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Observing your thought process helps. DBT
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 05:51 AM
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Not a man, but I have experienced both. Some just wanted a fling (though I think on the same page), others tried to tie me down quick after. I think it is a test run in some cases. Either way it always makes me wonder what they initially had thought about me to think I’d be down. I am shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:12 PM
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It will vary for each person - Past relationship wanted me to be more open, so they could be there for me. Current partner wants me to keep anything more than surface level to myself. I think being the best version of yourself will attract whoever you are compatible with.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 10:16 PM
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I’m 30. I’ve had many conversations with men who say if they could they would. Sucks for me, but it’s true. This is why I don’t sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:00 PM
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I don’t consider myself super hot but I aim high
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:21 AM
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I have wanted to post this, with pause of being downvoted into oblivion. I both agree/disagree, but I recognize as a 30yr old woman when the jealousy in myself is creeping without context.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:37 PM
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Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/seduction30/06/22 06:22 PM
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For me personally, it gives validation. It is not a healthy reason. Wish I was not as attached as I am. I did not learn to love myself first and it has had a major impact on the commitment quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:08 PM
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Sex and probably giving them some feeling of superiority. I am a good listener and can boost an ego. Other than that I really do not have any value to offer to anyone until I get myself better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:09 PM
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There is different kinds of course and I do not think any are necessarily felt by everybody. It seems easier to not be let down not believing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:50 PM
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I knew my ex was cheating (for a fact) and that we were towards the end. So I did on the same night they were. There are limited situations I’ll justify as making it ok. I do not feel bad about mine…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:45 AM
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I do not have my life together. Nearing 30 and it is not cute. Past my prime. When I did get it, was never their first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:11 AM
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You put it into words for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:22 PM
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I have always been replaced by younger 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:56 PM
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Emotionally connected? Hm now I am questioning my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:16 AM
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I don’t have much sexual appetite. I’ve had a few hot fwb where suddenly I wanted to all the time. I’m not really sexually attracted to them if it’s a mental thing, it’s just built up horniness. As in if we weren’t dating I’d look back and think what was I thinking, I’ll take this to my grave. Lmao. I’m not exactly a head turner either, it is what it is lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:43 AM
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I have had sex with both those who I was only physically attracted to and only mentally. I am bisexual. I think it is far more likely that looks matter more to men and the emotional part women. I have been with hot men and have noticed enjoying myself more with what society deems less conventionally attractive ones. I am less self conscious. Can not change your view, but that is mine. Also noting I am not particularly good looking myself. It is a different experience for each. The hotter they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:38 AM
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You do you. I would feel some kind of way if it were someone I was protective over, sure. But really any negative feelings I have are jealousy that youth is gone and I am no longer that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:39 AM
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Is he Shrek?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:47 PM
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One that comes to mind right away is talking about his glory days. He decides to tell me how in highschool a girl got made fun of for having mosquito bites, so he gave her a hug and said wow, are you wearing a push-up bra?! to make her feel better. No idea what the context of saying this was. I have most definitely had bigger ick moments, but this was most recent and really left a bad taste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:46 PM
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Following this. I get my inspiration from Agent Provocateur.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/21 09:15 PM
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(29F) none but one of my partners have been interested or cared about that. The rare man who did was 10 yrs older than me and was into me for my youth. Fwb have put more effort in than any long term guy so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:29 PM
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Everyone is different. I learned a lot from having an age gap relationship in my early 20’s, but he definitely played on my youth.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 02:55 AM
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The guy on the right (no offense to him) reminds me of a man who tried to force me into sex because he was no doubt not used to being turned down. I will take the security of the one of the left, though in my experience even the more average ones have done the same. Used to have a fwb like right guy and swore I had never felt more loved or wanted, until he took things too far in bed. I think it is a sense of entitlement, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:50 PM
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My ex said how gross he found men who were into barely legal stuff and I discovered he was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:06 PM
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“Average” looking woman here. I think it happens because I seem more attainable or approachable. Had a hot guy friend who said he went for the average because he said they stay good longer. It really depends. I also got more attention because up until recently I looked innocent/younger. Time will tell as I get older, but I think then it is more about whether you have your shit together in other arenas that will warrant who you are attracting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:31 PM
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I have a friend who is 38 and looks at least half his age. He only pulls girls who are half of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:30 AM
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I’ve always been the distraction or the rebound. I don’t think anyone’s ever seen me as the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:32 AM
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Even though I have had better experiences with those whom it came naturally to, my natural response is for someone who worked very hard to achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:46 AM
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Woman here. I have been in relationships with men on both sides of the spectrum. I will say it meant a lot when they had no problem getting girls, but were into me. Interestingly enough, it has been the ones who were not as successful that ended up being the ones cheating. Maybe they jumped on the opportunity because they had not had as much luck previously. All in all prefer someone who knows what they want… (that being me).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:19 AM
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“A man is only as faithful as his options” applies to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:26 PM
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A lot of my exes have admitted to being attracted to younger and have even preyed on them. I have a history of being pursued as well when I was in my youth. I have given up on dating due to major trust issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:35 AM
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Does this work on women for men too?
