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I work in care with vunerable adults. I am unsure about schools, btu agressive residents where I work are on 1-1 as they are a risk to themselves and others.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 10:44 PM
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yes, that is rape.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 12:24 PM
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what was pence rule? I am not scared of all men, I am just cautious of men I don't know. I have no issue with talking to men online as I feel very safe doing so. I am on this reddit because support mens rights. But when I say something in support of men but not shitting on women, people seem to dislike that. Mens rights shouldn't be men vs women. It should be about true equality, socially and legally.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 05:18 PM
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sorry, I wrote it wrong. I was on my lunch break so I was rushing. I meant to say, most the people who have argued for circumcision have been men. I debate it quite often as I think people need to realise how wrong it is.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 05:15 PM
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ok, regardless of gender. Most people experience crimes against them, man or woman. I am aware my experience and word is anecdotal (there are statistics that back what I am saying though) But, i have been assaulted multiple times, before i turned 18. I then became more cautious around men, as it was men that assaulted me. I do not discriminate, and I have male friends. I am allowed to be anxious. And as well as me, the majority of my female friends have experienced sexual abuse of some sort and …
/r/MensRights13/11/22 02:21 PM
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ok, but murder and mugging are not the only things that cause fear. There is no "men should have more fear than women" or the other way around. Its, people are allowed to be scared of things that are likely to happen to them.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 02:17 PM
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If you dont have a counter point to my stance, you dont have to reply. It just shows me that you cant defend what you are saying.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 10:58 AM
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I dont think its ok to call all men bad. I think it's ok to be scared of all men and to choose to avoid them when possible. In the exact same way, it's fair for men to be cautious and untrusting of women because of paternity fraud.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 10:57 AM
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ok, but my point still stands. I'm saying its ok to be scared of something that has hurt you before and may hurt you again. When most women have experienced sexual harassment or assault. It is justified for them to be scared. There is no point that explains men being murdered more would be equal to this, as 1. most men havent been murdered, obviously and 2. it just doesnt relate. my point doesnt just go for women being g scared of men, it is for anyone who has been assaulted being scared of the …
/r/MensRights13/11/22 10:55 AM
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and I disagree with that. Although, most the people I have spoken to who anti circumcision legal, are men.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 10:51 AM
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ok? the same logic still doesnt apply, as whilst men are murdered more, most men haven't been murdered and men that have been, it tends to be by other men.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 10:50 AM
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because most men haven't experienced being murdered.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 07:48 PM
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please explain what paternity fraud is to me. Also, it's ok to take steps to feel safe and protected around a group you dont trust. Even so, have most men been a victim of paternity fraud?
/r/MensRights12/11/22 07:47 PM
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I mean, most racists were brought up in a racist household, not abused by the race they hate. Secondly most racists aren't racist because they are scared or have been abused, its because they were brought up to thought that way or have been persuaded. And lastly, whilst racism is wrong. If someone is simply scared, and chooses to not be alone with an individual, so long as they arent discriminating or harassing people. That's ok. As I said, people are allowed to be scared, even if we dont see it…
/r/MensRights12/11/22 07:44 PM
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because whilst most men are harmless and kind people, the bad individuals harm a large majority of women. And women canr tell the good from the bad, so they are cautious around all. Which is ok, so long as they dont use it as an excuse to discriminate. Everyone is allowed to feel fear and have anxiety.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 05:46 PM
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I agree, theres no justification for either and they shouldn't be legal or normalised. But, MGM isnt everywhere, the 1st world country it is prominent in is America, in a lot of places in Europe, for example England, it is abnormal and not common.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 05:37 PM
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I think he was implying it doesnt happen to women. The difference is, location. In the USA male circumcision is normalised (it shouldn't be) and in other countries/cultures, FGM is normalised.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 02:36 PM
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I mean, female circumcision does happen, but the take the whole clitoris out and stitch the vagina shut.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 12:05 PM
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a few minutes of sex can ruin anyones life, that's not exclusive to women.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 12:04 PM
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I her argument is the same as "oh, you want equality? then men can hit women"
/r/MensRights12/11/22 12:03 PM
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I know that's what I'm saying. Her family needs to be investigated. But regardless, the school need to explain to her that that is not ok, and she shouldn't be allowed to ride the bus without supervision as she is a risk to other students.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 11:03 AM
