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| 4 | Stop being children and grow upI think that's a legal grey area, and I would most likely pay for myself and just ghost them. I don't want to get arrested, or have some poor server be stuck with my bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | He asked me to coffee—I think I did pretty good?I agree with this to an extent. I used to do this when using OLD, it works for meeting a lot of people quickly. I think in the future though I'd rather talk to people a bit longer and have higher investment dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 02:13 AM |
| 2 | what age range is acceptable to be dating according to FDS?Just a tip, arrange your own transportation for first dates. You never know what could happen after you get into their car. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 11:44 PM |
| 43 | He asked me to coffee—I think I did pretty good?I would do even less explaining than that, and just let him know I don't do coffee, drinks, or walks for first dates, I do dinner. You're giving him basically the entire date idea right there, he'd be an idiot not to go through with it. I hope it works out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 11:16 PM |
| 3 | What makes a man commit?If he hasn't committed already, he doesn't want you that way and he won't commit to you, ever. You can't make a man commit to you, and you shouldn't want to. You say no one else has made you feel this way, why not put that to the test and actually give someone else a chance? Someone who wants a relationship with you, not a fwb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys pay for drinks/dessert after he pays for dinner?I usually only pay if we are exclusive or nearing exclusivity, or if they are a dear friend to me (not a romantic relationship). I try to reserve wife and girlfriend duties until I know they are HVM, things like paying, gifts, chores, etc. That being said, you didn't spend too much, if he was still willing to and you just wanted to do a nice thing because you were having fun, I don't see anything wrong with that. Making him pay is more a litmus test of his interest in you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 10:41 PM |
| 7 | OLD : Immediately asks for a number.God forbid they put some effort into online dating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Girlfriend makes me feel bad because she gets mad at me for half-assing chores! Also, I’m 32yo.Unfortunately I knew. Another piece of shit man bragged to me about pissing and shitting in sinks in hotels. Baffling, disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 10:04 PM |
| 10 | Girlfriend makes me feel bad because she gets mad at me for half-assing chores! Also, I’m 32yo.I straight up told my boyfriend id dump him on the spot if I found him pissing in a sink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Is this negging?I've slept with/dated guys who scolded me for sleeping "too much" instead of spending time on them. I'm chronically ill and I work nights, I will bite the head off anyone who wakes me up or tries to make me feel bad about sleeping. He sounds like he's projecting, or very insecure. I'd ditch him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 10:09 AM |
| 6 | NEVER Apologize for Safety Precautions When Traveling or Dating (TW)This was so premeditated. They filmed her having consensual sex so she wouldn't be believed. Holy shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 10:54 PM |
| 9 | What are the jobs you consider a red flag? Why?I used to date a lot of musicians and they were mostly unreliable and commitment phobic. They love their guitars more than they will ever love you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 09:11 PM |
| 10 | What are your NYE plans?I am working late, and then meeting my best friend and having some drinks. My bf is having a party but it's mostly his group and I'll be late anyway, so it's not a priority. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:43 PM |
| 12 | Tana Mongeau and Jake Paul - The Life & Times of a Pickmeisha - LVM coupleIf anyone watches her video about her relationship with her bf Hunter she says all the same terrible things. She has no self esteem and tortures herself with abusive men who won't commit to her. She had a short, toxic relationship with rapper Lil Xan and has a video about him too. Her relationships are fuel for her reality star YouTube life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:19 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, If you "overfunction" in your interactions with men, you never find out if he's a LVMI'd explain that you don't have sex with people you just met, and avoid going to his house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:31 AM |
| 3 | When you discover FDS too late, what do you do? 27f in “engaged” to 37m we have two kidsYou need to leave to set a good example for your daughter's. You're too young to settle, work on the things you need to do to be independent and DO NOT marry him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 01:00 AM |
| 12 | Has anyone else noticed that in more politically conservative areas...I notice this every time I go to a small town or even my hometown (150k people). Beautiful women everywhere with fat assed slobs in hiking shoes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 12:47 AM |
| 2 | SMH...ookaylooks like a troll account | /r/MGTOW | 03/12/18 07:32 AM |
| 0 | On friendshipslmao how am i harassing men | /r/MGTOW | 03/12/18 07:31 AM |
| 5 | 1958. Marilyn Monroe pours a drink for her husband. (Credit: Life magazine)She was mentally ill, it's not her fault she went into "if you can't handle me at my worst" mode, whatever the fuck that means. | /r/MGTOW | 02/12/18 11:51 PM |
| -2 | 80/20 rulelmao at you being "destroyed" (what does that even mean) for saying someone who looks nice. I just don't believe that ever happened. | /r/MGTOW | 02/12/18 11:49 PM |
| -1 | 80/20 rule/thathappened I highly doubt people get "destroyed" by saying you look nice today. | /r/MGTOW | 02/12/18 11:46 PM |
| -4 | Why I don't have interest in women is simple: they weren't there for meIt just sounds like you don't have any female friends. You can just make some if you want, relationships take reciprocity and effort. You can't just expect random women to be there for you | /r/MGTOW | 02/12/18 11:43 PM |
| 9 | 80/20 ruleIf she is attracted to you and interested it's flirting, if she is not attracted to you and not interested its harassment, why is that so hard to wrap your head around. It's only logical. | /r/MGTOW | 02/12/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | I can't get angryI know how you feel, my psych said lack of purpose might be contributing to my depression too. Let me know if you find out anything useful. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | I can't get angryIt sounds like you're depressed, maybe see a psychologist/psychaitrist. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Why does former oneitis always posts stuff related to our relationship on her Instagram?Hey heartbreak happens and it really sucks, I've been there. It'll feel better with time, try to focus on yourself and spend a lot of time with your family/friends. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 08:58 AM |
