| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1067 | Approaching women is fun af! | Field Report | stalleo_thegreat | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:59 AM |
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| 16 | I can get "good girls" but not "bad girls"Asian baby girls - noun An asian girl that spends her days hanging with gangsters and her nights partying and doing drugs. also wears makeup that makes them look like clowns. They also have big puffy hair. | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 06:07 AM |
| 10 | Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested insome of the best guidance i’ve seen on this sub | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Simple basics: 4 common characteristics of guys who do well with womenGoing to the gym today 🫡 | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Simple basics: 4 common characteristics of guys who do well with womenliterally me right now. i don’t do terrible at all with women but i honestly believe i’m at least above average looking face-wise because i’m constantly told i’m handsome. no doubt i’d be killing it if i gained some more muscle | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 02:29 AM |
| 2 | How hard is it really to get consistently hot girls?tbh, just not being weird will get you a long way | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 04:24 PM |
| 15 | How hard is it really to get consistently hot girls?you’re not wrong lol | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 02:48 PM |
| 16 | How hard is it really to get consistently hot girls?10 if you don’t have social skills/social awareness <4 if you do have social skills/social awareness this includes that you already, somewhat, have your shit together (finances, physique, hygiene, style) | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 02:39 PM |
| 3 | How does the 'bad boy' thing work in practice?https://youtu.be/RB1Ed_kvZNM?si=qXqKUZDSs8nkh3nD Edit: It’s a long video but it’s very insightful. let me know what you think | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 03:37 PM |
| 2 | How does the 'bad boy' thing work in practice?Everybody that asks questions like this need to watch that Hoe Math video called Swords | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Keep getting ghosted after messaging girls I met at a club/barhonestly, this is where i feel i’m at with my life | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 10:29 PM |
| 3 | I Confessed to a Woman on a Date That I Practice Approaching - Her Reaction Was PricelessI see what you mean and i agree as well. i don’t think i would ever tell the woman that i’m dating that i basically used her as practice just to get better with women (of OP truly liked her, then that’s different). but hey, more power to OP since she wasn’t against it. | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 02:57 PM |
| 5 | I Confessed to a Woman on a Date That I Practice Approaching - Her Reaction Was PricelessThey only thinks it’s creepy when they’re not attracted to you | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 02:41 PM |
| 15 | Tips on getting someone out of your leagueyea, exactly. your frame can be anything you want it be but that’s definitely one of them. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 12:04 PM |
| 75 | Tips on getting someone out of your leagueA simple explanation is that a “frame” is how you view yourself and the world. if you have the frame of “i’m a badass and any girl would be lucky to have me”, you must maintain that frame of mind when dealing with higher caliber women. This means passing her shit tests and overall controlling the interaction in a way that you know that she already likes you. Most women have main character syndrome when it comes to frame. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Practice Bantering with a Chatbot Girl that Could Lose InterestThis is such a good idea, OP. Gonna try it out when i get off work | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 08:55 PM |
| 4 | Kissed a girl and now cricketsfinally some sense in this thread. OP is a good person | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.yea of the original OP, not u/bcre8tve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts themphysically: facial symmetry, nice jawline, nice teeth/smile, good hair, kind eyes, tall non-physical: confidence, social proof (do other people like him?), money, ambition, hobbies, intelligence, masculinity, etc if a guy has all of these PLUS muscles, he's probably considered "hot" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 04:47 PM |
| 2 | How do some of you always know what to say?I was mostly joking but it’s honestly just not worth it if your IG doesn’t present you in a high status way and especially if she has a lot of followers. If she’s lowkey and doesn’t seem like a clout chaser then I’d say go for it | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 08:50 PM |
| 2 | How do some of you always know what to say?Easy…DON’T slide in their dm’s | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Approaching women is fun af!Imma keep it real, I have made almost zero progress lol. I like approaching but I do pretty well on dating apps so that’s where I’m most comfortable, but I could definitely work more on approaching in general. Wbu, how’s it going for you? | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Online dating openers. What works for you?Don’t use it then | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Online dating openers. What works for you?Yes! But ONLY if they use a voice prompt actually pronouncing it. For an example there was a girl named Debora. Easy af name, but she was Latina so when she pronounced it, it sounded Spanish because she rolled her tongue on the R. I used this line and it worked like a charm. Like I said tho, the girl obviously has to already like you from your pics or this ain’t gonna work. And you still have to have good text game just as you would in her inbox on tinder or whatever app | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 11:28 AM |
