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Your dad probably got dookie stains in his underwear
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:20 PM
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If a federal nationwide ban on the drugs and tools to perform or chemically induce an abortion is passed, as is planned by the current admin, then what? Is that enough to finally say our autonomy is limited? I found it funny when i was in florida recently, pre election, between every commercial saying to vote no on option 4 on the ballot (abortion access in Florida) it was almost always followed by an ad for Viagra for about $.67 a pill. If it’s god’s will for women to have to potentially die ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:43 AM
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Love seeing men tapping into their feminine side wanting to be chased
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:28 PM
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Its really not, i’ve been in the corporate world for almost 5 years and personally know a man at my job that contracts with the government who literally has a sexual assault charge (our whole friend group was completely blindsided by this) and is still employed and cleared. Even with convictions and complaints about a person in the corporate world nowadays is not enough to “ruin” some people’s lives. It may get you an HR training but I have no idea how bad it needs to be to actually ruin someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:55 PM
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Has he considered improving his personality/charisma at all instead of just the exterior factors
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:22 PM
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You have really bad pattern detecting skills if you genuinely can’t identify that’s her with and without makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:22 PM
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You are reducing love to sex and totally ignoring the many other ways love is shown, if you really believe that, why would women give gifts, spend time with men, or do things for them? There are other expressions of love and sex is not always how its shown, nor does everyone want sex frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:33 PM
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Caught a porn sick guy ^
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:34 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:07 PM
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Time is going to pass anyway. Do you want to be in the same position 2 years from now doing nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:50 PM
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If you’re on cocaine, your inhibitions are not the same as a sober, regular level of anxiety man. Also gives a false sense of self confidence to approach people, and other coke heads who are usually in the same boat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:49 PM
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Therapists by how they’re trained and their own ethics are not allowed to tell you what to do blindly as then they assume responsibility if you do something they’ve recommended and it doesn’t go well. You have to be able to make actions for yourself. I’ve been to 4 different therapists/psychiatrists and each have explicitly said that. They are not the people to go to for “i need you to tell me what exactly to do”, more somewhere to go for “hey i’m having this problem and its overwhelming” or “i …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:03 AM
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Sure i can understand that POV, it is very possible to have a male therapist- i used to have one myself, you just have to filter it out. The problem is “finding solutions” isn’t always a possibility for deep seated mental issues. Nor is “let’s talk about it”, but rather how to work thru these things tactfully. I think a lot of men (and even people) blindly assume its just like a “well how does it make you feel” session like in the movies before even going. Most of the time therapists are working…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:36 PM
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Yeah, i suggest therapy in earnest to men pretty frequently in this sub but always get hate bombed for it. I wonder if men take actual insult to women recommending therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:05 PM
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Yeah, it subconsciously adds some kind of fertility desirability to know someone successfully had kids. For women, men dont see it this way but see it more as “oh she doesn’t know how to make good decisions/bad impulse control”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:05 PM
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I honestly thought a lot of the original/older Red Pill concepts for men were really good (mixed with some, SOME MGTOW level stuff)- namely finding a way to GYOW, work on yourself and build a life where you don’t “need” anyone- but will be in a better place if you do meet someone. This can get into a risky blackpill-y territory however and i don’t agree with a lot of that. Especially sentiments like AWALT. I semi agree with some red pill stuff about how-(putting aside trans/NB people for a momen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:15 PM
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There are few women in general who can finish from just PIV. What’s very likely for the woman who can finish from PIV is having sex in a position/partner who is endowed in a way that gives clitoral stimulation while having PIV and they may not realize it. There is the rare- and it is rare . Having frequent PIV does not make it harder for you to finish. Frequent masturbation (with vibrators) can dull sensation a bit more making it more numb but thats an extreme edge case. Having a partner who is …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:20 PM
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i mean have u not seen all the white women who thirst over kpop stars tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:25 PM
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What consequences are “men facing alone” that women don’t also have to deal with?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:34 PM
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Damn its almost like sometimes a couple will want to willingly have a child and BOTH are all in and then once it’s too late to have an abortion the man walks out because it gets real. Not like that has ever happened before. This is a wanted baby that the mother isn’t just going to throw into the system to be fucked over for “adoption”. Which even if, you lot would find a way to complain about the taxes for the decision to so that and the “stress on poor hardworking men who get no breaks” How is …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:31 PM
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My point whether or not they are in a relationship is that men on this sub say all they want is an “average” girl, but their opinion of what is “average” against what actually is average is highly skewed and incorrect, showing a bias for more than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:11 PM
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Yes but the “average” woman nowadays is a size 14, 5’5”, 170lbs-ish. Men do not want the “average” woman because they still view that as too large
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:20 PM
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No you’re projecting your male POV/desires onto what women are receiving. Men care more about getting/having sex. They aren’t are selective about CASUAL sex, therefore women are more likely to be having CASUAL sex, but not dated by these men. Women care more about getting a partner and not as much about “getting laid” or having that selection like men do. So while women have the option of more casual sex but less options for relationships. this isn’t showing that they care more about a SEXUAL pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:45 PM
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Idk Adam Sandler and Seth Rogen have a habit of being put in main character roles that always have a way out of their league gf with plenty of sexual innuendos
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:37 PM
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I highly agree with this. Especially UBI
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:05 PM
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You aren’t either. With an attitude this sour you will never be happy, more or less find someone to put up with such a piss poor attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:18 PM
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Oh man im so sorry a healthy individual is fat to you and you have been brainwashed into believing anyone more than skin and bones is fat! Maybe this will cleanse your poor tortured palette: https://images.app.goo.gl/XeWZV8c8Mfa6GbvG7
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:18 PM
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You’re welcome! Its more of a holdover of y2k heroin chic culture that deems anything above like a size 6 as obese when that’s clearly not the case. Society has a lot of ingrained biases against “fatter” (anything above borderline underweight) people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:25 AM
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You are bitter because you’re placing the idea of sex and relationships on a pedestal and not prioritizing how to improve your life socially to be fulfilled outside of that. I hope you introspect on this, one day you will probably have these things and realize it’s not the end all be all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:20 AM
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A “partner” is not who you need to fulfill your social needs for belonging & fulfillment 100% of the time. Community and family is. Many people live single and happily with a good community and family around them. Relationships and partnerships are merely the icing on the cake, but not the end all be all to socialization. No one is entitled to a relationship without developing a life that can flourish without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:15 AM
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This one is so dead on. I hope more men of this sub reads this reply
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:12 AM
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Plus sized is in regards to the clothing size the model fits in. Usually above a size 12 i believe. Because of fat distribution in women you’d be surprised how normal lots of women look at what men deem “higher sizes”. For example: this model (iskra lawrence) is a size 14 https://images.app.goo.gl/wkCcv8ETeR6vezKa7
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:04 AM
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Low T & porn would be my guess
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:04 PM
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Damn i hope pandering to misogynistic men like this pays off for you one day!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:40 PM
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Yes, this too! I experienced this as well as a young girl and was always confused why wearing shorter shorts in the summer was so controversial. A lot of girls who don’t understand fully internalize it like i did (thinking- “i need to prevent this, this is on me”) and then grow up and realize through deconstructing small things like that how much it is not the young girl’s burden
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:31 PM
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Agree. Its usually negative conditioning from past experiences that reinforces that view. And can be passed down. Most mothers warn their daughters to prevent them from experiencing things they did
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:10 PM
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I agree, i’d much rather lift weights than do yoga personally. Its too quiet and precise. Lifting weights is much less intensive imp
