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My friend, the Russians freely use rape as a weapon of war. They even use it on men, less so than women but they still do it. Women and children especially.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/25 02:54 PM
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Hey there, friend. I want to say that I haven't watched his video but I can say this: When someone says "All Men want a fuck doll that doesn't speak", does that ring true to you? Honestly any time someone says "All Men want X" or "All Men hate Y", you know how sometimes you have that moment of "Ew, no"? Women are the same way. Any time a dude says something like "All Women want X" or "All women hate Y", they're full of exactly the same amount of crap. Now, fully functional adults of all genders …
/r/ExRedPill09/07/25 09:35 PM
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Idk man, the statistics say that while women initiate more divorce, men almost never try for custody. When men fight for their kids, the courts let them. Overwhelmingly, when men press for custody, they get it. They just don't. And the sort of man who doesn't fight for his kids is also not going to take the initiative to put down a miserable marriage--especially if it is functionally working for him because he's passive and doesn't have to do things.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/24 05:12 PM
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Listen, its PAINFULLY obvious that you're in desperate need of someone to talk to. You're not going to find it on Reddit. Get a therapist and maybe work on you.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/24 09:39 PM
5

That's not what you're saying, though.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/24 09:26 PM
5

Nope, sorry. If WE have a problem then WE need to find a resolution. Together. You seem to think that if someone cannot come up with a resolution to a problem they should just shut up and that's lame af.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/24 09:26 PM
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So your stance is that unless someone also has a resolution in mind, if they see a problem, they should just shut the fuck up and uphold the status quo?
/r/ExRedPill13/10/24 02:05 PM
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Oh, it's very real, and its enforcement is one of those things patriarchy sucks for doing. Rememeber: misandry includes things like perpetuating masculine sterotypes that harm the man and society which includes but isn't limited to: reducing the man to his genitalia, taking away his emotional agency, making him disposable, taking away his agency over his body, and disenfranchised him by 'excusing' his responsibility for his choices as 'things men can't help but do'. Treating men as unthinking an…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 02:36 PM
5

I mean, men are willing to overlook misandry for a nice enough set of tits.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 12:53 PM
8

Because nothing in life is a guarantee. There is no promise you will continue to breathe for the next 5 minutes. You could drop dead at literally any moment. Life is short and ephemeral, and trying to put something like 'love' into a formula that can give a guaranteed output every time is like trying to capture a summer breeze in a box. Life doesn't work that way. Source: Office Manager of a funeral home.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 12:52 PM
3

So you know you've changed, but how do other people know it's not just lip service when you say it? RP is a very manipulative mindset that literally teaches you to manipulate people to get sex. Why should people believe that you have changed when you've come from such a place? The only answer is time and repetition, I'm afraid. Consistent behavior that shows you've taken ownership of your behavior, changed, and that change isn't just a surface level behavior modification. People need to see you …
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 12:34 PM
1

It's a good start but you're still hampered. Time to meet people in person. One of the benefits of having friends who are women is that you can ask them for help, and pretty regularly get it. We want to see our friends succeed, after all!
/r/ExRedPill17/03/24 07:57 PM
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My guy, you need to make friends with gals. Girls. Women. Might I suggest you start with some that you are not attracted to? It may help with the nervousness because you're not under that kind of pressure. I think a lot of the problems people recovering from RP or incel-adjacent thought systems comes from the 'other-ing' of women. They spend a lot of time trying to make you see women as somehow other. Some go as far as to try to dehumanize women entirely. This is an entirely common sort of socia…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/24 02:28 PM
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That's not what I said, though. If someone is going around calling people fat, then it's okay to call them a toast rack, especially if it's true. "Oh, you don't like it when people call out your physical traits as a means of insult? Maybe don't do it to other people." It's not a first line of defense, but if you're trying to teach someone a little empathy, it's useful.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/24 03:15 PM
8

It's always okay to turn the weapon against a bully. If someone is body shaming other people, I find it's a handy tool to make them stop. So, not really?
/r/ExRedPill13/03/24 03:10 PM
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In heterosexual relationships?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 03:39 PM
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This is good, you are thinking about the reasons why you think and feel that way. I don't have to agree with you entirely to agree that your thinking is free of bigotry, and rooted in genuine and fair concern for all people, not just ones you are interested in :)
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 03:35 PM
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I'm going to approach this as if it's a genuine question, and I'd love for you to take it in the tone it's intended: genuine concern for a young adult who is learning about the world (you, my friend). Yes, but also no. You don't know why you feel that way. Maybe you should think about it. Introspect a little. Do you feel that way because you're worried about being judged by your peers? Do you think it somehow lessens someone to have sex? Why or why not? As you get older, you'll discover a lot of…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 03:30 PM
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Nope it's either all women or it's spurious, my guy. That A stands for All. All women. Those cultures aren't rooted in respect for men, they're rooted in disrespect for women.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 04:49 PM
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If AWALT, then what makes you think a woman from abroad isn't AWALT?
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 04:37 PM
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The 80/20 rule doesn't apply to men because, as so many men and woman will tell you., men will sleep with anyone. I'm sorry you feel that way about yourself.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 01:27 AM
10

Omg if it means that much to you, shit out your own baby or break up.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 11:46 AM
6

Have you considered hunting? Seriously, if the thrill of the hunt is what rustles your jimmies, then you should try hunting for the table. Game meat tastes great, is better for the environment, and it's a pretty good physical activity depending on what you're hunting and where. Either way, you need a new hobby that you get as much joy from.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/22 12:06 AM
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Depending on your local version of English, calling someone 'love' may just be a friendly term of endearment--like 'hon' or 'sweetie'. It's very demonstrative in its warmth and affection. But just because you yourself are a stoic person doesn't mean you're cold, just that you're not terribly expressive, and there is nothing wrong with that. It just will take people a little longer to 'read' you to build that social bond.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 05:21 PM
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Good sex > Bad sex > Nothing. That's because bad sex for a man still ends in an orgasm. Bad sex for women ends in tearing, blood, and pain. It's not better than nothing. But you don't give a fuck about the woman's experience. You just want the affirmation and don't give a fuck what it costs to give. Wanting positive affirmation from a woman =/= wanting to possess them or seeing them as an object So what's the excuse for treating women like objects you can win or games you can beat instead of hum…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/22 12:12 PM
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I have ADHD, and am sensitive to rejection dysphoria. I totally get it being a painful and traumatizing experience. What we don't do is blame the person who has rejected us (or whom we perceive as having rejected us) for having their own thoughts and feelings.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/22 05:37 AM
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I think its important to remember that one of the things people here say drives men into the red pill is a lack of a support network. They linger because it feels like a safe, validating place, and they do not have the skills to build other safe, validating spaces off of interests or emotions other than anger and hate aimed at women. Far too often we try to make our boys 'man up' and teach them to be stoic rather than aware of and comfortable with their unpleasant or unwanted emotions. We teach …
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 01:42 AM
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Now that is a whole different problem--and one we can work on. What kills me is how many young men are in the same boat as you--young men whose ability to form pro-social bonds and nurturing friendships are broken in early childhood because they're not seen as 'manly'. They've been cheated. The specter of masculine stoicism created this mess, and it will have to be dismantled. The era of the stone faced man who cannot emotionally open up to anyone they're not in an intimate relationship with nee…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:52 PM
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Or maybe make some friends with which you can have a mutually supportive relationship? Why is that a woman's problem?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:43 PM
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A shitty worldview that goes unchallenged in an echo chamber? You're wondering why I might raise a little exception? This is supposed to be a place for detoxing from redpill beliefs. How are you ever going to do that if all you hear is mush?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:25 PM
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That's okay. I have many friends that form my social circle, reinforced by mutual support. If my partner doesn't have the emotional bandwidth, I have other options--which is how it's supposed to work, but men apparently have a hard time forging that kind of nurturing friendships with each other.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:22 PM
2

I'd say "Damn, you're right."
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:00 PM
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There is a massive difference between occasionally venting to a friend and expecting your girlfriend to be your sole emotional support.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 08:55 PM
2

A positive practice is to foster positive social relationships with communities of friends, regardless of the genders of those friends, who are prepared to share and respect one another's emotions, which is actually something plenty of men actually do. And fucking hallelujah. I agree that community, platonic support of people who are struggle are something that the community must do. Not should. Must. However, this is not what OP was commenting about. He is directly referring to the trait of not…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 05:09 PM
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Okay, but the alternative here is "Expect your partner to do all the emotional labor of managing your unpleasant emotions for you". Are women just sitting around waiting to be emotional support humans for an autistic guy who won't take care of himself? And that's not okay. I am literally arguing with the OP in another thread about it--he is of the opinion that that is, in fact, a woman's job. It's not "girlboss" (way to be dismissive as fuck, guy, thanks!) to tell someone that managing their unw…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:24 PM
2