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child on child sexual abuse is very real and really fucked up. For her to be doing that at that age, she had probably been abused too (I'm not excusing what she did, it's still really fucked up) the girl and her family should have been investigated, because that's not normal and its honestly heartbreaking. Especially since she got no consequences and may have gone on to do it to others. Honestly, if you feel comfortable doing so and the same staff are still there, report them. That's a serious s…
/r/MensRights01/11/22 11:13 AM
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to be completley honest, I got you adn another person confused in my reply.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 10:38 PM
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according to you, you speak for all of them. I'm talking from both experience, growing up around women and also having many close female friends. All of them dress for themselves, with the occasional date or whatever where they are dressing for their date.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 10:46 AM
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I used to give my dad a card, some chocolates and a book.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 10:43 AM
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regardless of if we all subconsciously want sex or not. I do not dress myself for male attention, and neither do most of my friends.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 06:35 PM
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no, it doesnt. My life doesnt revolve around sex. It revolves around me progressing myself as an individual. I could have sex if I wanted to. I choose not to.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 05:08 PM
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so that I feel better in myself, I feel more able to communicate and it improves my self image and mental health. I'm gay, it's not for men.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 05:05 PM
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ok.. so, I like women. I can really promise you the attention men give me makes me feel scared and uncomfortable. I can say the same for a fair few of my straight and gay friends... Even so, I don't dress nicely for women. I dress nicely so when I see my reflection in a mirror or a window I know I look good and it gives me confidence. Also, I practice basic hygiene so I dont feel disgusting, not so men look at me nice.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 05:00 PM
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I mean, no. When I've had men "look" at me and I've found it inappropriate, it's a middle aged man making eye contact, scanning his eyes down my body and staring at my tits. I wasnt wearing anything provocative, I was underage at the time and looked even younger. That's what we mean when we dont like how men look at us.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 09:39 AM
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I know, but ny point still stands. Most women arent dressing how they do for men to look at them.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 09:36 AM
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nah dude, I wear skirts and dresses etc.. Because I like the way it looks, I like how they compliment my figure and I like seeing how my outfits tie together. I don't like the men that follow me and my friends, beep at us, catcall us... etc.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 06:01 AM
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when people say "don't look at women" It's more, don't stare at them for ages or stare at their boobs and ass. You can look at women in general.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 05:59 AM
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I mean it's just "if you get pregnant, will you keep it?"
/r/MensRights26/10/22 08:17 PM
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I mean, I agrue pro-choice, and my argument for autonomy carries over into banning circumcison. It's shocking that baby boys get their genitals mutilated for no justifiable reasin.
/r/MensRights26/10/22 08:16 PM
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honestly, you could report it but not charge her. I was sexually assaulted when I was 14. I didnt tell the police till two years later and i didn't expect them to charge him. But I know that my accusation being on his file, will back up anyone else he had assaulted if they come fowards.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 12:46 PM
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honestly, if people cant respect the small things, they wont respect the big things. I'd recommend having a conversation about boundaries, because they always have to be respected.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 12:44 PM
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she raped you. If you feel comfortable and safe to do so, you should to the police and report her. It sounds like she has done it on multiple occasions before. If you dont feel as though you can go to the police and its sticking with you, I'd really advise councling.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 12:47 PM
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I mean in how they look, honestly I dont massively care, it protects me so I'd use either. But, female condoms are a lot harder to put in, to my knowledge. However, you can put them in and leave them there, so you could do it in advance ig.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 10:10 AM
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I mean, yeah. Even so, its not the same level of responsibility.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:36 PM
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bro female condoms are ew, but like. You should use a condom everytime anyway, unless you're in a long term relationship.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:33 PM
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there should be adequate birth control for both men and women. However currently there isnt. I will say, regardless of if either party used a form of contraception, the abortion is up to the woman as it is using her body as a host.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:32 PM
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I have no idea, I didn't know I was supposed to be counting?