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:15 AM
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Not all women do cardio and yoga, i know lots of gym rats who are pretty built.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:14 AM
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I have done both, working out is way easier once you gather the motivation. Working out & being healthy is simple and much more intuitive, slathering on makeup and chemicals is not so much- but enforced by society nonetheless. I have lost over 50 lbs in a gym but still am not good at makeup and have been doing makeup for over 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:13 AM
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I personally don’t think women who do absolutely no other upkeep besides not being fat and showering would be on anyone’s radar here. They would not be shaven, probably wouldn’t have smooth skin from exfoliating/moisturizing, no painted nails, raggedy looking unkempt hair, potentially bad skin with acne or dryness, unkempt eyebrows and other body hair, and if they’re as low effort as this then they would probably not be dressing well and wouldn’t smell as nice either, just the bare minimum clean…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:11 AM
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Most men are not above 6ft, lmao. I’ve never been with a guy above 6ft and I’m relatively tall (5’6”). My current partner is 5’10ish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:00 PM
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This, they really don’t realize how much work goes into maintaining a decent/average appearance, more or less being attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:58 PM
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I don’t think men who claim this realize how much effort the average woman puts into their appearance to be average, more or less if they’re attractive. I know they don’t because explaining the concept of an “everything shower” and just my basic upkeep to my boyfriend blew his mind, i don’t think most men realize how much time it takes to just maintain our average.. more or less to go above and beyond if we were to go out or want to look good. The men here just say “just don’t be fat” or whateve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:56 PM
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I myself am bisexual and almost exclusively dated women before my current partner, if anything I really like how we can relate on a lot of things with bisexuality i dunno, i personally havent met anyone irl near my age who wouldn’t date a bisexual man besides my mom, most i know actually are. This is my own experience however and hear what you’re saying, i live in a very liberal area however
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:46 AM
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I could list you at least 15 women i know right now not including myself who are dating bisexual men and i’m on the east coast, idk who these people are but most millennials/gen z would see that even as a perk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:20 AM
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I tend to be more combative here as well- but the problem is with that mentality of putting all your negativity on here but not taking it to the outside world is you will likely be giving fuel to someone who doesn’t leave the negativity here and uses that to validate them in the outside world
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:19 AM
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I have no idea what you’re basing this on. If you’re only hanging out with extremely conservative women who are 40+- then yes, they will be more uncomfortable with a bisexual male that falls outside of their desired gender normativity. Most women even in this sub are not extremely conservative, and i haven’t met a woman (that’s like under 35) that is so homophobic that they wouldn’t date a bisexual male
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:12 AM
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The latter part of your statement is the problem i see here- people are unwilling to open their minds outside of their own views here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:10 AM
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That’s fair, lmao. I need to lower my expectations on here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:28 PM
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Goalpost shifting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:24 PM
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See above, lots of my friends are not masculine (software engineers) and do the same. It doesn’t matter to be masculine imo. I brought up the femboy points because men on this sub ironically say “you can only do that if you’re a femboy” now its the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:08 PM
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Idk, a lot of my male friends are “nerdy” software engineers from my company who also do the same and all of them have had girlfriends and no problem with women. Most of the women i have befriended and they all love that they express the feminine side of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:06 PM
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What? Lol. My partner is a bisexual male who likes experimenting with nail polish & makeup and dipping into femininity. I find a man who can embrace that side of themselves very hot, and many others do too. Lots of my friends and women i know irl feel the same. Then again, about a million women on this sub have already said this but the men of this sub have blinders to anything outside of their own biases
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:02 PM
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Also, men are not starved of these affirmations/compliments if you’re someone they don’t deem fuckable. When I was about 50+ lbs heavier I would dole out compliments to men at bars and clubs “i like your hair!” “Oh cute shirt!” Or just “you look nice!” Not even necessarily to hit on them, just because I genuinely felt that way and all they would say is “sorry not interested”, “you’re not my type”, most of the time without even a thanks, lol. Magically when i lost weight and had a little bit of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:32 PM
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Idk if you’ve been to any non-rural areas lately, but men are allowed to do these things too. I have friends, and my own boyfriend (who you can’t claim is a femboy or something because he works in construction), all experiment with painting their nails, doing their hair, different clothing styles, and even makeup! Men can use these things too, only yourself and internalized patriarchal views are holding yourself back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:23 PM
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You’re literally commenting on a thread about a marriage prenup, why comment if you pick yourself? I don’t believe in sitting around and gaining weight & doing nothing but i don’t believe in marrying someone and having the expectation they won’t gain weight or will stay a certain way physically
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:46 PM
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Lol, hope someone picks you soon then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:41 PM
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You’re laying out a .01% scenario that The man is the primary care taker (16%) https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2014/06/05/growing-number-of-dads-home-with-the-kids/ - even noted here most of those fathers are SAHD because they can’t find work Said primary care taker has a rare issue where the school can’t sort out their call list order. You’re not laying this out in good faith or as a majority phenomenon that this is always the reason why women are the primary default parent. You’re la…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:40 PM
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Would you want to be married to someone who would divorce you for gaining weight? Seems superficial if you’d seperate for that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:31 PM
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Ok? That doesn’t seem like the fault of the anyone here, that’s a whole other topic & situation. Wonder why there’s such an implicit bias tho… hm… whyever could that be..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:53 PM
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Good for you guys, now why don’t you redirect the energy to the guy saying women are doing nothing? Use your knee jerk reaction to defend men for something useful
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:51 PM
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a WEIGHT clause?! what if she has some sort of health crisis or an injury and can’t maintain weight? Is your love that superficial
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:47 PM
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Lemme guess, you baby sat a younger sibling/niece for a few hours and then handed all the responsibility back off to their parents
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:42 PM
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Idk what babies you’ve been around but they do not sleep peacefully (and im assuming you think they conveniently sleep all day while mom is around) 12 hours consecutively. Usually more like 30mins-maybe a few hours at a time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:40 PM
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Have you ever been in a house with kids and even possibly pets on top of it? Kids and pets are messy, sticky, and dirty. And tend to not care if they mess up what you cleaned yesterday or what they track in on their shoes/paws. Also uncoordinated, dropping and spilling things all the time. Especially if your child has allergies, you need to keep things dust and mold free (usually dusting frequently) so your child can breathe and not be miserable. You can’t just clean once a week like you can get…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:39 PM
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Exactly, they’re not understanding a traditional woman needs a traditional man just like this. It seems a lot of men here want women to uphold their end but not theirs, or even still want women to continue working and them not contribute at all and still uphold traditional values
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:35 PM
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Do you really think schools call dad first to get a sick/injured child when mom is around? Is dad the one taking time off work to take the kids to the doctors? Does he pick them up from school & take them home in the middle of his day at 3pm or making sure they made it in off the bus? Is he the one calling out & staying home for each cold/flu? Is the kid immediately calling dad rather than mom about his sister bullying him or taking his stuff? Is he taking the child also to any extracurriculars …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:11 PM
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Ok, I’ll gladly trade you your easy 60 hours a week out of the home sitting at a desk for a 97hr/week 24/7 oncall job. https://www.forbes.com/sites/jennagoudreau/2011/05/02/why-stay-at-home-moms-should-earn-a-115000-salary/?sh=ba41f8775f40
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:09 PM
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Exactly. Even if its not overtly said as a “rule” growing up, it’s still usually indirectly enforced somehow anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:35 AM
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Most autistic and other neurodivergent women are really good at masking from a young age. There are a lot of societal expectations enforced on women from a young age that just aren’t placed on men. Being rambunctious & bouncing off the walls as a little boy? Oh, boys will be boys… A girl who doesn’t want to wear a dress, bouncing off the walls, getting dirty, etc… That’s not allowed. You should be playing quietly with dolls and being seen and not heard. Don’t be too rambunctious or too much of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:53 AM