And you can see the man in agony but the woman is an object to you. She is a means to an end, not a person to love and be loved by. You are selfish and entitled.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:04 PM
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The therapist starts with "how does that make you feel" and then teaches you how to manage your own emotions. The other option is just dumping your emotions on your partner. If you've been to therapy, you'll know how to discuss your feelings with your partner in a healthy way that does not make them responsible for taking on your pain. Therapy and loved ones work hand in hand, but you CANNOT expect someone else to simply be the only thing keeping you sane. Can't you see how much pressure that is…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:30 AM
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That's not how that works.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:24 AM
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You're as self centered as a gyroscope.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:23 AM
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Thar is not love. Thar is codependency.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:22 AM
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She sees her partner in agony. You think her passiveness will not traumatize her? NOT IF YOU ARE IN THERAPY. Jesus christ, how thick are you? GO TO THERAPY. YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS NOT YOUR THERAPIST, AND TREATING HER LIKE A THERAPIST WILL CAUSE HER HARM. CAUSING HER HARM IS NOT LOVE. IT IS SELFISHNESS.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:11 AM
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You're missing the point. It's an asshole move to ask your mother to do it, and you have given no thought to what it would feel like for her to do such a thing. You don't give a fuck about other people's needs and wants so long as yours are seen to.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:09 AM
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Yes they are.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:08 AM
4

So you're okay making her sit on a wait list for months to address the mental health difficulties that are the result of absorbing your trauma, but it's not okay for you to wait? All you're saying is "My pain is more important. I don't want to do the hard work of finding a therapist, and would rather have the immediate relief of expecting my partner to deal with my difficult emotions instead of doing it myself. Then, I expect her to deal with the ramifications of being my trauma dump and be happ…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:01 AM
5

Then why not just pay for yours instead of expecting her to hurt?
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 11:47 PM
3

And when she says "You need to have it pulled" will you insist that she rip a piece off of her child without anesthesia?
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 11:42 PM
5

So you expect.your partner to just keep applying patches, no matter how emotionally difficult it becomes for her. Tell me, when she's done soaking up all your trauma, who's going to pay for her therapy?
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 11:42 PM
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So you acknowledge there are some therapists that are not trained in certain needs and you understand that without that training they cannot help you. What makes you think your partner is any better suited? Furthermore, why would you put the emotional burden of doing a professional job without the skills needed to perform it on someone you love?
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 11:24 PM
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I get it. But your girlfriend is still not your therapist. Expecting someone to do the job of a doctor without any appropriate education is nuts. You going to let your mom pull your tooth, too? Dentists are expensive.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 11:20 PM
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Well. One person is trained and you pay them. The other tries to be there for you because they love you but can't really help.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 11:19 PM
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It's because you actually need therapy, not to dump your trauma on your friend. Going to your friend for empathy and support is good, but unless you back that up with therapy you're just complaining to someone whose advice you won't listen to. Go to therapy.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 10:22 PM
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There is a massive difference between being a good, loving, and supportive friend and being someone's therapist. Women aren't your therapist because you need to actually go to therapy. That's it. It's not hat we don't want to hear your problems--women are socialized to do just that, listen and be supportive. But we aren't all trained therapists and you actually fucking need therapy.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 10:21 PM
2

Yet over 70% of people have had sex by 20. So? Do you think it was good sex? Speaking from experience, probably not. At least for the women involved. If a starving person sees food, it is biologically impossible for them not to want it (whether they have the mental restraint to not steal it is another matter). Have you ever seen a seagull or pigeon leave after you give them just one piece of food? Are you a person or are you a seagull? Do you have any self control? Is it possible for you to see …
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 01:43 PM
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Rejection is part of the cycle. You need to first stop falling in love every time a woman shows you a shred of friendly interest. You need to practice making friends with women you aren't attracted to. They also exist. Most life partner matches come out of friendships and not weird mind games you learned about online.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 01:09 PM
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Yep. You need practice seeing women as equals and peers and frankly you don't deserve to stick your dick in one until you can figure that out.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 01:02 PM
3

Yikes.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 05:48 AM
4

I'm pretty sure I've encouraged therapy repeatedly as a first step, but you understand that your other option is that he dies a horrid lonely death, right? Eventually he's going to have to become socialized. And it's going to suck for whoever he practices on. But so does rain while taking the bus, you know? It's part of living in a society. Sometikes you're going to interact with people who haven't done it much. I'd rather he try to awkwardly speak socially to me as a friend than die alone, even…
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 05:47 AM
4

Oh I'm sorry, are you trying to get the last word? Will that make you feel better? Lok whatever, pumpkin. Feel free.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 03:35 AM
3

Casual dating maybe, but not relationship seeking.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 03:28 AM
6

Hey not just explore your sexuality since you hate women so much? There's nothing wrong with being gay and preferring s body type.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 03:28 AM
5

You might be gay. I mean you can't actually stand or feel love toward women, maybe you're just really deep in denial?
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 02:31 AM
7

Neat?
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 02:24 AM
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Look, if you're trying to bait me into giving you something to use for that humiliation fetish, try elsewhere. You need help.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 02:23 AM
8

So?
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 02:20 AM
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You don't even respect yourself, how are you ever going to get respect from others much less the love you crave but can't admit you need? "Men don't need love". Agahahahaja
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 02:18 AM
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Oh you're gunna be so lonely.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 02:16 AM
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Lmao sure its the same thing. Okay. It is absolutely disgusting. It's one thing to travel and see the world and meet new people, it's another to use money and power to control someone. If you don't want to make friends with women you actually have something in common with, what makes you think having money and still treating women like aliens is going to do? You'll just be wealthy and lonely. Or only liked for your money, because that's the only thing you've shown. Maybe if y’all were t so picky…
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 02:12 AM
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Okay so you're going to go somewhere that you do speak the language and take advantage of the socioeconomic difficulty so that you can buy a woman like chattel so you don't have to go treat her like a human being. You don't want love and acceptance, you want possession, domination, and ownership. Gross.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 02:03 AM
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Obviously a woman being assaulted is worse, but a man driven to end his life surely must be suffering too. He is, but that suffering is generated by a combination of factors, primarily an unfulfilled expectation. Red Pill isn't a safe space, though. Men who make real progress are shunned and shamed. You find that there are safe spaces like r/menslib that men won't go to because they feel they're emasculated because they won't hate on women.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 02:01 AM
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I don’t befriend women. Then how do you expect to date one? You chicks really gonna be shocked when your boyfriend gets his passport lol. That day is coming and no amount of shaming will change my mind. Ohhh you're going to go to a country where you don't speak the language and then take advantage of the poor socioeconomic situation and then buy one like chattel. Gross.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 01:57 AM
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There is a difference between venting and consistently blaming. Also, what's this vibe with comparing a woman who was secually assaulted hating men to a guy who was bullied hating women? Are bullying and sexual assault equal? Is that what men think?
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 01:49 AM
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You can't, bud. You have to treat women like equals and peers and socially engage with them. Dudes worry about being in the friend zone and then get shocked when they find out most long term relationships start out as friendships. You're going to need to be socially compatible to be sexually compatible.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 01:46 AM
9

Misandry does not go unchecked. Most women check their misandrist impulses without outside interference.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 01:41 AM
10

No those exist, they just don't let men blame their problems on women.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 01:37 AM
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There is a vast difference between whiteknighting and advocating for something you don't believe in, and listening to women describe their experiences and taking them seriously. If those things are whiteknighting and advocating for something you don't believe in, then what you're saying is you can't take women seriously--in which case you shouldn't be dating.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 01:35 AM
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No offense but I’m not really trying to join feminist groups. Why? I just believe men and women are different. Just because they are different does not mean they are not equal. In my opinion I kind of secretly think most women are out to get me. Why? When I was rejected by girls in high school they would go and tell the whole school to destroy my reputation. So the very immature children at your high school acted very immature, and you're going to insist that the behavior of children in your sch…
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 01:28 AM
4

Because I speak English, and that's how English works.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 08:02 PM
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I think its funny that I've just given you a basic medical fact and you're such a bigot that rather than using your nearly unfettered access to the collective knowledge of all of humanity, you'd rather rely on your Big Boy Brain to determine whether you believe a fact or not. Okay? I literally could not care less. Is there something else I can help you with?
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 08:02 PM
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Just because you have me a hyperlink to some article written by someone I've never met doesn't mean I'm going to believe such a claim sorry I don't really care if you believe me or not. There's a reason the instructions on the perfume are written the way they are. Bro I don't smell lmao. Like I've asked my friends who I trust to be honest and they say I don't smell lol. Where did you get any of this from? You understand what the figurative 'you' is, right?
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 07:55 PM
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So you think it requires being a different species for one sex to be better built to do a physical activity than another? Wait till you hear about lactation.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 07:45 PM
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What? Sorry but I'm calling bullshit on that. Women have a more sensitive sense of smell? I don't know what to tell you, buddy, but this is scientific fact. Beyond that, being nose-blind to your own smell is Just How Smells Work. If you can smell yourself, everyone else was able to smell you a long time ago. "Women's finer sense of smell may be due to more brain cells" https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/284991#:~:text=New%20research%20shows%20that%20women,sense%20of%20smell%20%E2%80%93%20…
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 07:37 PM
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What about what I said do you disagree with?
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 07:27 PM
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Tbh, it's not. Women, in general, have a more sensitive sense of smell. By the time you notice that you smell, other people are very aware.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 03:48 PM
3

