srslyitsbad Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-3	Is anyone else getting reminded of their ex narc during the Heard Vs Depp trial? Johnny's not an angel but I don't think he's an abuser. People being abused by narcs will appear to be the abuser at times because they're under so much trauma and psychological stress, it literally makes you crazy. All of his exes said they couldn't see him abusing a woman. She's was charged with assault of batter because she was caught beating her ex wife in public. I def get narc vibes from her. Very controlling and manipulative.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/22 03:28 AM
11	My third grade French teacher hit on me at the gym today Sadly there are a lot of people who reach peak maturity at a young age. We call these people "toxic".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/22 05:12 AM
20	My third grade French teacher hit on me at the gym today There was a group of male teachers who were 30ish at my high school and they would go to graduation parties and try to fuck the girls that just graduated. Students started gossiping about it and how gross it was so most of them ended up relocating to other high schools.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/22 05:07 AM
112	Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂 The sad part is that even if they have a good profile it still means nothing. My ex is a sociopath that used Tinder constantly to cheat on me. He actually has a thoughtful and well-written profile and pics.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/22 12:55 AM
20	Reminder: Please don’t be like this 37 year old woman on a blind date. I have a friend who's 35 and been married since 18. In the last year she's been acting like she's going through some "midlife crisis", dressing waay too young for age and taking tons of vanity selfies, going out without her husband and hanging on guys. It's nuts.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/22 08:03 AM
9	A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior. I'm by no means saying that's "unfair", Ive just never met a man that I could envision doing that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 05:26 AM
8	I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪 Worse, there are men out there that actually enjoy making women fat so she can feel like shit about herself and feel trapped with them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 09:02 AM
116	Strangest icks and dealbreaker? Yea. My ex ate like a child, his favorite food was pizza, of course. I gained 50 lbs. dating him because all we did was sit at home while he ordered takeout (I also had major mental health issues because he was abusive which derailed me from being healthy). I watched his own child go from a healthy weight to obese in a year's span because of the poor eating habits he inherited from him. Not eating health is sign of emotional immaturity.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/22 10:06 PM
3	Men Double Texting This is controlling albeit in a passive aggressive way. Controlling behavior is the biggest red flag I look for, not just in dating but people in general.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/22 04:50 AM
2	Pay Attention To Where His Eyes Land The absolute worst is when the woman he's staring at sees him looking, it's humiliating. Automatic block and delete.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/21 02:29 AM
29	Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen. I think it's self-hatred. They hate themselves so much they're disgusted with the woman for consenting to sex. Or, they know that the sex was bad and left the woman disappointed and instead of working on being a better lover they just move onto the next woman to disappoint.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/11/21 02:07 AM
20	Is the collapse of the middle class producing more LVM? I think that degeneracy is being pushed like never before through the media and pop culture while at the same time we are under the constant exposure of media manipulation. Thanks to technology, people are under constant mind control and the messages being sent are a breeding ground for people becoming unhappy degenerates.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/21 06:33 PM
21	Beware of fuckboys who pretend to be HVM - mistakes I've made and how I dodged a bullet! Yea, narcs tend to idealize the new person they're with, it isn't until the new person shows a flaw or challenges the narc that the narc will turn on you and start the devalue phase. It's very possible their feelings are genuine in the lovebombing phase despite being built on a fake house of cards.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/21 04:27 AM
7	Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls? The sad reality is that if rape and pedophilia were not illegal they would be rampant in our society. The law is the only thing that is stopping most men from this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/21 04:40 AM