/r/MensRights20/10/22 10:41 AM
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same goes for the past. My point still stands, regardless of if its past or present. I don't need male attention.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 07:30 PM
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no, I dont. I work full time in a care home, almost all female staff, all female residents and the few male agency's are mostly married. Attention i get from men in public makes me feel scared and uncomfortable, I somt like it and I'd gladly never have it again. Online, all my male friends are platonic friends and I have been in a relationship for a while now I can definitely live without male attention.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 07:11 PM
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yes, but it seems that when I talk to women about the issue of sexual violence, it's not if you've been assaulted but when. most women I have discussed with, have had a mutual experience and it's scary.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 07:06 PM
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I'm saying, you're talking as if sex cures all those problems and it doesnt. I dont need attention to live and I definitely wouldn't go "feral" with out it. I have friends and before I had a partner, I functioned fine.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 07:05 PM
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I mean, I'm aware my experience is anecdotal. But I have plenty of female friends and only one of them hasn't been sexually abused or assaulted.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 06:36 PM
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dude, I have been with a few men romantically and not had sex it them. I also have many Male friends, who easily live without sex. sex doesn't fix your life, if you have many issues, there are probably other factors that unlocving sex won't fix. I never asked men to care about abortions, I care about them not dictating whether I sacrifice my body to a fetus I dont want or not.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 06:35 PM
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not having sex, doesnt equal being lonely and isolated. You can have friends, family and Romantic partners. I'm dont understand why you brought up people caring about women being raped or abortions? You should care about other genders issues because we are people, and in that sense we are unionised. Also the man may have female friends he dcares about. Sex isnt the only thing that links men and women.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 01:05 PM
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yeah, but not having sex isnt the end of the world, so 1/3 is a lot of men, but not so much of a big deal. Whereas rape and SA are a very big deal and can fuck up someone's life permanently, so 1/5 is a very big deal.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 12:59 PM
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that is fucked up, but tbf anyone can post your photo anywhere on the internet anonymously, it's scary.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 12:56 PM
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ok, sure. It's not the same responsibility though.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 03:37 PM
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I mean yeah, I never said they couldn't.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 03:37 PM
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I mean yeah, any parent should be able to remove parental and financial responsiblity. It's not the same though, giving up financial resources and control over your body will never be the same.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 03:36 PM
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bro
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:39 PM
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if it comes to abortion, yeah it is the woman's choice.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:37 PM
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that is horrible and really sad.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 01:06 PM
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my reply is based on statistics. Women are awarded custody more, but not because the law favours them. Because generally it is agreed between parents that the mother will take them. When there is a family court battle and both parents want custody, it is in mens favour, if they both fight. I will say, law does tend to favour women when it comes to things like sentencing and whatnot, especially if the woman is thought to be attractive. which is really fucked up. There was a woman who was pretty a…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 10:28 AM
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the law doesn't actually favour women in child custody...
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:55 AM
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bro I do buy mens products for that reason. Lmao I save on it, it's just smarter.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 07:25 PM
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my friend was sexually assaulted by my older brother. (I cut him off) But she absolutely was too scared to move, to say no or to even move away. That was still assault. There was no gun, or knife.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 10:50 AM
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I will send the link once I am home from work
/r/MensRights08/10/22 02:04 PM
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with custody, they try to keep it to the child's routine. Women often take the caregiver role. Even so, when both parents are fighting for custody, I believe it actually favours men.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 09:24 PM
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there should be an option for only men, only women and gender neutral. That's not transphobic dude. I personally wouldn't feel comfortable using a shared bathroom, due to past experiences. But that is my choice, the other genders should also be able to choose.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 10:47 AM
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any father should have the option to sign away parental responsibilities, however he should have no choice in the abortion at all, or whether it's legal or not.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 10:20 AM
1

in america I understand tipping, because it's basically how they get their pay. Which is fucked. But anywhere else, tipping is just saying good service right?
