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I got to be honest, at 18 most people don't have body counts over 30, so if these are your high school friends they are probably bragging and not telling you the truth
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:55 AM
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It seems pretty clear that when we don't do any interventions with this virus, you see horror stories of overloaded hospitals and high death rates like we did in NY and Italy near the beginning of the outbreak. Meanwhile, the flu and pneumonia seem to be fairly manageable without interventions in part because they've been in the wild for long enough that varying levels of herd immunity do exist. You have to acknowledge that the masks and shutdowns are about more than just liberal hysteria, it's …
/r/seduction22/10/20 09:13 AM
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Just this one, although I do get a flu shot annually and wash my hands after going to the bathroom. If public health officials say it's important, that's good enough for me. Since you asked, I certainly will wear a mask that keeps me safe from the virus, thanks for your concern. I truly hope that you make it through these troubling times ok, and that your cavalier attitude doesn't come back to bite you or anyone you're close to.
/r/seduction22/10/20 07:45 AM
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Agreed! I wish more people felt like this. Although I think it could just be a demographics thing - the people who are taking the pandemic seriously probably aren't looking at seddit because it's just not relevant right now.
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:48 AM
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Hey, cool, so you *do* understand how masks work. That's at least a step in the right direction. You even fully understand and openly acknowledge that your choice not to wear a mask puts other people in danger. Heck, you're basically making the argument for me that *other people* should wear masks. Now if I could just persuade you to consider that to everyone else in society "other people" means you. I feel like we've made a lot of progress here.
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:44 AM
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So is your argument that masks don't work, or that nature will run its course, or that risk is a part of life and therefore uh, shouldn't be legislated? Because it's starting to sound like you haven't actually thought this through, you're just coming up with justifications to excuse your behavior. By the way, mountain climbing is *such* a ridiculous comparison for obvious reasons. How about traffic lights? I think I'll keep obeying traffic lights, and you should start ignoring them and just driv…
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:14 AM
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Yes and science agrees. As does the rest of the civilized world. We have 4% of the world's population, and 25% of the Covid cases because you dumbasses think taking a minimal effort to save lives is a political statement.
/r/seduction21/10/20 09:37 PM
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Ya fuck the olds, lets spread the virus and kill hundreds of thousands so you can get laid easier.
/r/seduction21/10/20 08:34 PM
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Please don't do this during a pandemic.
/r/seduction25/08/20 08:40 AM
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Hey man, we can say nice things to you and the confidence boost will last an hour, but the main person that needs to give yourself a break is *you*. There's a lot of negative self-talk in here like this: I felt like I was just on the cusp of looking like somebody a woman might if there were no other options, consider talking to at a party or something. The thing about negative self-talk is, it often becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. For every point you've made, I'm sure I could find plenty of …
/r/seduction13/08/20 05:30 AM
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The right one for the moment. This is kind of an impossible to answer question, it's like asking a musician 'what's the best note to play?'
/r/seduction29/07/20 06:12 AM
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You just shouldn't. You're basically saying you hope they break up so you can date her, which isn't very nice. The smooth thing to do is just to trade numbers and become friends. Or not if that's what she wants.
/r/seduction29/07/20 06:09 AM
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With consent and boundaries, or not at all
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:56 AM
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This is why lying to get with women is a dumb idea aside from the obvious 'it's dishonest and not cool'. Just be honest. Sure, if you show that you're really insecure about it there's a chance the girl will get creeped out/uncomfortable - or she might feel lucky you chose her. But in general be honest with people because you want them to be honest with you. You never know, while you're struggling with whether or not to tell her you're inexperienced, she might be struggling with whether or not to…
/r/seduction26/12/17 05:00 AM
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Yeah... if somethings illegal in most other places and happens to be legal in your state, that's still not something I'd be too excited to broadcast...
/r/seduction02/10/17 04:06 PM
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That doesn't really make it ok for a variety of ethical reasons.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:24 PM
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I don't know if we should be impressed by a statutory rapist... that's not ok.