| 8 | Why do I get stuck on that girl that doesn't talk much?Definitely don’t be needy. Enjoy your own life and be mysterious as well. Invite her to outings that you’re already going to no matter if she tags along or not | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 01:35 AM |
| 61 | Online dating openers. What works for you?On Hinge I’ve used this line if they have a voice prompt pronouncing their name: “Now that I know how to pronounce your name, how do you pronounce your number?” Obviously the girl has to already have some kind of interest in you for this to work but I’m 3/3 so far. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:53 AM |
| 4 | it felt weird being going out all by myselfThis is some great-ass advice | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | cheats and wants sympathy on social mediaYes it is | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/02/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Just got rejected for the first time!Found this very old post while searching the sub but still has some good stuff https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1sy4wq/escalation_ladder/ | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Just got rejected for the first time!That's because there's no magic bullet to picking up girls because every single girl you meet is totally different than the last one. The point of this sub is to be used as guide. There's a lot of valuable pieces here that can be applied to different situations in game. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women is fun af!I play online, maining Devil Jin and Kazuya | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 11:28 PM |
| 2 | THIS IS SO MUCH FUNKeep at it dude 🤞🏾 | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Approaching women is fun af!Unfortunately I’m only on Xbox at the time, but I’m definitely looking to get a PC in the future. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Approaching women is fun af!Man I suck against AK but I’m always up for a challenge. PM me your GT if you’re on Xbox (yea, yea I know lol) & do it man! It’s liberating. I honestly got a huge confidence boost just from last night. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women is fun af!Yea that’s already been established Captain Obvious, I’m not gonna make every “approach” to servers and waitresses. Tf lol | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Approaching women is fun af!Yea I really wanna get to that level where I don’t hesitate no matter where I’m at. Last night was really just an experiment to get myself out my comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women is fun af!Oh I’m definitely stealing that lmao | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Approaching women is fun af!Devil Jin and Kazuya! | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Approaching women is fun af!Dude AK is one of my worst matchups lol. I main Devil Jin and Kazuya | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Approaching women is fun af!This is 100% facts | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Approaching women is fun af!😂 | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women is fun af!valid question so it’s all good. I usually go out with friends but I wanted to try solo this time. It’s honestly not bad, most people really don’t pay attention to you at all. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women is fun af!Yup, you’re exactly right. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women is fun af!Fuck no, and that’s mainly why I didn’t talk to anyone. However there was a group of girls with some guys but I think they were there for a birthday get-together. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Approaching women is fun af!It was tough man. Tekken has me in shackles rn, it’s all I ever play lol. But I main Devil Jin and Kazuya! Just got to Divine Ruler w/ DJ. Wbu? | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:23 PM |
| 4 | Approaching women is fun af!Smack tf outta me if I DONT approach 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Approaching women is fun af!Dude I know exactly what you’re getting at and I agree, but you sound like massive condescending prick. Did you not read where I said I was going back out and trying again tomorrow? Lol | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 07:51 AM |
| 0 | Approaching women is fun af!Ahhh I see you’re one of THOSE kind of guys lol it’s cool tho. I already commented to somebody else how I know not to try to hit on women that are working so I won’t be doing this often. & Idk if you’re American but Sonic is fast food restaurant that brings the food to you while you wait in your car so it wasn’t like she was the waitress for my table all night. The whole interaction lasted maybe 5 minutes | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Approaching women is fun af!Hell yea man. That’s the plan | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Approaching women is fun af!Yea for sure. That’s why as soon as she said that I didn’t wanna put her in an awkward position, told her to have a good rest of the night and bounced. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 07:29 AM |
