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11

LOL shouldn't have read this while having my face mask on 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 03:19 PM
14

I SWEAR I LOVE ALL YOU LADIES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 04:58 AM
180

you have already given him a chance and if he's not enthusiastic, he's just stringing you along wasting your time. LVM. also, good morning/night texts are lazy. he could be sending them to many different women. RUN before you get emotionally invested and then it gets harder to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 03:43 AM
354

inconsistency is a red flag. drop him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 03:16 AM
186

packed bowl scores no points? do you want a gold star for that sir?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:55 PM
25

similar to you music affects me greatly. even the voice of the singer has emotional energy that affects me and for awhile i find myself repulsed to modern music. i still love music, and i found and loved lofi hip hop. they are without lyrics yet very emotional and somewhat healing. my current favorite is purrple cat. do give it a try :) i'm the same with scents too, and yes movie soundtracks! for music that i like with indoctrinating lyrics, i try to find an instrumental or karaoke version if i …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:12 AM
70

better now than later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:33 AM
191

fo real tho. i'll need that binder for reference. this woman is a bad ass 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:07 PM
46

the amount of gaslighting, gawd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:06 AM
684

"you can't pass on something you were never in possession of" when he tried to "pass" on her, ew what a neg. she's a queen indeed 👑🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:41 AM
11

those scrotes are pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 09:37 AM
4

oh yes the excessive questioning about our day/plans is also for them to plan the cheating around it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:54 PM
9

that's disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:51 PM
9

same. i don't get the need to get new underwear? my scrote ex did that too and i found it so strange. what's with that new persona? are they acting out their fantasy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:51 PM
14

thank you for sharing. the amount of effort these scrotes put into being the best actor... how about levelling up their lives in an honest way? i just don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:04 PM
69

💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:18 AM
32

watching animations in the basement 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:01 AM
42

oh he knows it alright he is just jealous she's got such a cool job while he is stuck being a bum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:04 AM
10

BURNNN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:02 AM
8

i always look at it this way: he's 24 when you were 14, if this happened back then, he is a pedophile and predator. but wait, fast forward to today, he is still targeting women 10 years younger. this should be clear enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:14 PM
43

exactly. especially when it's just a normal greeting in person like "hi", they become so awkward and avoid eye contact? it's a complete 360 from their texting persona. i have colleagues who are "smooth texters" and even try to flirt- which i do not entertain. on the contrary, i reply to their texts (work related) in person and infront of everyone and see them struggle to reply or even avoid me. it's just hilarious and pathetic. it's just hilarious watching these manipulators getting caught in th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:27 PM
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it takes conscious effort and energy for one to uphold themselves to high standards. you are right, men are lazy and only take the easy way out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:05 PM
111

these are dangerous men who will turn violent when things don't go their way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:19 PM
123

you are so right. my ex accused me of cheating when i went for lunch break with a colleague. i ended up needing to justify myself over nothing. turns out he was cheating on me with his colleague. projection much. ew!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:17 PM
297

he's a joke. he can take his "positive energy" elsewhere then!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:22 PM
13

as someone who experienced betrayal trauma, what you listed was helpful, thank you very much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:10 AM
21

my ex wore a mask for 7 years and cheated on me while doing so. i completely agree that birds of the same feather flock together. if he were truly HV he wouldn't tolerate such behaviour from his "friends", but rather cultivate friendships with HV people, or even work on himself instead of settling for LV friends. you felt the irk for a reason. trust your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 11:40 AM
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i think you are reading too much into it. he is breadcrumbing you and you have fallen for it. he has achieved his goal of manipulating you- by having you here micro analyze his behavior and trying to justify things. please block and delete. don't waste your time and energy on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 08:31 AM
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power play. he only has a few minutes to spare you (showing you he's busy). followed by "do YOU want to talk on the phone?" he's throwing the ball in your court. surely you deserve more than a few minutes. you're not a beggar. giving you scraps expecting you to scramble for his attention. you are the queen here. he needs to impress YOU. no thank you, next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 07:01 AM
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agreed with the last part, it happened to me. i was SO oblivious because i trusted my ex too much and easily (ugh) to the extent i believed he purposely left a trail for me to initiate a break up. because guess what, i became the "crazy/suspicious" one who didn't trust him. rendering him "mr nice guy" because apparently he still "didn't cheat on me" despite confronting his affair partner and verifying the stories. no one believed me. yup. basically he wanted me to leave by my own- because affair…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 01:40 PM
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they had a certain expectation of you = seeing you as an object, not a human another way of lovebombing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:26 AM
69

