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Dude are you kidding me? I didn't give him any advice on how to heal his traumas, literally zero advice on his CPTSD in relation to his childhood (I only said that if he healed his traumas his social and dating life would greatly improve, which is true, I never advised him how to heal). I simply replied to your bullshit "advice" (which you said was reality, but wasn't), where you told him he has no hope of healing or finding anyone ever.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/20 10:40 PM
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Based on what? This guy is no evidence - he has CPTSD, his awkwardness has nothing or very little to do with his virginity or lack of dating his skills. If he can heal his traumas, he can easily find someone.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/20 10:15 PM
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But what you're saying here actually makes zero sense. Why would being a virgin make him ineligible to find a dream girl? Do you believe that most people that have had sex are somehow super seduction gurus that can easily attract anyone? No, they're mostly hardly better at dating than virgins. The majority of people just get lucky or know how to attract a suitable partner for their make-up, they're not grand-masters of seduction. Losing your virginity or dating for a while does not make you a ma…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/20 10:08 PM
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Yeah, Red Pill (RP) mentality can be quite effective in superficial one night stands. To be fair, it's not really RP mentality IMHO, it's more the PUA (pickup) mentality, which doesn't always converge with RP - it's mostly about being open, giving value, being outcome independent, physical escalation, being confident...Basically what I've seen from RP is toxic, but pickup/seduction stuff is good and I wouldn't even count it into RP (stuff like Real Social Dynamics is more PUA IMHO and I wouldn't…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 06:29 PM
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I think it is definitely possible to be in several abusive or generally horrible relationships with narcissistic partners and have shitty parents (especially the female side, the mother) and from there decide all women are evil. You will generally find and often (sadly) be unconsciously attracted and pulled towards the same people, until you work things out in yourself, especially from early childhood. So it's possible to have experience and see women as evil or simply adhere to various forms of…
/r/ExRedPill28/08/20 07:49 PM
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Genuinely smiling and laughing is normal. But some fake their laugh or smile specifically in order to get approval from others — in that case it would truly be unattractive, which is also perhaps what is meant by the original poster and the girl you talked with when you were fourteen.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 10:57 PM
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Lmao
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 10:53 PM
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I honestly want to say that this is probably a joke. The whole pasta was absolutely hilarious to me, I was just imagining this guy trying really hard to suppress a smile to be "alpha" while everyone else was dying laughing at a joke hahahahaa. I doubt anybody is retarded enough to believe this is real (maybe a really tiny minority). Imagine trying to never smile in order to get women into you LOL. The mere thought of it is just too funny.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 05:16 PM
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Try to suppress emotions like that for the long haul and you will become incredibly miserable and depressed, trust me. It is one of the greatest issues that could lead to stark deterioration of mental health - and at that point you won't care about getting women or not. You most likely won't get them at that point anyway – it's way easier to get women if you're in touch with your feelings and can better calibrate and assess the situation through them - manage your feelings through meditation (fe…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/20 10:27 PM
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It sounds and even is absolutely mental, but in a way I can understand it (as I am not immune to this either, but definitely not on that level), it comes from a perspective where women are seen as more than you and thus you need their approval / love. In fact much of RP mentality is based on that perspective - if you're literally tailoring all your reactions to be unnatural in order to attract women then you are literally seeing yourself as less than women. And because of this you then have to o…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/20 10:22 PM
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What would the Buddha think? Simply posing that question shows me you don't really understand what I'm talking about. First of all, looking at others for approval is nonsense, secondly the teachings of The Buddha are related to transcending thought in its entirety. Regarding being an asshole - there is never a need to be an asshole. But you can and should be assertive and stand up for yourself when needed. Letting people walk over you is still being an asshole - just to yourself.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/20 04:45 PM
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Nope, both is necessary. Meditation and action. One without the other is not nearly as powerful. But do whatever works for you mate.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/20 04:38 PM
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You can act like you aren't needy but actually are. That's what Redpillers do. It works to a degree, no doubt, but it's a constant game of lies and deceit you have to be playing with others and yourself. If you heal yourself emotionally and actually realize you don't need women's (or men's if you're a woman or gay) approval, you will be able to remain kind-hearted, yet non-needy. This is a whole different level then. It's like the white-pill mentality, a win-win situation for all. But for this h…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/20 03:14 AM
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Almost everyone is damaged nowadays my friend. We live in a pretty broken society if you haven't noticed and relationships between men and women are a reflection of that. In my experience, the people that are the least damaged and are best suited for relationships are those that understand they are hurt and go on the path of introspection, contemplation and meditation. There are good women out there, you just have to find them. And there is good even in the broken women. We are all broken, just …
/r/ExRedPill01/07/20 03:09 AM
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I have just explained it to you dude - assholes are mostly authentic and non-needy, they don't give a fuck about getting approval from women. That's why they get so many women - because they don't internally need women (or their approval), they don't give a fuck! But you can be nice, caring and loving and still not give a fuck about what other people, especially women in this case, think or feel about you, you can be non-needy and non-clingy and be kind-hearted! But that is admittedly far more r…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/20 02:48 AM