| -1 | Approaching women is fun af!Oh I definitely thought of that on the way back home lol she was smiling super hard when I told her she was cute. It is what it is tho, I’m happy with the outcome either way. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Approaching women is fun af!Self doubt is soul crushing, especially when you have the chance to control the outcome in some kind of way. Props to you for going after what you wanted! | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Approaching women is fun af!I’ll definitely try that. I was just so caught up in the moment that was I acting on what little instinct I had lol | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 07:17 AM |
| 20 | Approaching women is fun af!Man I see no lies. That analogy of smacking a dog for sniffing is spot on, that’s exactly how I feel when I don’t talk to a girl I’m interested in. No more tho, tonight taught me a valuable lesson. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 07:15 AM |
| 4 | Approaching women is fun af!Look at Mr. Bitches here everyone lol jk. But I have heard that when your approach anxiety goes away it’s no longer thrilling so I see where you’re coming from. But damn dude lemme have this one, this is my first approach in forever 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 05:49 AM |
| 14 | Approaching women is fun af!You said it best. Shit’s exciting lol | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 05:19 AM |
| 53 | Approaching women is fun af!Thanks man & no doubt! I usually shy away from talking to women in service industry jobs for exactly the reason you said. But I couldn’t NOT saying anything tonight, I would’ve been kicking myself lol. I’m going out again tomorrow tho so I’m gonna try talking to someone that’s not working 🤞🏾. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach worksMan, your post just gave me a major confidence boost to go put myself out there and try cold approach. Happy for your new relationship & good luck in the future. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 01:34 PM |
| -2 | Some girls just flat-out suckRatio’d | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | On dates I often act intensely platonic.Exactly. I can vouch for it too, it’s helped me tremendously. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 07:39 PM |
| 8 | On dates I often act intensely platonic.Watch this video on flirting. I know y'all like to hate on Todd in this sub but this "format" really is a good/easy way to make the conversation more man-to-woman and not platonic. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o_k55geMKkU | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 06:22 PM |
| 12 | Can you date without the apps?Great video, dude. Even though you only interviewed a few people, in context of this subreddit, it really shows that most people do not need or prefer dating apps. Just go talk to people :) | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 06:14 PM |
| 13 | Tinder time wastersI don’t think there’s really any hard evidence that cold approaching is more successful than tinder (there’s definitely opinions that differ) BUT, the best thing about cold approaching over tinder, imo, is a.) you can physically go talk to any girl you want, you don’t have to “match” with her to talk and b.) because of that, you’re not wasting your time. You’ll know quickly if she’s interested or not in dating you. Didn’t really answer your question but I hope that helps. | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 05:46 PM |
| 9 | My first cold approach today!This is encouraging because I often see on Reddit that approaching a girl, especially with her friends, is a bad idea. I don’t believe that’s true and this comment is proof of that. Glad he swept you off your feet :) | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 07:08 PM |
| 19 | WHEN THINGS ARE GOING WELL, SHUT UP | How silence can be used as a power move |Y’all post this shit every time Todd’s videos are shared. For one, this should show you that even “Pick Up Artists” are human and fail and can’t get every girl, and two, he explained that he wasn’t that into the girls so he didn’t try as hard as he normally would, he was approaching as an example for his students to help them out. I don’t think Todd is pua god or anything but I respect him because he doesn’t use it for manipulation against women. It seems like he’s genuinely trying to help men b… | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 11:18 PM |
| 3 | I have a problemI don't think there's really much else you can do if you're already working out (definitely continue doing that) and growing out facial hair. You just have a baby-face bruh, I do too, it's genetics. It's not a bad thing because you'll eventually grow into it. AND you'll still look young when you get older. Just gotta own it and keep putting yourself out there with women. Have confidence. | /r/seduction | 14/04/20 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Do men normally hit their peak later than women?Ok 😔 | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 03:34 PM |
| 4 | Do men normally hit their peak later than women?Nigga I’m broke! | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Greatest tip you will ever hear.Well said. | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 05:13 PM |
| 13 | We all know we can't make a girl attracted to us. So if the girl is attracted to us, what's the point in gaming her?Exactly. Attraction can also build up over time too if you’re making the right moves. That’s why you sometimes see just average looking guys getting more girls than the more handsome guys, their game & personality is better. | /r/seduction | 06/03/20 06:58 PM |
