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Hindu here! It's even better than that: it is believed that the true divine masculine's purpose is to worship and serve the divine feminine energy! 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:08 AM
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I've been subscribed to this channel for a while. Dude is genuinely helpful and goes the extra mile to give in special instructions. He's a gem! LVMs could never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:49 PM
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This is sad to be honest 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:25 AM
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So glad you're doing better! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:25 PM
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The complete dearth of anything resembling feeling wanted or supported by my family turned me into a highly anxious people-pleaser Oof, I relate to that more than you know. And all the other stuff too. Shit fathers ruin lives. And their enabling Pickmeisha wives as well. Honestly, I didn't know FDS at the time, but its principles are what saved me from a downward spiral: confidence, self-love and establishing firm boundaries and standards. Every young women need to develop those before even thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:24 PM
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Yeah, it's extremely hard to get rid of that "programming" since that's all you know. It took me years to get it done. And I'm glad things are going good for you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:21 PM
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If I have to give credit to my father for anything, it's for the decision to move to Canada when I was still young and doing it to give me a better future. Today, meeting men from my home country makes me want to shrivel up inside and throw myself into space. LVMs everywhere, ughhhh Ironically, those types of men end up hurting not only themselves in the long-run, but everyone they care about. There is literally nothing for either men or women to gain when blatant misogyny is rampant in a cultur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:20 PM
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Totally agree. In the book, he has mentioned several times how he makes his wife one of his top priorities and routinely thinks about how to improve their relationship. He said he would make coffee for her, take her on quarterly trips, have Saturday night dates, etc. All things he decided to do consistently and out of both his love for her and his personal values. Dude's a juggernaut in business and life ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:47 PM
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It's actually not an FDS book per say, but more of a business/improvement book (I graduated with a double major in accounting and finance and own a startup, so I'm naturally attracted to these kinds of books). I'd say it's definitely a solid read. The core of it is about how small incremental changes, like, for example, getting 1% better at something everyday, can lead to monumental changes in your life in the long-run. It also teaches you how to self-analyze your life and habits and slowly cut …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:55 PM
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The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:37 PM
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I’m from Canada, and I know the US only gets the Paraguard brand for some reason? But mine is made by Mona Lisa: http://www.monalisa.eu/en/products My obgyn recommended it to me because I’m still fairly young (23) and we didn’t know how my body would react to an iud yet. Mine is very small compared to the paraguard, so the insertion was a breeze :) And I agree! It’s a fantastic little contraption lol. I love it. Never going back to hormonal BC or condoms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:32 AM
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I’d like to offer some clarification on the IUD, cause I think you’re seeing it from a biased point of view of only considering the negatives and how it benefits men. However, I believe the IUD is by far the best BC method for women in LONG TERM COMMITTED RELATIONSHIPS. First of all, very few women chose the IUD because they want their boyfriends to ‘come inside them’. They choose the IUD because it’s : 1) MUCH cheaper than most other methods (I.e. one time payment of 200$ for me and I’m protect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:02 AM
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My god I used to be obsessed with Winx Club growing up. Now that I look back on it, it was definitely an oddball as in the girls in that show were much more powerful in terms of skills/abilities/status than the men lol Edit: Probably why I liked it so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 03:02 PM
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This was so painful to watch...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:55 PM
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You are stuck where you are, because in order to satisfy everyone, all of you must give up pieces of yourselves for the relationship's survival. Say goodbye to your dream wedding and starting a family: all of these things now are able to be changed and compromised upon by whoever in the polycule (or their "met amours") can guilt you the hardest. Preach, sis. Also I've noticed that Polys tend to have this... entitlement attitude about them? Like they claim that they have infinite love to give, an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 02:25 AM
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And when you do decide to look pretty? Look pretty for YOU first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 01:39 AM
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One night she told me how cool this made her feel. "They could take anyone home - all the girls want them - so when they choose me, it really means something. Lol it means absolutely nothing. Men would fuck anybody that's available to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 07:56 PM
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Girl everything in that laundry list (no pun intended) was me. I wasted my youth and the most beautiful years of my life coddling and mothering a dysfunctional and violent worthless man. Fuck! Never again. And you’re 100% correct about how he “plays“ the head of the household while the woman does literally fucking everything!!! It’s almost like everybody even knows that fact but it’s just the way things are because of our CuLtUrE. It was rough for him, because we were quite young (20 yo), but he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 07:19 PM
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Those men still have a lot of those ideas from back home that's instilled in them through their fathers, uncles, friends. And you still have to contend with their families who are definitely usually entrenched in traditions that are very limiting to women. It's a tightrope. And ultimately, by asking these men to stray from the cultural norms, women are asking them to give up power. Sadly so true... :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 07:08 PM
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Oof, automatic block if I were you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 04:58 PM
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I understand your point of view. However, I'd rather this post be tone deaf than for women getting tricked/raped/killed by men who grew up in deeply misogynistic cultures. Regardless of the language used, the points she brought up are extremely relevant, and I wished someone had told me them sooner. Do we think all non-western men think like that? Of course not. But it's important to prepare for those who do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 04:51 PM
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I'm brown and a first generation immigrant. My family immigrated to Canada when I was a child, so I was raised there. In my experience, most brown women who aren't religious will gravitate towards non-brown guys, and they certainly will not pick FOBs. Just like you said, it's not worth the risk. I'm currently engaged to a white guy and while it has caused some familial problems, I am far happier to take the risk so to be teated right by my partner for the rest of my life. At the end of the day, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 04:47 PM
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Oh another Montreal FDS girl! :D That's such a weak ass insult too, probably reflects on his character
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 08:54 PM
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