Someone who is trying to make you feel uncomfortable is not going to have a good response to you responding with warmth and kindness. "What is the opposite reaction to what they are looking for"?
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 07:41 PM
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Be overly familiar with him. Look. He's pushing your boundaries. He's doing it publicly and trying to embarrass you. Well, he's not being subtle about it, right? Not really? Of all the people in your life, who would get a pass for teasing you about someone you like, so long as it wasn't super egregious? Idk about you, but in my family, thats siblings. So treat him like a younger brother. When he gets in your personal space, welcome him. Depending on what's socially acceptable in your culture, pu…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 05:12 AM
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Red pillers would likely tell her to stop acting like a baby or just leave. Bluepillers would likely say sorry just for the sake of ending her tantrum, even though her reaction is out of proportion for the level of transgression. This would reenforce that you're tolerating her shitty behavior. Holy hell, Red Pill did a number on you. What you just described is two different versions of "not actually addressing the problem". Neither of them address the core issue, both are immature methods for ma…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 09:01 PM
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Some might, but the vast majority don't. People are having a LOT less sex than you think. I disagree with you entirely. I think men will continue to have success with a very marginal group of women who are either trying to baby trap, are financially stable enough to cross state borders for an abortion, etc. But it will impact dating.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 03:38 PM
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This is wildly untrue. Birth control isn't 100% effective and abortions suck to have. Men don't really have to worry about it but most women most certainly do.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 03:18 PM
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At the end of the day, the red pill advocates for reducing your female partner to a sum of standardized behaviors (AWALT) which are not only dehumanizing (essential for the next step) but damaging and ultimately incorrect. The next thing it does, is advocate for and teach manipulative tactics that are again both dehumanizing and harmful. Overall, the advocacy for reducing women to targets and objects and teaching methods on how to lie, manipulate, harass, and intimidate women (dread game, etc) a…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 01:06 AM
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No, having a slight age difference isn't weird. As you get older, a larger and larger gap will be less and less weird as you both arrive at important developmental milestones and develop your understanding of the world as peers rather than in a fucked power dynamic. I can have my shallow dating standard for youth and beauty just like women can have their shallow dating standard for 6ft tall 6 figures. Okay first of all, 'women' don't have that standard. A small subset of extremely young and imma…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 10:42 PM
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No, not mad. Salty. Judgemental and a hypocrite, too. You're not with that first girlfriend anymore are you? She didn't settle down. What did you reward her with when she was with you? Wanting a younger girlfriend is weird. It's just you saying that you don't want her to have as much experience as you, thereby setting a power dynamic that is by default predatory.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 04:51 PM
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So you're mad that you chose to restrict your social life and the women you know didn't? Or are you mad that because you chose to restrict your social life, you'll never know whether you'd have been more successful younger in life? You really can't resent other people for the choices you made. Yes. Money makes dating easier. Money makes everything easier. Why would dating be different? I can't think of anything that's not made easier/more enjoyable/faster by adding more money to it. Dating is no…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 02:22 PM
6

So what you're saying is that you do exactly what you judge women for doing.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 02:19 AM
2

No, just now.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 02:18 AM
2

Rephrase your question?
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 01:24 AM
1

And how old was your girlfriend?
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 01:21 AM
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So whose fault is that? Why are you mad at women for being used and not at other men for using? Why is them using funny/a thing to he proud of, and to be fooled a thing of shame? Does it not show the very tender kindness and openness that you desire for yourself? Are those not traits you want in a partner? Why do you praise someone that destroys that in other people for fun? It's a major double standard.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 01:13 AM
9

So the same thing you're mad at wome for doing?
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 12:01 AM
8

Oh? And what do young men in their 20's doing while the young women are finding themselves?
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 11:49 PM
3