| 11 | 24 Hours On Girl's TinderI tend to agree but it’s not always true. Sure white men are often times most desirable on OLD, but I’m black & have had some success with all types of women on tinder. It helps to be tall but honestly it just comes down to looks & how cool your profile comes across. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Ever since the PUA landscape changed on YouTube, this sub also changedHoly shit dude | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 06:10 AM |
| 1 | She kicked him and spit on him, what she expected ?One of my fav subreddits but NSFW | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/01/20 11:20 PM |
| 6 | Pubs and bars are better than nightclubsNo judgement here, pal | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 05:55 PM |
| 2 | She’s shook that someone finally said the truthAnd you’re bitching about people bitching. Take your own advice and just scroll past those comments if it bothers you so much. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/11/19 05:15 PM |
| 2 | She’s shook that someone finally said the truthIt’s called “having an opinion”. Everyone has them. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/11/19 01:00 PM |
| 15 | Cant take it at allStill not getting any matches, huh? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/10/19 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Got RektI didn’t say everyone in India was Indian. Go back and read my comment with some comprehension, you fuckwad. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/10/19 12:56 PM |
| 5 | Got RektNo it’s called colourism like the other guy said, specifically because it happens within the same race and because of color prejudice. Idk what the fuck this guy is talking about, but by his logic that means a majority of the people in India are racist to themselves too? Doesn’t make sense. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/10/19 12:20 PM |
| 6 | how do i keep her interestedYou're overthinking this. If you're interested in her as well just keep doing what you're doing and take it easy. As for when to stop texting, it's okay to stop whenever you're busy. Her texts shouldn't be your main priority if you have other shit to get done. It's okay to text every day, but it's also okay to not text every minute of the day. If she texts you first, that's cool too, she likes you! But do you have to immediately text back if you can't? No. Just reply whenever you can. | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Let's get YOU a wingman!I’m in Dallas too. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Let's get YOU a wingman!Dallas TX. Looking for a mentor! | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 04:23 PM |
| 4 | How did you guys get over approach anxiety? I picked up girls before, but it’s been like 5 years coming out of a long relationship. Seems impossible to get restartedEasier said than done, but this is the way to go | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Incredibly easy technique to get her to put more effort into the convoAs the others have said those are definitely harsher ways to disqualify (probably why you got downvoted), but OP's way is indeed still a form of disqualification which is very effective. | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 08:28 AM |
| 1 | PART 1 of 2: How I overcome AA and became a consistent action taker with results!!Good shit man | /r/seduction | 31/07/19 01:21 AM |
| 1 | PART 1 of 2: How I overcome AA and became a consistent action taker with results!!I’m a week late but this is very helpful. Looking forward to Part 2! | /r/seduction | 31/07/19 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Girl Randomly Started Acting Very Cold?Whoops, my bad | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Girl Randomly Started Acting Very Cold?It's not a shit test. u/getyourlifeplease is on the money with his her explanation, she was just having a bad day. | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Who ever had posted this, please repost. Sincere request.huh, never knew that site existed. bookmarked. | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Got too physical too quickly on a dateIt's only bad when the girl says stop but the guy keeps doing it anyway. OP never mentioned that she told him to stop, and it seems like she waited to tell him she was uncomfortable until after their date. How was he supposed to know? | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 01:27 AM |
| 2 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsThis was great. Do you have any other instructors like Tom that you recommend watching? | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 12:02 AM |
| 9 | Gaming Without Alcohol: How To Meet And Date Women Without DrinkingRight lol. I was thinking “Gaming without alcohol? That’s way less fun” | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Why is confidence sexy?Dude thank you so much for writing this. I don't even know how to reply but you touched on a lot of great points that I really needed to read. Thanks again. | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Why is confidence sexy?"Just don't continue to dig a hole for yourself by thinking you aren't worth it" Currently in this position now. I'm not motivated to do shit. I wanna learn how to draw better and get fit but I'm too lazy and not confident in myself. & seeing everyone's accomplishments on social media isn't making myself feel any better. I know this isn't the right way of thinking but I can't help it. | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 08:18 PM |
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