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I have never heard a guy say this. He usually just gives short answers & uses social media & pics to convey his passive-aggressive emotions hoping you'll go along with his games. ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:14 AM
1

Yeah if you get someone to feel good around you or about themselves, they'll associate that feeling with you wanting you more and feeling more attracted and connected to you.
/r/seduction20/10/20 06:23 AM
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Yes you can get rejected but at least you had the bravery
/r/seduction15/10/20 11:28 PM
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It makes you wonder what they'd say about you if your back was turned.
/r/seduction05/10/20 02:29 AM
1

catching a lot of crap for my posts? errrkay and you say attractions not a choice but sorry then. I can't help who I'm attracted to. If I can get with the top 10% then why not? I'm not gonna lower the bar. Would a guy want to? You admitted that you're more selfish now and as a result are happier. Ok, so how's that any different for me?
/r/seduction02/10/20 03:11 AM
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and you can put your needs first without being selfish
/r/seduction02/10/20 02:30 AM
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yea but that doesn't mean it's ok to lie and be an insensitive jerk
/r/seduction02/10/20 02:29 AM
1

Some guys are dogs. only thinking about their needs.
/r/seduction02/10/20 01:48 AM
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I am. Are you?
/r/seduction01/10/20 01:21 AM
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Pffff....."Glory Hole Center"........SUMS EVERYTHING UP.
/r/seduction01/10/20 12:37 AM
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No actually I've never said that.
/r/seduction01/10/20 12:29 AM
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I never said women don't have sexual urges & women having the ability to do sex work above men is not an inherent lack of value for men but rather the opposite. It just shows that women are still viewed as less than & anyone who still believes sex work is honest work is living in a different century. That thought is so outdated & if it becomes more normalized again we might as well not have a need for women's education because most men will become accustomed to women using their bodies for profi…
/r/seduction30/09/20 11:43 PM
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I'm not well below average. I hate that men always resort to this thought. That is such a shallow way of thinking. You can be an attractive woman & still get hurt. Not all women use their looks & sell themselves for money. Just because the majority do doesn't mean all of us do & just because a woman doesn't profit off of her looks doesnt mean its because she doesn't have the ability to do so. I could have easily gone down that path if I wanted to but I didn't. Ive never had a sugar daddy & think…
/r/seduction30/09/20 11:10 PM
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yeah move on & find someone else or focus on you
/r/seduction30/09/20 10:06 PM
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I agree but then men should do the same when they're uninterested in a woman but most of the time they don't because guys don't like confrontation & don't want to hurt the girls feelings/don't wanna look like the bad guy.
/r/seduction30/09/20 10:06 PM
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I don't necessarily agree with that. Men have optoons too. Most of the men that ive dated had lots of options because they were really handsome hence they wanted to keep their options open.
/r/seduction30/09/20 10:04 PM
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I try not to ghost anybody. It sucks but ive found even when I've told guys I'm not interested or only interested in being friends they take it literally or see it as a possibility still. I've had guys where I've shown clear signs I'm not interested that keep trying but are the same guys who are insensitive to girls that aren't interested in them. It's typical & egotistical. It shows to me that they're more about their ego than actually liking the girl. Some guys are relentless.
/r/seduction30/09/20 08:48 PM
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Yes but men do this too. Its not just women & not all women are like this.
/r/seduction30/09/20 08:46 PM
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From my experience as a female it could be that she had other options or there was something that just changed her mind. That's the thing with dating these days. You can think things are going great, that the other person is really into you & then suddenly they become disinterested. I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me as a female & I do get a pretty positive reaction from the opposite sex. But it comes down to the fact that people have different intentions/agenda. For me I th…
/r/seduction30/09/20 08:45 PM
5

So true. I hate boastful confidence. To me it usually indicates a lack of confidence ie. cockiness. If you're confident you don't have to show off and can just be yourself.
/r/seduction24/09/20 08:22 PM
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So true. I think people who play mind games do it because they lack confidence, so they think the only way to get someone to like them or keep them is by playing games. Some people are also really competitive by nature, and see games as almost a sport, a way of flirting. I think people who do this are insecure and have control issues. They're usually the ones though that pretend to be super confident. The one's that show off, and brag about themselves. They're also the one's who probably put on …
/r/seduction24/09/20 08:21 PM
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I had an old ex who stopped showering as often, cutting his hair & even brushing his teeth. He got a little too comfortable & I basically had to tell him he needed to step up his hygiene. We're obviously not together anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:17 AM
5

men: there's a minimum?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:15 AM
5