anyone knows where to get those stickers in the second picture?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:16 AM
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yes, cockroach! this is pure poetry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:15 AM
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this is why i don't do hugs/high fives/fist bumps with men. it's their attempt to rob our energy under the guise of "being friendly". no thank you. i almost always feel disgusting after doing so. and so, lesson learnt. they do not deserve ANY form of physical contact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:40 AM
12

yup. asking him questions gives him the chance to lie (and get a sense of what is important to you) to which they will most likely adjust the answers accordingly to get the outcome they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 12:11 PM
23

seconded. you need to tell her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:05 PM
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in my opinion, no. A HV person will be responsible towards both parties and only start a new relationship after one has ended officially, and not leave any room for ambiguity (marital status). falling in love while still being married and blaming it on a "failing marriage" is just an excuse. his mental energy could be spent on fixing the marriage or finalizing the divorce instead of stringing in a new person into the mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 11:34 AM
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thanks for sharing. this story is wholesome! a man should make your life EASIER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:07 PM
33

yup. "if he wanted to, he would" is ingrained in my head. those men simply don't care, why waste my breath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:31 PM
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🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 04:22 PM
11

streak side up 💀 i just lost my appetite LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 12:47 PM
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🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 01:28 AM
134

agreed. he just wasted your mental energy and gained a new tip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 01:23 AM
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you just made it even funnier 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 07:18 AM
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not dated them, but i've seen men who can clean and are actually bothered by mess/dirt. e.g. sweeping every square inch, dumping the trash into the bin and keeping the broom back where it belongs. tidying tables and disinfecting them. clearing the fridge. arranging loose papers/mess with intention (looking through, asking, and trashing the unnecessary). sad that we have to be so specific about "cleaning", but basically finishing a cleaning task from START to END, doing it WELL, without asking hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:27 AM
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he shouldn't be dating then!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 05:21 AM
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i wholeheartedly agree with you. therapy is so personal and i don't see the need in announcing it to the world. it has become so performative. it's like announcing "hEY LooK aT mE i'M TaKing sUCh gOOd cAre OF mYSelf AND so EmoTiOnAllY wOke/mATuRe now". NOPE. who does that?! going around announcing their "self improvement". the fact that you need to emphasize it and are so afraid of people not knowing says alot. when one is truly working on themselves, it will show naturally- in their actions, de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 05:09 AM
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💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:28 PM
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painful truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 10:40 AM
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the fact that she has to defend him (them) to this extent. gurl, leave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:04 AM
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range...? 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:59 AM
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i just lost my appetite 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:58 AM
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yay! the first step is realizing. glad that you saw the situation with clarity! be proud of yourself! cheers to being your best self 🥂💃🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 02:15 PM
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having been through something similar, my heart 💔 for the lady. but kudos to her husband's friend for reaching out to her. i sincerely hope for for her to pull through. she deserves nothing but the best. the betrayal by someone you trust hurts. but what's worse is being not able to trust yourself for not seeing it for what it is, and not knowing better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:18 PM
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the benefit of the doubt is what kills you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 05:23 PM
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🚩 sharing about his bad relationships (pity play) 🚩 knows your weakness 🚩 trauma-bonding you trust your confusion. it's the start of his manipulation. run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:20 PM
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^ get away from these men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:49 AM
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here, you dropped this 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 03:33 PM
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I LOVE THIS! will start doing this from now on (something new and fabulous to try in my life? HELL YES i'm in! 💃🏻) thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:28 PM
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thank you for the reminder. sending love to all my sisters here. don't forget to be gentle with yourselves and your healing 🤍🤍🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 03:53 PM
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🤍👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 07:05 AM
11

LEAVE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:09 PM
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love it! 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:26 PM
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there needs to be an fds quiz to pass before joining 🥵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:26 AM
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aww it's just a joke guys, stop being so sensitive 🥵😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:30 PM
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those are sad little turds. it's like making you happy will decease their happiness, somehow. how stingy and selfish. men who cannot be happy for others are scary. they'll do whatever it takes to drag you down with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:40 AM
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you are right. if he is not enthusiastic at all, why bother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 04:49 AM
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well said. if that's the man's attitude even BEFORE marriage, what's next?! i reckon it will only go downhill after marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 04:47 AM
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me 3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:12 PM
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because women tolerate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:30 AM
9

awww poor boi 😢 trying to guilt trip her and play the pity card. that "oh" sounded passive aggressive too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:04 AM
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🤮 out of the window is a good spot for those shorts. and out of the door for such a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:59 AM
10

