starsinthesky8435 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	Vetting Vetting, imagine being with a man for 30 yrs plus and he doesn’t love you, only as a best friend…. This is sad. Imagine being such a broken piece of shit that you think lying to your wife, children, and grandchildren for decades is “a gift” you give them. No, it’s not a gift it’s damage that you’re giving to them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/22 05:50 PM
156	I don’t understand why men are so cruel. Rant. So I looked for your post and the comments are typical. All contradicting what men say elsewhere. You’re only good enough for a hookup because “It’s easy for men to get average women for sex” when literally everywhere else it’s men complaining that they can’t get laid easily enough. It’s exhausting how they will say whatever they need to in the moment. Zero consistency in their worldview. As to why they say it cruel things, In their minds if you can’t get a relationship you must be unattractive …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/22 09:48 PM
51	Good Luck There is so much going on here but my favorite part of his delusion is how she goes home with him after one drink. “Potentially have something good together on a regular basis” is the LEAST direct way of saying “I plan to use you for sex” that I have ever heard. Real prize, this one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/22 09:43 PM
55	Why he will punish you for giving him second chances I doubt he started having second thoughts a few weeks into the relationship, but rather he realized how far out of his league you were a few weeks into the relationship. That’s why he started the mind games and break-up projection, to keep you from getting there first. Congrats on getting away from such a loser!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 06:58 PM
131	Pick me gf and pornsick bf vibes Ugh his language choice is so telling too. “My mind draws me towards…” Incapable of taking the TINIEST bit of responsibility for anything. Even their porn choices are not their fault, you see, their mind drew them there! It’s so childish and repulsive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/21 10:30 PM
3	Doesn’t it seem like men only value women who they think are out of their league? This reminds me of that part in Dietland where the main character sees the art installation showing a bunch of women in porn. “They’re perfect. They’re the precious ones. How’s that working out for them?”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 09:25 PM
19	In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD... And they have no understanding that this kind of deception makes them garbage human beings. I know I have trust issues, and I’m doing the work there, but I wouldn’t have trust issues at all if it weren’t for all the fucking LYING I’ve been subject to. These fucks will lie for years they will literally LIVE A LIE before they will be authentic people. It’s like some kind of large scale mental illness, and then they enable each other by pretending this is at all a normal way to behave. Oh you poor …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 08:46 PM
1	Grown man with a family asks “what am I left with?” if he can’t move across the country for a job He also says he thinks going would be the wrong move for his family! It’s not like he thinks it’d be perfect and his wife is saying no, he agrees! yet he’s STILL going to resent her (and the kids who are 100% innocent in this)?? That’s just pathetic. Disappointment is a regular part of adult existence, and knowing you made the right call even if it’s not what you wanted helps me shoulder that disappointment. There’s something seriously wrong with this guy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/21 01:04 PM
1	HVM Traits You've Noticed in the Wild He is a man of his word. He doesn’t just say things he thinks you want to hear, to shut you up or impress you. He doesn’t say things lightly. Even if it’s the smallest thing, if he says he’s going to, he does. I am still always on the guard for men lying and bullshitting, I don’t think I can ever turn that off at this point. But when I realized the man I’m seeing has never broken his word to me, I was floored. It’s a rare and high value quality, IMO.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 07:41 PM