stancedpolestar Archive

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2	Nowadays women usually have the upper hand in relationships There are no upper hands in relationships. If someone has an upper hand in a relationship and it's not a true equal partnership, then there's definitely some incompatibly going on there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 10:57 PM
1	Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate? I take home close to $300k/yr and I just recently got engaged for my first time at age 33. I've been with her for 2 years now and before her, I was single for 6 years. Had all kinds of issues finding someone but most of it I think was because of my personality. I'm a very shy and introverted dude who absolutely hates places like bars and I rarely ever drink because I don't like the effects of alcohol, I do love my THC vapes though. Outside of that, I'm an outdoor adventure nerd. I hunt, fish, hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 03:17 AM
1	Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest? Might be for some 30+ year olds but for me personally, I'm not out for revenge, I'm out to prove to myself that I can do something with my life. I barely graduated high school, never drank, but I did all kinds of party drugs and skipped school to shred the skatepark whenever possible. Then after high school I got onto a crazy rage of depression, tried killing myself multiple times and was admitted to a psychiatric facility for a month. It was my time in that facility that changed my life for the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 01:44 AM
1	Why does Polyamory get so much hate here? Simple answer for me. I'm Catholic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 10:27 PM
1	Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are struggling I'm on this sub and I'm nothing special... have major troubles with finding women, mainly because the majority of women in my area aren't into dudes like me because I don't fit the area's "societal norm". I'm 32 in NW Montana, I'm very wealthy from investments I made back in 2013, and outside of my house and vehicles, I live extremely frugal because the "luxury" lifestyle isn't my thing. I camp in a tent on the roof of my truck all year round, hike everywhere, snowboard, snowshoe, downhill mtn b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 07:09 PM
1	Why are so many men subservient to their wife/gf? Then why is it that whenever I see a husband and wife in public, the husband is always in the shadows as if he's a 3rd child in the family? Literally just saw it the other day in the grocery store... wife legit would not "allow" her husband to buy a bag of Fritos after he asked for permission - which is dumb in itself. I've also seen it at the pumpkin patch and christmas tree farm as well and my fiance and I laugh so hard when we see it and feel so bad for these poor dudes who literally allow th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/24 05:33 AM
1	How is it not better to be toxic? Almost every woman I've ever met has only seemed interested when I'm entertaining them or talking about random shit with them. The second I start talking about real world shit, they become disinterested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/24 04:10 AM
–	How is it not better to be toxic? Let's decipher these... Handsome - this one makes sense. Great in bed? - that's impossible to know if you haven't been to bed with them yet. Charismatic, Witty, Interesting? - what you're suggesting here is that women are attracted to being entertained, nothing more. Only one aspect of what you mentioned makes sense, the rest is just modern societal bullshit, and men shouldn't be treated as personal entertainers, but be treated like partners instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/24 03:52 AM
1	Are men really the biggest problem or is it women? Neither men nor women are the problem. The problem is the modern views in society as a whole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 02:17 PM
1	If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him Shit idk, I've just been focused on scaling my business to surrounding states for the last 4 years. But when I do date, since I am hardcore introverted, I personally prefer the woman pursuing me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 10:00 PM
2	If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him Depends who you are, I'm a 32M and I love and prefer being pursued. Been single for the last 4 years by choice though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 09:46 PM
1	Why should men enter relationships when any woman has to power to legally easily ruin you life forever? Reason why I'm single and have grown to love it! The second I get married she's got a financial incentive to divorce me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 10:32 PM
0	Men raised by single mothers are the worst kinds of men to date This is so far from the truth lol me and my 3 brothers were raised by our single mother who has been in the military for 30+ years and let me tell ya, my mother does NOT treat me or my brothers like this or our significant others, she's extremely loving and caring with everyone. You may have had a bad experience with 1 instance, but 1 instance is NOT everybody.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 02:27 PM
1	Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anything 32M, I honestly could care less if I ever find someone or not, I've got my own happy life I've built for myself. Spent my 20s building a capital investments firm and scaling it, I've got awesome hobbies, and I'm a small engine hobby pilot and have my own small engine aircraft as well. 4 years ago I tried dating and tried the apps and it only took a few weeks to realize nobody on the apps is serious about finding anyone, so I immediately deleted my profile and the apps and haven't tried again sin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 06:05 PM
1	Why do bossbabe women complain about not being able to find a man? I'm a 32M who got a vasectomy in my early 20s and will never be a parent. I'm happy as hell!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 06:17 PM
7	Asking a woman how much a men should make to date her. Its always at least 200k I don't know what kind of millionaires you personally know but I'm friends with quite a few since they're my clients... less than 20% of them are married and struggle to find relationships, both millionaire men and women. In addition, I'm a grown adult. Attaining "pussy" isn't my goal. My goal is to find someone who respects me for me and is interested in a long-term relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 06:32 PM