| 3 | I rejected sex to this girl as a joke in bed, but stuck to my script. Now she's saying she never asked for sex, and I made her uncomfortable.I think you're overreacting, and after she told you the reason why she wasn't interested anymore you should have stopped speaking to her. You look weak and a little bit crazy in your later messages. Some women want different things, she wasn't down to hook up, the next one probably will be. Keep going. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Is music "the answer"?What you're saying makes sense, there will always be groupies. I'm personally super into musicians and a lot of people I know are. There will always be some who don't care as much, but I think it'd be worth it. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 09:12 AM |
| 2 | How to be stoic and still give girls stimulating conversations and feels?This sounds unnecessarily conniving, like don't force yourself to talk to someone who you think is an idiot. Just enjoy yourself. Talk about what you want to talk about. Great conversationalist chemistry going on? Fabulous! None? Maybe it's her, do light things that don't involve a lot of deep talk. Maybe it's you. All you can do is try to be present and confident, see what works and see what doesn't for you, and not everyone you speak to will be a great conversation. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Why does former oneitis always posts stuff related to our relationship on her Instagram?Even if ending a relationship is a relief or a good thing, you can be affected and still grieving. Emotions are complex and people are affected by things differently. I don't think that's enough to seriously consider her as having BPD. Does she split on you? Going from hating you to loving in a minute? Hurt herself either by self harm or destructive, impulsive behaviour? Is dysphoric and depressed for a lot (if not most) of the time? Fear of being abandoned, suicidal feelings/ideation? I see dia… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Girl I like kept giving me IOIs, but I made my move in an awkward way and she soft-rejected me. What now?you need to be more specific. Ask her out on a specific day going to a place at a time, and make sure its after exams. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Why does former oneitis always posts stuff related to our relationship on her Instagram?What are your reasons for suspecting BPD? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Why does former oneitis always posts stuff related to our relationship on her Instagram?She's just working through the break up in her own way | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Girls laughing?they're probably just stoned | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Urgent advicejust say yes | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Did I already fuck it up with this girl I met on tinder?Text her and arrange a date asap. Lots of people don't like chatting on the phone or facetiming, especially with people they barely know. Don't suggest that again. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 10:18 PM |
| 5 | My guy friends keep roasting me. How do I stop this?find new friends | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Running into men with hostile body language but act nice and politeOther people might feel insecure, or they might just be trying to have good posture and feel good about themselves. You are probably noticing this because you're aware of your own posture now, instead of this being a new occurrence. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 09:30 PM |
| 1 | When your N count isn’t that simple?Just tell them that, you've had 2 partners w only oral and you are a PIV virgin | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/18 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you find your own personal best as far as looks are concerned?I'm down for some fillers and botox | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/18 02:49 PM |
| 4 | Boyfriend of 8 months feels disrespected...You didn't ask for the advice, he's overreacting | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Hair care questionDo you have some money? Buy a nice lace front wig and grow your natural hair out. the only thing that will make your hair longer is time. It takes years to grow hair. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility?Sounds like you're really far up your own ass. If you think you are so much smarter and better than the men you date, why date them at all? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | UPDATE: Need help to break never ending cycle that get's me no where. Spoiler Alert- my personality plays a huge roleThat personality test has been debunked scientifically, don't put so much stock into it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Finding non trashy friends in collegeIf you have a lot of friends, and none of them match your values, maybe you don't actually have a lot of friends, or maybe your values are outmoded and silly | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Being feminine despite ... bodily urgesJust do it, you're a human being, we all bodily functions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How much say should he get to have over reproduction?If he really wants a second child, he can pay for a surrogate or pay for adoption fees. It's your body. It's your pregnancy. Don't ever let someone tell you what to do about something like this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Etiquette questionWorking in restaurants, just give them some business. Don't apologize profusely or send a note. Just go there a couple times for dinner, bring some friends, write a good review. They will appreciate your money way more than anything else. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Close male friend vs emotional affairI disagree, the husband doesn't want the part of her she's giving to her friend. He doesn't want to talk about her feelings and experiences. What is she supposed to do? Suffer alone in silence? Why would it be different if she was "giving a part of herself" to a female friend instead of a male one? I'm bisexual, should I just never have any friends? She said that he is self centred, obviously he is. She needs to take care of herself and her loneliness if he won't. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 06:24 PM |