Because it allows them to shift the blame onto women.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 11:46 PM
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Nah man the racists never go away. They just either have a reason to speak or don't. Frankly the man in question was a garbage fire of a human being. His family, however, don't need to have their grief disrupted by the frustrations of the people whose lives his advice ruined. They aren't responsible. But just because he's dead doesn't mean people have to suddenly forget that he gave really bad advice based on race that denigrated black women.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 04:13 PM
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When you say "that is science", what science, precisely? I'm confused, are you saying that you think all men share an inability to think logically, and are controlled by their urges?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 11:57 PM
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Well. Donald Glover puts it this way: https://youtu.be/ioSI3KsE2_k
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 09:47 PM
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In my opinion although I could be wrong, a 5’2 woman will want a man 5’7 or above which isn’t drastic. What opinion? Why do you have an opinion about exactly how many inches a woman wants in height? Women do not, and if they do, they're equally insecure and your height not making the cut is you dodging a bullet. I believe it is women who dye their hair blonde not so much men. The men who do it probably wanna look like a skater dude not increase their sex appeal like me. This is also pointless sp…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:28 PM
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Most women who are worried about height are either a) clout-chasing or b) actually just want someone taller than them. At 5'11" you are plenty tall for the second group and trust me the first group is toxic af and it's better to let them self-screen. In most Western metro areas, people cough up big bucks and risk allergic reactions and burns on their scalps to get blond hair and will spend money on and wear uncomfortable colored contact lenses for blue eyes. Those traits are not negative. Know w…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 04:56 PM
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IMHO, it depends on where they live. Living with roommates where rent is high, especially roommates you've shared with for a while, tells me that a guy is capable of compromise and puts living comfortably above living alone. Now if the roommates are assholes that is a deal breaker. Then again I live in the greater Seattle area and even married couples sometimes have roommates.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 02:13 AM
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Oh, I'm sorry, you seem to be of the opinion yours matters to me. It doesn't. But clearly you need to get the last word in, so do.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/22 03:35 PM
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You're a self centered ass and I'm done talking to you <3
/r/ExRedPill16/04/22 03:33 PM
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Sweet and yet still their conclusions have been repeatedly debunked. Excessively. To the point where bringing it up tells me you have a political agenda here. You made the assumption that all men who are attracted to conventionally unattractive women and give them attention only want to use them for sex. No, I told you what women have been saying since forever. I'm shocked that this is apparently the first time you've ever heard it. Anytime women gather to compare notes the ultimate thing we dec…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/22 03:18 PM
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Also my eyes don't belong to my parents do they? They belong to me. What is so hard to understand about that? Who gave you the genetic code? You didn't pick your eyes. They were chosen for you. By happenstance. I'd also take compliments on my choices and content of my mind as well. I'd be happy with them, the same as I'd be happy with compliments on my looks, because they're both part of who I Well my friend, let me tell you that most people don't agree with you. Most women would really rather a…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/22 01:37 PM
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No, the problem is that you're trapping all the good things about you on the inside and not giving yourself room to grow. Humans die when we stop growing. We wither and rot and die. It's just how we are. I'm not telling you to change who you are in your core. I am telling you that you need to learn a new skill.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/22 01:32 PM
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Except that there is research that suggests that women like the one in that experiment do get attention from men. Lots of it, in fact. On OkCupid, the least attractive women (1th percentile) receive as many messages as the 80th percentile of males. In other words, even the most hideous women can easily find partners. Oh you mean that skewed, debunked 'research' piece that showed 80% of the people on dating sites are men? The one red pill types love to trot out as 'proof'. Yawn. It's entirely lik…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/22 01:21 PM
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Well I hate to be the one to tell you, but relationships are work. They require you to expend effort. Being interesting is just getting someone's attention. Wait until you hear about holding onto that attention and making the other person feel special and loved.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 09:06 PM
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Yes. This is the life experience everyone has. If you're not hot enough for people to overlook the fact that you have a personality like cold, unsweetened oatmeal, that is. Fun fact: that's almost everyone. Most people are not attractive enough to compensate for a lack of personality and interests. We work at it.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 08:59 PM
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Lmao okay buddy. I'm sure a website called hidden dominion is just full of intellectual rigor. Oh. No, it isn't. It's just one dude's opinions. Kinda lame ones, at that. Oh. He's a Dominionist. Gross. What he meant to say is that men are happy to use an ugly woman for sex, but they wouldn't be caught dead in public with them. Does that sound like a relationship to you? It doesn't sound like one to me. I'm sorry you're not hot enough that the only thing you have to do in order to have people inte…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 08:56 PM
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You're making it that way in your head. You do not have to be attractive to be interesting.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 08:49 PM
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Oh the self-pity. Attractiveness is interesting. Being interesting is attractive. If you cannot be attractive, be interesting.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 08:39 PM
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Attractiveness is interesting.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 08:32 PM
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Yeah but they do that by being interesting.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 08:09 PM
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women just need to exist. No, women need to exist and be attractive. Men ignore unattractive women. Not everyone can ever become interesting Yes you can. Everyone has the capacity to learn one thing that makes them interesting. Public libraries exist. Learning is free.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 08:02 PM
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No it's not. You had no hand in how your eyes came out or how tall you are or most of your physical traits. That was your parents' work. Imagine being happier being complimented about something you didn't do than in being complimented about something you actively chose or did. "Oh no, don't compliment me and my choices, compliment some random thing I have no control over". Yeesh.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 07:58 PM
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So you would rather someone compliment your parents than you?
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 05:26 PM
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No they're quite an important part of who I am, personally. And when you're 60, will that still be the case? Will you have lived your life unscathed? No scars or wrinkles? You're right beauty does fade but I'll still have a face and a body and hair and clothes and shit, and those all encompass looks How you present yourself, your choice of clothing or hairstyle etc are visible components of your inner self, but they are still choices you made and therefore are more representative of who you are …
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 03:51 PM
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Your looks are the least part of who you are. They change. Beauty fades. Choosing a partner based solely on looks is foolish and short sighted.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 03:28 PM
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If someone was interested in me because of my looks, and not who I am as a person I'd still be down How is that being loved for who you are? How is it any better than someone being interested because of the content of your mind? It's fine to be attracted to people because they're attractive. It's just self serving bullshit to act like it's some sort of crime for someone to need the other person to be interesting in some way to be interested in them.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 03:14 PM
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Because they want to be loved for who they are. How are you ever going to get someone to come to know you well enough to love you for who you are without first grabbing their interest? These guys are never interested in the girl they're interested in because they know anything about her. They're interested in her looks, not who she is as a person.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 03:01 PM
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So what hobbies are you next going to tell me that will somehow make me interesting? No, doofus. That's not how you do it. The way you socialize and become interesting is to find something you truly enjoy, and then go do that thing as a group. With other adult humans. Not only do you get to enjoy your hobby, but you get to meet other people interested in that hobby. Furthermore, you develop the capacity to engage others about that hobby. Why do I have to be the one that has to be interesting whi…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 02:28 PM
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If you want people to be interested in you, you must first be interesting. I don't know why that's hard to understand. Nice is just the bare standard to function in society. When someone refers to themselves as 'nice' they either mean 'doormat' (unattractive) or 'fully functional human with empathy' (the bare minimum most people are willing to have in their social circle). So, unless you're a doormat, what you're saying is that you are the bare minimum. Women are interested in interesting men.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 02:20 PM
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Then what's your point here? Are you mad at women for being attracted to people that put effort into attracting attention?
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 06:14 PM
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If you won't engage with people in a given setting, or insist that they approach you and refuse to do any mixing yourself, why should other people do it for you?
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 05:59 PM
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Then why do you call yourself a wallflower? That's what a wallflower is.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 05:56 PM
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Thats the 'lighting'. It's easy to blend into the background when you're a wallflower. That's what the phrase implies, that you blend into the background like flowers on wallpaper. You don't need to change who you are--it's okay to be reserved, you need to change your setting.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 05:49 PM
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I mean you think you are, but it's clear you're not being seen.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 05:43 PM
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Look, you could be in an art gallery full of beautiful paintings, but if they're not well-lit, you may never see them.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 05:20 PM
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The problem isn't that women are drWn to those outgoing types so much as the outgoing types tend to draw attention to themselves. Wallflowers don't. It's hard to become attracted to someone who hasn't caught your attention.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 05:08 PM
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It doesn't matter if it's a guy or my best friend--the person doing the asking pays. It doesn't matter of its skating, dinner, or a movie. The asker pays, or at least makes sure their friend can at least afford the trip. It has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with being polite.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 06:32 PM
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For people going their own way, they sure spend a lot of time talking about women.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/21 01:18 AM
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Do they find short-term partners solely because of their looks or Convenience and enjoyability. Period.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 07:38 AM
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For some reason, men have been socialized that stoicism is somehow innately masculine and a lack of it innately feminine. That's just not true and does a massive disservice to men (and women!). If I'm going to love someone, I need to love all of them. Warts and all. Vulnerability isn't a problem. Wallowing in negative emotions is.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/21 01:53 PM
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No. Shit test is just the term RP types uses to describe any time a woman has a reaction they don't like/understand to something a man does or a thing that is happening in their life entirely unrelated to the man. Sometimes used when their partner just comes to them looking for love, support, or healing words. Oh she's crying? Must be a shit test! (Or maybe she just had a really shitty day. However, she will definitely notice if you ignore her, and will start hiding her true self around you if y…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 05:23 PM
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It's very sad you feel that way. Romantic love exists.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 07:08 PM
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There is a lot of pressure on men to pursue and lead because that's what a lot of women expect Ahhh but not anymore. Not exactly and I think that's part of RP's problem. Women occasionally like to see leadership in men, but they want a partner who is in it 50/50, and sometimes that means following her lead, especially in areas of her expertise--and those areas of her expertise are not limited or set by her gender (obviously, just stating it for the record). The idea of a dominant woman is someho…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 06:16 PM
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This is hyperbole. Hard to believe the person she or he didn’t know a few months or years before is suddenly the one they love the most in the world. I'm sorry to hear you feel this way.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 05:55 PM
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Well that was fuckin' rude of her!
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 05:51 PM
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Oh lord this is so cute I think I'm gunna be sick lol. You wholesome motherfucker you. The girl likes you and is using that as an opportunity to talk to you. She definitely liked that you helped her friend, and is attracted to you and/or feeling horny and feels you're a good choice. Your obliviousness to her attraction is cute.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 05:48 PM
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Imagine the person you love the most in the world treating you like a trophy to put away. An object whose opinions and feelings and lonely heart and sexual needs suddenly don't mean anything. Once that's clear, Women leave.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 05:42 PM
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Our grandparents stuck it out. Our grandmothers didn't have a right to their own bank accounts. They were told to stay despite the black eyes, the constant coming home drunk, the philandering, and the refusal to take an active part in parenting. Women don't have to do that now. They no longer have to put up with a partner that takes them for granted and does not appreciate her. These days women will leave and they will not hold themselves accountable Not holding themselves accountable for what, …
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 05:29 PM
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Right so the vows don't mean shit do they? They do. Even after you say them. Loving and honoring someone includes seeing to their needs. Women end marriages because they do their side and don't get reciprocation. blame men for their own lack of ability to stick it out through thick and thin. No, they just won't stick it out with a man who isn't doing their fair share. Men complain about their wives as well but they don't resort to breaking up the family. Oh but they do. They cheat. That's how th…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 05:14 PM
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https://goodmenproject.com/divorce/9-reasons-why-women-initiate-divorce-more-than-men/ No it's because men see wives as prizes to win and then not maintain.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:59 PM
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Women's lives are shorter and more unhappy when they are married but men's lives longer and happier. Women initiate some 69-80% of divorces because of: Indifference or cluelessness of the husband to their feelings Small gestures and reassurances are missing Money problems Needs not being met at home Husbands who cheat on their wives Marriage not living up to expectations Substance abuse Lack of romance Physical and emotional abuse My citation, which has other citations nested inside it: https://…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:59 PM
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Because the house needs to be cleaned and the children cared for.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:39 PM
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Speaking as a woman with many gay and bi male friends, you're right but missing a little nuance. Straight men want to attract women but are made deeply uncomfortable by the idea of being a sex object, reduced to their component parts and generally treated the way RP types treat women. I'm talking crisis of ego here. The idea that a woman is just flat out pursuing a man because she wants to have him and not his things is confusing. The idea of keeping your partner interested by regularly making y…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:36 PM
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Oh it's because those incel "blame everyone else for my social difficulties" and "breathtaking self-enritlement" traits don't actually go away when you have sex. Incel is a mentality.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 03:07 PM
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Some 70% of active users on Tinder are men. Of course they don't get nearly the same number of interactions from women--there aren't as many. Women have been turned off of dating apps like that. Nobody likes opening unwanted dick pics.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 03:39 PM
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You don't engage in good faith so I won't engage with you.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/08/21 11:48 PM
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48 Laws is definitely a manual on how to be a psycho. It's also very handy for spotting them.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/21 04:49 PM
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Haha you fell for The Onion. Did no research, didn't even check Amazon for the dust jacket. Just jumped in headfirst cause it fed your narrative.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/08/21 03:27 PM
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From New Yorker and Onion writer and comedian Blythe Roberson, How to Date Men When You Hate Men is a comedy philosophy book aimed at interrogating what it means to date men within the trappings of modern society. Congrats, you fell for The Onion.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/08/21 05:49 PM
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Super hope you're saying this to both parties.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/08/21 11:00 PM
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Listen, you can put words in my mouth and purposefully misunderstand me and twist my meaning to suit your needs or you can be a reasonable person. You cannot do both. You're histrionic and you think you have the right to control what people think. That's psychotic. Period. People are entitled to their opinions. They're just not entitled to be dicks about it. You know. Like you.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/08/21 02:15 PM
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I mean all extremists are a little scary but anti-feminists are a whole different breed.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/08/21 08:04 PM
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You are allowed to feel how you feel, buddy. You just aren't allowed to be a dick. End of story.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/08/21 08:03 PM
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Actually I never said prejudice is fine. I said you're not allowed to tell people what to think. You're not allowed to try to control someone else's internal dialog. It's never going to work unless you convince them anyway. You can't shame people out of prejudice. You can only educate and then take away their ability to inject their prejudice into the decision making process. I'm sorry to hear that you've got a bad habit of putting words in other people's mouths.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/08/21 05:07 PM
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This is correct. You're not allowed to lie to yourself about whether or not you are prejudiced and not allowed to treat people poorly or unfairly. We can't control people's thoughts. That's wrong. You can ask them to control their behavior and hope that common sense sets in when they demonstrably see their prejudices proven wrong. That's the ideal.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/08/21 02:43 PM
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Yikes.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/08/21 12:42 PM
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Yes. You have the right to like or dislike whomever you please. What you don't have is the right to treat them poorly or unfairly just because you don't like them. You must be extra diligent about being fair but we don't police who people like.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/08/21 05:07 PM
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making her miss you, not replying too quick, don't be too nice, etc.. which I don't find necessarily a manipulation but somehow No. Not somehow. It's manipulation.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 03:21 PM
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TL;DR
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 06:05 PM
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You're not FDS, you do not know what the core message is then. Uh yes I can, I have this superpower called reading. I'm redpill to the point where I understand that women have it easier in dating and in most of life. Is this not true? No. Men are dangerous. Women take on most of the risk, physical and real, when it comes to dating. Women are the ones who get murdered for trying to leave and who might fall pregnant and have to deal with a complicated medical situation which might kill or permanen…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 05:01 PM
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Thats LITERALLY what I said. High value men are those who make significantly more than they (the women) do. No it isn't. And no they don't advocate for only going with men who make significantly more. They just advocate for not dating a man who makes significantly less. Finally I like how you say you are entitled and self centred. But if someone on redpill says they're entitled to a partner with reasonable standards (not 10/10 models like pretty much all of reddit thinks they ask for) it's someh…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 04:42 PM
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The high value men they refer to typically are ones who earn far more than they do, FDS advocates for a woman to make her own money and to not be with with man that makes significantly less. So this is wrong. look great and contribute as well in the domestic busines. Oh no, a woman has standards. Tell me, are these good looks objectively quantified by numbers? Are men a 7? No. They're not. Because it's not a game. seen posts of advocates there concerned about what the dude brings to the table: t…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 04:21 PM
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And the use of the high value man is always reciprocal. FDS advocates for honesty where RP advocates for lying. Manipulation. Scare tactics. FDS advocates... leaving if you don't feel appreciated. Treating your partner with love and respect and care, so long as they treat you that way, too. If they don't, FDS doesn't advocate that you pull dread game. They advise you not waste any time and leave. They're not the same. Comparing them is stupid.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 04:03 PM
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FDS doesn't get treated the same way because they don't advocate for abusing your partner. I hate hate hate being put in a position of defending them, but at the worst they are TERFs who think porn is making people sick. Acting like the advice FDS dispenses (mainly: don't put out, kinda entitled) is the same as red pill (mainly: how to emotionally abuse your partner) is kinda "both sides"-ing of an argument. If people want them banned for being entitled TERFs, then fine but don't act like they'r…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 02:46 PM
0