7	Asking a woman how much a men should make to date her. Its always at least 200k This is false in real life in my experience. I'm 32, became a millionaire at 26 and I've been single and looking for almost 4 years now. I get rejected frequently and the reasons why is they either say they don't like my hobbies or that my career is a red flag. I spent my 20s building a capital investments firm and have 3 locations in 2 states and working on scaling even more. My hobbies are all outdoors and adventurous too since I live in the mountains of NW Montana. I do a lot of camping, hiki…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 06:20 PM
1	Women now want to be paid 6 figures for being stay at home moms You're kidding right? My sister in law died of cancer and my brother has raised their 3 kids alone with no problems whatsoever. Speak for yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 03:48 AM
1	Reasons for women to still be on a dating app a year later? Definitely not a guarantee by any means. I learned that the hard way. Been single for 3 years now I can't tell you how many times women have rejected me because they didn't like my hobbies that make me happy lol it makes no sense either. In my opinion it's petty, but it's out of my control so I gave up on dating and enjoy the single life now. I'm only 32 as well and have never been married or have kids and I get belittled by women for that as well, but I spent my entire 20s building a capital in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 11:42 PM
1	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. I don't blame women, I blame modern societal norms. Nobody ever even talked about "red flags" back when I was in college and both women nor men rejected opportunities based on the miniscule petty reasons we see nowadays either. By petty I'm talking about things like "I don't like his/her hobbies" or "He/she doesn't have a dog" or "He/she doesn't listen to country" or "He/she doesn't wear square toe boots"... and yes, these are just a few of some of the petty reasons I've personally been rejected…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 02:25 PM
1	A lot of women are selecting guys for social points, and men here seem to not understand how this works. Lmao, meanwhile dudes like me (32M) get belittled by women when they find out that I cook awesome meals for myself every night, deep clean my house once every two weeks, have no debt, and have a very healthy social life. I've even been told I'm a walking red flag by a woman before. I've also been rejected because my "hobbies are confusing" in relation to the career I have? I own a capital investments firm and have 3 locations in 2 different states and my hobbies consist of outdoor adventure - hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 12:55 AM
1	CMV Women don‘t hate nice guys, women hate men without a spine. Every man has a spine, if not, evolution and natual human biology has failed them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 08:16 PM
1	Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreated Couldn't agree more... I grew up in a very loving military family and we went to church all the time and Inwas taught to cook and clean from a young age and to never disrespect people and always treat others how I want to be treated. Unfortunately this personality has always been looked down upon by women I've dated in the past and they end up getting bored and months later are dating a cocky jackass who's only accolade in college was sleeping with 30+ women (I know him personally). I tested thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 05:53 PM
1	Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ? Simple, I struggle because I have an INFJ personality and it's extremely hard for me to connect with people, male or female. My mind races at 100mph at all times and one minute I'll be thinking about aliens and the next minute I'll be thinking about strategies to scale my company. Many women find my personality confusing and want nothing to do with it. Been single 3 years now and I really don't even care much about dating anymore, I just focus on enjoying all my outdoor adventure hobbies and my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 12:49 AM
1	Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonable I'm a 32M and I've had many many bad experiences with dating due to my wealth and the things I have. In the past I would either drive one of my trucks or my McLaren to dates and bring them back to my house afterwards and once they'd see the things I have, most of them have started to act even more interested in me to where it seemed fake, like the difference in mannerisms toward me was a complete 180 once we'd pull up to my house. Nowadays, I drive an old grocery getter car to dates, dress plain…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 06:03 PM
1	Should women be blamed if their marriages fail? Getting married isn't even worth it these days. You get married and then your spouse immediately has rights to half of your net worth and is now financially incentivized to divorce you. Shit's scary, whether you're a dude who makes the most money or a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 02:52 PM
5	Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love. I'm a dude with many dude friends and I've never heard a dude say this literally ever. Shit I don't even look for that shit, I grew up being taught how to clean and cook, I can take care of my own damn self. Any woman I date is a compliment to my life, not a damn "tool" to make my life easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 03:55 AM
1	Men should always assume a woman is not interested unless proven otherwise This is what I do... and the reason why is because I'm on the verge of giving up after I was told by one woman I've matched with before that it's "scary" to her that I listen to metal music and not country music like most people and she asked me if I'd ever switch what I like because she said I was perfect otherwise lol I told her I've been listening to metal my whole life and it just sounds super good to me like a work of art and she unmatched within a few minutes, didn't even respond. Petty re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 09:50 PM
