stanfarce Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Say sorry or don't?	Conversation	stanfarce	/r/seduction	04/07/22 06:22 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman? What's beautiful with your "putting in the work" or "projecting bad vibes" things is that they are completely subjective and unquantifiable. So by your definition I should treat everyone like shit because they don't live to my own standards or because I don't like their faces (fyi for someone out there, an ugly face projects bad vibes). Bravo, you basically confirmed my point. Respect isn't something you earn, it is the way to deal with all living beings.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 03:48 PM
-8	Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman? they treat you with contempt because you haven’t demonstrated that you deserve respect. This is so stupid. No one should have to demonstrate anything to be respected. You should respect everyone by default. It's only when they show you a lack of respect or when they show how bad they are that you should stop respecting them. By saying that, you just proved that you're as bad as the women OP describes, and are contributing in making our world a bad place to live in.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 03:22 PM
1	Why do you guys want to make out on the first date Men are more sexual creatures than women. I'm oversimplifying, but for men it's just a switch and they just need to see the woman for their switch to be turned on. For women on the other hand, it's more a gauge that needs to slowly go up so guys need to adapt to that (it looks like your arousal gauge was quite empty at the time lol).	/r/seduction	29/07/22 08:56 PM
1	Did I fuck it up? Do as usual, don't talk about it, continue having small conversations with her. It will only be a problem if it's a problem in your head. If someone reminds you how awkward it was, just wave it off by saying it was nothing, you just suddenly thought about something or that you thought you forgot something important. If she didn't hear what you were talking about with your other friends, you can also tell her this is why you went to them ; you just had to clear something important with them. It's…	/r/seduction	27/07/22 12:16 PM
1	Why do I feel less attracted to a girl after I engage in conversation with her and talk about personal things? This seems like a good tip but it's very abstract to me. Do you have examples of these goals or what you could say?	/r/seduction	23/07/22 05:16 PM
2	Why do I feel less attracted to a girl after I engage in conversation with her and talk about personal things? I kinda have the same problem so I won't be able to answer the question in the body of your message but I can perhaps answer the question in the title. It may be because : 1) you don't particularly like to talk about yourself, like me 2) because of the 1st point, you find the conversation stressful / annoying / boring. And nervousness, annoyance or boredom will make your arousal go away 3) if she talks about herself, what she likes etc, like MO_drps_knwldg says she becomes another human being wi…	/r/seduction	23/07/22 05:12 PM
6	Does anyone know guys who insult women after they reject them? Depends on where you live. My own city is renowned as the place where beautiful women are most scarce. Doesn't mean I find guys insulting the women who reject them acceptable, of course.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 05:13 AM
2	Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say? Yeah looking at it again, it's a bit much haha. What I meant was more that you showing emotion by showing your face has muscles or even making faces is better than keeping the usual boring and needy plain face 100% of the time. Context is important though, you don't want to pass for a crazy lunatic of course. You want to come across as a fun person to be around with.	/r/seduction	19/07/22 03:02 PM
0	I have nothing to talk about I know this emoji is two glasses of beer or something, but I'll always see it as a butt with peg legs	/r/seduction	19/07/22 08:56 AM
1	Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say? I understand what you're saying, I really do. I'm 43 and I've never had a girlfriend either. I also hate going to bars or using dating apps / social media to find someone. Maybe I should do the same as you, but I chose to just abandon the idea instead and to slowly try and turn my "incel" status into a "volcel" one. Trying to accept and be at peace with the idea of never having a lover might be the better thing to do for guys like us. We can't ALL have a cute girlfriend, just like we can't ALL b…	/r/seduction	19/07/22 07:29 AM
3	Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say? I would advise you to at least not cold-approach in your own city. Word spreads fast, especially among women, and sooner or later you'll labelled as the creepy lonely dude to stay away from.	/r/seduction	19/07/22 06:33 AM
12	Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say? Girls are not stupid. They know that 99% of the time a random male stranger talks to them on the streets, it's to get in their panties.	/r/seduction	19/07/22 06:26 AM
1	Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say? You know, I think it's better to smile like this than to have your usual rested face. The rested face is the creepy one	/r/seduction	19/07/22 06:22 AM
1	Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say? Women tend not to give male strangers the time of day because they don't want to open a potential "can of worms". I mean, deep within they all know there are a ton of needy guys and if they start to engage with them on the streets, even by just making eye-contact, saying hello or shaking their hand, they know it would give birth to Hope in the guy's mind and they do not want to inflict another trauma to this guy when they eventually have to reject him. Because let's be honest here, most attracti…	/r/seduction	19/07/22 06:04 AM