The answer comes down to the culture around the guns and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:41 PM
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I'll leave this for you here: Why does gun control work in other parts of the world, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:57 PM
4

sahm don't have jobs. Raising children is a job. In fact according to conservative dogma its the most respectable job a woman can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:00 PM
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Tell me, is the current government of Norway Nazi? Would you call them an authoritarian hellscape? What about Switzerland? These are both places with gun culture that sees guns as useful sporting equipment and not things you use to force your opinions and to force compliance from others. We had great gun control for a long time here in the US. It was great. We treated guns the way you treat a 4 wheeler or a chainsaw. Potentially dangerous but a tool that can be great fun when used properly. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:56 PM
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don't have the right to decide whether they want a child or not after a woman becomes pregnant, They did before. Where they put their semen matters. So why would a man fight for a (woman's) right that gives women more rights than he has? Well that right comes from a place of weakness for men. They don't have that right because they don't have the power of conception. A strong man is capable of seeing a woman as a whole human being whose bodily autonomy is as great as his own and should not be vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:51 PM
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A man supporting women's reproductive rights is in direct contradiction to his own interests since women's reproductive rights subvert his, if men even have any. Only if he's interested in reproducing with someone that doesn't want to reproduce with him. And we call those people rapists. A woman who is free to plan her family out and who has a partner who is a partner in that, and not a coercive party who treats her like a gestational chamber is going to be happier, healthier, and be more produc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:47 PM
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I'm pro choice if we're just fucking but if she's my girl than I'm pro life. Wow. A single voting choice that can force me to carry a regency to term that could cause me to have incontinence for life, you're OK with taking the choice away when it's convenient for you. This is opportunistic and all the evidence I needed that you're controlling. You're a self-centered gremlin who only wants to get his dick wet. You want the conservative woman values--but only the ones that benefit you. Honestly I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:40 PM
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Hoses are female. Raccoons are female. Outlets are female. Human adult females are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:28 PM
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joe is an pedo and women still sleep with Biden supporters. Citation, and not some half baked q anon bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:25 PM
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Just because I support doesn't mean I support all the things he does. Yes it does. That's exactly what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:24 PM
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Dude. Someone answered your question and told you exactly why liberal women won't date Trump supporters. What you support tells us what you value. You value men who brag about sexually assaulting women, about walking in on teen models while they change and who speaks about his daughter in a very creepy way. Why? There's nothing about him that we value enough to overlook the permissive attitude toward objectifying and abusing women. We don't value that. So we don't value those who find that accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:21 PM
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Goddamnit I hate being put in the position of defending FDS. I don't wanna defend TERFs or obnoxious anti-feminists. Yet here we are. FDS advocates for women not taking bullshit from men or other women trying to put them down. All the posts you object to are content men willingly sent women without provocation or men acting sketch in public. They're not out here suggesting gaslighting, or cheating, or any of the same shit TRP advocates for--most of which is abusing or lying to your partners to g…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/21 03:07 PM
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The cognitive dissonance is real.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 02:08 AM
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That's also untrue. What you mean to say is that popular media doesn't portray men being attracted to a woman with strong biceps and defined abs, so you have no frame of reference. Stop for a second and think about it. Are those things actually a turn off for you? Have you ever looked at a really fit girl and gone "yuck"? Or have you gone "Oh, hello. Oh wait those arms look a little masculine what would my friends think?"
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 07:27 PM
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But someone just explained to you that people are attracted to good health. When you think strong aggressive macho that does read as healthy. It's just not the only flavor of healthy out there. Just like how Bill Skarsgård is seen as incredibly attractive but not bulky--his brother, too. Some people are into big muscle cars. Other people are into rocket-fast little motorbikes. How you get there doesn't matter so much as it goes very fast.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 06:08 PM
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I know, thats why I also said Also like RPW it has some really ultra negative talk in it that doesn't allow for the humanity of your sexual partner.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/20 06:59 PM
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Just like RPW, FDS sometimes has some good points about respecting yourself and not permitting bad behavior inside a relationship. Also like RPW it has some really ultra negative talk in it that doesn't allow for the humanity of your sexual partner.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/20 06:37 PM
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Manuals like the one about the screwdriver are written that way just in case someone who has never even seen a screwdriver (much less a screw) can use it without asking questions. Source: I write such manuals.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/20 03:46 PM
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Systemizing is in fact dehumanizing. You may not realize it but once you reduce someone's rich and complex internal life down to statistics, you've removed the human element from the equation. There is a a BIG difference between seeing problems in your relationship as a problem to solve, and another when you reduce your partner or potential partner to a problem to solve. They stop being a person and start being a thing that won't do what you want it to. I'm shocked you don't see how dangerous th…
/r/ExRedPill07/07/20 03:37 PM
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They have stopped looking at women as human beings and instead try the approach of solving a problem (their lack of sex) using women as objects instead. We know from a of the past of human history that dehumanizing your enemy is just a thing people do.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 04:58 PM
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How do women make men do these things? Did you learn how to be a man from your mother? Are you trying to tell me your mother was abusive? I don't understand how this "women teach men to hide their feelings" bullshit comes from. Yeah. Nothing blows the skirt up like a man who can't deal with his feelings and punches walls once he's off of the emotional high from a new relationship. What kind of woman settles for man who isn't a complete human being with a full set of human emotions and is going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:09 AM
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Well since it's a shitty blurry screengrab I can't see them. Please provide an actual citation or just admit you don't know what you're talking about and go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:29 AM
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I'm sorry I don't know what world you live on but we currently live in a world where both partners in a relationship are required to provide. Men die earlier than women because they lack the coping mechanisms women have, and that's because beyond a certain age crying when you are upset or having close, physically intimate but nonsexual platonic supportive relationships. Men aren't allowed to cry or hug each other for support because that's seen as feminine or childish and inferior behavior. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:27 AM
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You still haven't answered my question. What painful sex act do women coerce men into?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 07:17 PM
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You aren't answering my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 07:05 PM
1

