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Yes which is why every loser asks them the exact same things. I was helping a 24 year old as a joke on her dating apps. All the guys had a variation of the same three questions: where are you from, what do you do, where do you live? Like kill me now.
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:33 PM
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Go get laid
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:32 PM
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No, she was clearly thinking you are creep and a rapist and was making eye contact so she can pick you out of a line up after the cops arrest you.
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:32 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:31 PM
0

Tell her, don't worry, my head won't be prickly when it's between your legs.
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:31 PM
2

Are you for real nigga?
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:30 PM
6

Bro you are gay.
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:29 PM
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Your problem is that you are trying to do everything right. How about you start doing everything wrong.
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:28 PM
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NExt time you should ignore them.
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:27 PM
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I wish more men would understand and be aware of these 3 truths: Women are easily capable of multiple orgasms Only the human woman (and perhaps dolphins) can have sex purely for fun and outside of estrus Every major religion since the beginning of time has tried to control female sexuality and shame women into being chaste. Put these three together and think real hard if the saying "Women don't like sex" has even a modicum of truth in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:26 PM
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Two virgins having sex is a great idea. Eye roll
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:22 PM
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1, married for 7.5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:24 AM
1

Men need to clean the pipes honey. Sorry you are so butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:23 AM
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I don't date anymore but from what anyone who is single says, they will always look at the persons socials (mostly Insta) for a few reasons. First of all, to get a glimpse in the guys lifestyle and second, to show off their girlfriends if the guy is cute. Since most wanna be seducers actually have no life and think they can solve all of their social problems just by spam approaching women, then it's probably best not to have social media presence. If however you have stuff going on, then keep it…
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:08 AM
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What do you need texting for exactly?
/r/seduction24/09/22 10:26 AM
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https://youtu.be/diYS8jyOcFc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:08 AM
1

Dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:25 AM
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Well yeah, the sexual confidence comes with experience. Sitting at home and feeling sorry for yourself won't get you there. And lol at saying incels like themselves. They literally think of themselves as subhuman. People tend to see you the way you see yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:18 AM
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You need to have a lot of sexual options in order to like yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:52 PM
4

