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I get the point of this post for most of the community but it doesn't apply to me and probably a lot of guys using women to fill voids in their lives. My oneitis had bullet proof frame, a deep sense of self, incredible confidence and insight into the human condition plus several other qualities rare in men and virtually non existent in women. Prior to red pill I lacked all those things and was drawn to her to compensate. There are plenty of guys on here, superficial Chad's, who fell in oneitis w…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 12:12 AM
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OP identifies a very real phenomenon: 6-8's are a lot easier to score with than 9's and up. For me personally, I'd probably date a 9 if I scored one who wasn't a nut case and they probably sense that and move on. I've always viewed the HB scale as a bell curve with very long tails so when you get 3 or 4 standard deviations from average the people there are exceedingly rare. Someone posted in comments the other day that because 9/10s women can fuck anyone on earth, they are looking for characteri…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 07:06 PM
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I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO DYE MY HAIR ... She says caking makeup all over her face
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 05:39 AM
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Don't worry, I thought mine was also virtuous until she told me, with a feral grin, about the multiple MFM 3ways she'd had. You live and learn.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 04:34 PM
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This post exactly describes me prior to, then with my oneitis. Great article.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 04:30 PM
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Unless she's highly self aware, plausible deniability is very important. Recently a girl from my gym, who is separated but living with her ex husband, made it clear she wanted to fuck but 'couldn't out of respect for her situation' so instead of trying to arrange somewhere to have a drink or anything that a reasonable person could consider a prelude to sex (i.e. a date) I told her I was going for a walk near her house and if we happened to run into each other that'd be really cool. Women can act…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 02:06 PM
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Lot of negativity on this thread from faggots who are too scared and/or dadbod to hit on girls at the gym. If you train hard, get results and are generally at the top of the class there’s nothing wrong with chatting to the women. If they’re interested, ask them out. When you get rejected, be cool about it. When you sleep with them, tell nobody and never, ever brag. Don’t be a creeper-gym is for training first then socializing. Plausible deniability is important. I’ve asked out maybe 10 girls fro…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 04:06 PM
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Happy 50th mate, but above all-thank you.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 09:04 PM
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I think really happened. But from the way it's written, to a 40 year old virgin.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 01:29 PM
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Nobody here is advocating rape. It's a heinous crime. But you come of as either a feminist or sexually inexperienced. You need to learn to read social cues. Recently I was with a girl who kept saying 'stop, you're crazy, stop...' While she pushed off the wall to ground her ass on my face as I knelt behind her. If she'd arched her back any more it would've snapped. Let me break it down for you: intellectually she felt she was being 'slutty' and 'out of character' but was getting off on the fact t…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 06:46 AM
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blow it off and they are backed into a corner, This is key and why teasing, amused mastery etc and generally not taking anything they say to seriously works so well. You can get women to straight talk they're attraction to level to you but usually only when they're desperate; for you to fuck off, or for you to commit. It's pretty traumatic for them either way.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 06:24 AM
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Niceguy" is PowerTalk for, "Beta asshole who either delusionally believes he is nice, or pretends to be nice, and feels entitled to sex from a woman for being nice to her". Alternatively, it can mean, "A boring beta guy who believes that because he is nice, that alone will make a woman want to have sex with him." The keyword in both of those definitions, and the only word that matters, is "beta". Right. That's why everyone on here should chill out about modern feminism. If you sidebar right, it …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 06:15 AM
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I don't have any attractive female friends who aren't married to my friends. Of those who are single, one is a bull dyke with bigger arms than me and can bench 150kg, the other is just as ugly and my housemate. So I'll be leaving them alone. The pool of fuckable girls is large, but the pool of fuckable girls who are interesting/smart/cool enough to qualify as genuine friends as vanishingly small and I'd probably LTR one if I found her. So, yes you can fuck your female 'friends' but I suspect the…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 01:09 PM
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If neoreactionsafe could've written cogently, humourously and without bullet points he might've posted this. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 10:14 AM
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You're such a cunt. Keep up the good work.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 10:34 PM
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Think he got banned-he was mad but if you applied a very heavy filter some of his stuff kinda made sense...sort of.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 11:38 AM
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It's bizarre behaviour. If you ever have a hb8+ show you her instagram inbox though, it might explain why. Last night a plate showed me a DM she had from a male model with 10k+ followers on instagram (so you'd think abundance). This is the text, and I quote: 'Gym girl hello, I don't want to be weird of bug you i just really want to know you...but in the gym it's kinda hard to say hello what with you being the absolute queen of the gym and all the guys constantly staring at you Chat to meeeeee? I…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 11:34 AM
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Is neoreactionsafe your father?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 07:42 PM
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Degenerate doesn't even begin to describe these women, and it's not the porn that's doing it. Hard to say if this is 100% accurate. I've always slept with lots of women but was pretty blue pill in my 20's so wasn't as dominant...but... I have noticed that girls are doing things now they wouldn't do 10-15 years ago. E.g. I'd say 50% did anal 10 years ago. Now, it's 90%+, and most them ass to mouth one way or other. You can talk a (nice) girl into fisting her own asshole with a bit of encouragemen…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 04:57 PM
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You're acting not over-invested. but it's an act. I was very careful not to bring up topics related to commitment If you weren't invested you wouldn't have to be careful. I think this girls bullshitometer is hitting the limiter and her hamster has decided to shit test you to see if you're the real deal or some PUA who's faking it till he makes it.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 10:54 PM
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but Trump doesn't believe this. Trump has no beliefs. Otherwise, generally agree. We're at about the same point with feminism as we were with global warming in 2000.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 09:33 AM
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girls sometimes scream "no no!" I sometimes stops and ask "are you ok?" always the answer is "yes" Happens all the time. I actually use the same words, or sometimes 'want me to stop?' answer: 'no!'. Girls can be incredibly competitive and determined about certain things. You're being down voted by guys who've never had that experience therefore it can't happen.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 09:46 AM
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You can often accomplish the same thing by maintaining frame and control. Put another way, women seduce themselves. This here is next level TRP understanding. The physical acts of sex are much less important than the establishment of frame and dominance prior to hitting the sack. Done right, a woman will be amazed at how easily you make her cum. Ive found it has little to do with technique but more the emotional state of arousal you've put her in first.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 09:42 AM
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Interesting and pertinent. I've always had a lot of energy but struggled to channel it effectively. TRP has helped improve interpersonal relationships, the next step for me is crushing my career and the only way to do this is to develop the ability to focus. For example, I'm supposed to be editing my book but instead I'm writing this comment. Better find me a cave...
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 12:21 PM
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try to take a little bit of that man's power and you'll see who he really is A humble guy can still have iron boundaries and tolerate no shit. An arrogant guy can be piss weak. Nice is a word to describe faggots.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 12:34 PM
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Saying no should be the first thing TRP teaches along with lifting. Saying no is essentially lifting for your mind: start with yourself, then move to other people. When you get good at saying no you can reject proposals in such a friendly way people don't even realise they've been rebuffed.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 12:05 PM
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My thinking is the perceived power women have over us is trivial compared to the actual power other men have over us. And women only have actual power over us in how they manipulate those men. That's a really fucking interesting point: As most men are blind to the power they have only the best manipulators leverage this ability, and therefore do it incredibly effectively? A single woman only really wants to manipulate one man at a time (or maybe two AF/BB) but feminism is a tool for women to man…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 12:01 PM
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Power comes from competence. Once you're competent and recognised as such you can be humble and confident at the same time-if you want. To become a confident man, lift, get educated, get a mission, practise approaching etc etc ---> sidebar. Meantime if you lack confidence being arrogant is a decent cover for a while. Men respect compeptent men, and women take their cues from men on who's worth fucking. So be arrogant with women, but if you're arrogant to the wrong guy you'll lose your teeth and …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 11:54 AM