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Its not a sin but i think these men are too stupid to figure out they’re being played most of the time. But, not my problem, he’ll figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:06 AM
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Literally all of your responses are generalizations about american/westernized women, but ofc the second someone makes an (ironic may i add) generalization about passport bros, you call it out. Seems like prejudiced/bias view point to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:04 AM
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The problem with your assumptions in the bullet points is you continuously conflate women having access to sexual partners with male romantic loneliness. They are not the same thing, sexual availability is one thing, and both men and women (arguably easier) have pretty decent access to casual/non romantic sex. Finding a partner/someone to date romantically is a totally different story. Men seem to prioritize access to sex, women prioritize access to a romantic partner. Men conflate this sexual e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:26 PM
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I have, lol. Just go to a local grocery store or target. Full of decent looking fit women with husbands with a beer belly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:32 PM
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I agree! Got my first reddit cares from this post 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:32 PM
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Yeah, most men do. Most men are also not on reddit and go outside and have a better circle to meet women or go out to bars, etc. reddit is like 10%-20% of people and men so the stuff echoed here is minority. And even guys i know irl who do go on reddit get laid too & regularly even if not what i would consider attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:30 PM
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Thanks for the OG one, i was very curious how it would go the other way aroun
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:37 AM
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I agree, but i wanted to see the reactions the other way around. A lot more angry imo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:36 AM
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Not an exact duplicate, but purposefully. Looking at something
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:33 PM
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It looks a lot more like drag makeup without the ringlights and perfect positioning/angles. Source: have friends who really do a lot of makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:48 PM
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I genuinely don’t understand why men don’t understand that with evolution/humans becoming taller and more sedentary with automation that inevitably we will also be heavier as well. The 1960s standard of being 5’2 and 100-110 lbs just isn’t how things are in 2020s. It’s more a norm for women to be 5’6 and 150 lbs today but yet men hear anything above 120 and are like “FAT!! FAT!! OBESE!! GROSS!! LACK OF WILLPOWER!! LACK OF HEALTH!! WOMEN SHOULD BE NO MORE THAN 120!! THIS COUNTRY HAS GONE TO SHIT!…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:55 PM
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Agree. It also seems like he just sees these hot women as conquests or status boosters with the quick relationships but its making him look worse and gross to many
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:08 PM
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Idk, Pete Davidson has slept with lots of hot women and I thought he was cute before knowing about all of that, now I think he’s slimy and doesn’t have impulse control
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:46 PM
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You’re sincerely looking at way too many facetuned/photoshopped IG models/women with tummy tucks if you truly believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:16 AM
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Honestly, and I really am not trying to offend people here (granted this is assuming the guy has a SAHM/mom who is around a lot)- mothers nowadays are really coddling and enabling their sons a lot more than their daughters. Idk if it’s a weird emotional incest thing, but there’s very few guys i know who don’t have a mom who sees them as “mommy’s perfect angel who can do no wrong” and men with mothers like this are coddled and entitled, they never had to learn to cook/clean/take care of themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:44 AM
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Yeah thats true. My perma-thin polish aunt who smoked all her life is paying for that hard with stage 4 small cell lung cancer now tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:35 PM
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So supported by statistics that means ALL American men are all superficial balding stacy simps. And obese. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:29 PM
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I don’t see a difference, Americans don’t have 1 unifying culture either. Many of us are immigrants/1st gen here too with different upbringings, cultures, religions, etc but fall under the umbrella of Americans, you can’t generalize a gender of people under any country.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:19 AM
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Again circling to my point that its generalizing western women as all an insufferable, liberated, loud, etc bunch (or whatever reason). Just like eastern women, each woman is different and all behave and want different things. Stop speaking about them as a monolith as if we are all a collective who decide how to simultaneously treat men and all do the same thing. I don’t get why men think going to a foreign country where you don’t know the language, customs, family dynamics, and culture is going…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:15 AM
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I hear you about making the time and that is an important factor, but I’m moreso talking about how a woman’s body changes after childbirth and isnt the same as pre pregnancy. You wouldn’t understand that as you didn’t carry your children. Skin stretching, pelvis widening, hormonal changes, brain chemistry changes, heightened dietary and nutritional needs for a dependent baby. Yes, “weight” can be lost if you plug away at the gym, but for many women post pregnancy you can’t just simply have the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:59 AM
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No- I’m trying to call out a hypocrisy of how men generalize American women yet glorify/idealize non American women because of negative bias
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:15 AM
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I have, and I appreciate the positive sentiment, i have continued to do well from there- but I’m also in my 20s and not a mom. I am not “against”weight loss and do believe people should try to be their healthiest self. My problem is with the stigma that moms in particular need to maintain a thinness (mainly imposed by men) after bringing a child into the world. Most women will not get back to their pre pregnancy body, ever, more or less soon after a child. Bringing life into this world has a per…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:57 PM
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Yes, a professional fitness coach whose livelihood/work life is based around fitness and working out is totally similar to the average woman who definitely has time to work out to the extents a fitness coach does
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:47 PM
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So a woman using a man in a foreign country is treating them with better respect than an American woman doing it, why is it any different then 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:39 PM
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They literally are lol. You don’t stop owning your kids once they’re 18. If you’re not an abusive parent who kicks out your kid right when they’re legally an adult, your kids will most likely need you or want your help much into their 20s and 30s. Tending to a house and children (especially in the context of being a SAHM) is equivalent to 2.5 jobs, 14 hr workdays/98 hr workweeks (https://www.thehealthyjournal.com/faq/how-many-jobs-is-equivalent-to-a-stay-at-home-mom ). How old are these women in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:37 PM
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How is a woman who is presumably raising children, tending to a house, cooking/cleaning, tending to a man, probably working, and all the odds and ends in between supposed to have time for the amount of effort required to battle natural aging for a physique that is not natural for their age? You would have to live in the gym, have a personal trainer, have an extremely clean diet, probably plastic surgery, and the money/time to be able to do all of that. Literally only hollywood actresses/models/h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:46 PM
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How would I know he’s chronically single from just seeing him eat alone at Applebees? I actually find people who take joy in alone time stronger in their sense of self/independent in a good way, not really a negative. I see codependency as a negative. But regardless, I wouldn’t care, i would honestly just assume he was hungry and wanted to eat. Beyond that since he’s a stranger, i don’t really care or wouldn’t have any thoughts. Tbh in this hypothetical, by the time I would learn he was/is chron…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:25 PM
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I get where they are coming from, i just have a problem with stereotyping foreign and American women. I have foreign relatives and friends and they’re arguably less traditional and more feminist than even I am. I find it frightening how generalized and almost infantilized foreign women are (all they know is how to tend to men and be a good housewife), but I guess when & if they attempt to find a feminine and submissive foreign woman they’ll learn themselves. I don’t get why these men don’t join …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:19 PM
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The TLDR is men think American woman are too entitled, fat, opinionated, privileged to them and want to steal their (probably negligible) money. American men believe foreign women are much more likely to be virgins, have traditional values (she stays at home and caters to him/bores children), be feminine in appearance, be feminine in attitude (which somehow means being a doormat to men, never expressing your thoughts or opinions “out of turn”), but most importantly (and reiterated about 1,000x i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:05 PM
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Exactly lmao. Men just don’t like that we are not completely under their power anymore and have to do what they want because of extreme power imbalance, and shocker, we actually have thoughts and opinions and can express them freely without fear of “speaking out of turn” from our fathers/husbands like in the past and not merely a pretty, soft cum vessel/maid/personal manager.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:55 PM
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This is literally the point some of us are making- we know the women abroad aren’t stupid and are getting something out of dating westerners in some way or another. It seems like the western men are too retarded to realize they aren’t just submissive perfect trad women but probably using the man in one way or another
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:51 PM
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how is that relevant? Assuming marrying young (21-25ish) and also assuming having children and living life as a normal person (working, not living in the gym or as a professional athlete), it’s not common for anyone- male or female- to fit in the same size at 36-40s as they did in their early 20s. American or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:33 PM