Sorry to hear about your experiences, but consider that's someone somewhere must break the cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:19 PM
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What success stories?
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:13 PM
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It's not personality as in does he like his mom and watch the Office. Personality is more of is his self esteem high, does he like himself, does he feel confident about himself and his abilities to please women sexually. Does he take the lead with pleasure or does he complain that he has to do everything. That's what women mean by personality. If you were to take 10 men from the street, how many of them do you suppose have a genuinely high self esteem, like and live themselves and feel confident…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:02 PM
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You do realize that you are doing not only yourself a great disservice, but also any woman who a man will go to after sleeping with you by faking an orgasm. You are literally reinforcing a poor bedroom skill. This is called shooting your self and your sisters in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:59 PM
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Women do that to me all the time. And yes, I notice it. And funny thing is, a lot of women give a lot of signals to a lot of men, most of them are oblivious mostly because they believe they are not good, ugly, average losers and things like this never happen to them so they don't look for them. Men are pretty good at shooting them selves in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:42 PM
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Look at her and smile. Keep smiling while you imagine you have her ankles behind her ears or are spilling your man gravy on her face. As you hold that self satisfied grin start walking towards her never breaking eye contact. Say "Hi, I'm (insert your name here), what's your name?" If she is receptive and particularly mesmerized by your direct approach, compliment her on how the room lit up the second you laid your eyes on her. Then flirt, banter, make sexual innuendo. When you believe that you h…
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:35 PM
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All women are taken but most of the men are single. Are these women in relationships with their cats?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:10 PM
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A potbelly is a sign of wealth and resources, baldness is associated with high testosterone and ED? What ED, there is viagra. Stop reaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:36 PM
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You look like Rick H. who was legendary in the early pua circles as a guy who had a five some with a bunch of strippers. But yeah, it's definitely your looks.
/r/seduction23/09/22 11:14 AM
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What else is there to do in Miami?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:12 AM
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When I was growing up, there were only two genders: male and female. They have "discovered" at least 10+ other genders since and men are still having trouble getting laid with any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:11 AM
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I've seen comments on this sub from retards that if a guy goes to a bar and a girl likes him and they hook up, then it doesn't count because he didn't have to do anything to "seduce" her. He didn't have to run "game", therefore her being attracted to him had nothing to do with his skills, she just happened to like him. She chose him and that means he is a loser. You can make this level of retardation and autism up. But that's pua creepiness for you.
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:44 AM
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You are still not going to get laid my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:38 AM
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I like to take this to the basics of power dynamics. In the end of the day, the one who needs the least, he all the power. If you are with a woman and you need her less than she needs you, you can call all the shots. Think about it. What can she do to get her way? Deny you sex? If you don't need sec that badly, she has no power. She can give you the silent treatment? Hey, more peaceful afternoons for me. If you have a job and you don't need the money nearly as much as the company needs your expe…
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:26 AM
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Men get more interesting with age. Women just get wrinkly. Sad but true. I love women but the idea that age treats both sexes equally is just ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:01 AM
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This is the same reason why men imagine that if they were a good looking girl and every man wants to fuck them, their lives would be a never ending porno movie. And since that is not the case for the vast majority of women, then the only explanation is that women must only be turned on by 0.00000001% of the Chaddest Chads out there.
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:49 AM
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Men don't care about it because we don't have a need for it. We want approval.
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:26 AM
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Women want first and foremost security. As it happens, confident and powerful men trigger that attraction mechanism immediately, because power = security. You may think the world would be better off without war and armies, but since this is not a perfect world, which side would you prefer to be on if there is conflict? Costa Rica or the USA? And since Costa Rica doesn't even have a military this shouldn't be a tough choice for any sane person.
/r/seduction22/09/22 08:52 PM
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Exactly. The first thing women notice about me is that I give off the vibe of actually liking and valuing myself highly. Then I smile at them and imagine I am putting their legs behind their ears or shooting my man gravy all over their face and they kind of know what's up.
/r/seduction22/09/22 08:49 PM
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I would also look at the book Dating Essentials for Men, but I can tell you right now you are sabotaging yourself. If you only want super hot women, you may end up staying a virgin for a long time. Get it over with and be on your way to upgrading. But eventually you have to start testing for interest and making moves. If you get signals from a woman go for the kill don't beat around the bush.
/r/seduction22/09/22 05:30 PM
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Improved? I think most men walk away even more weird and socially retarded after spending time in seduction and pickup communities.
/r/seduction22/09/22 04:43 PM
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You are right! I should have advised him to wear a top hat, a monocle and run up to women, turn his back to them and ask them if they think his ass looks sexy in those jeans because there is a hot guy at the other end of the bar he wants to hook up, but secretly he wants to hook up with the girls.
/r/seduction22/09/22 04:33 PM
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I became aware of everything that I avoided and made a point to challenge myself to do it. For example, you may avoid dressing well and sexy, because you may think it's stupid or try hard or just not for you. That's avoidance. Go to a department store and buy trendy clothes that guys your age wear. If you avoid social situations because they intimidate you and you see happy confident people having fun and you think you will feel inadequate. Go and socialize. Push yourself little by little. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:27 PM
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Let me give you my perspective as a former shy and anxious guy. If there is one thing I know about women that is 100% true on a biological level, is that women are security seeking creatures. The reasons for this are actually pretty simple. Women are physically weaker, lack testosterone and aggression, their frames are more frail, etc. For the propagation of the species it makes sense for women to be risk averse, to go with the crowd and to keep safe. A lot of dead or maimed women will it be dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:02 PM
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Of course you don't. You only date wimps and soyboys that you can peg.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:33 PM
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Let's see! Guys who get paid to be professionally competitive, dominating and in shape? Yeah, guys like that don't get laid. Am I taking crazy pills here? For every black pill theory, there is plenty of evidence to debunk it. You have to understand that if every time someone points out evidence that opposes your point of view, there are only so many times you can scream "that's different" or "that's an exception" or "yeah but....he's famous, rich, sociall proofed, whatever", before your argument…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:28 PM