| 4 | Close male friend vs emotional affairYou're allowed to have close male friends, don't feel guilty. It's kind of cruel of your husband to not meet any of your emotional needs or even try, and then to say that you don't need a social life. Obviously you very much do need emotional support and contact. Your husband isn't meeting your emotional needs, which to me means he isn't a good fit for you, but if you believe he is and want to stay with him, you will 100% need friends to meet this need, male or female it doesn't matter. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Am I being soft nexted or hard nexted?You broke up with him, stop trying to control his online behaviour. If he doesn't want to get back together, you need to go no contact and move on. He's not nexting you, you already broke up with him. Stop checking his dating profile. Meet up with him and ask him to get back together if that what you want, but for gods sake leave him alone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Finding non trashy friends in collegeDon't join a sorority, unless it's a dry or dryer one, because greek life is synonymous with alcohol. But you're going into college with the wrong mindset. Don't assume all your classmates are evil harlots, what makes you so great? Be nice to everyone, be friends with everyone, pick your close friends as people who share your values and who you get along with. It won't be as hard as you think | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I fly to him?You're overreacting. If you don't trust your fiance enough to have these friends over, then you don't trust him enough to marry him. If you want to waste a couple thousand dollars and make yourself look like a psycho, by all means, fly to him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriend doesn’t want kids. I do. (Both 20). Should I end this relationship or are we too young to decide?Absolutely end it, he's not going to change his mind, and neither are you. 4 months is way too early to be committed to someone who has such different goals than you do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with male attention? I've never gotten it before now!Improve your social skills | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Hairstyles, honouring RPTI don't think you should care about your stylists feelings, people go to different stylists all the time and he's happy for your business if you go back to him to fix your hair. I also think your hair could grow longer, your terminal length is probably not shoulder length. You just need to baby it and stop using heat, dye, etc. These things damage your hair. If you take a few months to a year to grow it out and keep it healthy, I think you could easily go blonde. Thin hair is normal/fine, people… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | When do you expect sexual exclusivity from a man you are dating?I wouldn't assume exclusivity until we talked about it and agreed to it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | How to accurately judge your value?I'm not from the US! In my social circles a tan makes you look more groomed and attractive, and I like the look. it's not for everyone though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/18 07:32 PM |
| 2 | How to accurately judge your value?That sounds like a better take on it! I feel like many women are single because they try to be what they like instead of what their target likes | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Best friends with ex?It sounds like he's just trying to support his ex right now emotionally if she's going through a hard time. Talk to him about your feelings but keep in mind he needs his friends and just because they dated before doesn't mean he's going to cheat or has romantic feelings for her | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Am I simply wasting my time with the wrong guy?He's just stressed out right now. Give him space, focus on your own studies/work/friends. When school is over, if he still treats you like this, talk to him about the things you don't like and see if you guys can come to a compromise to make you both happy. If he doesn't want to work through it, break up with him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/18 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Need help to break this never ending cycle that get's me no where and what to do insteadSplit the bill/or pay on the first date to set a precedent of yourself as financially secure, then they won't think you are trying to get a free meal. Its the dating culture/environment right now. That's what those men are used to, so they'll try it on you to see if you're compliant. Don't be compliant, but don't ghost, because they don't know what they're doing wrong. When he says "let's hangout at my place" suggest something else, a coffee, a walk, literally anything other than that. If he pre… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/18 06:52 PM |
| 13 | How to accurately judge your value?Ideal for me: Evenly tanned and clear skin (fake tan cuz nobody wants wrinkles) Tight, toned athletic body, athletic skills long soft hair personal uniform/signature look that shows off my glam and minimalist style I'm essentially at my ideal look, just growing out my hair a bit, and i'm bulking in the gym right now. Everyone is going to have a different ideal look, but the main themes that are trendy right now is an athletic body, big butt, glam makeup. Think about what you look for in a man, w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/18 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Do guys friend zone? Where to go from here..Just because he doesn't like you doesn't mean he would if you improved yourself, there's nothing implicitly wrong with you, sometimes our feelings just aren't reciprocated. Don't get too down on yourself, but self improvement is always a good thing :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/18 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Do guys friend zone? Where to go from here..He's not interested in you. If you continue to sleep with him you're relegating yourself to plate status. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/18 03:56 AM |
| 1 | For the Incels - The only post you need, so you can shut up. Forever.you are unreasonably hostile | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/18 06:44 PM |
| 3 | For the Incels - The only post you need, so you can shut up. Forever.If anything being a bit shorter makes the weight show up faster as a more muscular physique. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 01:36 AM |
| 1 | For the Incels - The only post you need, so you can shut up. Forever.I love tall men, it's an instant heat for me. Over my winter break I was drunk and at a club and went up to a towering dude w a beard and begged him to take my number. The best sex I ever had was with a skinny fat guy shorter than me (I'm 5 5). I wouldn't ever realistically turn down someone over height. Though I know some super picky/entitled women would. Most women I know wouldn't. Just because women say they like height or deride shorter men doesn't mean the majority are shorty hating harpies… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 01:35 AM |
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