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Make sure you start touching her early, in friendly ways. Greet her with a quick, strong hug. When you're trading stories or whatever, touch her shoulder for emphasis instead of making hand gestures. Give high-fives for cool or silly things, and after a couple start locking fingers at the end. If you do enough touching for an hour or two, and come to a high point or break in conversation, the moment to kiss will be really, really natural.
/r/seduction30/11/16 03:30 AM
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I'll put it this way: by knowingly teasing you, she's letting you know she has zero respect for you as a person. Stop talking to her.
/r/seduction01/11/16 06:24 PM
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This... and actually find something better to do. Still keep the convo going (slowly) but it'll be a cooler convo if you talk about the cool shit you were doing before getting around to replying to her texts.
/r/seduction11/10/16 06:00 PM
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Practice saying whatever's on your mind. It won't be perfect, but it doesn't have to be. I was the smart, quiet person and it's very liberating to not hold thoughts back just because I have some fear that my words aren't well-formed. People like me more and listen to me more as my talking has increased
/r/seduction21/10/15 07:14 AM
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Girls love to talk, so let them: ask them about themselves. A mnemonic from improv that's useful is FORD: Family, Occupation (so, student... what do they do besides cheer), Recreation, and Dreams. Once you get them started, thread the conversation. That guide should still be in the sidebar, but the barebones version is to ask about something specific from her last sentence, over and over. Also, if you want to ask a girl out, then do it.
/r/seduction28/01/14 06:30 AM
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Take down the picture... I think the better lesson is that assuming attraction, being clear with your intention, and escalating works. Sounds like you did all of those pretty well.
/r/seduction10/09/13 08:26 AM
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A&A: "Well when I slept with the quarterback, he was so great... insert ridiculous sexual escapades here" Ignore: Just change the subject Be creative, it's not that difficult to formulaically amplify.
/r/seduction05/09/13 05:29 PM
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Same as any shit test, I imagine. Agree and amplify or ignore. Plenty of ways to do either... do you need an example?
/r/seduction05/09/13 09:09 AM
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For me, this helped with my inner game. It takes a while of telling yourself, "hey, this is why I'm awesome" before one day you realize that you know you're awesome.
/r/seduction30/08/13 07:06 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction29/08/13 07:20 PM
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You incorporate a lot of ideas in this technique, and you did a great job explaining them. However, I still find that to be lying to the girl in the first place. That's not a healthy thing to do. We may agree to disagree. How do you make this work? Actually start seeing other girls in the present - this is the most important thing to do; I don't think OP emphasized it enough.
/r/seduction29/08/13 06:10 PM
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Well you can forget about her forever given those circumstances or just literally substitute that for what's incorrect in the above suggestion.
/r/seduction25/08/13 06:41 PM
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Walk back there. "Hey, I think you're really cute. I'm back in town on Xday, give me your number."
/r/seduction25/08/13 06:35 PM
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I don't know if this will help, but when making a joke or speaking lightheartedly, smiling and laughing a bit after you say something funny should make the people listening to you laugh too. Of course, if you're saying random shit this won't do anything.
/r/seduction22/08/13 08:03 AM
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Honestly, who cares if it's made up? You can learn from any FR, but not with that attitude.
/r/seduction22/08/13 12:31 AM
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It doesn't matter how many times you fail. But keep rejecting all of the advice you wanted with your excuses, and you'll end up getting nothing. Look inside yourself. I don't think you want change badly enough. Everything that's blocking your success is in your mind.
/r/seduction13/08/13 08:10 PM
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Well you've got the wrong mindset. It's all about having fun. If you make sure you're having a good time with friends, the ladies come to you. Amuse yourself, be high-energy, and use the power of touch. (aka "kino" - by your post it sounds like you're new here, if so, welcome) Does that make sense?
/r/seduction23/07/13 06:18 AM
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Exactly
/r/seduction23/07/13 06:14 AM
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Yeah. Say you're not bothered by what happened, and want to see her again. Keep it simple, get logistics set up. Edit: Others are suggesting forget it... which may be a prudent choice. But it's your life.