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As I've said above - most nice guys are needy, clingy and not really genuinely kind and loving people. They are love seekers, not love givers. Value seekers, not value givers. Giving love, energy, good vibes is extremely attractive to men and women. Women go for the assholes because the asshole is at least being an authentic asshole, while the nice guys most often cover their anger and neediness with a veneer of "niceness". Try to be your authentic self, that's attractive. But remember to find t…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/20 02:36 AM
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Ok let me explain - what are usually called nice guys are men that are needy and clingy, that are not really kind and nice, they are just acting that way in order to get sex and get laid. Being genuinely nice and loving means also being loving towards yourself. If you love yourself and realize you don't need sex or women to be internally fulfilled, you can love women freely and not be needy or clingy. In fact the only way to be "nice" or rather, to be loving and kind, is to not need the other pe…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/20 02:23 AM
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Yep, a lot of the redpill or mgtow (even incel) types are deeply wounded guys that have been very hurt by certain women (I've been through that phase of anger towards women myself - it is literally what drives people to these communities). Then on the other side, there are radical feminists that have become that way because they have been deeply hurt or betrayed by certain men. We're all just living in a broken society that breeds broken relationships and people. We all need to heal our wounds, …
/r/ExRedPill01/07/20 02:17 AM
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Then great. If you just want a series of superficial relationships (which can never truly fulfill in any significant or long-term manner, but as long as you know that, then it's all good), then make the superficial aspects of yourself better - problem solved. BTW in terms of attracting women, I would most highly recommend something like RSD (Real Social Dynamics). Just check out their YT channel for free content. They are probably the best "healthy" red-pill dating advice (mainly for just sex an…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/20 06:59 PM
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And how I define a high quality woman is based solely on her physical attractiveness. No other factors such as personality, status or anything else are at play in determining her quality. You have to understand that in life there are two people in every relationship and what you give is what you get. So if you judge women primarily based on their physical attractiveness, then prepare to meet only women that themselves only judge men by their physical attractiveness. I don't want to be mean here,…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/20 06:41 PM
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I can completely understand what you mean, it's hard to tell you that without showing you a picture (which I can't do for the sake of their privacy). All I can tell you is these men were not particularly attractive by conventional standards. On the other side, we are mostly all our harshest critics. It's highly likely that if you have low self-esteem you will greatly undervalue not only your general attractiveness as a person, but also your physical attractiveness. I have perused the subreddit r…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/20 05:18 PM
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most men believe if they are charming enough women have to be attracted to them , if women were honest and we're like "listen we only find like 20% of male attractive , the rest of you are not even almost attractive to us you are just unattractive" there would be a less male entitlement The thing is, that's just completely false. You say you like this answer the best out of all, but that's just because it confirms your already preconceived notions and beliefs you came this thread with. I guarant…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/20 01:34 PM
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A few points: 1.OK Cupid is online dating, where looks matter (obviously) far more than in real life. In real life you can talk to a person, feel their vibe, ascertain them in a myriad of other ways. If all you have is a person's picture and a short description, you're going to be far harsher in ascertaining their looks - the picture(s) is pretty much all you can base your attraction on. In real life there are so many more things you can base your attraction on (and I see this in myself when I m…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/20 01:23 PM
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Nobody said looks are completely irrelevant. But there are many other factors than looks and it also depends from person to person on what they find attractive in particular. As a guy, looks in women were always important to me, but there were many super hot women I met that I did not really find that attractive otherwise, and some regularly physically attractive women that were literally insanely attractive to me because of their vibe, personality, commonalities we had, their intelligence, thei…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/20 01:47 AM
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No need mate. I think we just disagree on a number of things but it's alright. All the best.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/20 04:36 PM
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Hypergamy doesn't exist among men. Hypergamy is about partnering with someone of a higher social status which is something than women do. Men may try to obtain the most attractive woman but that's not the same thing. I thought Hypergamy was the same as hypersexuality - my bad. That is what I meant. The reason men are desperate for sex is because they have a higher sex drive than women and women are in higher demand than men. It's why women can pick and choose between her selection of suitors whi…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 08:43 PM
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Yes, there is rampant hypergamy present. It is present among both men and women though. The reason men are more desperate for sex is because men have a different mentality towards sex - they can have sex far more easily without emotions and emotional attachment, whereas for women this is more difficult. Men tend to also have higher sexual drives than women. Modern men are also completely broken in this society. They don't have any confidence, their social skills are lacking and they haven't been…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 01:58 PM
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Of course not all women have easy access to sex. You do realize there are literally a ton of unattractive women right (and not only physically unattractive, they may be a bad person in other ways as well)? The reason women can get laid easier is because in our current society most men are incredibly desperate for sex, far more than women.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 11:57 AM
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Perhaps these are the admins' secondary accounts? Who is to say some of the mods there are not admins on their other accounts?
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