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| 3 | When do people start looking for LTRs?Was a virgin until I was 20. First experience was not consensual, so the "hoe phase" began, to take back my power, in a way. After a few, fell for one and was in a LTR w/him for 6 years. Ended 2 years ago, had a short hoe phase because he had no libido the last 4 years and I just wanted to feel desired. Very interesting comparing the two phases. Had "serious" dates only in 2020 - a lot of virtual dates and vetting. The casual experiences have been fine and all but I'm not interested anymore. I'm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | How does somebody "lower their standards"?Good luck. I've basically decided being single and happy will do lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | How does somebody "lower their standards"?I feel you on the looks/attraction part. I'm openminded about many qualities but I cannot date someone I'm not attracted to. Dating is hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?I had body image issues and low self-esteem growing up. It didn't help that I had a "friend" from age 12 to 16 who would bully me and make me feel ugly. She was so manipulative that she'd attack and praise, in hopes I'd need her validation. Years later I learned she's the ugly one (inside and out) and she was projecting. I'm almost 29 now, I do like myself most days and I'd rather people think I'm smart and funny than "pretty". I do get some attention from men, but they're usually not what I fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 03:16 PM |
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