/r/seduction30/09/17 05:14 PM
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I'm struggling to rustle up dates. I don't find myself in a lot of scenarios where there are attractive girls for me to talk to, and I can't figure out where to go to flirt with girls. I also find it difficult to connect with people in general, which isn't helping.
/r/seduction25/09/17 01:30 AM
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For one, don't call them females. It screams, screams, SCREAMS "I'm a neckbeardy Redditor who is uncomfortable with the opposite sex."
/r/seduction24/08/17 09:16 AM
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Somatotypes (Endomorph, Ectomorph, Mesomorph) are still used as descriptors but the idea that your physical appearance is limited by your "body type" and you will never be able to grow muscles effectively as an Ectomorph because that's what your body type is has largely been debunked. What determines your physiology is your hormones.
/r/seduction24/08/17 07:37 AM
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Reading is only the foundation of human knowledge, it's not that important. I guess it's true what they say, sarcasm really doesn't come across on the internet.
/r/seduction19/08/17 06:39 PM
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How much can you learn by reading? I don't think this is the right place to ask that. Try asking a college professor or someone with a PhD. Reading is only the foundation of human knowledge, it's not that important.
/r/seduction19/08/17 07:32 AM
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Call her?
/r/seduction17/08/17 05:44 AM
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Yeah, I think op is asking "Where are some good places to meet women? As in he's run out of ideas and is crowdsourcing help. That's why "Everywhere, just open your mind to it."
/r/seduction05/08/17 11:01 PM
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Well for starters, most of the people on my street are creative hipsters, homeless people, and we have a decently sized homeless population here. So most of the people on the street are not cute girls I want to talk to. I don't live a lifestyle that puts me in contact with a lot of girls. I work, go to the gym, the grocery store and home. Weekends I mostly hang out with friends. That's the problem I'm focusing on and that I'm sure the guy above is focusing on too - adjusting our lifestyles so th…
/r/seduction05/08/17 06:47 PM
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And subsequent comments. It's just as hard for them to respond, this makes it easier to know what to say.
/r/seduction05/08/17 07:03 AM
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The comment that's posted every time I see this is "Everywhere! You just have to accost strangers wherever you can find them, even on the street." Which isn't helpful at all. Seriously. I would say yoga and dance studios, art museums, maybe bars that are quieter and more your thing? Classes are probably good as well.
/r/seduction05/08/17 07:01 AM
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Y'know, that's been my experience, but damn if it doesn't make for a great date
/r/seduction09/06/17 07:40 AM
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I think she probably just wants a work buddy, not a relationship.
/r/seduction05/06/17 07:17 AM
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Well the health benefits are kind of nice.
/r/seduction04/06/17 09:17 AM
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The key is to keep trying. You're right, it is kind of an emotional job search. The first time you're out looking for a job, you have no idea what to do, so you apply a lot and strike out a lot. Eventually some place gives you an interview and what do you do? You show up dressed nicely, with no idea what to expect, and totally bomb it. Not everyone does, some are lucky, but I think most do. And you keep bombing interviews until someone actually gives you the job. At that point you probably won't…
/r/seduction02/06/17 09:58 AM
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I still have no clue what 'Going hard' means to you. Are you going to bars fully erect and keeping a hard-on the entire time? If so I have an idea of why you're getting exhausted after. Otherwise maybe you can clarify this time.
/r/seduction29/05/17 08:06 PM
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"Going hard" can you be more specific? That could mean drinking (withdrawal/hangovers are part of the deal), lots of dancing (dehydration) or putting a lot of time and effort into seduction practice
/r/seduction29/05/17 07:13 AM
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The guy literally gives you a step by step guide at the end of the book, what more do you want?
/r/seduction29/11/16 04:10 AM
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Refusing to lie is different than learning how to tell the truth. You could say "I came here alone to hit on women and you are one of them." Or you could say "I just felt like a night out." In my experience tactful honesty is always a good thing, and philosophically I think it's the difference between seduction and game - to me seduction is presenting your trueself in an attractive light, and game is presenting an attractive facade.
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:07 AM
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The point is that you get less awkward the more you do it. Anything you want to improve on you're going to go through a pain period where it's uncomfortable. Like when you first play a multiplayer video game and you suck, but then you get better.
