is nothing a woman can do That is equally as threatening to a man as when he watches p***. Name one you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:06 PM
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Your comment indicates that you probably are difficult. Your sense of entitlement and lack of gratitude is astonishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:26 PM
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Attack my argument. Not my person. Women default to ad hominem attacks and it is boring As a woman tell me what's more important to you receiving sex or attention from a man. You can only pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:44 PM
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Men are attracted to women who are fit, feminine, cooperative and compliant. We want a woman who makes us hard, not our life That's it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:53 PM
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Attention = time to women. Attention is currency in the girl realm. Attention to women is like sex for men. *Men give women attention to get sex *Women give men sex to get attention
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:00 AM
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Women date the way men shop ...... We hate shopping and we shop with intention and quickly and move on Women shop the way men date ... Men will try things on they know won't fit them and take things home. They know they won't keep
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:29 PM
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Attack my argument not the person who made it. What about my point specifically is objectionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:10 PM
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Men judge your attractiveness. Women gaslight other women on their attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:11 PM
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You're thinking is correct. Everyone of your female ancestral relatives who came before you generally made good decisions regarding men they found themselves with alone in a dark room. You are genetically predisposed to listening to your gut
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:11 PM
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Pregnancy is a medical event that potentially is life-ending for the woman and the fetus. This medical condition only happens when a woman allows a man to enter her. This explains why women are very picky about with whom they go into dark rooms and lay down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:08 PM
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Dating for women is dangerous. Dating for men is adventurous. This describes why women are picky and men are indiscriminate regarding romantic partners
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:07 PM
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Because we shame people for doing things that are easy. We don't shame people who do things that are difficult. Women can get sex anywhere. Therefore we shame female promiscuity. Men have difficulty obtaining sex. When they achieve it organically in abundance, we quietly admire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:13 PM
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Because the title stepfather is given to a man by a woman and can be taken away by the same woman because her feelings change. Because responsibility without authority describes a stepfather and also describes slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:47 PM
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Because no man wants to be invited to the end of a party just to clean up the mess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:46 PM
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Men are told to do the right thing. Women are told to do what's right for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:19 PM
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Fit, feminine, cooperative and compliant. That's all I want from a woman. A ship can only have 1 Captain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:45 AM
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Sperm is cheap. Eggs are expensive. Men are disposable. On the Titanic women and children were put on the lifeboats. The men went down with the ship. Men are sent off to war to die. Their brides left at home who are left widowed will marry his best friend or his brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:20 PM
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Ask a woman what's more important to her Attention Or Sex You'll be surprised that their answer will always be attention. Attention is oxygen to women. Attention is cocaine to women. It's critical to their survival
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:09 PM
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Women don't date backwards. Men need to realize they will be compared and contrasted against the last boyfriend a woman has. Hypergamy is a one-way escalator up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:26 PM
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Is it true that Kevin was cuming and going at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:25 PM
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Your future financial comfort and the house in which you live will be greatly determined, by the man you choose to commit to.. The opposite is not true for men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:04 AM
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I completely agree. It's another example of women objectifying themselves. That behavior is sexualizing and objectifying women with other women. Men don't have to objectify women. They do a fine job themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:13 AM
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I have yet to find an activity women engage in that is as viscerally unpleasant and objectionable to men as men's use of porn is to women. Please someone tell me what it is because I can't find it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:31 PM
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Women hate porn because it takes away their primary agency from getting a man's attention...His Sexual release. Men trade attention for sex Women trade sex for attention
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:24 PM
1

Hhh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:11 PM
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Women just are. Men have to become. The quickest way to offend a woman is to ask her to describe her qualities that a man would find attractive. She's offended by the premise of the question. But fundamentally she's offended because she's never asked herself that question because she's never had to. Her truthful and fundamentally lazy answer to the question..."Me" A woman's Instagram account where she just posts photos of her not speaking and wearing attractive clothes. A woman has never posted …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:19 PM
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A woman makes most of her decisions based on her feelings. I tell women all the time. You're not going to like me. You're going to like how you feel about yourself when you're with me. Take a marriage contract. It's the only contract One party can change and end because their feelings change. 70% of divorces are initiated by women. Fundamentally because the financial outcome is not punitive to women. On the contrary, it can be quite beneficial. But there's no other legal contract you can end bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:04 PM
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There's a very simple reason why women don't sleep around evolutionarily physically and medically sex has potential negative and deadly consequences for women. Multiple sexual partners for a man has no repercussions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:40 PM
