starmanismyviolin Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier. This link is to a working paper, not a published or peer-reviewed study - I’m not even going to go through it to review the statistical interpretation lol. I hope you re-think your current understanding of oppression, best of luck.	/r/ExRedPill	09/07/23 06:05 PM
1	I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier. That’s a news article not an academic paper… I need the actual study lol Even if that interpretation of an academic study was statistically sound and accurate, it still wouldn’t mean that women don’t face systemic oppression as it extends far beyond a pay gap.	/r/ExRedPill	01/07/23 04:38 PM
8	Do women care about men's body count? (Just want your opinion) Omg exactlyyyyy thank you	/r/ExRedPill	29/06/23 09:25 PM
1	Where to talk about dating without RP nonsense, but without judgemental AH's in non RP dating subs. A lack of confidence and self-esteem definitely seems like a major issue here. Oftentimes lacking confidence/having poor self-esteem causes people to represent themselves in ways that unfortunately come off as a “red flag” or concerning. This phenomenon occurs not only in dating contexts, but many other contexts as well, and it is truly unfortunate! Often the people that could use friends the most have the hardest time making them because of it. However, there is hope! There are actually actiona…	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/23 06:57 PM
1	One thing that worries me is the fact that these guys get a lot of views on YouTube or what I consider to be a lot of views. That’s exactly what I’m scared of and want to know more people’s thoughts on!! I know somebody who mostly (?) disagrees with Andy Tater Tot’s content, but still thinks it’s funny - and not in a hate-watching or satirical kind of way. I don’t understand how this is possible - how can you not be disturbed by it when you know how bad it is?	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/23 05:59 PM
1	One thing that worries me is the fact that these guys get a lot of views on YouTube or what I consider to be a lot of views. I have a genuine question I’ve been pondering about this issue - is there not already self help advice and dating advice that exists that meets these criteria? Is it an issue of a lack of content/material, or an issue of people not finding it? On the self-help front, obviously there is plenty of non-toxic and realistic content. Is there really not social etiquette and dating advice as well?	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/23 05:56 PM
2	One thing that worries me is the fact that these guys get a lot of views on YouTube or what I consider to be a lot of views. But what if you can change it? This is a rather passive approach to a social problem - things don’t get better unless people take action. Of course being active here is a form of action, I’m not directly criticizing you, but I don’t know if not worrying about this stuff is the solution, y’a know?	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/23 05:52 PM
2	One thing that worries me is the fact that these guys get a lot of views on YouTube or what I consider to be a lot of views. I feel the same way, I can’t help but be increasingly worried about how pervasive this stuff is and how many children it is reaching and impacting.	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/23 05:50 PM
2	One thing that worries me is the fact that these guys get a lot of views on YouTube or what I consider to be a lot of views. I rlly appreciate your comment, and want to ask a related question open to anyone: How do you explain the risk/threat posed by this sort of content to someone who doesn’t understand? It’s so hard to explain to someone that although they are just talking, what they are saying really does matter and has serious consequences, not just for the listeners they recruit/exploit but for society in general.	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/23 05:48 PM
2	How do I stop feeling so hopeless? I 100% agree, you are really young and you are not the only person to struggle with making friends as an adult - I think most people actually do at some point! But people don’t talk about it which makes everyone feel like there is something wrong with them/that they are alone. You are not alone, and things will get better! I know this is cheesy but try your best to believe in yourself/give yourself a chance, and there are actually actionable things you can do to help with this! It wasn’t too lon…	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/23 07:10 AM
1	Venting about male mental health 100% agree! don’t blame yourself, you are in a really difficult situation! if other’s blame you or look down on you, they are ignorant and arrogant and are probably actually struggling with their own self esteem. I live in a city and have a lot of opportunities available to me, mental and physical healthcare, etc. and I STILL definitely don’t know what i’m doing or “have it figured out” by any means! And even though i’m not in your situation, I can understand that it sounds infinitely more diffi…	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/23 07:00 AM
8	I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier. You make a lot of really valid points that are really important conversations! Close male friendships and friendships between men and women should be seen as normal/not be stigmatize/sexualized/etc. Men should absolutely be allowed to be stay-at-home parents if that is what works for their family, without stigma! Men should be able to talk about feelings and mental health and be vulnerable, the forced “stoicism”/strength expectation placed on boys is so harmful - it literally damages men’s healt…	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/23 06:49 AM