/r/MensRights27/08/22 05:58 AM
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what do you mean by tipping?
/r/MensRights26/08/22 06:34 PM
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I mean, having a video at the start means nothing anyway. Consent can be withdrawn at any point in time, could just be after the video. although it does show that he cares abt her consent. Which is good.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 05:28 AM
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I'd say for people under 18, one year up and one year down. Over 18, one year down adn 2/3 years up. I mean, I don't think they should have sex, but they still will. Which is why it's important to teach sex ed through out the entirety of school, from year one to year twelve. Obviously in an age apropriate way. For a lot of 15/16 year olds. They are in their first relationship and everything is new. Most are not good at communication and often feel as though bringing up an issuer may be the end a…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 05:29 PM
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it's not cultural. The majority of 16 year olds are not mature enough and do not have enough experience to be with someone over the age of 18. It's abt brain development and how often and easily the power dynamic can change to be imbalanced. honestly, whilst I think exclusivley sex is still wierd, it's far stranger when people want to be with minors.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 05:27 PM
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you can do sexual stuff and it be online. I asked abt sexual stuff in general. Not sexual contact.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 03:12 AM
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people would rather defend a liar than a rapist. Whilst it's wrong to demonise someone with no proof. That's why they trust her. honestly, his true friends will stick with him if he has proved he hasn't done shit.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 03:03 AM
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wanting to be with 16 year olds at 18 is wierd.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 02:22 AM
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so she's responding that way because he turned her down? taht's fucked. Honestly all he can do is tell people the truth and if he really needs, screenshare the whole convo.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 02:22 AM
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did he actually do sexual stuff with her?
/r/MensRights18/08/22 01:35 AM
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the difference is consent. It depends on the club for rules. But if one club has workers where they are ok with touch and sexual acts, that's fine. The club allows it. If sex acts and touching isn't allowed, then of course they are kicked out and reported for assault. if it's against the rules, the pre-given consent isn't there. That's the same standard in all clubs, follow the rules.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 01:28 AM
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20% is if they have 3 or more kids with the same person. It of course changes when there are multiple fathers, but it's just not possible. with the average uk wage, that's just not enought. Asuming it's the same father, earning 50k a year, it would be something like, 700 pounds a month. Which for 3+ kids and an adult is not a lot. I recognise that shitty women have kids for shitty reasons. but I think it's 1 in a million doing it for child support. And they will quickly realise that's very stupi…
/r/MensRights15/08/22 04:47 PM
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maybe, but it would be things like benifits that keep them afloat, rather than child support. If it's less than 20% of someones wage, supporting 4 or more people.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 04:39 PM
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wdym
/r/MensRights15/08/22 04:30 PM
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I'm not saying women don't have children with different men, and I'm not saying women don't have children for bad reasons such as money. I am saying most child support is just no way near enough to support someone even with multiple children from different fathers and child support alone isn't a motivator for women to have kids.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 04:30 PM
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you should contact a lawyer to help you with the law stuff, it's the safest bet
/r/MensRights15/08/22 12:02 AM
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oh yeah, I know 430 can be big to lose from income. I mean it's not a lot in the sense of motivation to have children. I don't think women are having children for the child support. Some may for things like benifits, but not that and that alone.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 08:57 PM
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I mean, in the UK it tells me12% for onw child, 16% for two and 19% for three or more. For the US it tells me the average is 430 per month, which is not a lot.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 08:32 PM
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yeah, I saw the one abt the lesbian couple. But its mental that that can happen when done through clinic, they really should introduce laws to protect sperm donors
/r/MensRights14/08/22 05:16 PM
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I was saying that in the case of abortion not being an option.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 05:01 PM
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yeah that is fucked up. I think I saw that case, and it was because it wasnt done through a clinic. But even so, they shouldn't be able to do that.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 05:00 PM
