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| 6 | If you can get a lot off "warm leads" in Dating u will automatically get laid a lot. Women not being scared off you is a huge Advantage.Going clubbing usually involves drinking, drugs, and promiscuous behavior. For serious relationships those aren’t things men like women to be involved with or have a past with and also good women don’t like men to be involved in that either. If it was a phase and they’ve long time not been involved then maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 04:32 PM |
| 10 | If you can get a lot off "warm leads" in Dating u will automatically get laid a lot. Women not being scared off you is a huge Advantage.Sounds like something a gay man would say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 12:17 AM |
| 9 | If you can get a lot off "warm leads" in Dating u will automatically get laid a lot. Women not being scared off you is a huge Advantage.Most men would agree with me that women who go clubbing are low value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Even men think men are the problemThat’s how a high percentage of them think. Sociopathic /psychopathic mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 06:28 PM |
| – | Even men think men are the problemRight and also men think women who have a body count are ruined, but how are they ruined? Oh bc she spent time with men, which implies that men ruin women. If men are good people how would they ruin a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealisticThats why people used to get married as virgins, no points of comparisons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Why do men slut-shaming?Exactly, it’s almost every father’s nightmare that their daughter turns out to be the the town bicycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:35 PM |
| 3 | There has never been a better time to be a manOnly mentally ill women or real odd balls would want an arrangement like that 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 07:17 PM |
| 10 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+Also women can be insecure and date beneath their league | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+Well I’m not fat or unattractive, I think women start dating up when they’re out of college for the most part , I’ve dated guys 5 years older than me but that was after I graduated college | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 07:27 PM |
| 5 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+I remember being 18 and thinking a 30 year old guy hitting on me was weird/creepy and at that age all my friends were dating guys close to our age. I even thought guys over 21 years old when I was 18 was a big age gap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Society made it so that women can earn equal to men and now women can no longer find someone who earns more than them. Women today have been so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive.How is it women’s fault for men being lazy and having bad personalities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseTraditionally yeah men see women who are ok with hookups without any kind of commitment as “easy” and not wife material. Men think well if she did it so easily with me how many other men has she and will she do it easily with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 01:39 PM |
| 2 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsMen think it isn’t rape but it is , if a man is lying to get in a woman’s pants that’s deception and evil bc if the woman knew the truth she wouldn’t sleep with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:33 PM |
| 2 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)Luck has a lot to do with it. Also good looking people in general have shitty personalities and aren’t genuine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 03:12 PM |
| 6 | Guys should be a bit gayer if they wanna get laidI don’t like when men make out lol . Gross tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 04:03 AM |
| 4 | Every woman should have high standards. Thats never a bad thing.High standards will leave a lot of women single bc the top 1% man every woman wants is basically community property and he will never settle and if he does the chances of it being with her is so low , it’s not worth it to chase the 1% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 03:55 PM |
| – | Men in college and early 20s should focus more on getting really good at sex than being a good relationship material to have more dating success and even relationship success a bit.I stop talking to good looking men when I find out they don’t have their career together so it’s actually more important to focus on grades in college but also go to the gym regularly so you don’t get fat in college | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps need to be regulated!Right it’s not good for dating app profits , it’ll scare users away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 07:45 PM |
| 13 | Dating apps need to be regulated!They should at least make users go through a criminal record screening process | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Male and female dating hedonistically negatively effects both sides and it's hypocritical to think one is better than the otherYeah toxic dating is gonna give you karma , it’s just selfish behavior. Also with the rise of STDs and STIs lying about how many people you’re sleeping with puts people in health risks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 01:14 AM |
| 9 | Red Pill influencers don’t live the life they preachThey’re basically con artists and in the end of the day they yap online like a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Women's brains have been FRIED by social media and OLDWomens brains are fried because men give them too much meaningless attention leaving women frozen in a sea of simp options and then she can’t tell who just wants sex or who actually wants a relationship that could lead to starting a family. Men need to be pickier with their interactions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 03:58 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.I want a man for marriage bc I want a family not for his dick only , I’m aware not all women want a family so for them yeah they’re using him too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 12:27 AM |
| 7 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.The whole red pill’s message is sleep with as many women as you want but then wife up a 18-24 year old virgin or low body | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 07:02 PM |
| 5 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.So if you had a daughter you’d want her to get pumped and dumped ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 06:59 PM |
| 8 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.My father and brothers told me that if a man doesn’t offer you commitment he’s using you , so that’s how I’ve always seen it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 06:42 PM |
| 3 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.Women don’t like feeling used, in general feminine women are more emotional and need a relationship and stability to enjoy sex . Masculine women don’t really need that emotional connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 06:19 PM |
| 5 | Given how marriage benefits men at the expense of women, is it time to abolish marriage?So why are there so many women crying on TikTok about not finding a man/husband? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 06:17 PM |