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:34 AM
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Jumping off of 4 since I think he's looking for something a bit more subtle - if she seems like she's enjoying the conversation, that's a good sign. As an example, if there's a lull in the conversation and then she continues it instead of looking for a way out, that's a good sign.
/r/seduction07/09/16 06:28 AM
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This is just good life advice - if you're worried about something, talking about it with the person is always healthier than keeping it in. Just last night I had an awkward interaction with a co-worker - I made a request that I realized later was a little rude and might have been overstepping my boundaries. The next time I saw her I apologized, and she actually apologized back to me for reacting oddly and said it was no big deal. A 2 minute conversation took me from embarrassed to secure, and I'…
/r/seduction02/09/16 08:49 PM
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Practice makes perfect. If you do online dating a lot you will get better at it. If you approach women a lot you will get better at it. Pick which is important to you.
/r/seduction10/07/16 01:30 AM
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Then your opinion of what constitutes a good read is probably fairly limited...
/r/seduction06/07/16 09:51 PM
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"Why?" If she wants you to hold it for a legitimate reason then hold it. If it's a bullshit reason then you can call her on it. Expect the first one though, women are rarely as petty/manipulative as men on the internet make them out to be.
/r/seduction06/07/16 09:49 PM
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No you don't.
/r/seduction26/05/16 04:07 AM
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They're comfortable expressing their feelings, they just don't necessarily talk about them.
/r/seduction24/04/16 10:44 AM
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I would reschedule the date. Friends are more important than a girl you may talk to for 10 minutes and discover you hate.
/r/seduction21/04/16 09:51 PM
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Let's say 5/6 girls are nice to you, 1/6 is disinterested and 1/6 will fuck you.... So you're saying to get laid I have to find a way to talk to 7/6 girls?
/r/seduction20/04/16 09:01 AM
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Social difficulty is hardwired, women pick up on it, and it generally guarantees you won't be with a woman in bed.. lifelong in some cases. This is: Not true. Not scientifically valid. A self-fulfilling prophecy. A classic example of self-sabotage. You get better at conversation, social skills, and seduction the same way as anything else - through practice.
/r/seduction20/04/16 09:00 AM
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Putting your arms around someone from behind demonstrates a complete lack of respect for their personal space and physicality. They don't know why you're touching them - maybe you're just being friendly, maybe you're trying to cop a feel, maybe you're assaulting them and intending to drag them out back and rape them. I'm not at all saying touch is bad or that you shouldn't touch people. There's a lot of nonverbal positioning that happens when you make physical contact with someone. Generally the…
/r/seduction17/04/16 07:01 AM
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Nobody calls anymore.
/r/seduction26/03/16 09:38 PM
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You're overthinking this. It's common, and it's ok to be like that. Nobody said it wouldn't be hard, it wouldn't be scary, and it wouldn't probably end in rejection. It will probably be all of those things, every time for a little while. It's that way for almost everyone. Many if not all of the guys on this sub have gone through the same thing you have. On the other side of it looking back, we've come to realize that facing that fear is the best way to defeat it. Many of us find ways to make tak…
/r/seduction26/03/16 09:37 PM
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It's like playing basketball. You can read what people write about ball handling, dribbling, blocking, plays, shots, all that stuff, but it won't make you any better at shooting hoops. The only thing that will, is shooting hoops over and over. At the right time the right words can make a huge difference. Your coach saying "Don't lean forwards when you shoot." But if the coach talks for 5 minutes and you practice for 55 minutes you'll see far better results than if the coach talks for 55 and you …
/r/seduction20/03/16 06:08 AM
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Don't talk about it, mention it when you're talking about something else. If they're interested, they'll ask more about it, if not then you're not bragging.
/r/seduction14/03/16 07:46 AM
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A doctoring business.
/r/seduction02/03/16 10:38 PM
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Well it's going to be about effort/reward. These days I go on OkC when I want, spend about 20 minutes, message about 5-10 women, chat with 1 or 2 for about another 20 minutes and get a number/date. The key is to only message chicks who are online, and carry a conversation for a little bit before asking them out. If they're not online, your message won't stand out. If you're asking them out in the opener message, they don't have enough invested in you to say yes.