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Scratch and Dent: She’s on the wrong side of 25, and most of her SMV is about to expire/has expired. 25 is not old for a woman. And many women's SMV do not 'expire' at 25. If she's worth plating in the first place or of any quality at all, she will plateau then her SMV will expire very slowly over 5-7 years (she'll be gymming, looking after herself which slows ageing). Same as men are not worthless in the SMP until they're 32 then suddenly become 8's. Things happen over time. I get what OP is sa…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 03:54 PM
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AWALT but most women are generally pretty reasonable. More so the more attractive you are. Same woman will behave vey differently given the same circumstances but different value man. Increasing your value provides some insurance against this rubbish.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 02:07 PM
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Some are legitimate but i know a few girls who've been raped and they all report it to the police immediately. The general idea is valid but the goal (men in power shouldn't take advantage of it to get sexual favours with women) is so vague as to be impractical. It also ignores the other side of the coin which is that many women gladly trade promise of or actual sexual favours for an easy ride/advancement. Effectively cheating the 'merit' system feminists so badly (claim they) want equality in. …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 02:04 PM
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metoo, the biggest case of crying wolf in history. And it will end the same way. By broadening the definition of rape/sexual assault to include something as nebulous as retrospective disappointment on the part of the woman, legitimate victims of rape or traumatic sexual assault will miss out on the protection, support and justice they deserve. Otherwise reasonable men will doubt their story, or just not give a shit. The logical end point to this sort of behavior is wholesale transfer of responsi…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 12:17 PM
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How the fuck do I regain power in relationship? By caring the least. Or, more positively, not caring the most. Who gives a fuck if she thinks you're immature. What would she know? She's bankrolled by her parents and still at uni. Real question is: Do you think you're immature? If not, she can fuck off. If yes, fix yourself. Most likely though, you're making the mistake of assigning actual meaning to her words, like you would a friend. It's a shit test. Either ignore, or agree and amplify. If she…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 12:59 PM
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Basically, you must decide what is right and what is wrong according to you, not Chad or some other persona Chad comes in many different types. The one common denominator is confidence. Actual TRP promotes congruence. Congruence -> confidence. Congruence is thinking, saying and doing the same thing.* It is how to genuinely 'be yourself' but it is fucking hard because what we think is often counter to other people's/societies expectations. Posts about not taking disrespect, or passing shit tests,…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 12:18 PM
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Me too. These women are used to alpha males so have higher standard for alpha than standard women therefore seem even more cunt ish by comparison.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 07:57 PM
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Exactly. A friend of mine is an escort. We've known each other for 15 years and she expects nothing from me but honesty, and to be honest in return. Bearing in mind this is a girl who has seen it all, gang bangs etc. I was video chatting her the other day and a (male) 'friend' of hers cut his toes with lots of blood. She put her head on her hands and told me straight up it she couldn't deal with it, it wasn't her problem. Faggots will argue that whores are nasty people etc, but they are also the…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 07:54 PM
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Just being yourself is fine if a) you actually know who you are and b) you own it
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 11:04 PM
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Sounds like you already know what your problems are which is good. Girls tell me I'm hot so I have that going for me. One thing i learnt from an ex is that women really don't like a man who doesn't know his worth. It means they've been fooled; if you don't think you're good looking/high value, it contradicts their assessment of you. So, if girls have told you you're hot (and more importantly you can see it objectively for yourself) own it, know it. Then, apply yourself so that other aspects of w…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 03:02 PM
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Don't believe everything you read online. OP is likely full of shit. A HB9 isn't going to beg you to come to an NBA game with her unless op is secretly John Hamm. Agreed. 9's are prime Jessica Alba's and OP's 9 may well be my 6. Frankly it doesn't matter, if you think you're fucking a 9 then perception is reality. As an aside, HB rating is useless on an anonymous forum with no photos. At 35 you won't be getting 22 year old hotties without paying (literally) for it. This shows how little you know…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 12:09 PM
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He's just trolling fellas, relax.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 11:51 AM
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never received this level of attention. Then you're doing something wrong. If you're in good shape, generally happy and charismatic and actually try with women collecting a soft harem is easy. Obviously, finding women you actually want to hang out with as opposed to just fucking is much harder. You gotta ask yourself if you can actually be bothered managing a soft harem too. Ghosting girls doesn't always work. But if you've fucked them properly, or excited them enough, they usually reach out aft…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:27 PM
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Your boss was not a machiavellian psychopath with schemes and plots to turn you into his bitch I actually lived with a guy who was exactly this. Special forces, 4 tours of Afghan vet, Psy-ops trained. Had lost several immediate family members to suicide. Was always happy. An incredibly energetic, effective human being, in all aspects of life. He did, however, most definitely did plot and scheme to make every man he met his bitch, and was very good at it. Not pleasant, but an excellent learning e…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 04:26 PM
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Some guys on here are bigger victims than the wymmins
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 11:52 AM
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I don't NEED no man If you have to say it (especially in a fucking TED talk!), it ain't true.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 03:57 PM
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I watched literally 3.5 seconds of that video in 4 parts: I heard "I think I'm a pretty decent caaatch,' then i jumped 2 minutes to "in terms of what I want from a guy" another jump "I absolutely looove what I do," then "I'm really haaappy!" I discovered the fat hamster show's no introspection. Then I had to turn it off or risk punching my screen at work.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 11:47 AM
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GLO is not big, especially for someone on gear. He's got decent size and is fairly lean, a somewhat difficult combination made easy by juicing. That said you're right, you don't need to be near his size to appear in his shape.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/17 03:30 PM
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Interesting article. In the first table, the word you're looking for is condescension.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/17 03:16 PM
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This right here is why Jews are so neurotic.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 03:07 PM
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Parts of this sub miss the nuance in the advice because it doesn't appeal to their emotional state at that particular time. The trick with TRP is knowing what to apply, when, and with how much force.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 07:55 AM
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If you have to engage with this crap, the best thing to do with this, and on the other thread about arguing with women, is to agree and amplify. But whatever you do, don't get emotionally invested in what's being said. have fun with it, ignore it, or whatever, but the person who cares the least wins these types of conversations.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 12:33 PM
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There are no 50-50 m-f relationships. One person is always the leader, that's how we evolved, we establish hierarchy. This means that if you're not leading, she is absolutely, you framed it properly by talking of leadership. Whether positive or negative, male leadership is key to a satisfying (for the male) relationship dynamic. The Dark Triad and narcissism are majorly overplayed here. First of all nobody is (or can be) purely altruistic/narcissistic, we're always a mix of both Agree and the ra…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 10:38 AM
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Exactly but, RP is a tool box that helps you get whatever you want outa life. There should be no judgement on how you get what you want and reach satisfaction Thing is most people aren't innately selfish assholes, but on here there's a lot of bitterness because being 'nice' got them fucked over. Niceness equals weakness, kindness does not. May be too nuanced for some.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 02:03 AM
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Only if you're just starting out.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 01:56 AM
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There have been a few less 'i was a BP faggot incel but then I got jacked and realise AWALT and slay daily' And a few more posts for people who are of the subset of those who want to be RP but in general contribute to society ie more Marcus Aurelius less Donald Trump. Upsetting the locals cos soon as you frame a preference for anything that's not selfishly Machiavellian your a covert contract BP bitch. What if I din't want to be a narcissistic fuck? be confident and work on your realtionship" I …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 01:55 AM
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What's toxic to some e.g. violence might be simultaneously positive to others e.g. family members forging bonds by protecting their own. When people use adjectives it's usually to cloud an issue with emotion.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 01:29 AM
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This is shit advice. You apologise you admit guilt. it validates her outburst and demonstrates you can be bullied. Setting your alarm can't be misconstrued: She's a cunt fishing for a reaction. No matter how useless you may have been her reaction is unwarranted. OP listen to everyone but this guy and disengage with this woman. Post script: there is no mandatory cuddle time. Girls give way less of a fuck about that shit than men think they do and doing it cos you think you should is operating in …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 04:10 PM
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London has a great vibe. Brexit is no big deal, the terror attacks are as important as you personally make them, and unemployment is historically low. Pollution is awful but that's everywhere diesel engines were encouraged, and don't get me started on the weather. But if you can't find something you enjoy in London, it doesn't exist (except decent weather).