/r/seduction11/12/20 09:55 PM
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This applies for women to men too. I am currently simping over a guy.
/r/seduction30/11/20 02:00 AM
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I haven’t texted people back because of tragedy and a million other reasons, even if I am interested. Sometimes there’s a million things I want to say and get analysis paralysis.
/r/seduction14/09/20 06:59 PM
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Yes, a friend.
/r/seduction11/09/20 10:43 PM
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Does this apply to women getting men too?
/r/seduction11/09/20 07:33 PM
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Doesn’t this go for either gender?
/r/seduction11/05/20 11:56 PM
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I agree with your title. I started reading it just to gain perspective on different mindsets, regret it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 11:52 PM
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That hurts to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:15 PM
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Honestly this would be a deal breaker for me 🚩 I accidentally came across this kind of stuff w past partner and it really killed it for me. That said, if it bothers you so much then just leave because once you know something like that about someone, it is hard to unsee. I had the misfortune of accidentally stumbling on it... Hoping he is exaggerating in saying that all men are into teen girls. That alone is really offputting. Also I have had this discussion with other guy friends who think it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 06:30 PM
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This is the cringiest forum I have ever stumbled upon.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 03:36 PM
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Swing upwards?
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:20 PM
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I need to stop reading these. I am a female and while it is interesting to see from this perspective, it is really disheartening. Is there a forum like this from a woman’s point of view?
/r/askTRP11/06/19 05:57 PM
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I think this applies to both genders.
/r/seduction01/05/19 02:40 PM
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Some think my clumsiness is cute c:
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:05 PM
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The guy I have been seeing does the same thing (dodging) even though he originally asked if we were exclusive. Now when I bring that stuff up he’s not having it at all. But he will still say: “This is mine” when we have sex. I told him I am not his plate and he had no idea what I was talking about. That said, it is so hot when a guy gets animalistic and territorial. Sounds like you made it clear that it is not going anywhere. I wish more men would do that rather than play games like it could be …
/r/askTRP23/04/19 03:37 PM
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Aw I am a 9 and definitely needed this appreciation
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:10 PM
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33
/r/seduction08/04/19 12:59 AM
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Wish someone would sext me like this and make me feel sexy
/r/seduction08/04/19 12:34 AM
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I love when a guy texts me all the time and am always going to be the one who has to be texted first, even if I want to say a million things. There is a lot of good advice out there, but some of it should be taken with a grain of salt.
/r/seduction26/03/19 04:11 PM
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It just makes me not want to get out there.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 01:00 AM
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What is a plate? Non-hot gal here.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:43 PM
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As a woman reading this I am floored.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:35 PM
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As a woman this sucks for me..
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:12 PM
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Yea fuck this...
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:52 AM
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Scratching my head on this one too...
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:52 AM
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Reading this kind of stuff makes me so insecure. I am a female... is this how all men think? Edit: what makes someone “the best” out of hundreds?
/r/askTRP21/03/19 11:33 PM
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I am a female reading this and holy cow insert mixed emotions
/r/askTRP21/03/19 03:27 AM
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This convo makes me feel ugly wow
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:02 AM
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Picked up a new term today. Going to be using it to bring awareness to the beta orbiters in my life.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:10 AM
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