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It’s not even a western man vs woman debate, its pitting western women against eastern women every time. Don’t understand why women are supposed to be “better” than men at this. Especially when so many men on here argue to hold women to the same standard as men in so many instances, but it seemingly never goes in the opposite direction
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:29 PM
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Then why is it okay or seemingly so common for men here to make blanket statements about western/American women if its not ok to make them about overseas women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:36 PM
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Right?! They would explode if they knew my grandma in the 50s was a divorced gasp woman managjng a post office and still raising my mom, with little to no help from my grandpa
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:49 AM
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I work in a male dominated field and hang out with coworkers semi frequently. I’ve had this happen before, and just politely would say thanks but I am with my boyfriend and not interested. I do find it flattering when something like that happens. I’m happy in my relationship and wouldn’t leave or cheat for someone like that. However I have had one try to just grope me at a bar setting and I wasn’t so kind to him, the coworker group doesn’t associate much with him after that. For your less overt …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:43 AM
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I did for a while and when i fall into extreme self doubt/insecurity those pressures come back. But i stopped feeling those pressures/cares and started worrying about myself because people will like who they like and if they dont like me, I don’t really care anymore. Having the independence to feel that way is the most beautiful thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:06 PM
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I am not on BC currently for my health as it negatively impacted my liver along with a pre existing condition, but do want to answer for past me: !! -TMI ahead- !! I have tried almost all forms (minus the patch and copper IUD) as well. I initially got on BC (pill form) around 14/15 for irregular periods and heavy menstrual flow. Started getting ice pick migraines and had to stop. Was single & not sexually active. Tried again for same reason around 17 with a different pill, had negative impact, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:51 PM
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Barely double digits, idk i wasn’t huge on sleeping around, it was usually with men who convinced me they wanted a relationship. Some was for fun. I knew lots of men in the triple digits , most women i knew in the double digits
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:33 PM
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-Lasted through most of college, and in the beginning of my first “big girl job” as all the people i work with party. -mainly whoever i was around. For about the first year of college it was letting loose and being independent, away from home. Doing all the shit I couldn’t do in high school since i had parents around. -no. They complement each other, but one does not always mean the other. -for a while, it jaded me about relationships. I always wanted a relationship but I was naive and kept beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:52 AM
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So they’ll have sex with someone who is ugly and mean? Interesting. Would like to meet those people 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:54 AM
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Sure. But if your ugly and nice that’s better than being an ugly bitter douchebag
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:30 PM
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I really think most dont have sex with strangers because of STD risk, violence risk, and also its just high risk and low reward. Hooking up with a stranger doesn’t mean you will cum or even be sexually satisfied (takes a lot more than just penetrating most of the time) But i don’t agree with leveraging risk of pregnancy for free stuff or whatever it can be used for, however in a sexual context it makes sense and is valid. I wouldn’t want to be knocked up by a random stranger, therefore i’m not g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:51 PM
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If they’re extremely uncomfortable around women (body language, actual language) its obvious they don’t talk or hang out with women much. More or less “get” them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:30 PM
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If the dick is big and they don’t know how to use it it actually is more painful/unpleasant than someone less endowed but knows how to use it effectively. Jack hammering a woman won’t make her cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:14 PM
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You can also contract throat cancer from getting HPV from oral, which about 90% of americans have. So i’m not shocked people don’t wAnt to give oral to an unvetted stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:13 PM
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I don’t get what you’re arguing here. Are you saying because BC is highly effective & they’ve potentially had hookups in the past they should always want that and always want sex from strangers? I think bias is coming into play that you think you would like that (assuming you’re a “normie” who doesn’t get regularly laid), but you’re projecting how you feel onto an entire gender
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:11 PM
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It really doesn’t matter if you’re being safe and not contracting diseases. If you have a child from it, that is obviously a different situation. If anything it helps to figure out what you actually like, man and woman alike. Having sex doesn’t “change” you, especially not physically. My personal belief is that if it affects you that deeply and makes you ruminate, you’re self conscious/have low self esteem you won’t be able to please her. Non virgins can (and will) tell you exactly what they lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:04 PM
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What about what i said is controversial by any means? Don’t be an asshole, regardless of how “attractive” you are. But especially if you believe you’re “ugly”, being a douche won’t help
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:01 PM
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Then you aren’t sexually compatible. Most women i know aren’t interested in “starfishing” either, most are more like “switches”, but there is a niche type of woman who likes to bottom/pillow princess like that exclusively, who do well for someone who exclusively likes to top. If that’s not you and you are with one, it obviously won’t work. But i wouldn’t just assume every woman is like that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:59 PM
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You really don’t have to go to Philippines for that but gl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:53 PM
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Unfortunately women are systematically oppressed, those who complain about it are just aware and frustrated. You want a pick me or a daft idiot who has no interest in being treated equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:53 PM
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Yeah, my brother’s friend had one of those. He beat the shit out of her the second she wanted to experience more than wanting to be a bangmaid for him. She was so scared of him killing her that she stayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:44 PM
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Why do you so badly not want to give woman anything but also want a dependable submissive woman? Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:43 PM
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If you guys are so big on monkey branching theory, why in the hell would you want someone who will absolutely use you for a green card and your money and then leave you for someone she actually loves? Women coming out of poverty will see an opportunity like that and use you. Femininism is not the problem, you are chasing women that don’t align with your beliefs. If you want a conservative woman, you have to find conservative places to find them. You won’t find them on tinder or really any OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:42 PM
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Yeah because they’re getting paid for it, lol. They won’t get hired if they don’t put on a show
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:34 PM
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So fat women don’t deserve to have standards? Why are fat men allowed them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:33 PM
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So you want us to go back to the age of burning women at the stake for even being accused of infidelity? I think you all are collectively seething about slowly losing your power over us 🤭🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:28 PM
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You think being ugly and also then being a douche to women is going to increase your chances here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:20 PM
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So sorry you haven’t found ur perfect submissive bang maid yet 🥺 maybe AI could help
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:18 PM
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Yeah, so crazy to post a sweeping generalization of a gender, huh? Who would ever do that? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:15 PM
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Yeah, so sad men Are in their own lil world believing an ideology that was inherited from a matrix movie 🥺🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:14 PM
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That’s literally what people are arguing in the comments lmao…. Why have an n count debate at all if you truly don’t care?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:12 PM
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Usually those love at first sight tropes are more about lust at first sight because the person is generally conventionally attractive. Love takes longer to set in
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:39 PM
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Ok, gotcha. My Apologies. I have trouble picking up on the sarcastic ones on this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:30 PM
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Then why did you comment that? Why does it only apply to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:09 PM
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Haha sorry, didnt mean to jumpscare, but it was too good not to add!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:08 PM
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None of them replying to this one 😂☕️ well put
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:25 PM
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To them yes, because they like to seethe that women have other sexual partners than them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:21 PM
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Let’s not forget everyone’s perfect vision of a submissive Muslim/Japanese girl are doing the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:19 PM
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He’s probably fingered a couple buttholes too, and much less likely to wash his hands. Think about that next time your buddy hands you something
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:15 PM