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 12:12 PM
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Of course, it's MY list. Pick and choose the bits that work for you (if any) and throw out the rest.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 10:35 PM
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Completely agree, nuance is required and everybody should develop the details that suit their circumstances. I think the whole RP is like that though. You're right about self criticism. You need to self assess all the time. The message is to be proportionately harsh on yourself depending on the mistake you've made, not go too easy but not too hard either. Also I disagree with your statement that the opposite of love is fear. You have to let go of fear to love, but the opposite of love-hate is ap…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 10:32 PM
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I don't know but if you PM your details I'll send you the word doc.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 10:20 PM
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you had better start with dominating yourself. Here's a domination starter: Use the word NO. Spot on. The first step after swallowing the pill is working with yourself, in yourself (and no this doesn't involve a bucket of lube and your fist) If you can't tell yourself no you'll never be able to have boundaries with others.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 12:49 PM
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SMV is all relative: if you're high SMV you have abundance with majority of women, but if you find yourself in a relationship with a 9 with an IQ of 150 you need to have your shit locked down very tight or you'll go the same route as the low SMV male with his 6.5 (pedestalisation, loss of frame, betaisation etc)
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 10:16 AM
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I had a girl (who I used to plate) literally crying on my shoulder saying every one of those quotes two weeks ago after a guy dumped her. A week later she was at a house party scooping other guys numbers. Good on her for getting back out there, but it goes to reinforce, women are adapted to move on quick as per the War Brides article from Rollo...
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 01:48 PM
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Not that your said they were, but it's important to remember all women do this and it's not a 'malicious' thing, they're just wired that way. That's why, as OP is saying, it's important to know your own boundaries and have the frame to stand up for them. Women search for things like your past behaviour, feelings, even what your ex looked like, to get a feel for the framework of the relationship and how they can manipulate it. It's like they're feeling around in the dark, searching for levers to …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 01:43 PM
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Seaguy, he's right. The only thing I'd add is to ask: this female friend of mine has no career to speak of, and her parents have paid her way through much of her life. She's easily 20 pounds overweight, doesn't have an original opinion, doesn't know much about current affairs/general knowledge, and typifies a lot of what is mentioned about women in this sub If she's such a mediocre human, and you call her your friend, what does that make you?
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 03:48 PM
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An effective way to (re)frame things in a generally more positive way, with lasting impact on personality, is to practise mindfulness... Which brings us to another TRP meme...meditiation.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 03:36 PM
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From personal observations, it's not only whether you're introverted or otherwise that matters, but what mood you're in prior to taking the drug (whether coke, alcohol or anything else that acts on dopamine pathways). If you start out positive, the drugs elevate you further, if you start flat, they have no impact/make you depressed-which supports OP's position. (Obviously your personality type impacts the start point).
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 03:02 PM
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Absolutely. Then once you accept it's your fault you have to work through the regret.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 01:00 PM
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You're not a man until a woman breaks your mothafuckin heart... Our ego's don't let us learn until life smacks us in the face, we just have to learn the lesson the hard way... I think this is what the old saying 'behind every great man is a great woman' actually means It's not necessarily the current woman who's making him great, it's the one who broke his psyche into little pieces and left him to piece it back together, better, stronger.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 01:53 PM
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All women play games. Some are obviously more overt than others but it happens. If you want a stable relationship you have to be better at the game than she is.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 10:59 AM
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What's wrong with being a villain? Who cares what they think, focus on what you think of yourself (e.g. be congruent). Anyway, they're only rules for men they perceive as weak. The rules don't apply to men who are perceived 'alpha'. The trick is to understand that a great way to earn a weak designation is to take any of this shit seriously. One way to look at it is; by raising the societal shit-test bar so high, the options for the fewer and fewer men who pass are increasingly broad. Be one of t…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 01:22 PM
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In that case, all the best.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 01:16 PM
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Masterful reframing... We should actually learn from this.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 10:35 PM
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Before, they were victims because they weren't educated like men. Now, they're victims because men are not educated enough to date. Feminism is the ultimate victimhood mentality. No matter, they'll always want more, and they'll always claim special treatment. The only options are to laugh or ignore, depending on your mood. I love reading feminist articles, I get a rise out of them few other themes elicit. They are one of life's guilty pleasures. Like
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 03:15 PM
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Sexual strategy and thus the desired sexual options from plating isn't so simple. It would be if you got over this bullshit: My own weakness I'm shying away from You mean your own percieved weakness. Get it out of your fucking head that 5'9 is short. It's marginally below average in a way that is easily compensated for, in ways you've already identified.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 03:09 PM
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Women always drop that specific shit test, most especially when you won't give them commitment and they want it. It's designed to demonstrate they have options and force your hand. I got a call recently from a plate, to tell me she was actually on a date. We chatted for a bit until the guy she was with got on the phone to me. I chatted to him for a bit then he hung up, butt hurt. I texted her that he sounds like a nice guy, and to come over when she was done. After we had sex, she told me how th…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 02:53 PM
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Pretty standard shit test. Remember, she's not yours it's just your turn. Every girl, to one degree or another, brings up previous sexual partners or options they've got to demonstrate their value, their experience and mostly to see how you react. However you achieve it, the only right reaction is to clearly communicate that you don't care. Obviously much easier to do when you actually don't. Laugh/teasing them or agree and amplify work. That said, if the relationship is verging towards LTR and …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 08:40 PM
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*Masturbation number 4 on my list of things not to do, after sugar, coffee and hot showers.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 05:54 PM
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Personally I don't care but I don't think It's hard for me to tell a slut from a good girl Then you have a lot to learn. A smart woman can hide all signs of her sexual past and only reveals it if she trusts you, and thinks you can handle it (ie are 'alpha'). Even then they don't do it lightly.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 10:35 PM
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Remind her of shitty things she’s done in the past This is female arguing technique 101. Ask a woman why they do it. They ALL do it. I wouldn't necessarily do this as it explaining rather than demonstrating and makes it look like she got to you. But yes, taken far enough it is abuse and it's exactly how women justify their shitty behaviour a lot of the time.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 12:09 PM
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tinder etc is best utilised when overseas in a holiday destination e.g. Bali. Girls are free from the pressure to not look like a slut that their social circle applies and casual hookups are the main. Obviously you don't need tinder to capitalise.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 02:46 PM
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I googled her and Lauren Mann is not hot, she's a hipster dog with a fringe. Whoever murdered her did the world a favour and this is the required response to all pedo's and others who take advantage of children.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 10:14 AM
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Sure, nurture has it's part to play. But nature is more important. A criminal only behaves due to percieved consequences. Their innate desires and preferences don't change whether or not they can act on these impulses. Same with a paedophile, or an intrinsically good person. Same with men and women in choosing activities. Go to a under 5's nursery and see what the kids do when left to themselves. The majority of boys push toy cars around (or similair) and the majority of girls play with dolls. I…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 10:09 AM
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if, as you say, In my experience, people study what they have an interest in and what they think they'd be good at ...and smart women more often than not choose the professions OP listed...it sounds like you're agreeing with me. Men do not apply to a university degree thinking "my advantage is tournament performance". Women do not apply to a university degree thinking "my advantage is from group acceptance". COuldn't agree more. Nobody said they do. However the underlying subconscious drivers, t…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 06:42 PM
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Understand your perspective however you're reading it in a slightly spergish way. Women don't (usually) consciously decide to shit-test, branch swing or get wet for rock stars. It just happens. Similarly, I don't consciously make the decision over breakfast to stare at tits, hit on hot girls at the gym, etc. In my experience, people study what they have an interest in and what they think they'd be good at Exactly. OP's point is that smart women are intrinsically driven to certain careers which a…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 02:22 PM
1