/r/seduction21/07/13 09:47 PM
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Well... odds are that they won't remember you. Maybe 5-10 will, but of those would they even respond? If you're committed to sending this mass text, then be funny in the same way you were when you met them. Keep it short. While not very authentic, maybe say that you were reminded of them in some way while scrolling through your contacts? Also, be direct in your interest - make it clear you want a date.
/r/seduction17/07/13 08:17 PM
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Exactly... I think it's great we're discussing this here because Alpha is not just the stereotypical confident leader character, which may be a misunderstanding among some people on this subreddit. To parrot you to an extent, being Alpha is being unafraid to live in the way you want to - whether it means being the jock or the animal lover who doesn't mind a nice cry.
/r/seduction15/07/13 08:03 AM
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Don't think I would have thought of it myself, but it's great on the grounds that it worked for you! Remember that adrenaline rush, keep approaching, and maybe you won't need that... crutch... soon.
/r/seduction06/07/13 07:35 AM
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In your situation, you could use the battle-tested time constraint for #-closing. Use a line similar to, "Hey HB9/HB9 and friends, I'm leaving to pick up my friend at the airport. Give me your number so we can hang out." This can and should be done while energy is high if you need to leave soon. Then use limited texts to set up a date/hangout/whatever. For moving off the floor, all you have to do is be the leader. Onceyou start sensing a drop in energy on the dance floor, say "Let's go get some …
/r/seduction23/06/13 11:05 AM
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Alien Blue? Click the arrow-out-of-square icon and there should be a show sidebar option.
/r/seduction10/06/13 12:36 AM
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I don't think you're in the right subreddit. Here when you share a story we want to read about the physical and mental techniques you used that will also improve our interactions with women. The best reports can talk about the sex itself, but you're just bragging or trying out erotic writing, which should be done somewhere else.
/r/seduction19/05/13 04:56 PM
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Nope, read the sidebar to get a better picture
/r/seduction29/04/13 08:49 PM
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The ratings are entirely different person to person. It gives you an idea of how they react to their version of a 7, compared to their version of a 5, a 9.5, etc
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:14 PM
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Love it. Building up to making comfortable eye contact with strangers was a huge confidence booster for me that I'm still improving. It's very helpful to have the more flirty techniques outlined and explained like this - thanks!
/r/seduction24/04/13 03:05 PM
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Probably too late to help now, specifically - but do your best to befriend everyone you see or talk to. Create new social status out of nothing by your willingness to converse with any stranger.
/r/seduction31/03/13 06:49 AM
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Your great social skills can be expressed as a set of fundamentals: giving value to others, providing fun for your group, and showing your connections. You have to do your best to treat this girl as a normal human, flaws and all, and focus on having a fun time.
/r/seduction18/03/13 06:54 AM
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Don't get into any deep conversation before you meet up, and be light and funny or nonexistent until you know when that'll be. Under different circumstances you could've f-closed, so take that into account when planning logistics for a date or meetup.
/r/seduction04/03/13 06:07 AM
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Then at least read the sidebar thread/article on common PUA terms and phrases, an easy way for the community to communicate ideas quickly. for example: DHV = demonstrate high (self) value, specifically here a story that's fun to tell and listen to that shows you have high status in something.
/r/seduction27/02/13 09:42 PM
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Well, the fact that you're regurgitating some sidebar things (and the success of this post) is probably very helpful. Not enough posters here, especially in the last few months have been reading there.
/r/seduction13/01/13 04:08 AM
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Funny. But not a positive contribution to the community.
/r/seduction26/12/12 06:20 PM
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Did you read the shit test guide in the sidebar?
/r/seduction26/12/12 06:17 PM
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Well, it is helpful if you actually try to break it down a little. Outgoingness is important, talking to everyone is important, and not being afraid to physically escalate with a cute girl you're talking to is also important. But seriously OP, as others have said - just make sure to have normal fun, and people may come to you.