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Why should anyone believe you then? I bet you’re a NEET with no job
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:31 PM
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Only until we were exclusive, which was like, the third date so not very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:42 AM
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You asked me two questions and I replied to them. Sorry a simple answer is so confusing, hope you put that degree to work for basic sentence comprehension 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:09 AM
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Lmao, yes I am. And yes I am. I worked hard and partied hard. It’s do-able. Not sure why my POV would be irrelevant otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:02 PM
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All of your comments are spot on dude. Thanks for making my day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:59 PM
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Im a software engineer and i didnt have to sacrifice partying/dating to do it. Most other ones at my college didn’t sacrifice that either. The ones who didnt party or enjoy themselves straight up didnt want to or had no interest in that scene which is fine. All of us regardless got our degrees and most have a good job with good earnings as well. Most who get into engineering have no interest in partying or hooking up regardless but it’s never not available if thats what you want to do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:40 PM
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Hmmm downvoting sex trafficking? Tracks for this sub 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:16 PM
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I am not arguing i was presenting my experience with what the poster had laid out, you chose to reply to me and make it about something else. Very male trait to think every discussion is an “argument”. I go on this forum mainly because i feel sorry for most of the people on here who are lonely and turn to these insane explanations of how women act (men know everything apparently even about women!) and flat out refuse to listen to the dozens of women on here telling you all its not like that. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:12 PM
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thinking of relationships as purely transactional is just so cringe. Dont even know what hypergamy means and dont wanna know. Im really glad not to be single rn and not dating a guy who believes in any of this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:42 AM
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Its not so much initiating but it seems after you begin seeing each other (and especially if you’ve already had sex) it seems men lose interest if you don’t pull back a bit. Kinda like they really want the chase of it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:31 AM
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As a woman, only aspect i can speak from experience is “lack of enthusiasm/trying to be cool/disinterested” because I have done this too, but its because the enthusiasm and acting really interested makes the man lose interest in you and it gets stamped out of you quickly. I only match enthusiasm now rather than give it my all because i got tired of being ghosted for admitting i was interested or acting excited. Men hate it apparently ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:56 PM
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Don’t have a problem with SW or even men utilizing SW (i think it could be a good thing if used safely and fairly, even). My problem/concern is with (what others have already mentioned) the rising demand of SW creating those who don’t consent to it being used (sex trafficking). And, in addition to this lots of men equate this to our worth and empowerment as a woman, providing sex, which is not what most women want. Ex: men telling average women to “just make an OF”, or thinking every woman wants…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:35 PM
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If you’re so repulsed by them you shouldn’t have sex with women. Or seek help, this thought process of “every little fart is stored in the vagina and its fucking disgusting” is borderline obsessive-compulsive. You don’t see women saying the same thing, likening a man farting to creating a “fart sauna” for their balls and penis
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:30 AM
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That doesnt happen everytime a woman farts lmao. We don’t just suck in farts and store them just to play a lil prank on anyone who dares to go down on us. It happens rarely and its usually when you’re on your period and are clinching things tight (so we don’t bleed too much) so the fart is redirected that way. Also the vagina is not a black hole, it doesnt suck it in it purely rolls up along it if that makes sense. I want to give you the benefit of the doubt and genuinely think you’re taking tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:50 PM
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Also, who would fart in your face during oral? This analogy makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:25 PM
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I do not get why you’re comparing pussy with fart water. Anyone who likes or even respects vagina (or has a basic understanding of biology and understands vagina is not at all connected to the digestive tract) would not call it that or compare it to that. Honestly just say you don’t like vagina and go. Or you havent found a woman you love and respect enough to do things that make her happy and sexually fulfilled. Ie not using her as a cumsleeve for your gross penis. maybe actually try eating pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:23 PM
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The answer would have to be yes considering i have eaten pussy multiple times and enjoyed it. I dont get why if its so “foul” you’d want to stick your penis in there then? Maybe you just dont like vagina at all. Many men get off to how wet their partners are which is just being sexually aroused and making lubrication for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:20 PM
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Your dick and balls are right by your asshole too, and men are far less likely to clean themselves nearly as well. but why don’t you go ahead and suck some dick yourself if its so easy? I have done both multiple times and sucking dick is way harder. Having a penis brushing against your gag reflex is no easy feat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:44 PM
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Then don’t expect enthusiasm or oral back if you aren’t willing to give ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:30 PM
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Most women don’t like giving blowjobs either But men seem to act like its doomsday if they dont get one multiple times a week when they havent gone down on their partner in weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:21 PM
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Definitely give it a shot! I hope it works for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:38 PM
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I challenge the men who keep arguing that women shouldnt be afraid to go out alone anymore to think of their mom, sister, daughter, whoever. Would you tell her to travel alone at night in an area where people are drinking and more rowdy than usual or would you tell her to have a friend with her? If the answer isn’t an unenthusiastic “yes, absolutely nothing would happen if she did & I wouldn’t have a single worry if she did.” Then i think you know subconsciously it isn’t entirely safe to be alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:22 PM
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Oh yes, you know how women are, doing their hair and simultaneously checking the rape/murder against women stats for the neighborhood they’re going to go out at. Oh goodie! Its dropped to 10%! No need to travel in a group anymore guys! Even though Sarah just got groped and assaulted last weekend & is traumatized for life the numbers tell me i have nothing to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:19 PM
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Idk maybe the numbers arent majority on your side but back in college we had a smash club that had lots of women! Do you go to the smash events/festivals? You should try that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:12 PM
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Because the generalizations men make are usually just wrong. Look on just this thread claiming that men are actually way more victimized than women, women have no reason to be afraid but men should be bUt ThEyRe NoT so by proxy women should just quit being afraid. The stats are not on this side. You guys claim we have nothing to worry about but also pride on being the stronger sex and know that men commit more violent crimes and have immense sexual frustration nowadays. Men only claim these stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:09 PM
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i disagree, mainly because if my boyfriend was threatening or using the idea of infidelity to try to “excite” me sexually I would be completely turned off. Might even dump him if thats what he would thinj he needs to do to “keep me interested”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:50 PM
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Ok, point me to just one person you’ve talked to who has. And i could pull up probably 10+ women who’ve had cosmetic procedures in that time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:04 AM
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And the other cosmetic surgeries aren’t expensive and dont have extensive healing times?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:03 AM
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Men don’t simp or give those advantages mentioned to women they deem unattractive (i.e.- wouldnt want to bang her). Men are transactional, they believe “if i give her this nice advantage, she will be more likely to want to be with me”, but if there is no interest in a “transaction” these advantages are not available. Older women as well I’m aware these standards arent real life, I’ve literally seen that number thrown out more than you’d think here. The 1950s norm of women needing to be 120 lbs a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:45 PM
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Have not met a single man IRL or online who genuinely did any of these. At least every woman i know at least has a skin/hair routine and some method they spend time removing hair. Myself included. I know quite a few who have done painful laser hair removal as well. A few who have done some sort of beautifying procedure (boob/nose/fat removal etc). 1 neighbor who had a whole face lift at 40. You might know maybe 1 man whose done any of those, and probably not IRL. they exist, but I would bet a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:40 PM
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This is not a privilege that women who are deemed unattractive or “fat” (apparently on PPD that means you weigh > 120 lbs).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:34 PM
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Just use a spray or cloth instead, doesnt have to take any longer. Food germs festering on the countertop isnt good for you and water wont kill it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:21 PM
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Hes having the same temper tantrum entitled teen boys do when their moms ask them to do something extremely menial like take out the trash or dishes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:14 PM
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Love how men shit on cleanliness standards but dont seem too offended to live with a woman and reap the benefits of her cleaning standards
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:12 PM