Yea no doubt he could alpha his wife more. He just doesn't seem to give a shit-he's genuinely happy with his life. His wife is a bit fat and ugly now anyway. Certainly correct re his exposure to risk. He's been getting away with it for a while now so maybe she knows and I don't know. She is Eastern European and he got her a green card to the US. If Trump has proven anything, it's that Eastern European women are very pragmatic.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 10:53 AM
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They're shifting right too, all is well with the world.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 10:13 AM
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Congruence comes from being the rock in all situations. Some men are contextual alphas eg at work but not at home. Was chatting to a good friend about this the other day. He is married, two kids and high powered high stress job. He gets the alpha beta dynamic but in his words, after a hard day's work he just can't be bothered taking the reigns at home too. It's clear his wife runs things and he openly admits he doesn't get much sex. And neither does he give a shit, because he gets it on the side…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:44 PM
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Trump is a self serving asshole. He has a lot of traits we can all learn e.g. incredible frame from but for me at least they need to be seperated from him as a person. From a practical perspective, emulating Trump is a path to disappointment and incongruence because most people just can't operate at that level of narcissism. Re the culture war-i agree the: trump has done 2 and only 2 good things: he showed how to deal with feminists and other 'victims' and he kept Clinton out of the Whitehouse.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:27 PM
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Trump is a self serving asshole. He has a lot of traits we can all learn e.g. incredible frame from but for me at least they need to be seperated from him as a person. From a practical perspective, emulating Trump is a path to disappointment and incongruence because most people just can't operate at that level of narcissism. Re the culture war-i agree the: trump has done 2 and only 2 good things: he showed how to deal with feminists and other 'victims' and he kept Clinton out of the Whitehouse.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:27 PM
1