| 9 | Given how marriage benefits men at the expense of women, is it time to abolish marriage?True . Modern women are too brainwashed to recognize this , it’s actually sad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Given how marriage benefits men at the expense of women, is it time to abolish marriage?Marriage is for children to grow up with 2 stable parents | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 01:25 AM |
| 4 | Tinder and Instagram have the same results as PornNo one is making anyone use any social media or watch porn. People need to take accountability for their cheap dopamine addictions . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 04:17 PM |
| 7 | Are alpha widows becoming more common?Hoemath explains it as women being stuck at their “highest setting” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problemsThat’s pretty much the root of it people abandoning their parental roles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problemsHallmark 2000s TV haven’t thought about that in a while I agree with that . I personally think Christians are egotistical virtue signalers but at least they believe in family unit which I support and I think kids need both a mother and father | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problemsI’m not a religious person but I’m saying the morals of Christianity were kinda good definitely promoted nuclear families , now we have a bunch of single moms and we’re paying for them through our taxes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 02:42 PM |
| -2 | Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problemsThere’s even a bigger problem . The United States has no mono culture anymore , we used to be Christian nation that followed the Christian morals which promoted virginity in girls and sex only in marriages. People used to be shamed for being promiscuous. We have so many different cultures and low IQ immigrants in this country now people are acting like degenerate animals and ruining this country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 02:28 PM |
| -1 | The 50/50 model is a bad deal for women. It's just a roommate situation with sex, and it becomes outright exploitative if you have kids.I agree the whole 50-50 thing for a woman who wants to be a mother is ass backwards. Having a child does so much damage to the body it will never be the same and men don’t have to do the breastfeeding. Men and women are not the same dumb ass feminists think they’re the same as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 08:00 PM |
| 5 | How many men do you think are settling for their girlfriends / wives?Considering the divorce rate is 50% , half of people settle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 08:58 PM |
| 2 | People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferiorPromiscuity is bad for both women and men. All that leads to is single mothers and tax burden on society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 03:29 PM |
| 44 | Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to womenI don’t think society even values marriage or family anymore . Also it really is stupid to rely on someone else for their income , as the post said no one likes being at the mercy of another person . Test tube babies will be the future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | The real reason why some women hate passport bros and whoremaxxersThailand and the Philippines have a good public education system? The answer is No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 01:14 AM |
| 33 | The real reason why some women hate passport bros and whoremaxxersIt’s because they think passport bros are taking advantage of a low income , uneducated and third world country desperate woman. Passport bros aren’t going to Sweden, Switzerland, Poland or any other first world country cause they’ll get ignored the same ways they did in the U.S. At the same time it’s hard to blame the men who really are not getting any attention in the U.S. and therefore see geomaxxing as an option to gain some sort of leverage in a different country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Is a man who sleeps with a lot of women generally a player or womanizer?Yes certain situations such as she just went through a break up and wants to forget about her ex or maybe she’s had one too many drinks and inhibitions are low and she caves to lustful desires. In general women regret hookups since most women can’t separate sex from love/emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Is a man who sleeps with a lot of women generally a player or womanizer?Yes players are essentially Pick up artists leading the chick on or omitting facts . Men know most women want a relationship so they use that as carrot on stick to get women to sleep with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Is a man who sleeps with a lot of women generally a player or womanizer?You’re right normal women would immediately stop talking to the guy if she knew he was planning to just lure her for bedroom fun only | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 02:31 AM |
| 13 | How are ugly couples sexually attracted too each other?Because they’re the best they can do, ugly people don’t really have options like 5+ do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Do you think if women settled down when they were in the 20s and / or college that there would be less problems with women finding men attractive ?Right but in current society do you really think 18-23 year old women are mature enough to raise kids? They grew up with social media and spent their developing years locked up during Covid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 02:41 PM |
| 8 | Do you think if women settled down when they were in the 20s and / or college that there would be less problems with women finding men attractive ?Avg age of marriage is 30 now. You should let go of the old school way of thinking of needing to marry some 19-20 year old chick with no life experience, that’s a thing of the past in 1st world countries, educated women aren’t getting married at 21 they’re just not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 12:32 AM |
| 10 | Do you think if women settled down when they were in the 20s and / or college that there would be less problems with women finding men attractive ?It’s actually probably best to wait till 30 years old, you’re way more mature and make better decisions during the 20s your still finding yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 04:43 PM |
| – | The new Tea app kinda proves hypergamyYup I’ve seen that Black mirror episode and apparently Sunny in Philadelphia has a similar episode too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 08:48 PM |
| 9 | The new Tea app kinda proves hypergamyWith how popular dating strangers from online has become these “safety apps” won’t go away bc of the demand for it . People are gonna turn into Google reviews lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 06:09 PM |