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There's a reason why women are slut shamed and men are not. Finding sex is easy for a woman. Finding sex is difficult for a man. We don't reward people or praise them for engaging an activities that are fundamentally easy. We do admire people who engage in activities that are difficult to achieve success. Women with high N counts who are admired is like admiring a man who eats a an entire pizza in one sitting. Men with high end counts who are admired is like admiring a man who bought Bitcoin at …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:52 PM
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Women possess the two most valuable commodities in the world. Youth and beauty. They can't be faked, they can't be replicated, and there's an expiration date on both
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:25 AM
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Nothing triggers women more than an age gap relationship. It's because they have no reply to men's inherent biological nature. Women date up in every aspect. They do it intentionally. Men date down unintentionally. Age is the primary aspect of this dynamic There's a reason the store is called forever 21 and not forever 41
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:23 PM
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The reason why women hate pornography is because it replaces their sole agency over men....Sexual gratification. Watching porn and masturbating is fundamentally unhealthy for men, and it is a poor substitute for having a relationship with a woman. But it is an alternative. There is no equivalent activity women can engage in that is as equally threatening to a man. I dare women to name one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:08 AM
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Entrepreneur. The real value in a man is how much control he has over his own life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:56 AM
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Fundamentally every woman only wants two things from a man Comfort Desire As a man, we have a great deal of control over whether she's comfortable with us. Comfortable physically sexually intellectually and financially. We have no control over whether she desires us. And it is binary. She desires us or she does not. There is no middle. Women are not attracted and have no desire for 80% of the men they run into on a daily basis. They're only interested in the top 20% of the men that they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:55 AM
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Yes, women have to identify the difference between attraction and arousal Women can be attracted to a man and not aroused by him Men rank women 1 through 10. We will fuck anything five and above. Women give every man they know one of two numbers. A 0 or a 1. Women can be attracted to a zero but they aren't aroused by him. Women never fuck zeros. They only fuck 1s. Women are aroused by 1s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:35 PM
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This is so spot on and so funny. She's hit the wall and is finished with the carousel. Very insightful
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:11 PM
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Yes, I agree. Men and women don't value things that come easy to them. And you're right about gas lighting. Men are guilty of using love to get sex. But women often do the opposite and use sex to get love that that result is same bed, different dreams and disappointment for both
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:31 PM
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Show me an Instagram that has a picture of a woman's diploma by itself. I dare you. I have not seen it and women don't post diplomas. They post pictures of themselves looking attractive. Visual thirst traps. A woman's educational accomplishments are as interesting to men as a man's video game score is to women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:18 PM
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Yes, but if she posts a picture of her graduation it's her in a gown showing her legs. Women, objectify themselves even when they have an educational accomplishment. I don't follow Instagram girls. All of my Instagram contains food trucks and ethnic restaurants
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:10 PM
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A woman's educational and financial accomplishments are of no interest to a man. And candidly they're not something that she promotes. I have never seen a woman post a picture of her diploma or professional sales awards on her Instagram. She posts pictures of her on a bikini in Mexico. Women objectify themselves. Men don't have to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:07 PM
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Women can go to Starbucks trip on a curb and land on a dick. Sex and access to sex is easy to women. Women don't value things that come easy to them. Attention cannot be manufactured. This is why women value attention more than they value sex Fundamentally it's a trade-off. Men will trade attention for sex. Women will trade sex for attention
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:51 PM
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This is completely true. Men rank women 1 through 10. We will do anything five and above. Basically if she's height weight proportional she's five or more. Her face doesn't matter. Her educational accomplishments don't matter. Women rank men but only give them one of two numbers 0 or 1 80% of the men a woman sees on a daily basis are 0s. They will call a 0 to kill a spider, move a piece of furniture, or have them take them for free Sushi. But they will never fuck a 0. Most women's snapchats and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:27 PM
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A woman's accomplishments are of no interest to men they want to attract. No woman posts photos of her diploma or sales awards on her Instagram. She posts photos of her in a bikini on a beach. She objectifies herself. She understands that men are interested in her based on visual beauty, not accomplishments. Beauty has an expiration date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:10 AM
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A woman's economic future is very much dependent upon the economic future of the man she chooses. The opposite is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:07 AM
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I don't ask a fish how to catch a fish. The above was written by a woman and it is worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:43 AM
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I agree Men are the leading cause of threat and danger to women, but men are the leading cause of a woman's electricity being fixed. Roof repaired. Plumbing corrected and heating ventilation air conditioning system working so that they can survive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:48 PM
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Women are indeed afraid of faceless strange men. That's why they don't like walking home alone at night. It's why they Don't like being in strange cities alone or dark garages even publicly. Women are approached by strange men socially and asked for Instagram, Snapchat or phone numbers. Women don't carry mace to spray in the face of a lover or a man. They know they carry mace and tiger claws to protect themselves from strange men. Women have enormous cognitive dissidents because they realize tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:46 PM
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Your roof will never be replaced by a truckload of women When you call a plumber, a woman plumber will never walk through your door When you call 911 a police car with two women will never show up at your house to protect you Women's simultaneously are threatened by strange men, yet rely on them for their future comfort and safety. This is the paradox and it creates resentment. I understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:36 PM
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For the rest of your life, your car will never be fixed or serviced by a woman. A woman plumber will never walk through your door If you pay a roofing company $30,000 to replace your roof, a truckload of women will never appear at your door and do the job. Women fundamentally need men. At the same time. Men are a threat to women. Thus is the paradox and it creates enormous resentment. I understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:34 PM