Who gives a fuck if she's fat. This is like saying bill Clinton wasn't morally fit for presidency because he spoofed on an intern. Utterly irrelevant to his decision making and leadership capability as President. This woman needs to be a good administrator, that's it.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 12:28 PM
2

They are, the guys on this sub who can't fuck Australian women en masse need this sub more than anyone.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 12:26 AM
1

and don't throw away pussy what so ever. Look, I'm on this sub so I've had my issues with women/s, no doubt. But Australian women are the easiest lays on the planet, equal first with every other anglosphere country, and Sweden. The feminst media in Australia is Fairfax, not Murdoch. Murdoch papers are mostly rubbish (The Australian is the exception and has some high quality journalism) but SMH is much worse, see the Daily Life section which is an ode to female victimhood. Re any cultures: Living…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 12:23 AM
1

Smart woman-she's marrying her gay best friend so she won't even have to turn him down for sex.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 11:59 AM
1

Once you become congruent, it's not that much work. The hard part is being congruent, confident and proud of who you are in the first place. Takes development, introspection, and discipline. Congruence in general is also congruence with women, colleagues, family, yourself etc...so the more you do it, the more second nature it becomes.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 10:31 AM
1

I disagree. Even top rated men get a fraction of messages compared to women on dating apps. Good looking men not only have to work (albeit less so than their uglier counterparts) but they also are competing more for used/ugly goods than they ever had in the past due to the inflation of pussy prices. This is true-in my case anyway. I pull much better looking in real life than I do on tinder (when I bother to use it). On another note, social media is damaging to men as well as women. The sheer qua…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 04:52 PM
2

Found stoicism through Red pill, and now will check out Taoism. Thanks OP, fascinating stuff!
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 05:18 PM
1

Getting pre-emptively upset only reveals your inner state, Straw man argument. Your second sentence is true and good advice but doesn't apply here. My point is simply: Demonstrably false statements undermine OP's broader point. If you, and he, are happy with that, no skin off my nose but perhaps it's an opportunity to improve. What's a point from a mod?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 07:12 AM
2

Such comments detract from the overall point because they are demonstrably false. But yea...I was triggered.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 04:42 PM
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My total is over 1300 and I supported Sanders... Keep the politics out of it.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 03:03 AM
1

It is quite actually saying never give the beta anything, even give the alpha some fucks here and there but if you have the choice, be single than even be with a beta. that's just the 80/20 rule. We all know women have 'higher' standards than men. Further, society in general, not just women, has never cared about lower value men. In days gone by, they had to put up with being cannon fodder. now they have to deal with 3rd wave feminism...things could be worse. Instead of being upset on behalf of …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 05:42 AM
1

You're right, but so am I. You can still do 50-100 reps at 225 in lots of 5. It'll just take longer. Besides, nobody who has 5rm at 225 is hitting mid 300s. You gotta stimulate both physiological and neurological response at this beginner level. 225 isn't good but it's not a bad start point for volume training and volume packs on muscle. Plenty ways to skin a cat.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 08:26 PM
1

the customer is always right
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 07:43 PM
2

You can't squat to build legs with 225lbs I get what you mean, but being pedantic, you can definitely build muscle squatting 225. Try 10x12 at 225 once a week with similair deadlift volume and you'll explode.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 07:33 PM
1

AWALT have nothing to offer men that isn't better provided by other men, besides sex and gestation THis is mostly true-but there are definitely exceptions. Few and far between but worth sifting around for.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 02:32 PM
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Yea she thinks I'm a 'bad boy' and sees herself as a 'good girl' and is annoyed that she's attracted to me (at least she articulates that) so maybe you're right. Her actions and words are contradictory (of course)
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 02:30 PM
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This whole post reeks of indignation about this hooker. You and this hooker are two sides of the same coin. Either judge her, and dont' use hookers, or judge yourself same as her when you do. And...it sounds like you have oneities for the hooker.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 02:26 PM
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I. Don't Be Afraid to Have a Woman Be Mad at You. So many men are wrongly terrified of the consequences of having a woman be mad at them. So sad. And so ironic, because there are no consequences, and if you do it right, there are only benefit Spot on. Recently I was invited to a party where I met the sister (A) of the birthday girl. Then I chatted to another girl (B) for a few hours and clearly we were going home together. As we were all leaving A approached me and gave me her number, right in f…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 07:44 AM
2

The problem is that music and culture promote this theory that wealth and abundant sex are the ways to long lasting happiness The person to ask questions about how to attain your personal happiness is yourself. TRP as much as anything is about being honest with who you are, who you want to be and how to bridge the gap. From the content of your post you already know the answer as it applies to yourself. What you need to do now is do everything in your power to work towards that state of affairs.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 11:15 PM
4

Validation seeking is an international sport these days.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 11:10 PM
2

I don't know anything about coding world but she did say one thing I agree with: I need communication that is technically brutal but personally respectful. Whether she lives by it is another matter.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 08:57 AM
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Did that with a friend of mine once. Just collected photo's of (female) buttholes and saved them on his phone. reams of them. his gf found them and was like, what the fuck is wrong with you? Suggest he should've photoshopped them and she would've been less judgmental.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 12:56 PM
2

Steel Panther's first two albums are right on point, the lyrics are hilarious and disturbingly accurate.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/17 06:55 PM
3

Race traitor? There's no such thing as a race traitor. It's every man (and woman) for themself and if they've figured out a scam to improve their lives good on them. It's on you to do something about it, if you care enough. But once people are settled, there's almost no dislodging them and the last successful cleaning out of an ethnic group (really a religion) in Europe was Hitler's effort with the Jews. Good luck getting that across the line. If immigrant men make you insecure for your culture,…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 10:33 AM
2

True indeed senior Wowtrousers but but your version isn't as entertaining, funny, memorable or enjoyable to read. Sometimes people on this sub take everything too literally.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 08:37 AM
2