Uhm you didn't provide citations. That's not a citation. That's a blurry screengrab of an uncited website. I could go into Paint and make exactly the same thing and it would contain exactly as much peer reviewed, citable data. Please provide citations with actual data in them or accept that you have no data and cannot back your claims up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:26 PM
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I asked for a citation, not a screenshot of a shitty random set of graphs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:06 PM
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What sorts of things do women make men do that they don't want to do which are equivalent to being coerced into anal sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:38 PM
2

Citation, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:19 PM
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Women are socialized to manage societal stress better. That means admitting to a problem faster and not self-medicating at the same rate because they have better coping mechanisms and aren't expected to discard them simply because they are an adult. That's completely separate from what kinds and amounts of pressures they are ultimately under, most basic coping mechanisms (sharing feelings with supportive friends, having a good cry, hugging and being hugged etc) are seen as feminine or childlike …
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 09:49 PM
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You misspelled "explained clearly why he is wrong".
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 04:12 PM
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Sold of nice white lady down the street who comes in my job and gives me and all my workers Bubblegum, she should have to bow down and apologize for something their ancestors did 100 or 200 or 300 years ago This is disingenuous. No. But if she does see someone showing their lily-white ass, she should definitely whoop it. You should use racial privilege to protect others. Lord knows I did. Not once when I was around did any one of my black friends have to talk to the cops when I was a kid. My mom…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 03:49 PM
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So which is it are women inherently weak No. Women are not inherently weak. Their bodies Re just not flooded with the steroid Testosterone 24/7 and therefore don't usually build muscle mass the same way. Women aren't weak. It's just a lot easier for men to be strong. and inferior because they're smaller and fragile There is a reason boxers fight inside weight classes, man. or is it because the patriarchy said so Somewhat. Patriarchy is what makes it so that women are expected to not make a scene…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 03:39 PM
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Yes. You should. White people should be holding each other accountable because we have that privilege. You shout at someone to stop being a dick it gets taken one way. I do it, and it's usually accepted with shame. We should all hold people in our social circles to account for the way they treat people. If you know someone who is being harmful, go tell their momma. Unfortunately we live in the world of "Boys will be boys" instead of "Stop being a little asshole."
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 03:24 PM
7

Would it shock and frustrate you for me to sit here and explain how this verbal temper tantrum is wrong and right?
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 03:19 PM
7

I am a white girl raised in a mostly black community in the deep south. What that life experience taught me is that I cannot live someone else's truth. I can share my truth with my words and hope you both understand me and have the compassion to feel me, too. I also cannot put myself in danger to make someone else feel more comfortable. That would be reckless and stupid of me. 1 in 4 women has been sexually assaulted by the time they reach adulthood. 1 in 4. That means if you know 4 women, at le…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 03:17 PM
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Listen to yourself and take your own advise. You can dislike it all you want but this patriarchal anti-feminist horse-shit you're slinging is right wing ideology. Red Pill is that. Whether you dislike it or not, there it is. I did not say you are right wing I said you are spouting right wing talking points because you are. You can get mad about it. Good. Open your goddamn eyes.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 03:08 PM
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You hear it and you get it and then you immediately discard that data because it does not back up your talking point. You restrain yourself because you're probably bigger than the woman in question. Our society doesn't respond to women being in fear by teaching them to defend themselves, which is stupid. I am not that woman who crosses the street out of fear. I'm the one that makes eye contact with the man behind her, and then steps aside so he can walk past. I'm shorter, I'm probably walking sl…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 03:03 PM
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It does mean you have a point of reference. You know what it is like to be a man in a world built for men. It is arrogant and condescending of you to come into this space and make assertions about how women think. Women are individuals. They happen to have some fairly common experiences which can help develop their behavior. Whether it is pathological or not depends on the individual. So you don't get confused, my points are: 1) You do not have the singular life experiences common among women th…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 02:53 PM
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When women are little girls, we are usually sat down by our fathers and told that boys men are only after one thing. This is a message that is reinforced over and over and over in the media. It's a major point of RP logic--that this is the right and natural way of things. Men should be interested in only one thing. Do women make snap judgements about men? Sure. Why? Because we have to. When was the last time someone cornered you on public transit and wouldn't get out of your personal space until…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 02:48 PM
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That's not passive aggressive. Its sarcasm pointing out that you're not psychic nor all-knowing. You are applying your own personal biases and calling it logic. It's a thing redpillers are notorious for doing. It makes people not want to talk to you. It's obvious you've made your mind up that you know better than the people who have actually been little girls and women
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 02:39 PM
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https://youtu.be/ioSI3KsE2_k This is a pretty funny explanation as to why.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 02:35 PM
1

What you need is a dual-diagnosis type center. Someplace they can treat addiction and the underlying condition at the same time. If you're in the USA, call 211. They can help you find resources. I'm proud of you for seeing your problem and trying to fix it. Asking for help is hard but worth it. Best wishes.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/20 11:06 PM
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Therapy doesn't fix you. Therapy helps you build the toolkit to fix yourself. It helps you gain insight into why you do or think what you do. And a therapist can't help you if you lie to them or just gloss over shitty things or just don't tell them. You have to lean into it.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/20 01:16 PM
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Younger women haven't learned how to deal with pushy men and are still laboring under that tired old "girls aren't supposed to make a fuss" mentality. An older woman has the confidence and experience to more accurately interpret your threat level. Younger women are still hearing the voice of their fathers telling them men only want one thing. Older women have known enough men socially to know it isn't true and can be sociable.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/20 12:18 PM
2

It's all good. You can't be expected to know unless someone tells you! :)
/r/ExRedPill06/03/20 11:55 PM
2

I just explained it to you. When you use the word "feminine" or "like a girl" or "like a woman" in place of a derogatory term or in a derogatory manner, you are saying that women or femininity are that derogatory term. How else should that be interpreted? Also not mad, just want you to understand that you are using woman as shorthand for immature, irresponsible, shallow, vapid, and dumb before you hurt a woman in your life by doing that in front of them.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/20 11:27 PM
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So what you're saying is that you don't think of women as able and self sufficient people? Because what that sounds like isn't femininity, but immaturity. When you phrase it the way you did, it definitely sounds like you have internalized this belief that women are not capable people just because they're women and you're assigning traits that are actually assignable to "immature" instead to "woman".
/r/ExRedPill06/03/20 10:42 PM
1