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You wipe your countertops with water ? Would love to take a petri dish of all the bacteria and germs accumulating on there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:11 PM
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I live alone, childless, and petless and every day there’s something to do. Try not wiping down your countertops for a few days and see how sticky it gets. Try not cleaning your stove, microwave and bathroom surfaces for a while and see how grody it gets. Mites and bugs and sometimes pests can be attracted if you dont vaccuum and clean up food scraps. Housework absolutely is more than men think because the men here probably grew up with their mothers doing all of it and not having to do it, expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:07 PM
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I would not pick up/clean/cook for a man like a maid mommy for even the hottest man on earth. Its extremely degrading in my opinion. The only situation i would consider it is if i was a SAHM and it was essentially my “job” to do so but personally i’d rather slit my own throat than be someone’s little house maid bitch. I’m worth/can offer so much more than being reduced to picking up after someone who cant be fucked to do it themselves and wants to be treated like a kid forever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:53 PM
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I’m amazed that men don’t understand that women don’t want to be your mommy. Putting aside any arguments about times/salary, if one person is pulling the brunt of the load of housework (excluding stay at home housewives), especially if there’s no children, you are effectively the child. This breeds a lot of resentment and also leads to dead bedroom. No woman wants to sleep with someone who needs her to pick up/cook/clean after him constantly because she will essentially see you as someone who ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:16 PM
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My one piece of advice: spend time with yourself/work on yourself to where you’ve worked thru a lot of your personal issues and problems. Being in a good place mentally is very attractive quality regardless of gender and having your shit together to the point where you would be just fine on your own, but would love someone to be on the ride with you is the optimal place to be. Relationships, sex, or marriage will never fix your deep rooted problems and if you don’t work on them or at least try t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:15 PM
2

Ohhh gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:03 PM
1

MGTOW transgender? Is that a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:26 PM
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Not being taken seriously is the most annoying day to day. I’m a SW engineer and get talked over and basically ignored more frequently than even the newest worker who just started. I’ve been in this for almost 3 years and have gotten 2 promotions so i’m not bad at what i do- i just dont get listened to nearly as much as the men on my team. I have to be twice as assertive and twice as tenacious as men are in my field to stay afloat- but all while still being nice and pleasant because god forbid i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:15 PM
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Probably better if you didn’t.. lmao. U act like making this post is going to either cause a movement for women to stay abstinent and then bow at ur every whim, or for existing virgins to do the same. But it just cements you as a weirdo who will be alone forever instead. Hopefully you change your mind some day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:12 PM
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Judging a book by its cover is dumb So why is it ok to judge a non-virgin woman so harshly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:46 AM
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So you want a fleshlight to cum inside? Spare any woman the disaster of this viewpoint and just buy a fleshlight
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:41 AM
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I guarantee you you wouldn’t be able to tell a virgin from a non-virgin in a lineup. Virginity is a construct made up by men to make them feel like their penises are capable of “changing” a woman. The hymen being broken doesn’t indicate virgin/non virgin either. My hymen was broken riding a bike around 11. Did that make me a non-virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:38 AM
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So u groomed a teenager still in high school (with an undeveloped brain) to marry you (an adult with a fully developed brain, probably working, probably graduated from high school + college)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:35 AM
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so ur argument here is you just want to fuck 18 year old virgins… lol.. good luck with that bud
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:32 AM
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Did you wait until 25? Or did you wait at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:21 AM
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I’ve given number, and it was usually on a night out where the intention was clear they wanted to hook up. no guy on a cold approach asked me out on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:25 PM
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Feelings of worthlessness and any other issues not directly caused by someone else will not improve in a relationship. I can almost guarantee if you spend some time working on yourself, therapy specifically to become internally well life will improve for you. Women are not here to validate you and fix all your problems, the way its pushed that if you don’t have a gf you’re worthless is a bad way to think about things and puts a really heavy expectation on your relationship (nee: her) to cure all…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:54 AM
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And do you truly “care” and about these women you so badly want to approach or are you hoping she’ll open her legs for you if she lets her guard down enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:46 AM
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I would say it’s genuinely hard to meet and approach women IRL without being labelled creepy or thirsty. Really the only way IRL is when inhibitions are low (club/bar/drinking) or a friend introducing you/mutual friend sort of thing. These both are kinda few and far between leaving you with OLD mainly. My only advice I would say is from OLD perspective- this is given you have a match already and have started messaging on there (I don’t have advice on getting matches, just when you already have o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:02 PM
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i read your long list and any adult who is navigating a potential relationship should be able to communicate “im not feeling this anymore” or “im not interested in you romantically” rather than apparently ignore all these negative traits to bust a nut and dip out. I never even specified gender, i dont support women who dont communicate either but we both know theres a gender who does this more frequently. Seems hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:36 PM
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Lots of times the women DOES have feelings for the guy and believed that guy (and probably what the guy told her too) was interested in more than just a hookup, but he did not and really just wanted to get his dick wet. Bad Communication is at fault because there’s many women who are absolutely down with a hookup or fwb situation, but luring someone in by taking them on romantic dates, telling them false intentions will hurt the other party and is completely unfair to lure someone into believing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:52 PM
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So at any point he switches from “i like this person and want to pursue them romantically” and expresses that intention to “wow this person sucks i’m gonna bang n bounce” did the guy ever express the intention to just have sex and leave? Because most of the time men do not communicate this and lead women on to believing they want them for more than just sex, and its ok if that changes, but you also have to communicate that because it’s simply unfair to have an ulterior motive you’re not expressi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:48 PM
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Literally all the men talk about how much they hate sexually available women (high N-count… etc), so why wouldn’t that align with this? do you expect them to open their legs all of a sudden for just you? men on this sub need to be more honest that they’re frustrated about not getting laid not about not having a gf/partner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:21 AM
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Don’t forget be bisexual, bisexual girl 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:41 PM
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So the mindset here is “command a larger paycheck so i dont get stuck with any of the woman work” 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:03 PM
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I have a platelet issue and also an autoimmmune liver disease so i think at minimum its really dangerous for me to have a kid (and the medication that i take is not pregnancy safe) but idk i havent considered it fully at this time and would need lots of assistance from drs too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:02 PM
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Yeah I don’t doubt it gets harder as you get older, I personally don’t have the best insight on this as I most likely cannot physically have kids due to some health issues, but Most of my cousins and many family members i’ve known have had kids up to near their 40s. My mom even had me at 36
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:04 PM
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If you’re intending on dating someone purely for sex for a “few years” (an endpoint) that’s not building a serious relationship. Its a casual and sexual one, which is fine- but its not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:02 PM
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4 years is more time than you would think, especially if someone really wants all those things
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:51 PM
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If they don’t want/have kids then obviously its not a match. The fallacy that you can only have kids until you dry up or something at 30 is not correct as many women can even to 40s. I dont know how my reply pegged you as “upset” but I’m indifferent as I’m 26, in a relationship, and no kids, so none of this is personal to me but it seems to be to you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:50 PM
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This is not a relationship perspective though, clearly this is a “i want someone fun to have sex and not be committed to” perspective. The ask is about dating/serious relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:40 PM
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Most people who want kids probably have them already at that age and its more finding someone who also gets along and meshes with your children and understands
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:38 PM
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I agree that settling isn’t the worst (to some extent, everyone settles on one thing or another) only if you’re happy & mostly fulfilled. lots of the other things that gets discussed are just filler. But if you’re settling and truly deeply unhappy or incompatible settling is no good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:28 PM
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What about women that make more than the man? They have no financial incentive or really any incentive other than enjoying their company and relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:36 PM