I don't even Deserve my Hb9 fiancé Even now you're validation seeking. Nobody cares if your fiance is hot and you can't prove it anyway. You got to stop looking for validation from others, and find it within yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 03:34 PM
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If they aren't as hot or hotter than the ex, they won't make any difference to how he feels.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 02:25 PM
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Trump does have certain alpha qualities but they are mainly due to his thermonuclear level narcissism. He is not nice, and has no convictions at all besides self-aggrandisement and narcisstic supply. Common qualities in a successful politician however he takes it to the next level. That’s why, despite being a billionaire, he married an eastern European woman; because everybody knows they will put up with anything for a high status male (i.e. they are gold digging whores).
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 01:33 PM
2

You're fucking spot on. In my relationship though, it was her who was always in training wheels, waiting for me to catch up (man up). It was so fucking painful it still hurts a year later, but it lead me to red pill and becoming a better man. The conclusion is the same as yours. Scars, the red pill and defining who I am.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 07:14 PM
2

Thank you for this. This explains succinctly what it took me the last year to figure out and why I'm still not over my ex (who had sky-high self esteem, and was validated by her father every day of her life) 11 months after we broke up.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 02:55 PM
1

My ex did this to me. Having taken the pill, I just thought I'd put her on the pedestal, gone full beta etc...which was true to an extent, but didn't explain the vitriolic things she said during our relationship. About me, my family, my society (we're both foreigners in our country), about my ex's, my friends etc. Fucking ridiculous. The 'shit-tests' she put me through were exactly as you describe and more. I knew I acted like a pussy in our relationship but this explains a lot, especially the c…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 10:37 AM
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Sounds like this woman has great utility to you but it's not clear how you actually feel about her beyond she ticks a lot of boxes. You cheated before, how'd you feel about that? Feel bad, never do it again. Feel fine-keep doing it, then, when you get caught, see how you feel about it, the look on her face, losing the woman you want kids with etc. If you feel fine about losing her, keep cheating on your women; if you feel like dirt, (or just regret losing something of value), learn your lesson. …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 10:20 AM
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It was paid for by State Street Global Advisors in a bid to promote more gender diversity in the financial sector.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 11:11 AM
1

Humblebrag aside this post is spot on. Can extend the concept to dinners cooked, , compliments, anal sex, cum drinking, and generally any above and beyond pleasantness.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 04:23 PM
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ALL the 5% of women who have actually done anal are the exact women that the magnificent Redpillers hypnotize with their magic powers I'd put it closer to 30-40%.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 07:03 PM
1

You can't chose a picture to portray your ideas not-selectively true but it's clear you didn't try very hard to be objective and it undermined your message Hardly. Different estimates give from 50% to 70% Muslims who support terrorism or otherwise justify violence and discrimination against non-believers I seriously doubt it but if you can punt in some reputable studies demonstating this i'll conceded the point. I bet the same numbers would apply, by the way, if you asked Americans about using f…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 04:54 PM
1

Pictures can be worth a thousand words but when they are selectively chosen and deliberately doctored, as yours are, to push an agenda which demonstrates either ignorance of wider issues or willful prejudice they are worthless. What alpha traits are the Muslims displaying anyway? Any beta can get angry. The overall concept of your article has some thought provoking ideas. My suggestion is to make your point without resorting to petty racism/sweeping and inaccurate generalisations. RP loves heuri…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 08:33 AM
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My first proper gf was in med school/first year residency. Never having being dumped before, she was shocked as shit when I did so for being high maintenance (translation: i didn't know how to deal with her shit tests, got sick of them and nexted her). However she very quickly moved on to fucking rugby players then settled on a weedy, ugly but highly intelligent older surgeon earning $750k a year, at around 26 years old. She still messages me periodically asking me to come visit/stay the night a…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:07 PM
2

Yea I used to be left-leaning too. But when the only left news syndicate in Australia regularly publishes articles like this http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/news-and-views/opinion/why-i-wont-let-any-male-babysit-my-children-20170223-gujn4f.html it's easy to see why Trump won.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 12:20 PM
1

All good advice re eating more but you need to do more work-you're just not stimulating your body enough. 5x5 is great for beginners and for variation but if you've been doing it for 7 months it's time to change it up. Your body is used to training and you've got results-now you can push boundaries. I suggest German Volume Training. GVT is incredibly hard on the mind and body, but for this reason, you will grow. 5x5 is more in a power lifting rep range which induces a stronger neurological respo…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/17 12:06 PM
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If a woman feels contempt or disgust for you you're completely fucked-not all emotions are your friend. Hate is a good one but if it's accompanied by the above you're gonna struggle to turn it around.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 02:14 PM
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The desire to kill oneself is the reflection of the psychological need to discard an aspect of yourself that is holding you back. Whether your demons are addiction, false ideologies, or whatever, they are a part of your psyche and in order to transcend them you must kill them. This resonates so well. For years I focussed on battling anxiety/depression but realise I was fighting the wrong thing. With some introspection and RP I've realised the basic mantra 'become a better man' and everything tha…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 11:13 PM
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December 31 2016, 5pm: John is in love and wants to spend rest of his life with Jane December 31 2016 11.59pm: John meets an old friend and gets a lapdance. January 1, 4am: John is drunk and infused with newfound RP wisdom and confidence, imparted by our dear OP Indeterminate point in time: John decides instead of procreating with Jane, he will discard her like soggy avocado January 2-3: John rationally plans a break-up, including surveillance tapes, microphones, memory sticks, a ring receipt, u…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 03:33 PM
1

Priorities: 1.Yourself 2.Your Business 3.Your Health 4.Your Family 5.Your Friends 6. Wet pink holes You forgot: 7. Wet brown holes Otherwise, nice comment.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 03:10 PM
1

Tattoos are almost always a vanity, whether on a male or female. Men get tattoos usually as something powerfully symbolic to them. Most men are ordinary, boring and average. Most tattoos represent nothing much. If you want to sound like a feminist, make sweeping generalisations about qualities that 'men' have or display, with no data to back it up.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 03:08 PM
2

Obviously bikders are capable of violent crime. That said, most bikers (e.g. Hell's Angels) I've met are socially retarded, insecure faggots, their giant ego's propped up by the patch. They join the biker gang because they're outsiders and can't make friends any other way. The gangs develop 'trust' and 'brotherhood' firstly because these losers are so glad to finally have a 'family'. 'Brotherhood/trust' is then fostered by forcing initiates to perform violent/illegal acts, gaining incriminating …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 03:02 PM
2

