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| 9 | Why do women get put off by insecurity in menTbh I was insecure when I was younger, and I was toxic. Like mad toxic. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/21 03:41 AM |
| 72 | Why do women get put off by insecurity in menInteresting you mention that. My sister in law is divorcing her husband (who’s a really good dude, good dad, not bad looking etc) after 13 years because she can’t deal with his insecurity. In this case it’s because when he gets insecure he treats her poorly. He accuses her of having feelings for other men, chastises her in public if she looks at another man etc (this is mostly when he’s been drinking). In this case, the insecurity is manifesting into controlling and abusive behavior, and imo she… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/21 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Got out of my first long term relationship. Not sure how I feel about it.A woman that age going after someone younger has often times been through bad relationships in her past and is looking for someone with less experience and easier to manipulate. I’d say that relationship was doomed from the start. Learn from the experience and move on to the next phase of your life. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/20 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Do these guys not see all the average looking couples who I imagine are having "the sex"?I’ve seen some ugly dudes do very well with hot women. Those dudes were hilarious though, absolutely infectious personalities and a level of confidence I could never achieve. If you’re asking about what I do well with, I usually dated in the mid range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Is female on male sexual harassment and assault as bad as the reverse?I would say women experience sa/sh more, but not by an extremely large margin. I would also say in most cases it’s worse when women experience it than men. As a man when I experience sa or sh I can stop it and anytime it’s happened I’ve never been fearful. If anything it has rarely crossed the level of mild annoyance. As a woman that experience has to be terrifying. At the risk of sounding sexist, men are typically larger and stronger than most women. While many women are perfectly capable of de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Do these guys not see all the average looking couples who I imagine are having "the sex"?I’ve seen some downright ugly dudes do very, very well with women. I’m a bit below average on the looks scale and I’ve never had an issues finding companionship. The people doing a lot of the complaining you mention I place into 2 categories. First, the ones chasing women way out of their league. Socially awkward dudes with low confidence and/or poor hygiene chasing extremely attractive women are going to have issues trying to date them. And when they see their object of affection dating someone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Insecure about penis sizeThat’s something you’re going to have to get over. First, don’t compare yourself to what you see in porn. The vast majority of guys aren’t packing like that. Second, let women decide what they prefer. You’ll run into some women who prefer larger. That’s ok. You’ll meet some that prefer smaller. But don’t think your size has anything to do with what you can offer as far as sexual gratification. Simply asking a woman your with how you can please her better will probably put you leaps and bounds ov… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/20 11:08 PM |
| 10 | Fucking on First DateTruth be told, college dating is no different than dating later on in life. Be yourself, be honest, not everyone is going to like you. If you don’t have a lot of experience dating, let her know. Let her get to know you, and earnestly try to get to know her. From there she’ll let you know what she wants. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/20 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Do men overhype muscles?Confidence > muscles. A lot of gym rats are naturally insecure which drives the mentality they have to look a certain way. Some teddy bears and dad bods just have the confidence that is associated with those bodies and it works the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 09:16 AM |
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