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I mean just as an example I saw TODAY on twitter unfolded of how even men who proclaim they would never hurt someone did, this one scares me a lot personally as this guy was someone the girls said they trusted and saw as a really nice, good guy. He is on bail rn after being arrested. Never let your guard down for anyone his tweets before assaulting his roommates the roommates tweets shortly after
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:54 AM
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Tbh i’ve heard this too and watched breakdowns of the video showing how the slap and aftermath of slap seemed extremely disingenuous. Plus chris rock + will smith’s families being extremely close (Rock is Jaden’s god father)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:42 PM
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Am bisexual, currently dating a man but previously have dated a few women, and been on quite a few “dates” as well. Its tough for sure!! Its near impossible outside of OLD or if you go to a lesbian bar. I think your location as well has a big play on this, for me (close to DC) there were lots of “options” but women usually like to talk a lot first (unlike men who like to meet up pretty quickly) and this talking before going on a date phase is usually where 99% of potential relationships fizzle o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:39 PM
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It seems like the same could be said about men with unrealistic dating standards, notably RP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:51 PM
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Tinder. I’m F26, i met him at 24. He is M25 now, was 23 when we met
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:19 AM
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Situationally i’d feel ok cause im on a very good birth control, but if birth control is unavailable and abortions also arent then yes i would not want to have casual sex with the looming fear of unwanted pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:31 AM
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Tbh this probably keeps things a little more fresh and spicy than the average monogamous couple
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:10 PM
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Im not even a guy but i have guy friends who very openly talk about this with their buddies lmao. Mainly cause men want someone they can brag about and will need their buddies to hype them up a bit if they’re considering dating someone not so hot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:59 PM
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Here’s one: I love banging my dependable SO -woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:49 PM
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Have you looked at men’s posts on deadbedrooms or relationships or relationship_advice on here? Lmao its full of men saying they’re not actually attracted to their gf or they’re not “their type” but love other aspects about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:41 PM
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Also looks will eventually fade to some extent if you’re in a long enough relationship. Gotta have something else other than looks keeping you together when the hair gets thinner, face wrinkles, weight potentially comes on, and health issues come about I agree with what you said above. The relationship probably won’t work if its purely sexual in a long term way. Sure, short term can be fun, and also sex can be important to keep an LTR going- but for MOST it’s not everything and with all the thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:49 PM
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I agree, if sex is the core of the relationship you need someone on par with that. (Both high libido). It exists but i think some transparency of “sex is very important to me in a relationship” helps too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:46 PM
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I do think this comes down to a person to person basis tho. A male with a high libido will not have an easy sexual relationship with a woman with low libido and vice versa (and any other combination). But also there are couples who are asexual as well on both ends and that works if both are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:45 PM
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Yeah, i don’t disagree. I also think especially with kids tho some weight/hormonal/life changes are to be expected and just need to be prepared for. Other things come down to bad communication and tbh with weight that is a hard one to broach but being able to be open and also not a complete asshole about it will probably help get the issue on the right track
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:42 PM
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Yeah, lots of times theres also libido issues there that could def be worked thru if both put effort into it. But sometimes people are not sexually compatible and need to think of other solutions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:10 PM
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Honestly if you’re not sexually attracted to your partner to some extent the relationship is probably going to have issues in the long run. May go thru life-related dry spells and slowing down but always having that attraction will bring you back
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:49 PM
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A lot of these are mostly out of context from either prompted Q4W or part of discussions where women keep trying to emphasize they’re not only dating chad. No woman is unprompted just saying that shit about their SO. Also, all of these are mostly physical characteristics. Most people/the average person do not get in an LTR with a 10/10 so theres bound to be something less physically attractive about them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:23 PM
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Tinder and i made the first move/message, he kinda got the ball rolling better in that direction though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:31 AM
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I agree with this but from a different physiological/mating standpoint: Women have a finite number of eggs to potentially create a life, men have infinite sperm to create life. With a finite breeding resource biologically you’re more selective with who you potentially mate with, with an infinite breeding resource you’re not as selective nor need to be
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:13 AM
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I quite literally have no idea what hypergamy is but if its punching up thats not always true. My friend and i are both college educated with full time jobs in career, both of our bfs are not college educated and work a job that is hourly just as an example that we didn’t seek someone out for a good career. If you’re looking to be a SAHM or have nothing going for yourself, i can see that being more important. Jobs/career really arent a factor if you like someone. But what im trying to point out …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:49 PM
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As opposed to what? Pretend to be someone else and attempt to hold up the facade if you actually manage to get her to like you and hope the lies dont crumble?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:46 PM
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Lol, how is that IDGAF attitude working for you? Got a loving victorias secret model gf you’re going home to? Or browsing reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:45 PM
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I don’t think you understand at all actually. Im talking about advocating for myself in an area that men I have personally witnessed never have had to. My male coworker who makes 10k more than me did not have to advocate for himself for that pay. He was hired around the same time as me, had a lower GPA, and less experience. How is that a socialization issue and not a plain unfairness issue? If that was happening to a man, men would be up in arms about women taking your money away, making life ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:42 PM
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Lol. Ok neet. Hope mommy’s tendies are good tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:31 PM
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I do work in tech, I’m a software engineer and work only with men (there are no women in my project) so there’s a lot of passing over and talking over. To further this I work with a lot of older men close to retirement so it’s even harder to feel respected sometimes. Im generally a pretty dominant person, but sometimes my confidence waivers even when i am correct being kind of talked down to sometimes. Constant advocating for yourself and being authoritative on top of a pretty stressful job real…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:29 PM
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Seems like heavy projecting to not believe me, and since you’re not saying what you do im inclined to believe nothing. Even if i only had an art degree or a janitorial job i’m guessing that would have been more than you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:23 PM
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No, if anything there’s many studies that show women are way harder/rank themselves a lot lower than they are. example. Women have a very bad relationship with self image due to high societal expectations (and yes, things men/women/family have said to them) and usually are harsher on ranking other women as well (i would say friends are an exception, but most women are pretty honest with their friends and can be mean). dysmorphia, eating disorders, low self esteem, the like. Men don’t have that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:55 PM
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Thanks for your projecting! I knew that’s what you assumed I have a BS in computer science (with honors) and work as a software engineer. I also do consulting on the side. What degree do you have? What’s your job alpha male? sorry to hear you’re still a sad, pathetic NEET 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:44 PM
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I would, at least in my field of work it would be really nice. I found out recently my male coworker is making 10k more than me at the same job title (which I thought pay disparities myself was always bullshit but that bit me back too.) that i’ll have to advocate and go through hell just to be paid the same. also generally don’t like that men will always take other man’s word way higher than a woman’s, i genuinely would love that privilege in work and just in the ability to be believed as an int…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:41 PM
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I found this other one that illustrates more what you said here In regards at least to online dating. And while you may be correct about the ranking, it does show the messaging habits in regards to attractiveness. I think that shows a pretty significant inhibiting factor. If men are only willing to message the top highest attractive women and not engage with average women, that’s kind of on them for a high and unrealistic expectation and not expanding your market/possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:08 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:57 PM
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Also you know nothing of my dishonesty or intelligence, I’m college educated, employed at a fortune 100 company, and in a LTR. Can you say the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:56 PM
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So that means no source, got it. 👍😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:54 PM
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Im average and most people are, i think the issue is average males of TRP try punching way above average and usually get shot down. Im not saying dont go for it, but shooting for a 10/10 while being a 5/10 is unrealistic and even women know that. Its been shown men rank average women a lot lower than average and dont have a good understanding of what average truly is, and think people who are actually above average, are average and have a smaller threshold of what’s attractive. x I would also sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:53 PM