16	Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman? Don't listen to her lies, those things don't exist	/r/seduction	18/07/22 01:24 PM
0	How to get laid: Listen up you boring motherf*ckers!!!! .. Be an interesting person! Lmao. You don't like any physical activity?? No I don't. No need to be condescending about it. I also didn't imply everyone does it to get pussy - more power to you if you enjoy them. My comment was directed to the advice itself. You do realize that you're advising people who mostly don't like physical activity to have physical activity, right? You'd have to have no self-respect to force yourself into doing things you do not enjoy just to get pussy. Like pussy is the end all be all of our lives,…	/r/seduction	18/07/22 06:04 AM
1	I am not desired sexually by women That's hilarious. You put me higher on a pedestal than you, but you don't know me / have never seen me. From my perspective, you're the guy with the higher sexual presence, you're the blessed guy and I'm the cursed one. Why would your "facts" have more weight than mine?	/r/seduction	17/07/22 07:45 PM
2	I am not desired sexually by women That is quite an assumption. Why do you think I'm desirable for some women even though you never saw my face, how short I am, and my absence of muscles lol? I once heard a girl say she would have to still be a vigin and desperate / close to death to want to bang me, lmfao. Anyways, what you want ("a woman to truly embrace me for me") doesn't exist because both men and women only want to bang an ideal of the opposite sex they have in their minds (hence this whole Seduction subreddit which tells y…	/r/seduction	17/07/22 07:31 PM
5	I am not desired sexually by women Oh trust me, our situations are the same. All I'm saying is you need to accept this situation, be at peace with it. It doesn't have to get you down your whole life. I know it's hard and painful, I'm still working on it myself. "I just want to experience the embrace of a woman but I do not have sex appeal." A woman? Any woman? So you're okay for an ugly woman (both ugly in body and soul), to embrace you? Come on man, be honest with yourself.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 07:03 PM
10	I am not desired sexually by women Don't worry, if this can make you feel better, most guys feel the same. When I was a kid I was constantly shown on TV or in comics / mangas how great having an attactive girlfriend would be. Going out, gazing into each others' eyes, the idea of true love... It kinda made me obsessed with having a girlfriend. I'm 43 now and I'm also finally understanding that I will never get that. All those tips about seduction that demand that you basically become someone else... ...yeah, no thanks. I am what I…	/r/seduction	17/07/22 05:53 PM
2	How to get laid: Listen up you boring motherf*ckers!!!! .. Be an interesting person! So true. Pussy is overrated.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 05:18 PM
-2	How to get laid: Listen up you boring motherf*ckers!!!! .. Be an interesting person! Aside from music (and I do music kinda but it's video game remixes made on computer - stuff that will make most attractive women flee in horror), all those are boring af. No thanks, I'd rather not get pussy than regularly bore myself to tears in hope that I'll get pussy if I do this stuff. It's hilarious that guys nowadays have to do so much effort to try to be someone they aren't or try their darndest to make women believe they have goals other than pussy when those goals are specificly created…	/r/seduction	17/07/22 05:16 PM
1	What is it with this Girl She's probably playing. You tease her so she teases you. I think she likes you.	/r/seduction	07/07/22 05:52 PM
1	What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you? Getting a big car is always an important skill to have in this department	/r/seduction	06/07/22 10:07 AM
7	Is he a player or just not that interested? If the comment is yours you can click on the 3 dots and then use "delete comment" If it's someone else's, you can't (but you can report it to moderators if it breaks a rule)	/r/seduction	05/07/22 05:17 PM
14	Is he a player or just not that interested? It feels to me that he's using the good old methods every player knows to make your interest in him grow : - wait a few days before replying to your texts (the 3 days rule, but looks like he makes it last more time so you don't detect it if you know about it) - stop the conversations on high notes.	/r/seduction	05/07/22 05:14 PM
2	Say sorry or don't? +1 to your post. Although I'm not sure about this one : If you cheat on her you should say sorry because that also hurts her. It's like someone apologizing after killing someone. Listening to such apology, you'd think "listen to this poor excuse of a human being, (s)he says (s)he is sorry, ha". I think we're in the cases where we're way past apologies. There should be better words because those would 100% make you fall even lower in their esteem, if that's all possible.	/r/seduction	04/07/22 11:26 AM
-1	Say sorry or don't? Doesn't your second paragraph prove that you're the one who fucked up by apologizing though? Most women are stupid bitches btw, it's not new (but before someone tells me I'm sexist I should add that most men are, too).	/r/seduction	04/07/22 10:22 AM
0	Say sorry or don't? Of course it's not a manual for real life, but I found the way the lady tells him to apologize without even knowing what happened interesting enough to post about it. It gets the ball rolling for an interesting conversation. "Something wrong" is questionable. It often depends on the point of view of each character. It's common knowledge apologizing sometimes isn't a good thing. My question is more related to the women's psyches. Do they really want their men to be apologetic like the woman from …	/r/seduction	04/07/22 10:05 AM
1	Say sorry or don't? Thanks for your reply but allow me to be more specific here with a crappy situation from personal experience (of course I won't apologize if the pizza delivery guy is late, lol) [[I edited what was below into the main post]]	/r/seduction	04/07/22 07:25 AM