What do you mean by feminine guy?
/r/ExRedPill06/03/20 10:36 PM
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You might, but that would put you in the minority. Think of the adjectives we use to describe young women.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/20 08:20 PM
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It's like a rosebud versus a rose in full bloom. Both are lovely and smell nice but the rosebud is only a glimpse of what the rose will be when at it's true peak. Humans are the same. Late teens and early 20's have their charm but they haven't fully developed into who they will be yet.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/20 05:24 PM
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Put it this way, friend. If you wanted to cut off your foreskin as an adult who has some say over his body, go nuts. Your body, your choice. I think the thing most people object to is tying a newborn baby boy down to a table and cutting off part of his genitals without his consent or even anesthesia. Like it's not ok to do to girls but it is ok to do to boys? How does this not traumatize them? Usually its men who were circumcised and agreed to let their own children get cut without being aware o…
/r/MGTOW201/03/20 05:21 PM
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Younger women are a lot easier to manipulate. They also often have shitty social skills and don't know how to set boundaries or say "no". That is more attractive.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/20 05:07 PM
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That's a thing I find myself explaining to incels a lot. "Kiddo, testosterone's not done kicking your ass yet. Give yourself some time to get some seasoning and to grow into your face".
/r/ExRedPill01/03/20 05:05 PM
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Its becoming more evident that unattractive people in general do not get acknowledged socially. Not even as friends. Like, objectively, I'm sure while you may not be attracted to your friends, you may still be able to observe them as average to attractive to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 03:35 AM
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Then why are you bothering me still? I've asked you twice now to end this conversation. You state an opinion. You are told that there is bottomless evidence to the contrary. This is like arguing with a flat-earther. You're not right. You're entirely, vastly incorrect. You're trying to condense a hundred years of evolving research and social norms into a blurb. I'm not devoting a moment more of my time to someone who can't take ownership of his own thoughts. Blocked.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/20 07:51 PM
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So wait let me get this straight. You make a broad assertion about the tendencies of heterosexual relationships. I point out that your assertion is both poorly researched and widely considered inaccurate by the actual research that's out there. Of which there are buckets and buckets easily google-able. You try to tell me that these studies mean less than your personal experiences and mindset, despite being in a sub for people trying to escape that mindset, and that I need to give you... what? A …
/r/ExRedPill11/02/20 06:56 PM
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I don't care if I know the truth. Kay, then we are done. Bye.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/20 02:00 PM
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For the love of god, either do your research or don't talk to me about it. I have a feeling its just... Then I have a feeling that you're never going to find answers.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/20 12:56 AM
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Just because you're too lazy to actually look at research into human sexuality doesn't mean that you're right. It means that you're ignorant and trying really hard to remain that way in order to justify your assumptions.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/20 10:04 PM
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You're entitled to your feelings, you just aren't entitled to let your feelings replace facts. The differences are as widespread as I know.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/20 05:49 PM
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Well because what if he's actually bi? What about the dynamic of the penetrated and the penetrating? What if he's not, but he's into pegging? Do you see that as an innately dominant act? Why? There is generalizing here, bro. That is exactly what "Women are submissive" means. Your whole argument is essentially "Thinking of people whose internal power dynamic is as complicated as they are is just too hard and I want to generalize everyone into three categories because that's easier for me to under…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/20 02:55 PM
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Oh, being submissive isn't a bad thing. However, I can tell you with assertiveness that the BDSM community is constantly trying to free itself of this presumption that penis = dominant and vagina = submissive. You're asserting something that just isn't true, and totally ignores the very pertinent dynamic of LGBT folks. Sexuality is on a spectrum, and you can't ignore the middle sections, make broad generalizations about two points on the scale and assume that your personal experience is all the …
/r/ExRedPill10/02/20 02:29 PM
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Okay. 1) Porn is not made for women. It is made for men. Please do not attempt to glean anything real from porn about women and their sexuality. 2) Just because it jibes with your already preconceived notions of womanhood doesn't make it accurate. You are not an expert on women. 3) Romance novels, if you've ever actually read one, do have a certain amount of being wooed by a man. It also inevitably involves a woman who comes to know what she wants sexually and how to demand it and teach reciproc…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/20 12:47 PM
1

You realize all these disorders existed before, right? We just called it hysteria and treated it with orgasms. Excuse me, hysterical paroxysm.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/20 02:03 AM
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We would have to look at stat sets specifically for those regions to speculate, those are not included here.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/20 07:18 PM
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That is incorrect. While that group is the one fastest growing, the highest rate of successful suicide is with 75+ males, currently. There is a prevalence among them of the divorced or widowed, but that is true for all age groups that appear to fall under the category "elderly". The numbers indicate that women think about suicide more often, but men follow through more often. Young people make attempts, but adults are more often successful. LGBT kids are three times more likely to have what's ca…
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/20 06:13 PM
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The highest rates of suicide attempts appear in adolescents. According to Reuters, a reliably fact-based source: Assigned female at birth but identifies as male: 50% Assigned male at birth but identifies as female: 30% No strong feeling male or female: 42% Cisgendered female: 18% Cisgendered male: 10%
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/20 01:47 PM
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It's the percentage of trans folks that get driven to suicide.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/20 01:11 PM
2

Perhaps. Or perhaps it causes serious psychological trauma even beyond what a stranger could inflict.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/19 05:25 PM
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I mean according to Hanlon's Razor (don't attribute to malice what can be attributed to ignorance, people are more often stupid than outright mean) it makes more sense that racist and homophobic and nationalistic people are living through generational, abusive trauma than consciously and maliciously choosing to exclude people from resources. It's an interesting idea I haven't thought of until now but it makes sense. If you experienced the trauma of having your family teach you that a given race …
/r/ExRedPill21/09/19 05:01 PM
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That was a rant full of keyboard diarrhea. Did you even go back and re-read that before posting, my homie? I've gone through the effort of finding its archive and it reads like a coked-out Turner Diaries prologue. Not really sure what gun control has to do with female dating strategies or the OP in general. Call your mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 01:03 AM
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Women do want to fuck someone who cares and listens to their problems. Women just don't want to fuck a guy whose whole personality except that is vacant.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 12:56 AM
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Your spouse cannot be legally compelled to testify against you in a court of law. When one of you dies, if you are legally married you may be entitled to survivor benefits from Social Security, especially if you have children. Your spouse has the right to make legal decisions for you if you are incapacitated, including medical decisions. Tax credits for marriage. The ability to file jointly, too. Property protections include IRA protections and benefits. Your spouse inherits your estate without …
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 12:47 AM
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If you want your spouse to be at your bedside when you die or vice versa, if you want to have her make medical decisions when you're incapacitated or even just to be at your side when you are, you need the legal protections an actual marriage has. What you're talking about is living the way dedicated gay couples have had to live until they were allowed to marry. No rights, no tax or property protection.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/19 05:56 PM
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Yeah, the asset split was decided amicably, without the court's intervention.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/19 05:53 PM
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... She was trying to be considerate and do her job by responding to you quickly.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/19 03:59 AM
2

Because what you portray to your friends and what your family/roommates actually see are two different beasts.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 02:22 AM
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Your therapist is not your wing man. He is not there to get you a girlfriend or get you laid. He is there to help you build a toolbox of skills to use to pull yourself out of the emotional space you are currently living in. You must be honest and take what they say to account or else you are wasting your time and his.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 02:17 AM
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Whoo this is some hot tea. Capital T. For Truth.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 02:14 AM
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Woah, buddy. Slow the train down a second, cause that way leads to inceldom. You don't want that. Let's put some serious facts about human development on the table. 1) Men physically mature slower than women. Most men don't truly finish their final growth spurt and have the real beard hair ready to grow in until ~25. At 21, testosterone is not done kicking your ass yet. You're still going through puberty, complete with mood problems. 2) It is entirely normal to not have had sex before then, espe…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/19 10:42 PM
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Yeah, this is fascinating. Also speaking as a woman, I am very enthusiastic about sex, but not all the time. When I want it, I want it. When I don't, I don't.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/19 11:50 PM
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It speaks to an unhealthy relationship with authority that is a major red flag. It really depends on the relationship between the man and his parents and the functionality of the man as a person. A woman doesn't want to step in and be your mother. When most people are looking for a partner, they want someone who they know they can rely on. I dated a guy for two years who lived with his parents. They were older, and he helped in their care and worked with autistic children part time. Really swell…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/19 04:25 AM
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It's how to accept abuse and neglect. A relationship isn't about showing the responses you think will work, it's about cooperation and respect. You're not supposed to worry about what you "get out of" a relationship. If I have to pretend to be something I'm not for fear of losing my relationship, then that relationship is already dead.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/19 04:55 AM
1