🥇🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:11 PM
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he was just looking for a quick fuck 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 03:45 AM
19

or have you help pay his loans and then cheat on you with his new doctor status 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:16 PM
8

right? that audacity to neg her, who is he?! lol loved OP's response though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:18 AM
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it doesn't even have to be at a certain place, it happens to me at work, lol. as long as he wants to, he can and will do it anywhere. also, you are a hottie alright!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:23 AM
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HAHAHA love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:05 AM
29

ew how gracious of him for letting YOU get back to YOUR nap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:02 AM
41

one word, EW!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:59 AM
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they don't know. instead of doing a comprehensive examination they just aim to "treat" and discharge them asap. unfortunately this is a result of the overworked healthcare culture as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 10:56 AM
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putting the blame on women, as usual. they can't admit they got rejected 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:59 AM
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can confirm, i work alongside doctors and other health professionals. poor lady. her symptoms (leg pain and shortness of breath) are suggestive of DVT/PE (pulmonary embolism) already. unfortunately most male doctors/health professionals will always associate health issues in women to number 1: menstruation (blaming everything on their period), number 2: anxiety (aka. "thinking too much" and we need to "chill"). i always look for a lady doctor/nurse/health professional if possible. men don't list…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:49 AM
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HAHA confuse them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:21 AM
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wow! i'm amazed at the things they can neg about. even a middle toe. are they that pathetic. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:18 AM
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oh yesss. and don't forget they do it to seem like a "good" man to others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:32 AM
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i’m intrigued with the work you do! and that’s so cute with that little ritual for your cat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 12:54 PM
8