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I wouldn't do this at all. I think it's a stupid strategy and will lead to nowhere. I do remember you from your post though and you got some good advice about haircut and clothes. Did you change you wardrobe or do you still dress like a middle aged man? If I were to guess, I would say you are probably a stem major, have some sort of a software development/engineering role where you socialize with men exclusively, play video games and spend a lot of time jerking off to porn. Going out and sociali…
/r/seduction22/09/22 12:19 PM
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Well, for one, you are approaching which already makes you lower status and unattractive. Instead of doing this, start socializing with people for the sake of socializing without any expectations. Do it because it's fun to talk to people and get to know everyone. Do it, because it's fun to walk into your college bar and have the bartender and waitresses greet you and people at the bar saying "what's up to you". As you get to grow into this social animal who doesn't have an agenda, all of a sudde…
/r/seduction22/09/22 10:37 AM
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Glad someone finally figured it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:55 AM
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I think there is casual sex and there is casual sex. Casual sexy as in no strings attached, don't call me, text me, whatever unless you are horny - honestly, this scenario is not very common. Casual sex as in, I have established that I am not in the mind space for a relationship, but I am open to spending quality time with someone, giving each other orgasms and being respectful to each other and seeing each other until one of us gets bored or falls in love - this scenario is much more common. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:02 AM
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I keep telling men who post dating profile review requests to ditch the cat photos, because in my and many women's opinion men with cat photo = a man who hasn't gotten laid in years possible ever. But curious about your take on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:58 PM
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Only slept with two women by the time I'm in my 30s? I'd probably buy a rope. But on a less serious note, I'd date 3-4 women at the same time and keep one a lot rotating. And when I get tired of this, I might choose one girl to settle down with for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:57 PM
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Unfortunately, being an unbearable asshole is exactly what I was proposing. Eyeroll!
/r/seduction21/09/22 11:21 PM
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Again, if you are going in wanting a specific outcome, then yes, you just got rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:20 PM
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Because you enjoy the company of women inside and outside of the bedroom? Cause your sick ain't gonna suck itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:10 PM
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Okay, so you've tested for interest and she is taken. How is that a rejection? You just found out you are not compatible or did you expect that every woman would open her legs for you because you said hi?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:07 PM
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Well, I guess I should have put the caveat that if you do notice choosing signals and an open door, walk through it boldly and directly. Don't beat around the bush.
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:05 PM
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Well, when you are talking about the malcontents and people on the fringes of society, you are missing one big ingredient that I mentioned. Namely, how they feel about themselves. Those folks don't have a very high opinion of themselves. They may pretend not to care about others opinion of them, but their own opinion kit them is no good either. Again, I'm not necessarily saying you should not care about anyones opinion of you, but most certainly you should only care about people who you respect …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:03 PM
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What is unclear for you exactly? Is there anything I can help with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:49 PM
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Nah, you already rejected yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:07 PM
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You have to understand that situationally, you have power and authority with your students. But you are probably not able to convey this in your online profile. So what students are seeing is limited by the context of you being the hit older teacher whose approval they want. The majority of men are really bad at their profiles. Head over to s/Bumble and browse till you see some of the guys review requests. Take a peek and you will figure out what they are doing wrong and what your competition lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:03 PM
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Well, luckily women are extremely attracted to men who have overcome their fear of disproval. Since the majority of men approach women hoping they will get approved by the woman, the man who doesn't need said approval stands out and is immediately attractive. Why is he attractive? Only powerful people don't care about the approval of others. Does a king concern himself with what his subjects think of him? Why should any man concern himself wjth what complete strangers think of him. This gives yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:55 PM
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I can't believe it's not black pill!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:23 PM
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It's hard for men who don't think very highly of themselves. They are afraid of the potential negative judgment from a total stranger. A man who likes himself won't be nearly as concerned about a negative judgment form a complete stranger. After you have known yourself your entire life and the complete stranger has known you for about 2 seconds. How could they possibly know enough about you for their opinion of you to be of any value?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:23 PM
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There is no way to get rejected if you go up to a woman to see if she's interesting. But if you are going up to her because you want her to validate you, give you her number, go to bed with you or because you are offering yourself, your ability to pay for her lifestyle and what not, then you do absolutely risk rejection. When I used to date, I would walk up to women to find out if they are interesting and easy to get along with. Since I like myself, I don't need their validation, although of cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:00 PM
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I don't see how a socially awkward, unattractive guy will solve his problems by cold approaching. And lol at, if you want to meet women, you have to be in an environment with a lot of women. Well, duh.
/r/seduction21/09/22 05:11 PM
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First of all, it doesn't happen overnight. It's a process. The process is that you have to continuously challenge yourself in different situations and face your fears so you can get over them. The less fear you have, the more assured you are and the more you get to know the real you under the Mayer of anxiety and phobias. So how do you identify the things you are afraid of? It is always the stuff that you actively or subconsciously avoid. It can be as little as a waitress ignoring you or overcha…
/r/seduction21/09/22 12:48 PM
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Oh wow, women are damaged and fucked up? How can a person who can get sex easily be damaged and fucked up and crazy? DOES NOT COMPUTE!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:19 PM
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Well those are the major ones. Eye contact especially if it persists, or happens at least a couple of times. Smiling at you obviously. Opening up body language towards you, showing off the goods. Hovering around you. Making up an excuse to talk to you or ask you something. A woman won't come up an say "hey hot stuff", but she may she may say "hey, so what's good on the menu here". Depending on what asset they are working with, they may hit their hips out to show off their ass or lean forward tow…
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:45 AM
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And that's the precise reason why you won't
/r/seduction21/09/22 02:56 AM
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If money is all a man offers than your argument is likely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:42 AM
0