MarriedTRP is "how to abuse your wife emotionally" whereas the version for women is "you deserve to be abused because you're a woman". No. Thanks.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/19 01:02 PM
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Its place is for hookups and one night stands. Its poison for incels (the ones who claim they want to be loved and held in high esteem, that is) and turns them into hateful little shit-birds. Teaching people how to manipulate one another as a means to protect yourself from being manipulated = good. Teaching them how as a means to get the "upper hand" in a relationship = bad.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/19 02:59 AM
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I think they mean that some people are shallow, some people are not. Shallowness is something you grow out of as you age. Its not "settling" its "realizing that looks change and relationships are built on something more". TRP is fantastic advice if all you wanna do is fuck and don't care who you hurt. Its a great way to learn how to manipulate and abuse someone who wants to love you. It's for one night stands and random hookups, not long term relationships or deep affection.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/19 02:56 AM
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He's being manipulative, which is a thing redpill teaches men to cultivate. Never mind that it hurts the person you're manipulating.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/19 01:40 AM
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That doesn't answer if all men are the same, too. If the logic they use for describing women and men is basically "all men are logical and all women are emotionally-driven" then AMALT, too. I love asking them things like "Then why are almost all male serial killers driven by sex, hate, and lust whereas female serial killers are almost always motivated by money?" Also, do the exceptions prove the rule or...?
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 06:25 AM
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Okay, then if they're right and all women are the same, then why is he with you in particular? Does that logic apply backwards to men? Are all men the same?
/r/ExRedPill04/01/19 07:42 PM
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No I asked you who did the buying, as you're over here declaring that women sell their emotional labor. You fell into a hole of your own logic, which is internally flawed. If hetero women sell love, then it must be hetero men who are buying. In fact, according to your logic, men are the only market available. Are you familiar with a boycott? The power lies in the hands of the buyer, not the seller. The seller has a thing but needs money. The buyer has the money but wants the thing. IDGAF if the …
/r/ExRedPill11/12/18 02:04 AM
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Wrong answer. The correct answer is "men". In the scenerio you describe, men are the buyers. Look, your whole premise is flawed. You are attributing negative traits to people who, according to your logic, are simply trying to survive rather than the people who are exploiting the power dynamic in order to subvert and demean the other side. Are all men predatory? No, of course not. Therefore your argument falls apart. Emotional labor is not free. It costs someone time and energy. You only freely g…
/r/ExRedPill11/12/18 01:34 AM
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Okay, then who is buying? By your logic, if women are selling, then that's because someone is buying. Who is it?
/r/ExRedPill10/12/18 11:32 PM
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Pro-tip: Don't assign traits of people you know to people you don't.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/18 02:26 PM
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You're projecting your own decision making process on fully half the population in such a way as to demean them. Whether we are exploited or not, people fall in love.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/18 06:28 AM
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You can start by not seeing women as dogs or creatures without agency. That female dog didn't have a say in who mounted her. Don't you see that? Women are people. Each and every one has needs and wants and hopes and dreams. Each has an ideal partner that is different from the last.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/18 01:10 AM
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So what you're saying is that she is controlling and condescending. That or she's supremely unhappy in the relationship and it makes her see everything you say and do through the filter of her unhappiness. Again. Get your asses into therapy and stop relying on self-help from the internet. If you actually value your relationship and love your wife, you need to learn to speak to each other. Red pill just makes you an asshole, and even if you are only using the good parts, you're making it harder o…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 12:58 AM
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When you say you sit her shit down, what do you mean? Do you belittle her? Do you withhold love as a means of punishment? Do you expect her to do all the housework and also have a job? Let's flip it over: Does she belittle you? Does she withhold love as a means of punishment? If the answer to any of those is "yes", you don't need a red pill, you need a marriage councilor.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/18 12:47 AM
1

When we establish a technocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 02:28 AM
1

Neither patriarchy or matriarchy make any sense. How about give the most qualified, talented, and educated person the role? It doesn't matter whether men mostly build the building or women design it. What matters is that the building is up to code, attractive, and does what its supposed to and as few people are hurt while it's being built as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 02:22 AM
1

And how is that operationally different from a matriarchy? Look, I'm just saying the point "well, all matriarchies have been conquered" is not a strong one. All patriarchies have been conquered, too. It says nothing about the strengths or weaknesses of women, only the greed of men. All civilizations have been conquered. Lead by men, women, by kings or clerics, the one constant is greed. That's not a male trait or a female trait. From the Borgia to the Windsor, through Romanov and Bathory, it is …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 02:03 AM
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... You say that like there has ever been a kingdom ruled by men that wasn't eventually conquered by other men. All that proves is that humans are trash and willing to kill each other over stupid shit like whose sky-daddy is more powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 01:44 AM
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No, that is the literal dictionary definition of feminism. What it is doesn't shift from person to person. This isn't a discussion about poetry, this is discussion about rights. What you're talking about is extreme feminist ideology and we don't let extremists define the conversation because that's stupid and just arguing to argue. On to another definition you seem to want to change: pa·tri·arch·y /ˈpātrēˌärkē/ noun a system of society or government in which the father or eldest male is head of …
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 07:17 PM
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fem·i·nism /ˈfeməˌnizəm/ noun the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. When you say feminism is a brain cancer, this is what you're describing. Gender roles are killing men. The expectation that men should never show emotions kills. This idiotic idea that men have to take stupid risks kills men. I like men. A lot. I'm a feminist, which means that I think men and women are equal, and that we should deal with each individual person with their own strengths and weak…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 07:04 PM
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So you don't believe that women and men are equals and deserve equal rights? I'm not sure how pointing out that gender roles are often destructive to both men and women is correlated to how a woman wants her partners personality to fit hers. Also, no. Some women want a woman. Some men want a man. Some people don't really care what's in your pants but rather what's in your head.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 06:51 PM
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To help people who are tired of being hateful and toxic.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/18 12:55 PM
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So, wait... You know if a prettier girl is going to come along, you'll leave--and you're worried about her? You should be worried about you. Either she's looking for a good time or she's looking for a partner. If its just looking for a good time, go for it. You two have a blast. If she wants something serious (sounds like it) and you know you don't, leave that woman alone. She isn't for you. She's got enough on her plate without adding your nonsense to it.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/18 05:27 PM
4

I think you have a serious narcissism problem.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/17 11:32 AM
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Your end goal is gine, its your logic that is faulty. I would leave a man for cheating on me. Will, and have.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/17 11:09 AM
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So, it doesn't really matter what you mean to say when you cheat, what you are saying is that she does not meet your needs, and clearly she doesn't, because monogamy doesn't work for you. Don't assume your perspective is what anyone else's is. Most people tend to pair off. Some have more creative arrangements, to which everyone is fully consenting. Happily, not because they're afraid of losing their love. So since you aren't trying to hurt your partner, why not seek one that is into that sort of…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/17 04:10 AM
6

No, sorry, you're just wrong. You have yet to cite anything other than conjecture to make these points.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/17 02:56 AM
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You are a liar.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/17 02:40 AM
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Men cheat for the same reason women cheat; they're selfish and inconsiderate. Period. Cheating is telling your partner that they are not good enough. If you need that sort of variety, you can achieve that in a consensual relationship. Women get harassed online, not helped. I'm sorry you think of yourself like an animal.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/17 02:39 AM
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You need to go study remedial science. The scientific process is exactly the same now as it was then.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/17 10:52 PM
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When you start by announcing your rhetoric like its peer-reviewed scientific fact (and it is simply not, its all conjecture and personal anecdotes) then ypu cannot be surprised when it all gets shot down, rhetoric by rhetoric. Come up with something else. We've all picked these things apart dozens of times.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/17 10:48 PM
4

This "men are programmed to protect women even when ugly and fat". How does that measure up with trophy wives and men who cheat?
/r/ExRedPill02/10/17 10:45 PM
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I'm going to address something here: Maybe you just have shitty taste in women? Don't get me wrong, surely you choose ones who you are attracted to, but clearly they have other problems if they crave the attention of an emotionally abusive habitual cheater. I know girls like that. They thrive on the dramadramadramadrama that a cheater brings. They are not healthy. Look, having a hard time recognizing that women as a whole are as smart and tough pound for pound as any man and in their personal li…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/17 10:40 PM
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You know mutts are healthier, right? Fewer genetic problems, healthier overall immune system, better tempers. And the genetic difference between human races is about the same as the genetic variance between cat breeds--as is the spectrum of breed-specific physiology. In other words, most cats are about the same physically, and their environment shapes them more than genetics. There is a lot of physical variety, but only superficially.
/r/PussyPass24/02/17 08:07 AM
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Pedestalize? Who the hell wants that? Pro tip, if the lass in question loves being treated like a goddess to the point that you cannot think of her as a person anymore, she's a narcissist and you need to get out NOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 01:20 PM
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I'm sorry but all your words and all I can feel is... Sad. It's not pity it's grief. I can day have a nice life but I don't think you want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 05:03 AM
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Explain it to me? Because all I'm saying is that the only feedback you're taking on how you choose to approach women is through the gaze of people who are already angry and hateful. All you're doing is isolating yourself and then getting angry/frustrated that you're isolated. You can get angry at me if it makes you feel better, I just thought it needed to be pointed out. I wish you nothing but the best in life and some measure of happiness. I'm afraid you won't find it in TRP. There is only ange…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 04:43 AM
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So here's what kills me: You're being held in that mindset because of the experiences of the people who are pulled there. It's all negative echo chamber, you know? Like if you've never had a beer and your only experiences with it are from going to AA meetings. I'm just saying, give half the population a chance or at least don't let strangers from the internet tell you what people are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 04:13 AM
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I dunno, doing a little reading and what I'm seeing is a week recovery time. http://www.vasectomy.com/article/vasectomy/procedure/what-to-expect-after-a-vasectomy Basically, you could do it on the weekend, and by the next weekend be back to sex, which is what my cousin described. He said he was a little achey for a few days but mostly it itched lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 05:43 PM
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So what keeps you that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 05:38 PM
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Read your history--homie, it sounds like your ex wife was really good at hiding her character, but she isn't all women. Women come in "bad liar" and "good liar" variety just like men do. They also come in "shitty person" and "awesome person" too. She is still destroying you, every time you let her color your view of other women. All women are not her. Sounds like she isn't like most other people, either. I'm sorry you went through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 03:47 PM
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It even depends what time of day you post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 03:43 PM
1

My cousin got snipped. He said he'd been hurt worse by kicks to the balls with as much lingering pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 03:42 PM
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