| 4 | Men prefer transactional "romantic" relationships (prostitution).Broke guys to me come off as lazy , and I think if a woman makes more money than a man she is in a dominant role. The last lazy man I dated was trying to convince me to allow him to be a stay at home dad so maybe that’s why I can’t date broke men anymore haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Men prefer transactional "romantic" relationships (prostitution).I make exactly 6 figures a year with my accounting career and I date men who are educated (lawyers, doctors, engineers) because I can have intellectual conversations which I enjoy, blue collar men typically can’t keep up with me in terms of IQ level which is a big turn off for me. I think the difference is that Men don’t get turned off when they’re with a lower IQ woman if he’s physically attracted to her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Men prefer transactional "romantic" relationships (prostitution).The women in those relationships lack education . If they could make 6 figures without prostituting themselves they would. That’s why the OF chick that sued Shannon Sharpe immediately quit OF when he settled the rape lawsuit and gave her millions of dollars since she’s set for life now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 03:34 PM |
| – | Men Marrying Later or NeverAvg age difference is men married to women that are 4 years younger. So large age gaps most of the time are due to younger women dating the older man for his finances and lifestyle he can provide. It’s transactional dating he gets her youth and she gets his money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | People are so naive thinking Tea app will hinder dating lives of men posted thereNo but we care if the guy we’re interested in likes fucking a bunch of low value trashy women which AWDTSG and Tea app expose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 04:38 PM |
| 7 | Did the Tea App prove the Redpill?Most men aren’t even getting dates so it’s really only the top men who behave immorally that should be worried and how is that a bad thing to protect people from scum bag liars? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 02:47 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeMen simply don’t understand the dangers women face in dating . There really are toxic men who are abusers and crazy alcoholics. My ex was on AWDTSG and I decided to give him a chance since he told me those girls were lying, turns out those women were not lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 02:38 PM |
| – | 30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man)It’s because a lot of attractive women get damaged/alpha widowed by their early 20s so by the time men get to their 30s their dating pool sucks cause early 20s women want to date with 5 year range/close to their age since they have things in common (they think guys in their 30s are old/creeps) , the only fix to all this mess is to get married young for both genders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:04 PM |
| -1 | It's impossible for women to "pick better" when it comes to infidelity.Then you’re going to die alone with no children/family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | It's impossible for women to "pick better" when it comes to infidelity.Men around 35 years of age typically want to settle down and have a family. Stop chasing fuck boys who will give you an STD and date older men who already got lust/hookups out of their system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 10:12 PM |
| – | There is nothing wrong with being single .You’re gonna be an old man who died alone because you wanted to be single and casually date . Why would anyone be jealous of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have higher standards.I agree there’s moving variables to what’s happening. But I actually believe in New World Order depopulation theory too. Feminism and lgbtq is promoting women not wanting a family, and government isn’t helping by making everything so expensive to have a family, dual income is needed for most families since men don’t get paid enough to lead their own household forcing women to enter the workforce which forces women to take on masculine traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have higher standards.The problem is that modern women are brainwashed by ads/propaganda/ media into thinking casual sex is empowering when it really isn’t, it just further objectifies them and possibly will end up as single moms who need govt assistance via our tax dollars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Women should stop having sex for freeA woman is essentially wasting her time dating men and having free sex without a commitment that leads to marriage and family. The guys get a whole lot more out of casual sex then women, especially since women also have a biological clock it’s a waste of time in the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Men need to have higher standards.Men and women both need higher standards. Women need to quit opening their legs to guys that are losers/liars , aka vet them for a while to allow time to see what kind of values he has. Men need to stop lying and pursuing women for easy sex, all this does is add to her body count, create single mothers, and ruin her chances to fall in love and pair bond with a man that would want a family with her. I believe men are leaders of society and they must advocate for family values instead of hedonisti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 02:49 PM |
| 5 | The Market Value metaphor breaks down because products you buy don’t choose you back.The dating market is essentially all based on looks , all dating apps top picks are people with model based looks - in shape, travel location pics, and high fashion. Men don’t care about an obese girls personality or career because she doesn’t meet his physical looks needs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Only immature and dysfunctional (or opportunistic) older adults date younger college-age adults.A lot of men in their 30s are emotionally and psychologically stunted/have arrested development so it would make sense for them to date a girl who is at their emotional/psychological age. Maturity+looks+intelligence are just a rare combo. I have found that most men don’t reach the maturity to have a family until they’re 35-37. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 09:00 PM |
| 3 | "The bar is in hell" and other such sayings...Yup that’s why most people have to learn the hard way. But that’s life we live and learn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 09:28 PM |
| 0 | "The bar is in hell" and other such sayings...Only a woman with low self worth would allow to be breadcrumbed , the women deserve it since they’re not willing to walk away and be treated correctly bc they want the hot guy for superficial reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 07:20 PM |
| 12 | "The bar is in hell" and other such sayings...If women are falling for “highly attractive men” and getting played it’s because they opened their legs too quickly without evaluating that man’s personality, ethics, and values. The woman chose looks over values and they deserve the consequences of not evaluating a man on a deeper non superficial level. You play shitty games (not evaluating a man’s values) and you win shitty prizes (getting pumped and dumped). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Telling a man he'll have to wait for sex because you don't want to get "played" by him is a bad idea.Nope. Look at the male celebrities who are embracing celibacy, totally debunks the “high value needs sex asap” theory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 05:24 PM |
| 7 | Telling a man he'll have to wait for sex because you don't want to get "played" by him is a bad idea.Bingo. The guys that can’t wait for sex until the girl is comfortable with him aren’t worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 10:21 PM |
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