1	Men don't get it. Women have moved on BOSS BABE - Buy my Herbalife and ColorStreet!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 10:36 PM
1	The men here fail because they refuse to take any risks Hey now, not all introverted dudes play games. I'm 32, introverted, hate small talk, and I'm shy as hell and haven't played a video game since high shcool. I'm an outdoor adventurer and go camping, hiking, mtn biking, ufo spotting, big cat spotting, snowshoeing and snowboarding on a regular basis and I have been single for 3 years because I'm too scared of getting cheated on because every girlfriend I've ever had as an adult has cheated on me and later admitted to it and apologized.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 06:47 PM
1	The men here fail because they refuse to take any risks We're human, every human complains about something once in a while, just like you're complaining about men right now lol I'd be more concerned if you didn't ever complain about anything. That's not human nature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 06:41 PM
1	A lot of men are jealous of women. it comes off as feminine and is one of the reasons men have issues finding partners Found the person who knows nothing about Government. Media and Government are historically known for spinning stories and making shit up just so that it creates a narrative so that people like YOU believe them and they can pocket money from whatever stocks are currently trending in that industry. The proof is in the portfolios, and all that data is publicly available. Like right now, all the dems are pushing for ww3 and eggin' in on trying to get YOU to believe it's a good idea so that you'll ag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 12:30 PM
1	What if most men just can't make a decent profile on dating apps? I'm not alone due to bad presentation lmao... I'm alone because women can't handle my adventurous lifestyle since I camp for 5+ months out of the year in both summer and winter and on a daily basis I'm either hiking, mtn biking, snowshoeing, or snowboarding and that's the shit that makes me happy. I could care less if I ever find someone. I'm just speaking the truth about the nature of the adult male.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 07:13 PM
–	What if most men just can't make a decent profile on dating apps? Because it's in our nature to not give a shit about vanity metrics or petty bullshit like that. Many of us prefer to be natural and not fake (i.e. flattering angles for the sole purpose of looking good, filters, wesring clothing we don't normally wear just to look good, etc.) only beta male simps do that kind of shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 07:03 PM
–	What if most men just can't make a decent profile on dating apps? Dudes don't research things like "best angles to take selfies" lol and the angle of a selfie shouldn't matter either, it's literally nothing more than a vanity metric. It's not like you're going to meet the guy and your angle of looking at him irl will be the same angle anyway lmfao	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 06:58 PM
1	Men do appreciate female friendship, but they often avoid it because it is costly Two of my best friends are females. I've had relationships with both in the past but I ended up moving out of state and they wanted to stay friends. I've even had them come visit me in my new state as well and we talk every day. One of them is now engaged and the other is dating someone else, but it has not changed our good friendship in any way and their significant others and I get along as well. Not every female friend situation turns out bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 01:19 PM
1	Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable? Yup, or a false accusation and diagnosis of the man being a narcissist lol I swear these women are all psychologists or something, every dude is a narcissist these days apparently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 07:01 PM
1	Why women think men suck at relationships Not all men. I'm a single 32M and I'm a friggen clean freak and have been judged by women in the past for it and have been called "feminine" by women because of it. Growing up my parents always taught us to have respect for the roof over our head and keep it clean and orderly. To this day I deep clean my house once every two weeks (dust is gross) and I'm a hardcore minimalist too, so I personally can't stand clutter or random "stuff" in places they shouldn't be. I even clean the garage floor on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 04:11 PM
6	I don't think average men get laid that much actually I'm the same way. 32M been single for 3 years now and I'm not out looking for it whatsoever. My outdoor adventure hobbies make me happy as hell and I've got a whole bunch of long-term goals I've been working towards since I was 19 so the thought of "trying to find someone" or "have casual sex" just doesn't cross my mind at all. If an opportunity were to randomly come along, I'd definitely entertain it, but I'm not looking for it by any means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 03:50 PM
2	Do you think men hit the wall around 45? I'm a 31yo male and I've been burdened or blessed via genetics to look younger than I am. I get told all the time by my teenage niece's friends that I look like I'm 21-25 lol. It kinda sucks in my case actually. I wish I looked older.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:45 PM
1	Who do you think settles more in relationships? Dudes gotta stop being pushovers and learn how to lead and take charge, and women have to understand that they have to earn a man's respect if they want exactly what they're looking for and stop acting like it should be given to them right out of the gate. Relationships are a two way street, it takes two to make a relationship work successfully. Overall, I think both end up settling to some degree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 08:56 PM
3	If you get an abundance of OLD matches but can never seem to find what you are looking for; what do you think the problem is? Couldn't agree more with your comment. I run into this on a very regular basis and it's annoying af! Having them ask questions about YOU is like pulling teeth. They only care about what you ask about them or how you make them feel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 08:11 PM