/r/seduction26/12/12 05:20 PM
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I'm going to guess at a solution, and if you feel that it doesn't apply, go ahead and ignore it all. When I had felt this way in the past, I stopped being so "selective" when the amount of porn watching went way down. The mind will be selective when the substitute is porn girls. Also, latching on to just one girl over a long period of time is unhealthy. If you're attracted, say so or show it. Find out asap if she will reciprocate. Remember girls will forgive you for moving too fast, but friendzo…
/r/seduction26/12/12 05:16 PM
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There's some good advice here, but a lot of questionable advice too. If you scroll down the sidebar, you'll find some wonderful resources. One of which is a guide on shit tests. In short (but without the helpful details) you have to a) Ignore, or b) Agree and amplify. EVERYBODY: READ THE GUIDES IN THE SIDEBAR! It's there for a reason!
/r/seduction26/12/12 05:06 PM
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This is more of a Brag Report than a Field Report. You glossed over how you began flirting and physically escalating with your HB8 and for the most part this was a summary of good things. Remember that Seddit is a community of people trying to better understand pickup. There is a very good lesson in your writeup in that confidence, continuing escalation, and some attention to her friend can get you past that cockblocking friend.
/r/seduction25/12/12 10:41 PM
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Read the sidebar stuff here. Especially about confidence. There isn't a magic formula, just invest time reading and at least twice that amount of time trying to have fun conversation with anyone. If you immediately try to meet girls with sex as your longterm goal, it'll be obvious. Meet more friends first!
/r/seduction15/12/12 04:50 PM
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"I'm a hugger" is better than a question, as it's implicitly telling her to give you a hug. If you're standing right next to her before splitting, use "Give me a hug."
/r/seduction14/12/12 09:51 PM
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Focus your texts on sexual things. And because of the distance you probably don't want to spend too much time texting her.
/r/seduction12/11/12 03:47 AM
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Be honest with your friends about what you see and what you're going to do about it. Either they'll understand or they may not be the best company to keep...
/r/seduction29/10/12 07:58 AM
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it's hard to explain how I had a feeling she wanted to get to know me. > Anyone else experience that? Here's some good news for you: she did. She approached you, and then stayed in a long convo. Evidence that you were coming off as an attractive guy. You made great progress by talking to randoms. Next time, push yourself further again - try to make your next conversation with a cute girl fun for you, and then try to grab that number. Remember that failure may happen, but it's probably a more val…
/r/seduction23/10/12 09:46 AM
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Maybe his scale is more logarithmic than yours... either way, the better mindset is Yes and No. Clearly 6 is in OP's 'yes'.
/r/seduction22/10/12 04:53 AM
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I mean, maybe you could've offered your hand with your name or called her a spy for not getting hers? Really though, I hope you found the interaction funny and continue to approach. This girl was comically classless. Props for talking to her, keep attacking that AA.
/r/seduction18/10/12 12:50 AM
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Very nicely done. Allow me to point out two things I think were very important: The "girl at the crosswalk" opener was the truth. In my book you never go wrong with honesty; I think it showed here. While there were many people around you, you put all of your energy towards the conversation. It's important to create that little bubble feeling that it's just the two of you there, especially in groups of people. Nice read.
/r/seduction17/10/12 04:44 PM
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You don't know how far you can go until you try. Don't be afraid to make mistakes - you're likely to be forgiven for being too aggressive sexually, but if you don't test the conversational limits you're GUARANTEEING that you'll never know. Some guy named Gretsky said a similar thing. There comes a point when reading/resources become quite useless and you have to go out and experiment. Congratulations, sounds like it's now!
/r/seduction11/10/12 04:24 AM
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What are you contributing to the seddit community? Bragging and pics that belong in /gonewild don't belong here. And then there's the privacy issue.
/r/seduction25/09/12 05:42 AM
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Say ANYTHING confidently, because you don't care if other people want to look down on you for not being dressed up.
/r/seduction22/09/12 04:30 AM
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Do you use any kino? It's very important. You're only friendzoning yourself if she doesn't think you're interested, so make sure it's clear through touch, eye contact, and what you say. If you're on the job while meeting girls, you're going to have to walk the line between being professional and going for the girl. I'm getting the feeling that you haven't asked many girls out before. Practice!
/r/seduction22/09/12 04:28 AM
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Do you have any memorable rejections? Any specifically that really helped you somewhere along the line?