/r/seduction02/03/16 08:15 AM
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She's not heavily invested - and she won't be until you actually meet up and hang out in person. Try to set up a date in person.
/r/seduction01/03/16 02:21 AM
2

Also, create Tinder.
/r/seduction01/02/16 10:08 AM
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If someone tells you you're stupid, it only hurts if part of you suspects you're stupid. If you know you're really smart, you'll just assume they misread you. He's saying that you can't objectively know a person because your experience with them is colored by how you view the world and yourself.
/r/seduction22/09/15 11:57 PM
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Make strong eye contact and when you get positive reinforcement continue that thought train. When you get negative reinforcement, mentally change the subject.
/r/seduction15/05/15 06:48 AM
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Yeah, I struggled with wording that. It was late, and I felt it was better said poorly and rudely than left unsaid. OCD and OCPD are tricky because the symptoms are fairly common in people without them, and they're well known disorders. It's not really something that can be self-diagnosed. Kind of the difference between an alcoholic, and a college frat boy who drinks a lot. In my biased experience, maybe 1 in 25 people who say "I have OCD" truly have it. Beyond my rude phrasing, I hope OP will d…
/r/seduction01/05/15 04:57 PM
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Dude, you're being a dick to someone clearly being helpful. Little of our advice is going to be helpful to OP if he's suffering from a mental illness.
/r/seduction01/05/15 08:06 AM
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Problem is I have OCD with it, so the self-limiting beliefs return frequently Wrong. You have excuses. If you put barriers in front of yourself then you won't be able to cross them. If you have OCD and it was diagnosed by a professional (plenty of people self-diagnose OCD because the symptoms are common, it means next to nothing without professional backing), then the story you want to tell yourself is "I overcame my OCD to do X" not "I couldn't do X because I have OCD." Worst case scenario you …
/r/seduction01/05/15 08:02 AM
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No, women have the fourth cone which sets them apart from their peers, the same way Taco Bell has the fourth meal that sets it apart from its peers.
/r/seduction26/09/14 07:42 AM
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You sound like the biggest dick I've ever wasted time reading.
/r/seduction07/09/13 06:38 AM
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Thank you for providing tonights entertainment.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 05:08 AM
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we don't really consider the gender of the MRA all that important... The gender of Men's Rights Advocates. MEN'S. Men is a gender. The male one. The one that includes males. there is no issue suffered by women which is not also suffered by men. . . . have you heard of pregnancy? in my opinion, there is no need or positive purpose for feminism, but a men's rights movement is currently absolutely necessary. Ask yourself if that sounds like a reasoned argument. "Everything Group A says shouldn't be…
/r/MensRights14/01/13 04:39 AM
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I seriously doubt more than 10% of people who associate themselves with the Men's rights movement are women. What I'm saying is that while both groups say they want gender equality, in practice they go a bit too far. I'm saying a third group that was gender-neutral (i.e. composed of roughly equal amounts of men and women) pushing for equality would be more likely to draw the line down the middle. In practice, as well as theory.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 03:33 AM
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These are examples of feminism in practice. Feminism in theory, is about women being equal to men. Mens Rights in theory is about men being equal to women. Each group in theory wants to be considered and treated equal to the other. Anything more or less is an affront to the purportedly weaker group's humanity. What I'm saying is that by labeling these movements 'Men's Rights' and 'Feminism' we're basically calling them 'The Men's Equality Group' and 'The Women's Equality Club'. No self-respectin…
/r/MensRights14/01/13 02:45 AM
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I've always thought the two groups should combine and rename themselves equal gender rights advocates. In theory both groups are striving for nothing more or less than equality between men and women - but labeling a movement Men's Rights or Feminism virtually guarantees that the movement overstep its bounds in favor of whatever gender it represents. TL;DR Can't we all realize that we just want the same thing in the end?
/r/MensRights14/01/13 01:54 AM
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