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Men I don't know are completely important to my future safety and survival. When my plumbing breaks for the rest of my life, a female plumber will never walk through my door. The same is true for women, but I understand the dichotomy. Women are equally afraid of strange men and fundamentally dependent on upon them for survival. This breeds resentment and fear. I get it There is no group or individual for whom I am equally afraid of and dependent upon. This is not true for women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:47 AM
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A woman under the age of 25 has the 2 most valuable commodities in the world.... Youth and beauty. These two cannot be replicated, replaced, manufactured, or faked. The problem is these two commodities have a shelf life and an expiration date. A beautiful 18-year-old woman is given a lottery ticket that decreases in value until she's about 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:08 AM
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A woman's safety, comfort and security is completely dependent upon men she doesn't know. Regardless of her college education, income or station in life, she will rely on strange men to Repair her roof Fix a broken pipe Repair or replace a heating ventilation system Fix her car so she can go to work and make money To be fair as a man, my future safety, comfort, and security is completely dependent upon men as well. But I don't say I don't need men. Women say they don't need men and it's fundamen…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:22 AM
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Porn is a poor replacement to a girlfriend. It is a poor unacceptable alternative. But it is an option. Women are still fundamentally selective and only your interested in the top 20% of men based on their sexual market value.. If a woman's agency is her sexual attraction and attractiveness and it can be replaced by porn, this is a problem. A man's primary agency is protection and provisioning. That cannot be replaced virtually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:50 PM
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The real reason women are threatened by porn is because it is the ultimate competition from their primary agency. Men can replace a girlfriend with porn. Of course it's not healthy or equivalent, but physically the net result is the same. There is not an equivalent behavior that women engage in that is as threatening to men as porn is to women. Porn is an uncomfortable reminder to women that their primary value can be replaced virtually. This is uncomfortable to women and deeply unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:38 PM
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I understand women have conflicting feelings about men. On the one hand. Strange men are the greatest risk to her safety, comfort, and security. But strange men are also inherently and fundamentally critical to her comfort and survival. Strange men are critical to her future safety, comfort and security. For the rest of a woman's Life, regardless of her age, every car repair, roof replacement, plumbing repair, heating and air conditioning repair will be done by a strange man. When the electricit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:56 PM
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We all objectify the others. Women are beauty objects and men are success objects. The problem is 10 years from now a woman will be less beautiful. But 10 years from now a man will likely be richer. It's a fundamentally flawed deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:33 AM
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My answer to that question is. As many as I wanted.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 07:38 AM
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Yes that's exactly what men do. Men's swipe right while they're watching TV and ordering pizza. Women look at every photo and if they find one typo in the description they will swipe left.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 04:18 PM
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This is the most coherent summary of blue pill versus red pill I've ever read. I'm saving this forever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:57 PM
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Yes I agree with you. Men are told: Do what's right (examples.... marry the girl you got pregnant, finish school, get a full-time job, support your family.) But women are told: You do what's right for you girl ( example express hypergamy in all its forms)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:59 PM
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Consensual non-consent. A nice way to say rape fantasy. It is shockingly common.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 11:02 PM
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As men get older they look more like Sean Connery As women get older they also look more like Sean Connery
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 12:58 AM
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You can't determine my SMV. Only by meeting me can you do that. You're dealing with imperfect information. Your feminine imagination is your worst enemy. It is my best friend. You have become older and less attractive in the few days we have been communicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 11:57 AM
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100% of women are interested only in the top 20% of men. That puts women at a significant disadvantage. Those 20% high SMV men have their pick... Proposing ethical non-monogamy and open relationships is reasonable. 100 women are competing for only 20 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 10:13 PM
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Your financial future is completely determined by the man you have married. His financial future is not affected by you whatsoever. 15 years from now you will not be better looking than you are right now. 15 years from now your husband likely will be Richer. Fundamentally this is a bad trade-off for men Man rank women 1 through 10 purely based on looks. We will fuck anything five and above. Women rank men with only two numbers... 0 or 1. 80% of men they meet are given a zero. Only the top 20% of…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 11:47 AM
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Those hot moms getting into Tesla's did not pay for those vehicles. A woman's future is greatly determined by the resources of a man she marries. A man's future is in no way improved by a woman's beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 07:30 PM
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Let's be clear 10 years from now I'm going to be richer. 10 years from now you are not going to be better looking than you are today. Women's value is in beauty. Men's value is in resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:59 PM
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Attack my argument not myself. Tell me why what I said is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:31 PM
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Men age like wine. Women age like milk As a man gets older he looks more like Sean Connery. As a woman gets older she looks more like Sean Connery
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:26 PM
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What is the name of this website where this post is found?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/18 11:30 AM
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here's a link to an article that explains hypergamy in its finest form. Her feelings have changed and her children and husband are going to get some bad news soon https://qz.com/1309785/my-marriage-is-almost-happy-but-passionless-should-i-leave-him/
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 11:20 PM
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Amazing detail excellent suggestions very strategic. 100% perfect
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 11:55 PM
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