/r/seduction19/09/12 01:15 AM
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Good first step, going from shaking to holding some conversation. You CAN NOT focus on one girl like that. It puts them in the driver's seat. If K sees you flirting with other girls as well, it gives you the reigns of the situation. K and the other girls you're talking to will show you their interest if you provide enough value to yourself. Keep pushing yourself. Feels good, right?
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:31 PM
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The bottom line for OP and all you repliers with the same problem is to MEET MORE GIRLS. Introvert or not, you must be somewhat of an extrovert if you want to break this pattern. Otherwise, your only hope would be to get unrealistically lucky. This takes practice, and isn't always easy. Good luck
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:23 PM
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Put these details in the OP next time. Looks like only bragging otherwise. That said, this is a great example of taking a chance and having it pay off.
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:13 PM
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That last barrier was indeed your own. Heads touching definitely signals enough interest. Many props to you for going out and owning the place, lean in and go for it next time!
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:10 PM
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The simple answer would be to treat HB9.5 the same as HB6. While I'm definitely not around to see it in person, my guess is that you let yourself get too outcome dependent with the 9s and 10s. Going along with what matrix is saying, the abundance mentality probably isn't there. Don't worry or focus too much on not messing something up.
/r/seduction09/09/12 06:05 AM
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Have you made it clear to HB7 what your intentions are? Because if her friends think the two of you are dating, HB7 probably does too. You HAVE to make sure she knows it's more on the casual side for you. Take care of this before chasing her roommates (which is another potential mess in itself.)
/r/seduction08/09/12 06:47 PM
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Before reading any of your post, my answer is, "Next!" And after reading the entire thing, let me say, go out and meet new people. Talk to a bunch of girls whether you're into them or not. Get that abundance mentality working. Your time is too valuable to be waiting on a girl who doesn't talk to you.
/r/seduction27/08/12 02:54 AM
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Jessica & Lindsay. Joanna & Lauren. John & Luke.
/r/seduction27/08/12 02:44 AM
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One of the biggest things to learn from this subreddit is that attraction for women works, in many ways, very differently than how it works for us guys. Don't let a percieved lack of physical attractiveness bog you down. It's okay and something guys can get around a hell of a lot easier. Plenty of times I've heard a girl call a guy cute when they're not referring to physical things at all. It's the passion (like for OP) and other personality traits, like leader of men, that make the man.
/r/seduction25/08/12 07:46 PM
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Perhaps a good night for you, but this post is quite unhelpful to the community. The sexual interactions aren't what keeps seddit going - how did you get to the back of the truck, what worked? What did you learn about yourself?
/r/seduction20/08/12 06:48 AM
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Well, half of your FR is a you vs. coffee report. Expand on your actual interactions and conversations, what was good and bad about those.
/r/seduction16/08/12 10:51 AM
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Good advice from Chris Brown here.
/r/seduction15/08/12 11:18 AM
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Yeah, as you'll find out soon, that's not how the magic happens.
/r/seduction05/08/12 10:01 PM
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This. Also, if she's not gonna budge, you have to give up on it and move on.
/r/seduction04/08/12 06:03 AM
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Gotta use kino! You probably didn't meet her "confidence" expectations because no kino ==> not confident.
/r/seduction02/08/12 11:56 PM
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Who is this guy??
/r/seduction14/07/12 01:45 AM
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Whatever you do, don't lose the motivation. It's easy to have a drive on something like this and forget it in a couple weeks, so print your own post out (or a tl;dr version) and read it every day. Practice those conversation skills now, this job seems like a perfect opportunity. Don't give a fuck about how stupid something sounds - if something to say runs through your head, just fucking say it.
/r/seduction14/07/12 01:31 AM
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Talk to her and be forward with your intentions.
/r/seduction09/06/12 07:59 AM
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Why didn't you close????
/r/seduction27/05/12 08:21 PM
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I feel for you, coming from a very similar situation. My dad's "best friends" are those he does business with, and I've lived with him (divorced parents) until I moved away for college last year. Many times in the past I would be afraid that I would end up like him. How do you stop being bitter and lonely? Those two consequences are in the end, your choice. Understand and apply the self-improvement messages in this subreddit - be self-confident, outgoing, and do things that make you happy. If no…
/r/seduction10/05/12 11:07 PM
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