The full extent of female power is manipulating men into protecting them from other men. If this is true (which i think it is) they'd get a lot more pleasure manipulating men to do do it for them instead of being responsible for it themself.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 08:34 PM
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my fellow feminists have neutered 90 percent of men and turned them into skinnyfat mewling wusses Those men allowed it to happen to themselves. Mitigating circumstances but life wasn't meant to be fair.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 12:05 PM
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Purposeful movement occurs when you're at peace with yourself. So breathing into your chest may not work for TFA cos he's naturally in the zone. For others, it's a fucking godsend. I'm the most charismatic guy I know when I'm 'on' and a miserable piece of shit when I'm not. Meditation along with many other things TRP recommends (lifting, mission etc) increases your capacity to be the best you can be and be purposefully, confidently active. Meditating is helping me beat anxiety depression, two de…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 05:53 PM
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Get meditating, every day. Keep a record of when you do it, eg on a spreadsheet so you can track progress. I use the headspace app. After a month of consistent meditating you'll notice a definite positive improvement... But, like gym you gotta be consistent. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 10:02 AM
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I meant if you have wife/kids you'll need to plan activities in advance for logistic purposes-whether they're involved or not. I need to it embrace the adventurous, masculine, thrill seeking man that I am at my core. I take those days with close male friends Absolutely. Time with your male friends doing male stuff is mandatory. Until recently have always done competitive sport with the boys and it's a fantastic release. When I stopped it certainly had a negative impact on my relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 10:54 AM
1

This is great, and true, and something I've started doing lately; if something needs doing, doing it now. One caveat: Sometimes you need to take a day where you make the easy decisions, and not give a fuck. You can’t be ‘on’ 100% of the time. Embracing the days when you put your feet up, instead of feeling guilty about it, is important. Obviously it’ll need to be planned with wife/kids involved.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 02:44 PM
2

I'm 33 and stopped jerking off daily last month, and quit porn altogether. I now limit things to two self-propelled ejaculations a week. Sex doesn't count. I started the first week off of a Sunday full of sex which helped me through Monday/Tuesday. Wednesday Thursday was hard, Friday ok. I’m a bit older, and maybe I’m slowing down, so I didn't find it that difficult. At the end of the first week I found the following benefits: -More energy -Elevated mood-both happier and more assertive -Greater …
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 09:56 AM
2

You got a name (anwser) Im isaiahexe, You down to grab coffee down the street?" This works. Gym is the best place to pick up: -You have a great excuse to talk to women -You're attracted to them because they're on a steady diet of hip thrusters and split squats -They are attracted to you because you're jacked -You have social credibility because you're friends with most of the guys there -Apart from membership costs which you're paying anyway, it's free
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 09:33 AM
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He's 100% correct. I cheated, and for the reasons he outlines. When you're balls deep in another women, not because you want to be but for the validation, that's when you know you're a pathetic loser. A women is designed to see through a man's bullshit, it's how they filter us. You may be able to lie to yourself but not a woman, not forever. Learn to love yourself, then you'll be lovable. In practise that means lift, get hobbies, improve your finances, be congruent in what you say, think, and do…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 02:01 PM
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You're right. In my recent breakup my now ex said things to me/about me that blew my mind with their cruelty, they were specifically designed to destroy me as a man. I spoke to a female friend about it and she said it was 100% deliberate, had no basis in fact and was done purely outta spite-she'd done exactly the same thing. If you do not allow it to kill you, it will make you stronger. True. It's a valuable learning experience. My increduality stems from that fact that, apart from that one circ…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:14 PM
1

I believe it. When i was 19 and just starting out on the party boats, i once had 3 generations of women with their hands down my pants. The girl wasn't a bride-to-be, but did have a bf, and her mum was married. Good times.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:06 PM
2

Yea in that context it makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:05 PM
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One of the biggest revelations I've had is just try to have fun in my life. I'm rebuilding a social life, which was pretty much nonexistent for several years, and the oneitis was strong. Loosening up the oneitis is a natural byproduct of developing a social life. So true. I changed countries, met my oneitis then worked weekends doing side projects, deliberately cut out all social interaction to avoid distractions. Had all the negative outcomes you would expect. Monk mode is great for a while but…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 01:08 PM
3

Makes sense, good clarification.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:54 PM
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D: "I honestly can't imagine you having a penis. I can't think of you in a sexual way." Did she have aspergers? Having trouble believing she actually said that.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 09:51 AM
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Can confirm this FR. I worked as a topless waiter for 10 years and when you're the only guy in the room, women will compete like rabid wolves for your attention. Most brides on hens nights are OK but there is a significant majority who will play up. On one occasion a stripper mate of mine banged THE ENTIRE BRIDAL PARTY in the hotel room, including the bride. I could just imagine them the next week at the wedding oohing and aahing at how beautiful true love is.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 09:44 AM
1

Had to laugh when i read this because it describes my last relationship exactly.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/16 04:30 PM
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A girl I was hooking up with told me about her ex’s. The first one she loved, but he died. The second one loved her and wanted to marry her. They’d been dating 8 months. She was genuinely disgusted. We shared a look, as if to say how what a pathetic loser (he was the captain of a Caribbean cruise ship so by normal metrics a decent catch). She bitched about how hard it was to get him out of her life cos he never got the message (i.e. she didn’t want the responsibility of fucking him off and was h…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 04:58 PM
1

Man this hits home. Jesus, what a faggot. Relax. That's the best advice I could've got, in hindsight.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/16 04:35 PM
1