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Okay, link me then. I’d love to see a scientific, peer reviewed study about how every woman behaves and what every woman wants. I’m amazed every news outlet hasn’t covered this, why has TRP kept this ground breaking research sheltered from the world? Probably keeping it along with all the covid is a hoax scientific studies as well! Definitely didn’t see that when i got my bachelor’s!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:09 PM
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Some of my replies to other comments here has more, but one thing that women keep telling RPers again & again is that most women do not want to date a “chad” male. RPers simply won’t believe the countless women who tell them this, are even in relationships (like me) with men who are not chads. And i think a lot of the analogies ive seen about women “branch swinging” i have never seen in reality. I have tons of female friends and i have not known one to leave a guy just because another was making…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:07 PM
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Exactly! Its just an echo chamber where they wont believe an actual human women telling them they’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:56 PM
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And the fact that they are still on there means its not working, or they would be happy enough to not have to troll on a forum about self improvement or nailing women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:54 PM
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I think you’re overgeneralizing, most normal human women do not want a man who ascribes to any of this red pill stuff. All of my friends (4/5 different women), and myself included, are dating “nice guys” because they treat us like regular people and not like we’re trying to screw them over at every turn, or that women are some vile demons who you need to follow some kind of spell to summon and keep. While i agree everyone should self improve and be self reliant, a lot of the shit spewed by red p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:53 PM
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What statistical data? The ones from men who are also single and theorizing about how women want to be treated? Women are not some complex enigma, just want to be treated like a human being. If you act all weird and like you’re following a weird set of rules or guidelines, people are going to pick up on that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:49 PM
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The replies of all TRP men saying its simply a place to share “female nature” even though countless women have said all the shit the men have concocted & believe about women is just not true, they won’t believe lol. So i think that theory is bullshit based on not even allowed critique by the gender their theories are about Its still amazing to me that men think they understand how women work more than a woman does who even would honestly try to help you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:00 PM
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I don’t think it was, it’s a similar instance of people being genuinely surprised a female character showed facial hair. All women do is what I’m getting at, they just remove it or eventually laser it off. black women have peach fuzz too another, and if you have darker phenotype you’re likely to have darker facial hair too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:12 PM
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??? Incorrect? This feels like the damn Alloy thing all over again. It quite literally is a fact of life. Males and females have the same hair, females just usually grow hair lighter and softer and usually remove it all because of societal expectations. We are both human. Since you don’t believe me, here is a close up of Kate Winslet, Zooey Deschanel and Emma Watson who all also have facial hair. Emma watson even has an article talking about her facial hair removal/bleaching They call it “peach …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:58 PM
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Yeah i get that, most do remove it as well. but everyone has hair on their face. Women’s is usually soft, unnoticeable and extremely light (to the point of being invisible if you aren’t looking closely)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:36 PM
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Sorry to break it to you but all women have facial hair if you look close enough. Most just don’t have dark facial hair, which if you are more interested in darker hair/darker complexion ladies, the chance of darker facial hair is much higher
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:56 AM
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Yes, the same way apparently the actions of a few women noted on these subs define all of women as well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:52 PM
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I think with sexual Intercourse, you are mostly correct, but also theres lots of sex acts women are kind of expected to be naturally good at, even things like being on top and both men and women need experience and communication to be better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:51 PM
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Its not far down on the purple pill subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:50 PM
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You’re inferring that men who are depressed alcoholics are simply victims, this victim mentality is wrong when it comes to a harmful addiction like this, and saying that this addiction is rooted basically in being rejected by women when there are probably far more deeper issues at play that really needs therapy and deep introspection and work
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:49 PM
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i dont need to do that, im in a relationship but constantly see the bitching of men online about essentially hot women who are arguably way out of their league who won’t date them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:47 PM
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I’d like to pose this train of thought/Q as well. For most sexual history is deeply personal and you only talk about it with your close friends or not at all. When you get to know someone (in the context of dating), this isn’t a topic that would come up while grabbing coffee/getting dinner, this is something you’re probably going to find out later down the road after quite a few months once you already know this person, like them, and are usually with them exclusively. (Exceptions would be you k…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:36 PM
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No, its expected to be good at them too. The first time i gave a blowjob, i found out he talked shit about it to all his friends (who one told me) that my teeth scratched him and i didnt get all the way down to his nuts (deepthroated) like anyone good would, I probably would have thrown up if i did this. A lot of these expectations are rooted in porn by very experienced porno actors and an inexperienced person could never meet that expectation. I still have bj anxiety because of this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:26 PM
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if she has an extensive sexual history, i can guarantee she wasn’t attempting a relationship with probably most of them. Viewing a one night stand as a relationship attempt is misguided. Some Women enjoy hooking up casually and without a relationship as well and shouldn’t be viewed as a “failed relationship”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:17 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:11 PM
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Beyonce is probably 26-29 bmi, i think Jessica Biel is around 24. BMI is really subjective and doesnt take muscle mass and body fat composition into account
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:08 PM
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Honestly i’ve only seen the opposite of what you said. I’ve known friends (and even seen on reddit) women who maybe put on about 10-15 lbs from being in a relationship and the man was no longer attracted to her and would manipulate them into losing weight (“you’ve put on lbs”, “you looked so much sexier a year ago”, commenting on how hot thinner bodies are openly to them, and not having sex), or just flat out dump them Whereas ive seen many men gain weight in a relationship and sure, the women m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:04 PM
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Some women have acne and skin discoloration/rosacea etc. many use makeup simply to even things out and these traits arent seen as attractive to themselves, lots of times they’re not trying to deceive anyone but honestly its so you dont hate yourself as much when you look in the mirror
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:02 PM
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You’re trying to tell this to basement dwelling redditors who believe everything echoed about women in a reddit forum is true rather than just getting out there and trying. Good on you tho, and much happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:59 PM
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I can pick out right now why you’re not in a relationship- foul attitude. If you refer to vagina as “used up vagina” and value your genitals because they’re non-used, i can see already you harbor very negative beliefs around a woman’s sexual habits and women in general and people can sense that. Im sure you’re someone who wants a “pure virgin” who is also a 10, and I guarantee you will not find that. And if you lined up a bunch of women and tried to pick out who was a virgin and who wasn’t, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:57 PM
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So you want a woman to take a man with an insane amount of emotional baggage and to fix him? Would you do the same for a woman whose a depressed alcohol? women are not obligated to take in a man especially if theres red flags that would present complications for her. Many depressed alcoholics would not be a good partner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:39 PM
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its all really subjective, also with women, believe it or not- attractiveness does not all come down purely to “physical” traits. Men and women think differently in this aspect. Women may find someone physically attractive, but given they might have personality traits that are found unattractive or unappealing to them it’ll definitely give them the “ick” and most won’t pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:27 PM
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Rarely now if never, sometimes a random man in a grocery store might nod at me and say “whats up” or something but really not often. In college when i was a little thinner and more “out there” i got approached more but usually at parties and in an obvious one night stand context. I dont think i’ve ever had a romantic proposition IRL (let me take you on a date, i want to get to know you, etc), it’s usually quite obviously a sexual proposition. I met current BF on tinder (which was a crapshoot and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:21 PM
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I think its funny that men harp on about woman lowering their standards to more “average” men (heavier, balding, older, not as attractive, maybe less career prospects) but right when you suggest lonely single men should lower their standards for women (maybe not looking like a supermodel mainly) they say its their god given right to date a hot woman and those women should lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:26 PM
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