Meanwhile we're waxing, shaving & covering our faces with warpaint. Sounds fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:13 AM
1

true but I didn't deserve him being a jerk to me. he was pretty callous & cocky about it. Didn't seem to care about my feelings. Almost like revenge. He did mention us getting back together down the road but I was like nah in my mind.
/r/seduction17/09/20 11:05 PM
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No actually I began to like him as we dated. i did initially like him in the beginning when we met which was through a friend but i detected some red flags. my gut kept telling me not to date him even though a apart of me was curious & when he told me he really liked me I decided to give him a shot & as soon as I started to fall thats when he pulled back.
/r/seduction17/09/20 10:58 PM
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of course. i agree
/r/seduction17/09/20 10:56 PM
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Also, I would call that another level of love bombing because most guys just love bomb in the beginning stages & then after a while give up, I think? This guy is relentless & will love bomb you & worship you for years until you give him a chance...them boom.
/r/seduction17/09/20 07:36 PM
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it really is. why do people do that? are they even aware they're doing it?
/r/seduction17/09/20 07:35 PM
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Words like "pulled this off" and "accomplished" seems a little insensitive. It makes the girl seems more like a conquest than a partner. The whole point of finally getting the girl would hopefully be because you like her for her. The reason I say all this because I had a guy who wanted to date me for longest. He would obsess over me even write love songs about me. He told me how much he liked me, thought I was beautiful & intelligent, "the female version of him." He seemed so enamored by me to t…
/r/seduction17/09/20 06:46 PM
1

This can apply to men and women. Good advice.
/r/seduction15/09/20 08:53 PM
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Same for guys
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:35 PM
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Yeah I'm actually dating someone else now. We've been dating for about six months so far & he's a lot nicer to me, doesn't play games, our relationship is simple which i like. He does have his own past wounds & small triggers like myself but together we're working on it. But I was just really saddened by the last guy. To make me believe I could trust him & that he genuinely cared for me only to turn around become so manipulative & toxic. It took some time to get over & still somewhat is now. Not…
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:49 PM
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Yeah i see it so much where genuine nice guys go for the mean girl because they legitimately don't know what it's like to date a healthy normal nice girl. Like if a girl isn't acting crazy and playing games with him then he feels its too good to be true. I felt the same about this one guy BUT it turns out it was too good to be true because he was putting on an act the whole time before we dated.
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:43 PM
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Couldn't agree more! This is how I've always felt & I explain this to guys & they look at me like I'm from outer space & end up choosing the girl who's immature & plays games.
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:32 PM
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I agree with a lot of this. Not all of it but definitely the oneitis mindset. I can confirm I knew a guy who was like this. He thought he was honest and manly but he was actually exhibiting the false nice guy behavior in order to receive validation. He would also rarely go on dates so he lacked experience. Most of the girls he met were through either mutual friends or through Instagram. Sorry but I don't think Instagram is a dating site & while it can be a great way to meet someone, going on act…
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:26 PM
5

"My husband won't let me buy this." Ok do have a joint account? Do you make your own damn money?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:03 PM
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As a woman, I'm all about equal partnership. He can have his acct and I can have mine. We can split the bills, if a woman doesn't want to take a mans last name then simply keep your own. I don't have any drive to have a man take my last name. If one person is going to be in charge of the finances which be whomever is better at handling the finances (man or woman) then the other should be in charge of chores and cleaning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:02 AM
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Is that low value men? lol sorry not up to date on all the terms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:59 PM
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😂😂😂 Sounds like a lot of insecurity and need for control on their end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:48 PM
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Its funny how a lot of men I've come across say they want a confident woman but when you show them that they do everything to try to control you and crumble that confidence then get mad when you won't let them....I'm like what??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:18 PM
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Men constantly treating women like shit. Women: Men are trash. Men: Women always be tripping over nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:15 PM
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Putting a chastity belt on because these fools ain't getting near me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 05:33 AM
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1000%
/r/seduction08/08/20 06:03 AM
2