This is really useful, nice one TRP. Give up: 1-no more porn and limiting myself to 2 wanks a week 2-no more alcohol 3-no more drugs 4-Speak and act on my opinions more definitively Pickup 1-Meditate 20 mins 5 x week
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 05:10 PM
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He's spot on-if you commit to a session e.g. 20 laps, never quit until you've done what you committed to yourself. This mental bit is actually more important than the physical benefits. Swimming's a great sport. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 04:02 PM
1

that's awesome, but I'd suggest you're the exception-maybe you have wicked game. The question is, how much effort did you have to put in?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 04:41 PM
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As much as TRP is all about 'lyft4lyfe' it is only a small part of getting your head in the place it needs to be for you to be content. Furthermore lifting only helps if you're pissweak to begin with (I admit that's where many people here start). Sure mind and body are an iterative feedback loop etc but not smashing gym doesn't necessarily make you mentally weak and smashing gym doesn't automatically give you strong frame. People fail because they have extremely low self-esteem. I crush it at th…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 04:40 PM
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This is true and I think it's probably where (in many cases) anxiety comes from. Certainly in my case. You're doing everything 'right' but deep down you're unhappy and you have no clue why. Maybe it's because your whole life is a giant covert contract with society, and your guts, your instincts know this but intellectually you can't figure it out because of bp conditioning. Cognitive dissonance. It's hard to kick anxiety when you still give a fuck, and it's hard to not give a fuck when your life…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 06:31 PM
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If you want to easily bang girls 2 or more points uglier than you tinder is great. Otherwise it's just easier to meet girls in real life.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:51 AM
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Ask the guys who look like you'd like to look, and who look like they train hard. Then, make sure you do what they advise you. Make sure they see you doing it too, and they'll be happy to continue advising you. If you ask their advice and ignore it, they won't bother in the future.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 10:38 PM
2

unless you're curling 60kg. Then it's legit.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 10:13 PM
1

You're right, it's always on a knife edge between great and fucking awful. Nobody but myself to blame. Common thread seems to be I've got oneitis and need to continue to improve. Appreciate the feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 02:57 PM
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I am only a year in, but it sounds like you need to build a better you. If you come back as a strong self confident man, it's the only way you may get her in a way that makes you both happy. Thanks for the feedback, this is good advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 02:56 PM
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You risked your relationship to either validate yourself or seek the ultimate in abundance mentality. You speak like a faggot, so I assume the former. That's acknowledged in the text. You have implemented attractive behaviors, but have not internalized anything, and reek of lack of OI or abundance. I can see that. Why aren't you closing on (or at least sparring with) the women at the gym? It's because you have complete oneitis. I am closing other women. That isn't the issue. Your point about hav…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 02:54 PM
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Sydney is a beautiful place. I had to leave though because I can't stand the fucking people inhabiting it, or the government running it.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 06:34 PM
7

Exceptionally well written troll post. Kudos.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 02:22 PM
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Don't disregard them entirely: Some of the easiest, most satisfying fucks you'll ever have are with women who spout feminist shit. Why? Because it's an obvious and very easily refutable shit test, which they can't believe anyone would challenge. You just need to subtly communicate you know they are full of shit and you find their histrionics amusing. In other words, hold frame and amused mastery.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 01:51 PM
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The single cause of oneitis is simply not having other options Not necessarily true. I always have shit loads of options and still got oneitis bad. A more accurate statement would be 'the single cause of oneitis is simply not having other options as good as or better than your SO'. There are millions of girls that you'd find attractive if you'd only look around True but looks aren't everything. Most girls, attractive or otherwise are boring and add little to my life besides sex. They aren't LTR …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 10:37 AM
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Advice: Stop making stupid decisions (drugs, fapping, porn) Start making good decisions i.e.: Fixing your appearance, clean up your diet, hit the gym, meditate, build solid habits, have a greater purpose/ mission in your life Stop blaming yourself for your situation*. It is what it is-get on with things. The past is dead and the future hasn't happened yet, focus on being good right now. *but learn from previous fuckups All I know is that if I looked good then I would be a productive steamroller …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 09:25 AM
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Who told you this shit? Train properly in your 20's and your numbers will sky rocket in your 30s. If youwant to Zyzz brah your gym fine, but don't use his approach as the basis for bad/incomplete training philosophy. As OP says, do your heavy compounds. otherwise, IMO you'll just be another skinny faghot claiming aesthetics cos too lazy to put out in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 04:46 PM
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Third, pay attention. Be present. Ask questions. Show interest An old CEO of mine once told me you had to be two things in life: Interesting, so that people want to listen to you, and; Interested, so that people want to talk to you.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 03:24 PM
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Have anyone noticed we don't talk about "passing comfort tests" anymore? MRP is a good resource for identifying and passing comfort tests.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 11:16 AM
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You do you, but I don't try to 'win' anything. I try to have an mutually beneficial interaction. E.g. two people acknowledging each other, a tiny mark of respect (men) or a tiny spark of attraction (women). Feeling positive/powerful isn't the same as being aggressive...but being aggressive is better than being meek and not a bad place to start. My unsolicited advice is to fine tune your approach*. Either way I'm just enjoying the attention. *but you do you.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 01:09 PM
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Actually, it's an art form. As with everything, the more you practise the better you get. You'll better assess people who will be receptive, timing, what sort of smile, how long to hold eye contact etc etc. Good posture/smile/nod is ok. Do it when you're jacked and fit, better (i.e.Lift!). Do it when you've got solid frame and genuine confidence shining through (get a mission and pursue it)-best. There have been times, when I felt really good, that people have randomly come up to me in the stree…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 01:02 PM
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You should always be in the sexual market. If there are no other women who want sex with you, she will perceive you as a loser and start resenting having sex with you Deliberately did the opposite with predictable results You should focus on your own life first. Only invest the bare minimum of time needed in your relationship. Focus on quality time together, rather than endless texting. Did the opposite cos believed it to be the right thing to do (and was the opposite of how I'd always treated g…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 09:36 AM
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I've seen several posts describing posture, how you should walk, how you should keep your head up... throw it all out. All of it. Forget it. I disagree with this. One of the first things I did was remove my eyes from the ground in front of me, and kept my shoulders and head back, then focus on my body language in general. This had several effects: -I realised how much of the world I was missing just by staring at the ground -Fixed a posture that I had no idea was so stooped, until I directly com…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 08:21 AM
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I took a huge punt and introduced TRP/MRP to my boss. We get along great, and have each others back at work. He'd come in and whine to me about how his wife was an unrequited bitch. He was in full victim mode. Bluer than grandma's hair. She'd abuse him as he left the house and he'd call her at lunch, 'are you ok, how are you?' whispering like she was a trauma patient. Fortunately I was going through my own red pill awakening at the time. He is a good man, been good to me. Maybe I can help. At fi…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 07:27 PM
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