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ok, I misunderstood you then. I agree that either parent can revoke financial responsibility if they want to.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 05:00 PM
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I'm honestly not sure how that would work, but most people don't make a living off of child support. Especially single mothers who have to pay for childcare and everything else
/r/MensRights14/08/22 04:58 PM
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that's true. I guess if the child wants back in with the parent who signed away responsibility, then that would be ok
/r/MensRights14/08/22 04:57 PM
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No. 12% for one child, 16% for two. trust me, kids cost a lot more than £500 a month, if there's two of them £330 per child. Raising kids changes people's lives, very few women are doing that for such little money. I mean, I think peopel should be able to sign away all rights, including financial responsiblility. But you are wrong if you think that's the main motivator for single mothers to have children.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 03:23 PM
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because it's not you who has to carry the fetus to term, who has to take time of work, loose mobility, have tears in their genitals which can cause permanant damage, go through post partum depression (very common) and potentially post partum psychosis, have your pody change massivley, be inable to access certain medications and treatments... The list goes on. You can't force soemone else to carry a child for you when you won't be doing any of the work.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 02:48 PM
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12% of someone elses income, for most people isn't motivation to dedicate their life to a child.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 02:43 PM
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yes, I believe if you resign all parental rights, you should be able to cut ties and not pay child support and there should be no reversing that.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 02:42 PM
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thank you lmao this actually helps a lot
/r/MensRights14/08/22 12:53 AM
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I am aware, a lot of people view mens trauma as weak and will degrade them for that. And I do think that is very wrong and needs to be more discussed. However, I don't think that's an issue with feminism. I think it's an issue with society and how society views men dealing with emotions and problems in general. as well as, I believe I said the grandparent part about the white feather trend. Which wasn't actually a feminist trend. I think rather than blaming other people for things that other peo…
/r/MensRights14/08/22 12:20 AM
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yeah, he should charge her with assault. If he got it all on video it should hopefully go in his favour.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 09:45 PM
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I am aware that my personal experience is anecdotal. But I would consider myself a feminist, and a fair few of my male and female friends would too. None of them have said the quotes you put in the first reply, and non of them hate men. I have also never bashed someone for not hating men. I don't think we should hate most groups, as we should judge people individually. In my personal experience, as someone who argues for both female and male rights. It isn't as simple as people blaming all men b…
/r/MensRights13/08/22 09:39 PM
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all disgusting comments, and the people who say those things should be held accountable. But extremists tend to have the loudest voices. I could respond with things men have said to me and about women as a whole, but we would get no where. People are shitty, in every community. It doesn't excuse them, but don't mark down the entire movement for what some people say. The majority of the internet was against amber heard and sided with johnny depp. So I don't understand why that was said. Evidence …
/r/MensRights13/08/22 08:57 PM
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feminsism is the concept of equality and equal oppertunity, regardless of gender. Both legally and socially. We have a long way to go for both men and women. But feminism isn't about raising women above men. It's about making it level, and doing this includes things that benifit men and women.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 08:27 PM
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the "benifits" are insignificant. You wouldn't cut off a finger to prevent it from breaking. It reduces senitvity over time and it just takes all potential bodily autonomy awaay from the baby, puts the baby at risk when it's not needed. And especially in america, it's mostly done for eitehr regilious purpouses or it's cosmetic.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 07:03 AM
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Honestly, if it was just one person, and I was alone. I wouldn't stop to help anyone. I am short and not very strong adn the potential positive outcome is just not worth the risk of being SA'd or harmed. But the answer isn't "oh don't help women then" it's to weigh out situations and recognise, some are safe and some aren't.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 01:07 AM
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nah, pick me girls are girls who put down other people for attention. But tbf it has been overused and is now missused to attack people when they don't deserve it.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 12:49 AM
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