I disagree. Only women who are attracted to emotionally unavailable men & like competition will fall for this. Men also do this just as well. I think this works more when people are just looking to date/hook up. When looking for a relationship, a real, mature woman (and man) will see past all that nonsense and will have decided what qualities she does and does not like in a man one being petty tactics and games. Once she sees that she will move on quickly. Of course in the beginning stages it's …
/r/seduction08/08/20 05:57 AM
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Basically. Once my energy gets to a place where I'm not feeling the love, I start to lose interest. It's amazing how shook guys get when they realize you're not going to play into their games. Deuces. ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:42 AM
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I do what I want regardless what anyone else thinks. If I groom myself its because it makes me feel good. Makes me feel fresh and clean. There's days where I don't though and I don't care going out looking like a bum. I listen to music and do things that I enjoy regardless whether it's in or out, I speak my mind even if others don't agree with it. Freedom of speech is something that we constantly preach about but actually seldom apply. Live your life. ✌💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:38 AM
5

Yeah some of these dudes are lying mf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:34 AM
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So true. I felt I had to do this with an ex and I felt I was holding myself back. I am not sorry for leaving his abusive self and going on my own adventure and exploring my individuality and glad I didn't listen to him or anybody trying to dwindle my light. 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:32 AM
1

I agree but I will say that I hear all the time that a vast amount of women place importance on height which I think is sad. Unfortunately though from personal experience I can say that most guys I've dated that were short were huge assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:48 PM
4

"yiun" and "wierd" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:44 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:54 PM
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I think it's because a lot of "men" think being vulnerable is seen as weak. Showing emotions is weak and makes you a simp or a p*ssy. Maybe because they didn't grow up with that or maybe because ONE girl broke their heart so they write every other girl off as the same. Its interesting for womens capacity of love and willingness to forgive the opposite gender for as much abuse and/or times we've had our hearts broken, we still find it in ourselves to believe there's still good men out there and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:22 AM
3

Well said...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:09 AM
11

The giant question should be is why a lot of men feel the need to be abusive be it mental, physical, emotional??? I know it stems from insecurity and probably something they dealt with or witnessed as a child but that says a lot then that a lot of children mainly young boys are growing up in "seemingly" good homes or just straight up abusive homes or the worst which is when the moms spoil and cater to the son so much that he can do no wrong. That's a recipe for disaster and a case for self entit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:36 AM
3

This. Sometimes invisible scars hurt just as much if not more. Abuse is abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:20 AM
1

so what if a guy made a few jokes about you being with other dudes and then another time he drops the word cuckold and simp out there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:56 AM
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At least he was honest....all jokes aside, scary and good you found out so you could run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:50 AM
10

I can detect negging & gaslighting a lot better now. It's sad that men even feel the need to do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:49 PM
2

Trash is trash. Money don't make it better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:43 PM
1

True. There was one time a girl who was engaged with a guy friend of my boyfriends (at the time) I asked her how long they'd been dating. She said off and on for like 5 years and then went on to say that they were sort of fwb for a while hence the off and on and then one day he finally asked her to be his girlfriend so then they dated officially for like 2 years or something like that and then he finally popped the question. I didnt say much and just smiled and said congratulations but I was thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:01 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:22 AM
2

This is why I never joined. So many guy friends in the military advised me against it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:20 AM
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I think this applies to everyone. When you're busy you instantly seem more attractive. You're not waiting by the phone seeming desperate and needy for this person's attention. When you're living your own life but still enjoy their company you will seem more attractive.
/r/seduction21/07/20 05:14 AM
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For me, smarts. Being smart and being a free thinker. Thinking outside the box, also being handy, a decent cook, responsible, KINDNESS....KINDNESS!!! You can be all those things, good looking, smart, successful, handy, but if you are not kind then ugh! Also, HUMOR! If you can make me laugh and we match the same wit which is a combo of sarcasm, darm humor and goofiness then I'm in love and also shyness and sensitivity. A bit of shyness and a guy who's a little sensitive is sexy also depth. Gotta …
/r/seduction17/07/20 07:24 PM
1

You get over this when you realize people dont care either way. When you try to post something meaningful & people don't respond as much as when you post a selfie. Yeah its reassuring to a point but I guess I just got tired of being only liked for how I looked than how i am and even at that i don't really get that much of a positive response at least not from the women. I rarely have women cheer me on about how I look good or like my pics but the fellas....yeah I get likes a lot. I realized even…
/r/seduction17/07/20 07:16 PM
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