Your tolerance for bullshit seems pretty high.
/r/seduction21/09/22 02:36 AM
1

Maybe you want to swap your role for the women who were getting raped in front of their children? They sure had a lot of privileges too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:04 AM
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:D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:53 AM
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Abundance of sexual options is a side effect of being a high status guy. It's just icing on the cake. A high status or high value as you describe it is a man who first and foremost loves and adores himself and believes he is more than good enough. This one criteria already eliminates 90% of men on the planet from being high value. A high value man has to have power and confidence. Power comes in many shapes and forms. A policeman or a fireman has power and authority. A billionaires wealth is pow…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:16 AM
1

All the fucking nose hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:09 AM
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You do what you want to do. What she wants is irrelevant. She is going out with you not the other way around. Stop being a kiss ass.
/r/seduction21/09/22 12:38 AM
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Well we are saying g the same thing. Face your fears and stuff that you avoid doing. But once you have overcome those fears it becomes so much easier to choose from the women who are choosing you instead of constantly trying to impose yourself on unsuspecting women who don't know who you are or what the fuck you want. And again, whatever you think you know, I have been there for years. I'm 41. I've been doing this since I was 16.
/r/seduction21/09/22 12:23 AM
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Of course it's stupid advice. Women are totally NOT into men who are unavailable, mysterious and possible off doing another chick. They totally don't spend all their time wondering where he is and what he's up to and who he is doing.
/r/seduction20/09/22 08:16 PM
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It's pretty simple. Women are security seeking creatures. First and foremost they want to feel safe and protected with a man. That's why cheerleaders go for pro NFL players, secretaries for their bosses, petite girls for tall guys, etc. The second thing they are looking for is excitement. A guy who is not boring, who can bring some passion and drama into their otherwise mundane lives. So when a guy who is a nobody, lacks social skills, spends most of his time playing video games and jerking off …
/r/seduction20/09/22 08:04 PM
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Women approach men all the time. Not in the "hey baby, let's get out of here" type of way, but they'll look at you, smile, hover around, dance in your line of sight, show off the goods, etc. Once they have approached you, all you need to do is go and introduce yourself. It's not rocket science and it happens to men way more often then they think. They are just blind to the signs or worse, they don't believe things like this are possible for them so they never look for signs. Most guys who don't …
/r/seduction20/09/22 05:58 PM
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Yet, India is full of ugly poor people and their combined population is larger than all of the Western world taken together. How the hell did they get to 1.5B if not by fucking a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:08 PM
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It's not fucking impossible and not all that hard. You don't to be fucking 7' tall to get noticed. You are discouraging people from doing the hard work which is becoming more social. Randomly approaching women will not solve your poor socialization skills nor make you more attractive.
/r/seduction20/09/22 05:06 PM
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So you think social recluses who look like and dress like shit will solve all their problems by randomly approaching women on the street?
/r/seduction20/09/22 04:21 PM
-4

So you already have 5 girlfriends from all the approaches you've done or let me guess, they haven't responded or gone out with you?
/r/seduction20/09/22 03:40 PM
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First of all you have to decide what you want. What are you approaching these women for? If you get their number, what will you do if they say yes to going out with you? What's your end game here? Figure that out before you figure anything else. There are different approaches to for different situations. Personally, I'm not a fan of going out for the purpose of picking up women. I'm not even a huge fan of approaching women who haven't approached me. Thankfully I get approached all the time, so i…
/r/seduction20/09/22 03:28 PM
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Flip this into the opposite and ask: "Many women like to talk about how men end up with crazy bitches. Let's hear how You would pick the right woman" and then have women give advice such as: Why don't me n go for the homely chubby girl who will treat them like a king, why don't they go for the shy wallflower, who doesn't dress nice and has never done her hair and doesn't take care of her appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:11 PM
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Exactamundo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:01 AM
1

Beauty is skin deep, but being a bitch and a psycho is forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:55 AM
1

And why do you need to lie? Because you were told women won't accept the fact that you maybe porking someone else? Cause that's not how it actually played out in real life for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:53 AM
2

Damn right!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:52 AM
0

Lol, you just out Jersey City and NYC in the same sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:52 AM
2

Confidence is defined as lovingly not giving a fuck about what others think of you or whether you will be successful or not. That's why guys like Pete Davidson slay so much ass. He genuinely doesn't give a crap and that allows him to act with as much confidence as he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:51 AM
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