could you share more about the dentist who told you to not be alarmed of your cavities? any tips on how to care for them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:02 AM
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OMG I JUST DIED 🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:09 AM
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idk why but i find people who use them manipulative. can't explain the feeling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:27 AM
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💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:25 AM
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i personally dislike excessive gif/meme sticker usage too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:17 PM
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🥺 this especially for pity play, no thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:24 AM
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exactly. all the mental gymnastics involved just to justify an affair or a toxic relationship. SMH. and the ~fourth dimension~ is just a fancy term to describe their delusional self in that affair fog/limerence stage 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:56 AM
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haha love this. but seriously these man children can't even be gracious on the roads for a second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:43 PM
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thank you for this. a LVM commented (mocking) my attire at work today and i was extremely tempted to tell him off, in the lines of "it's none of your business how i wear my clothing/do you have a problem with that?" i figured it would be a waste of my breath and energy. (these people don't change and won't even bother reflecting on their behaviour) i didn't want to interact and give him a chance to reply so i ignored him as if he was invisible and walked away instead. thinking of a witty comebac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:37 PM
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be a 🌵 instead, i like this! 💕 stay far away, scrotes! 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:13 PM
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these people are childish, selfish, and extremely irresponsible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:22 PM
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your dog knew and protected you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:18 PM
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agreed. plus he covered up well with his "professional reply" when he knew you wouldn't bite. therefore he knows what he's doing. reporting him will only give him the chance to turn it back towards you. he'll play victim. the best thing to do is just to ignore him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:35 PM
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agreed. this is inappropriate. they are not suppose to get personal with their subjects. everything needs to be formal (questioning done in a police department/office, or with another police around as witness, formal statements etc.) like another commenter mentioned, they are usually straight to the point, and don't have time to "check on you" like he did. it's not part of his job to do so. he is misusing his authority and power. also don't be fooled by his wedding ring. he is trying to lower yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:25 PM
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"hey"? that is plain rude. he's not even addressing you by your name. that's probably his standard GENERIC apology template to everyone else. i don't see any specific behavior he is apologizing for. he's trying his luck to see who replies him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:17 PM
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i love emojis!!! however i've made it a point to stop using them when texting men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:54 PM
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seconded. look how smug he became after he got your attention. 😏 <- ewww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 02:29 PM
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it actually makes sense seeing how delusional they are 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:54 AM
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reading this hurts. glad you left! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 06:38 AM
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reverse negging, wow! it makes so sense now. my ex did this to me and somehow it made me feel horrible even though he "didn't insult me". i always felt short on something. (even until now i feel defective. these manipulation tactics can really stick with you and destroy your self esteem) he always told me that i have "so much potential", and naively, i thought it was just him encouraging me. all women need to know this red flag! 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 05:54 AM
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there is no such thing as "right person, wrong timing". it's just the lengths our minds go through to try and justify something we want but should not/can not have. (e.g justifying an affair) you mentioned that you guys hit it off, and it was like coming home. he targeted you because you probably have some vulnerabilities (unhealed trauma?) that he could sense. a decent man would not ghost you. please love yourself more > anyone else. you are putting too much thought into him. i'll be blunt: you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:20 AM
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thank you for this. red flags are a sign to run, and green flags are basic requirements. he has to go above and beyond. loyalty and commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:48 AM
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you are definitely right. all these concepts you mentioned ruined me. i became a doormat, what they call a "compassionate" person thinking i could make the world a better place. NO, instead i got manipulated, used, torn into pieces. this is how people take advantage of you. never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:11 AM
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also glad that your friend took your warning!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:37 AM
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he is definitely fishing for a pickme to volunteer and you know where that leads to. why is there a need to announce it to the world? if he has the time for reddit, he has the time to find the answer to his question on youtube.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:37 PM
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sadly true. especially when you've treated her genuinely, it hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:37 AM
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i've been through this, sadly. my married pickme colleague confided in me with her relationship issues and hence i did too, which i regretted some time after. i thought she was a decent colleague that could become a friend. the truth is she would drop me at the slightest male attention. the points you listed are all true. she would rather listen to the advice of male colleagues than mine because "they can give her a man's perspective", and because i'm not married hence i "wouldn't know". she wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:31 AM
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thanks for this. it is extremely useful to apply to work, friends, and family as well. this is a reminder for my mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:48 PM
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there is a reason he is being rejected. he should be reflecting and working on himself instead of blaming and hating on women. clearly he has issues handling rejection and not taking "no" for an answer. does not understand boundaries, not surprised if this turns to verbal abuse and then physical abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:41 PM
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💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:34 PM
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trying to cuff you? who tf are you kidding?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:33 PM
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"i decided to help out a bit more in the household but to not the point that i'lL cAnT hAnDle iT aNyMoRe." you can't handle a little house work? and what about your wife? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:14 PM
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men are jealous because they are on easy mode in life yet can't achieve what you achieved, the joke is on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:24 AM
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wow, there's an extension for that? definitely going to try it. thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:47 AM
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"wtf are you blind?" well if women could say the same for men... to the pile of dishes in the sink, overflowing garbage, dirty toilets, unkempt physical appearance, the mess they create, etc. if he wanted to, he would. in this case, he obviously cared so much about his game. boy, bye. hope she dumped him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:42 PM
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you did not need to thank him with a $5000 car. men don't appreciate your kindness or care period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:20 PM
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exactly. and how is it a kind behaviour? it's just a normal behaviour of anyone who is decent. otherwise, girl can learn to do it herself or get a friend to help her. having her ex "help her" does not mean he is a HVM in any way. geez. where are the boundaries here for an ex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:25 AM
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please make sure you are always safe. it's best to have someone you trust around you. i'm worried that he might turn physical and violent, and worried that the cop you mentioned might take his side (you'll never know) but cheers to peace and regaining of your sanity for the days ahead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:10 PM
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i'm really sorry to hear that. sending love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:41 PM
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yes. prenup. always protect yourself financially as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:37 PM
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this is financial abuse. he wants you to be completely reliant on him finanically so you wouldn't dare leave him while he continues to disrespect you. we women need our own money, married or single, to be able to say "fuck you" anytime and leave at the first sign of red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:33 PM
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i'd even go a step further to tag along to the clinic and sees that he pays for the tests and does it. can't trust a scrote. they might just fake a whole report from a legitimate clinic/lab by googling their logos. i mean there are fake IDs, diplomas etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:25 PM
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skid marks i'm dead 💀 almost spat my drink out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:29 PM
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don't pity date!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:24 PM
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right, it's sad we have to protect ourselves from their own shitty behaviour. i hope you eventually find a way to snitch because the girl might be clueless. next time keep them in the dark about what you find, then block and expose them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:08 PM
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the girl deserves to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:17 PM
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from my own experience in being the main girl, it would have saved me YEARS of my precious time, energy and effort if i was informed of a side chick. the worst part was that the side chick knew about me but didn't think of telling me. i was totally clueless and being deceived. it honestly is humiliating. i would have ended things the moment i knew about it. i think you did the right thing by alerting his girlfriend, it's up to her then to do whatever she wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:13 PM
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i'm curious as to what he defines "having his life together". according to a above average 28 year old male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:19 PM
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i don't respond to texts that start with "hey" or "hi" or "wyd". if you can't even bother to address me by my name i won't even bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:34 AM
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THANK YOU FOR THIS. also i had a realization during this pandemic. men who whine about how uncomfortable masks are and not wear them properly are the same ones who will whine about condoms being uncomfortable. they only care about their own pleasure and not the safety of others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:18 AM
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men don't grow up. they take everything personally and cannot be objective about things. i chanced upon a thread discussing how men don't get complimented (started by a pickmesha 🤡) and those men discussed how dearly they hold on to that one compliment from middle school, and think about it from time to time just for an ego boost. it's pathetic. they have no other accomplishments in them that they have to hold on to these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:14 AM
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exactly. when i caught him red handed he had already cheated on me for FIVE YEARS, with multiple women. even with evidence presented men will still deny and gaslight you further. save yourself the trouble from being a fool by "confronting" him because he clearly knows what he did. just walk out. keep your dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:43 AM
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exactly. why would you even want to be near someone with no morals and clearly disrespects you? the moment i found out my ex cheated i felt digusted, my lens shifted immediately and the entire relationship became clear to me that it was a lie. "who is this person?" lost all the respect i had of him in an instant. it was tough to accept but got out ASAP because i could't stand another second looking at this person. got a full STD panel test that costed me almost a thousand bucks. the anxiety from…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:31 AM
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to be honest, the "reconciliation" phase is just to further gaslight the victim to the point of humilation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:05 PM
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i found FDS from another sub back when i was still in the process of coping after the break up with my cheating ex. i am forever thankful to whoever linked it (it was a random click for me) and have never looked back since. thank you to the person who linked it, and all you ladies for the effort with the FDS rescue missions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:41 PM
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wow i can feel the liberation! it's like discovering a new way of living that feels so light and refreshing because it happened to me as well and i'm loving it! thank you for sharing, but don't call yourself an old dog!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:05 AM
4

maybe we'll see her here in future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:36 AM
20

YES. projection. and then testing to see how'd you react and gaslight you accordingly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:54 AM
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THIS AD IS IN MY FEED TOO 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:56 PM
70

same here with my ex. my gut told me something was off, but i wanted to trust him 🤡 lesson: trust your gut, ladies. your body can pick up subtle signs wayyy before your mind is able to make sense of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:48 PM
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i agree with all of the points. my scrote ex did almost all of them, i can't believe i was so blind because i tRuSTeD him, or rather, he gaslit me into thinking i was overthinking/too sensitive. he was such a smooth talker and a huge narcissist. he covered his acts so well, justified all of them, and worst of all his friends, colleagues, bosses, all speak so highly of him making me think he was a "HVM". but NO. they were just all LVM of the same kind. he gave me expensive gifts (probably guilt g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:43 PM
13

i need to print and frame this 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:10 AM
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💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:50 AM
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i'm sorry to hear that 💔 you deserve better. hope your anxiety gets better 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:33 AM
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sis, you're such a cOoL girl sis! of course! you are right! we gotta cOmMuniCAte with men, be their therapist and help them navigate their emotions throughout the day, stroke their fragile little egos by being the peasant instead and treating them like kings! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:14 AM
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story time. my scrote ex was sO sAD and HuRT over his friends calling him snorlax, sharing with me his sob story 🚩 of how people are so sUpErFiCial and didn't like him because of his weight. of course the young and 🤡 me pitied him and wanted to ~HeLp hIm BeCOMe MoRE CoNFiDEnT~ and to prove to him that looks don't matter 🤡 we started to exercise and hit the gym. he cheated on me 2 years into our relationship. we were together for 7 years 🚩 he had another girl on the side for 5 years, and a few ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:04 AM
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dad bods = pure laziness, lack of accountability in life to even keep themselves healthy, will put no effort into relationships or anything in their life. yet these scrotes think they're all that~ trying to diss other men with 6 packs or fit bodies. ew, no thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:43 AM
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omg gurl. my scrote ex frequently asked me to wake him up from his nap by a certain time too and then scolded me for doing so because apparently if he wakes up abruptly he gets a migraine??? how am i suppose to wake him up then? the clown 🤡 me even tried waking him up gently but he still got irritated with me? lol what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:31 AM
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after reading your comment i've decided to clean up my contact list and go on a deleting spree :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:10 PM
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beware also of guys installing spy cameras when they are over at your place. even guy colleagues or friends can't be trusted. "using the bathroom" can be an opportunity for them to install spy cameras.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:30 PM
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